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D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
DiClassified
Drills
The DiClassified Drills

Underground Training Manual
Vin DiCarlo
Warm Dominance Drills p9
1.Eye Contact
2.Positive Visualisation
3.Acknowledge Flow
4.Aikido Spin
Opening Drills pl6
1.Punchy Questions
2.Question + Compliance
3.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read
4.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read + Isolate
Intrigue Drills p23
1.Hooks(Missing Information)
2.Cold Reads
3.Hedge your bets
Leader Drills p30
1.Question - Mini Isolate

2.Compliment - Kino
3.Kino - Meet Friends (Isolate)
Thread Management Drills p38
1.Simple Thread Flow

2.The Negotiator
Role Playing Drill p35
1.(a)Daddy Daughter
l.(b)Old Flame
1.(c)Teacher - Student
l.(d) Vacation
Credibility Drills p45
1.Friends Stories (Statement - Related Story)

2.Qualification - Compliment
3.Problem - Reframe
DiCarlo Escalation Drills p50
1.Incidental - Overt Class 1

Follow-Up Drills (Logistics) p61
1.Getting Phone Number

2.Getting Day 2
Logistics Drills p66
1.Changing Venues (Lets Go!)

2.Isolation
Escalation Ramp Drill p93
1.Memorization of Ramp
Advanced Cold Reading p71
1.Pace and Lead

2.Coversational Cold Read
3.Magic Mirror
4.Derren Brown Mentalism
Sexual Tension Drills p73
1.Sensual Language
2.Double Entendres
Compliance Drills p83
1.Dirty Compliance (Re-Frame)

2.Imaginary Compliance
Reality Replacement Drills p96
1.Compliance Levels
2.The Virtual/Imaginary Ladder
D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
DiClassified DRILLS — — — DiClassified DRILLS —
Contents
1. Welcome to DiClassified Drills .......4

Copyright Notice: 2. The Attraction Hierarchy 7
3. W a r m Dominance Drills 9
All unauthorized duplication, distribu- 4. Starting Conversations with Groups 14
5. Opening Drills 16
tion, manufacturing, selling or modifi- 6. Intrigue Drills 23
cation is a violation of U.S. Copyright 7. Leadership Drills .....30
8. Role Playing Drills 35
and is punishable to the fullest extent of 9. Managing Conversational Threads 38
the law. 10. Credibility Drills 45
11. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 50
12. Follow-up Drills 61
13. Logistics Drills 66
14. Advanced Cold Reading Drills 71
15. Sexual Tension Drills 78
16. Compliance Drills 83
17. Escalation Ramp 87
18. Ramp Drill 93
19. Reality Replacement Drills 96
20. A Quick Word From Vin 99
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DiClassified DRILLS — DiClassified DRILLS
Welcome to DiClassified Drills! Welcome to DiClassified Drills, Cont.

The purpose of this program is to instill the deep belief within you that Everyone has a threshold of how much social "input" or information
pick-up is easy. they can process at a given time. This places restrictions and blind
spots on their social interactions.
I will do that by removing the mysticism and hocus pocus from pick-up.
The drills will push to your threshold, and then way beyond it.
The belief or feeling that pick-up is hard, difficult or complicated is an You can think of as working out your mental muscles. By doing this
illusion. over and over a variety of different ways, your entire personality will
evolve.
If you prefer to keep things simple in life, this can be the only guide
you'll ever need. Don't worry though, you won't lose your core identity. This process
simply allows your true nature to s h i n e through, uninhibi-
So prepare for an experience. Take good notes. Write down your re- ted. You will lose a lot of your old dysfunctional behaviors that kept
alizations. Participate FULLY. you from reaching your goals in this area of your life.
This is not just designed to help you out a little bit with your social life— 2. Internalization of the DiClassified System and with it, a
this is hardcore pick-up training. deep k n o w i n g n e s s that attraction is a p r o c e s s . Many guys
believe that attraction is either there or it isn't. Many successful
You're not here to hear me lecture for 7 hours a day and then watch me naturals simply believe that with them, it's always there.
talk to girls at night. You're here to rewire your automatic re-
s p o n s e s and change your entire m e n t a l strategy. While it is true, a woman can be attracted or not, it is also true that
attraction is a process that anyone can lead anyone else through.
I can do this because I have built this bootcamp structure on a gradient People have built in responses. Some of your current auto-
of increasing difficulty. That is, every one of the 36+ drills in this pro- matic responses may be limiting you in ways you don't
gram is built on a foundation of everything that has c o m e before. yet even realize.
You will take two major concepts away from this weekend: All women also have these automatic responses. Your job is to learn
and practice a set of cognitive tools that you can use to learn to lead
1. A drastic i m p r o v e m e n t of your social intelligence. Compe- these responses in predictable ways. For once, you will be creating
tence in social intelligence can be defined as the intelligence that attraction on purpose.
lies behind group interactions and behaviors. Any intelligence is not
something you are born with, but rather something that can be de- Please keep this booklet safe, and private. If you are going to share your
veloped. experience, I prefer that you only share this experience with no more
than 3 of your closest friends. That way we can all enjoy the "elite" or
"underground" nature of the bootcamp. Here's to your success, Vin
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The Attraction Hierarchy

The hierarchy consists of five levels of conditions that dic-
tate whether sexual attraction will be present or not.
Each one is dependent on the earlier ones. So in other

words, the lower levels serve as a necessary foundation on
which the higher levels may build.
Drillset Sequence #1 For example, Level 3: Connection, does not function as at-
tractive unless both Level l: Warm Dominance and Level 2:
Intrigue are both present.
You Need to Establish a The Hierarchy is as follows:
Strong Internal Frame Level 1: Warm Dominance
Level 2: Intrigue
Level 3: Connection
Level 4: Credibility
Level 5: Leadership
These levels will be drilled to the point of internalization in

order to construct a personality which is naturally attrac-
tive.
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DiClassified DRILLS —-——- DiClassified DRILLS
W a r m Dominance W a r m Dominance Drills

It means: To Possess a steadfast emotional state that is Drill #1: Face to Face Encounter
completely independent of transitory social interactions.
Purpose: To get comfortable emotionally with another
In other words, your livelihood, your energy and your hap- person who you do not yet know.
piness is completely independent of the girl you are talking
to, or her friends, or other people in the vicinity. Application: Sit across from your partner and hold eye
contact without flinching, looking away, laughing or fidget-
If you have ever acted differently around a girl because you ing.
were attracted to her, you did NOT possess warm domi-
nance. This should be done for about 5 minutes.
If you were upset or thrown off balance because a girl was- Drill #2: Encounter plus Visualization
n't attracted to you, you did NOT possess warm dominance.
Purpose: To be able to see the abilities in other people,
The key is to draw your energy from things in your life which in turn creates those abilities in yourself.
OUTSIDE of meeting women.
Application: Sit across from your partner and while hold-
Meeting women should be a fun activity that you do, not a ing eye contact, visualize that person having success with
need to be fulfilled. women. (Having conversations, getting phone numbers,
women pleasantly involved in the interactions)
Drill back and forth for 2-3 minutes. After the drill you
may debrief and share what you visualized.
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W a r m Dominance Drills, Cont. W a r m Dominance Drills, Cont.

Drill # 3 : Acknowledge-Flow Drill # 4 : Aikido Spin
Purpose: To be able to keep your attention flowing despite Purpose: To be able to interpret any negative remarks or
a person's non-compliance. tests as positive indicators of interest.
Application: Application:
1. Sit across from your partner, holding eye contact. 1. Sit across from your partner, holding eye contact.
2. Partner uses stock "woman tests" to try to reject you. 2. Partner insults and belittles you verbally.
3. You must move on using stock acknowledgements. 3. Each time you receive an insult, you must interpret it as
positive, and react to it with enthusiasm.
Do not react negatively, laugh or otherwise try to make your
partner feel bad. Drill as if it's an actual conversation with a woman.
W o m a n tests: Example:
I don't like that shirt.
Why are you talking to me? Partner: This might not be the club for you, maybe you
I only talk to good looking guys. should try the gay bar down the street.
Buy me a drink.
We're having a private conversation. You: I know aren't gay bars awesome! One time a bunch of
us went, and my female friends absolutely loved the fact
Acknowledgements: that they weren't getting hit on continuously. Anyway have
• Cool. Check this out.... you ever sang karaoke?
• That's great. And...
• Awesome. By the way... This should be done back and forth for 15 minutes.
This drill should be done until you can comfortably move

on quickly and without any negativity.
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Drillset #1 Notes:
Drillset Sequence #2
You Need to be Able to

Start Conversations with
Groups, Take Control
and Manage the Group
Dynamic
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Starting Conversations with Groups The Easiest Way to Open

When approaching a group of people it's important to be The fastest, easiest way to open a group is with short, punchy
aware of a three different factors: questions.
Your Energy. I prefer NOT to use stories as openers. If you rely on a story
for the first 30 seconds, how are you going to make it
Friendly, warm and assertive. Open with a big smile, and through 4 hours of natural interaction?
approach them confidently. Do not hesitate or show any
signs of insecurity. Use Short Questions.
Good Questions:
Your Presence.
1. Hooks. Why are Manhattan girls so friendly? Why are
Speak loud enough so that the whole group can hear you. women so possessive?
Stand up straight and have relaxed body language. Make 2. Humor. Who invited the physics'club? (If there's a
eye contact with everyone in the group. group of nerds nearby)
3. Accusations. Are you wearing socks? (If she has white,
non-distinct shoes on) Are those bracelets (If she's wear-
Your Conversational Content. ing huge hoop earrings)
4. Controversial. Should Paris go to Jail? Do you guys be-
Should be kept light, positive and somewhat relevant. Top- lieve in psychics?
ics that work well are your immediate surroundings, fashion
and cities. Bad Questions:
Note: Opening is easy. Many people lose confidence in 1. Tourist Frame: Do you guys know any good bars?
their material. But it is that very loss of confidence which is What time is it?
harmful to the interaction. Have confidence in your mate- 2. Rapport Seeking: What is your name? Where are you
rial, and anything can work. from?
3. Supplicative: Can I buy you a drink? Are you a model?
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Opening Drills Opening Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Punchy Questions Drill #2: Compliance Escalation
Purpose: To build confidence in opening with short, Purpose: To set a strong precedent of leadership, by using
punchy questions. a quick, and easy compliance request.
Application: Approach the group and spontaneously ask a Application: Approach the group with a punchy question.
question. Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request.
The request may or may not be related to the initial ques-
Don't worry if you use a "bad" question at first, we will re- tion, it does not matter.
peat the process over and over quickly to build your sponta-
neity. Easy Compliance Requests:
Approach the group, with awareness of your energy, pres- Hold my drink one sec.
ence and conversational content. Launch into your ques- Here, turn around, let me see.
tion. The goal is to deliver your question, and have everyone Let me see your hand.
in the group hear and understand it. Wave to my friend over there.
If anyone in the group objects to your energy or presence, Also, rapport seeking questions can now be effec-
you must try again. The objector should give one point of tive since they will be delivered through the right
feedback, and allow you to try again. frame:
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You must get universal affinity from everyone in the entire What's your name?
group. Drill until you can achieve this consistently. Where are you guys from?
Who's the leader here?
Reminder: The four types of good questions are hooks,
humor, accusations and controversy.
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Opening Drills, Cont. Opening Drills, Cont.

Drill #3: Mini-Cold Reads Drill #4: Leadership
Purpose: To generate fast intrigue by playfully making Purpose: To incorporate active escalation into your inter-
snap judgments on girls within the group. actions. Instead of waiting around hoping something hap-
pens, you make it happen.
Application: Approach the group with a punchy question.
Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request. Application: Leading with the sequence created from the
previous 3 drills, this time, use the leadership momentum
After getting a positive response to either your punchy you create to mini-isolate yourself with an individual of
question or compliance request, use a mini-cold-read on your choice within the group.
anyone in the group.
Example:
It does not have to be related to either of the previous two
bits, and can in fact be directed toward anyone in the group. You: Who invited the physics club? (Laughter)
Examples: You: Come over here. (Girl comes over)
You're trouble You: It was you, wasn't it? I can tell. You're a recovering
Girls like you get away with murder nerd... Aren't you... (Girl: Why do you think that?)
You're a recovering nerd, aren't you
This girl has good taste in fashion, I'm giving her a job You: It's ok I won't tell anyone. I was a nerd once too, here,
I can tell that you're intuitive let's share some equations. (Mini—Isolation) (Be sure not to
You're a shy girl—but when you're with the right people, say this too seriously, she should know you are kidding,
watch out but it will definitely disarm the rest of her group)
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Drillset #2 Notes:
You Need to Hook FAST

and Get Her Chasing You
Immediately
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Intrigue Intrigue Drills, Cont.

It means: To withhold your power on some level, whether it Drill #1: Hooks
means holding back information, compliance or direct indi-
cations of your interest. Purpose: To learn standard hooks that can be used to get a
woman curious about you, and trying to find out more in-
Intrigue can also be described as a negative compliance ra- formation. These are good early on in the interaction.
tio. This means that the girl is working harder in the inter-
action than you are. Application: Begin by starting out with a standard hook
from the list below. Your partner will then pick up on the
For example—early in an approach— you need to demon- implied question, and try to get a logical answer to it. You
strate that you know more about her than she knows about respond immediately with a line from below, or one you
you. made up. The line must not give away the logical answer to
the question.
She should be physically turned more toward you than you
toward her.
Standard Hooks: (Unanswered question in italics)
Later on, she should be talking more than you are, and you
should be more relaxed than her. • Why are X girls so friendly? (X=locality)
On a date, she should travel further than you do to meet • Where are you from?
her.
• You're not going to believe this... but...Mars.
Maintaining this balance is the key to creating a
vacuum that continues to pull her toward you. • Is it true what they say about X girls?
• What do they say?

• Come here... Closer... Closer... that you're extremely gul-
lible.
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Intrigue Drills, Cont.

• Do you always act like this when you go out?
Drill #2: Cold Reads
• Act like what?
• Ask so many questions... Purpose: To amplify intrigue by demonstrating that you
have some secret knowledge about them. This in turn
• Do you know who you remind me of? Never makes them even more curious about you.
mind.
Application: Use the standard cold reads from the list be-
• Who do I remind you of? low. After you can deliver all three without reading off the
• In about 2 minutes my friend will get here... and he'll tell page, (they don't have to be word for word) in an authentic
you the answer. manner, create an original read based on something you be-
lieve may be true about your partner.
Drill until your response is immediate, with no hesitation
and you feel comfortable with leaving unanswered ques- Standard Cold Reads:
tions. • A lot of guys think you're aloof and distant, and they
don't realize that it's just a shield, and they never really
give you a second chance. And one of the things that
makes you most happy is to show your real self to some-
one.
• I get the sense that people around you and the circum-
stances of your life right now expects you to act like a
grown up adult, but deep down, you're still just a little
girl with little girl dreams and little girl wishes.
• Even though you're aware of what your friends think,

you're happiest when you can experience the freedom of
making your own decisions, and doing what you really
want to do.
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Drill #3: Hedge Your Bets
Purpose: To calibrate your compliments by making them

conditional and thus, retaining your power.
Application: During conversation, give your partner a

compliment, but then hedge it, in other words, make it con-
ditional and much less flattering.
Examples:
• You're a lot of fun. Especially for a blonde.
• I could really see myself hanging out with you—now and

then.
• I'd really like to buy you a drink, in a couple hours.
• Your fashion is amazing, in the lighting in this bar.
• We HAVE to hang out, once I get to know you.
• You come across extremely intelligent, for a girl I met in

a club.
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D I C A R L OD I C L A S S I F I E D D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
Leadership
It means: The state of being in control of the social situation
and producing certain outcomes through perceiving and ex-
ploiting windows of opportunity.
Once you have fulfilled the previous four levels of the hier-
Drillset Sequence #4 archy, the game is simply a matter of using leadership to
escalate larger and larger levels of compliance.
It is not just important to spotting windows—it is also im-

You Need to Accurately portant to be able to interpret events as windows. Because
so many people have such a weak grasp of reality, they look
Recognize and Capitalize to others for interpretation.
on Open Windows The more you practice these drills, the more certain you be-
come, and the more often you will create a reality that
of Opportunity works in your favor. More people will follow you.
The other half of the equation is having the proper tools to

escalate in these windows. We will drill a number of these
tools so you become comfortable in various situations.
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Leadership Drills Leadership Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Question -> Mini Isolate Drill #2: Compliment -> Kino
Purpose: If a girl asks you a personal question, she is most Purpose: If a girl gives you a compliment, she is putting
likely interested. The purpose is to train you to react posi- herself on the line. It is a big window she is opening for you.
tively with a simple mini-isolation the first time a girl dis- You should reciprocate it with a simple kino escalation.
plays strong interest by asking a question.
Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner
Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point
have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point your partner gives you a compliment which may be physical
your partner asks you a question that displays a genuine in- or based on information given in the conversation. (Side
terest. You react by stepping to the side and pulling your note: Most girls will give a physical compliment because
partners attention toward you, as you answer the question. that's all they know.)
You do not have to move your partner any distance, you are
simply changing their orientation away from the group and You will react by pulling your partner closer (with your arm
toward you. on the opposite waist) while anchoring your hips together ,
as you either reciprocate the compliment or amplify it by
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that asking questions like "Really? Why do you think that?" with
you only mini-isolate when the question is enthusiastic and a positive vibe.
genuine. Do not respond if the partner asks the question in
a bored manner or is looking away, etc. Drill back and forth for 10 minutes or until the move is
natural.
Example:
Example:
Partner: You're a musician? What instrument do you
play? Partner: You have really nice eyes.
You: (Pulling your partner's attention to the side) Well I've You: (Pulling your partner close) Thanks, I think you're
been playing guitar for 10 years. But it wasn't always easy... really attractive too. And you've got such a great energy.
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Leadership Drills, Cont. Drillset #4 Notes:

Drill #3: Kino -> Meet Friends
Purpose: When a woman starts touching you, or recipro-

cating your kino, it's not only a huge indication of interest,
but it can also be dangerous if her friends are around. When
this happens, you must take the lead and relocate her.
Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner

have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point
your partner grabs your hand.
At this point you say "You know what? My friends would

love you. Let's go meet them." If she is in a group, turn to
the group and say "Guys, I'm stealing your friend for a mo-
ment, we'll be right back."
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes.
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Role-playing Drill
Drill #1: Role-playing
Purpose: To create a fantasy scenario by using playful dia-

logue. The fantasy allows her to disengage her logical mind
and bypass socially programmed objections.
Application: Partner picks a role-playing theme from the

Drillset Sequence #5 list below, and you playfully talk to your partner as if you
are in that role. Keep the dialogue consistent with the role.
Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with each of
You Need to Step Outside the 4 themes.
the Context of a Pick-up Daddy-Daughter:
There's a lot of strangers around here, so stay close and hold my hand.
by Creating Alternate If you're a good girl later, I'm going to take you for some ice cream.
Scenarios with Role- Old L o v e r s R e u n i t e d :

This is wonderful. This bar reminds me of our first date. Ah, Paris was
wonderful, so many cute little cafes and shops. We almost went broke
Playing and other Playful with all the shopping you did!
Devices Teacher-Student:
Now pay attention. I'm going to teach you something very important.
You only got a A- on your last test, but if you work a little harder this
semester, I think you might get an A.
Vacation:
I'm so glad we decided to come to X-City this year honey. So many
things to see, and we can leave all of our cares behind. No work, kids or
dishes to do!
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Drillset #5 Notes:
To Succeed with Women,,

you Must be an Excellent
Conversationalist
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Managing Conversational Threads Threads, Cont.
Have you ever been in a conversation with a person—and Let's list the topics:
were overwhelmed with topics that you wanted to talk about.
It was almost if every new topic reminded you of three other • Last year • Rooftop
things that you wanted to communicate with this person. • Girl • New York City
• Hotel • First date
That's the vibe you're going for in pick-up. Not only does it
allow her to go into "fate" mode, but it also serves as a con- Now, in order to keep the next thread relevant, it should in-
venient distraction to your escalations. clude one of those 6 topics.
This next section is all about managing conversations. You Any of the following threads could follow as a socially intel-
could literally spend a month on this topic alone. ligent response:
What is a Thread? Last Year:
A thread is nothing more than a piece of communication. It Wow, last year must have been crazy for you. Actually it
is a single idea. By calling it a thread it allows us to give it was pretty good for me. I really figured but what I want to
structure, and understand it's function more easily. Take for do with my life...
example...
Girl:
"Last year I took a girl to a hotel rooftop in New Do you take all the girls you date to places like that? Wow.
York City as a first date. She freaked out." If I know most girls, they would either freak out or love you
for that.
This can be broken down like this:
Hotel:
"[Last year] I took a [girl] to a [hotel] [rooftop] in Was it a nice hotel? I hope it was. Cockroaches on the first
[New York City] as a [first date]. She [freaked out]." date aren't going to win you any points.
Where each major topic in the thread is encapsulated in [].
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Thread Management Drills Thread Management Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Simple Thread Follow Drill #2: The Negotiator
Purpose: Get comfortable carrying on a conversation in- Purpose: To be comfortable steering the conversation to
definitely, without routines. achieve any desired outcome you wish.
Application: You and your partner will generate threads Application: You and your partner will generate threads
as in the previous example. Use statements rather than as in the previous drill. However, this time, you will use the
questions, and try to provide multiple topics in your thread list of "good topics" and "bad topics" below.
so that your partner has a few different directions to pro-
ceed. Your partner starts by creating a thread on a neutral topic.
You will try to talk about every topic on the "good" list,
Drill until you feel you can carry on a conversation about while avoiding topics on the "bad" list.
any topic as long as you like.
As the conversation progresses, the partner makes it more
and more challenging by attempting to throw "bad" topics
into the mix.
Drill until you feel comfortable that you can control the
flow and direction of any conversation.
Good Bad
• European Vacation • Teenage Pregnancy
• Childhood Dreams • Sex with Sluts
• Your Best Friend • Breast Cancer
• Current Pop Music • Your Porn Collection
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Drillset #6 Notes:
You Need to Establish

Credibility a n d Become
Real Person to Her
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Credibility Credibility Drills

Credibility is what allows a woman to trust you. Drill #1: 'Club Guy Annihilator'
It has 3 main levels. First, she should feel that you are safe Purpose: To show her that you are a real person, and step
and trustworthy. This is needed for her to feel safe sleeping out of the 'club guy' persona.
with you.
Application: Partner picks a topic, and makes a statement
Secondly, she should feel a bit connected to you. You should on that topic. You should relate that to that topic by sharing
have some amount of commonality, and share the same a story of one of your friends or family members, referring
awareness of life, especially 'social' themes. to them by their first name.
Even demonstrating that you perceive similar obstacles in Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
life will help you create this. If not, she may feel that you are
too good for her and likely to abandon her. Example:
You need this for her to continue sleeping with you or to Partner: Yeah I'm going to school for marketing.
start a relationship with you. The key to maintaining the
type of relationship you want is to be absolutely congruent You: Really? I love marketing. It's totally not what I went
to the things you talked about to build credibility in the to school for though. It's strange. So many people end up
first place. doing something completely different than what they went
to school for. I have this friend Mike for example. He went
Thirdly you should be able to give her direction. By first un- to school for philosophy but ended up working at his fam-
derstanding her reality, and then showing enough compe- ily's restaurant.
tence to change her reality, you will be able to exert great
influence in her life.
This is the level of credibility that will get her to change her
existing life plans or drop her boyfriend to be with you.
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Credibility Drills, Cont. Credibility Drills, Cont.

Drill #2: Beauty is Only Skin Deep Drill #3: The Limiter
Purpose: To demonstrate that you genuinely like her as a Purpose: To demonstrate that you not only understand
person, and aren't just trying to get in her pants. her self-imposed limitations, but you also offer a way out,
and a new way of thinking about things.
Application: Partner picks a topic, and makes a statement
about that topic. You ask a question to coax your partner to Application: Partner picks a topic, and shows uncertainty
reveal something about himself. Once your partner does, or a lack of confidence on that topic. You show empathy,
you are going to take a genuine interest in whatever he has show her that you understand her problem. Then you show
revealed, and give him a compliment for it. her a new perspective or way of looking at the problem that
makes it less scary.
Drill back and forth for 5 minutes. It is important that you
show a marked increase in your interest level after the Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that
partner reveals his information. you do not offer advice or a solution to the problem. You
are simply showing her how to see the problem in a less
Example: threatening way.
Partner: I like coming here after work. Example:
P a r t n e r : I am taking psychology class right now., but I'm thinking

You: Oh yeah? What do you do for work? about dropping it. It's really hard.
Partner: I'm a veterinarian. You: Yeah I totally understand. It's such an abstract science, and so
complicated. At the same time though, it's really just describing things
that everyone experiences all the time. And when you start to relate
You: Really? That's great. I bet you're really compassion- things you're learning to your own thought processes or people you
ate. Wow, I'm envious. That's great you get to do something know, the subject becomes a lot more familiar.
in life you're very passionate about.
You: (Incorrect) You should study more. When I was in school I would
study 5 hours every night.
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Drillset #7 Notes:
If You Don't Know How to

Touch W o m e n in a Way
that Turns t h e m On, You
will be Nothing More than
J u s t a Friend
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The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step for- Incidental Class l Examples:
mula, followed by a number of laws which govern it's use for
maximum effect. • Hand shaking
• Arm brushing
It is designed to provide a smooth escalation, contain- • Light touching on her arm to emphasize your points
ing no significant jumps that may cause a woman to object. • Anchoring her arm near elbow to hold her close as you
At the same time, the DEL contains no extraneous steps talk
which are non-essential to the seduction process. This re- • Standing next to her with your arm touching hers
sults in a FAST escalation sequence which is compatible with • High Fives
a variety of verbal structures, and has been field tested and
perfected by myself, Vincent DiCarlo, in hundreds of trials. • Palm Reading
1. Eye Contact a n d Initial Conversation 3. Overt Class l
There is an unmistakable recurring pattern through-

Eye contact is the first step, It's use shows social out the DEL: incidential kino, followed by overt kino. Overt
awareness and always improves your chances of starting a means open to view or knowledge; not concealed or secret.
conversation. Start your conversational game shortly after
eye contact.
While incidental kino is usually done in a context
which masks your intention, overt kino is not. The inciden-
2. Incidental Class l
tal kino which precedes it creates the familiarity necessary
for the overt kino to be accepted. The duration of overt kino
The first class of incidental kino involves the arms should be anywhere from 5-10 seconds.
and hands. Shaking hands, tapping people on the shoulder
and brushing arms are all very common things that we do on Overt Class 1 Examples:
a daily basis. Done in an incidental manner, i.e. occurring
merely by chance or without intention or calculation, it is
extremely effective at building initial comfort. • Holding hands
• Arm in arm escorting
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4. Incidental Class 2
DiCarlo Escalation Drills
Class 2 kino involves any contact which takes place
Drill #1: Incidental to Overt Class 1 on her torso or legs. This is slightly more intimate than class
1, but does not include erogenous zones such as her breasts,
Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from crotch or inner thighs. Those areas are not paid any direct
incidental class l kino to overt class 1 kino. attention until the escalation ramp - to be defined later.
Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational Incidental Class 2 Examples:
threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate incidental
class l kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3 occur- • Standing very close with your legs touching hers
rences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 1 kino. • Sitting close together with your legs touching hers
• Lightly and incidentally brushing her abdomen with
Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt
kino, your hands while talking
• Briefly touching her back with your palm while
speaking as if you are pulling her in to hear you better
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5. Overt Class 2 DiCarlo Escalation Drills

Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down. Drill #2: Incidental to Overt Class 2
It's not necessary, but definitely a smart place to make the
transition to sitting down. This class of kino should be done Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from
in a protective, almost romantic manner. incidental class 2 kino to overt class 2 kino.
Overt Class 2 Examples: Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational
threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate inciden-
• Frontal Hugging (done best as a positive reaction to tal class 2 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3
her compliance) occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 2 kino.
• Escorting her through the bar with your hand on her
lower back Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt
• Sitting next to her and placing her leg over yours kino.
• Holding her abdomen on the side while sitting down
and talking
• Placing her hand on your thigh
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6. Incidental Class 3 Overt Class 3 Examples:
Her hair, face and neck are the regions included in • Placing her head to rest on your shoulder
class 3. Many guys make the common mistake of touching • Moving your face into her neck and smelling her
these areas too soon, with a girl they first met. • Lightly stroking her face with your finger, close in,
looking into her eyes
Girls are surprisingly protective of their hair, face • Running your fingers through her hair, close in, look-
and neck placing these relatively high on the ladder. An- ing into her eyes
other common mistake is that more experienced guys will • Holding her behind the neck with your palm to the
generally skip this step altogether, only to face last minute side of her neck, looking into her eyes
resistance later on.
Incidental Class 3 Examples:
• Brushing (or pretending to brush) something off of

her face
• Talking very closely with your face touching hers be-
cause the environment is extremely loud
• Touching an interesting necklace she's wearing,
meanwhile allowing your fingers to lightly caress her
neck
• Playfully pinching her cheeks
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DiCarlo Escalation Drills Drillset #8 Notes:
Drill #3: Incidental to Overt Class 3
Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from

incidental class 3 kino to overt class 3 kino.
Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational

threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate inciden-
tal class 3 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3
occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 3 kino.
Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt

kino.
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Follow-up Drills
Drill #1: Getting a Phone Number
Purpose: To create a chain of agreement combined with a

technically smooth number close.
Drillset Sequence #9 Application: Your partner will start a random thread. At

some point you will get the topic on one of your hobbies.
Once your partner displays interest in that, you will provide
an opportunity for him to be involved, and get the phone
You Need to Have number as a minor logistical detail.
Powerful Tools for Phone, Drill back and forth until you feel you can get anyone's
phone number with ease.
Email, Texting and Other Partner: Me and my friends usually only come here on the weekends.
Forms of "Follow Up" You: Me too. I'm usually too involved with the theatre during the week.
Game Partner: What do you do in the theatre?
You: I'm the production manager. We do some amazing shows. You

should check us out sometime.
Partner: Sure that sounds cool.
You: Great, I'll give you a call then.
Partner: Ok.
You: Ok... (Take out your phone for the exchange)
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Follow-up Drills Drillset #9 Notes:
Drill #2: Mock Phone Conversation
Purpose: To create the proper frame for all future interac-

tions in the very first phone call.
Application: Your partner will start a random thread. At

some point you will suggest meeting up—on your terms. Im-
mediately after introducing the meet, make it conditional by
requesting additional compliance.
Drill back and forth until you are comfortable with having
the meet on your terms.
Partner: I have lived in this city for all of my life.
You: You know, I was really thinking about that, and I came up with a
great idea for a really special experience for the two of us.
Partner: Oh really?
You: Yeah. But you have do to do a few different things. First, you have
to bring your camera. Second, bring a bathing suit. You probably won't
need it, but just in case. Thirdly, meet me at the Platinum hotel. What
time can you make it?
Partner: Hmm ok. I can make it at 7 O'clock.
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Making Logistics W o r k
Logistics: The overall management of the way resources are
moved to the areas where they are required.
In the case of pick-up, however, however we'll replace the

word "resources" to "women". Logistics is best described as .
Drillset Sequence #10 coordinating movement from one venue to another until
you end up in isolation where sex can take place.
It's always best to take a pick-up as far as possible on the

You Need to Create first day / night you meet a woman, but if there are circum-
stances which restrict either your or her freedom, then it's
Effective Dating Scenar- best to take a number and resume another time.
ios, i.e. Design Emotional It is also important to note also that in the end, all restric-
tions are emotional.
Experiences that Lead a Even if she has to go to school, work, or even meet her
W o m a n to Your Desired friend it is still an emotional restriction. She misses work ->
She gets fired -> Short on money and has to find more work
Outcome (emotional upset.)
So the better you get at game, the more these restrictions

disappear.
This section will deal with venue changing considerations as

well as how to get phone numbers and schedule dates.
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Logistics Drills, Cont. Logistics Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Changing Venues Drill #2: Isolation
Purpose: To use powerful leadership and assumption to Purpose: To use intrigue and curiosity to pre-empt and
get a person to accompany you to the next venue. overcome any possible uncertainty about being alone with
you.
Application: Use the scripts below to suggest going to an-
other venue. Application: Your partner will read down the list of isola-
tion windows. You will respond without hesitation, with an
Start leading your partner confidently as you say the script. answer that builds intrigue. Start by using the structures
Be fully assumptive, and truly believe your partner wants to below, and then create your own.
join you.
Drill until you can create intrigue structures on the fly
Your partner will pass / fail you on your confidence, and without any hesitation. This is a speed drill.
how enthusiastic he feels about going with you.
Isolation W i n d o w s :
• Where are we going?
Drill back and forth until your delivery is confident and • Why do we have to stop at your place?
assumptive, and your partner wants to join you. • I have to get up early in the morning for work.
• What do you want to do now?
You: I'm hungry. Let's go to the diner and grab something Intrigue Structures:
to eat.
I guess you can come inside, but only for a little bit. But you have to
promise not to laugh at my place, ok?
You: I'm having a great time. Let's go window shopping
downtown. I'm staying with my friend Rob. You're not going to believe how nice his
place is. Oh I have a special surprise for you too.
You: I'm in the mood for coffee. Let's go to Starbucks.
Cool. We'll have to make it fast then, you're not going to believe it when
you see this video I have.
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Drillset #10 Notes:
You can Demonstrate

Cold-reading Abilities
Bordering on the Realm
of Psychic Meanwhile
Building a Profound
.,
Connection with a
Woman
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Advanced Cold Reading

Advanced Cold Reading Drills
Cold Reading is a skill of making a "read" on a person with
little to no prior information. Drill #1: Pace and Lead
It is how psychics make a living. Basically you are telling a Purpose: To shape her reality by showing a strong under-
person something that they think you couldn't possibly standing of it.
know—unless you were their best friend.
Application: When the mind hears two true things in a
Cold reading does many things, all beneficial for pick-up: row, it will automatically accept the third thing a true with-
out objection. Sitting across from each other, you are going
• It establishes you as an authority to make two plain observations, followed by an implication
• It demonstrates an understanding of her world that follows from the observations.
• It creates intrigue, because you know more about her
than she knows about you Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
• It allows you to shape her behavior in any way you
choose Example:
• It creates the feeling of an "instant connection"
• It supports the fate / destiny theme that women love Your partner is sitting across from you, upright,
looking you in the eyes. You may say:
The truth is, there isn't anything special or mystical about
this and it can be learned very easily. "You're sitting across from me, looking me in the eyes, and I
can tell you're ready to get started with the drill."
A good cold read both makes sense, and generally can be
true for any person who hears it. They are even more effec- Notice the first two were plain observations, and the third is
tive when the person hearing it either: only implied.
1. Sees internal or external evidence to support it
2. Is told by an authority
3. Wants to believe it
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Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont. Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont.
Drill # 2 : Conversational Cold Read Drill # 3 : Magic Mirror
Purpose: To make a complimentary generalization based Purpose: To give her a compliment that exactly matches
on information learned in conversation. her ideal self image.
Application: Start a conversation back and forth by gener- Application: Start a conversation back and forth by gener-
ating threads. After 3 or 4 threads pass, you make a cold ating threads. At some point your partner will try to express
read based on that information. who he is by putting his best foot forward. It may be
through a story or through sharing his dreams or making a
Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with the self-statement. At this point you will simply give it back to
structure of a cold read. him in your own words.
Example: Drill back and forth until you can deliver the compliment
Partner: "I think that white shoes should never be worn transparently.
with black leather belts."
Example:
You: "Yeah I agree. Shirts, on the other hand can usually be
any color regardless of your belt." Partner: "I'm studying to be a nurse. I like to see that my
work is appreciated and I really like helping people."
Partner: "My favorite shirt is white. That way I can wear it
with whatever other colors I have on." You: "Yeah I could tell when I met you that you're a people
person. You want to help but at the same time it can be
You: "You seem to pay a lot of attention to your appear- overwhelming when people depend on you so much.
ance. You're the type of person who wants to be perceived There's not many women out there that actually have the
in a positive way and because of that you've developed a strength to do what you do. "
really keen awareness of fashion. You really know what
you like."
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Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont. Drillset #11 Notes:

Drill #4: Derren Brown Style Mentalism
Purpose: To create an emotional state where she feels as

though whatever cold read you use is completely psychic.
Application:
1. Establish yourself as the authority by leading the inter-

action, and getting rapport by pacing reality.
2. Ask if anyone has ever said anything to him in the past
that was really convincing, or it was something he
wanted to believe.
3. Coax your partner into an emotionally suggestible state
by asking him to imagine that time.
4. While you're coming up with the read, tell your partner
to "Hear me say the line".
5. Deliver a cold read that both sounds good and is gener-
ally true for everyone.
Drill back and forth until you feel you can deliver a cold
read very convincingly.
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Connection
Connection means that you are showing a promise of some-
thing that is directly valuable to a woman.
To most women, pleasant conversation and attention is

enough. To women with a very high sexual awareness, how-
ever, they are looking for "sexual value".
Sexual value resides in this level of the hierarchy. To women
who respond to this, it is a great accelerant in pick-up.
You can Gain Such If you find a girl is not responsive to sexual tension (i.e. doesn't
Incredible Command respond to your sexual language or kinesthetic advances) it
usually means she needs to trust you before responding in that
Over Sexual Tension that manner. Skip to Level 4: Credibility in this case.
the Interaction can be Sexual tension is produced not only in your vibe, but also by
your language.
Turned Sexual on a Dime Once you have levels 1 and 2 present, your use of sexual lan-
guage will produce a highly aroused state in her. It is usually a
good idea to only do this when you are l-on-1 on with the girl.
The purpose is to drill the different types of language until you

can use it freely without coming across as weird or creepy.
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Sexual Tension Drills Sexual Tension Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Sensual Language Drill #2: Double Entendres
Purpose: To be comfortable using vivid and descriptive Purpose: To be able to project double meaning through
language while talking about commonplace topics. language. One meaning innocent and the other sexual.
Application: Pick any topic. Talk to your partner about Application: Pick any topic. Talk to your partner about
the topic, meanwhile using words from the below list of sen- the topic, meanwhile using phrases from the list below.
sual words.
Drill until delivery is normal — without laughing, fidgeting
Drill until delivery is normal — without laughing, fidgeting or over emphasis.
or over emphasis.
Naked Member Longing Fast I'm done

Appetite Entrance Uninhibited
Bare Melt Plunge
Close Comes from the same
Urge Desire Slip Wet place
Stiff Thrill Slide How you feel You come
Caress Erect Tight How you feel inside from a good place
Supple Flush Buried inside
Ride Hard Tease
You are quick You get me
Come Tender Naughty It's hard for you My head is pounding
Pleasure Moist Forbidden You are getting close My head is throbbing
Flowing Stroke Raw You're a fast girl My head is banging so
Whisper Finger Penetrate
Hole Ease into Aching I like it when a girl is Hard
Wet Thrust Erupt open You got me
Firm Release Straddle It's too late
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Drillset #12 Notes:

You can Master with
Complete Facility t h e
Entire Set of Techniques
Collectively Known as
''Vin's Bag of Dirty
Tricks''
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— — DiClassified DRILLS DiClassified DRILLS
Understanding Compliance Compliance Drills

Compliance means: The act of conforming, acquiescing, or Drill #1: Dirty Compliance
yielding.
Purpose: To get a woman comfortable with putting effort
In other words, whenever you get a woman following your into the interaction, based on a simple reframe of the situa-
lead, and conforming to your requests, you have her com- tion.
pliance.
Application: Your partner will talk about doing some kind
Compliance is very important for maintaining the attraction of work, such as cleaning his home, or shopping for groceries
you have built, or making it more real. or shopping for an item. At this point you will reframe the
work he has done for himself as work for you.
It's easy to put a woman in a good state, and have her at-
tracted to you, but unless you get her to actually act on that Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
attraction, you have something that is very transient.
Example:
When you use attraction to get compliance or escalate in
other ways, a woman will have something more real to look Partner: I spent all day shopping for groceries and putting
back at to realize just how much she really likes you. them away.
The following chapter is various tactics to not only directly You: That's really sweet, but you didn't have to go through
get compliance through leadership, but also psychological all that trouble for me, we can simply go out to eat.
methods of getting her more likely to comply with your ri-
diculous requests.
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Compliance Drills, Cont.

Drillset #13 Notes:
Drill # 2 : Virtual Compliance
P u r p o s e : To get a woman comfortable with putting effort

into the interaction, based on compliance in an imaginary
scenario.
Application: Your partner will choose one of the four role-

playing themes. While role-playing along with the theme,
create an imaginary situation where your partner has put
work into something in your favor.
Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
Daddy-Daughter:
Thanks so much sweetie for being a good girl and cleaning up your room
for me. Because of that, I'm going to take you to the movies tonight.
Old Lovers Reunited:

So nice being together with you again my dear. And yes, I have saved all
of the love letters you have written me over the years. And I've kept them
in a pink box underneath my bed. There must be a hundred!
Teacher-Student:
Your extra credit assignment was excellent. You not only followed all the
directions, but you also did all the research for the bonus points! Looks
like you'll be getting an A after all.
Vacation:
I couldn't ask for a better wife. All the time you spent planning this vaca-
tion has paid off. And booking the flights and hotels... I'm in heaven. I
can't wait to see what you have planned for tomorrow!
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Escalation Ramp
While the above steps from 1-7 may take anywhere
from 30 minutes to 4 hours, the escalation ramp described
on the following pages is very rapid. The duration of the
ramp should be about 5-15 minutes. Start the ramp very
quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location.
Drillset Sequence #14 8. Kissing

Start kissing from a very close proximity. Don't come
diving in lips first from three feet away. Ideally you should
You will Learn How to already be in a suitable position for kissing before you try. If
you have overt class 3 kino taken care of, you're probably in
Escalate Directly to Sex the right spot.
in the Most Efficient, A technique for building sexual tension - move

closely in, slowly as if you might kiss her, and then move
Smooth Way with NO away and start talking about something else. This will build
the tension and she will wonder when you're going to actu-
Last Minute Resistance ally kiss her.
(LMR) A technique to initiate kissing - try placing your fin-

ger just underneath her chin and pulling her mouth towards
yours.
Kissing should be light and short at first. You should

be the one to pull away first. Don't use too much tongue at
first, just use it to tease her, and build anticipation.
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9. Kissing Her Neck 12. Kissing her Body-

Once you have kissed her for a bit, move down to her Having her shirt pulled up affords the opportunity of
neck. Kiss it gently, while holding her close to you. moving downwards to kiss and caress the bare flesh of her
abdomen. Start kissing her there, along the sides, and move
Depending on how rough you want to set the mood, feel upwards.
free to throw in some gentle biting too.
Touching and kissing the breasts is optional. It is not
10. Touching the Bare Skin of Her Back necessary, and in some cases can be detrimental to your
progress. There are some women who have a negative an-
Once you have established kissing both on her mouth chor to their breasts.
and neck, move your hands to her waist and underneath her
shirt. Continue to hold her close to you, now with your Inch toward their breasts and feel her reaction. If she
hands directly on her back. becomes increasingly turned on, then go for it. If she starts
to close down, skip the breasts until you are already having
11. Stomach to Stomach sex.
Now that you have established touching her skin, be- 13. Incidentally Stimulate Vagina
low her shirt, simply move your hand to the front, and lift
her shirt, exposing only her stomach. At the same time lift While you are kissing her body, you can position
your shirt as well so that your abdomen is in direct contact yourself between her legs and use your midsection to rub
with hers. against her vagina. If you are kissing her mouth you can po-
sition your thigh to stimulate her vagina.
It seems innocent, but will meanwhile trigger intense
sexual feelings inside of her. The only time she feels contact You can also be kissing her body and reach between
like that is usually when she's naked and having sex. her legs and plant your hand on the bed below her. Then
use your forearm to stimulate her vagina. The key here is
that because you aren't using your hand or fingers, she has
no basis for objection.
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14. Direct Vaginal Stimulation from Behind (Inside 15. Direct Vaginal Stimulation in Front
Panties)
Get her heated up by fingering her, and then when
Once you have really amped her up by incidentally once she is sufficiently turned on, undo the front of her
rubbing her vagina, move your hand around to the back and pants with your other hand.
slip it inside her panties and touch her naked ass.
You can use the Situationally Relevant phrase "My
Next move your hand all the way down and reach her hand is being crushed" as you do it, although it's usually not
vagina. Start first by touching the area around it. Then pro- necessary. Since she is engaged by the fact that you are fin-
ceed to finger her from behind. Women never expect to gering her, she will rarely object to your simultaneous un-
have it happen this way. Trying to reach your hand down doing of her pants. You may also have her undo her pants,
the front of her pants will often be resisted, but from the by saying "Unbutton your pants." as you are fingering her.
rear is unexpected and effective.
Moving to the front, you'll be able to get more pene-
If she is wearing a skirt or dress, you will instead move your tration with your fingers, and get her to the point where she
hand up the back of her leg, and reach her vagina that way. is practically begging for sex. Use a firm "come-hither" mo-
Finger her and then proceed directly to step 16. tion pulling forward on the front vaginal wall and stimulat-
ing her g-spot.
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Escalation Ramp Drill

16. Remove Her Pants, Sex
Drill #1: Ramp Memorization
The idea is to get her so heated up by fingering her,
that she makes a commitment to sex, verbally or physically. Purpose: To internalize the ordered steps of the escalation
ladder ramp so it flows easily when it comes time.
There are a few ways to go about this. Firstly, it is
very important that you don't stop fingering her before her Application: Stand in front of the rest of the participants
pants are off. Too many times a guy will stop fingering her, and recite the steps of the ramp, in order.
and then try to take off her pants, only to get more resis-
tance. Ramp:
While fingering her you can say "Do you want me in- 1. Kissing
side you?" Which will usually get a "Yes." response. At that 2. Kissing the Neck
point you say "Ok, take off your pants." and continue to fin- 3. Hands on Her Back, Under Shirt
ger her until her panties are off, and she's ready to go. 4. Stomach to Stomach
5. Kissing Stomach
Another option is to skip the question and directly 6. Incidental Vaginal Stimulation (arms, legs, chest)
tell her to take off her pants. Usually with your fingers busy 7. Hand Down Back of Pants, Fingering
at work, she will be more than compliant. 8. Hand Down Front of Pants, Fingering
9. Remove Pants, Sex.
Another technique is to ask her "Do you want me to
get a condom?" In 90% of all girls you ask this, they will say Verbal Techniques for Step 9:
"Yes." Not because they are saying they want sex, but be-
cause they want to appear safe and level headed. • Do you want me to get a condom?
• Do you want me inside of you?
You will interpret this as the permission to get a condom • Take off your pants.
and have sex with her, and it will most likely be met without
opposition.
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Drillset #14 Notes:
You can Suck a Woman

into Your Reality So Deep
that Her World will
Literally Revolve
Around You
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Reality Replacement Drills Reality Replacement Drills

Drill #1: Compliance Levels Drill #2: The Virtual Ladder
Purpose: Drop hints about what compliance you would Purpose: To learn a mind-numbingly effective technique
like her to perform. Instead of coming outright and asking for escalation which seems to have the added effect of mak-
for something, demonstrate a need for it in a very indirect ing girls fall in love VERY quickly.
manner.
Application: Perform a virtual-ladder escalation on your
Application: Considering your main passion of life, take a partner that is relevant to your city.
few minutes and describe five different ways a woman can
contribute to that passion. Then put them in order from the Drill until you can consistently perform a virtual ladder.
least to greatest amount of compliance.
Example:
At this point, you will take turns making requests for these When I go back to New York City you have to visit me. First, we'd walk
levels. Use direct requests for small levels and indirect for down 5th avenue and I'd hold your hand like this (hold her hand). And
large. we'd look at all the expensive clothing we can't afford ;)
Drill until you can tastefully and skillfully make compli- Then we'd go to the top of the Empire state building and we'd look over
the side and I'd hold you like this (hold her from behind) Are you scared
ance requests. of heights?
Small Requests:
• Sweetie, go ahead and pick me up some vegetables from the store, And if it was winter time, we'd go ice skating at Rockefeller center. Can
that way we can have a side dish with our steaks. you skate? Ok you can teach me - (hold hands skating gestures)
• You've got awesome taste in music, baby. You have to make a mix
CD for me. Then you'd come to my place (if in hotel) Then we'd go back to our hotel
Large Requests: room with SEPARATE BEDS (if in your place), and we'd relax together.
• My friend Joe just got some really cool shoes. He looks really great
with them. I think they're awesome. If you were lucky I'd give you one of my FAMOUS massages. I would sit
• If only I had a new set of golf clubs, it would be so much more en- you down over here (sit her down on the bed) then lie down and I would
joyable. And just think, the two of us could spend a beautiful day massage you like this. (Just get your partner to sit down)
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hard work.
This is only the beginning. You now know what

it takes to become truly successful in all of your social
interactions.
So in the future, if you ever feel like you need to

brush up, grab a friend, this booklet, and drill away!
If you have any questions, please visit my web-

site at http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums.
I'll see you there, and good luck!
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理多少社交“输入”或信息。这会对他们的社交互动造成限制和盲点。
该计划的目的是向您灌输内心深处的信念，即提升很容易。我将通过消除神秘主义和从拾取
的焦点来做到这一点。
演习将达到你的门槛，然后超越它。你可以想到锻炼你的精神肌肉。通过各种不同的方式做
到这一点，你的整个人格将会发展。
拾取困难，困难或复杂的信念或感觉是幻觉。如果您希望在生活中保持简单，这可能是您需
要的唯一指南。
不过不用担心，你不会失去核心身份。这个过程只是让你的真实本性不受限制地发光。你将
失去许多旧的功能失调行为，使你无法在生活的这个领域实现目标。
所以准备体验。记笔记。写下你的认识。完全参与。这不仅仅是为了帮助您了解社交生活 -
这是铁杆接送培训。你不是来听我讲课，每天讲 7 个小时，然后看着我晚上和女孩说话。你
来这里是为了重新连接你的自动重建并改变你的整个心理战略。我可以做到这一点，因为我
已经在越来越难的渐变上构建了这个训练营结构。也就是说，该计划中 36 个以上的演习中
的每一个都建立在以前所有内容的基础之上。你将从本周末开始采取两个主要概念：1。
大大提高你的社交智能。社交智能的能力可以定义为群体互动和行为背后的智慧。任何情报
都不是你天生就有的东西，而是可以开发的东西。
2。
DiClassified 系统的内部化和它，深刻的认识吸引力是一个过程。许多人认为吸引力要么存在，
要么不存在。许多成功的自然人只相信与他们一起，它总是在那里。虽然这是真的，女人可
以被吸引或不被吸引，吸引力是一个任何人都可以带领其他人通过的过程。人们建立了回应。
您当前的一些自动回复可能会以您尚未意识到的方式限制您。所有女性也都有这些自动反应。
您的工作是学习和练习一套可用于学习以可预测的方式引导这些响应的认知工具。这一次，
你会故意创造吸引力。
请保持这本小册子安全，私密。如果您要分享您的经验，我希望您只与不超过 3 位最亲密的
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Drillset Sequence＃1 您需要建立一个强内部框架
例如，Level 3：Connection，除非 Level l：Warm Dominance 和 Level 2：Intrigue 都存在，否

则不起作用。层次结构如下：第 1 级：热门优势等级 2：阴谋等级 3：连接等级 4：可信度
等级 5：领导力这些等级将被钻到内化点，以构建自然具有吸引力的个性。
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意思是：拥有一个完全独立于短暂社交互动的坚定情绪状态。
钻＃1：面对面相遇
换句话说，你的生活，你的能量和你的幸福完全独立于你正在与之交谈的女孩，或她的朋友
或附近的其他人。如果你因为被她吸引而对一个女孩采取过不同的行为，你就没有热情的支
配地位。如果你因为一个女孩没有被你吸引而感到沮丧或失去平衡，你就没有热情的支配地
位。关键是要从遇见女性的生活中的事物中汲取能量。会见女性应该是一项有趣的活动，而
不是需要实现。
目的：在情感上与另一个你还不知道的人相处。应用：坐在你的伴侣对面，保持目光接触，
不要退缩，看着别处，大笑或坐立不安。这应该做约 5 分钟。钻＃2：遭遇与可视化目的：
能够看到其他人的能力，从而在自己身上创造出这些能力。应用：坐在你的伴侣对面，同时
保持目光接触，想象那个与女人成功的人。（进行对话，获取电话号码，女性愉快地参与互
动）来回钻取 2-3 分钟。演练结束后，您可以汇报并分享您可视化的内容。
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钻＃3：确认 - 流动
钻＃4：合气道旋转
目的：尽管有人违规，仍能保持注意力。
目的：能够将任何负面评论或测试解释为感兴趣的积极指标。
申请：1。坐在你的伴侣对面，保持目光接触。合作伙伴使用股票“女性测试”试图拒绝你。
你必须继续使用股票确认。
申请：1。坐在你的伴侣对面，保持目光接触。伙伴侮辱并口头贬低你。3.每当你受到侮辱
时，你必须将其解释为积极的，并对其作出积极的反应。
不要做出消极的反应，笑或以其他方式试图让你的伴侣感觉不好。沃曼测试：我不喜欢那件
衬衫。你为什么跟我说话？我只跟好看的男人说话。给我买一杯饮料。我们正在进行私人谈
话。致谢：•很酷。看看这个....•那很好。并且......•太棒了。顺便说说...
钻就好像是与女人的真实对话。示例：合作伙伴：这可能不是您的俱乐部，也许您应该尝试
沿街的同性恋酒吧。你：我知道不是同性恋酒吧真棒！有一次我们一群人去了，我的女性朋
友非常喜欢这样一个事实：他们没有被连续击中。无论如何你有唱过卡拉 OK 吗？这应该来
回做 15 分钟。
这个训练应该完成，直到你能够舒适地快速前进并且没有任何消极性。10
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最容易打开的方式
当接近一群人时，重要的是要了解三个不同的因素：
打开小组的最快，最简单的方法是提出简短而有力的问题。
你的能量。
我不喜欢用故事作为开场白。如果您在前 30 秒内依赖故事，您将如何通过 4 小时的自然互

动来实现？
友好，温暖和自信。以灿烂的笑容打开，自信地接近他们。不要犹豫或表现出任何不安全的
迹象。
使用简短的问题。好问题：
您的光临。说得够响声，这样整个小组都能听到你的声音。站直，有轻松的肢体语言。与团
队中的每个人进行目光接触。你的会话内容。应该保持清淡，积极和有些相关。运作良好的
主题是您的周边环境，时尚和城市。注意：打开很简单。许多人对他们的材料失去信心。但
正是这种失去信心对互动有害。对您的材料充满信心，任何事情都可以发挥作用。
1.钩子。为什么曼哈顿女孩如此友好？为什么女性如此占有欲？2.幽默。谁邀请了物理俱乐
部？（如果附近有一群书呆子）3。指控。你穿袜子吗？（如果她有白色，不同的鞋子）是
那些手镯（如果她戴着巨大的圈形耳环）4。有争议。巴黎应该去监狱吗？你们相信心理学
吗？不好的问题：1。旅游框架：你们知道有什么好酒吧吗？现在是几奌？2.追求的目标：
你的名字是什么？你从哪里来？3.请问：我可以给你买一杯饮料吗？你是模特儿吗？
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打开钻头，续。
钻＃1：Punchy Questions
Drill＃2：合规升级
目的：用简短有力的问题建立开放的信心。
目的：通过快速，简单的合规要求，树立强有力的领导先例。
申请：接近小组并自发提出问题。
应用：以一个有力的问题接近小组。立即按照简单的合规要求进行跟进。请求可能与初始问
题有关，也可能没有，这无关紧要。
如果您一开始使用“不好”的问题，请不要担心，我们会一遍又一遍地重复这个过程，以建
立您的自发性。
易于遵守请求：
通过了解您的能量，存在感和会话内容来接近小组。启动你的问题。目标是提出您的问题，
并让小组中的每个人都听到并理解它。
拿我的饮料一秒钟。转过来，让我看看。让我看看你的手。在那边向我的朋友挥手致意。
如果小组中的任何人反对您的能量或存在，您必须再试一次。反对者应该给出一点反馈，并
允许你再试一次。
此外，寻求融洽关系的问题现在可以有效，因为它们将通过正确的框架提供：
您必须获得整个组中每个人的普遍亲和力。钻，直到你可以持续实现这一目标。
你叫什么名字？你们来自哪里？谁是这里的领导者？
提醒：四种类型的好问题是钩子，幽默，指责和争议。16
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钻＃3：迷你冷读
钻＃4：领导
目的：通过对组内女孩进行快速判断来产生快速的阴谋。
目的：将主动升级纳入您的互动中。而不是等待希望发生的事情，你做到了。
应用：以一个有力的问题接近小组。立即按照简单的合规要求进行跟进。在对您的有力问题
或合规性请求做出积极回应后，请对该组中的任何人使用迷你冷读。
应用：以前 3 次演练创建的序列为主导，这一次，利用您创建的领导力量，将您自己与团队
中所选择的个人进行迷你隔离。示例：
它不必与前两位中的任何一位相关，实际上可以指向组中的任何一位。
你：谁邀请了物理俱乐部？（笑声）
例子：
你：来这里。（女孩过来了）
你很麻烦女孩喜欢你逃避谋杀你是一个正在恢复的书呆子，不是你这个女孩在时尚方面有很
好的品味，我给她一份工作我可以告诉你，你很直观你很害羞女孩 - 但是当你和合适的人
在一起时，请注意
你：这是你，不是吗？我可以告诉你。你是一个正在恢复的书呆子......你不是......（女孩：你
为什么这么认为？）你：没关系，我不会告诉任何人。我也是一个书呆子，在这里，让我们
分享一些方程式。（迷你隔离）
（一定不要太认真地说这个，她应该知道你在开玩笑，但它肯
定会解除她团队中其他人的武装）
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阴谋钻，续。
这意味着：在某种程度上保留您的权力，无论是否意味着阻止您的信息，合规或直接指示您
的兴趣。
钻＃1：钩子
阴谋也可以描述为负依从性比率。这意味着女孩在互动中比你更努力。例如 - 在方法的早
期 - 您需要证明您对她的了解比她了解您更多。
目的：学习标准钩子，可以让女人对你好奇，并试图找到更多信息。这些在互动中很早就很
好。应用程序：首先从下面的列表中开始使用标准钩子。然后，您的合作伙伴将接受隐含的
问题，并尝试获得合理的答案。您立即回复下面的一行或您编写的一行。该行不得泄露问题
的逻辑答案。
她应该比你更倾向于你，而不是你。标准挂钩:(未说明的斜体问题）后来，她应该说的比你
多，你应该比她更放松。约会时，她应该比你去旅行更远。保持这种平衡是创造真空的关键，
这种真空继续将她拉向你。
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•为什么 X 女孩如此友善？（X =地点）•
你是哪里人？
你不会相信这......但......火星。
他们对 X 女孩说的是真的吗？
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外出时你总是这样做吗？钻＃2：冷读
•怎么样？•提出这么多问题......•
你知道你提醒我的是谁吗？没关系。我该提醒你谁？大约 2 分钟后，我的朋友将到这里......
他会告诉你答案。
直到您的反应立即进行练习，毫不犹豫地让您对留下未解答的问题感到满意。
目的：通过证明你对它们有一些秘密知识来扩大阴谋。这反过来又让他们对你更加好奇。应
用：使用下面列表中的标准冷读数。在您无需读取页面的情况下交付所有三个内容（它们不
必逐字逐句）后，可以根据您认为对您的合作伙伴真实的内容创建原始读取。标准冷读：•
许多人认为你是超然和遥远的，他们没有意识到它只是一个盾牌，他们从来没有给你第二次
机会。让你最开心的事情之一就是向别人展示你的真实自我。•我感觉周围的人和你生活的
环境现在希望你像一个成年人一样行事，但在内心深处，你' 仍然只是一个小女孩梦想和小
女孩的愿望的小女孩。•
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钻＃3：对冲您的投注目的：通过使它们成为条件来校准您的赞美，从而保留您的力量。申
请：在谈话期间，给你的伴侣一个恭维，但然后对冲它，换句话说，使它有条件，而不是讨
人喜欢。例子： •
你很有趣。特别是对于金发女郎。
我真的可以看到自己和你一起出去玩 - 不时。
我真的很想在几个小时内给你买一杯饮料。
在这个酒吧的灯光下，你的时尚是惊人的。
一旦我了解你，我们必须出去玩。
对于我在俱乐部遇到的女孩，你会非常聪明。
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钻机序列＃4 您需要准确识别并利用开放的机会之窗
一旦您完成了层次结构的前四个级别，游戏就只需使用领导力来升级越来越大的合规级别。
发现窗口并不重要 - 能够将事件解释为窗口也很重要。因为很多人对现实的把握如此之弱，
所以他们会寻求别人的解释。你练习这些练习的次数越多，你就越肯定，并且你创造一个对
你有利的现实的次数越多。更多人会关注你。方程式的另一半是在这些窗口中使用适当的工
具升级。我们将钻取一些这些工具，以便您在各种情况下都能感到舒适。
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钻＃1：问题 - >迷你隔离
钻＃2：赞美 - >奇诺
目的：如果一个女孩问你个人问题，她很可能会感兴趣。目的是训练你在一个女孩第一次通
过提出问题表现出强烈兴趣时，对一个简单的迷你隔离作出积极反应。
目的：如果一个女孩给你一个恭维，她就会把自己放在线上。这是她为你开的一个大窗口。
你应该通过一个简单的 kino 升级来回报它。
应用程序：合作伙伴选择一个主题。您和您的合作伙伴就该主题进行了简单的对话。在某些
时候，你的伴侣会问你一个显示真正兴趣的问题。当你回答这个问题时，你会踩到一边并将
合作伙伴的注意力拉向你。您不必将伴侣移动任何距离，只需将他们的方向改变远离小组并
朝向您。来回钻 10 分钟。重要的是，当问题充满热情和真实时，您只能迷你隔离。如果合
作伙伴以无聊的方式询问问题或正在视线等，请不要回复。
应用程序：合作伙伴选择一个主题。您和您的合作伙伴就该主题进行了简单的对话。在某些
时候，你的伴侣会给你一个称赞，这可能是实际的或基于对话中给出的信息。（旁注：大多
数女孩会给予身体恭维，因为这就是他们所知道的。）你会做出反应，将你的伴侣拉得更近
（用你的手臂放在对腰上），同时将你的臀部固定在一起，因为你要么赞美或放大它通过提
问“真的吗？为什么这么认为？” 积极的氛围。来回钻 10 分钟或直到移动是自然的。
示例：示例：合作伙伴：您是音乐家吗？你玩什么乐器？
合作伙伴：你的眼睛很好看。
你:(将伴侣的注意力拉到一边）好吧，我已经弹吉他 10 年了。但这并不总是那么容易......
你:(拉近你的伴侣）谢谢，我觉得你也很有魅力。你有这么大的能量。
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钻＃3：奇诺 - >认识朋友目的：当一个女人开始触摸你，或者回报你的女孩时，它不仅是一
个巨大的兴趣，但如果她的朋友在附近也会很危险。当发生这种情况时，你必须带头并重新
安置她。应用程序：合作伙伴选择一个主题。您和您的合作伙伴就该主题进行了简单的对话。
在某些时候，你的伴侣会抓住你的手。此时你说“你知道吗？我的朋友会爱你。让我们去见
他们。” 如果她在一个小组中，请转到小组并说“伙计们，我正在偷你的朋友一会儿，我们
马上回来。” 来回钻 10 分钟。
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想允许她脱离逻辑思维，绕过社会程序化的反对意见。
Drillset Sequence＃5
应用程序：合作伙伴从下面的列表中选择一个角色扮演主题，并且您可以和您的伴侣一起玩
耍，就像您担任该角色一样。保持对话与角色一致。
您需要通过使用 RolePlaying 和其他有趣设备创建备用方案来超越拾取的上下文

来回钻取，直到您对 4 个主题中的每个主题感到满意为止。爸爸女儿：周围有很多陌生人，
所以请保持紧密握住我的手。如果你以后是一个好女孩，我会带你去买一些冰淇淋。Old L
over R eunited：这太棒了。这个酒吧让我想起了我们的第一次约会。啊，巴黎很棒，很多可
爱的小咖啡馆和商店。我们几乎破坏了你所做的所有购物！师生：现在要注意了。我要教你
一些非常重要的东西。你在上一次测试中只得到一个 A-，但是如果你这个学期的工作稍微
努力一点，我想你可能会得到一个 A.假期：我很高兴今年我们决定来到 X-City 亲爱的。这么
多东西要看，我们可以抛弃所有的关心。没有工作，孩子或餐具！
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线程，续。
你曾经和一个人进行过一次对话 - 并且对你想谈论的主题感到不知所措。几乎每个新主题
都会提醒您其他三个与此人沟通的事情。
让我们列出主题：•••
去年，女孩酒店
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屋顶纽约市第一次约会
这就是你在回升持续的氛围。它不仅允许她进入“命运”模式，而且还可以方便地分散您的
升级。
现在，为了使下一个线程保持相关，它应该包括这 6 个主题中的一个。
下一部分是关于管理对话的全部内容。你可以单独花一个月时间讨论这个话题。
以下任何线程都可以作为社交智能响应：
什么是线程？线程只不过是一段沟通。这是一个单一的想法。通过将其称为线程，它允许我
们给它结构，并更容易理解它的功能。举个例子......
去年：哇，去年一定是你疯了。实际上这对我来说非常好。我真的想，但我想要做什么......
“去年我把一个女孩带到了纽约市的酒店屋顶作为第一次约会。她吓坏了。”
女孩：你把你约会的所有女孩带到那样的地方吗？哇。如果我认识大多数女孩，他们会为此
惹恼或爱你。
“[去年]我把[女孩]带到[纽约市]的[酒店] [屋顶]作为[第一次约会]。她[吓坏
这可以这样分解：
了]。”
酒店：这是一个不错的酒店吗？我希望是的。第一次约会的蟑螂不会为你赢得任何积分。
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钻＃1：简单螺纹跟
钻＃2：谈判者
目的：无拘无束地无限期地进行对话。
目的：让您轻松指导对话以达到您想要的任何预期结果。
应用程序：您和您的合作伙伴将生成如上例所示的线程。使用语句而不是问题，并尝试在您
的主题中提供多个主题，以便您的合作伙伴有几个不同的方向继续。
应用程序：您和您的合作伙伴将像上一次演习一样生成线程。但是，这一次，您将使用下面
的“好主题”和“坏主题”列表。
只要您愿意，直到您觉得可以就任何主题进行对话为止。
您的合作伙伴首先在中性主题上创建一个主题。您将尝试在“好”列表中讨论每个主题，同
时避免“坏”列表中的主题。随着对话的进行，合作伙伴通过尝试将“坏”主题投入到混合
中来使其变得越来越具有挑战性。钻，直到您感到舒服，您可以控制任何对话的流程和方向。
••••
良好的欧洲假期儿时的梦想你最好的朋友现在的流行音乐
错误•少女怀孕问题•性别与荡妇•乳腺癌•您收集色情
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Drillset Sequence＃7 您需要建立可靠性并成为她的真实人物
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女性信任您的。
它有 3 个主要级别。首先，她应该感到自己安全可靠。这对她来说是安全的睡觉所必需的。
其次，她应该感觉与你有点联系。你应该有一些共性，并分享同样的生活意识，尤其是“社
交”主题。
钻＃1：'Club Guy Annihilator'目的：向她展示你是一个真实的人，并走出'俱乐部人'的角色。

应用程序：合作伙伴选择一个主题，并就该主题发表声明。您应该通过分享您的一个朋友或
家庭成员的故事来与该主题联系起来，并以他们的名字引用它们。
即使证明你在生活中看到类似的障碍也会帮助你创造这个。如果没有，她可能会觉得你对她
太好了，可能会抛弃她。
来回钻 5 分钟。
你需要这个让她继续和你睡觉或者和你建立关系。保持所需关系类型的关键在于，首先要与
您所谈论的建立可信度的事物保持一致。
合伙人：是的，我要上学去做营销。
第三，你应该能够指导她。通过首先了解她的现实，然后表现出足够的能力来改变她的现实，
你将能够在她的生活中发挥巨大的影响力。
例：
你：真的吗？我喜欢营销。但这完全不是我上学的原因。真奇怪。这么多人最终做的事与他
们上学时完全不同。我有这位朋友迈克。他为了哲学而去学校，但最后在他家的餐厅工作。
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钻＃2：美丽只是皮肤深层
钻＃3：限制器
目的：证明你真正喜欢她作为一个人，而不只是试图穿上她的裤子。
目的：证明你不仅要了解她的自我限制，还要提供出路，以及一种思考问题的新方法。
应用程序：合作伙伴选择一个主题，并就该主题发表声明。你问一个问题，哄你的伴侣透露
一些关于他自己的事情。一旦你的伴侣做了，你就会对他所透露的任何东西产生真正的兴趣，
并给予他一个赞美。来回钻 5 分钟。在合作伙伴披露其信息后，您的兴趣水平显着提高非常
重要。
应用程序：合作伙伴选择一个主题，并显示该主题的不确定性或缺乏信心。你表现出同理心，
向她表明你理解她的问题。然后你向她展示了一个新的视角或方式来看待问题，使其不那么
可怕。
示例：
来回钻 10 分钟。重要的是，您不要提供有关问题的建议或解决方案。您只是向她展示如何
以较少威胁的方式查看问题。
合伙人：我喜欢下班后来这儿。
示例：
你：哦，是吗？你做什么工作？
P artner：我现在正在上心理学课，但我正考虑放弃它。这真的很难。
合伙人：我是兽医。你：真的吗？那很棒。我打赌你真的很有同情心。哇，我很羡慕。你很
有兴趣在生活中做一些你非常热衷的事情。
你：是的我完全理解。这是一门抽象的科学，如此复杂。与此同时，它实际上只是描述了每
个人都经历过的事情。当你开始将你正在学习的东西与你自己的思维过程或你认识的人联系
起来时，这个主题变得更加熟悉。你:(不正确）你应该学习更多。我在学校的时候每晚要学
习 5 个小时。
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Drillset Sequence＃8 如果您不知道如何以打开它们的方式触摸智能手机，那么您将无比多好

朋友
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了它的最大效果。它旨在提供平稳的升级，不包含可能导致女性反对的重大跳跃。同时，
DEL 不包含对诱惑过程不重要的无关步骤。这导致 FAST 升级序列与各种语言结构兼容，并
且我自己，Vincent DiCarlo 在数百次试验中进行了现场测试和完善。1.眼神接触和初始对话
眼神接触是第一步，它的使用显示了社会意识，并且总是提高你开始对话的机会。在目光接
触后不久开始您的对话游戏。2。附带的类别 l 第一类附带的 kino 涉及手臂和手。握手，拍
打肩膀上的人和刷胳膊都是我们每天都做的很常见的事情。以偶然的方式完成，即仅偶然发
生或无意或计算，它在建立初始舒适度方面非常有效。
DRILLS 附带类别 l 示例：•
握手轻轻握手轻轻抚摸她的手臂以强调您的点在靠近肘部时将其固定在靠近肘部的位置，以
便在她说话时将她靠近•站在她旁边，用手抚摸她的手臂•高个子•Palm 阅读
3. Overt Class l 在整个 DEL 中有一个明显的反复出现的模式：incidential kino，然后是公开的

kino。公开意味着开放观察或知识; 没有隐瞒或秘密。偶然的 kino 通常是在掩盖你意图的环
境中完成的，而公开的 kino 则不是。在它之前的附带的 kino 创造了公开的 kino 被接受所必
需的熟悉度。明显 kino 的持续时间应为 5-10 秒。公开 1 级示例：••
手牵着手护送
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缝过渡的能力公开的 1 级基诺。应用程序：与您的合作伙伴来回创建一个持续的会话线程主
题。与会话同时整合附带类 l kino。在偶然发生 3 次偶然事件后，发起公开的 1 级 kino。直
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第 1 类略微亲密，但不包括诸如她的乳房，胯部或大腿内侧的性感区域。在升级阶段之前，
这些区域不会得到任何直接关注 - 稍后定义。附带的第 2 类示例：•站立得非常靠近，双腿
接触她的腿•紧紧地坐在一起，双腿抚摸她的腿•在说话的同时轻轻地用手轻轻地用手刷她的
腹部•用手掌轻轻地抚摸她的背部，就好像你在拉她更好地倾听你的声音
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到坐下。这类基诺应该以保护性的，几乎浪漫的方式进行。
练习＃2：附带于 Overt Class 2
Overt Class 2 示例：
应用程序：与您的合作伙伴来回创建对话线程的持续主题。与会话同时整合附带的 2 级 kino。
在偶然发生 3 次偶然发生后，发起公开的 2 级 kino。
正面拥抱（最好是对她的顺从做出积极的反应）•用手托住她的下背护送她穿过酒吧•坐在她
旁边，将她的腿放在你的上方•坐下来和她说话时将她的腹部抱在一边•将手放在你的大腿上
目的：建立从偶然的 2 级 kino 到公开的 2 级 kino 无缝过渡的能力。

钻到你的伴侣对你的公开的 kino 感到舒服。
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6.附带的第 3 类她的头发，脸部和颈部是第 3 类中包含的区域。许多人犯了一个常见的错误，

就是他们第一次见到的女孩很快就会触及这些区域。女孩们惊讶地保护她们的头发，脸部和
颈部，将这些相对较高的物品放在梯子上。另一个常见的错误是，更有经验的人通常会完全
跳过这一步，只是为了稍后面对最后一分钟的阻力。
•将头放在肩膀上•将脸移到脖子上，闻着她•用手指轻轻抚摸她的脸，闭上眼睛，看着她的
眼睛•用手指梳理头发，闭上眼睛，看着她的眼睛•将手掌放在脖子后面，将她抱在脖子后面，
看着她的眼睛
附带的 3 级例子：•刷脸（或假装刷掉）脸上的东西•与你的脸部接触，因为环境非常响亮•
触摸她戴着的有趣项链，同时让你的手指轻轻地抚摸她的脖子•嬉戏地捏她的脸颊
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练习＃3：附带于公开课 3 级目的：建立从偶然的 3 级 kino 到公开 3 级 kino 无缝过渡的能力。

应用程序：与您的合作伙伴来回创建一个持续的会话线程主题。与会话同时整合附带的 3
级 kino。偶然发生 3 次偶然发生后，发起公开的 3 级基诺。钻到你的伴侣对你的公开的 kino
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后续演习＃1：获取电话号码目的：创建一个协议链，并结合技术上平滑的数字关闭。
钻机序列＃9 您需要有强大的电话，电子邮件，短信和其他形式的“跟进”游戏工具
应用程序：您的合作伙伴将启动随机线程。在某些时候，您将获得关于您的一个爱好的主题。
一旦您的合作伙伴表现出对此的兴趣，您将有机会参与其中，并将电话号码作为次要的后勤
细节。来回钻取，直到您觉得可以轻松获得任何人的电话号码。合作伙伴：我和我的朋友通
常只在周末来这里。你：我也是。本周我经常参与剧院。合作伙伴：你在剧院做什么？你：
我是制片人。我们做了一些精彩的节目。你应该在某个时候检查我们。合作伙伴：当然听起
来很酷。你：好的，我会打电话给你。合伙人：好的。你：好的......（拿出手机进行交换）
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用程序：您的合作伙伴将启动随机线程。在某些时候，您会建议您满足您的条款。在介绍会
议后，立即通过要求额外的合规性使其有条件。来回钻取，直到您满意为期。合作伙伴：我
一生都住在这个城市。你：你知道，我真的在想这个，我想出了一个很棒的主意，为我们两
个人带来真正特别的体验。合伙人：哦，真的吗？你：是的但你可以做一些不同的事情。
首先，你必须带上你的相机。第二，带上泳衣。你可能不需要它，但为了以防万一。第三，
在 Platinum 酒店与我见面。你什么时候能做到的？合作伙伴：好的。我可以在 7 点钟做到。
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使物流服务物流：资源移动到需要的地方的整体管理。
Drillset Sequence＃10 您需要创建有效的约会场景，即设计引导人类达到预期结果的情感体

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然而，在接送的情况下，我们将“资源”一词改为“女性”。物流最好描述为。协调从一个
地方到另一个地方的运动，直到你最终孤立地发生性行为。最好在遇到女人的第一天/晚上
尽可能接受接送，但如果有某些情况限制了你或她的自由，那么最好是拿一个号码然后再恢
复一次。同样重要的是要注意到，最终所有限制都是情绪化的。即使她必须去学校，工作，
甚至与她的朋友见面，这仍然是一种情感上的限制。她错过了工作 - >她被解雇了 - >缺钱
并且必须找到更多的工作（情绪不安。）所以你在游戏中获得的越多，这些限制就越消失。
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物流演习，续
钻＃1：改变场地
钻＃2：隔离
目的：利用强大的领导力和假设让一个人陪伴你到下一个场地。
目的：利用阴谋和好奇心预先制止并克服与你单独相处的任何可能的不确定性。
应用程序：使用下面的脚本建议去另一个地方。当你说脚本时，开始自信地引导你的伴侣。
完全假设，真正相信你的伴侣想加入你。你的伴侣会对你的信心传递/失败，以及他和你一
起感受的热情。来回钻取，直到您的交付有信心和假设，并且您的合作伙伴想加入您。你：
我很饿。我们去餐馆吃点东西。你：我玩得很开心。我们去市中心购物吧。你：我喜欢喝咖
啡。我们去星巴克吧。
应用程序：您的合作伙伴将读取隔离窗口列表。您将毫不犹豫地回复，并给出一个能够构建
阴谋的答案。首先使用下面的结构，然后创建自己的结构。钻，直到你可以毫不犹豫地动态
创建阴谋结构。这是一个速度训练。隔离 W indows：•我们要去哪里？•为什么我们必须在
您的地方停留？•我必须早上起床上班。• 你现在想做什么？阴谋结构：我想你可以进来，
但只是一点点。但你必须承诺不要笑我的地方，好吗？我和我的朋友罗布住在一起。你不会
相信他的位置有多好。哦，我也有一个特别的惊喜。凉。我们必须加快速度，当你看到我的
视频时，你不会相信它。
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高级冷读练习冷读是一种对几乎没有先前信息的人进行“阅读”的技巧。这就是通灵生活的
方式。基本上你是在告诉一个人他们认为你不可能知道的东西 - 除非你是他们最好的朋友。
冷读有很多东西，都有利于提升：•
它会使你成为一个权威它展示了对她的世界的理解它创造了阴谋，因为你对她的了解比她了
解你更多•它可以让你塑造她以任何你选择的方式行事•它创造了“即时联系”的感觉•它支
持女人喜爱的命运/命运主题
事实是，对此没有任何特殊或神秘的东西，可以很容易地学到它。良好的感冒阅读都是有道
理的，对于任何听过它的人来说通常都是如此。当听到它时，它们甚至更有效：
钻＃1：步伐和领导目的：通过展示对它的强烈理解来塑造她的现实。应用：当头脑连续听
到两件真实的东西时，它会自动接受第三件事而无异议。彼此坐在一起，你将进行两次简单
的观察，然后是从观察中得到的暗示。来回钻 5 分钟。例如：你的伴侣坐在你对面，直立，
看着你的眼睛。你可能会说：“你坐在我对面，看着我的眼睛，我可以告诉你已准备好开始
练习。” 注意前两个是简单的观察，第三个是暗示的。
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高级冷读钻，续。
钻＃2：会话冷读
钻＃3：魔镜
目的：根据对话中学到的信息进行补充推广。
目的：给她一个与她理想的自我形象完全匹配的赞美。
应用程序：通过生成线程来回开始对话。经过 3 或 4 个线程后，您将根据该信息进行冷读。
应用程序：通过生成线程来回开始对话。在某些时候，你的伴侣将试图通过尽最大努力来表
达自己的身份。这可能是通过一个故事或通过分享他的梦想或自我陈述。在这一点上，你只
需用你自己的话回复他。
来回钻取，直到你对冷读的结构感到舒服。示例：合作伙伴：“我认为不应该穿黑色皮带的
白色鞋子。”
来回钻孔，直到您可以透明地传达恭维。例：
你：“是的，我同意。另一方面，衬衫通常可以是任何颜色，无论你的腰带。” 合作伙伴：
“我最喜欢的衬衫是白色的。这样我可以穿上任何其他颜色。” 你：“你似乎很注意自己的
外表。你是那种想要以积极的方式被认识的人，因为你已经对时尚产生了非常敏锐的认识。
你真的知道什么你喜欢。”
合作伙伴：“我正在学习成为一名护士。我希望看到我的工作受到赞赏，我真的很喜欢帮助
别人。” 你：“是的，当我认识你是一个人的时候，我可以告诉你。你想要帮助，但同时当
人们如此依赖你时，它可能会让人感到压力。” 没有多少女性真的有能力去做你做的事情。
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钻＃4：德伦布朗风格心理目的：创造一种情绪状态，让她感觉好像你使用的冷读是完全通
灵的。应用：1。通过引导互动，通过调整现实来建立自己的权威。2.询问过去是否有人曾
向他说过任何真正令人信服的事情，或者这是他想要相信的事情。3.通过让他想象那个时间，
让你的伴侣进入情绪可暗示的状态。当你想要阅读时，告诉你的伴侣“听我说这句话”。5.
提供冷读，听起来都很好，对每个人来说都是正确的。来回钻，直到您觉得可以非常令人信
服地进行冷读。
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连接
连接意味着您表现出对女性有直接价值的承诺。
Drillset Sequence＃12
对于大多数女性来说，愉快的交谈和关注就足够了。然而，对于性意识很高的女性来说，她
们正在寻找“性价值”
。性价值存在于这个层次结构中。对于那些对此做出回应的女性来说，
这是一个很好的提升者。
你可以在性紧张中获得如此令人难以置信的命令，即互动可以在一个角度上变成性
如果你发现一个女孩对性紧张没有反应（即对你的性语言或动觉进展没有反应），这通常意
味着她需要在以这种方式回应之前信任你。跳到第 4 级：在这种情况下的可信度。性紧张不
仅产生于你的氛围，也产生于你的语言。一旦你出现 1 级和 2 级，你使用性语言就会在她身
上产生一种高度兴奋的状态。当你和女孩一对一的时候，这通常是一个好主意。目的是钻取
不同类型的语言，直到您可以自由使用它而不会出现奇怪或令人毛骨悚然的情况。
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性紧张训练器，续。
练习＃1：感性语言
练习＃2：Double Entenders
目的：在谈论常见主题时，使用生动的描述性语言。
目的：能够通过语言投射双重意义。一个意思是无辜的，另一个意味着性。
应用：选择任何主题。与您的合作伙伴讨论该主题，同时使用以下感性词汇列表中的文字。
应用：选择任何主题。与您的合作伙伴讨论该主题，同时使用下面列表中的短语。
钻直到分娩正常 - 没有笑，坐立不安或过分强调。
裸裸食欲敦促僵硬爱抚柔顺骑来
愉悦流动耳语洞湿事务所
会员入会熔体欲望兴奋直立冲洗硬招标潮湿的行程手指轻松进入推力发行 78
向往不羁的切入滑
幻灯片挑逗淘气紫禁城内生埋紧 Penetrate Aching Erupt Stdledle
Drill 直到分娩正常 - 没有笑，坐立不安或过度强调。
快速关闭湿你怎么感觉你内心的感觉你很快你很难你越来越近你是一个快女孩我喜欢它，当
一个女孩打开它为时已晚
我做的来自同一个地方你来自一个好地方你得到我我的头砰砰直跳我的脑袋悸动我的脑袋
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Drillset 序列＃13 你可以用设施齐全掌握整套技术统称为“的”

“肮脏的把戏的输入电压的袋
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性合规演练合规性是指：符合，默许或屈服的行为。
钻＃1：肮脏的合规性
换句话说，每当你让一个女人跟随你的领导，并符合你的要求，你就有了她的合规性。
目的：基于对情况的简单重构，让女性在努力融入互动中感到舒适。
合规性对于保持您构建的吸引力或使其更加真实非常重要。
申请：您的合作伙伴将谈论做某种工作，例如打扫房屋，购买杂货或购买商品。在这一点上，
你将重新构建他为自己所做的工作，为你工作。
让一个女人处于良好状态并让她吸引你很容易，但除非你让她真正采取行动，否则你会有一
些非常短暂的事情。
来回钻 5 分钟。例：
当你使用吸引力来获得合规或以其他方式升级时，女人会有更真实的回顾，以了解她真正喜
欢你的程度。接下来的章节是各种策略，不仅可以通过领导直接获得合规性，还可以通过心
理学方法让她更有可能遵守您的荒谬要求。
合作伙伴：我花了一整天的时间购买杂货并把它们拿走。你：那真的很甜蜜，但你没有必要
为我解决所有麻烦，我们可以干脆出去吃饭。
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钻＃2：虚拟合规性目的：让一个女人在根据想象场景中的合规性投入精力进行交互。应用
程序：您的合作伙伴将选择四个角色扮演主题之一。在角色扮演和主题的同时，创造一个想
象的情境，让你的伴侣把工作放在对你有利的事情上。来回钻 5 分钟。爸爸 - 女儿：非常
感谢你做一个好女孩，为我打扫房间。因此，我今晚要带你去看电影。老恋人重聚：亲爱的
再和你在一起真好。是的，我已经保存了你多年来写给我的所有情书。我把它们放在我床底
下的粉红色盒子里。一定有一百个！老师 - 学生：你的额外学分非常好。你不仅遵循了所
有方向，而且你还为奖励积分进行了所有研究！看起来你毕竟会得到一个 A. 假期：我不能
要求更好的妻子。你计划这个假期的所有时间都得到了回报。并预订航班和酒店......我在天
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升级斜坡虽然从 1-7 上面的步骤可以为 30 分钟到 4 个小时，在下列页中描述的升级斜坡是

非常快速。坡道的持续时间应为 5-15 分钟左右。一旦在性别位置完全隔离，就可以非常快
速地开始匝道。
Drillset Sequence＃14 您将学习如何以最有效，最平稳的方式直接升级到性别，没有最后一

分钟阻力（LMR）
8.亲吻从非常靠近的地方开始接吻。不要先从三英尺远的地方潜入嘴唇。理想情况下，在尝
试之前，您应该已经处于适合接吻的位置。如果你有公开的 3 级 kino 照顾，你可能在正确
的位置。一种建立性紧张的技巧 - 慢慢地移动，慢慢地好像你可能吻她一样，然后离开并
开始谈论其他事情。这将构成紧张，她会想知道你什么时候真正吻她。一种启动接吻的技巧
- 尝试将手指放在她的下巴下方并将嘴拉向你的下方。一开始接吻应该轻而短。你应该是第
一个离开的人。一开始不要使用太多的舌头，只是用它来取笑她，并建立期待。
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9.亲吻她的脖子
12.亲吻她的身体 -
一旦你吻了她一下，就向下移动到她的脖子上。轻轻吻它，同时紧紧抱住她。
拉起她的衬衫，有机会向下移动，亲吻并抚摸她腹部裸露的肌肤。开始在那里亲吻她，然后
向上移动。
根据你想要设定心情的粗糙程度，也可以随意投入一些温柔的咬人。
10.触摸她背部的裸露的皮肤一旦你在她的嘴和脖子上建立了接吻，将你的手移到腰部和衬
衫下面。继续把她抱在身边，现在双手直接靠在她身上。11.胃到胃现在，你已经建立了触
摸她的皮肤，在她的衬衫下面，只需将你的手移到前面，然后抬起她的衬衫，露出她的肚子。
同时抬起你的衬衫，让你的腹部直接接触她的衬衫。这似乎是无辜的，但同时会在她内部引
发强烈的性感受。她唯一一次感觉这样的接触通常是在她裸体和发生性行为时。
触摸和亲吻乳房是可选的。没有必要，在某些情况下可能会对您的进展产生不利影响。有些
女性对乳房有负面影响。向他们的乳房倾斜并感受到她的反应。如果她变得越来越多，那就
去吧。如果她开始关闭，跳过乳房，直到你已经发生性行为。
13.顺便刺激阴道当你亲吻她的身体时，你可以将自己定位在她的腿之间，并用你的腹部摩
擦她的阴道。如果你是亲吻她的嘴，你可以定位你的大腿刺激她的阴道。你也可以亲吻她的
身体，伸展双腿，将手放在她下面的床上。然后用你的前臂刺激她的阴道。这里的关键是因
为你没有用手或手指，所以她没有反对意见。
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实将她放大，将手转向背部并将其滑入内裤并触摸她的裸体屁股。然后将手一直向下移动并
到达她的阴道。首先触摸周围区域。然后继续从后面指责她。女人从未期望过这种方式。试
图将手伸到裤子前面经常会受到抵抗，但从后面看是出乎意料且有效的。如果她穿着裙子或
裙子，你将把手放在她的后腿上，然后以这种方式到达她的阴道。用手指她，然后直接进入
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一只手取下她的裤子前面。您可以使用情境相关的短语“我的手被压碎”，尽管通常没有必
要。由于她指的是你指责她，她很少会反对你同时解开她的裤子。你也可以通过说“解开你
的裤子”来解开裤子。因为你在指责她。移到前面，你将能够用手指进行更多的穿透，并让
她达到她几乎要求性行为的程度。使用坚固的“来这里”动作向前拉阴道前壁并刺激她的 g
点。
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Escalation Ramp Drill 16.去掉她的裤子，性别这个想法是通过指责她让她变得如此热烈，以至

于她对性，口头或身体做出了承诺。有几种方法可以解决这个问题。首先，在裤子脱落之前
不要停止指责她是非常重要的。很多时候，一个男人会停止指责她，然后试着脱下裤子，只
是为了获得更多阻力。在指责她时你可以说“你想要我在你里面吗？” 通常会得到“是” 。
响应。那时你说“好吧，脱掉你的裤子。 ” 并继续指责她，直到她的内裤脱落，她准备好了。
另一种选择是跳过这个问题并直接告诉她脱掉裤子。通常，你的手指忙于工作，她将更加顺
从。另一种技巧是问她“你想让我买安全套吗？” 你问这个问题的女孩中有 90％会说“是
的”。不是因为他们说他们想要发生性行为，而是因为他们想要表现出安全和平稳的态度。
你会将此解释为获得避孕套并与她发生性关系的许可，并且很可能在没有反对的情况下得到
满足。
钻头＃1：斜坡记忆目的：内化升级梯形斜坡的有序步骤，以便在时间到来时轻松流动。应
用：站在其他参与者面前，按顺序背诵坡道的步骤。斜坡：1。2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.
亲吻脖子上的手在她的背上，在衬衫胃下到胃接吻胃偶然的阴道刺激（手臂，腿，胸部）手
背裤子，指法手放在裤子前面，指法删除裤子，性别。
第 9 步的口头技巧：
•••你想让我买安全套吗？你想要我在你里面吗？脱掉你的裤子。
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Drillset Sequence＃15 你可以将一个女人带入你的世界如此深刻，以至于她的世界将在你周

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Drill Drill＃1：合规级别
钻头＃2：虚拟梯子
目的：删除有关您希望她履行合规性的提示。而不是彻底地要求某种东西，而是以非常间接
的方式展示它的需要。
目的：学习一种令人难以置信的有效升级技术，这似乎会让女孩很快陷入爱河。
应用：考虑到你对生活的主要热情，花几分钟时间描述一个女人可以为这种激情做出贡献的
五种不同方式。然后按顺序从最小到最大的顺序排列它们。
应用程序：对您的合作伙伴执行与您所在城市相关的虚拟阶梯升级。钻取，直到您可以始终
如一地执行虚拟梯形图。例：
此时，您将轮流请求这些级别。对小级别使用直接请求，对大型级别使用间接请求
当我回到纽约市时，你必须去拜访我。首先，我们走在第五大道，我会像这样握住你的手（握
住她的手）。我们会看看我们买不起的所有昂贵的衣服;）
钻孔，直到您能够高雅而巧妙地提出合规要求。小要求：
然后我们会去帝国大厦的顶端，我们会看着侧面，我会这样抱着你（从后面抱她）你害怕高
度吗？
如果是冬天的话，我们会去洛克菲勒中心滑冰。你能滑冰吗？好的，你可以教我 - （握手
滑冰手势）
亲爱的，继续从商店里挑选一些蔬菜，这样我们就可以吃一些配牛排的配菜。宝贝，你有很
棒的音乐品味。你必须为我制作一张混合 CD。
大请求：•
我的朋友乔刚买了一双非常酷的鞋子。他看起来真的很棒。我认为他们很棒。如果我只有一
套新的高尔夫球杆，那将会更加愉快。而且想想，我们两个人可以在我们最喜欢的球场上一
起度过美好的一天。
然后你会来我的地方（如果在酒店）然后我们会回到我们的酒店房间与单独的床（如果你在
你的地方），我们一起放松。如果你很幸运，我会给你一个我很有名的按摩。我会让你坐下
来（坐在她的床上），然后躺下来，我会像这样按摩你。（让你的伴侣坐下来）
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这仅仅是个开始。您现在知道如何在所有社交互动中取得真正的成功。因此，在将来，如果
您觉得需要刷新，请抓住朋友，这本小册子，然后钻走！如果您有任何疑问，请访问我的网
站 http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums。我会在那里见到你，祝你好运！Vin
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