FRIENDSHIP

BY: LYCA RAMOS GRADE 11-HUMSS-C

 INTRODUCTION

Friendship is one of life’s greatest treasures. Friends that are loyal are always there to make you laugh
when you are down, They are not afraid to help you avoid mistakes and they look out for your best interest.
This kind of friend can be hard to find, but they offer a friendship that will last a lifetime. Other friends may
not be quite as loving. The pain caused by a friendship marred by betrayal is not easy to over come. In fact,
many poems find their inspiration from the joy brought about by loving friendship or the pain caused by
failed friendship.

 Friendship

 Definition of Friendship

Friendship in the English dictionary means ‘’ the state of being a friend: association as friends, a
friendly relation or intimacy’’. We all have friends, but how many of them are considered true
friendship? Friendship is not just having a lot of friends. It is like having a family member. Friendship in
my dictionary is my childhood friend who I grew up with when we were in kindergarten, a friend who is
part of my mom knows who. To establish a healthy strong friendship, there are basic aspects that
relationship should be built on, which are trust,honesty and loyalty. Trust in friendship means you have
the ability and confide in your friend and be positive about the consequences. Trusting a person means
you believe that person will be wise and won’t tell anyone what you tod him or her, and when they give
you advice you can trust him or her. Trust means that the person would never hurt you. We all need
someone with whom we can .share our thoughts ,feelings and frustrations ,sharing our deepest secrets
will end up without worrying that those secrets will end up reveal to others . In true friendship, there is no
backbiting, no negative thought, no turning away .

1.1 Collins English Dictionary

Friendship
Is a relationship between two or more friends.

1.2 Merriam Webster

Friendship
A person who has a strong liking and trust in another person.
A person who is not an enemy friend or foe.
2. Types of Friendship

2.1 Friendship of Utility

Exist between you and someone who is useful to you in some way . For instance, perhaps you’re friendly
with your cubicle mate mainly because she helps you in your problems etc. Keeping your secrets or
maybe the two of you take turns going out on coffee runs. Probably you’re friendly with your neighbour
because she waters plants when your on vacation. And taking care of her things with you when she’s
away.

2.2 Friendship Pleasure

Between those schools I enjoy. Often, these are ’’activities buddies’’ : people with whom we do things
like playing soccer, going for a long bike rides. We may have this kind of relationship with one of the
other orals at our friendly neighbors coffee shop or parlors. The kind of person with whom I enjoy a little
chit-chat or a good joke.

2.3 Friendship of the Good

Are based on mutual respect and admiration. These friendship take longer to build than the other two
kinds ,but they’re also more powerful and enduring. They often arises two people recognize that they
have similar values and goals; that they have similar visions for how the world ( or at least their lives)
should be .Not frequently , they begin in childhood, adolescence or college though plenty form after too.

2.4 A Loyal BestFriend

A loyal person is always true to you, he or she help you if he or she can, if she can’t will try and she
really can’t she will decide. Loyal is not a one way road it away works both ways. If you are loyal you
will understand rejection.
A loyal friend is true friend, a friend who will literally tell you the truth when you ask for it. I will stress
on this when you on this WHEN YOU ASK FOR IT.
3. Experience of having a Friend

3.1 She knows something is Wrong

I know if something wrong with my friend because she didn’t talk to me. He or she is not jolly and even
participating with our class. I think the best solution is to talk to her what’s wrong, Because we are
friends we keep our secret both in our crushes but, Please I want to share you problem. I am your friend,
I am always here for you no matter what happened.

3.2 Studying for exams Together

Actually, I didn’t studying with my friends . First I study alone and memorized everything. Then in the
day of exam I come to school, I revise with my friend. She asks me, and I ask her too. And I also
explaining what I have learned, to classmates who haven’t understood. It makes me remember
everything. The first thing I have to prepare a table of study so that I can divide my time properly to then
various subjects. I shall have too study periods a day, and the other from seven to nine in the evening .

If I don’t know that subject I have to spend more time for it. In order that I remember the facts.In order
that remember the facts will remain in my head. Other subjects require less memorizing . So I am all right
with them . I only have keep in touch with them and I should pass without any problem.

One last thing is necessary. I shall have cut to cut out time- consuming activities like socialising with
friends, watching videos and istening to pop songs. I can do these things again once the examination are
over . mean while it is ‘action station’ There is a battle to be won.

3.3 Movie Marathon

Watching scary or suspenseful movies with my friends is also great because you get hear everyone’s
reaction and be scared together. When you sit down and watch horror movie by , it may become so scary
that the experience isn’t enjoyable. With a bunch of friends sitting outside in front of a large screen, the
experience becomes much more fun than scary.

When you watch movies with other people, also get get opportunity to discuss the film with them.
This can be a great way to spend your time once the credits roll, and you may earn something about the
film from someone else that you didn’t pick up on yourself.
III . Conclusion

4.1 Summary

Having a real friend is one great blessing as we can just forget the rest of the world when we are
with them. Good friends are true blessings from God. As they say ‘’ Friends are angels in disguise’’,
we should thank God for having good friend in our lives as they spread us with joy, light and a feel
of accomplishment in all sense. There is no other greater feel than when seeing or hearing your
friend even after ages, it just cannot be expressed in any words and can only be felt. Friendship is a
bond two people that lastly a lifetime.

First of all , friendship is necessary for maintaining health by controlling and regulating the passions
of the mind. In the other words friendship though wich one can can be lighthen the heart by
revealing the feelings and emotions : sorry, joy,fear,hopes,suspicions, advice and the like.

4.2 Generalization

True friend are worth more than all the treasures of the world . Friendship is doing your best friend
happy. Friendship is forever , no matter what. It is the most wonderful relationship that every person can
have if he or she is loyal,dependable,kind,,caring, and loving. True friends try to avoid conflicts and do
everything possible to make their relations stronger. Some people can even make sacrifices and risk lives
for a friend.

A true friendship is something that can’t expressed with words. Friendship is being able to cry together.
Friendship being foolish together. It is being mad to protect each other from being hurt emotionally and
physically. It takes time and patience to build a strong friendship and achieve trust between two
soulmates. It is very important to have somebody with whom you can share your thoughts freely.

A good friendship is very difficult to come across . That is why we should appreciate this divine
relationship that is are a lot benefits of friendship. We just need friends to live happily. Lasting friendship
is a blessing for everybody. We don’t have to pretend be someone ese when we spend time with our
friends. They give us total freedom to be we really are. We should be grateful to people who make us
happy .A true friend is one of the most precious possesssions that one can have in his life.
 Intimacy
- The stae of being intimate.

Admiration

- Respect and warm approval.

Cubicle

- Small space in a public room ( such as bathroom ) that has walls for privacy.

Enduring

- Continuing or long – lasting.

Plenty

- A large sufficient amount or quantity more than enough.

Rejection

- The dismissing or refusing of a proposal, idea, etc.

Socializing

- The actionor practice of participating in social activities or mixing socialy with others.

Suspenseful

- Arousing exited expectation or uncertainty about what may happen.

Pisguise

- Give ( someone or oneself ) a different appearance in order to conceal ones identity.

Possessions

- State having owning or controlling something.

References:
https://www.marieclaire.com
https://www.qoura.com
https://www.collinsdictionary.com
https://www.merriam-webster.org