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Phenomenology
Of
GIRLFRIEND

Submitted by:

Alvin Christian Colejara

Submitted to:

Mr. Rexelle Navales

 GIRLFRIEND

A girlfriend is someone special. Someone you think about when you

wake up in the morning and before you fall asleep at night. Someone who can
make you smile for no reason at all. Having a girlfriend means you count the
hours till you can be with them and find it hard to leave. You remember their
smile, their touch, their scent.

It’s someone you’ve been seeing long enough and enjoying the
experience enough so that you both feel there could be something serious there.
And you’re ready to be exclusive and explore those serious feelings. For me,
until you’ve reached that point, you’re just dating someone. The words my
girlfriend sneak into your vocabulary and you look for opportunities to talk
about them. Your friends notice that you've changed.
EPOCHE (Bracketing Experience):

1. Inspiration
2. Sadness
3. Happiness
4. Respect
5. Excitement
6. Unspoken
7. Romantic
8. Shy
9. Sarcastic
10.Unheard
Editic Reduction:

1. Inspiration:

When you have a crush to someone you like to go to school or doing any

projects just because of her. That’s why you inspired her just because you want

her to see you like that you are working hard and study harding. Inspiration

makes us want to do something It moves our emotions, our intellect, our

behavior. Because inspiring your mate to be a better person is a must have it is

your spirit.

2. Sadness:

When you have a crush on someone and you find out that he or she likes

you, too, it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way.
 It's hard to find out that the person you like doesn't feel the same way about

you. You might feel sad, disappointed, and rejected. That sad feeling is called

heartbreak, even though your heart isn't really breaking into pieces. If you feel

heartbreak, those feelings can last for a while, but they will fade. Try to be kind

if you're on the other end of a crush when someone likes you. It's a compliment

when someone thinks you're special. If you don't feel the same way, try to

tell him or her in a nice way. There could be something else in your life that is

going on that is totally unrelated to your crush in anyway but you

subconsciously attach this troubling, unresolved matter to them. Then, when

you see or hear of them it triggers this troubling attachment and results in

confusing emotions that may not seem to make sense in the situation.
 3. Happiness:

Crushes are a wonderful feeling. Every time you see that special person your

heart beats and you try to hide a smile. You want to stalk him or her. That’s

why you make yourself happiness and just like you complete your whole day. It

will cause you to think about them every hour of everyday. Maybe it’s the

desire to impress the person we’re crushing on, maybe we just want to seem

more well-rounded and accomplished, maybe it’s a combination of both things

yet, there is no doubt that falling in love makes you want to be your best self.

That’s what make you have a happiness.

4. Respect:

First of all when we have a crush and when you have in a real relationship

you will respect her or do all things just for her. When you develop special

feelings toward someone, it can change your world. What all you think

everyday is her you wfeel happy when you see her and that’s why we respect
 her so that it can love you back and have a forever relationship. To respect a

guy, don’t play with his sexuality and drives. Cause him to love and see you as

a person, and not just as an object.She doesn’t use her body to manipulate him.

If you only take one thing from this blog, get this one. Girls, you have an

incredible power to control guys with your appearance, simply because guys are

driven so intensely by what they see when they look at a girl and the beauty of

her body.

5. Excitement:

Noticing your first crush is an exciting time in life because you're beginning

to understand how it feels to like another person a lot. When you have a date

you are so excited you cant wait to see her now or something like that. When

we like a person for his/her looks or behaviour, it's a natural thing, that we try to

know more and more about the person.

 The extra information helps us to fall for that person. A feeling of being with

him/her for the whole time begins to prevail in our mind/heart/brain. Now

whenever you see the crush, you think about how awesome would it be if the

other person would actually date you but the very thought excites you beyond

words and hence, whenever the crush appears you lose yourself in the moment.

6. Unspoken:

Sometimes when your crush is having a conversation with you, you get

unspoken your body is weaken just because of her. It is the easiest thing to fall

in love with some one and it's equally difficult to get the reciprocation.

Anything is possible (although ‘nothing’ is included in ‘anything’). If there is

one thing I have learned through school, it would be: We like people who like

us. If you subtly let your crush know you like them, it will get them to think

about you at the very least. At best, it will get them to realize their feelings for

you. Or you could just do nothing and wait for the feelings to pass, as well as
 any feelings your crush might have had towards you. Nothing lasts forever if

left unspoken.

7. Romantic:

When that person is your crush and you have to do a romantic things so that

your crush will crush you back, but doing a romantic things you have to do it

right so that your crush will be fall in love. Crushes are a little bit like the

romantic love adults feel toward one another. And in a way, a crush can help us

think about the kind of person that we want to love when we grow up. They

help us understand which qualities we notice and like in another person and

maybe a few that we don't like. Crush gets thrown around a lot. It can mean that

you simply have a passing infatuation with someone, or that you really like him

or her. It is important to remember that not all strong feelings are romantic.
 8. Shy:

Crushes can provoke intense feelings that lead to anxiety and nervousness.

Whether you have a romantic crush, a platonic crush or an identity crush, it can

be very difficult to act normal. Having a crush causes you to project your

idealizations onto this person. Sometimes they are not who you think they are.

If anything will happen, let it happen naturally. The reason why we are shy

when your crush is around is because that we are treating ourself as inferior and

we always have this thought bubble that we are not good enough for her, even

though we really like her. I can't say that we are not brave enough, it's just that

you think that she's expecting something better than us.

9. Sarcastic:

Loving a sarcastic person comes with rewards – and a lot of pain. For the

sarcastic other, it takes a unique set of skills to continue to play tricks with other

people. How much you can appreciate this depends on how much you know the

traits of a sarcastic person.

 10. Unheard:

We know that who ever have a crush on some person and when its having

you a conversation you feel like you have a heartache that’s why you are

unheard sometimes and your not properly paying attention.

EIDOS EXPERIENCE:

The most important experience that I have done is happiness because

happiness is the most important of all actually when we have a girlfriend so

that’s why me have to make them happy so that our relationship will be forever

and ever. And respect because respecting your girlfriend makes your

relationship will be more stronger that’s why we have to respect our girlfriend.

And inspiration because having a girlfriend makes you inspired to do all things

just for her. That’s why we can achieve our goals just like that just because you

inspired to your girlfriend but pick a right person to love you and respect you so

that you can love each other and live forever.