Cape Cod Young Professionals - Instinct to lead - Not a participant of high leadership roles, trouble finding her voice in large groups but in small groups it was easier - Turning point for finding her voice and public speaking was in grad school Her son - She learned to speak up for herself when doctors wanted to tell her what to do. - Winding path that gets you to where you want to end up - Grew up in Dallas, Texas area - Women in leadership roles - Women weren't taken seriously and she wasn't when she was single with no children but when she had her kid she was taken seriously - She was told to lower the tone of her voice and lower confidence level so she sounded like less of a know it all - Leadership and management doesn't come easy - She aspires to be good - Overlooked by managers and leaders - Golden rule - Learning as you go - Making mistakes - Perfect won't happen the first time around, be humble and use it as a lesson for next time - Perseverance and realizing you can get up again when you get knocked down - Transparency - There is no “normal” - To be a true leader, you are empowering others and seeing the big picture, managers are mechanical from day to day - Leaders rise above - There is no perfect leader - Her idea leaders are leaders are close to home - Accept you don't have all the answers - Worked as a liaison for the city and a nonprofit - Served the public with a mission - Keep denton beautiful project - Planting trees, wall murals, cleaning up trash - She did work with foster children - Couldn't see the impacts - Exposure to terrible situations kids were put in - Nonprofit - It's like building an airplane as you fly it - CCYP (falmouth to p-town) - Focus on what's great about living and working on the cape - Cape Cod allows for big fish in little ponds instead of little fish in a big pond situation - Shape the Cape Conference - Independent nonprofit