Meine aik baat batani thi – meri zindagi, it’s a mess right now but I’m trying my
best to make it better.
Recently I have been loving a girl jiska naam mein M se istemal krun gai ss paragraph mein. Wo larki mujhe bhoht achi lagti thi uske liye meri jaan bhi hazir thi laykayn aik masla tha, wo ye masla tha ke mein usse beinteha mohabbat krta tha mujhe uske bare mein har cheez perfect lagti thi laykayn wo mujhse nafrat krti thi. Of course agar koi banda reject krde toh tumhein usko bhool jana chahiye pr mein ye na kr skaa, meine give up krne ka faisla nahi kia aur iss umeed mein raha ke M meri kabhi na kabhi ho jaye gi is zindagi mein, laykayn mein uske peeche pra raha, mujhe No’s ate rahe aur mein Please krta raha. People have been saying me to leave her laykayn meine kisi ki nahi sunni aur usse beinteha mohabbat krta raha – isi umeed mein wo aik din aye gi mujhe sorry kahe gi aur meri ban jaye gi. Aik din aisa bhi aya jab meine usko chor dene ka faisla krne ke mukam ke qareeb agaya – meine socha ke hai koi aisa shaks jo M ko replace kre ga, mere dimagh mein pura din aik hi larki ka naam ata raha. Laykayn agle din meine faisla kia ke mein give up nahi krun ga. Aur uske liye apni puri zindagi daam pr lga dun ga, pr mujhe wo feelings nahi aa rahi thi ke mein usse pyaar aur krun, chorne ka dil kr raha tha, aur meine usko chor dia, haar maan li – but phir mujhe yaad aya ke mein to wade krta tha ke mein usko puri zindagi pyaar krun ga beshak wo na kre, wo wade kahan gaye, I felt like I was a -bewafa- Laykayn phir mujhe mere cousin ne btaya ke pyaar do tarah ke hote hain, lust and true love. Lust jo hota hai wo shakal, ya body ke sath pyaar hota hai – bande ya insan yar rooh ke sath nahi. Often a negative kind of love, but still a kind of love. Love wo hota hai jo bande ki shakal nahi, uske dil ke sath, uski rooh ke sath hota hai. True love. The best one. Phir mujhe ehsas hua – ke meine aaj tak M ke sath lust kia tha, kiunke usne mujhse kabhi baat nahi ki, kabhi kuch interaction nahi ki, mujhe kaise pta wo kaisi larki hai, cruel bhi ho skti hai, mujhe ehsas hua ke mein uske sath lust krta raha hun. Aur wohi larki jo mere dimagh mein aati thi jab mein M ko chorne ka sochta tha, wohi larki jo meri larkiyon mein se aik bhoht achi friend bhi hai, aaj mein keh skta hun.. “I love her.” Han g, mujhe pyaar hogaya hai usse aur wo lust nahi hai, wo love hai. Kiunke M usse million times ziyada khoobsurat hai, laykayn jo feelings mere dil mein uss larki ke liye hain nah, wo kisi ke dil mein nahi – wo larki jab hansti hai mera pura din ban jata hai, wo larki jab apne baal pr haath lagati hai, mera pura din roshan hojata hai, aur jab wo funny aur sarcastic mood mein kisi se baat krti hai, mein pighal jata hun. Ab tum mein se koi keh raha hoga ke mera hai toh second love aur meine waada nahi nibhaya, un ke liye mere pas hain ye lafz hain “I don’t give a fuck about your awful opinion” mera M pehla pyaar nahi tha, mera M pehla LUST tha, pyaar mujhe uss larki ke sath hua hai jiski upar baat ho rahi hai, aur abhi bhi agar koi nahi manta iss baat ko, (ye lust aur true love) wali baat, aur kehta hai ke lust aur love kuch nahi hota, M toh first rahe ga no matter what you do. Un logon ke liye mere pas ye lafz hain. “It doesn’t matter if she is my second or my first, or my hundredth. She is the love that made all the other loves irrelevant.” Ab tum log dekh lo kia krna hai mein bhoht sad aur depressed tha isi liye ye likha hai aur har bande ko forward krun ga.