UNIVERSITY OF PERPETUAL HELP SYSTEM-JONELTA

UPH-Dr. Jose G. Tamayo Medical University

City of Binan, Laguna, Philippines

Ocampo, Anjeleeka U. November 11, 2019

N1B Ma’am Ugie Omagap
50 SHADES OF SELF
PART 1

What Will Your Attitude Be?

SITUATIONS YOUR THOUGHTS YOUR FEELINGS YOUR BEHAVIOUR

1. A homosexual - I think that it is only - I would feel happy - I would walk pass
couple holding normal for two for them but sad at them without doing
hands people that are in the same time anything and avoid
love to show their because many eye contact.
love for each other, people don’t
regardless of the approve of
sexuality. homosexuality.

2. Two girls kissing in - I think that it is an - I would feel very -I would immediately
the public transit indecent act to kiss uncomfortable, also divert my eyes from
in public areas. I would feel them.
ashamed for them.

3. Your crush is - I think that they - I would feel sorry - I would get far
having an argument should argue in a for them. from them or even
with his/her love place that they’re change direction
partner alone. when walking to
avoid getting
involved.

4. You have a - I think that having a - I would feel really - I would

sexually transmitted sexually transmitted afraid and frustrated immmediately
infection infection is a at the same time. consult a doctor and
disgrace for our me pay the bills with my
and my family. own savings.

5. Your crush offered - I would think that - I would feel - I would accept his
to accompany you he is just being nice delighted to have offer but keep my
home and that he is him take me home. distance from him.
worried about me.

6. Discovering that - I don’t approve of - I would be - I would still accept

your boyfriend/ having a homosexual surprised and angry him and understand
partner but I am at the same time. him.
girlfriend is a
open-minded about
gay/lesbian
it.

7. Your girlfriend/ - I would think he - I would feel hurt of - I would

only wants sex. what he wants to do. immediately break
boyfriend wants to
up with him.
be sexually intimate
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with you

8. You discovered - I would think that - I would feell guilty - I would hide this to
that you are my life would be and greatly regret my parents and
pregnant/ your ruined if this were to doing irresponsible conceive the baby
girlfriend is pregnant be known by other actions which led me rather than choosing
people. to this situation. abortion.

9. Senior couple - I think its sweet - I would feel fuzzy - I would admire
holding hands and that it looks inside and happy at them from afar.
romantic. the same time.

10. Discovering nude - I would think that - I would feel angry - I would calm myself
pictures of other he is cheating on and very sad. then demand to
people in your me. know the truth.
boyfriend’s/
girlfriend’s phone

PART 2

Sentence Completion
1. To me sex with love is romantic because it has affection rather than just plain lust.
2. To me love with sex is unrighteous because lust overpowers love.
3. To me sex without love is unfair because sex should only be done with someone you
love which also loves you back.
4. To me love without sex is alright because it shows more intimacy and purity.
5. My greatest fear about love is losing it because love is a gift from God.
6. My fear about sex is pain and showing my body because of my insecurity.

REFLECTION
I think that sex can wait and that sex should only be donw if you are ready to have a
family so I pledge to myself that I will only have sex after I get married, I will only have sex
if I am prepared to have a family, I will only have sex if I already have enough money to
support my own familyband I will only have sex after I finish my doctorate degree so I will
have no regrets in the future because I have respect for myself and I want to settle myself
first before I have sex because I know that there is always a possibility for me to become
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City of Binan, Laguna, Philippines

pregnant during intercourse so I need to be careful, avoid and control myself from being
tempted by other people.