Manarpiis, Althea Izza D.

- N1E
I. COMPLETE THE TABLE BELOW

SITUATION YOUR THOUGHTS YOUR FEELINGS YOUR BEHAVIOR

1. A homosexual couple First that comes to my mind is “sana I will feel proud to them because not I will put a big genuine smile on them
holding hands all” because they look good together. all homosexual can hold hands on the and will say that they look good
But foe me it is normal to see public because of the people who are together.
homosexual couple hold hands. judgemental.

2. 2 girls kissing in public There are no laws against 2 girls Just like in the first situation I will I will give them some privacy and will
kissing in public, so why would I mind feel proud of them because some also smile at them and will say “oh
if they kiss in public. people might think that it is sorry, did I disturb you? don’t mind
inappropriate but for me it is normal. me”.

3. Your crush having an It is some demon-ish thinking but I I will feel happy and will feel excited I feel like I will comfort my crush if
argument with his/her think I will ask myself, Why are they about what will happen to them after something happens to them with his
partner arguing? Are they going to break up? the argument. partner and will start to flirt with
I hope that they will. him.

4. You found out you have STD When did I have STD? Where did I I will feel disgusted by myself and will I will freak out and will be afraid to
get it? But I will also think that it feel depressed if I found out I have tell anyone but if I found out my mom
already happened and I will accept it that kind of disease. will be the first to know.
in the end.

5. Your crush offered to I will be confused by what is My face will turn red and I will not
accompany you home Is this real or is this just a dream? happening but at the same time I will be able to speak in a second.
feel excited and intimidated.

6. Discovering your partner is It is okay to me, as long as he still I will feel sad because he didn’t say it I will feel more affection towards him.
a bisexual loves me and treats me the same as to me, but I will feel the same, I will I feel like I will tell him to do
when he still didn’t say it to me. still love him. whatever he wants but not replace me
with another person.
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7 . Your partner wants to be Should I allow him to have sex with I will feel shocked but I think I will I think my behavior will depend on my
sexually intimate with you me? What if I get pregnant? I am feel intimate and will feel the heat mood if I feel like it or not.
still young. between us.

8. You discovered you/your The first thing that will go to my I will feel disappointed and disgusted I will cry and will run to my mother. I
GF is pregnant mind is my mom. What if she dis-own with myself. But I think I will accept will still keep the baby even if
me? the baby because it already happened. something happens or my mom
doesn't accept it.

9. A senior couple holding I wish me and my future partner
hands would be like that at the end of the
day. The sweetness and the intimacy
are still there even if we are already
old.
I will feel jealous and happy for their I hope that they will live longer to
long term relationship. enjoy the small things that they
didn’t have a chance to do when they
were still teenagers.

10. Seeing nude pics of
others on your partner’s
phone
How did he do that to me? Why does
he have nude pics of girls even if he’s
already with me. For me that is
cheating because he is fantasizing
about another girl.
I will feel angry and disgusted by him. I will slap him and walk away if he
admit that he saved it for his own
satisfaction.

II. COMPLETE THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS WITH THE FIRST WORD THAT COMES TO YOUR HEAD

● To me, sex with love is more meaningful, includes deep feelings and emotions for one another.
● To me, sex without love is just an sexual intimacy for the both of you but does not include love.
● To me, love with sex is you love your partner because you only want to have sex with him.
● To me, love without sex is okay if you are not yet ready to have sex as long as you love each other.
● My greatest fear about love is to fall in love deeply. That results in obsession and my world will only revolve around him.
● My greatest fear about sex is to get pregnant and my partner will leave me behind to all of his responsibilities.