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That’s what this next Report in my new series is all about - including the “magic
secrets” of triggering attraction in ANY woman, whether it’s online, in person, or
anywhere for that matter.
In the meantime: if you haven’t read my 1st SPECIAL REPORT, make sure to download
and read it right now - it ties directly into a lot of what we’re going to discuss in this
one.
Now, let’s get started with a quick pop quiz… don’t worry, it’s short and painless...
Here it is:
Can you guess the first question that most men ask me about women and dating?
After all, if you can’t even start a conversation, how can you possibly get a woman to
go out on a date with you? Right?
Truth is, this question cuts to the core of what I want you to take away from this
Report if nothing else. It’s simply this:
Whenever a man asks me what he should say when he first approaches a woman, I
know that he doesn’t quite “get it” yet when it comes to succeeding with women.
That in mind, here’s the first secret that I share with every guy who’s trying to get this
part of his life handled right now:
If you’re wondering what to SAY when you first approach a woman, you’re
focusing on the completely wrong thing.
I’m even going to tell you how to use one small, fairly meaningless word as a “pick-up
line” and have it work like magic with women… that is, once you’re doing everything
ELSE right to trigger and amplify her feelings of ATTRACTION.
Right now, all YOU need to focus on is avoiding the mistakes that almost every guy
makes when it comes to igniting those feelings of attraction in the first place.
In our first Report, we learned about 2 powerful “mindsets” you must bring with you
into EVERY interaction with a woman to make it happen.
Although it sounds a bit counterintuitive on the surface, here’s the truth behind this
apparent contradiction:
Think about it... you are living proof of millions of successful attractions that have
come before you. Your parents, your grandparents, all the way back, it took millions of
males and females getting together before you could exist.
Reality is, most men actually sabotage their chances of success with women by
trying to say and do too much.
We’re tragically out of sync when it comes to this dance, so we end up sending a
woman all of the wrong signals and making all the wrong moves every step of the way.
Is it any wonder that, most of the time, a woman can’t even begin to feel attraction for
us?
When a man DOES know these steps, a woman can’t help but sit up and take notice...
often to the point of having feelings of ATTRACTION before she’s consciously aware
that it’s even happening.
Here’s why:
An attractive woman is approached all day long, over and over again, by men who all
send her just one message:
When I was younger and saw a beautiful woman, all I was thinking was: “I wonder how
I can get her number. I wonder how I can get a date with her.”
Naturally, I would then proceed to formulate brilliant things to say, like: “I’ll tell you
what… I’ll take you anywhere you want to go if you’ll just agree to go out on one date
with me.”
As you can imagine, most of the time all that I got in response was a polite, “No
thanks.”
If I were really lucky, maybe a woman would say, “Aw that’s so sweet...” right before
she said, “No thanks.”
And then, every once in a while, a woman would actually write down her number and
give it to me. I would run home and try to call it…
Point is: men believe we need to say something original and creative to get a woman to
give us a second look.
Even worse, in our desperation to impress, we all end up saying the same brilliant
things… game-killing stuff just like I used to say. Or worst of all, we just freak out,
blow up on the launch pad, and fail to even try.
These are the results (or lack of them) you’ll get every time if you keep coming
into interactions with a woman thinking that you can “say” or “do” something so
new and exciting that she will take notice and feel attraction.
When I was first observing and learning from the guys who were true “naturals” at
succeeding with women, I saw an interesting pattern develop:
These guys NEVER said or did anything with a woman that communicated to her that
she was the one with the power.
These guys would NEVER kiss up. They would never let a woman be the “leader.”
These guys knew instinctively that all of this stuff only switched off the attraction…
and, that once it’s “off,” attraction CANNOT be turned back on again.
Instead, these guys went into every interaction with a mindset that was NOT about
trying to impress a woman, and here’s why it worked:
Attractive women are followed around all day by men who open doors for them...
smile at them... buy them nice things... compliment them… all actions that says
to a woman: “Oh great goddess, I will give you all the power if you’ll just give me
a scrap of attention and approval.”
All SHE sees is one more guy (like the 99.9% of other guys) who’s tripping over
himself to give his power away.
All you have to do is come across like that one-in-a-thousand guy who KEEPS his
power and composure by not letting a woman lead him around, and you’ll have
her FULL ATTENTION, guaranteed.
In other words, to win this game, the ultimate magic secret is communicating that YOU
are the one doing the selecting and that you're VERY selective.
All of your communications (whether it’s using words, gestures, voice tone, eye
contact, or body language) must say that YOU are the one who’s in control of your life,
your choices, your reality, and this situation. That you’ve got a lot of options and a lot
to do.
This one mindset alone will seismically change your dynamic - and your success - with
women!
Try it… start keeping your power for yourself and notice how differently women begin
to respond to you.
I guarantee that the results you get will blow your mind.
Until then:
You’re going to dive into the nuts and bolts of what it REALLY takes to create and
amplify attraction, including:
● how to use the power of body language to get instant RESULTS with women
● how to do everything RIGHT to avoid rejection
● how to pass all of a woman tests (HINT: there are a LOT of them - they never
stop!)
As an added BONUS…
I’m also going to reveal that one small word we talked about… one that ANY guy can
use as a killer “pick-up” line and have it work like magic with women.
Get out there and start using what you’ve learned in this SPECIAL REPORT - and look
for my 3rd and FINAL “Dating And Attraction” Report coming up soon.
Your Homework:
1. Think about the last time you were in a room with a woman you felt attracted
to or wanted to ask out. What did you do and say… if anything at all? Really
think about it - how much of your behavior was about trying to win her
approval or impress her?
2. Take a moment and write out in detail what you did wrong… and how you
SHOULD have handled the situation instead. Carry this note around with you as
a reminder and a guide for how you’ll deal with the situation NEXT time.
3. Knowing what you now know about triggering attraction, come up with as many
ways as you can think of for making a woman sit up and notice you (in a
POSITIVE way)… all WITHOUT using any words at all.