 Why Some Facilitators Do not Facilitate

FLIES PROGRAM  Secret for Growth

DEVOTIONAL  Secret in Establishing a Charisma

 Technique In Dealing Bored Question
ORIENTATION  Facilitators Wheel
 List of Materials
 History  Guidelines in Conducting FLIES Program
 Part of FLIES in the church  Songs – Requirement for Workshop
 Purpose of workshop
 Goal
 Activity
PART 1 FACILITATING SKILLS 1
 Temperament Test
FACILITATORS SKILLS HISTORY OF FLIES
 Vision
 Mission SUMMER – A BLESSING
 Theme God is God of order. God has always a season. Moreover, He
 Facilitators’ need for pre- facilitating calls everyone to participate in advancement for His cause, especially
 Role on living warning message to the perishing world.
 Rules It was a hot summer of May 1994;the youth of Metro Cagayan
 Mind Setting Adventist Youth Society a Summer Camp at Barangay
 Policy for Facilitators Lagnaon,Baungon, Bukidnon. This Summer Camp was attended also by
 Principles in Facilitating a Group Youth of West Magnetic Adventist Youth Society ( WESTMAG,
 Guiding Question AYS). While the youth is having their program, the youth learn that the
 How to Start and How To Finish your Topics area has no Adventist yet. Before the camping end, the leaders of
 Mature and Immature FLIES MCAYS met and proposed that after the camping they will come back
 Bible Principles and make friendship evangelism. The camping was successfully
WORKSHOP MODULE done and was a blessing to the youth.
 Orientation
 Health and Soul ANSWERED PRAYER
 Let’s Talk About It
 Relating to Parents After the camping, the leaders met again to follow – up the
 In Contact With Others proposal. The group agreed to carry on the plan. But before they
 Investigative Judgment proceeded to the area they asked the guidance of The Lord. In one-
 Testimonies week time they make earnest prayers together in one accord.
 Last Days with Markings
 Redemption

1
 The Lord bless them for He prepare a house and a land to till
by the youth and the Barangay Captain accepted the youth with
warmest welcome together with the resident of that place.
FRIENDSHIP EVANGELISM
June 13 of the year 1994, Pastor Samuel Galarpe, the yout
director together with the youth proceeded to Langaon, with great joy
in their heart that once again they can participate in the Lord’s work. At
that time, they start making friends with the people by saying “
Maayong buntag Noy, Nang” with maayong udto,” ur “hapon”. Then
they played basketball with them, they helped in the harvest of corn
then so with the Bible / follow.
THE TRAINING GROUND
The Lord Jesus is particularly very much on training. Moses was
trained in the wilderness and he learned how to become meek. The
apostle prepares also the Langaon as a training ground for the youth.
He teaches them how to depend always to the father above, to trust
Him always and to deny self. The Lord desired to this youth to submit
to His will for if they will their instituted knowledge they will not become
effective workers of His vineyard. Some of this youth volunteers are
professionals; lay member and some are undergraduate. The Lord is
not looking at your profession as long as you are willing to do the
assigned task. In this place, they learned how to live in a simple way
and they learned how to survive even without financial support from
the organized group. They learn how to extend an effort without
sufficient budget, the only capital is the prayer. They learn how to
travel without money for they believe that the Lord is the owner of
everything. The place was prepared by God, a place how to become
more understanding, and a place to know what is really the plan of the
Lord for each one of them.
BIRTH OF FLIES
For there is a season for everything, a time to plant and a time
to harvest, a time to live and a time to die, a time to come and a time
2
to go. Then the time came to leave the area of friendship evangelism
was finish.
Form then they again meeting each other and continue serving
the Lord, again in the city. They start again meeting each other and
innovated a program, and it came to birth a program FLIES, for it is not
enough to send only letters and voice tape but to see them face to face
and to contact them personally. For the theme of this program is
Reading Changing one life at a time. The young people believe that
they by reaching others are also viewing their faith, while waiting for
the coming of Jesus.
GOD IN HIS TIME
The Lord Jesus will not come unless the people of God will go
and preach Mt. 24:14, and if that people of God will not be ready on
that great day. The youth believe that like in the time of Joseph, Daniel
and David the Lord uses the youth. In our days, God also uses the
youth through this program in preparing people for the soon coming of
Jesus in the clouds of heaven. Because there are a lot of young and old,
SDA and non-SDA were blessed as they sincerely attended and
participate the program. Their lives, theirs ways and habits were
gradually change into Christ likeness, through the help of the Lord the
program has already reach Negros, Cebu , Masbate, Manila, Davao,
Butane, Surigao, Bukidnon, Cotabato, Zamboanga, Basilan, Iligan,
Camiguin, Misamis Oriental, Cagayan and we are hoping that someday
the invitation outside the country will be materialized.
MISUNDERSTOOD
When the workers are in the vineyard the worker also of the
eneby is there. While having their work they were misunderstood by
some of the resident. They thought this group of youth is infiltrator or
leftist, which will insinuate again a bad ideology. This group was
reported to the PNP of Baungon and Talakag, Bukidnon. So the PNP
send an intelligence group that will monitor every activity they have.
Every morning the intelligence passes in the house where youth reside.
There came at time that one Sabbath, a team of a soldier meet the 4. To develop and train the youth to become responsible
team of the youth in a house of their Bible student. There they make Sabbath School Facilitator.
friends with the soldiers. Sometimes on their way to the garden, to the 5. To remind our youth that they have a great part in the
river and on they’re way back home, they meet this person with a smile master’s work.
and nods, for they do not know that the youth known them. Because 6. To remind brethren that now is the time to prepare for the
the Lord is with the youth and they are safe, for they give their lives to coming of Jesus.
Him. 7. To revive our brethren.

LIKE ISAIAH’ S TIME B. 1.The program did not teach to go against the government.
2. The program did not teach to go against church leaders.
While they are having friendship evangelism in Langaon, every 3. The program is only supplement if needed.
weekend they went down to the city to perform their respective task in
their designated churches and get some supply collected / contributed PURPOSE OF WORKSHOP
by some who supported the youth. It is in this way that the people
above and in the city will be blessed like in the time of Isaiah. From 1. To be able to know deeper details of each subject.
then, one innovated program came; they can it LBROS, meaning letters 2. To give more emphasis to the important points.
beyond rivers over the Sea. The ministry of this program is to send 3. To study more technique in facilitating.
letter and voice tape to friends with encouragement, hope and message 4. To know more information about present situation.
about Jesus Love and His coming. And many friends were blessed
through this program. Because they believe that education is a lifetime, GOAL OF WORKSHOP
they were able to attend the AY2Y program and Sabbath School
Congress and some other grounds. At the same time they come to mind 1. To have a principled youth for God.
that they will innovate a program out of the LBROS AY2Y and Sabbath 2. To have a spirited youth, who will work hand in hand with
school. all programs, in nurturing our brethren.
3. To have an effective Sabbath school facilitators.
This manual was produce based upon the experience and nods 4. To be able to facilitate well.
of the facilitators. If ever that you have some suggestions, clarification
or any opinion which you think will make the program grow, just
contact the coordinator of every chapter for further improvement. ACTIVITY

PART OF FLIES PROGAM IN THE CHURCH 1. Let them list down all character of Jesus they know.
(at least 5 minutes after writing them all).
A. 1. To help our church by strengthening its doctrine. 2. Let them check from the list what character of Jesus they
2. To put a brace to the falling foundation of our church. now exercise.
3. To help our ministers, church leaders in shepherding and
nurturing not only to our youth but also to all. Generous helpful peaceful dependable
Kind sympathetic honest good listener

3
Humble unselfish calm love sufferer 20. Lack of self-motivation and is not goal oriented
Merciful thoughtful optimistic industrious 21. Seeks practical solutions.
Perfect meek thankful courageous 22. Stories are exaggerated and elaborated.
Considerate caring just diligent 23. Details conscious, schedule oriented.
Loving empathetic brave prayerful 24. Enjoy watching people, kindhearted and sympathetic.
Gracious loyal gentle humility 25. Organizes and promotes well.
Forgiver slow to anger temperate 26. I could hardly remember names.
Understanding compassionate joyful 27. I usually get depressed at any angle of imperfection.
Friendly sharing trustworthy 28. Don’t offend, diplomatic, good listener and peacemaker.
29. Tends to dominate others.
TEMPERAMENT TEST 30. Makes friend easily.
31. Serious, purposeful and genius prone.
5-Strongly Agree 32. Have stability in influence, yet lazy and careless.
4-GA General Agree 33. Dynamic and active.
3-N Neural 34. I’m always the center of attraction.
2-GD Generally disagree 35. Emotionally artistic and musical.
1–SD Strongly disagree 36. Conservative.
37. Not easily discourage.
1. Decisive and don’t vacillate. 38. Has loud voice and laugh.
2. I tend to make good first impression 39. Too introspective and self-centered.
3. set high standards if I talk of goals. 40. Attitude of superiority.
4. having a high sense of administrative ability. 41. Fearless and bold.
5. Bold and quick in emergencies. 42. Undisciplined and have priorities out of order.
6. There can be funny sides even in difficult situations. 43. Philosophical and poetic.
7. I usually spend too much time planning. 44. Too shy and reticent.
8. Ready to get along with, pleasant. 45. Independent and self-sufficient.
9. Goal oriented. 46. Sincere of heart.
10. I usually dominate conversation. 47. Has to finish what he has been started.
11. I’m persistent and thorough. 48. Mediated problem.
12. Not exciting, stays uninvolved and emotional. 49. Exudes confidence.
13. Usually thrive in opposition. 50. Curios on anything.
14. Appear to be demonstrative and emotional. 51. Is good under pressure.
15. Self-discipline. 52. Sacrifices own will for others.
16. Patient, relax, easygoing and dependable. 53. Car runs anything.
17. Delegates’ work. 54. Apologizes quickly.
18. Good sense of humor. 55. Get move to tear with compassion.
19. Economical, tidy and organized. 56. Reluctant to lead

4
57. Insist on production.
58. Is easily destructed
59. Low self-esteem
60. Takes care for the children
61. Moves quickly to action
62. Thinks no new activities
63. Sees the problem
64. Have many friends.
65. Will work for group activities.
66. Colorful and created.
67. Keeps home in good order
68. Has compassion and concern
69. Exerts sound leadership
70. Cheerful and bubbling over

S C M P

1__ 2__ 3__ 4___

5__ 6___ 7___ 8___
9__ 10__ 11___ 12___
13__ 14___ 15___ 16___
17___ 18___ 19___ 20___
21___ 22___ 23____ 24___
25___ 26____ 27____ 28___
29___ 30___ 31___ 32___
33____ 34___ 35___ 36___
37____ 38___ 39___ 40___
41____ 42___ 43___ 44___
45___ 46___ 47___ 48___
49___ 50___ 51___ 52___
53___ 54___ 55___ 56___
57___ 58___ 59___ 60___
61___ 62___ 63___ 64___
65___ 66___ 67___ 68___
69___ 70___ 71___ 72___

5
YOUR PERSONALITY: ITS STRENGTH AND WEAKNESSES

CHOLERIC- the Doer

6

Strength
Weakness
- born leader
bossy and highly opinionated
- goal oriented
-has low tolerance for mistakes
- bold and quick in
-doesn’t analyze details
emergencies
- usual thrive in opposition
-may takes rush decision
- delegates work
-may be rude and tactless
- seeks practical solutions
-manipulates people
- organizes and promote well
-demanding of others
- tends to dominate others
-overly self confidence
-dynamic and active
-may make work his god
-not easily discourage
-hard to please impatient
-fearless and bold
impatient
- exudes confidence
-enjoys controversies, arguments
- independent and self sufficient
not complimentary
- insist on production
-cant say, I’m sorry
- moves quickly to action
-sensitive to needs of others
- will work for group activities
-dislikes tears and emotions
- exerts sound leadership
SANGUIN – the talker
Srengths
Weaknesses
-tends to make good imp
-undependable, late
ression
-turns disaster into humor
-forgets obligation
-demonstrative and emotional of imperfection -doesn’t forgive easily
-wants to be popular -moody and depressed -shy and insecure socially
-good sense of humor -serious, purposeful and genius- -low self-esteem
-decides by feeling -enjoy being hurt -gets theoretical
- -make friends easily prone -chooses difficult work
-undisciplined -prune to guilt feeling often sets standards too high
-always the center of attraction -emotionally artistic and musical
-waste time in talking -suspicious
-sincere of heart -introspective and self-centered
-cant remember names
-lives in the present
-controlled by circumstances
-curious
-gets angry easily
-apologizes quickly PHLEGMATIC-the watcher
-priorities are out of order
-thinks up of new activities
-hates to be alone Strengths
-creative and colorful Weaknesses
-doesn’t follow through
-cheerful and bubbling over -is not goal oriented
-has restless energy -resents being pushed
-isn’t bored easily -lazy and careless
-exaggerates and elaborates -procrastinates
-volunteers for job -tends to be slow
- -dwells on trivia -indecisive
-doesn’t hold grudges -avoid conflict
-never grown up
-
-is -repeats stories r
el
u
MELANCHOLY- the thinker ct
a
n
Strengths
t
Weaknesses t
o
-sets high standard le
-gets depressed at imperfection a
-persistent and thorough d
-hesitant to start project -plans work before beginning
-self-discipline
-spend too much time in -
st
planning u
-economical, tidy and organized b
-self-depreciating b
-detail conscious scheduled oriented o
-has a deep need of approval r
-usually get depressed at any angle n
-dwells on negative -conservative
7
 -dependable Your basic temperament Your Basic Problems:
-
and tendencies won’t change 1. You think you’re
attit -
ude av through your life. But there can always right.
of oid be a big difference between 2. You like to be self-
sup s temperament and behavior. sufficient.
erio res
Through understanding new
rity po
-practical nsi habits, and especially the work Areas for Growth:
bili of the Holy Spirit in your life, 1. Be willing to share
- ty you can control, modify or even leadership
self- -constant and faithful
righ
get rid of negative behaviors. 2. Welcome
teo - Then you can have all the humiliating trials
us sel strengths of a temperament 3. Cultivate a friendly
-calm, cool, patient fis without the weaknesses. spirit
h
- an
Remember that God has 4. Learn to relax
stay d great need for every 5. Develop a childlike
s sti temperament type. And when faith
unin ng you look through the Bible, you
volv y
ed -happily reconciled to life
can see now He has used each SANGUINE:
-well-balanced one: Peter was probably
- sanguine. Paul seems to have How to grow: Proverbs 10:19
-is lax been choleric. King David was a “Don’t talk to much you keep
not an
exci d
melancholy. And Abraham putting your foot in your
ting dis appears to be phlegmatic. mouth. Be sensible and turn off
-enjoys watching people cip In the next discussion the flow.’
lin see how you can grow. Pray
-is e
indif
“God change me”. And when Your Basic Problems
fere God show you are a needing 1.You don’t take life
nt MAKING THE MOST OF YOU change, confess and be open to seriously
to His instructions and 2.You have a hard time
plan
s Each person has a transforming power. following
-sympathetic, kind hearted combination of temperament Remember Philippians
traits. One temperament is not 4:13 “I can do all things through Areas for Growth:
- Christ who gives me strength”. 1.Develop consistency
better than another. All the
jud
ges temperament has strengths and and discipline
oth all have weaknesses. Each of 2.Be careful of how
ers your negative traits has positive CHOLERIC: much you talk
-good listener 3.Cultivate your
counterparts, and weaknesses
-too are all have in common pride How to grow: James 1:19 memory
com and selfishness – find a different “everyone should be quick to 4.Develop consistent
pro expression in each listen, slow to speak and slow to quite times with God
misi become angry.”
ng
temperament.
MELANCHOLY
8
 Reaching others and -Know your need
How to grow: Phil. 4:13 “ I can reviving ones faith. -Know your
do all things to Christ who giveth temperament
me strength” -Know the policy
-Know the
Your Basic Problems: principles/rules in
1.You have negative facilitating
feeling about your feeling -Know the common
2.Because of your THEME problem in facilitating
perfectionist tendencies, you get -Know how to start and
very discourage. end your discussion
-Know the different
Areas for Growth: position
1.Cheer up! Dwell on -Know the facilitators
positive wheel( Personality &
2.Develop a healthy self- Reaching, Changing one life Function)
image at a time
3.Develop a thinker skill 4. Know your topic
4.Relax -Know how to
5.Build joy in your emphasize
religion -Know what to
emphasize
PHLEGMATIC: -Know the activity and
FACILITATORS NEED FOR song every topic
How to grow: Ephesians 5:16 PRE-FACILITATING
“Be very careful, then how you
V I S I O N 5. Know your time limit
lived- not as wise, making most 1. Power of the Holy Spirit -Span of time each
of every opportunity.” Zech. 4:16, Matt. 10:20 subject (time allotted)
Leading people to Christ while Work of the Holy Spirit
Your Basic Problems: attaining spiritual maturity. -teaches 6. Know the Bible
1.You have uninvolved -searches principles
attitude -guide - Text that,
2.You feel self-righteous -intercedes support your
-help answer on the
Areas for Growth: -remind specific
SDA BC – V. 8, 505
1.Get involved
2.Learn to make
M I S S I O N question

decisions 2. Christ likeness 7. Know the guiding

3.Stand for principle -Phil. 2:5 question or how to
4.Share your Feelings -Steps of Christ Pp.42 facilitate
5.Get in touch with your
spiritual need 3. Know yourself
9
 - Art of FACILITATOR: Who make -name tags s
questioning easier -ply board s
- Art of driving to -cassette player
the point of the -cassette tape o
discussion THE ROLE OF FACILITATOR -ball pens/pencils r
-extra paper
8. Know how to answer -as facilitator -candles f
basic question, inquiry -as coordinator -blind fold o
and objection -as back-up r
Your Role as Back-up m
- Art in answering Your Role as Facilitator -assist facilitator a
basic question -act as president l
- Art in aligning to -friendly -patient -act as song leader
the way of God -consolidated ideas -initiate silent prayer
- Art in clarifying -kind -forbearing -act as secretary a
things not clear -mediator -provide t
-fair -a good all need of t
9. Have an extra examples, listener -moderator i
illustration, maps, visual -humble -a good model facilitato r
aids, etc. -summarize r e
-counselor -innovative
- It helps easily -motivator HOUSEHOLD RULES DURING (
understood -have initiative FLIES PROGRAM i
- It helps to catch -do not time set  For Facilitators t
attention of the -do not argue - ’
audience FLIESSE and co- w s
facilitators e
10. Know your audience Note: (All Facilitators must a a
follow to the request of the r
- Tribes and Coordinator m
language spoken during FLIES program) S u
- Educational a s
attainment b t
- Their Your Role as Coordinator b )
temperament -acquaint FLIESEE a -
- Number -orient FLIESEE t o
- Needs -time keeper h p
-assign Facilitator p
-pair old and new d o
FACILITATE: r s
Makes easier Prepare the following: e i
t
10
e n S r
s E e
e u E
x t - p
m e w r
u n e e
s s a p
t i r a
b l r
e s a e
- d
s p S -
e r a o
p e b p
a p b p
r a a o
a r t s
t e h i
e t
d f d e
d o r
u o e s
ri d s e
n s x
g f
b o o m
e r r u
d s
ti F t t
m L h
e I e b
. E e
- S
w E b
a E e s
s s e
h  For t p
k F a
it L a r
c I t a
h E t t
e i e
11
 d 1. Stick to the time limit 5. Bring bible and other when others
d 2. Strive for unity or references always are still talking.
u presentation 6. Less Gregorian charts - Look at the
ri 3. Separate children from 7. Keep discussion relevant eyes of the
n adolescent 8. Do not kill ideas talking
g 4. Schedule program at least 9. Affirm people FLIESEE. (Let
b one earlier 10. Draw out opinions, them fell that
e 5. Prepare for each spiritually, feelings, facts ect. most smile get
d mentally, socially and 11. Build up a lively climate smile… smile is
ti physically. 12. Ensure responsibility and no tax, no
m 6. Avoid monopoly of accountability for every EVAT and
e discussion decision or task reached. nerves are
. 7. Accept participants ideas exercised)
in humility COMMON PROBLEM IN - Never give
MIND SETTING 8. Abide coordinators rules FACILITATING A GROUP unnecessary
9. Make presentation facial
The Facilitator of relevant and 1. Lack of proper physical set expression and
workshop will divide interesting up destructive
them into small group (6- 10. Never facilitate without 2. Starting late gestures.
10 members in a group) prior workshop 3. Ineffective presentation of (FLIESEE may
let them plan to conduct 11. Discuss first topic right facts and figures get discourage)
a FLIES program at least after orientation. 4. No mode starter - Give positive,
30 participants, the group (Optional) 5. No discussion decision commendable
will create different 12. Limit group size to 6-10 reached comments, not
committees as needed, participants as negative
they will decide when to possible reinforcement.
conduct, where to 13. Ensure participants of GUIDING QUESTION - Discourage the
conduct, who will act as facilitators shy type.
coordinator, Facilitator 14. Implement alternative plan Our Role while (Touch their
for every topic, back-up, in case of facilitating in small group heart)
dish washer, pitcher and unforeseen - As Facilitator, - Give life , be
etc. circumstances. you have to win friendly.
the confidence - Use index card.
Note: Try to look PRINCIPLES IN of the FLIES; tell (To venture the
back to the facilitators’ FACILITATING A GROUP them that we avenue of
role and to the prepared are equal in the FLIES goat)
program at the handout. 1. Utilize index card for every sight of our Holy - Grow from your
topic God. shortcoming
POLICY FOR 2. Minimize dependent notes - Request/remind and not to fall
FACILITATORS 3. Formal attire each FLIESEE to to that same
4. Avoid jokes & public remain silent pit again.
display of affection
12
 - Put in mind the
goals and
objectives of
FLIES.
Four Phases of Facilitating
Process
1. Start with experience or
activity Ex: Friendship;
- Small group sharing
What do you
- Small group discussion
feel being close
- Triad
to someone?
2. Gathering of Feedbacks
- Reporting – sharing of insight
and learning of
discoveries.
- Sharing of Feelings
3. Deepening/ Integrating
- Friendship (true one)
- Spiritual dimension (Friend is
Jesus)
4. Life Integration (Request
mental)
- Reflection
- Sharing of Learning
FACILITATORS FINALE:
Critiquing
Skills involve in Facilitating
1. Art of listening
2. Art of integrating
3. Guiding question
- Opening prayer
2 Kinds of Question: - Introduction: start with ATTITUDE
greetings
1.Open Question -is - Activity THE MATURE AND
answerable by explanation, - Introduce your topic IMMATURE PERSONALITY
with 4 Cardinals plus H. - Start to emphasize IN THE CHURCH, IN THE
What, Where. When and important points (use SMALL GROUP & FLIESEE
How. facilitating skills)
Ex: Why are you here? - Deliver briefly, concise and
must be understood MATURE ATTITUDE
2. Close Question is - Use the illustrations, facts,
answerable by yes or no. figures, visual aids, ect. PROPOSER
Ex: Would you agree? - Let FLIESEE participate -Introduce new ideas
-use guiding question -Initiate idea and action
FACILITATORS must posses -call their names -Formulate ideas
the following through activities -Keep things moving
characteristics: - Ask if they have question,
1. Open criticism for addition and ENCOURAGER
growth as Christian clarification, ect. -Bring other to discussion
2. Honest/true to his - Make generalization -Emphasize the value of
convection - Closing song suggestion to others
3. Live FLIES in your heart - Closing prayer -Lift up ideas
4. Loving -Give comments
5. It has positive values in -Give activity
life and other live. DIFFERENT
SETTING POSITION CLARIFIER
FOOD FOR THOUGHT -Mediator
* * -No confusion
An average facilitator tells * * -Make issue clear and concise
A good facilitator explain * * Peacemaker
A superior facilitator *
demonstrates ANALYZER
A great facilitator inspires -Examine suggestion closely
-Give clear suggestion
Question: What kind of -Weigh things before accepting
facilitator am I?
CENTICIZER
HOW TO START AND HOW -Able to capsulate things
TO FINISH YOUR TOPIC -Able to integrate ideas
- Opening song EXPLORER
13
 -Always moving in different -Mr. Trio Isaiah 41:10 - Saad (ayaw pasaylo sa walay
areas -Independent to the subject at kahadlok) . . . katapusan . . .
-Innovative hand Juan 10:23-24 -Pangayo sa Romans 8:28 -All things work
-Never satisfied with traditional -Clever (avoid responsibilities) ngalan ni ginoong Jesus . . . work together . . .
obvious people Matt. 18:3 -Pagkasama sa 2Cor 6:14 -Ayaw
-Promote harmony between HITCH HIKER bata . . . pakigsangun . . .
members -The rider (sakay-sakay) Prob. 22:6 -Karnero wala Deut 7:3
-Seek to find conclusion -No originality pa sa toril . . . Exudos 4:15-16 -Siya makigsulti
acceptable to others -No own opinion Lukas 2:27 -Batasan ni sa atong bahin . . .
-He is to go between -Unwilling to commit Jesus . . . Isaiah 1:18 -Ang sala iyang
Mateo 10:20 -Dili mabalaka papution . . .
THE PLEADER sa isulti . . . Buhat 5:29 -Unahon ang
IMMATURE ATTITUDE -Always pleading for an action Roma 2:12 -Tanang Dios kaysa tao . . .
-Pessimistic magpakasala . . . Heb. 7:25 -Pasaylo sa
ON LOOKER -Shares his burden always Juan 15:5 -Malaglag wala sala . . .
-Stays uninvolved (“tigtan-aw”) -Avoid responsibilities kitay mahimo . . . 1Juan 1:19 -Pasaylo sala . .
-Spectator 1Tes. 5:18 - .
-Frown (to look with disapproval) THE SUCKER Magmapasalamaton . . . Matt.10:36-37 }-Ang pamilya
-Smile, nods -Easily cheated (deceived) 1Tes 5:18 -Ampo sa walay Lukas 14:26-27
-He/She is just a passenger than -Irritable (sensitive) hunong. . . mosalikway nimo . .
a crew -Resentful (dali masakitan) Mateo 5:10-12 -bulahan ang John 15:19 }-Dauton ka sa
gilutos . . . kalibutan
MONOPOLIZER BIBLE PRINCIPLE Lukas 17:3-4 & Mateo 18:12 Mark 8:34
-He/She wants to talk always James 2:10 -10-1=0
-Undisciplined (ramble) Matt.6: 33 - Seek ye first - Phil. 2:5 -Batuni ang
-Exaggerated and elaborate the kingdom…. P hunahuna nga diha kang
(lingaw-lingawon niya ang Matt. 11:25 - Forgive and a Kristo . .
discussion) you will be forgiven… g Phil.2:4 -Ayaw
-Make destruction in meeting 1 John 2:1 - Jesus the hunahuna ng amayo pa ka sa
-HE/She monopolize the mediator . . . uban . . .
discussion Jer. 29:11 - God knows Exudos 20 -10 Command
best for us . . . ments
THE BELITTLER Acts 3:16 - Power in the Mateo 16:25-26 -Mopatunhay
-Criticizer name of Jesus . . . sa kinabuhi . . .
-Call him Mr. Gloom Titus 3:5 -Giluwas sa dili Eccl. 4:10 -Duha mas
-He/She turns down the idea of maayong buhat . . . mayo kay sa isa
others 1Pedro 5:7 -Itugyan ang Mateo 7:24 -Dili tanan
-He/She feels know everything kabalaka . . . moingon nga Ginoo, Ginoo
-H/She underestimate others Juan14:1-3 -Jesus nag-
andam ug balay . . . maluwas . . .
THE WISE CRACKER 1 Cor 10:13 -Pagsulay Rev 2:10 -Ganti sa
-Always make unnecessary jokes adunay utlanan . . . molahutay . . .
14
Mateo 24:13 -Ang mulahutay 1Tim.4 :12 -Ayaw Gal.6:1-3 -Pagyayungay Give the story of the ignorant
mamaluwas . . . pasagdiing dunay motamay nimo kamo sa usag-usag . . . person:
Prov 16:1-3 -itugyan ang ... Juan 13:15 -Copy God’s
tanan kay Jehova . . . Deut. 29:29 -Sekreto iya sa example . . . May taong tga- bukid,
Lukas 4:4 -Ang tao dili Diyos . . . Joshua 24:15 -Pagpili karong miadto sa siyudad kay gibati’g
mabuhi sa tinapay lang . . . Deut.15:12 -Hatag sa walay adlawa . . . kagutomMisulod sa tindahan
Heb. 10:12 -Dili mobiya sa suko . . . Salmo 55:17 }-Ampo 3 ka (super store) dili man sya
pagtigum . . .. Mateo 7:7 -Saad . . . beses kada adlaw kabalo unsaon pag- order,
Mateo 18:20 -Usa o tulo James 1:5 - Saad sa Salmo65:5 naghulathulat ug naniid una
mohisgot naa sya . . . kaalam . . . 1Cor. 13 -Gugma sya. Pagkataudtaud may toa ng
1Tim. 5:1 -Ayaw kasb- I Epeso 6:3 -Amahan ayaw Rev. 1:3 -Bulahan ang a nag order ug makaon. Iyang
ang lalaki nga tigulang . . . pasuk a ang anak . . . tao nga magbas . . . gitan-aw ang mao nga tao.
2Tim. 1:17 -Wlakita hatagi Roma 12:21 -Dag –a ang Gal. 5:22-25 -Bunga sa Unya mitawag sya ug waiter ug
ug spiritu sa katalaw . . . dautan sa maayo . . . ispirito . . . miingon “ taga-I ko ug sama
Mateo 5:4-8 -Kinahanglan Roma 12:19 -Ang balus iya 1Cor. 6:12 -Tanang butang adtong gikaon sa tao”. Siya
kita magmahingpit . . . sa Ginoo . . . ikatugot gitagaan. Kay dili man sya
Rev 1:17 -Tanang mata Prob. 16:25 -Dala nga -dili tanan mayo kabalo unsao kadto pagkaon,
makakita . . . matarung . . . Mateo 5:22 -Ayaw ingna iyang giuna ang ibabaw ng
Heb. 12:2 -Tan- aw lang Prob.19: 12 -Buotang asawa ang imong igsoon nga bahin.Gitab-angan sya sa iyang
kang Jesus . . . gikan sa Diyos . . . kuwanggol ka, pagkaon sa ibabaw nga bahin ,
Mateo 5:14-16 -Kita mga Juan 21:22 -Ayaw pagbuot . buang ka . . . . mipadayon sya ug kaon unya
suga . . . .. 1Cor.6: 9 -Walay bayot ng nakaabot sya sa tungatunga
Prob 3:5-7 -Sa imong 1Juan2: 4 -Nakaila wala makasulod sa nga bahin sa iyang pagkaon ug
dalan ilha siya . . . mutuman - bakakon . . . gingharian sa mibati na sya ug kalami, unya
Lukas 6:27 -Higugmaa ang Matt.12: 35-37 -Idle words . . . Dios . . . samtang nagakalalom ang
kaaway . . . Eccl.12: 14 1Cor.3: 16 -Lawas templo pagkaon na ngakalami kini ug
1Pedro 1:16 -Kinahanglan Daniel 7:10; 13-14 }- sa Dios nahurot niya ang maong
magbalaan . . . Mahitungod sa paghukom . . . Roma 15:1 -Ang gisulat pagkaon.
Prob.15:1 -Bugnaw nga 1Pedro 4:17 kaniudto , Kay gikulangan man sya ,
tubag mawala sa kasuko . . . Daniel 1:9-10 gisulat sa gaitawag niya ang waiter ug
Roma 2:1 -Ayaw paghukom Daniel 7:13-14 } Mga basahon pagtuon karon . . . miingon “ taga-I ra ko pag usab
... sa langit . . . Roma 13:12 -Gugma niadtong pagkaon nga
Epeso 4:26 -Ayaw paslupi Lukas 10:20 katumanan sa kasuguan . . . nagakalalom nagakalami”.
amg kasuko . . . Rev.10: 20 }-Basahon sa Roma 9:20 -Kinsa ka nga
Epeso 4:30 -Ayaw sakit ang kinabuhi . . . magtubag-tubag sa Dios . . . (Cut ang estorya)
espirito . . . Rev.21: 27
Epeso 5:25 -Bana higumaa Fil. 4:3 Ang maong pagkaon usa ka
ang asawa . . . Mal.3: 10 }-Basahon sa Author Emphasis: Ask them to halu-halu nga wala na mixed.
Epeso 6:1 -Anak pagsugot handumanan . . . try to finish the program so that
sa ginikanan . . . Neh.13:14 they will be filled, etc. (Relate the story to the
Epeso 6:18 -Pag ampo sa Isaiah 65:6-7 -Basahon sa program)
tanan panahon . . . mga sala . . .
15
 Ang FLIES programa white flour is b. Less
sama sa pagkaon nga ACTIVITY: [Action Name] not best. whol
nagakalalum nagakalami. Ayaw Everyone will choose esom
siya humana sa tungatunga kay action he/she wants then let the a. Lack of e
dili unya nimo matilawan ang group know it. The group will nutritive c. Ferm
lami nga anaa sa katapusan. Kay simultaneously utter the name of element ents
gisugdan nimo kung mahimo the person with specific action b. Not rapidl
tapusa. he/she chose, they will do it healthful y
after the other until every nor
Household Rules [see rules] member is finished. economical 4.) Hot or new
c. Frequen raise bread of
Closing Song Text: Exodus 15:26; 1Cor.6: 19- t cause of any kind is
20:Gen.3: 18 constipation difficult to
Closing Prayer Health And Happiness digest.
Pp.211 2.) The use of soda 5.) Twice baked
HEALTH AND SOUL or baking bread is one of
Define Health powder in bread the most easily
Definition of World is harmful and digested and
GENERAL OBJECT: To glorify Health Organization (WHO) unnecessary. most palatable
God through the relationship Health is a state of a. It foods.
of Health complete physical, mental, social cause 6.) The use of milk
and Diet and spiritual well being not s and sugar
merely the absent of disease or inflam taken together
SPECIFIC OBJECTIVE: infirmities matio should be
1. To select and combine n in avoided.
food correctly Complete stoma 7.) Ill-cooked food
2. To apply the basic State ch deprives the
principles in food Of b. Poison blood by
preparation. the weakening the
3. To recognize the whole blood making
importance of Phsycho soma = body & mind syste organs.
NEWSSTART. Psycho = mind m - canned
4. To cite Biblical examples Soma = body foods -
to the velocity of the 3.) Milk should not refined sugar
principle What affects our mind affects be used instead - noodles - smoked or
our body. of water in the prickled
PRESIDER: Back-up making of raise foods
PREPARATION OF FOOD or yeast bread. - salty foods
OPENING SONG: I am Alive, a. Additi - Kinilaw
Alert, Alert 1.) For the use in onal
bread making, expen REGULARIY IN EATING
OPENING PRAYER: the superfine se
16
1. Eat only what the system 6. Do not eat when eaten, in order that body; every organ
requires. (No junks foods, you are excited, the mind may be involve waste and this
process foods, coffee, anxious, or in a clear and waste is
tea, soft drinks, hurry. vigorous to repaired from our
chocolate, cakes, etc.) 7. Eat-slow chew comprehend food
2. No eating between meals food at least 36 spirituals. -Each organ of the
3. No eating just before times, because 2.Aclogged stomach body requires its share
bedtime the more you means a clogged of
a. Digestion not chew, the more brain. nutrition.
properly saliva then more
accomplished nutrients will be REFORM ON DIET
b. Sleep is disturb absorbed.
with unpleasant There are men and
dreams THE EVIL OF women of excellent mental OUR BODY MACHINE
c. Awakes not OVEREATING ability who do not accomplish
refresh haft what they might, if they >Heart -it produces
4. Five or six hours should 1. The digestive would exercise self control in more or less 100,000 beats a
intervene between meals. organs loss their denial of appetite day
vital force. >Blood -circulates in
WRONG CONDITION OF 2. The foundation Guiding Question our body about 017 miles a day
EATING of physical, What is the relation >Lungs -we breathe
strength is between our HEALTHS about 20,000 times a day
1. Food should not undermine to SALVATION? >Muscle –moves 750
be eaten very hot (weakens) ANS. (Solicit their ideas) times a day
or very cold. 3. Feverish EMPHASIS: In order to have >Mouth -there are
2. Excess use of salt condition good health, let us study the 4,000 words spoken a day
robs calcium. ( affected with 8 secret of health. >Brain -there are 14
3. Excess use of fever) [NEWSTART] billions of cells in our
sugar robs B- 4. It calls on undue brain that are
Vitamins (White amount of blood N – NUTRITION constantly use
sugar) to the stomach. -Proper quality of food everyday
4. Discard 5. It might result eaten at a proper time
processed, to the numbness and in GOD’S ORIGINAL
refined or of the brain with proper amount. DIET FOR MAN
enriched dissemination to -The kinds of food we
foods/hydrogenat mental and eat affect our character. -Grains
ed oil, coffee, physical effort. -Our bodies are built up -Nuts
tea, pickled foods from the food we eat. -Fruits
and dried fruits. DIET ON SABBATH -There is constant -Vegetables
5. Avoid eating after breaking down of tissues These foods impart
an excessive 1. Food should be of the -strength
exercise. simpler, and less should be
17
 - flesh, seed with gr o
power of endurance seeds. ai n
- g. Do not ne .
vigor of intellect drink liquids he
during meals. ad VARIETY
Care in selection of food (They dilute your ac 1. Avoid great
a. Season digestive)- 30 he variety of
b. Climate mins. Before  foods at
c. Occupation – do eating, 2hrs after Reduc one meal
not go beyond eating. ti  Thi
your budget h. Eat o s
slowly and enjoy n enc
FOOD COMBINATION what you are of our
eating. ar ag
Rules of food th e
combination (capture Benefits of Food rit ove
perfect health by E.A Combination: ic r
Micaller)  pa eat
Loss in, ing
a. Combine of ps  Ca
protein with ex or use
vegetables only ce ia of
b. Combine ssi si indi
starches with ve s, ges
vegetables and w co tio
other starches only. ei ns n
c. Fruits are gh ti 2. Fruits and
best eaten alone or t pa vegetables
with dairy  ti are not well
products, nuts or Reduc o to be eaten
seed tio n, at the
d. Eat n he same meal.
sweets fruit alone of ar
e. Eat all tb  It
melon alone. When er ur cau
stored turn to gas. gy n ses
f. Eat only  an dist
one kind of protein Relief d res
at a meal. fr in s if
Exception: Flesh o di the
may combine with m ge dig
mi sti
18
 estiv - Inactivity is a fruitful
e A disordered cause of disease Why water is important?
syste stomach produces a - Imparts strength to
m is disordered, uncertain the muscle 1. All cells need water
feebl state of mind often - Liver, kidneys, and 2. Enhance mental
e. cause irritability, lungs will be alertness
(Lack harshness or injustice. strengthen to perform 3. Regulates temperament
of Obedience to their work 4. Relieves headache
musc the laws of health is to - Exercise quickens and 5. It has miracle healing
ular be made a matter of equalizes the therapy
powe personal duty. circulation of the 6. Help overcome
r) Our bodies are blood, but in idleness sleepiness and the
 Inabi Christ purchase the blood does not temptation to snack
lity possession and we are circulate freely. between meals.
to not at liberty to do with - The skin too become - The body losses
put them as we please. All inactive about 10-12 cups of water
forth who understand the - Improve digestion a day trough the skin,
ment laws of health should - Regularity of bowels is lungs, urine and feces.
al realize their obligation to enhanced
effort obey these laws, which - Take an active - Get to the habit of
God has established in exercise 5-6 times a drinking water liberally. On
3.The same their being. week. arising in the mid-morning,
dishes, prepared mid-afternoon, and early
in the way, evening.
should not E-EXERCISE W- WATER
appear on the >God design the living - The hot water is an
table meal after machinery should be in daily excellent way to begin the day
> In sickness and in
meal and day activity for in this activity or before anything else has been
health water is one of heaven
after day. motion in its preserving nerves. placed in the system, as it
choicest blessings. It is a
 It assists the bowel in its
beverage which God provided to
can KINDS OF EXERCISE elimination.
quench the thirst of animals and
caus
man.
e 1. Walking 3.
bad Bicycling 5. - In the world, water is S- SUNLIGHT
breat Exercise machine dominant
h 2. Swimming Benefits of Sunlight
- The body weight is
 Imba 4.jogging - Sunlight tends to toughen
normally contained
lance 6. Gardening the skin making it
70% of water and it is
diet resistant to disease and
essential for the
 Aller BENEFITS OF EXERCISE infections
function of the body
gy
cells.
19
 - Sunlight’s warm brings the
natural oil in the skin.
Under the sun’s ultraviolet
rays, some o these fatty
materials are change into
Vitamin D.
- When Vitamin-D reaches
the liver, chemical reaction
in it takes place which
affects the absorption and
transport of calcium in the
body.
- It has sterilizing effects.
- Endurance and muscle
strength are improved
- In diabetic, blood sugar can
be lowered by spending a
reasonable of time in
sunlight exposure.
= 5 minutes exposure
from 7-8 o’clock A.M.
- Also acts as mild
tranquilizer
- Stimulates the appetite
- Improves restful sleep at
night
T- TEMPERANCE
> If any man defile the
Temple of God, hence shall God
destroy. 1 Corinthians 3:17
Be temperate in all things like:
- Eating
- labor
- Drinking
- mind
- Dress
- sex, etc.
“Anything good when
done in excess is bad” > The importance of
regularity in the time for
eating and sleeping
A- AIR should not be overlooked.
> Man can survive for - The work of building up
one month without food, two the body takes place
weeks without water but hardly during the hour of rest.
survive for five minutes without - Sleep is the greatest
air (oxygen). body storer.
- Best sleep is early sleep,
> Air is free blessing of especially before
heaven calculated to electrify the midnight
whole system. [Read 1 Tes. Pp. - During good rest, the
702] batteries of the brain are
recharge.
Indoor Pollutants - Our body needs 7-8
- Indoor air bottled hours of sleep every
pollutants night.
- Makes many women - Rest is natures build up
pale and feeble time throughout the
- Some air over and body.
over it becomes laden
and poisonous
Ex: air-conditioned T- TRUST IN THE
room DIVINE POWER
Oxygen deficiency results:
> Strictly temperate habits
- Headaches
in eating and in drinking,
- Memory retention
with firm trust in the
- Nausea
divine power will improve
- Creativity and
your physical, mental and
- Irritability
moral health.
- Even the power of
judgment
- Through the right
- Poor performance
exercise of the will, and
*Inhale 3 consecutive
infinite change maybe
count 12 repetitions
made in life. By yielding
up in the will of Christ,
R- REST
20
we call our selves with
divine power.
- A pure and noble life, a
life of victory over
appetite and lust, is
possible to everyone
who will unite his weak,
wavering human will to
the omnipotent,
unwavering will of God.
Matthew 11:28 “Come
unto me… and I will give
you rest”.
Mark16: 18 “If he shall
ask anything in my name,
I will do it”.
CONCLUSION
“Keep your wants, your joy,
your sorrows, cares and
fears before God”
Sa sinulat sa Adventist
Theology nga giuluhan og “
Philosophy and Practice of
Health and Healing” June 1993,
pp. 108 naga-ingon: Ang
pagbaton ug maayoung
panglawas dili makasiguro sa
atong kaluwasan apan kini
makatabang sa matin-aw nga
panghunahuna, makalikay sa
pagkuhagaw sa mga galamhan
ug sa kalag, “3T 501 ug labaw
nga kasiguraan sa
pagpatalinghug sa tingog sa
Dios nga maoy makatabang sa
Espiritu Santo sa pagsiguro sa Facilitators may ask this nsate with
atong kaluwasan. question: (one by one) to other
Describe to us your ideal your s
“ Our bodies are build up man. (for women) weakn 6. Ask
from what we eat and drink, and Describe to us your ideal ess God
the character of our spiritual woman. (for men) 3. Be to
experience depend on what our TEXT: 1Corinthians 13:4-7 sincer make
mind feed upon and assimilate” e and some
SOP Pp.1365 Friendship is the basis of open thing
love. Courtship is the B. Learn to like beaut
CLOSING SONG: “I’ve Got product of love, if Marriage yourself iful
Spirit” is the product of courtship; 1. Make out
therefore, marriage is the an of
CLOSING PRAYER: product of love. invent your
ory of life
GUIDING QUESTION: your 2.Cultivate
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT What is friendship for you? streng friendship with others
(Let them speak) th and a.
GENERAL OBJECTIVE: weakn Caring
To discuss the process of FRIENDSHIP – esses b.
F L C M relationship, bonding, 2. Rebuil Be
commitment, etc. d your un
SPECIFIC OBJECTIVE: GUIDING QUESTION: To thoug der
1.To explain the importance of whom we are to be friends first? ht sta
Friendship patter ndi
2.To define love as a principle ANSWER: 1. Friend must ns ng
3.To differentiate between Love begin with oneself. 3. Learn c.
and Infatuation to Be
4.To define Courtship A. Making friend comp sin
5.To correct faulty practices of with yourself ensat cer
Courtship 1. Accep e e
6.To explain the subject t your 4. Devel an
“MARRIAGE” fault op d
7.To cite biblical example to the or admir ho
validity of principle streng able nes
th qualiti t
PRESIDER: Back-up 2. Build es d.
up 5. Never Accept
OPENING PRAYER: your comp the
streng are indi
ACTIVITY: Lovers Nest th and yours vid
compe elf ual
21
 j f s 5. Rejoices in your
u e t achievements
s e g. G 6. Loves you
t l ive
a i comple LOVE
s n ments
s g WHAT IS LOVE?
h s LEVEL OF FRIENDSHIP
e f. S ACQUAINTANCE A. Love Defined
/ h -Occasional personal contact “LOVE is a
h a -Freedom to ask general precious gift which we
e r question receive from Jesus. It is
i e CASUAL FRIENDSHIP pure and holy affection,
s -Based on common it is not a feeling but a
e. R f interests, activities and principle” HH. 255,
e e concern SOP1 47, Pp. 47
s e -Freedom to ask specific Bases of love as
p l question principle Exodus 20, Matthew
e i CLOSE FRIENDSHIP 22:34-40
c n -Based on mutual life goal Principle – means it will
t g -Freedom to express mutual never be change
h projects
i e INTIMATE FRIENDSHIP 4 (four) Kinds of Love
s a -Based on the commitment 1.Agape = Love to God
/ c to the development to each 2.Filial = Love to parent
h h others character 3.Eros = Love to opposite
e -Freedom to correct each sex
r o other 4.Starge = Love to friend
ri t or other person not
g h WHAT IS TRUE FRIEND? related
h e 1. Inspires you to do
t r best 10 Commandments – is God
s ’ 2. Respect your principle and its based is
, s convictions, honors Love.
i your standards
d i 3. Encourage you to Agape – love to God
e n obey your parents - Matthew
a t authority and 22:37.38 –
s e reverse God According to this
a r 4. Warns you against text, the first
n e danger and protects greatest
d you from harm
22
 commandment is - You shall not 2. End Slowly B. Stealing of affection
2. Ends rapidly
to love the Lord covet your “Thou shall not steal was
3. Centers to one person only
your God with all neighbors 3. In love to several person written by the finger of
your heart and with housewife, 4. Motivates positive behavior GOD upon the table of
all your soul and manservant, ox, 4. Has destructive effect stone, yet how much you
5. Recognize the importance of
with all your mind. ass, nor anything understand that stealing of
compatibility 5. Disregards it
- Exodus 20:1-11 – he posses 6. Recognize faults affection is still practice and
When you love God Love is heaven born 6. Ignores them excuse.” AH 58
you follow the 4th and it is endless. 7. Survives distance The stealing of affection
7. Can’t survive distance
Commandment. 8. Controls physical contact
here is the affection from
1.You shall not B. Love as Principle 1 Cor. 13 8. Exploit it the parents.
have other God 1. Care – does not condone 9. Brings the approval of family and
2.You shall not the love of ones bad friends 9. Brings C. Trifling with hearts
disapproval
have graven image or behavior 10. Produce security
“ To strife with hearts is a
idol It calls for discipline 10. Produces insecurity crime of no small
3.You shall not speaking truth in love. 11. Recognizes realities magnitude in the sight of
put the name of the (Eph. 4:15) 11. Ignores them our Holy God.” A. H. 57
Lord in vain 2. Respect – Self-respect
4.You will begets respect for others. D. Lovesick
remember the Sabbath 3. Accept – his/her strength COURTSHIP Sentimentalism
day to keep it holy and weaknesses, potentials, (fantasy)
Definition of Courtship
shortcomings, past or
Courtship – is combination of
Filial, Eros, Starge – love to future. E. Keeping Late Hours
all forms of behavior
man or others 4. Forgive – forgive and “The habit of sitting up late
by which man seeks
- Matthew 22:39-40 the forget. at night is customary, but it
to get the approval
second commandment This statement is not pleasing to God even
of the girl for
is like it. Love your means, forgive if you are both Christians.
marriage. This is the
neighbor as yourself. him/her and forget These untimely hours injure
period where the
- Exodus 20:17 When your revenge, your health, until the mind for
young man or
you love your neighbor hatred, and do not the next days duties and
woman starts to
you follow the 6th retaliate to your have an appearance of
know each other
Commandment such offender. evil.” A. H. 56
better.
as: 5. Trust – trust begets trust.
- Respect or obey F. Allurement of “Strange
FAULTY COURTSHIP
your parents C. LOVE AND INFATUATION Women”
PRACTICES
- You shall not kill COMPARED “When once the barriers of
- You shall not female modesty are
A. Falling in love too easily.
commit adultery LOVE removed, the biggest
“Courtship carried on this
- You shall not steal INFATUATION licentiousness does not
stage is scheme of
- You shall not bear appear exceeding sinful.
hypocrisy”. FE 102
false witness 1. Develops slowly Those who preserve
1. Develops rapidly
physical health a vigorous
23
 intellect and sound moral
must flee youthful lust.” A. H.
58,59
G. Compromising
“You cannot afford to
careless in regard to the
companion you choose… an
hour of thoughtfulness once
yielding to temptation, may
turn the whole current of
your life in the wrong
direction. (A. H. 59)
MARRIAGE
The product of Courtship
and love
If those who are
contemplating marriage would
not have miserable, unhappy
reflection after marriage, they
must take it a subject of serious,
earnest reflection now.
A. Consideration in selecting
a lifetime partner.
1. Compatibility
5. Education
2. Physical attraction
6. Social
acceptance
3. Age
7. Socio-
economic Status
4. Religion
B. Qualities to be sought for
a prospective wife
(Condense from
Adventist Home Pp.47)
1. One who will make
her happy
2. A prudent wife
 The heart of her
husband doth
safely trust her
 She will do him
good and evil all
days of her life
 She openeth her
mouth with
wisdom
 In her house the
law of kindness
 She looked well
to the ways of
her household
 She eateth not
the bread of
idleness
 Her husband
and children call
her blessed
3.Cheerful
4.Economist
5.Patient
6.Loving and caring to
her parents
7.Has noble character
8.Has the knowledge
C. Qualities to be sought for
prospective husband
1.One whose life is pure
2.Possess a noble
character
24
3.Has the trait or
character that will make her
happy
4.Respect her ideas
5.One who’s willing to
preserve her purity
6.Caring, loving and is
concerned towards her mothers
need
7.Patient
8.Diligent, aspiring,
honest
9.One who loves and
fear GOD
CONCLUSSION:
Marry a person who
belongs to your religion so that
there will be no hindrance in
your plans
“ If there is any subject
which should be carefully
considered and in which the
counsel of others and more
experience person should be
sought, it is the subject of
marriage. If ever, the Bible is
needed as a counsel, if ever the
Divine Guidance should be
sought in prayer. It is Before
Taking a step that binds person
together for life.” P.P Pp 128
CLOSING SONG: LOVE IS
SOMETHING
CLOSING PRAYER:
“No one who fears God can
danger, connect himself with
one who fears
Him not.” SOP47,
Pp.147
“ Subject carefully
considered” Pp.175
“Parents should never
lose sight to the true happiness
of their
children” SOP1-147,
Pp.175
RELATING TO
PARENTS
GENERAL OBJECTIVES: To
bridge the gap among family
members
SPECIFIC OBJECTIVES:
1. To describe home and
its influence.
2. To recognize active
leadership types in
parenting.
3. To know the related
consequences of each
leadership style.
 4. To determine the needs b. the heart of the RESULT: Negative practice the art of
of parents and their community of values, rebellious, deep home making.
children. the church and emotional problems.
5. To know the necessity of the nation * PERMISSIVE STYLE – - cooking
the strengthening bond in c. a place where characterized - keep books
the parents-child cheerfulness, parents who - care for the
relationship. courtesy and provide high laundry
6. To cite Biblical references love abide support but - care for the
and examples with d. a place where low control. yard
regards to Relating to family stays - balance the
Parents together RESULT: Irresponsible budget
harmoniously child and spoiled. - buy
OPENING SONG: “When Jesus Control and support are groceries
is in the Family” the two main aspects of * AUTHORATIVE STYLE – - repair fixtures
parents-child parents - arrange family worship
OPENING PRAYER: relationship and the key to its exhibit both - clean the
success or failure . . . (condense high support house
ACTIVITY: {Bond Diagram} from health and home 1996) and high
control. They CHILDRENS NEEDS
CONTENT: AUTHORITARIAN STYLE - set clear 1. Children need
Parents who make GOD parents give low support but standard and parents to whom they can…
first in their households, who exact high control expectation - tell what is on
teach their children that the fear - for mature their hearts
of the LORD is the beginning of common on conservative and behavior of - express their
wisdom. Glorify GOD before religious families their children, desires and wishes
angels and before men by RESULT: Rebellious while also - talk about their
presenting to the world a well- child, overly complaint, considering triumphs and wishes
ordered, well-discipline family --- can’t face tough their needs. - talk about their
a family that love and obey GOD. decisions, they (GOD’S ideal boyfriends or girlfriends
(AH29) need authority leadership)
to tell them 2. Children need parents
HOME INFLUENCES what to do. RESULT: Develops (especially the father)
The well being of the strong values, helpful, caring, who is a real
society, the success * NEGLECTFUL STYLE – independents, companion who…
of the church and the represents responsible.
Nation, depend upon the home parents who
influences. offer low - laughs with them
support and 2. Home as a training - keeps their
1. What is a home? low control ground – wise parents confidence
a. the foretaste of make their homes, - makes their
heaven where each youth can friends feel

25
 welcome in their - remembering 2. The queen of 4. Priest (atone
home them on the home. his family to
- trust and love them especial 3. God’s agent to GOD)
- spend time with occasions christianize 5. Give leisure
them - recognizing their her family. hours to his
accomplishment 4. To shape children
2. Children need parents - being mind and  assoc
who will teach them how affectionate mold iates
to become independent (hug) character of  wins
- making their own her children. their
decisions confi
- earning their own STRENGTHENING BOND Ex. Mary, Hannah, Jochebed denc
way BETWEEN CHILDREN AND e
- taking responsibility PARENTS FATHER’S RESPONSIBILITY  cultiv
- respecting privacy ates
1. Physical Bonding – The children look frien
PARENTS NEEDS power of touch to the father for support and dship
2. Verbal Bonding – sweet guidance. He needs to have the with
1. Parents need children comforting words right conception of life and of his
who share the burdens of 3. Written Bonding – the family, above all, she should childr
the home by: letters be controlled by love and fear of en
- doing household 4. Prayer Bonding – a GOD and by the teaching of his 6. He is good
errands family that prays words, that he may guideth the provider.
- caring for their together stays together. feet of his children in the right
younger brothers way. IDEAL CHARACTERISTIC OF
or sisters A MOTHER
2. Parents need children MOTHER’S 1. He is head of 1. She is
who honor them by: RESPONSIBILITY the thoughtful
- respecting ideas, ( Proverbs 31) household. about the
feeling, privacy 2. Law maker physical and
- obeying their Home should be most (firm but kind) spiritual food of
rules attractive place in 3. Enforce in his her family.
- listening the the world for the family sterner 2. She puts her
advices children and the virtues 9 household in
3. Parents needs children mother’s presence integrity, order.
who are grateful… should be its honesty, 3. She has many
realized that their parents greatest attraction. patience, interests.
have suffered much courage, 4. She is
anxiety on their behalf. 1. She is her diligence and industrious.
4. Parents need children husband’s practical
who are thoughtful as in: equal. usefulness

26
 5. She is kind and 3. Must not practice OPENING PRAYER:
compassionate to favoritism.
the needy. 4. Let the parents ACTIVITY: [SCAVENGER’S
6. She give her surround their HUNT]
husband a children with an
prestige. atmosphere of 1. CONSIDERATION
7. She is not afraid cheerfulness, IN CONTRACT WITH OF BURDEN-
of the future. courtesy and love. BEARER
8. She fears and 5. Parents should not OTHERS
honor God. fail to gather their Guiding question:
9. She is intelligent. children around GENERAL OBJECTIVES:
10. She is honest. GOD’S altar. >To effectively relate If you were
oneself to others hurt, badly suspected
CONCLUSION: by your elder, your
We should be a model SPECIFIC OBJECTIVES: minister, your friend,
to our children if ever your friend, and your
we become parents for 1. To know the 8 brothers and sister and
TOGETH the future and make a essentials in by your parents then,
ER, family that is designed affecting good they will run after your
PARENT by GOD. relationship with life. What do you react?
S A family that prays others.
SHOULD together, stays together 2. To understand the ILLUSTRATION:
CONSID and lives forever in the necessity of the 8 [King Saul and David]
ER heavenly city prepared essentials.
THEIR by GOD. 3. To understand the -We should be
RESPON common responses careful not to take into
SIBILIT CLOSING SONG: “I’ve Got a and behavioral our hands the work of
Y Home in Glory Land” changes of an judging that belongs to
individual to a GOD.
CLOSING PRAYER: stimuli. -Thou art
1. Let the husband and 4. To know what only inexcusable, O men,
the wife study each Jesus give the whosoever thou art
other’s happiness. perfect example of a that judgest. . .
(small Christian behavior. -For thou that
courtesies and little kindness) 5. To cite Biblical judgest does the same
2. Never should they, in references about things. (Rom. 2:1)
the presence of their lasting relationships.
children, criticize COUNSEL: Galatians
each other’s plan or OPENING SONG: “ The Time 6:1,2,5
question each other’s to be Happy”
judgment. Brethren, if a
man be overtaken in a
27
 fault, ye spiritual, restore when e F
such one in the spirit of you do a o
meekness considering well and d r
thyself, lest thou also be suffer e
tempted. Bear ye one for it, ye r t
another burdens, and so take it s h
fulfill the law of CHRIST. patiently e
For every man shall bear , this is s y
his/her own burdens. accepta p
ble with e a
2. FORBEARANCE GOD. c r
UNDER WRONG i e
3. Proverbs 15:1-A a
ILLUSTRATION: soft answer l G
[JESUS ON SANHEDRIN] turneth away l o
wrath; but y d
-Self is the g ’
enemy we most need rievous w s
to fear. words h
-Do not retaliate, stir e a
avoid the appearance anger. n n
of evil. o
-Do not reply on Matthew 5:23- t i
the same spirit 24 – We have no h n
(impatient words). authority to criticize or e t
-If Christ dwells first y e
in us, we shall be a d
patient, kind, c a )
forbearing, t r .
cheerful amid e
treat irritation. o G
u o o
COUNSEL: r r
1 Peter 2:20 - d p
For what glory is it, if, e a u
when ye be buffeted r i t
for your r n
faults, ye i e t
shall take n d h
it g . e
patiently m
? But if l (
28
i a You found a love; in
n c friend who is honor
t e mocking in a bar preferri
o or a friend that ng one
s b is a swindler or a
u e liar. What will nother.
c c you do to him? 1 Peter 3:10 –
h a For he that love life,
p u ILLUSTRATION: and see good days, let
o s [Mary Magdalene, h
s e prostitute, capture by i
it m
i G JESUS.]
o O r
n D (John 8:1-10) e
. f
L k - If we have r
e n sense of the a
t o long suffering of i
G w GOD toward us, n
o s we shall not be h
d found or i
r w accusing others. s
e h - No accusation, t
m a faultfinding, o
o t impatient. n
v - Let us never g
e i forget that u
t s those who love e
h Him in f
e b character. r
m e o
i s COUNSEL: m
n t
t . Romans 12:10 - e
o Be kindly v
t 4. SPEAK NO EVIL affectionate to il
h one another ,
a GUIDING with a
t QUESTION: b n
p rotherly d
l h
29
 is achievements ILLUSTRATION:
lips 6. IMPORTANCE OF but of all little [The temptation of Satan to
tha LITTLE THINGS things. Jesus]
t - The character
the GUIDING misshape - Remember that
y QUESTION: - Only by acting whoever you
sp Where upon principle in are, whatever
ea does the the test of daily you do, GOD is
k big life can we there
no thing acquire power - Nothing that is
evi came? to stand said, or done,
l or Name of - Firm and faithful or thought can
gui some inmost escape His
de. things dangerous and attention
but of most difficult - Your every
importa position. word, deed,
nce. you have a
5. COURTESY (Thank 7. SELF DISCIPLINE witness- the
you, holy sin hating
GUIDING Good GUIDING GOD.
QUESTION: morning QUESTION: - Before you
, Happy You are speak or act,
What is the Sabbath alone always think
highest form of , Hello) (Christia first
respect? Being n) with - Say no word or
What is the courteo your do not act that
highest form of us, barkada shall bring
military courtesy? thankful s and dishonor
(Salute) , they - Study carefully
cheerful want to the Divine
- The LORD JESUS , kind, see character
demands our forgivin movies, - Inquire “what
acknowledgment g, etc. they would JESUS
of the rights of plead did if he is my
every man. ILLUSTRATION: “karon place”
- Man’s Social [Let the children come to Jesus] ra
rights bitaw.” 8. COMMEND:
- Life is not Will you ENCOURAGE
ILLUSTRATION: chiefly made up go with
(Woman at the of great sacrifice them? GUIDING
well met with Jesus) and wonderful QUESTION:

30
 A friend comes to  Remem o
you, telling that 9. PATIENCE WITH ber that r
she is involved THE ERRINGS you
with a married cannot t
person. How will Guiding Question: read h
you reply? You minds e
have known a  But the y
ILLUSTRATION: leader in your grace of
[Mary Magdalene – Jesus church or God can d
said “ go and sin no in your transfor o
group m them
more:] who is  Never n
- Cultivate the not drive o
habit of speaking acting them to t
well of others. like a discoura
- See as little as Christia gement k
possible their n. What nor n
error and will you despair o
feelings. do? them w
- When tempted to Example
complain of what  Not all : Jesus w
someone has who act at h
said or done, profess the a
praise something to be cross: t
- Cultivate workers He said;
thankfulness are true Father t
- Earnest works disciple f h
have no time for  Some o e
dwelling upon do not r y
the faults of represe g
others. nt Him i d
- Every act of in v i
looking for evil in characte e d
others develops r s .
evil in those who  Christ
look. has t (
- But by beholding given us h L
JESUS, taking of a e u
His love and perfect m k
perfection of example e
character. f
2
31
 3 h e ant
: u .
3 m s 
4 b k The
) l e ric
e p h
CONCLUSSION: t an
a i d
All who profess n c the
to be the children d a po
of God should l or.
bear in mind that t .
as missionaries h  T The varied
they will be e h mind cannot be
brought into all e treated alike.
classes of mind. p Yet all need
 T r e kindness and
h o d sympathy.
e u u
r d c ACTIVITY:
e . a Put magic tape
fi  T t in the ¼ sheet
n h e of paper
e e d (optional). Put
d it on your back
a r a and let all the
n e n member of
d l d your group will
t i write their
h g t impression or
e i h comments to
c o e you one after
o u the other. All of
a s i you will do the
r g same.
s a n
e n o CLOSING SONG: “It’s a Good
. d r thing to be Together”
 T
h t CLOSING PRAYER:
e h

32
 the law given to them, 1. Did the
ACTIVITY: Explain how they cannot people
interested our God to salvation communicate to the change at the
of human race. Father anymore. time of
Purpose in explaining However, because God Noah?
the Plan of Redemption. is love, He gave them a 2. At that time,
1. To evaluate the chance to change. He how many of
Love of God explain that the only them were
2. To know that that they can come back saved?
now is the time to Him is by remission of
INVESTIGATVE to prepare the blood of his Son 5. From the time of Noah up
3. To know the Jesus through the cross. to the time of Jesus
JUDGEMENT position of Jesus He told Adam to get a (temptation)
and avail the lamb and he will kill it, approximately 2000
GENERAL OBJECTIVE: chance to to offer for their sin. The years. (Make a group)
change blood of the Lamb
To discussion the 4. To know these represents the blood of
importance of investigative. things and know Jesus.
how to impart. (Adlib: Use 2000
SPECIFIC OBJECTIVES: Guiding 2000
1. To know the two aspects To start: The Statement No.
of investigative facilitator may say, 4)
judgment. “Let me illustrate to Adam Noah
2. To different the contents you the 4. According to some Bible Jesus
of the Book of Records. plan of scholars and even some
3. To exemplify the redemption. religion, that every 2000 Guiding Question:
accounts written in the years these are great 1. Did you change or did the
Books of Records. Guiding Statement: event that take place. people change?
4. To evaluate spiritual 1. The world (people) has According to them, from 2. What if, 4 hours from
standing. a beginning and it has the time of Adam to the now Jesus will come
5. To eschatological an end. (Make a graph) time of Noah, is (present time, look at
represents that earth’s Beginning-------- approximately 2000 your watch, start to
major events. ---------End years. count) are you ready?
6. To cite Biblical references 2. Adlib: Use a next Will you avail the time to
that God is Love. statement #3. change?
2000 (Adlib: read G.C. Pp.441)
PRESIDER: BACK – UP 3. Adam and Eve was
made first in the Garden
OPENING SONG: “ For God so of Eden. At that time Adam Noah
Love the World” they can communicate
directly to the Father. Guiding Question:
OPENING PRAYER: Because they transgress
33
  What is your idea about --- SATAN / HIS - Daniel 8:14 – “ When we become
Investigative Judgment? ANGELS (William Miller children of God, our names will
(Let them speak) G.C. 361) be written in the Lamb’s book of
Emphasis: Say it this way: Illustrate Court – life, and they remain there until
In order to have Where is the activity now? the time of the investigative
better understanding on Lower - Heaven judgment. Then the name of
this subject (I.J.). Court Upper Court every individual will be called, and
We will take a look What are the bases of his record examined, by Him who
what is the meaning of Accuser judgment? declares. “I know thy works.” If in
judgment. Accused - Law – Ecc. 12:13, that day it shall appear that all
In Greek, there are Witnesses 14, Ex. 20, G.C. our wicked deeds have not been
two words in it. Judge 410 fully repented off, our names will
- Book of record – be blotted from the Book of Life,
Defender Daniel 12:1, G.C. and our sins will stand against us.
409, Luke 10:20 (St. Aug. 6.1885) SBG – Pp. 142.
KRISIS---act of judging or execution at
the sentence Judge - God Accused – BOOK OF LIFE BOOK OF REMEMBERANCE
JUDGMENT Human (Rev. 20:12, Rev. 21:27, Phil. (Mal. 3:16, Neh. 13:14)
Defender – Jesus Witnesses 4:3)
– Angels - dead who were Ex. Words of faith
KRIMA---judicial sentence Accuser – Satan judge out - in a form of
- those shall enter prayer. ex.
(Adlib: Use the city of God Opening prayer
G.Q.) - those who will be of S.S.
Purpose of Judgment delivered - in a form of
G.Q.: Where does the I.J. 1. To prove to the universe - those who ever reminder or
belongs; KRISIS or KRIMA that God is just. enter the service warning. ex. Bible
(Adlib: Use 2. To determine who will be of God. study
G.Q.) saved and those who will - Faithful L.E - in a form of
G.Q.: Who are involved in not be saved. - Faithful encouragement.
judgment? 3. To determine who has Laymen ex. Counsel to a
Dan. 7:9,10 – SDA true faith in Christ and - Faithful friend
fundamental belief repentance for sin are Minister - Faithful - Answer to a
pp. 325 – 326, entitled to the benefits of member of church question about
Christ is coming Pp. his atonement. G.C. 422 - Faithful your faith. ex.
415 (1 SOP 682) believer of Christ Why is it that
--- GOD Saturday is your
--- JESUS When is the investigative SUPPORT rest day?
--- ANGELS judgment begin? - Rev. 21:27, 22:29,
--- MAN BOOK OF LIFE Acts of Love (it is an action)
--- UNIVERSE

34
 - giving to others in Note: When you have evil Every act of Sacrifices Every Wrong Word
a form of food, overcome with consent, ask - in work - - liar
money, clothing, forgiveness at the temptation Religion - time - insult
etc. unresisted. - life - - not giving exact answer to
- helping others in Example: A friend invite you to Career - effort the question
time of depression. see a movie in a movie house - reputation - Ex. Where is your
ex. Accident (sinihan) you refuse but wealth - etc. father? Ans. I’m not his security
- helping others in eventually you were overruled, guard.
time of calamity. you go with him, but your Every Suffering Sorrow
ex. Flood, Fire conscience is working and injured for Christ Sake Every Selfish Act
- helping others in actually converted for done - For Christ sake you give your; - Self-centered
time of sorrow. ex. wrong and go out of the place. - family - service - clothing
Death (That’s evil overcome with - friends - Always want to be praised
- Personal ministry. consent) - Boy and girlfriends - money time, talent
ex. Bible study - Your course – you - She / he manipulate
Every word of tender pity failed because of others in order for
Every deed of righteousness is expressed Sabbath issue him / her to be in
immortalized - a word of comfort, - Reputation authority/ power.
encouragement, hope - Life, etc.
Every temptation resisted - guiding words
Note: Temptation is not a sin, but - words of assurance from the RECORDS OF THE SINS OF Every Unfulfilled Duty
yielding to temptation is a sin. Bible THE MEN (BOOK OF DEATH) - God
Temptation is visible before - No need to utter the word (Isaiah 65:6,7, Mal. - Church
you fall. “looy” 3:5 Isaiah 43:2) - Family
-Temptation is a form of lust. ex. “Looy” – this word has two - As an Officer
Joseph negative effect. Every idle word – Matt. 12:36, - Other people
-Temptation is a form of money. 1) It leads on 37 - Association
-Temptation is a form of food. engrous the pride - useless word - - relatives
-Temptation is a form of feeding. of a person “Buang ka,” “kwanggol ka” - Federation
-Temptation is a form of mind. Ex. “Kalooy na nimo - thoughtless words - - friends
oy!” Tubag: Kinsay “more pa” “false oaths” “swearing” - Fellowship
Every evil overcome ingon nimo? - nonsense words - - Boy/girl friends
- There are two kinds of evil 2) It leads to a green jokes, chismis (lover)
overcome unnoticed or you’re person who has - blasphemous words - - AYS
blind, and with consent or you self-pity, “sus” “Dois ko day” - Community
know. especially low self - bad expressions - - Country
- thoughts - esteem. “yawa” “yati” “pesti” “piskot”
acts Ex. “Looya nimo “letsi” Every Secret Sin
- mind - oy!” Tubag: Wala Note: let your answer yes, be - Unconfess sin
situation na gyud diay koy yes and no, be no.
- deeds nada? Every Artful Dissembling
- manufactured story
35
 - butang-butang love of Jesus and 413 – Appear for preparation
- libak about the Salvation. Investigati G.C. – 418 – Like in the
- ilad Note: Christ must be the ve time of
center or the judgemen Noah
Heaven Sent Warning or circumference of every t is to be Mk.
Reproofs Neglected talk that we are accomplis 13:35,36
- neglected reminders having every time. h before Matt.
- Counsels heard did not second 24:39
follow Influence exerted for evil advent.
or for good with its 414 – Sin forsaken READ:
Wasted moments far reaching result will not be “Christ character
- Every time not use - the result of your pardoned. stands in place
make use wise unto influence exerted: Bad has of your
salvation. - dressing an exact character and
- Reading pocket - talking record of that is accepted
books - Act their to God as if
- Spending much - Deal – nga unjust and you have not
time in nangilad ka unfair sinned.” [Steps
television. Assurance: Isaiah 1:18, dealings. to Christ Pp.
- Not giving 1John 1:9, 1john 2:1 415 – Account of 42]
answer to the every If Jesus will come
inquiry about READINGS: GREAT talent 4 hours from
Jesus. CONTROVERSY now are you
- Not giving ready?
answer to the All are faithfully Investigati
inquiry about chronicled with ve CLOSING SONG: My god
your part. terrible exactness judgment loves me
by the recording should be
Unimproved Opportunities of angels. clearly CLOSING PRAYER:
- not growing – Ex. Sigi Angels of God witness understoo
ug balibad paampo-on. each sin and d by the
- Always giving “Alibi” registered it in the people of
when given a part. Ex. unerring record. God. TESTIMONIES
wali 417 – The work of
- not giving answer for G.C. 411 – Unforgiven the
the inquiry of faith. sin, Preparatio GENERAL OBJECTIVE: To
- Visiting a friend, talking names will n is an evaluate the
common conversation, be blotted individual program
separate each other out from work.
without mentioning the the Book SPECIFIC OBJECTIVE:
of Life. CONCLUSION: 1. To evaluate the
facilitators.
36
 2. To evaluate CLOSING PRAYER: 7. To know the go
FLIESees. consequences of the back
3. To appeal for more close of probation. to
volunteers. 8. To describe the 3 your
phases of judgment. hand
PRESIDER: 9. To know the s as
consequences of the you
OPENING SONG: executive judgment. thro
LAST DAYS 10. To know the hope of w).
OPENING PRAYER: salvation. Emphasis: Last
GENERAL OBJECTIVE: 11. To acknowledge Days
GIVE PICTURES: To correlate current Christ’s timely is like
Note: Facilitator will give events to Biblical appeal to the human a
picture one at a time, other Prophesy. race of pape
facilitator will get the picture reconciliation. r
after they have seen it all. In SPECIFIC OBJECTIVE: pane,
term that the persons in the 1. To know INTRODUCTION: Paper when
picture are also like them nationwide / Plane it
before, and some are worldwide events (Have passe
facilitators already. with Biblical a s it
significance piece will
2. To know relevant of never
Collect comments or feedbacks: prophecies that paper come
Let them give one by occur sequentially as plane. back
one, both positive and it happen in world Before again
negative criticisms, history. you .
suggestions for the 3. To schematically start Toda
improvement of represent the major your y it
facilitators and to the events of the world prese will
program. history. ntatio never
4. To know the course n, come
Invite them to join to our of one world throw back
“REUNION.” government. the and
Affirm them: 5. To know the end- paper it
Read quotations: “A character time consequences plane could
form” to the world’s and never
increasing chaos. ask be
CLOSING SONG: 6. To describe the them the
Of testimonies and close probation. will same
will serve as opening song and the . Do
opening prayer of AST DAY paper what
EVENTS. plane you
37
 can do  Legali s - To control
now. zations of drugs and cont domestic
pornography inue policies.
Guiding Question:  Depila d in
1. What have you tion on large cities X- Ways of Winning a Man to
observed to our  Survei mov a Worldly Life
world today? (let llance ies.
them speak). Illustration: SOCIAL
=Government Nebuchadnezzar and Abednigo 6. Killing the Useless Rev. Moon – South
= Social = Politics = Price (X- Eaters Korea
2. What are rated, pokemon, ghost fighter) - Can goods, Moonies
observations from - can junk foods, A.) Mix marriages
our community steal refined and 1992 – 30 thousand
regarding the the processed (South Korea)
economic situations power foods 1995 - 961 Philippine
and the major social of - Toxicated International Convention
problems? What are God in foods Center
the causes? their We don’t go 1997 – High School in
mind. against the Pampanga
Worsh government B.) Sports – Ex. Olympic, Sea
What do you know about ip but we should Games, ASEAN Games
U.N. gods be aware of C.)Pageant – Miss Universe/
Goals: instea the traps of Miss World
1. Peace and Unity d of Satan and the D.) Racial Discrimination –
APEC – Asia GOD. ways of they cannot attain peace and
Pacific Economic Corporation - We deceiving unity
2. To have one world are others.
government dec - Killing the INDUSTRY
3. Destruction of the eive third world
national identity d people by the 1. Global
(I.D System) total year 2000 for Competition
4. Destruction of ly 3 billion through
religion especially by people. equality
the Christian Sata (Overpopulate service.
religion n d) Examples:
5. Controls the human thro - Demoralized  DT
body especially the ugh labor work by I
mind called this creating mass Inf
“TECHNOTONICS”. sma employment. o
ll - Collapse world  Bus
god economic op

38
 erato satellite Hospital  Anim
r- is s al
Rural controlle Product
trans d by -SSS s
it one Ex.
Inc. group of - Chicke
etc. people Grocerie n -
 Gasol 4. Microchips s (raised
ine  Smalle at 45
Stati st chips -GSIS days)
on  Dram
 Ship chips -Bank, Milk
–  Data etc. from a
WGA Random 6. GMO- sheep
 Food Access Genetically – to
Shop Benefits Modified milk of
s- in Organism. a
Jollib Microchi  Contai mother
ee, ps ns  Anim
Gree - Estroge al
nwic Biological n that Cloning
h, harmless can
McD - cause TRIPARTISM
onald Surveillance- can third se U.S.A
2. Surplus easily located  Can ROME -
 RHD 5. I.D. System cause increase the value of dollar in
Heav  Manuf allergy the World Bank
y acture  Agricu -
Equi r of ltural Pope –the riches man in the
pme I.D. product world
nt Polaro s JAPAN -
3. Internet – id Inc enginee leading industry
(international  I.D. - red. GATT -
Network) All General Assembly to Tariff
 One Purpo (Genes combined) and trade
way to se WTO -
monitor Example: -potato World Trade Organization
the - -
people Drivers -tomato Philippine is one of
because I. D the members.
the - -French fries

39
 What is the - E.U. – such loan if the NGO
relationship? European creditor will follow the Developers- -
“We should not Union – terms and condition Subdivisions
attend rallies Designer of and their program.” As of
and other mass economy “ The loan 1992, there are more
action. Be - Cuba –all was granted to our than 70 subdivisions,
patience even sugar government. The 10 of them
unto death” products following Government paid
- Thailand –rice Agencies with there by
ECONOMIC - Japan following projects.” E.U
-Controlled by for
world leaders that influence by Guiding Question AGENCY 10M
Satan “ Why per
C.I.A - Philippines PROGRAM housi
Central Investigation Agency had no more DENR Tree ng
I.M.F. - enough rice to planting – Gemelina, projects.
International Monetary Fund supply the Manguim, Bagras,etc.
G.E. - need of DENR Small Other current news if
General Electric Filipino loan, Cooperative you have some share
people, that’s DSWD it . . .
FORCES why we need Training for
VFA - import rice for livelihood, loans Guiding Question:
Visiting Forces Agreement us even the TOURISM
US Forces price is high Develop
-President is enough. Sports
control (Adlib: Let Golf Why is it
-Carters’ them speak if field in Batangas that we do not have
Mission- Middle East they had idea sufficient rice even
-Bush Mission – Beaches and the
Muslim Country (Somalia) The Facilitator may Resorts price is high?
-Reagans’ say: DAR ARC-
Mission –Libya “The Coop Facilitator will prepare
Cadafe Philippines the Philippine Island
–do not want to sign the treaty Government does not and say let us try to
have sufficient funds Infrastructures/ look if we still have a
Attacked by missile then to run its program and Projects land to be planted for
he signed projects. Our Fast rice and other basic
-Clintons’ government depends harvest facilities foods (root crops) by
Mission – North Korea / Red on foreign fund and the Filipino people.
China loan from WB/ IMF. Agricultural
The WB will approved land development Note: Try to shade or
ECONOMY put a legend as
40
 shown in the Because of these neck. The news was scattered life/resurrection.
illustration in order for hardships, there are lots of already to the entire place, 3. Create human
them to visualize the mass actions (strikes) going and the news ceased. Days being. If he
real situation that we on now. But, whatever you do, after the news came the wants to appear
have. even the President of the monster was already there anywhere, he can
Philippines cannot control this because the first victim was a do it even to
situation. night student. The Media duplicate your
We as children of God, exposed again the news. The face and let it
we do not encourage you to people were alarmed. The appear in clouds
P join such activities, what we second victim made by the or in the banana.
K are going to do is, take our monster was killing a slander Why false: It is very false to
I part, that while they are drinking in the street at us because the
L having conflict we are to nighttime again. The next Bible has no
I continue to preach about the victim was a security guard specific time
P love of Christ and his Second the same killing was done. given and the
P Coming. Then be ready for His The last victim of this monster news is time
I coming. was the Drug Lord. setting. It is
N advantage to us
E Give the News from Sunday Question: because you can
Bandera; let them read the differentiate the
M news, and after reading get Is there any person that true and false
A their answer from the can be charged of that killing prophet.
P question, is it true or false? activity done? There is none Back to the News: In the
Then, let them support their because it is scripted. Like news, Sunday
There are two point; one answer. Before giving your what is happening to our bandera, read
hectares ?(2.4) Agricultural answer, give the story of the government now, whether we the 2000,after
land converted to industrial as DRUG LORD. like it or not we can do reading it read
of 1996. (PO1. Oct. 28, 1996). anything. The government will also G.C. 512
Land conversion was one of the The Story goes like this: always follow the mandates of those who honor
reasons why we do not have United Nations. the law of God
sufficient supply of rice. From The government of Lets us go back to the are accused of
Rice fields to Subdivision, from England gets into a problem question: Those who answer bringing
Rice fields to Golf fields to about drugs. The police cannot true is true and those who judgment upon
Housing Projects, from Corn touch this Drug Lord because answer false is false. the world.
fields to Gemelina plantation. of his influence. The Why true: It is true to the G.C. – 522 “the
government asked help to the enemy people of God at
Question: Where can you C.I.A. with this matter. What (Satan)because that time will
plant “rice” now, plus the the C.I.A. did was they made there are only undergo hardship
biological aggression. [The so news telling that there is a three thins he and weary. Like
called “Tungro”, Black bugs, monster that will come and cannot do, 1. To the time of
Kohol (cultured snail), La Niña the method of killing activity is read mind. 2. To Jacob.
and El Niño, etc.] by biting his victim to the give
41
G.C. – 525 “Like because of his G.C. – 530 – G.C. – 537 – The
Jacob you will be persistent prayer. People only time of trouble is
overwhelmed by “The period of shielded from a fearful trial to
the events and production is power deception God people; but
trying to seek an granted to all to that will take it is the time for
assurance if you prepare for that place.” every true
were forgiven time. Jacob gains “ Only those who believer to look
already, but at that strength because have been diligent up.?
nothing to worry he was student students
because the time persevering and of the scripture,
of trouble will start determined. His and who have
their case was victory is an receive the love of
already clear and evidence of these the truth, will be
their sins were power of shield from the
blotted out persistent prayer.” powerful delusion Year
already.” (deception) that 2000
G.C. – 526 – G.C. – 527 – takes the world
Christian Those who captive.” National
unprepared will exercise but little Sunday
lose all hope. faith now are in G.C. – 531 – God Law
“Those greatest danger of people who
professed Christian falling under the experience the Close of
who come up to power of satanic assurance during
that fear conflict deception.” their trying hour. Probation
unprepared, have “ We should now “Noah, Lot, Second
lost all hope, acquaint ourselves Joseph, Elijah,
confess their sins with God by Jeremiah, Daniel.”
with extreme pain, proving His Coming
while the wicked promises.” G.C. – 533 – “ The New
bring extreme “ The time of plagues are not
difficulties. Theses trouble such as universal” Of
confessions are of never was is soon “ The people of Jesus Christ
the same character to open upon us.” God will not be Jerusalem
as was that of Esau free from
or of Judas. Those G.C. – 528 – What suffering”
who make them we ought to do? Promise to the
mourn is the result “ It is in this life righteous
of their that we are to “ Bread shall be
transgression.” separate sin from given him, His INVESTIGATIVE
us.” water shall be JUDGMENT
G.C. – 526 – Jacob sure.”
is victorious
42
 Seven Last opinion they have is (Make a
1000 accepted. 7 Last graph as illustration
LITTLE TIME We are not trying to 1000 below).
Plagues bump the bible with
YEARS Christ. Plagues Years CHRIST
OF TROUBLE Just listen to their MAN
explanation. SATAN
After their opinion, you 1 Phase CHARACTER
sum it up. 2 CHARACTER
It is very true that we Phase 3 phase CHARACTER
ESCHATOLOGY know more about Jesus
when we read our bible,
 EVALUATION But be careful not to First Phase from 1844 to close - Loving
copy the record of the probation. - Pride
A. Observe the arrow from coward people like, (Investigative Judgment or - Sharing
the drawing below. Esau, Judas and some Pre- Advent Judgment) - Selfishness
other characters. They Dan. 8:14, Peter 4:17, Rev. - Giving
Jesus are also recorded in the 22:11 - Back bite
Christ Bible. - Humble
Second Phase is during one - Liar
Guiding question: How thousand years. - Caring
Attitude many phases of (Millennial judgment or Post
I judgment you know? Advent Judgment) Basically, man is
Let them put a line the 1 Corinthians 6:2-3 nothing, he only copy his
starting point to end the character between the two
Law following judgment. Third Phase is at the third examples. Sometime man
Verse 6 of John 14 say, “ No Coming of Jesus said I will follow you Lord but
one comes to the Father except Make a diagram. (The Final Judgment) eventually he is bringing with
through Jesus.” Our attitude Revelation 20:9-12, Mal. 3:1-4 Satan him. “Balingbing”
1844 Year NSL So much so, when your
should be that of Christ Jesus. CHRIST/ MAN/ SATAN
Close Second mother say “ walay kay
(Phil. 2:5) Guiding question:
Third batasan” don’t get mad to her
Ask them to give man’s
2000 because we do not have our
If the dotted arrow will follows, righteousness or
of Coming own “batasan.” (Adlib: After
how will it affect your attitude? character that originated
Coming your presentation read steps
Note: Don’t forget to read John by man.
14:6, Phil. 2:5 then read to Christ Pp. 42, a character
Probation form.
the question to be Note: Don’t tell directly
answered. to anybody by saying “wala
Don’t forget that this kay batasan” Christ character:
portion is mental, Christ character stand
Investigative in place of your character and
checking, whatever Judgment that is accepted to God if you
43
have not sinned.” Steps to A place of love where - Divide them into small for your redemption
Christ Pp.42 everyone is free group 6-8 member. draweth night.
- After roaming around,
He is perfect: Don’t despair the youth, the the facilitator who 7.PLAY THE MUSIC: “
happiness is wide guide the group will It Won’t Be Long”
“ He is perfect and holy If we must change bring to the (Repeat it twice)
example given to use to ourselves, call on God for designated area; After playing the song
imitate. We cannot be guide. where they make an twice the coordinator
approved of God if we do not assembly for the will read again Luke
copy it, and according to the SONG emphasis. The 21:28. After reading,
ability that God has given, Who will be changed? facilitator (who guided the assigned facilitator
resemble it.” a. Ourselves___ the group) form them from each group, will
b. Parents____ into a small circle remove their respective
CONCLUSSION: c. Others____ holding hand in hand blindfold and start the
Paper Plane and (setting standing) testimonies.
-Last days are he/she will not let
like a paper plane. CLOSING SONG: It’s them while playing the 8. TESTIMONIES:
-What you can time to change . . . song. (ONE BY ONE)
do not defer it or neglected it, The facilitator assigned
for we will CLOSING PRAYER: 6.NARRATION: while may ask the following
pass this way they are in the small questions; What did
but once. group, setting or you feel while walking
standing before playing with a blindfold?
REDEMPTION the cassette the What did you
MAKE A TITLE FROM coordinator will narrate, understand in the
THE LYRICS BELOW and he/she may say; we message of the song?
1.Form a big circle are in this dark and After their testimonies,
2.OPENING SONG: Side rugged world, and we the group will have two
by Side are walking in a narrow prayers.
3.OPENING PRAYER road, if we are alone
Its time for us to make 4. BLIND FOLD and nobody guides us, 9.TWO PRAYERS: One
our dreams come true 5.TRANSPORT: Example what will happen to us, will pray from the
A guiding voice will tell is TRUST WALK, assure we need Jesus to guide FLIESEE & One will
us what to do them you are to guide. us. The world is waiting pray from
Its time to change Tell them to obey, follow terrible events that no FACILITATOR
ourselves and show the world simple instructions. man could describe but After the prayer, all
That we still care for NOTE: [Avoid clapping of Jesus said; and when group will join together
men we’ll lead them there hands, avoid unrealistic these things begin to to form a big circle and
obstacles, by sure that come to pass, then look let them prepare their
your FLISEE safe.] up and lift your heads letter to Jesus for
We’ll lead them to a - Let them walk 3-5 burning letters.
place beyond the sea minutes
44
10. BURNING LETTERS: sale lady why is it that friends; brothers, and schedule of
(The coordinator will the people around are sisters, relatives and FLIESing
pay a role, he/she will very noisy. Then the other people may
lead) woman said, it is stumble because of 18. ACCEPTANCE: All
EMPHASIS: The Lord because of the total our wrongdoing. We Facilitators will move
knows what you need, black out. The blind will ask the Lord to one step forward
even putting it in writings, man went home. guide us, to teach us form a circle then
just wait for the answer Before living the he what to do in order to shake the hands of
because Jesus said ask the sale lady that become light of the the FLIESE.
anything you ask in my he will buy a candle world.
name you will be given. for him, the sales lady (Then you sing “
Because we don’t have a give him a candle. On BRIGHTLY BEAMS)
mailbox for it, we will burn the way home, he
our letters so that nobody happens to pass by a 12. SING BRIGHTLY FACILITATORS
can read our sentiments group of bystanders. BEAMS: Song Leader
and petitions. One of the bystanders After singing that WHEEL
After burning the letters, wondered why this song, sing them the
back up of coordinator will blind man is bringing dedicatory song
give each one of them a with him a candle. For
candle (FLIESEE). Prepare his curiosity and 13. DEDICATORY
for burning. eagerness he ask this SONG: “ WHY HAVE
blind man and said; YOU CHOSEN ME”
11. BURNING CANDLES: friend why is that you After singing the
(Coordinator will lead are bringing with you dedicatory song you
the burning and will a candle for you are will have two (2)
relate the story of the blind man? What’s the dedicatory prayers
BLIND MAN) use of that candle for
Story of the blind man: you? The blind man 14. DEDICATORY
(While relating the answered I bring this PRAYER:
story, candles are light candle because I don’t One from FLIESEE
off already) want that somebody One From
There is a blind may stumble because FACILITATOR
man living near the of me. I bring with me
market. This man used this light whoever 15. CLOSING SONG:
to go to the market. meet me on the way “SIDE BY SIDE”
One night while he is in they can see me
the market he heard an through this light. 16. CLOSING PRAYER:
unpleasant noise Emphasis:
because of the total We are the 17. ANNOUNCEMENT:
black out. At that time light of the world. Let Schedule of reunion,
he is sitting at the your light so shine. invitation of workshop
store, he asked the We will not let our
45
 containing present assured that God gives 
truths. no one authority to say Since
that Christ delays His t
coming five years, ten 
7T.157,158 (SOP 2- years or twenty years. “ Sens
Personality 1129) be ye also ready; for in o
such an hour as ye think h
FUNCTION “THEY THAT BE not the Son of man m
The collection of emotional and TEACHERS” cometh.” (Matthew o
Special “Third angels 24:24) 
purpose, the particular message, the great Voice
behavioral trait, that testing for truth at this 21 a
characterize time, is to be taught in SW116, SOP2, 1503 d
purpose which all institution. The time s
a person or thing is short. The perils of e
a person distinction of personal the last days are upon PERSONALITY c
is us, and we should watch Ways are pleasing
specially fitted or used and pray, and duty and  Physical health and
or for heed the lessons that VALUE
dynamic
and social traits. are given us in books of personality
which Daniel and Revelation… QUALITY
 Good grooming, poise
a thing exists. The youth should refinement
understand these things. Something (as a principle or
in voice and action.
“ TEACH, WRITE AND They should know the ideal) Peculiar and essential
 Courtesy, kindness,
PUBLISH” things that will come to character
sympathy
Let all have to preach, pass before the closing Important value or desirable.
and tact.
to write, and to publish in up of the world history. Degree of excellence
 Sincerity and honest
regard to those things These things concern 
that are now to be eternal welfare, and Knowl
fulfilled, and that concern teachers and students e
Not afraid or terrified
the eternal welfare of should give more d

souls. Give meal in due attention to them. g
Crea
season to old and young, e
i
to saints and sinners. Let 
a
everything that can be 6T.128,129 Enthu
a
said to awaken the si
r
church from its slumbers THE GREAT CONTROVERSY a
c
be brought forward with – ALMOST 6000 s
e
out delay . . . Let more “ No one has true m
time be given to the message giving the time
publication and when Christ is to come
circulation of books or not to come. Be
46
  y, art, regardless of age and c.
Ability to craft, professional. Each group has a
orga cunni 2.This is an outdoor topic to be discussed.
nize ng. activity which has to d.
be done a whole day Each group have one
Sound Mind depend on the Facilitator and one
 schedule. back-up to
Democra 3.Setting is preferably in a facilitate the
tic breath taking nature discussion.
lead supplied with water e. Rotation
er and electricity. among Facilitators
 4.Activities of the program and back-ups done
Positive and cooking are after the topic.
and MATERIALS already arranged and f. Marathon
enco schedule to be done prayer will go on when the
uragi-Bible by Facilitators program start until
ng -Ballpen themselves. g. Every
attit -Great Controversy 5.The host prepares food topic has
ude -Pictures consequently it fallows an open
 -Health & Happiness the objective. discussio
Sense of -Paper plane (Vegetables) n. This
hum-Patriarchs & Prophet 6.The District Leaders will
or -Scratch paper should approve every encourag
-Ministry of healing Flies Program and e the
FUNCTION -Tarpulin /Banig church elders concern. h. participa
-Ply Board 7.There should be a letter nts to
CAPACITY -3x5 index card of request from the share
SKILL -Handouts mission or conference their
Legal qualification, the ability to -Photo copy of passages done by District opinions,
Ability to use once -Cassette Tapes Leader. views
knowledge -News paper 8.Prepare a Ten (10) and
contain, receive or accumulate -Cassette Player pesos for handouts ideas.
effectively -Blind folds Mechanics h. Activity before
-Name Tags/I.D. a. closing. Sharing of reflection.
To -Permits Introduction of FLIES i. Find activity: candle
deve PROGRAM lighting, commitment service
lop GUIDELINES IN b. and
or CONDUCTING FLIES Participants/ FLIESE special prayer.
acqu PROGRAM will be divided equally
ired 1.This program is open to into small
SDA and Non-SDA, groups.
abilit
47
REQUIREMENTS OF  My GOD Loves Me hour, as ye think not the son
 Seek Ye First of man cometh”
WORKSHOP  It’s Time for Us 7T p.157, 158 / SOP2
 Side by Side p. 1129 Matt. 24: 4
PLACE - conducive for learning  Brightly Beams
ROOM - Ventilated  Why Have You Chosen THEY THAT BE TEACHERS 2 Sm. 116, SOP2
CHALK, BOARD, ERASER, AND Me 1503
CHALK  Welcome to the Family The three angels Dear friend:
BALLPEN, PENCIL, EXTRA message, the great testing for
PAPERS or NOTEBOOKS Song Inspiration truth at this time is to be Christian greetings!
PERSONAL BOOK: taught in all our institution. This hand out was the
- Bible,  I’ve got peace like a river The time is short. The perils of result of FLIES program
- Great  Come on Everybody the last days are upon us, and conducted by young people in
Controversy,  Jesus is my Captain we should watch and pray and Mindanao, some part of
Patriarchs &  My toes, my knees duty and heed the lessons that Visayas, and a part of Luzon.
Prophets (Michael Jackson are given us In Books of David The personal experience,
- Health & version) and Revelation. The youth personal study, and personal
happiness  Turn your eyes upon Jesus should understand these testimonies compose this
STAY-IN  T. I. I. O. things. They should know the hand out. Upon the request
EXTRA MONEY FOR HAND-OUT  Beside the Seaside things that will come to pass of the active youth, this hand
FOOD – Preferably vegetables  I’m here because you’re before the closing up of the out come into existence. This
here world history. These things is also the result of their
concerned welfare, and group study and discoveries
SONGS teachers and students should on the Bible, Spirit of
TEACH, WRITE: PUBLISH give more attention to them. Prophecy, and some other
reliable source of references
 I’M alive, Alert, Awake Let all have to teach, to G.T. to each subject.
 I’ve Got Spirit write, and to publish in regard p. 128,129 We hope that through
 I’ve Got Love Like an to those things that are now to this hand out you will learn,
Ocean be fulfilled, and that concern THE GREAT grow and will become a
the eternal welfare of souls. responsible Christian and
 Love is Something CONTROVERSY become effective in doing our
 When Jesus in the Give meal in due season to old
Family and young, to saints and masters work. Don’t forget to
sinners. Let everything that Almost good- “no one live FLIES in your heart. This
 I’ve Got a Home in has a true message giving the
Glory Land can be said to awaken the hand out is open for some
church from its slumbers be time when Christ is to come or suggestion or Enovation for
 The Time to be Happy not to come. Be assure that
is Now brought forward without growth. More power.
delay… Let more tie be given God gives no one authority to God bless you always.
 It’s a Good Thing to be say that Christ delays His
Together to the publication and
circulation of books containing coming five years, ten years,
 For God so Love the or twenty years. Be ye
World present truths. Facilitators
therefore ready, for in such an
48
49