Top Questions to Ask to Determine Compatibility

1. What scary movies do you like to watch

a. What is your favorite scary movie?
b. Do you like scary movies?
2. What do you think about chucking it all and going to live on a sailboat?
3. Are you a workaholic?
4. Do you like camping?
5. Are you interested in a threesome?
6. How often have you traveled around the world alone??
a. Have you ever traveled around the world alone?
7. How often do you open doors for women?
a. Do you open doors for women?
8. How often do you actively growth and development work — psychologically, spiritually,
romantically, sexually?
a. How often do you research how to improve and learn about psychology?
b. How often do you spend time meditating?
c. How often do you look into creative ways to be romantic?
d. What are some things to improve yourself sexually?

50 Other Compatibility Questions

#1 What is the ideal number of calls a couple should exchange in a day?

#2 Would you compromise your happiness for the success of the relationship?

#3 What’s your idea of a romantic vacation?

#4 What’s the single most important thing for a relationship to be successful?

#5 What would you define as cheating?

#6 If I cheated on you, would you ever forgive me?

#7 Would you ever say sorry to me even if it’s not your fault?

 Would you apologize for anything even if it is not your fault?

#8 Are you friends with any of your exes?

#9 How should finances be planned between a couple?

#10 Do you think celebrating Valentine’s Day is corny?

#11 What was your first impression about me?

#12 Can you avoid flirting if someone attractive flirts with you when I’m not around?

#13 Do you think romantic gifts have to be memorable or do they have to be useful?

#14 How would you want to spend a special day with each other?

#15 What is the most special memory of us that you hold?

#16 If I told you to jump off a tall cliff and tell you that you’ll land safely because there’s a net
you can’t see yet, would you blindly trust me and jump?

#17 Do you have to know all of my friends?

#18 Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?

#19 Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger? [Read: Should you really ever
confess to cheating?]

#20 Is it fine for a partner to use the toilet with the door open?

#21 After a break up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back all the gifts?

#22 Which love song best describes our relationship?

#23 Describe your perfect man/woman that you would like to date.

#24 In a relationship, what would make you feel happier, sharing or sacrificing? [Read: What is
unconditional love really?]

#25 Would you lie to make me happy and where would you draw the line?

#26 What are some annoying habits of other couples that irritate you the most?

#27 Who would you prefer as a partner, a good looking person or an extremely clever person?

#28 How do you vent out your frustrations in a relationship? [Read: The right way to fight fair in
a relationship]

#29 When was the last time I came in your dreams?

#30 If we went to a store to buy a couch and both of us liked different couches, would you still
go with my pick?

#31 Is sex about constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules? [Read: Top 50 kinky
ideas for a sexy relationship]
#32 How often would you want to go out on a date with me in a month?

#33 What is your biggest sexual turn off?

#34 What do you find sexiest about a person of the opposite sex?

#35 What’s your wildest sexual fantasy that you’d want to try with me? [Read: Top sexual
fantasies for men and top sexual fantasies for women]

#36 Would you feel insecure if I spent a lot of time at work?

#37 How many sexual partners have you had in the past?

#38 If you were convinced that I was making a bad decision, what would you do about it?

#39 Do you like babies/how many kids would you like to have someday?

#40 When was the last time you disliked me?

#41 If someone attractive exchanges glances with you at work, would you tell me about it?

#42 What’s the craziest thing you’d be willing to do for me?

#43 What kind of a parent do you think you’d be?

#44 When do you think a person is ready for marriage? [Read: How to know if he’s ready for
marriage]

#45 What’s the one thing about me you’d like to change?

#46 In an argument, whose side would you take, me or your mother?

#47 Would you relocate for love? [Read: 25 relationship rules for successful love]

#48 Would you be open to disclosing all your health issues to me all the time?

#49 If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you
and cheer you up?

#50 What’s more important, sexual chemistry or spending time together?

 Compatibility Questionnaire

1. Do I like how he treats me?

2. Am I a priority in his life?
3. Does he respect me?
4. Do I feel safe around him?
5. Does he accept me for who I am?
6. Am I being my authentic self around him?
7. Can I express myself freely when difficult situations come up?
8. Do I feel secure when we're together and when we're not together?
9. Does he inspire me to be the best version of myself?
10. Is he encouraging and supportive of what I want in life?
11. Is he genuinely happy for me when good things happen to me?
12. Can I live with his quirky behaviors and traits?
13. Do I like him the way he is if he never changes?
14. Am I having fun with him?
15. Do I like who I am when I'm with and without him?
16. Do I feel uplifted when we're together?
17. Do I feel free to pursue my passions, have alone time, and spend time with friends and family?
18. Do my family and friends like him?
19. Do I like his family and friends?
20. Can I see us growing old together?
21. Now, you'll need to answer some questions about him. (After all, he is the variable factor in this
equation)!
22. About him
23. Does he treat his family well?
24. Does he treat others well?
25. Is he patient with me?
26. Does he bring out the best in me?
27. Can he live with my quirky behaviors and traits?
28. Does he have any red flags?
29. Is he a true friend?
30. Is he open to trying new things and adventures?
31. Is he open to my perspectives?
32. Has he introduced me to his family and friends?
33. Does he include me in all aspects of his life?
34. Does he add joy to my life?
35. Do his behaviors and actions match his words?
36. Does he have integrity (i.e. trustworthy, does what he says and says what he does, etc.)?
37. Is he ready to settle down with one woman?
38. Is he looking for a long-term commitment?
39. About us
40. Do we have similar goals in life?
41. Do we share similar morals and values?
42. Do we have similar financial styles?
43. Do we communicate openly and respectfully?
44. Do we truly enjoy each other's company?
45. Do we add to each other's lives in a positive way?
46. Does our connection grow stronger each time we see each other?
47. Are we looking for the same type of relationship?