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INSTANT IMPROVEMENTS
THINGS YOU CAN DO TONIGHT TO GET THE GIRL
Bonus Chapter
Instant Improvements:
Things You Can Do Tonight To Get The Girl
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• Correcting poor posture takes time and conscious effort. If you have particularly poor posture it’s defnitely
worth going to see a specialist.
o Start tonight by making the effort to Lengthen and to avoid slouching. Imagine that there is
a piece of string attached to the tip of your spine that you are dangling from.
o Improving your posture will have a massive impact on how people perceive and
communicate with you.
o You’re shooting yourself in the foot when you walk into a venue slouching and looking
defeated.
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o Imagine that your body is Lengthening and Widening – Having these images and thoughts
running through your mind will encourage your muscles to relax and respond.
Make an Entrance
o Look around with your eyes rather than your • Subtext works best when you have an
whole head – it may feel a little weird at first but antithetical thought running through your head
from an external point of view you’ll look a lot as you say a sentence.
more self assured and project confidence
immediately; in a dark night club it’s difficult to • For example try Saying “I Hate You”
see someone’s eyes from a distance. while Thinking “I Love You”. How does that affect
the delivery of the line?
o If you’re with friends engage and talk to them
without breaking your stride. • Or how about Saying “We’re gonna
fight!” while Thinking “We’re gonna fuck like
o Go and approach your first group at the back of rabbits!”
the room.
• Subtext is one of the most powerful
o If you’re on your own have a playful smile on your foundations of Playfulness, Teasing and Flirting.
face walk calmly through the venue and open Practising subtext and double meaning will
your first group or single girl towards the back of make the interaction fun for you and the girls
the room. you’re getting to know.
o Our Reticular activation System is designed to seek out the value in a room and draw our
attention to it.
o In a night club or a bar the attractive women very quickly trigger most guys RAS. The scantily
clad blonde that walks past and stops men mid conversation receives a degree of validation
just from knowing the effect that she has on men.
o Fight the temptation to look or better still, look, make eye contact and then look away (before
she does), unimpressed by what she has to offer. You’ll instantly set yourself apart from the
vast majority of guys losing their minds and dribbling into their drinks; and draw her
attention.
o Then go and open with something challenging – Something I like to use on the super hot
girls is “Hey, so basically...because you’re hot you think you don’t have to say
hi...” Step back and cross your arms with a playful smile. (credit Daxx)
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Opening
o Whichever way your groin is pointing is the direction that your power is going – In regards to
body language when I’m teaching and I tell a guy “you’re giving your power away” I’m
referring to him giving the group his full attention, with his groin pointing towards them
completely.
Indirect
o Your full attention should be earned during the course of the interaction.
• Open without fully facing the group and then, only as they warm up and start to invest in
the interaction (after you baiting for investment), do you turn to fully face them.
Direct
o You’re making a point and creating a moment with this particular girl.
o Your full, controlled power as a man is unleashed as you make your desire known. There is
no way that she can ignore you as you open.
o Note here that this doesn’t mean being aggressive or man handling her; your physical
strength should always be under your control and you should view it when meeting women
as a strong nurturing force rather than an aggressive destructive one.
• If a woman is walking past with a bunch of people walking around it may not be the best
time spatially to start the conversation.
• The momentum of the crowd is against you and it makes the chances of her stopping
slightly less likely.
• If she does stop you’re going to be fighting against people bumping into you both and
she’ll eventually get uncomfortable.
• It is possible to stop women in such circumstances however being Spatially Aware and
waiting maybe a few seconds until she is in a better area or preplanning exactly where to
move her once she stops, will increase your chances of opening.
Attraction
• Lock In
o This means making yourself part of the group physically, so that if someone was looking over
at the group they’d think you all knew each other, not that you’re a random guy they just met.
o Locking in also causes a psychophysical reaction in the women that you’re talking to. By
moving into a position where you’re slightly more comfortable, it sets up the dynamic of them
investing in, and chasing, you.
o Lean back against the bar/wall and have them facing you with their backs to the rest of the
room.
• It creates a little bubble where it’s just you and the girls you’re talking to, making it easier
to hold their attention in a high energy environment.
• This demonstrates huge pre-selection. Anyone outside of the group who observes you,
see’s a group of attractive women looking as if they are hitting on you.
o The foundational ideas behind takeaways are that you are willing to walk away and are not
taking the interaction too seriously. They also give her a slight feeling of loss, the sense that
she is losing you (but that she can get you back)
o These are done at emotional high points – After making them laugh or drawing them in with
intriguing stories.
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• Looking around the room briefly then coming back to the conversation.
• Stopping mid sentence and looking for a friend (Don’t move far away, creating a little
distance will be enough to trigger the feelings of losing you)
o The way you touch can tell a story; about how comfortable you are with women and the type
of relationship that is developing.
o Studies have proven that we generally like people more when we touch.
o Start touching as early in the interaction as possible. Some ways to make touch fun and
comfortable is to:
• Use high fives to reward ANYTHING!
• “You’re from Stockholm! TIP: High Five Anything As long
Awesome, high five!” as you break the touch barrier
• “You’re celebrating Friday...!? that you’ll naturally feel from
Awesome! High Five” starting a conversation with a
stranger.
Qualification/Comfort
• Many guys have trouble rewarding women for their unique character qualities. It’s hugely important to show
her that you “Get her” and that you see who she is under the facade that most people put on in a nightclub.
• There are very specific things that I teach guys to do when rewarding a woman in order to drastically improve
the impact of their compliments.
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Go out tonight and try the above. You’ll find that the tips will have a massive and immediate impact on your interac-
tions and the great thing is that you don’t have to memorize a word!
Vercetti