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Sex demystify
The process to having an amazing sex
By Dheolar
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Table of Contents
Introduction ......................................................................................5
Chapter 1 – Basic Sex .........................................................................7
Benefit of sex .................................................................................... 9
Your brain on sex ............................................................................. 13
Sex etiquette ................................................................................... 14
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INTRODUCTION
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Chapter 1-
SEX BASIC
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physical
intellectual
emotional
psychological
social
Sexual health is more than avoiding diseases and
unplanned pregnancies. It’s also about recognizing that
sex can be an important part of your life.
How can sex benefit your body?
This study suggests that sex can be good cardiovascular
exercise in younger men and women. Though sex isn’t
enough exercise on its own, it can be considered light
exercise.
Some of the benefits you can get from sex include:
lowering blood pressure
burning calories
increasing heart health
strengthening muscles
reducing your risk of heart disease, stroke, and
hypertension
increasing libido
People with active sex lives tend to exercise more
frequently and have better dietary habits than those who
are less sexually active. Physical fitness may also
improve sexual performance overall.
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Better sleep
Your body releases oxytocin, also called the “love” or
“intimacy” hormone, and endorphins during an orgasm.
The combination of these hormones can act as sedation.
Better sleep can contribute to:
a stronger immune system
a longer lifespan
feeling more well-rested
having more energy during the day
In men
A recent review found that men who had more frequent
penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI) had less risk of
developing prostate cancer.
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In women
Having an orgasm increases blood flow and releases
natural pain-relieving chemicals.
Sexual activity in women can:
improve bladder control
reduce incontinence
relieve menstrual and premenstrual cramps
improve fertility
build stronger pelvic muscles
help produce more vaginal lubrication
potentially protect you against endometriosis, or the
growing of tissue outside your uterus
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Confidence booster
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Social benefits
Sex can help you connect to your partner, thanks to
oxytocin. Oxytocin can play a role in developing
relationships. You may find that consistent, mutual sexual
pleasure helps with bonding within a relationship.
Coupled partners often have increased relationship
satisfaction when they fulfill one another's sexual desires.
You may find positive growth in your relationship when
you’re able to express yourself and your sexual desires.
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SEX ETIQUETTE
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chapter 2-
SEDUCTION
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chapter 3-
FOREPLAY
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Nibbling earlobes
Sucking and biting someone’s neck
Licking and sucking nipples
French kissing
Caressing and squeezing breasts
Stroking a man’s penis
Stroking a woman’s clit
Licking and kissing an anus
Lightly caressing someone all over their body
Fingering a vagina
Fingering an anus
Spanking someone’s ass
Playing with testicles
Telling him he’s good at guitar
Telling her you like her poetry
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EROTIC TOUCH
Physical affection may be the most powerful of all love
languages, and we have come to associate intimate
touch with deep commitment. Women rate affection as
one of the most important components of a loving
relationship.
Plus, researchers have found that couples who caress one
another experience a reduction in stress hormones, blood
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Massage Techniques
The sensual massage techniques that follow will have
your lover’s body writhing in pleasure and impassioned
desire. Before you begin, make sure the room is a
comfortable temperature and your partner is relaxed,
whether that means sitting in a chair or lying on the bed.
Make it interesting by giving her a blindfold to wear. You
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Palm circles get the blood flowing to all the right places.
Just be sure to cover your hands in a light massage oil
before circling them over his chest, abs, and hips. Figure
eights allow you to explore her body with large sweeping
sensations. Use two wet fingers to trace loops of figure-
eight patterns along her collarbone, arms, and the sides
of her breasts.
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Chapter 4-
USING YOUR BODY KNOWLEDGE: TOUCH-ZONE
EXPLORATION
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• Clitoris
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Nearly all women know that their clitoris is that little pink
glans (or head) inside the hood at the top where the labia
(vaginal lips) come together. It is sometimes compared to
the penis because of its shaftlike shape. But there is a lot
more to the clitoris than the small erection you see. It is
attached to spongy tissue and connected to an extensive
system of nerves curving around the vagina. For the
majority of women, the clitoris and the surrounding tissue
are the most sexually sensitive parts of the body.
• The G-spot
The G-spot is that spongy mass of rough tissue located in
the front wall of the vagina halfway between the pubic
bone and the cervix and below the opening of the
urethra. (Because you feel it through the vagina, the G-
spot has been erroneously defined as being inside it.) And
each one of us feels like an explorer when we find our
own.
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• The U-spot
We typically don’t think of the urethra as a sexy place.
But the tiny area of tissue above the opening of the
urethra
(and right below the clitoris) is a separate pleasure point.
Many women stimulate their U spots during masturbation
without being aware that they are. Men typically discover
it by accident while looking for the clitoris. If you’ve ever
thought, “That’s not the place, but wait a minute, it feels
good,” he’s hit your U spot with his finger or tongue. And
it’s a good place for him to shift his attention between
orgasms if your clitoris is too sensitive to the touch for a
few moments. Try that after your first orgasm while
masturbating.
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The Big H
The head of the penis is his primary touch zone, as the
clitoris is yours. And you knew that. But it’s not all about
the top of the head. Take in the rest of it, especially the
top third. As most women do, you may be ignoring the
corona, the thick ridge separating the head from the
shaft. But it is exquisitely sensitive to touch. Run your
finger repeatedly around the corona. Then swirl your
tongue around it in a move called the “silken swirl,” a
skill refined by Italian courtesans during the Renaissance.
The F Place
The frenulum is that loose section of skin on the
underside of the penis, where the head meets the shaft.
In most men it is highly sensitive to touch. Some men
reach orgasm more quickly if a woman strums the
frenulum with her tongue during fellatio. Another
effective move: When you are holding his penis, run one
thumb up and down the F Place.
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The R Line
The raphe is the visible line along the center of the
scrotum, an area of the male anatomy that women often
overlook. The skin of the scrotum is very sensitive, similar
to a woman’s labia. Gently run your fingertips along the
raphe or lick it occasionally during fellatio. If you are
holding his testicles in one hand while playing with his
penis, use your thumb to stroke the raphe.
The P Zone
The perineum, that area an inch or so in size between the
anus and the base of the scrotum, is more neglected than
the raphe. Rich in nerve endings, the perineum is the
second most important touch zone for some men, right
after the head of the penis. Stroke it lightly; alternate that
with gentle pressure from your thumb and see what
happens.
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Put a little warm oil in the palm of one hand and rub
your hands together so they are lightly oiled, not
dripping.
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Caress her inner thighs from her knees up. Let your
thumb or fingers graze her vulva as you reach the
top of her thighs. Or turn him over and try the
following
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Now it’s time for the happy ending. Her happy ending:
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Hold the base of his penis in one hand and work your
other hand in a circular fashion to the head. Use the
palm of that hand to caress the head of his penis.
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Chapter 5-
EJACULATION
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FEMALE EJACULATION
What is female ejaculation?
Female ejaculation can occur due to sexual arousal.
Female ejaculation refers to the expulsion of fluid from a
female’s urethra during orgasm or sexual arousal. The
urethra is the duct that carries urine from the bladder to
the outside of the body. It can happen when a female
becomes sexually aroused, but there is not necessarily an
association with having an orgasm.
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The Seat
Sit back on your heels and reach your arms forward. Hold
one minute, then sit up and lean back as far as you can,
hands on the floor behind you for support. Hold one
minute. Do three times daily.
Sit back against the headboard with your legs bent and
your feet flat on the mattress.
Curl a finger into your vagina and pull up toward the wall
of your stomach. Press into the upper wall as you feel the
tissue begin to swell.
MALE EJACULATION
What’s an erection? Why does it happen?
Boner. Wood. Stiffy. Hard-on. There are lots of nicknames
for erections. An erection is when blood flows into your
penis faster than it flows out, and makes the spongy
tissue in your penis swell.
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Chapter 6-
ORGASM
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ORGASM EXPLAINED
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HER ORGASM
Orgasm is a powerful, pleasurable physical and
psychological response to intense stimulation— usually
genital stimulation. During orgasm the vagina, sphincter,
and uterus contract simultaneously as the blood that has
congested in the vaginal area suddenly rushes back into
the rest of the body. The contractions generally last from
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• Multiple orgasms.
MULTIPLE ORGASMS
Less than a third of women have multiple orgasms, with
fewer experiencing them on a regular basis. It is
theoretically possible for every woman who can have one
orgasm to have multiples. Men need a refractory period,
a respite between ejaculatory orgasms that varies from
less than thirty minutes in young men to more than a day
in older men. The refractory period limits their options
unless they practice Tantra and learn how to experience
orgasm without ejaculating. Some sexologists share the
Eastern belief that male orgasm typically includes
ejaculation, but that men can learn to separate the
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THE CLIT IS IT
You that the clit is oh so much more than the tiny nub
you can feel at the top of her vulva. That nub, however, is
pretty freaking important to her pleasure. It’s actually the
key to her orgasm. You know this. She knows this. When
it’s time, direct your magic toward the clit.
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Rub the side of her clit with the tips of your fingers. You
can also try rubbing across the top of her hood without
pulling it back. Get some lube ready, because you’re
going to want it. No matter how wet she is, everything
feels better with lube. And if you doubt me here, or if lube
is new to you, trust me. Lube not only makes penetration
more comfortable, but it is also an unparalleled sexual
prop. If you teach yourself how and when to use lube—
and you make it a common part of your sex routine—you
will come across as a sexual virtuoso who knows what
women want!
First, cover your hand with lube. Use more than you think
you need. Drizzle some lube on her vulva and make your
hand into a loose, flexible fist. Rub her pussy in an up and
down motion using the back of your knuckles. Using your
hand this way can really help you touch many sensitive
parts of her pussy at the same time. Apply more lube as
you need it. You can keep doing this as long as you’d like;
in fact, this is a great way to bring her to orgasm. Just be
sure to keep to a rhythm and maintain contact with her
vulva.
Check in with her often, and ask her how it feels. Does
she need more direct contact with her clit? Ask!
FINGER MAGIC
Most women can have very intense orgasms from
focused, direct clitoral stimulation. If she is easily
distracted during sex or has trouble reaching orgasm, you
should try focusing all your attention on her clit with only
the tip of your finger.
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SMALL CIRCLES
Once she’s ready, begin stroking her clit in small, tight
circles using your index or middle finger. Your goal is to
stick to one finger, one rhythm, and one move. If she
knows that you aren’t going to switch things up at the
last minute, she can better relax into the sensations.
Focus your attention on the upper portions of her clit, just
slightly off center. If her clit were a clock, you’d want to
focus on caressing her at about 10 o’clock and 2 o’clock.
Keep making small circles with the tip of your finger,
paying attention to the feeling of her clit as you move
around it. Stay focused. Do not break contact with her
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You know how straight guys are afraid to have anal sex
because they think it’ll turn them gay? Well, guess what?
You’re already gay! You get to have as much anal sex as
you want. Many women have their most intense orgasms
from anal sex, especially when it’s combined with oral
sex or a vibrator on the clit. All it takes to enjoy anal sex
is a bath and an open mind. You know what they say: free
your mind and your ass will follow!
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BREAST ORGASMS
Breasts are often at the forefront of sex play—and for
good reason! Not only are they soft, round, and beautiful
to look at, but they are a primary source of pleasure for
many women and men.
In fact, some women can actually reach orgasm from
breast and nipple stimulation alone! This may be
attributable to the fact that the genital sensory cortex in
the brain, which is the same region impacted by
stimulation of the vagina and clitoris, is activated through
nipple play.
But the nipples are not the only sensitive part of the
breast. Many women pinpoint the area right above the
areola as the most responsive to sexual touch. And the
breasts change considerably during arousal, increasing
(temporarily) in size and sensitivity. Ask her to show you
how she likes to be touched at various points in her
arousal cycle, or put these tried-and-true techniques to
the test:
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Slide your lips over her nipple and twirl your tongue
gently around her areola while you cup her breasts from
below.
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of the testicles.
Stroke his perineum during sex play. If he is responsive,
come back there later—and if not, skip this section.
(Perineum massage makes some men crazy, but it has
little effect on others and leaves many confused.
Now that you know how to spot his, you can trigger it one
of these moves:
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Get on Top
The female superior position is the best one for
controlling thrusting. Lower yourself on to only the head
of his penis and pull back. Tease and taunt. Hold his
hands over his head and run your tongue all over his
body. Take the attention off his penis until his arousal
subsides somewhat. Then mount him again.
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PROSTATE ORGASMS
The prostate gland is located right next to your rectum,
just beyond the anal canal. You may have heard that it is
located inside of your butt, but it’s actually a friendly
neighbor that rests against the sensitive front of the
rectal wall. It is round and somewhat conical in shape and
sits in the pelvic cavity between the bladder and the
pelvic floor. Responsible for secreting a slightly alkaline
fluid that helps to carry and support sperm, for many
men, this responsive gland is also a source of undeniable
sexual pleasure. Often referred to as the male G-spot, its
muscular and glandular tissue surrounds the urethra and
swells during arousal like its female counterpart.
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To find this hot spot, lie back with your knees pulled into
your chest and your legs spread open. Your lover can
kneel between your legs and begin with a sensuous
external massage to get you primed and then slide a
lubed finger into your bum. As she curls it up toward the
anterior wall (in the direction of your stomach), she may
feel the gland swell with arousal. Try these other tips for
internally massaging the prostate:
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For Men
Since most men experience a refractory period after they
come, dry orgasms may be the best approach to male
multiples. Without ejaculation, you can maintain peak
arousal levels after orgasm without losing your erection.
Learning to have multiple orgasms through dry climaxes
takes time, practice, and patience, so do not worry if you
are not able to control your physical reactions from the
onset. It can take weeks, months, or even
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For Women
Some women have several orgasms in a row without
reverting to the early stages of sexual arousal, and others
have a series of less intense orgasms culminating in a
more powerful climax.
Some have orgasms that are considerably spaced out,
and others report that they enjoy alternating between
orgasms generated from clitoral stroking and those that
originate from G-spot pressure.
There is no comprehensive formula to enjoying multiples,
but these approaches will enhance your sexual
experience regardless of how many times you climax:
After orgasm, your clitoris can become hypersensitive, so
most women avoid direct stimulation. However, some
women say that if you push through and embrace the
seemingly unbearable overstimulation, your pleasure will
build back up quickly, resulting in a subsequent orgasm.
As you orgasm, you experience muscular contractions
accompanied by heightened sensation throughout your
body. Pulse your hand against your entire vulva, G-spot,
or clitoral head (depending on your primary source of
pleasure) in between each contraction and squeeze your
thighs together to prolong the contractions and carry you
to the next wave of orgasmic bliss. When you reach
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SIMULTANEOUS ORGASMS
Coming together can be an intimate and intense bonding
experience that many couples stumble upon by chance.
Though often associated with feelings of closeness,
reaching orgasm at the same time is not a particularly
common occurrence. This is because each of our bodies
responds at a different pace, making it impossible to be
consistently in synch with a lover. Just as you cannot
possibly digest food, pump blood, or lose weight at the
same rate as your partner, you also cannot expect your
orgasmic responses to line up perfectly each and every
time.
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Make eye contact. Gazing into your lover’s eyes not only
deepens the intimate connection, but it can also help you
to gauge when orgasm is impending.
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FAKING ORGASM
Faking orgasms is a common sexual practice, with most
women (and some men) putting on Oscar-worthy
performances at some point in their lives. And apparently
male partners are none the wiser. The National Survey of
Sexual Health and Behavior found that 85 percent of men
believed that their female partners achieved orgasm
during their last sex session. But only 64 percent of
women reported that they had. Talk about a gender gap.
Our reasons for faking it vary from the obvious well-
intentioned ego-stroking to the utilitarian need to “get it
over with already.” However, faking it is bad education
and reinforces less-than-stellar approaches to pleasure.
Sex is supposed to be one of those things you do because
it feels good—not because you feel pressure to do
Chapter 7-
EROGENOUS ZONES
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make her squirm, moan, and beg for more by kissing and
caressing her sexy body parts that are often deprived of
affection. As you explore the many regions of her
beautiful body, experiment with different strokes,
touches, kisses, and breaths, gradually increasing the
pressure and tempo as her arousal heightens.
Ears
Not only are her ears sensitive to the sound of your voice
and the flick of your tongue, but the anticipation of your
kiss can send shivers down her spine. Breathe very gently
over the sides of her neck and ears before circling your
tongue around the edges.
Collarbone
The clavicle and the shallow grooves above it can be
highly responsive to light touch. The small depressions
below it are considered acupressure points that trigger
relaxation to facilitate sexual response. Run the pads of
your fingers over the bone and your tongue along the
underside before making your way to her breasts.
Suprasternal Notch
Also known as the jugular notch, this is the triangular dip
at the base of her neck centered above her collarbone. It
is considered an erogenous zone for both its sensual
appearance and hypersensitivity. Since it overlies her
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Philtrum
From the Latin for love potion, this small groove above
the center of her lips has long been considered an
erogenous zone. Plant the softest kiss possible on this
area before running your tongue along the line of her
upper lip, known as cupid’s bow.
Lower Back
Some women say that their lower back is the most
sensitive area of their body, and a handful report that
tickling this area can result in intense arousal and even
orgasmic sensations. Sweep your palms in wide circular
motions over her lower back to prime her for some
playful hip grabbing and primal thrusting.
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Ankles
Just below the anklebone on the inside of the foot, you’ll
find a hollowing that is considered a reflexology point
connected to her vagina. While performing cunnilingus,
reach down and circle your thumb around this area to
activate its sexual reflex.
Eyelids
The area around her eyes likely receives little in the way
of sexual attention, but her eyelids and the soft pads
beneath her eyes can be highly responsive to gentle
touch. With nerves very close to the surface and thin skin
without significant subcutaneous fat (similar to that of the
scrotum), the eyelids seem to be designed for pleasure.
Flutter your lashes teasingly against hers or swipe your
fingers gently across her lids to encourage her to relax
and take in the sensations of pleasure.
Bellybutton
The positioning of her navel in proximity to her mons,
coupled with the density of nerve endings in the region,
makes this sensitive indentation a common erogenous
zone. Some women say they experience sensations in
their clitoris through the bellybutton, which may be
attributable to a nerve pathway that connects it to the
spine through the pelvic region. Spiral your tongue
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Pucker
The sensitive bum hole (anus) is highly erogenous for
many women and men. Rich in nerve endings, it is
reactive both to light touch and heavy pressure. (I cover
this erotic hot spot in greater depth in Chapter 6
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The shaft, which extends from the base just above the
scrotum, is connected to the head and gets hard as the
two tubular structures (corpora cavernosa) within it fill
with blood during erection.
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Perineum
This stretch of skin between the balls and the anus may
be the hottest spot on his body. Not only can you
massage his inner penis through his perineum (also
known as the “taint” and “gooch”), but sweeping your
hands over it
during orgasm can produce a rush of pleasure
throughout his body as his prostate responds to your firm
touch.
Raphe
This is the dividing line that runs all the way from the
anus to the tip of his cock, passing over the perineum,
scrotum, and shaft. Stick your tongue all the way out and
trace it over this supersensitive spot to tease him into
your mouth.
Treasure Trail
The space between his belly button and his pubic mound
is highly sensitive to light touch, and its proximity to his
pelvic region encourages blood flow to all the right
places. Tongue a line down his lower abs to the top of his
pubic mound and then trace the outline of his cock with
your tongue.
Nipples
Women’s nipples tend to get a lot of attention since
they’re at the center of their breasts, but this area can
have orgasmic potential in men, too! Twirl your tongue
around this sensitive spot during foreplay or nibble
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Ankles
Reflexologists consider the indentations below the inner
and outer ankles to be sources of stimulation for the
penis, prostate, and testes. Clasp his lower ankles
between your thumbs and middle fingers while in the 69
position, or offer him a foot rub to help him unwind after
a long hard day.
Inner Thighs
The complex intersection of nerve endings in this area
coupled with the anticipation built as you near his penis
make the inner thighs a top erogenous zone for most
men. Touch him between his legs when out in public,
allowing the back of your hand to briefly brush against his
cock. Trickle your fingertips from the top of his knee up to
the apex of his thighs while you suck him into your mouth
later that night.
Shoulders
The pressure points in the middle of the tendons on
either side of his neck often hold tension that can inhibit
both his physical and subjective sexual response. Help
him to relax and get his head into the game by gently
kneading your thumbs in circular motions around this
tender area.
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CONCLUSION
Now that you’ve worked your way to the very end of Sex
Dymistify (hopefully with a few sexual stops along the
way), you probably feel quite well versed in both the art
and science of sexual pleasure. But your journey has just
begun! Sex is as much a process as an experience, and in
both respect, it is constantly evolving. Even after you’ve
mastered the most advanced moves and positions, you’ll
continue to discover new permutations that elevate your
orgasms to new heights. And as you cultivate a deep
connection with your lover and build your sexual self-
esteem, you’ll observe fluctuations in these levels over
time. This, of course, is all a part of the process that
makes sex exciting, appealing, and fulfilling.
I encourage you to revisit some of the content of this
ebook from time to time to help map your own sexual
journey and uncover new interpretations of pleasure.
What comes easily to you today may take more effort in
the future, and you’re likely to find that your reactions to
different techniques and positions change with time.
Embracing these changes not only improves the quality
of your sex life but also enriches your sexual journey by
heightening the authenticity of every experience.
Once again, I’d like to express to you my deep
appreciation for including me in this journey and I wish
you a lifetime of happy beginnings, middles, and endings
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