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How To Handle Failed, Unrealistic and Negative Expectations in Optimal Ways
How To Handle Failed, Unrealistic and Negative Expectations in Optimal Ways
Questioning expectations.
What do I expect of myself in this particular situation?
What specifically do I expect will happen?
Is it reasonable to hold onto these kinds of expectations?
Is it helpful? Does it support my goals and objectives?
Reframing.
The result was simply not what I expected…
This result doesn’t change who I am or what I am capable of…
This is only one failed attempt that I must learn and grow
from…
Adaptability.
How flexible are my expectations?
What if conditions change?
How will my expectations need to shift as a result?
Lessons.
What have I learned from this experience?
What do these results tell me?
How must I now adapt to these changing conditions?
What new expectations should I create?
How must I now move forward specifically as a result of these
new expectations?
Unreasonable to expect.
What’s unreasonable to expect of myself?
What’s unreasonable to expect of myself in this situation?
What are more reasonable expectations in this situation?
Expectations of others.
What’s unreasonable to expect of this person given their ability
and current circumstances?
Would I expect the same of myself in this situation?
Have I personally lived up to these kinds of expectations
before?