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Samskara-Dipika - Eng
Samskara-Dipika - Eng
INTRODUCTION
The vaidic samskaras are performed not upon the Lord, nor on
oneself, but are performed by the husband upon his own wife and
children, at specific periods of development of the child.
Function:
garbhadhana(impregnationa)
pumsavana (making a male child)
simantonayanam (parting the hair)
sosyanti homa (safe delivery)
jata karma (birth)
niskramana (first outing)
nama karana (giving a name)
pausti karma (nourishment)
anna prasanam (feeding grains)
karna vedha (piercing the ears)
cuda karanam (hair cutting)
vidyarambha (entering school)
upanayanam (gayatri intitiation)
samavartana (graduation)
vivaha (marriage)
antyesthi (funeral)
These rites are performed upon the wife and upon the child by
the husband. One purpose of the rites is for the production and
raising of healthy, intelligent, mentally sound offspring , who
will be assured of achieving devotion to the Supreme Lord and
final shelter in his abode after giving up the material body.
The rites also serve the purpose of insuring that the man and
wife become aware of spiritual duty in married life, and do
not exploit married life for their own sexual pleasure.
Padma Purana,cited in
Sat Kriya Sar Dipika
In the same way, instead of worshipping the nine planetary
deities one should worship the nine yogendras, and instead of
worshippign the dik palas (protectors of the driections) one
should worship the maha bhagavatas. Instead of worshipping the
matr gana (sixteen expansions of Durga, in charge of material
energy) one should worship the the Lord's consorts who are the
shelter of spiritual energies.
acamana
svasti vacana , managala acarana: prayers for auspciousness
sankalpa: vow
ghata sthapana: establishing ghata for worship
visnu puja: in the ghata
adhivasa: presenting auspicious articles (usually performed
the preceding night to the ceremony)
sattvika vrddhi sraddha: visnu, maha bhagavata and sakti
puja, cediraja puja (vasudhara) and worship of guru
parampara by offering visnu prasadam (usually performed on
the morning of the ceremony)
The elements which differ with each samskara are starred (*).
The other elementns are the common elements. These are written
out only once at the beginning but should be performed for all
the samskaras at the appropriate time.
The rites should begin the night before the samskara proper
begins with the establishment of the ghata, Visnu puja, and
adhivasa. The next morning, one should perform worship of
Visnu, the associates and saktis of Visnu, Cedi Raja (vasudhara
puja), and parampara acaryas (sattvika vrddhi sraddha).
ACAMANA:
Simple acamana:
Wash hands.
Touch mouth, right and left nostrils, eyes, ears, the navel,
heart, top of the head and arms with the fingers of the right
hand.
OR
Vaisnava acamana:
aniruddhaya namah touch right eye with thumb and ring finger
purusottamaya namah touch left eye with thumb and forefinger
SVASTI VACANAM:
svasti no govindah
svasti no'cyutanantau
svasti no vasudevo visnur dadhatu
svasti no narayano naro vai
svasti nah padmanabhah purusottamo dadhatu
svasti no visvakseno visvesvarah
svasti no hrsikeso harir dadhatu
svasti no vainateyo harih
svasti no'njanasuto hanur bhagavato dadhatu
svasti svasti sumangalaikeso mahan sri krsnah saccidananda
ghanah
sarvesvaresvaro dadhatu
-------mase
-------pakse
-------tithau
acyuta gotrah
-------dasa
sri krsna prityarthah
--------karmaham karisye
(if performing for someone other than oneself say
karisyami instead of karisye)
GHATA STHAPANA
The ghata (pot) may be made of gold, silver, coper, bell metal,
glass, sone or clay. That made of clay is suitable for all
purposes, but it should be unbroken and clean.
One should wrap thread around the pot and, placing the pot on
the rice paddy one should say:
varunasyottanbhanam asi
varunasya skambhasarjani stho
varunasya rta sadany asi
varunasya rta sadanam asi
varunasya rta sadanam asida
One should grasp the pot and call the Lord saying:
VISNU PUJA
Guru Puja:
Dhyanam
Manasa Puja
guru stuti:
pranama:
or
Dasa Upacara:
Guru Dhyana
Manasa Puja
stuti:
or
Panca Upacara:
Guru Dhyana
Manasa Puja
pranama:
namo om visnu padaya etc.
(One may call Sri Caitanya first and worship with upacaras, and
then call Krsna or Radha and Krsna and worship them with
appropriate upacaras and mantra.)
Pot Puja:
Dhyanam
Manasa Puja
pranamas
(May krsna, the lord of lords, and his dear sevants, bestow
auspiciousness to us.)
May Krsna, the lord of all lords of the universe, and his
followers, the deliverers of the fallen, bestow auspiciousness
on me.
May Krsna, who has a complexion like the atasi flower, who is
situated under the kadamba tree on the bank of the Yamuna
River, who is skilful at pastimes with the wives of the
cowherds of Vrndavana, bestow auspiciousness on us.
May Krsna, who sports with great noise in the waves of the
Yamuna river, and who, like a lion, killed the elephant Kamsa,
bestow auspiciousness on me.
visnuccarana matrena
krsnasya smaranad dhareh
sarva vighnani nasyanti
mangalam syan na samsayah
pundarikaksa govinda
madhavadims ca yah smaret
tasya syan mangalam sarva
karmadau vighna nasanam
mangalayatanam krsnam
govindam garuda dhvajam
madhavam pundarikaksam
visnum narayanam harim
vasudevam jagannatham
acyutam madhusudanam tatha mukundanantadin
yah smaret prathamam sudhih
One who recites the mantra in the morning destroys the sins of
the night. One who recites in the evening destroys the sins of
the day. One who recites the mantra at noon time facing the sun
is freed from all types of sins. That person attains the
fruits of studying all the vedas. He attains the world of
Narayana.
Purusa Suktam:
5. From that Lord, the virat or universe was born, and in that
universe the virat purusa , paramatma of the universe, was
born. Being born, the virat purusa grew, and produced the
earth and the bodies of the jivas.
8. The devatas, sadhyas and rsis, placed the virat purusa, the
first being of the universe, on kusa and sprinkled him with
water for purification. In this way they conducted the mental
sacrifice using the virat purusa.
11. From the sacrifice horses were born, and animals with two
sets of teeth such as donkeys and mules. From the sacrifice,
cows were born, and goats and sheep.
13. The face became the brahmanas. The two arms were made
into the ksatriyas. the thighs of the virat purusa became the
vaisyas and from his feet the sudras were born.
14. The moon was born from his mind, the sun was born from his
two eyes. From his mouth were born indra and agni, and from his
breath vayu was born.
15. From his navel came the antariksa (space between earth and
heaven.) From his head the heavens arose. From his feet the
earth arose and from his ears the directions arose. In this way
the worlds are created.
16. I know that great virat purusa, effulgent as the sun, who
stands beyond the darkness of the material creation. Having
given the all the living entities their forms and names, he
directs their affairs.
Uttara anuvaka:
2. I know that purusa who shines like the sun, situated beyond
thedarkness of the material realm. one wh knows this purusa
become immorta in this world. There is no other path than
this.
ADHIVASAA
One should say the appropriate mantra and touch the item to the
ghata which has been worshipped (or the lotus feet of the
murti), to the earth, and to the heads of the beneficiaries of
the rite (bride and groom in the marriage). All items should
be gathered together on a tray. The whole tray of items should
then be presented before the beneficiaries.
earth:
You are the earth, the supporter of the worlds, the supporter
of the universe, sustaining everything. Control the eath, make
the eath firm. donot harm the earth. May there be auspcious
adhivasa by this earth.
stone:
rice paddy:
You are grain. Please the Lord, please the sacrifice and the
performer of sacrifice. Bring happiness to me as I conduct
this sacrifice.
gandha:
durba grass:
flowers:
Piety and prospertiy are you onsorts. Day and night are your
sides. The stars are your form. the eaven and eath are your
open moht. Bestow what we desire. Bestow the goal in this
world. Bestow the highest goal.
fruit:
May the power produces the fruit, that makes the flower bloom,
which arises through the manras and through the Lord of mantra,
free us from all dififculties.
yoghurt:
ghee:
ghrtavati bhuvananam
abhisriyorvi prthvim
madhudughe supesasa
dyava prthivi varunasya
dharmana viskabhite ajare bhuri retasa
anena ghrtena subadhivasah astu
The broad earth flows with ghee, which is sweet smelling,
beuatiful and brings prosperity to the worlds. The heavens and
earth, through the law of the just lord are abounding in
unlimited seed in all places.
svastikam:
sindhur (vermilion):
conch:
kajjala (collyrium):
rocana:
gold:
silver:
copper:
The Lord bright like the sun, copper red, all auspcious, also
called rudra, resides in all directions, and expands thousand
fold like the rays of the sun. We appraoch you to remvoe our
impurities.
lamp:
Let the alert mind enjoy the ghee. let the Lord start the
sacrifice. Let the Lord estow a scrifice fre from fault. Let
the lords of the universe and sacrificer enjoy here. Pleas be
present here.
mirror:
fragrant oil:
tumeric:
You are the three steps of visnu. Golden hued, fleet as birds,
carriers of the man who endeavours, are the horses yoked to the
chariot of the sun.
cloth:
om yuva suvasah parivitah agat
sa u sreyan bhavati jayamanah
tam dirasah kavaya unnayanti
sadhya manasa devayantah
camara:
om vato va mano va
gandharva va saptavimsatih
te tvagre samayunjan te
asmine yavam adadhuh
anena camarena subhadhivasa astu
The wind, the mind, the all knowing gandharva, the twenty seven
constellations, gather before you and offer homage to you.
thread:
sandal wood:
You are the Supreme Lord. You are one without a second. you
are the object of all offerings and the instrument of all
activities. You are the suprmee ruler, the most famous, the
most auspcious and pure.
om visvaksenaya namah
om sanakaya namah
om sanatanaya namah
om sanandaya namah
om sanat kumaraya namah
om kavaye namah
om havaye namah
om antariksaya namah
om prabuddhaya namah
om pippalayanaya namah
om avirhotraya namah
om drumilaya namah
om camasaya namah
om karabhojanaya namah
om brahmane namah
om sukadevaya namah om sadasivaya namah
om garudaya namah
om naradaya namah
om kapilaya namah
om balaye namah
om bhismaya namah
om prahladaya namah
om hanumate namah
om ambarisaya namah
om janakaya namah
om yama bhagavataya namah
om svayambhuvaya namah
om uddhavaya namah
om vyasaya namah
om paurnamasyai namah
om laksmyai
om antarangayai
om yamunayai
om gopyai
om vrndavatyai
om gayatryai
om tulasyai
om sarasvatyai
om prthvyai
om gave
om yasodayai
om devahutyai
om devakyai
om rohinyai
omsitayai
om draupayai
omkuntyai
omrukminyai
om satyabhamayai
om jambavatyai
om nagnajitayai
om laksanayai
om kalindyai
om bhadrayai
om mitravindayai
om cedirajavaso ihagacchagaccha
Pranama:
Acarya Puja:
One should then take the visnu prasadam and offer to the guru,
acaryas and mahabhagavatas.
One should offer gifts such as cloth to vaisnava brahmanas.
HOMA
Mandapa:
this is the place where the fire pit should be situated and
where the ceremonies will take place. It should be free of
impurities and cleansed with cow dung and water, covered with a
canopy; and decorated with leaves of auspicious trees ( such as
mango), with banana trunks, garlands, water pots in the eight
directions, flags, and designs on the floor.
Kunda:
hasta: the length from the elbow to the tip of the middle
finger
aratni: distance from the elbow to the tip of the little finger
Wood:
One should use wood from trees such as mango, banyan, vilva,
sami, palasa, balkula, pippal, and campaka. One should not use
wet wood, wood produced in a dirty place or wood contaminated
by impure items, wood eaten by worms, wood with sour sap or
with thorns. The wood should be cut to the size of the kunda
and to pradesa length.
Source of Fire:
The fire used in the kunda may come from a brahmana's house, or
may be generated by striking stones or by using the arani. the
fire may be placed on a bell metal or an pure plate; small
pieces of wood and camphor should be added and the fire should
then be placed in the kunda.
It is said the wood is the ears of the fire; the smoke is the
nostrils; the meager flames are the eyes; the coals are his
head; the full flames are his tongue. One should make
offerings to the tongue of the fire. That means one should
offer oblations into a fully blazing fire.
vivaha: yojaka
caturthi homa: sikhi
pumsavana: candra
simantonnayana: mangala
sosyanti homa: mangala
nama karana: parthiva
pausti karma; balada
anna prasana: suci
cuda karana: satya
upanayanama: samudbhava
samavartana: tejah
dhrti homa: dhrti
udicya karma: vidhu
There are also sacrifies and specific fires for garbhadhana and
jata karma but homa for these rites are not described in Sat
Kriya Sara Dipika.
Mantras:
Yajamana:
Dana:
Outline:
The hota should pleace his right knee on the ground, and place
his left hand on the ground with palm up. He should hold a
kusa blade of one pradesa length in it.
He should take a kusa blade in his right hand and draw in the
kunda a line twelve fingers long and pointing east, while
meditating on the personality of earth. He should say:
From the base of the first line he should draw a second line
twenty one fingers long, pointing towards the north while
meditating on the cow:
He should take a pinch of earth from each line with the thumb
and ring finger of the right hand and throw out the earth from
the fire pit to a distance of one aratni (distance from elbow
to tip of little finger) in the north east direction, saying:
om nirastah paravasuh
From the fire which is kindled but not yet placed in the pit he
should take one burning stick and cast it in the south western
direction to expell the inauspicious elements of the fire:
The fire from afar I place in front of me. I call near the
bearer (the fire) of the oblations. May the Lord show
compassion here.
om ihaivayam itaro
jataveda devebhyo
havyam vahatu prajanan
adya
................mase (month)
................pakse (fortnight)
................tithau (tithi)
asya .............karmano (function)
homa karmani krtakrtaveksana rupa brahma karmakaranaya
bhavantam aham vrne
The hota, taking the water vessel, should proceed to the south
side of the fire and at a distance of one aratni from the fire
sprinkle water towards the east, and over that he should place
kusa grass with tips facing east.
om nirastah paravasuh
Facing north with the right foot pressing the left foot, the
hota should sprinkle water on the strewn kusa and then seat the
brahmana on the kusa, facing him towards the north (kusa brahma
should face east).
Touching water he should say:
In the case of a kusa brahma, the hota should say the replys of
the brahma.
Placing both his hands on the earth , palms down, the hota
should say:
The Lord is one. From his order all others exist. He, who was
the first existing, sometimes appears in the womb like a human
being. He has appeared before and will appear again. All men
are turned towards him, who is present everywhere.
Starting on the north side each time, using some kusa grass
grasped in the right hand, the hota should clean around the
fire pit three times, saying one of the following each time:
The hota should then take some kusa with roots cut off and
strew them on the east side of the fire from north to south
with tips facing east.
He should repeat the same on the south side of the fire going
from east to west direction; on the north side of the fire,
going from west to east; and on the west side of the fire,
going from south to north.
Taking two blades of kusa grass with tips intact he should bind
them with a third kusa and cut them to the length of one
pradesa without using the finger nails, saying:
He should place them in a copper vessel and pour ghee into the
vessel. Using the thumb and ring finger of the right hand he
should grasp the tips of the kusas and with the thumb and ring
finger of the left hand he should grasp the root end. The
right hand should be palm up and the left hand palm down. By
dipping the middle portion into the ghee he should then offer
ghee into the fire one time, saying:
devas tva savita
punatu acchidrena pavitrena
vasoh suryasya rasmibhih svaha
May savita purify you with this faultless kusa, with these rays
from the sun.
He should offer two more oblations of ghee into the fire in the
same way without mantra.
He should sprinkle the vessel of ghee with water and then lower
it into the north part of the fire three times, and then lay
it on srewn kusa grass.
Placing his right knee on the earth and his left knee raised,
he should pour water from his cupped hands from west to east on
the south side of the fire, saying:
om acyuta anumanyasva
Om sarasvaty anumanyasva
Raising his right knee from the ground, he should hold ruit,
flowers, rice and kusa betwen his fists, the right fist being
above and the left fist being below. He should recite the
following:
om bhuh bhvah svah
om mahantam virupaksam tvam atmana prapadye
bhagavata virupakso'si dantanjih tasya te sayya parne
grham antarikse vimitam hiranmayam
tad devanam hrdayani ayasmahe kumbhe'ntha sannihitani tani
balabrc ca balasad ca raksato' pramani animisat
tat satyam yatte dvadasa putrah te
tva samvatsare samvatsare kama prena yajnena yajayitva
punah brahmacaryam upayanti
tam devesu brahmano'si aham manusyesu brahmano vai
brahmanam upadhavati upa tva dhavami
japantam ma ma pratijapih
juhvantam ma ma prati hausih
kurvantam ma ma pratikarsih
tvam prapadye tvaya prasuta
idam karma karisyami
tan me radhyatam
tam me samrdhyatam
tan me upapadyatam
I surrender to you;
inspired by you I perform this activity.
May it bring me satisfaction.
May it bring me prosperity.
May the final fruit come to me.
You are the all-pervading personality , unlimited ocean. Be
merciful upon me.
You are tutho, visvadeva, and the son of brahma. Be merciful
upon me.
You are the deliverer from fear, the wisest one, the sun and
the moon. Please be merciful upon me.
He should throw the rice to the north east, and give the
flowers and fruit to the brahma.
1. sankalpa
2. agni avahana: calling the fire called vidhu
3. vidhu puja: worshipping vidhu with upacaras
4. amantrika homa: offering wood without mantra
5. mahavyaharti homa: offering ghee with vyahrti mantra
6. visnu smaranam: prayers to krsna
7. prayascitta homa: offerings of ghee to visnu to allay faults
8. mahavyahrti homa: offering ghee with vyahrti mantra
9. vaisnava homa: offerings of ghee to associates of the Lord
10.amantrika homa: offering wood without mantra
11.agni paryuksana: pouring water around the fire
12.darba jutika homa: offering grass into the fire
13.purna huti: final offering
14.santi dana: sprinkling proksana water over fire
15.brahmana daksina: giving gifts to brahmana vaisnavas
16.acchidra vacana: absolving deficiencies
17.kirtana: chanting the Lord's name,
18.pranama: final surrender
19. vaisnava seva: serve prasadam
Sankalpa:
om visnuh
om tat sat
......(time and place)
.....karmani (name of ceremony)
yat kincit vaigunya jatam
tad dosa prassamanaya
sri krsna smaranam purvakam
satyayana homam aham kurviya
The hota should call the fire named "vidhu" and worship:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
He should offer ghee into the fire with the following mantras:
Strength, come forth, visnu come forth with food and long life.
Protect us from sin.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
The hota should pour ghee into the fire with the following
mantras:
om visvaksenaya svaha
om sanakaya sanatanaya sanandanaya sanatkumaraya svaha
om kavaye svaha
om havaye svaha
om antariksaya svaha
om prabuddhaya svaha
om pippalayanaya svaha
om avihotraya svaha
om drumilaya svaha
om camasaya svaha
om karabhojanaya svaha
om naradaya svaha
om kapilaya svaha
om yamabhagavataya svaha
om bhismadevaya svasha
om sukadevaya svaha
om janakaya svaha
om sadasivaya svaha
om prahladaya svaha
om brahmane svaha
om balirajaya svaha
om antarangayai svaha
om paurnamasyai svaha
om padmayai svaha
om mahalaksmyai svaha
om gangayai svaha
om yamunayai svaha
om sarasvatyai svaha
om gopyai svaha
om vrndayai svaha
om gayatryai svaha
om tluasyai svaha
om prthivyai svaha
om gave svaha
om yasodayai svaha
om devahutyai svaha
om devakyai svaha
om rohinyai svaha
om sitayai svaha
om draupadyai svaha
om kuntyai svaha
om rukminyai svaha
om satyabhamayai svaha
om jambavatyai svaha
om nagnajityai svaha
om laksanayai svaha
om kalindyai svaha
om bhadrayai svaha
om mitravindayai svaha
om gurave svasha
om sarvebhyo mahanta gurubhyah svaha
om caitya gurave svaha
om lalitayai svaha
om smayalayai svaha
om visakhayai svah
om campakalatayai svaha
om indurekhayai svaha
om sudevyai svaha
om rangadevyai svaha
om sucitrayai svaha
om tungavidyayai svaha om kundalatayai svaha
om dhanyayai svaha
om mangalayai svaha
om padmayai svaha
om saivyayai svaha
om bhadrayai svaha
om citrotpalayai svaha
om palyai svaha
om tarayai svaha
om kunjakalikayai svaha
om nikunjakalikayai svaha
om sukhakalikayai svaha
om rasa kalikayai svaha
om pramodayai svaha
om dhanisthayai svaha
om tulasyai svaha
om ramayai svaha
om ramyayai svaha
om vimbosthyaisvaha
om rasadayai svaha
om anandadayai svaha
om kalavatyai svaha
Agniparyuksana:
The hota should offer ghee-soaked wood silently into the fire.
He should then sprinkle water around the fire in clockwise
direction with his cupped hands:
Udakanjali seka:
om ananta anvamamsthah
om acyuta anvamamsthah
om sarasvaty anvamamstha
The hota should take some kusa grass in his hands with palms
upwards. He should sprinkle the kusa with ghee three times, on
the tips, middle portion and root portion, reciting the
following mantra each time:
Holding the kusa in his left hand, he should then sprinkle the
kusa grass with water and throw into the fire using his right
hand, saying:
The hota should go around the fire and release the knot from
the kusa grass brahma, then return to his seat. Sitting, he
should sprinkle water from the abhyuksana patra on the north
east part of the fire, repeating the santi dana mantras three
times:
You are the worshippable absolute truth and the source of all
pleasureable experience. Being strong, you break the
opposition of the foes.
You are the protector of those who sing your praises. You are
affectionate to those who accept you as a friend. Be with us a
hundred times, to give us protection.
om svasti no govindah svasti nah acyutanantau
svasti no vasudevo visnuh dadhatu
svasti no narayano naro vai
svasti nah padmanabhah purusottamo dadhatu
svasti no visvakseno visvesvarah
svasti no hrsikeso harih dadhatu
svasti no vainateyo harih
svasti no'njanasuto hanuh bhagavato dadhatu
svasti svasti sumangalikeso mahan sri krsna saccid ananda
ghanah
sarvesvaresvaro dadhatu
om dyauh santih
antariksam santih
prithivi santih
apah santih
vayuh santih
tejah santih
osadhayah santih
lokah santih
brahmanah santih
vaisnavah santih
santir astu dhrtir astu
om santih om santih om santih
Tilaka dharana:
The hota should take ash from the north east corner of the fire
using the sruk and sruva spoons, mix it with ghee and apply as
tilaka to himself and the yajamana.
Daksina:
The yajamana should give daksina to the hota and vaisnavas and
brahmanas present.
om asmin..........karmani
anga hinam kriyan hinam vidhi hinam ca yad bhavet
astu tat sarva acchidram krsna karsna prasadatah
yat kincit vaigunyam jatam
tad dosa prasamanaya
sri visnu smaranam karomi
Sankalpa:
One should dig a hole one hand long and wide, and fourfingers
deep in the southeast side of the property, and smear it with
cow dung and fill it with water.
Draw a figure of the vastu purusa one hand long made of cow
dung and worship as follows:
on shoulders call:
on elbow:
on hand:
in the middle:
durgayai agacchagaccha
and worship with five upacaras
on the elbow:
on shoulder :
on heart;
on navel:
In the house the owner should worship the nava yogendras and
the mahabhagavatas, visnu and the vastu deva.
He should then worship the female consorts and the guru param
para, offering mahaprasadam to them.
GARBHADHANAM
Date:
Forbidden Hours:
The union of man and wife should take place neither during the
day nor during the sandhyas (daybreak and twilight). Daytime
is of course the time when man should carry out his duties:
waking bathing, meditating, worshipping the Supreme Lord,
studying scripture, chanting japa, serving the deity, carrying
out household duties, welcoming guests etc. Sandhyas should
only be utilized for chanting gayatri mantra and meditating on
the Lord. As well, Prasnopanisad says that a man reduces his
life span by having sexual relations during the day. One who
performs during the night is considered to be brahmacari (ie he
maitains his strength).
upeyan madhyaratrante
Forbidden Days:
Numbering the nights from the start of the menses of the woman,
then at least the first four nights are forbidden for sexual
activity. Kalaprakasika, states that the first day is fatal
for the husband,the second day is fatal forthe wife, thethird
day causes abortion and the fourth day impairs the power of the
father and produces a short lived son bereft of good habits.
12 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 2223
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24 25 26 27
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The remaining ten days (5-10, 12, 14-16) are suitable provided
they do not fall on those lunar tithis which are forbidden.)
]In addition to the above strictures the man and woman who
desire proper, harmonious, sexual relations between
themselves, and desire healthy, intelligent, spiritual
children, should with knowledge choose an auspicious day, hour
and moment for their union. Malefic planets (saturn, mars,
sun) should not afflict the ascendent, kendras, or trikona, by
occupation or aspect, and benefics, particularly jupiter should
be strongly situated in rasi and navamsa charts. Kala Prakasika
says it is better if the ascendent and eighth house are free of
planets. If the above are considered when choosing a proper
time pleasant union and good offspring are assured.
Contraception Forbidden:
Amongst the permissable days during one month for sexual union,
only one day can be chosen for the act. If the couple are
desirous of having children, the husband is encouraged to
approach his wife once every month, provided the times are
auspicious, until preganancy occurs. Then he should stop.
Illicit sex:
If the husband and wife do not follow the above rules, then,
even though married their relations are considered illicit.
Partner:
The husband must satisfy himself only with his wife, with no
one else or by any other means. The husband who thinks of
anyone other than his wife reduces his life span and receives
birth in a body without bones, trapped in the womb and bitten
by insects.
Place:
Permission of Guru:
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Ceremony as Directed by Srila Prabhupad:
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Vaidic Procedure:
One should worship guru and then visnu with sixteen upacaras.
One may then worship as follows.
om visvaksenaya namah
om sanakaya namah
om sanatanaya namah
om sanandaya namah
om sanat kumaraya namah
om kavaye namah
om havaye namah
om antariksaya namah
om prabuddhaya namah
om pippalayanaya namah
om avirhotraya namah
om drumilaya namah
om camasaya namah
om karabhojanaya namah
om brahmane namah
om sukadevaya namah
om sadasivaya namah
om garudaya namah
om naradaya namah
om kapilaya namah
om balaye namah
om bhismaya namah
om prahladaya namah
om hanumate namah
om ambarisaya namah
om janakaya namah
om yama bhagavataya namah
om svayambhuvaya namah
om uddhavaya namah
om vyasaya namah
Visnu Sakti Puja:
om paurnamasyai namah
om laksmyai
om antarangayai
om yamunayai
om gopyai om vrndavatyai
om gayatryai
om tulasyai
om sarasvatyai
om prthvyai
om gave
om yasodayai
om devahutyai
om devakyai
om rohinyai
omsitayai
om draupayai
omkuntyai
omrukminyai
om satyabhamayai
om jambavatyai
om nagnajitayai
om laksanayai
om kalindyai
om bhadrayai
om mitravindayai
om jagannatha mahabaho
sarvopadrava nasana
nava puspotsave me'rghyam
grhana jagadisvara
om visvatman visvabandho
visvesa visvalocana
navapuspotsave me'rghyam grhana syamasundara
etat arghyam om sri visnave namah (or mula mantra)
om cidananda hrsikesa
bhaktavasya janardana
navapuspotsave me'rghyam
grhana kamalapate
May visnu prepare the yoni; may acyuta fashion the forms; may
hari carry out the fertilization; may jagadisa present the
child to you.
As one has to take bath after using the toilet, so one has
to wash himself with water after sexual intercourse,
especially when at a forbidden time.
SB 3.14.38, purport
Time:
Procedure:
He should seat his wife to his own right side on the west side
of the fire upon a kusa asana. They should both face east.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
The husband, standing behind his wife, should touch her right
shoulder, then her navel, repeating the following mantra three
times:
om bhuh svah
om bhuvah svah
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
Importance:
Time:
Procedure:
sankalpa:
Strength, come forth; visnu, come forth with food and long
life. Protect us from sin.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svaha svaha
om bhuh bhuvah svah svaha
Standing behind his wife and facing east the husband should
with silk string tie two udumbara fruits or barley sprouts
along with nima, mustard and bael, around his wife's neck,
saying:
om bhuh
om bhuvah
om svah
Taking a porcupine quill, the husband should pass it over her
part, and fix it in her hair, saying:
I part her hair with the instrument with which prajapati visnu
parts the hair of aditi, for great fortune. In this way I
create long living sons for her.
om kim pasyasi
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhuh bhuvah svah svaha
He should throw ghee-soaked wood of pradesa length in the fire
silently.
The wife should then eat the cooked rice, sesame and urad dhal.
She should remain silent until the stars appear in the sky.
Then, touching a calf, she should break her silence by saying
"bhur bhuvah svah".
Time:
Procedure:
Sankalpa:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svah
om svah svaha
om bhuh bhuvah svah svaha
He should offer ghee, visnu caranamrta, prasadam into the fire
saying:
om visno
ya tirasci nipadyate
aham vidharani iti
tam ghrtasya dharaya
yaje samradhanim aham
samrdhanyai devyai destryai
idam tvat prasadamrtam svaha
Time:
Do not cut the umbilical cord. Do not give the breast milk.
and
The cord should be tied and cut at the proper place and the
child should be washed and fed milk.
The father should again take bath and then distribute gifts to
brahmanas. There may be festivities:
Circumcision;
Time:
Procedure:
I pay respects to the all pervading Lord who existed before the
material creation , from whom emerged the protector of the
worlds, and into whom the words merge at the time of
destruction. Oh all pervading Lord, may misfortune not come to
my son.
Saying this he should point out the deities to his son and
offer arghya saying:
He should then give the child to the mother and sing vamadevya
gan:
After three more waxing moons, on the third lunar day, a the
evening sandhya the father should go to the deity adn offer
flowers three times saying:
Time:
om bhuh svaah
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhuh bhuvah svah svaha
She should give the child to her husband and pass behind him
and come to his left side. She should sit facing east on kusa
grass with tips facing north.
The father should touch the mouth, nostrils, eyes, and ears of
the child with his right hand and say:
The husband should whisper the name in the left ear of his wife
saying:
om bhuh svaah
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhuh bhuvah svah svaha
Choosing Names:
asvini ( agni)
bharani (yama)
krttika (agni)
rohini(prajapati)
mrgasirsa (soma)
ardra (rudra)
punarvasu (aditi)
pusya (brhaspati)
aslesa (sarpa)
magha ((pitrni)
purva phalguni (bhaga)
uttara phalguni (aryaman)
hasta (savitr)
citra (tvastr)
svati (vayu)
mula (nrti)
purvasadha (apa)
uttarasadha (visvadeva)
sravana (visnu)
dhanistha (vasu)
satabhisa (varuna)
purvabhadrapad (ajaikapada)
uttarabhadrapada (ahirbudhnya)
revati (pusa)
margasirsa: krsna
pausa: ananta
magha: acyuta
phalguna: cakri
caitra: vaikuntha
vaisakha: janardana
jyestha: upendra
asadha; yajnapurusa
sravana: vasudeva
bhadra: hari
asvina: yogisa
kartika: pundarikaksa
asvina cu, ce co la
bharani li, lu, le lo
krtikka a, i, u e
rohini o, ba bi bu
mrga sirsa be bo ka ki
ardra ku, gha, na cha
punarvasu ke ko , ha , hi
pusya hu, he, ho, da
aslesa di du, de do
magha ma mi, mu, me
purva phalguni mo, ta, ti, tu
uttara phalguni te to pa pi
hasta pu, sa na tha
citra pe po ra ri
svati ru re ro ta
visakha ti tu te to
anuradha na ni nu ne
jyestha no ya yi yu
mula ye yo bha bhi
purvasadha bhu dha pha dha
uttarasadha bhe bho ja ji
abhijit ju je jo kha
sravana khi khu khe kho
dhanistha ga gi gu ge
satabhisa go sa si su sa si su
purva bhadra se so se so da di
uttara bhadrapada du tha jha na
revati de do ca ci
Time:
(eg. If the child was born on the tenth lunar day (dasami
tithi)) of the waxing phase (sukla) of the moon in magha month,
the ceremony should be performed in each of the next twelve
lunar months on dasami of the waxing phase of the moon.)
Alternatively one may perform the rite on the purnima of each
month.
He should recite:
om acyutanantabhyam svaha
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
Time:
Procedure:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svasha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
om pranaya svaha
om apanaya svaha
om samanaya svaah
om udanaya svaha
om vyanaya svaha
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svasha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
He should throw ghee-soaked wood of pradesa length into the
fire silently.
om acyuta
annapate annasya no dhehi anamivasya susminah
pradataram tarisah urjam no dhehi dvipade catuspade svaha
om pranaya svaha
om janardana
annapate krnuta annam no dhehi piyusa
asaktam te'nnam yad yad yuge no dhehi dvipade catuspade svaha
om apanaya svaha
om laksmi narayanau
annapati annam amrtam no dhehi kamala samskrtam
te bhukta sesam no dhehi dvipade catuspade svaha
om samanaya svaha
Oh laksmi narayana, rulers of sustenance, give us the food of
immortality, prepared by laksmi herself. Bestow upon us your
remnants, to the humans and the animals.
He should then give daksina and feed the devotees and all
living entities.
Time:
Breath of life, from limb to limb you flow. From the heart you
conquer. Oh son, to you by my breathing I give life. Live a
long life for me.
From limb to limb you flow. From the heart you conquer. Your
name is the veda, eternal knowledge. Live a hundred autumns, a
hundred harvests.
Time:
Procedure:
On the north side of the fire he should place bull dung and a
pot of kitchuri made of sesame, rice and urad dhal cooked
together.
On the east side of the fire he should plae three cups of ice
and barley, three cups of sesame, rice and urad dhal.
The mother, with the cleanly dressed child in her lap, should
sit on kusa grass on the west side of the fire on the left side
of her husband, facing east.
The father should offer ghee soaked wood in the fire silently ,
then perform vyasta samasta mahavyahrti homa.
Following this the husband should rise, and facing east, stand
behind his wife. Tooking towards the barber he should meditate
on visnu, saying:
May the Lord come here and cut the hair of this child with
this blade made potent by mantra.
May visnu come here and cut the hair ofthe child using this
warm water.
He should take the warm water in his right hand and apply above
the right ear of the child saying:
om apa undantu jivase
May these waters moisten his hair so that he may live long.
You are the teeth of visnu. May visnu himself cut the hiar
of this child.
He should place a bundle of the kusas, root side up, over the
right ear of the child, saying:
May acyuta, ananta and narayana give this child long life.
Oh herbs, protect this child.
Holding the kusa with his left hand, he should plae the copper
razor or mirror ove the right ear of the child saying:
Using the iron blade, hair should be shaved above the right ear
and placed on the bull dung held by a friend of the boy.
om jamadagnes tryayusam
om kasyapasya tryayusam
om agastyasya tryayusam
om yad devanam tryayusam om tat te'stu tryayusam
The father should take the child to the north side of the fire.
the barber should be garlanded. the barber should face the
child east or north and shave him, leaving a sikha. The hair
should be placed on the dung. This should be placed in a
forest or amongst bamboo stalks.
The father should perform vyasta samasta maha vyahrti homa and
throw ghee soaked wood of one pradesa length into the fire
silently, perform udicya karma and give daksina. He should
feed the vaisnavas and give the kitchuri and grains around the
fire to the barber.
Time:
The child should pay his obeisances to the teacher, present the
teacher with cloth and ornaments and circumambulate the
deities. Brahmanas should give blessings. Women who have
husbands and children alive shold wave lamps lin front of lthe
child. Daiksibbna should be presented to the brahmanas and
preasam shoulbe distributed.
Goal of Upanayanam:
Qualificatioin:
Time:
Upanayanam Outline:
Procedure:
Passing by the north side of the fire, the child should sit on
the right hand side of the acarya, facing east.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
The acarya should tehn stand facing east on the west side of
the fire with his hands folded in prayer, upona kusa asasna
with tips facing north.
The child should stand facing the acarya between the fire and
the acarya, upan a kusa asana with tips facing north.
A brahmana should stand on the child's right hand side and give
first to the the child, the to the acarya, handfuls of water.
The acarya should look at the child san ssay:
Oh Lord, we have met with this boy who ha scome for upanayanam
and testify to his charater. Please bestow your company to
this splendid youth. Let us go without obstacles to the
supreme goal of life. May the boy attain the ultimate goal.
om brahmacaryam agam
upa ma nayasva
om ko mnama asi
om.......nama asmi
My name is...........
The child and the acarya should pour the water from their
hands.
The acarya should hold the right hand and thumb of the child in
his right hand and say:
The acayra should ten circumabulate the child and face east
while saying:
Touching the child's left shoulder with his left hand he should
sasy:
om samidham adhehi
Child: om badham
Child: om badham
Child: om badham
The acarya should go and sit on the north side of the fire
facing east upon kusa with tips faing north.
The child should face the acarya, and kneel with right knee
touching the ground, upon kusa with tips facing north.
Mekhala Paridhapana:
The acarya should wrap the child's waist three times with a
belt of three strands of kusa, by walking around himthree times
in clockwise direction.
He should make the child say:
this belt is the consort of the Lord, pure and auspcious. like
a sister, freeing andprotecting one from bad words and acts. it
prserves the purity of ones varna, bringing strength for
inhaling and exhaling breath. I have obtained this belt.
Yajnopavita dana:
You are the sacred thread for sacrifice. I tie you with this
thread for the purpose of performing sacrifices.
the acarya should place the deer skin in the child's hands and
make him say:
The acarya should make the child recite each phrase three
times;
The acarya should make the child repeat the following two
phrases three times each:
The acarya should make the child recite the full mantra three
times:
om bhuh om
om bhuvah om
om svah om
the acarya should make the child recite the gayatri mantra with
the mahavyahrtis three times:
om susravah susravasam
ma kuru yatha tvam susravah
susrava devesu evam
aham susravah susrava
brahmanesu bhuyasam
Bhiksam (beggin):
om svasti
om svasti
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
Placing the right knee on the earth he should pour water from
his cupped hands from west to east on the south side of the
fire, saying:
om ananta anumanyasva
om acyuta anumanyasva
Om sarasvaty anumanyasva
om prabho aniruddha,
prasuva yajnam pra suva
yajnapatim bhagaya
pata sarva bhuta sthah
ketapuh ketam nah punatu
vagisha vacam nah svadatu
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
I have brough the wood ot the great fire, the knower of all
living entities. Just as the fire shines brightly m-by means
of the fuel, may I shine with long life, wisdom, vitality, good
offsrping, many cows. knowledge of the vedas, nedessary wealth
and sustenance.
om prabho aniruddha,
prasuva yajnam pra suva
yajnapatim bhagaya
pata sarva bhuta sthah
ketapuh ketam nah punatu
vagisha vacam nah svadatu
udakanjali seka:
om ananta anvamamsthah
om acyuta anvamamsthah
om sarasvaty anvamamsthah
om ksamsva
The meal:
after the sun has set, the childshould eat the grains that he
has begged with ghee but without salt. Before eting he should
sprinkle the grains with water, then sip water saying:
om pranay svaha
om apanaya svaha
om samanaya svaha
om udanaya svaha
om vyanaya svaha
For the rest of his life he should take his meals in this
manner.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
The acarya should offer ghee into the fire five times saying
each of the followng mantras:
The acarya should sit facing north on kusa with tips facing
north.
The child should sit in the northwest, facing east, on kusa
with tips facing north.
The child should take a pot of hot and cold water mixed
together which also contains rice, barley, urad dhal,mung dhal,
sasrvausadhi, herbs and candana.
The student should fill his hands with this mixture and pour it
on the ground saying:
The student should take water again and pour on the ground
saying:
Sprinkling water:
Directed by the acarya, the student should fill his hands with
water and sprinkle himself again saying:
Worship of visnu:
You are the supreme Lord, in the heart of all living entities.
You are the all pervading guide of all souls, the controller of
all activities, the lord of all living entities. You ar the
witness, the destroyer, the complete whole, transcendental to
material nature.
Only the wise men who surrender unto the eternal of all
eternals, the consciousness of all consciousnesses, the Lord
who fulfills the desires of a ll living entities, who is
situated in his own abode, attain eternal bliss. I pay
obiesnaces again and again to narayana.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvahsvah svaha
The acarya should throw ghee-soaked wood of pradesa length
into the fire silently.
The acarya should perform udicya karma, vaisnava homa etc.
Shaving his head and face, cutting his nails, he should then
bathe, put on two pieces of new cloth and ornaments.
You are the thread for yajna. I bind you with this thread for
performing yajna.
He should place his deer skin and old yajnopavita on the danda.
He should sit beside the acarya and cover his mouth with the
fingers of his right hand, so that the breath touches his hand.
He should say:
He should sit on the cart saying the last line of the verse:
May he who has mounted you (the cart) conquer the enemies.
VIVAHA (marriage):
Purpose of marriage:
Some writers favor early marriage of boy and girl. The ideal
age of the girl for marriage is mentioned as below eight
years. Certainly she should be married before puberty. In the
case of child marriages, a ceremony was held at the early age,
and another ceremony was held when the girl reached puberty.
Marriage Date:
The ceremony should take place when the sun is in the norhern
course, in the waxing phase of the moon, on an auspicious day.
Place:
Ceremony:
The bride and groom should sit before the deity of Lord
Krsna or Jagannatha and you should ignite the fire to offer
clarified butter. Simply chant Hare Krsna, all of you and
offer the butter to the fire with the word svaha. The
bride and groom should exchange their garlands, and the
groom should promise never to forsake his wife. The wife
should promise to serve her husband for all her days
letter of Srila Prabhupada to
Brahmananda, Aug.22 1967
Vivaha Outline:
1. vag danam: oral betrothal, a month before the wedding
16. ajya homa: groom offers six oblations into fire, for
bride's protection while bride touches his right shoulder
17. vyasta samasta mahavyahrti homa: offering ghee with
vyahrti mantras
18. asma kramana: the mother of the bride should place the
bride's right foot on the grinding stone
19. laja homa: the bride will offer laja with ghee into the
fire, for protection of the husband
22. sapta pada gamanam: the groom should lead the bride with
right foot first through seven circles drawn on the floor, to
direct her to seven vows and virtues
23. abhisecana: a friend will sprinkle the couple with water
from a kumbha
24. pani grahanam: the groom will take the bride's two hands in
his hands and gives instructions on her duties
25. vyasta samasta maha vyahrti hom; the groom will offer ghee
into the fire with vyahrti mantras.
27. uttara vivaha: the groom will estbalish fire called yojaka,
perform vyasta samasta mahavyahrti homa, and offer six
oblations to nullify faults in bride, and offers remnants of
each oblation on her head
28. druva darsana: the groom should point out the pole star and
the bride should ask for steadiness and chastity in married
life, and give salutation to her husband; a woman with children
should then sprinkle kumbha water on their heads
30. bhojana: the groom will eat mahaprasadam and give remnants
to wife the couple should eat mahaprasadam and observe
brahmacarya.
31. dhrti homa: the morning after the third night the groom
should take the bride to his house, perform kusandika, calling
the fire called dhrti, offer vyasta samasta maha vyahrti homa,
then eight oblations of ghee for a strong, pleasant marriage
close with vyasta samasta maha vyahrti homa and silent offering
of wood; salutation of the bride to the groom's family,
udicyakarma, vaisnava homa, purnahuti santi dana, dana.
32. cathurthi homa: on the fourth day from the marriage the
groom should perform kusandika, calling fire named sikhi, etc.
and offer twenty oblations of ghee to visnu for absolving of
faults in the bride, placing remnants from each ahuti in a
water pot. A married womean should sprinkle the water over the
couples head, and the groom will end the homa as usual, with
vyasta samasta maha vyahrti homa, amantrika homa, udicya karma
etc..
VAG DANAM
Not more than twenty five years ago and perhaps it is still
current, parents in India used to consult the horoscope of
the boy and girl to see whether there would be factual
union in their psycholocial conditions. These
considerations are very important. Nowadays marriage takes
place without such consultation, and therefore soon after
the marriage, there is divorce and separation.
SB 3.21.15, purport
Procedure:
At an auspicious time, at least one month before the marriage
ceremony, the father of the groom accompanied by two, four or
eight friends, dressed nicely, should visit the house of the
bride's father and make the request.
This girl has been orally given by me and accepted by you for
producing children. Inspect the girl to your satisfaction,
having made up your mind.
The girl has been orally given by you for progeny and accpeted
by me for the same purpose. Having made up your mind, look
upon the groom to your satisfaction,
Friends of the family can smear the body of the bride and groom
at their houses with a mixture of tumeric powder and oil a day
or two before the wedding. This is for aupIsciousness and
health.
The day before the marriage, the canopy should be erected and
visnu should be worshipped there. The yajna kunda (fire pit)
should be constructed and the place may be decorated.
the should touch mouth, right and left nostrils, eyes, ears,
the navel, heart, top of the head and arms with the fingers of
the right hand.
OR
Vaisnava acamana:
aniruddhaya namah touch right eye with thumb and ring finger
purusottamaya namah touch left eye with thumb and forefinger
svasti no govindah
svasti no'cyutanantau
svasti no vasudevo visnur dadhatu
svasti no narayano naro vai
svasti nah padmanabhah purusottamo dadhatu
svasti no visvakseno visvesvarah
svasti no hrsikeso harir dadhatu
svasti no vainateyo harih
svasti no'njanasuto hanur bhagavato dadhatu
svasti svasti sumangalaikeso mahan sri krsnah saccidananda
ghanah
sarvesvaresvaro dadhatu
Sankalpa:
-------mase (month)
-------pakse (fornight)
-------tithau (tithi)
acyuta gotrah
-------dasa (ones name)
sri krsna prityarthah
vriddhi sraddha karmaham karisye
The father of the bride should then throw some of the water in
the northeast direction, turn the vessel upside down and place
gandha and puspa on it.
prahva te abhavat
param atra janmagneh
tapaso nirmito'sti svaha
One should then pour a litle water on her head, and the rest
below the navel:
I wash her below the navel with honey. That is the second face
of prajapati. By that you conquer all uncontrollable men. Your
are the ruler, the controller.
One should then pour a little water on her head, and the rest
over the other parts of her body:
When the auspicous hour arrives, the ceremony should start with
the reception of the groom. A cow should be tied in the north
side of the room.
The father of the bride should sit facing north and perform
acamana.
When the groom enters the room, the father should recite visnu
smaranam and svasti vacanama:
om krsno vai saccidananda ghanah
krsnah adi purusah krsnah purusottamah
krsnah ha u karmadi mulam
krsnah sa ha sarvaikaryah
krsnah kasam krt adisa mukha prabhu pujyah
krsno'nadis tasmin ajandantar bahye
yan mangalam tal labhate krti
om svasti
om visnuh
om tat sat
adya
....masi (month)
....rasi sthe bhskare (zodiac sign)
....pakse (fortnight)
....tithau (tithi)
kanyadan artham ebhih gandhadibhih abhyarcya,
bhavantam aham varatvena vrne
Father:
(offering a seat:)
The father should take twenty five leaves of kusa wound two and
a half times in counter clockwise direction in the palms of
this hands with tips pointing north and say:
Groom:
om vistaram prtigrhnami
om ya osadhih soma rajnih vahvih sata vicaksanah
ta mahyam asmin asane acchidrah sarva yacchata
I receive it.
The great herb, the queen of soma, being plentiful, faultless,
and a hundred times wise, bestow glessings on me as I sit upon
you for an asana.
He should place the kusa beneath his feet with tips facing
north.
(footwash, padyam:)
(arghyam:)
The father should take durba, white rice, etc in a conch and
offer arghya, saying:
om arghyam arghyam arghyam prati grhyatam
(acamaniyam:)
(madhuparka:)
om yasaso bhakso'si
mahaso bhakso'si
srir bhakso'si
sriyam mayi dhehi
Usually the father gives the bride but the grand father,
brother, mother, friend, someone of the same caste, or the head
of the locality may substitute.
The groom should face east; the father of the bride should face
north or west.
The groom and bride should smear kumkum, gorocana and candana
on their right hands.
The groom should take the bride's right hand and place it on
top of his right hand, and a married woman with a son should
bind the two hands with kusa and garlands, while auspicious
sounds are made by the women.
The father of the bride should take a pot of water mixed with
gandha, flowers, tulasi and fruit and say:
The father should pour the water over their bound hands.
om svasti
om narayanaya vidmahe
vasudevaya dhimahi
tanno visnuh pracodayat
om svasti
om narayanaya vidmahe
vasudevaya dhimahi
tannno vishuh pracodayat
The father or a married woman with sons will then tie the upper
cloth of the groom and the veil of the bride with a cloth
containing haritaki, betel, gandha, flowers, tulasi, kumkum,
and haldi.
sri lakmsi pitambarayoh revati balaramayoh
tatha sita ramayos ca sri durga sivayor yatha
devahuti kardamayoh saci maghavator yatha
satarupa svayambhuvayoh renuka jamadagnyoh
yatha'halya gautamayor devaki vasudevayoh
mandodari ravanayor yasoda nandayor yatha
sri draupadi pandavayoh sri taravali bhubhujoh
damayanti nalakayoh sri radha krsnayor yatha
anayoh kanya varayos tatha syad granthi bandhanam
The father may undo the kusa knot on their hands and seat the
bride to the right hand side of the groom.
They may be covered from view with a cloth and should look each
other in the face.
Here is a a cow.
Groom:
The cow is the mother of the rudras, the daughter of the vasus.
She is the sister of the adityas, the source of nectar.
To him who understands I say,
"Do not kill the sinless cow, aditi.
Acchidra Vacana:
After the groom has completed the kusandika rites, one of the
freinds of the groom should take a pot of water brought from a
permanent body of water and being covered with a cloth , should
silently pass by the east side of the fire to the south side
and stand facing north. Another friend should follow him and
stand behind him holding a rod for stirring food while it is
cooking.
The groom should present to the bride upper and lower clothes,
which are new, washed, which she should accept (and may put
on.)
May the devatas who cut, wove and stretched the cloth and sewed
up the hems, clothe you with long life. Woman, blessed with
long life, put on the cloth.
The groom should lead the bride to the fire and say:
om somah adasat gandharvaya
gandharvah adadat agnaye
rayim ca putrams ca adat
agnih mahyam atha imam
The groom should lead the bride to the mat on the west side of
the fire so that her right foot touches the kusa border of the
mat. He should make her say:
Ajya Homa:
The bride should sit on the mat facing the fire on the groom's
right side. The groom should put ghee soaked wood into the fire
without mantra, then perform mahavyarti homa with ghee:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
They should stand and touch the right shoulder of the groom
with her right hand. The groom shoud offer six oblations of
ghee, saying:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha Laja Homa (oblations of popped
rice):
and
The groom should place two sruvas of ghee in the brides cupped
hands and the mother of the bride should place one fifth of the
laja over the ghee.
The groom should pour two sruvas of ghee over the laja.
The bride, without separating her hand, should pour the laja
into the fire.
The groom should say:
The bride is going to the house the groom from her parent's
house,
Having done her duties well before her betrothal.
Oh bride, help us to remove the enemies,
as a flood of water cleans the earth.
The bride should receive, ghee, laja and ghee in her hands and
offer into the fire.
om visnum nu devam
kanya harim ayaksata
sa imam devo visnuh
pra ito muncatu mam uta svaha
Again the groom with the bride will circumambulate the fire,
saying:
The mother will again put the bride's right foot on the stone:
om visnum nu devam
kanya harim ayaksata
sa imam devo visnuh pra ito muncatu mam uta svaha
The groom should then pour two sruvas of ghee on the edge of
the winnowing basket, place the remaining laja there and add
two more sruvas of ghee and offer the contents of the basket
into the fire, saying:
The friend holding the water pot should then approach the seven
circles by passing on the west side of the fire and sprinkle
first the groom's head, then the bride's head. Each time the
groom should say:
om samanjantu vasudevadhyah
sam apo hrdayani nau
sam matarisva sam dhata
sam udestri dadhatu nau
Wih the completion of Sapta Pada Gamana the bride and groom are
considered married.
The groom should take the bride's two hands in his left hand
and with his right hand he should grasp the thumb of the
upturned right hand of the bride.
For good fortune I hold your hand, so that you may attain old
age in the company of your husband. The four kumaras have
given you to me for performance of household duties as a
devotee of Krsna.
With the bride on his left the groom should offer ghee:
om bhur svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhuh bhuvah svah svaha
The groom should establish the fire named yojaka in the kunda
when the stars are visible in the sky. While the bride sits
silently the groom should throw wood into the fire silently,
then perform vyasta samasta maha vyahrti homa.
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
Then the groom should offer ghee into the fire six times with
the following mantras, sprinkling the remnants from the sruva
on the bride's head.
The groom and bride should rise and go outside. The groom
should point out the pole star to her amd make her vow:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
Bhojana:
The groom should eat, then the bride should eat the remnants.
For three nights the wife should take mahaprasadam only and
maintain brahmacarya, sleeping on the ground, (not on a bed).
Stepping from the vehicle the groom singing the vama deva gan:
He should lead the bride into his house. Some married women
with children should seat the bride comfortably and the groom
will say:
Here may the cows, the horses and the men multiply with
offspring. Here may visnu, worshipped with love, remain
glorious.
Dhrti Homa:
om bhuh svaha
om bhuvah svaha
om svah svaha
om bhur bhuvah svah svaha
This is the last samskara, the last rite for sanctifying the
body
in this material world. The rites are not described in Sat
Kriya Sara Dipika, and are mentioned only briefly in Samskara
Dipika in relation to the burial of a sannyasi. The standard
rituals are performed to insure that the departed soul does not
remain in the form of a ghost or preta, and to insure the best
possible destination. Since the sincere vaisnava who worships
the Lord out of love and chants his name is assured the best
possible position to pursue his spiritual activities, his
relatives and friends are less particular in executing all the
rituals which ensue after death.
Procedures:
When a person is nearing death it is recommended that the
person give a gift of a decorated cow (vaitarani) to a brahmana
to ensure his safe passage over the river of death. If a cow
is unavailable he should give an equivalent sum of money.
Gifts of iron pots, salt, land, grain, ghee and laddu are also
recommended. Mahabharat recommends that Visnu Sahasra Nama be
recited at this time. It is customary that the dying person
should hear the names of the Lord. The legitimate claimant to
the last rites may whisper the karna mantra starting with
"ayusah"in his ear (a vedic mantra). Lamps may also be lit.
Some people place tulasi prasadam and caranamrta or Ganga water
in the person's mouth.
When it is confirmed that the soul has passed from the body,
the body may be shaved (optional), bathed and clothed in clean,
preferably new cloth or silk, and placed on a mat on the floor.
According to some traditions, new cloth should be obtained,
washed, and while still wet placed on the body. If the deceased
is an old man, he should be clothed in white; middle aged men
wear red, and young men and women wear colored cloth. Widows
wear white, black or blue. The face may remain uncovered at
this time while family members pay their last respects. Tilak
should be applied.
When the procession arrives at the site, they should take bath,
they should bathe the body and place it upon kusa with the head
facing south. Ghee should be smeared over the body,and again
it should be bathed, while saying:
om gayadini ca tirthani ye ca punyah silocayah
kuruksetram ca gangam ca yamunam ca saridvaram
kausikim candrabhagam ca sarva papa pranasinim
bhadravakasam gandakim sarayum panasam tatha
vainavam ca varaham ca tirtham pindarakam tatha
prthivyam yani tirthani saritah sagarams tatha
dhyava tu manasa sarve krta snanam gatayusam
The body should be dressed in two pieces of fresh cloth and new
yajnopavita. Garland and candana should be applied. Pieces of
gold or bell metal should be placed on the two ears, the two
eyes, the two nostrils and the mouth. The face should be
covered with another cloth. A body should never be burned
without clothing.
The kunda for the cremation should be the length of the person
from toe to outstretched hand, as wide as his outstreched arms
and as deep as the measurement from the person's toe to his
chest. The hole should be cleansed and smeared with cow dung
and water, and then filled with wood.
The body should be placed on the pyre with the head pointing
south (according the followers of Samaveda) or north (according
to followers of the other vedas). Men should be laid with face
downwards, and women should be laid on their backs, with face
upwards. Wood may be piled over the body also.
Saying
(May all the devas with agni as their mouth consume the body in
flames)
The claimant to the last rites should take fire in his hand.
He and his assistants, should circumabulate the pyre three or
seven times, and then, approaching the head, and facing south,
he should apply fire near the head, over the mouth, or on the
chest, while the others apply fire to the wood under the body,
going towards the feet.
When the fire has burned until only a few remnants remain, they
should each take seven sticks of wood one pradesa in length,
and circumabulating the pyre seven times should offer one into
the fire each time around, saying:.
He should take an axe and hit the wood of the pyre seven times.
Bones may be collected at this time and kept in an earthen pot.
Each assistant should then take three or seven pots of water
and pour them over the fire to extinghuish it. The slected
member should the place a earthen pot filled with water on the
pyre and cover it with an earthen dish, in which he should
place five or eight coins. While the others turn away from the
pyre without looking back he should break the pot with a stone
or brick, and coming around the pyre in counterclockwise
direction he should leave the place without looking back. They
should then proceed to take bath in a river or the ocean, the
elders going first.
The burner of the body should shave, and all persons attending
should bathe with loosened hair. All cloth should be washed.
After bathing, facing south with yajnopavita over the right
shoulder, wearing lower cloth only they should say:
Stirring the water with the ring finger of the left hand , they
should submerge themselves under water once and then performing
acamana, they should offer tarpana three times.
Then taking bath again, they should rise from the water, the
children going first. They should remain away from the house
until night. Only with the permission of a brahmana may they
return before this time.
On approaching the house of the departed person they should
place neem leaves between their teeth , and touching leaves of
the sami tree they should say:
They may then enter the house, the children going first. The
house may be cleansed by fumigating it with cow dung smoke
three times and then sprinkling it with flowers, sesame and
rice paddy.
om namo'stu dharmaya
Entering into the water he should throw the earth into the
water saying:
om sa me prito bhavatu
Asauca:
Sraddha Kriya
At the time of passing from the mortal body, whiel the Holy
Name is being recited or sung, caranamrta, tirtha water or
krsna prasadam should be placed in his mouth.
The hole should be one step larger the the height of the
person. If the body has already been burnt, the ashes or bones
should be taken to a holy tirtha and there placed in earth.
One should sprinkle the hole with pancagavya and tirtha water.
One should shave the person.
One should sprinkle the body with pancagavya chanting gayatri
and purusa sukta or other mantras.
One may bathe the body with conch water 108 times chanting om,
and offer fresh cloth and tilaka.
om klim srim hrim srim lavana mrd yuji bhuvi svabhre svaha
Samskara Dipika:
(Introductory Note)
Srila Gopal Bhatta Goswami has written the Sat Kriya Sara
Dipika as a manual for performing performing the samskaras of
the grhastha vaisnava. Samskara Dipika he is presenting as a
manual for the vaisnava who is about to renounce his home and
enter the bhiksu asrama. Srila Bhaktisiddhanta Sarasvati
Thakur states that since the time of Lord Caitanya the devotees
on the path of renunciation have been following this manual.
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All men have a right to enter the grhastha asrama, but the
three upper varnas (vaisya, ksatriya and brahmana) have a
right to the other three asramas( brahmacari, vanaprastha and
sannyasa).
According the rules of varnasrama, for women, sudras and dvija
bandhus are these asramas are forbidden. The sudra is a person
with without samskara or purification, and his charactersitic
is lamentation (sucana). Lamentation is due to ignorance,
which is part of his nature. How is it possible that such a
person can become a brahmacari, or take to any of the
activities requiring higher spiritual interest. This is the
scriptural statement.
Starting with ones spiritual master one should worship him with
five or more upacaras, mentioning the upacara, then om,
followed by the acarya in the dative case, followed by namah.
esa gandhah
esa puspa
esa dhupah
esa dipah
idam naivedyam
When one becomes detached from material desires one should give
up household life and become a sannyasi.
1. mundana-shaving
2. tirtha snana-bathing in a holy river
3. tilaka dharana-putting on tilaka *
4. mudra dharana-placing the symbols of the Lord on the body *
5. kaupina suddhi-purification of the kaupina
6. kaupina pranapratistha-calling deities into the kaupina
7. nama grahana-taking a name of the Lord Visnu *
8. mantra grahana-to recieve a vaisnava mantra *
9.. acyuta gotra grahana-taking acyuta gotra
10. salagrama arcana-worship of salagrama sila *
1. mundana (shaving)
2. tirtha snana
3. kaupina suddhi
4. kaupina prana pratistha
5. acyuta gotra grahana
Shaving:
Acamana:
Kara Nyasa:
Anga Nayasa:
Tilaka Dharana:
or:
One should apply stamps with the holy name by mens of gopi
candana on the body. Some vaisnavas apply hot stamps to the
body on the sayana dvadasi tithi, but the worshippers of Krsna
usually apply cold stamps using gopi candana. Sri Caitanya has
decided that this is more suitable for the people of Kali Yuga.
Kaupina suddhi:
One should smear sandalwood over the kaupina and belt and then
purify them again by sprinkling sandalwood paste and reciting
the mantra:
Along with the kaupina there should be two pieces of cloth for
covering the body, a blanket (kantha) for protection from the
cold, sack, head cloth etc and shoes. There should also be a
tridanda of palasa, bamboo and vilva poles, or three poles of
one of the three types of trees. One should also have a water
pot made of tumbi gourd, earth or wood. (Some manuals also
include a water strainer made of cloth and an asana.) They
should all be purified along with the kaupina.
One should chant the following mantra ten times over the
kaupina etc.
One should worship the kaupina etc with sandalwood and flowers:
One should chant the following eighteen times over the items
Nama karana:
If the candidate has not already had panca samskara, he should
be given a name of the Lord with the word dasa after it to
signify his servitude to the Lord.
If the candidate has not had panca samskara the qualified guru,
knowledgeable of the rules of sannyasa, should then give the
candidate Krsna mantra, in the left ear.
Yaga:
When the sannyasi passes from this world the following mantra
should be written on his body:
om klim srim hrim srim lavana mrd yuji bhuvi svabhre svaha
Adhikara:
One who has decided to surrender himself fully to the Lord and
take to the renounced order of life should approach his siksa
guru and holding his lotus feet, should make his request. If
the diksa guru is present however, he should make his request
to him.
(if he is also of the renounced order).
Prayer:
samsarambhodhi magno'ham
krsna seva bahirmukhah
guroh svapada naukayam
samaropyaiva taraya
upavasa
mundana (shaving)
tirtha jala snana (bathing in sacred water)
tulasi mala dharan (wearing tulasi beads around the neck)
pundra, mudra (tilak and marks of cakra etc.)
nama karana (giving of name)
mantra dana (giving krsna mantras)
kaupina dharana (wearing the kaupina)
krsna puja (worship of the deity)
sri krsne atmasamarpanam (full surrender to Krsna )
(Comparing this to Srila Gopala Bhatta's list of ten samskaras,
one should note that here upavasa, tulasi mala dharana and atma
samarpana are separate headings, while mudra and pundra are
merged under one heading, and kaupina prana pratistha and
acyuta gotra grahana are ommitted.)
The day before the ceremony one should fast, and sleep on the
ground (not in a bed). The next morning, the person should
carry out his daily rituals until sauca. After sauca he should
be shaved except for the armpits and genital.
Panca gavya should be purified with mantras and sprinkled over
the person. Mrttika snana should be performed with mantra.
The person should then take a bath in a holy tirtha according
to the rules.
The spiritual master will then give him kaupin and tie the knot
on the right side, and then give him a botttom cloth (bahir
vasa).
The spiritual master will then give him gopal mantra, but if he
has it already he should give him kama gaytari. If the
candidate has kama gayatri already he should give him hare
krsna mantra. if he has all of them he should give them again.
The guru should offer the flowers and tulasi to the lotus feet
of Krsna, offering up the candidate to Krsna's service. He
should then give the prasada nirmalya to the candidate.
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Tridandi: