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WHEN IS A MAN TRULY READY FOR

MARRIAGE
1. What does it mean to approach a woman? What’s the full sense of responsibility that
is connected to marriage?
2. We need to uproot the instinct based approach to marriage
3. Age is not an argument for marriage. It is the weakest of all the factors.
4. Age can only be used as a factor to motivate a young man to prepare himself for
marriage.
5. Marriage could either mark or mar the life of a man and those connected to him.
6. Marriage will affect the lives of
 The man who marries
 The woman who gets married
 The father and mother of the man
 The father and mother of the woman
 The child(ren)
7. Marriage is one of the most serious problem a man could ever take. It’s a huge
decision.
8. Statistics show that
 married people are less happy than single people
 80% of married women are unhappy
 80% of single women are happy
9. Not because marriage is bad, but because people don’t prepare enough for marriage.
People don’t think enough before marrying.
10. Marriage complicates your life at least ten times more than when you are single.
11. Marriage will not save you away from problems but it multiplies your problems.
12. Marriage is for those who are ready for solving problems. You should be passionate
about resolving other people’s problems.
13. Marriage does not depend on your own readiness only, but the readiness of your
partners, in terms of preparation.
14. Have all your facts together before you marry.
15. In marriage things only change for worse. Don’t expect someone to change after
marriage. If your partner lies to you before marriage, the after marriage she will lie to
you ten times more.

When is a Man Truly Ready for Marriage?

1. A man must understand the concept of proposal.
No man should approach a lady until he understands that, by approaching that girls, he is
telling her
 Follow me by leaving your family and relatives, and I will replace them.
 I’ll do more than your father is doing for you. [Protection, Covering,
Romance, Comfort]
 Imagine she is having the best father she has for you.
 A father is a coverage, care giver, provider etc. You need to be all that to her.
 You should at least make her life better than she has before marrying you.
 You are promising her that you will be to her what her mother is to her. [Love,
Warmth, Care, Protection, Friendship, Intimacy, Example]
 You should be ready to go through any sacrifice to prove your love to a girl.
 You should be sufficient enough to take care of yourself and the person you
want to marry.
 You need to understand that somebody raised that lady to the point that you
see she is marriage-able.
 Somebody gave his/her life to her to make her appear the way she is now.
 If you cannot make her feel better than she is feeling right now, just leave her
alone.
 If you cannot afford her, never approach her.