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Nature of personality
Individuals are differentiated in their attitude, interest, expression and
behavior from one another and remain consistent.
Personality is neither good nor bad.
Personality is not a mysterious phenomenon.
Every personality is unique.
Personality refers to persistent qualities of the individual. It expresses
consistency and regularly.
Personality is acquired.
Personality is influenced by social interaction.
Characteristics of Personality
The two main characteristics of personality are:-
1. Inherited characteristics.
2. Learned Characteristics.
1. Inherited characteristics: - An inherited trait is a feature or characteristic of an
organism that has been passed on to it in its genes. This transmission of
parental traits to their offspring always follows certain principles or laws. It includes
facial appearance an individual acquired from their parents or forefather. Some
characteristics are gifted by birth from our parents these are inherited characteristics.
It consists of color of a person’s eye. Behavior etc,
2. Learned Characteristics: - The uniqueness an individual acquires by observing,
working and gaining knowledge from others and surroundings are known as
learned characteristics.
Learned characteristics include the following features:
a. Perception: - Perception means the way in which something is regarded,
understood, or interpreted. It is the result of different senses like feeling, hearing
etc.,.
b. Values: Values are a Person's or society's beliefs about good behavior and what
things are important. Values have major influence on a person's behavior and
attitude and serve as broad guidelines in all situations and decision making process.
c. Personality: - Personality is the combination of characteristics or qualities that
form an individual's distinctive character. It includes Patterns of thinking, feeling,
understanding and behavior.
1. Locus of Control:- Locus of control is the degree to which people believe that they
have control over the outcome of events in their lives, as opposed to external forces
beyond their control. Understanding of the concept was developed by Julian B.
Rotter in 1954, and has since become an aspect of personality studies. A person's
"loci" (plural of "locus", Latin for "place" or "location") are conceptualized as internal
(a belief that one's life can be controlled) or external (a belief that life is controlled by
outside factors which they cannot influence, or that chance or fate controls their
lives).
2. Authoritarianism:- Favoring or enforcing strict obedience to authority at the
expense of personal freedom of or relating to a governmental or political system,
principle, or practice in which individual freedom is held as completely subordinate
to the power or authority of the state, centered either in one person or a small group
that is not constitutionally accountable to the people.
3. Bureaucratic: - A psychological construct that describes those workers who are
more concerned with following correct procedures than they are getting the job
done. The definition of bureaucratic is something that is focused more on procedure
and policy than common sense, frequently referring to government or to the formal
operation of a business.
4. Machiavellianism:- It represents the degree to which an individual is pragmatic.
It is sneaky, cunning, and lacking moral code. The word comes from the Italian
philosopher Niccolo Machiavelli, who wrote the political treatise the Prince in the
1500s, that encourages “the end justifies the means” behavior especially among
politicians.
Extraversion and Introversion:- Carl Jung popularized both the terms -
“Extraversion” and “Introversion”.
Extraversion: Extraversion refers to a state where individuals show more concern
towards what is happening outside. Such individuals love interacting with people
around and are generally talkative. They do not like spending time alone but love
being the center of attraction of parties and social gatherings. Such individuals love
going out, partying, meeting people and often get bored when they are all by
themselves. They admire the company of others and hate staying alone.
Introversion: Introversion, on the other hand refers to a state when an individual is
concerned only with his own life and nothing else. Such individuals do not bother
about others and are seldom interested in what is happening around.
Type “A” and Type “B”:-
Type A:- Type A individuals are as ambitious, aggressive, business like, time
conscious and tightly wound with free floating hostility. Who lives at a higher stress
level, enjoy achievement of goals, hate failure and will work hard to avoid failure.
TYPE “B”:-They are patient, relaxed, easy going and at times lacking an overriding
sense of urgency with lives at a lower stress level, steadily work, enjoying
achievements but not becoming stressed when they are not achieved.
DETERMINANTS OF PERSONALITY OR FACTORS OF PERSONALITY
Every person has a different personality and there are a lot of factors which
contribute to that personality. The environmental and heredity factors contribute as
the important determinants and factors of personality.
1. Environmental Factors of Personality: The environment that an individual lives
in has a major impact on his personality. The culture and environment establish
attitudes, values, norms and perceptions in an individual. Based on the cultures and
traditions, different senses of right and wrong are formed in individuals.
These environmental factors also include the neighborhood a person lives in, his
school, college, university and workplace. Moreover, it also counts the social circle
the individual has. Friends, parents, colleagues, co-workers and bosses, everybody
plays a role as the determinants of personality.
2. Social factors:-The contribution of family and social group in combination with
the culture is knows as socialization. When an individual interact with other persons
in his/her group give and take relationship takes place and it affects the personality
of an individual. When an individual has group experience and contact with others
personality of an individual is influenced by others may be bad or good but depends
on the association in which he/she keeps. In a society every person plays a specific
role and status.
3. Biological Factors of Personality:
Biological Factors – In a personality, biological characteristics contributes in a great
to determine an individual’s personality. These factors mainly comprises of Heredity
or Genetics, Brain, Physical Features, Physical Abilities and Gender.
i) Heredity Factors of Personality: The heredity factors play a very important role as
the major determinants and factors of personality. Heredity factors are the ones that
are determined at the time of conception. These factors not only affect the physical
features of a person, but the intelligence level, attentiveness, gender, temperament,
various inherited diseases and energy level, all get affected by them. The example of
how heredity factors determine such a huge and significant part of an individual‘s
personality can easily be observed in children. Many children behave exactly how
their parents do. Similarly, twin siblings also have a lot of things in common.
ii) Physical Features: Just as environmental factors, there are many physical factors
as well that determine your personality. These physical factors include the overall
physical structure of a person: his height, weight, color, sex, beauty and body
language, etc. An individual‘s personality can change over time. Physical factors are
one of the major reasons of that. Most of the physical structures change from time to
time, and so does the personality. With exercises, cosmetics and surgeries etc. many
physical features are changed, and therefore, the personality of the individual also
evolves.
iii) Brain: Another biological factor that influences personality is the role of brain of
an individual. Though some promising inroads are made by researchers, the
psychologists are unable to prove empirically the contribution of human brain in
influencing personality. Preliminary results from the electrical stimulation of the
brain (ESB) research gives indication that better understanding of human personality
and behavior might come from the study of the brain.
4. Situational Factors of Personality: The situational factors can be commonly
observed when a person behaves contrastingly and exhibits different traits and
characteristics. For example, a person‘s behavior will be totally different when he is
in his office, in front of his boss, when compared to his hangout with old friends. In
this way, situational factors impact a personality in a significant way. They often
bring out the traits of a person that are not commonly seen.
5. Cultural Factors:- Culture is traditionally considered as the major determinants of
an individual‘s personality. The culture largely determinants what a person is and
what a person will learn. The culture within a person is brought up, is very
important determinant of behavior of a person. Culture is complex of these belief,
values, and techniques for dealing with the environment which are shared among
contemporaries and transmitted by one generation to the next. Culture required both
conformity and acceptance from its members.
6. Other Factors- Apart from these major factors like: biological, family and group,
environmental considerations, situation etc there are other factors which play vital
role in shaping personality. The other factors includes:-
Temperament:- It is the degree to which one responds emotionally.
Interest:- The individual normally has many interest in various areas.
Individual interest in doing different types of jobs, sports, yoga etc. is also
influence on personality development.
Character:-It is very important requirement for responsible jobs. It includes
honesty, sincerity. Dedication etc. of individual which influence development
of personality.
Motives:-Motives are the inner drive of the individual. They represent goal
directed behaviour of an individual.
1. Oral Stage:
This stage expands from zero to one-and-a-half years. During this period
mouth is the sensitive zone of the body and the main source of joy and pleasure for
the child. How the infant is being cared for by the mother makes the infant trust or
mistrusts the world (represented by mother) around him. If his wants are frequently
satisfied, he develops trust and believes that the world will take care of him.
In case of frequent dissatisfaction, mistrust develops leading the infant to believe
that the people around him cannot be believed, relied on, and that he is going to lose
most of what he wants. After the first six months (sucking period), the remaining
one year (biting period) is fairly difficult for the child and mother because of
eruption of teeth and weaning. If properly handled, infant’s trust gets reinforced and
he develops an in-built and lifelong spring of optimism and hope.
Persons, who had an unpleasant (abandoned, unloved and uncared) babyhood, are
likely to find parenthood as burdensome and may express dependent, helpless,
abusive behavior, and angry outbursts i.e., oral character. To such people,
caseworker is like parents, who helps the client to verbalize his anger and distrust
and later provides emotional support and protective services.
2. Anal Stage:
Towards the end of biting period of oral stage, the child is able to walk, talk, and eat
on his own. He can retain or release something that he has. This is true of bowel and
bladder function also. He can either retain or release his bowel and bladder contents.
Now, the child no more depends upon the mouth zone for pleasure. He now derives
pleasure from bowel and bladder (anal zone) functioning, which entails anxiety
because of toilet training by parents. Child is taught where to pass urine and where
to go for defecation etc.
In this training of bladder and bowel control, child may develop autonomy, or
shame and doubt. The task of anal is to develop autonomy. If the parents are
supportive without being overprotective and if the child is allowed to function with
some independence, he gains some confidence in his autonomy probably by the age
of three and prefers love over hate, cooperation over willfulness, and self-expression
over suppression.
Parents too show their ambivalence to accept them in their new role of an adult in-
the-making.
This stage exhibits all the psycho-social characteristics of earlier period and only
towards the end, all these get resolved into a new set of role (identity) for the
adolescent. In order to develop a personal identity, he becomes fan of some hero,
starts following certain ideologies, and tries his luck with opposite sex.
Indecision and confusion are not uncommon in this stage. Identification with a
wrong person shall create problems for him. The task of this age is to develop
identity, i.e., values, strengths, skills, various roles, limitations, etc., failing which his
identity gets diffused and he fails to know how to behave in different situations. He
needs to be helped to deal with the physiological, emotional pressures along-with
pressures from parents, peers, etc.
UNIT II: - ATTITUDE & EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
3. Behavioral part – The behavioral component describe how the attitude influences
your behavior. It is the outward expression of our emotions. For example:- People
show their behavior through their body gestures, postures, facial expressions etc.
Characteristics of Attitude:-
1. Attitudes are the complex combination of things we tend to call personality,
beliefs, values, behaviors, and motivations.
2. It can fall anywhere along a continuum from very favorable to very
unfavorable.
3. All people, irrespective of their status or intelligence, hold attitudes.
4. An attitude exists in every person’s mind. It helps to define our identity,
guide our actions, and influence how we judge people.
5. Although the feeling and belief components of attitude are internal to a
person, we can view a person’s attitude from his or her resulting behavior.
Types of Attitudes: - Attitude is something that lies between emotions and thought
processing.
1. Positive Attitude: - A positive attitude means having an optimistic outlook. One
responds constructively to stress and be able to deal with problems effectively.
People having positive attitude see the glass as half full instead of seeing it as half
empty. A person’s attitude influences his/her social status, finances, health, the way
he/she challenge obstacles and the kind of people they attract to their life.
2. Negative Attitude: - Negative attitudes come from thinking negative thoughts
over and over until they have become a part of person’s subconscious. One may not
even realize that he/she is having a negative attitude because it’s been with him/her
for so long. A person having a bad attitude expects failure and disaster. An example
of a negative attitude towards life is being pessimistic that things will never turn out
well. These are destructive feeling and emotions that cannot help but worsen life’s
conditions.
3. Job Satisfaction: - Job satisfaction is the level of contentment a person feels
regarding his or her job. This feeling is mainly based on an individual’s perception
of satisfaction. A person with a high level of job satisfaction holds positive attitudes
about the job, while a person who is dissatisfied with his or her job holds negative
attitude about the job.
4. Job Involvement: - Job involvement refers to the degree with which an individual
identifies psychologically with his or her job and perceives his or her perceived
performance level important to self-worth. High levels of job involvement have been
found to be related to fewer absences and lower resignation rates.
5. Organizational Commitment: - The last job-attitude refers to organizational
commitment. It is understood as one’s identification with his or her organization and
feels proud of being its employee. It is defined as a state in which an employee
identifies with a particular organization and, its goals, and wishes to maintain
membership in the organization.
The Importance/ benefits of positive attitude to individuals and organizations can
be explained as follows.
Benefits to Individuals:-The importance of positive attitude can best be understood
by enumerating the benefits they provide to an individual.
1. Pleasantness: With a positive attitude one sees the bright side of life, becomes
optimistic and expects the best to happen. The positive feelings inside one’s
mind will give him or her 'feel good' sense and makes one look happy. It
makes interactions with others pleasant as one will have more tolerance to
ambiguities and patience to listen to other's problems.
2. Optimism: Positive thinkers see the dead ends as beginnings to new phases
of life and the darkness as a phenomenon before brightness, and prepare for
opportunities to open up. They do not give up or relax during bad times as
they never lose the spirit of winning.
3. Systems view:-People with positive attitude organize themselves and their
work. They adopt systematic approaches to think, decide and act. They
replace hotchpotch work and haphazard work ways with scientific methods
and integrated approaches as they believe in doing the best and achieving the
best, individually and in teams.
4. Intuition -the ability to foresee the solutions for problems without any
conscious and deliberate effort - is possible only when one has peaceful mind
Step- 3: Learn to like the things that need to be done- Different people have
aversions for different things. Some students dislike mathematics. Some employees
dislike touring jobs. But when what we do not like becomes part of our work, there
is no escape. What we have to do is to tell ourselves that we do not dislike or scared
by it. Proper psychological preparation is essential to take up such tasks with a
positive mind. Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly
you are doing the impossible.
Building Affective Component:-The affective component when developed provides
to emotional intelligence or stability of an individual.
Step-1: Build a positive self-esteem- Self-esteem is the way we feel about ourselves.
When we feel well within, our performance goes up: our relationships improve both
at home and at work. The world looks nicer. One can improve self -esteem by
becoming capable and making contributions to
(i) Individual goal accomplishment
(ii) Team performance and development and
(iii) Quality of life of society.
Step-2: Stay away from negative influences- Today we live in global village
characterized by information avalanche and social diversity. Exposures to mass
media on a large scale and interactions with people of diverse cultures have both
positive and negative influences on our mind. To stay away from negative
influences, one has to do the following:
Be assertive to say no to negative people (vicious minded, drug addicts, political
activists, and anti-social elements), Be firm to block negative desires like viewing
obscene movies, postponing work or study, etc.,
Step-3: Develop an attitude of gratitude-We are indebted to many people in our life
who have contributed to our development in many ways at different times. Some of
them might have treated us by adopting harsh and critical approach: others might
have supported us by taking positive and development approach. Often we
complain against those who were critical. Also we are so focused on complaining
about things we don't have. We lose sight or the things we have. Be focused on good.
Remember the good, the positives in your personality and in your associations.
4. It Produces Negative Effects: Every cause has an effect and so one’s negative
attitude (cause) produces negative circumstances. Mostly people think it’s the other
way round, but that’s not the case. A person thinking causes their circumstances.
5. Insecurity: It leads feeling of insecurity of job. People think doing job is harder
and afraid of losing their job.
6. Lack of belief: - Employees are lack belief of themselves. They think that they
cannot do the assigned job.
7. Develop Stress:- A negative attitude leads greater stress of doing their job. It leads
health problems like heart diseases. BP. Etc,.
8. Difficult to work in team: - Negative attitude leads to difficult to work in team.
They are lack understanding them. They always think in negatively about other
attitude.
Benefits of positive thinking or measures to overcome negative attitude:-
The following are the measures to overcome negative attitude:-
1. Self-monitoring.
2. Selection/ deselect ion.
3. Seeking guidance.
4. Changing Environment.
5. Learn an art.
6. Take Responsibility.
7. Meditate or do yoga.
8. Helps someone.
9. List at least ten things that you are grateful for.
10. Read Positive quote and thoughts.
1. Self-monitoring: - It means by observing oneself over a period of time to
understand what kind of attitude they hold. One may realize their attitude to be
negative if their response is mostly negative and have endured over a period of time.
On ascertaining the existence of negative attitude. The individual can work towards
changing it.
2. Selection / Deselect ion: - Positive attitude helps for selecting things or ideas
which are most beneficial to the individual or company. It also helps to deselect
activities which are not useful to the individual or company.
3. Seeking Guidance: - Guidance refers to assistance, supervision and help of any
sort for the betterment of the situation or the individual. This may be sought from
family, friends, a teacher, a well wisher or even a professional.
4. Changing Environment: - People who needs to adopt positive attitude he should
move from negative environment. He /she be always be with positive thinkers
overcome his negative attitude.
5. Learn an art: - Art gave an immense healing effect on people. They are of various
forms and an individual may choose according to one’s area of interest. People
recovering from bad experience have had safer and quicker recovery.
6. Take Responsibility: - Individual by taking responsibility of some kind of work,
proper execution this work overcomes negative attitude of people.
7. Meditate or do yoga:-By practicing Meditation and yoga continuously change the
individual behavior in to positive outlook.
8. Helps someone: - By helping someone, there is exchange of positive vibes and it
works on healing level. Continuing with such ideas will benefit not just the
individual but the society as well.
9. List at least ten things that you are grateful for: By positive thinking first we
thank god blessing of what we having like blessed with shelter, food, family, friends
etc,.
10. Read Positive quote and thoughts: - by reading some positive quotes every day
we change our negative attitude to positive one. Ex: - watch your thoughts, they
become words. Watch your words, they become action. Etc,.
Emotional Intelligence is the ability to identify, use, and understand and manage
emotions in positive ways to relive stress, communicate effectively, and overcome
challenges and conflicts.
Components of Emotional Intelligence:-
Emotional intelligence consists of the following components/elements:
Self-awareness: Self-awareness implies an in-depth study of an individual’s
emotions, positives/assets, limitations, needs and ambitions. Self-awareness can be
developed by investing time identifying the domains of improvement and making
an honest attempt to build up that attribute of yours.
Self-regulation: Self-regulation is like a continuous internal discussion. It ensures
that we are no longer bound to our feelings. People who are self-regulated know
how to deal with their feelings in an effective way.
Motivation: An urge to work and learn for inner motives other than monetary and
prestige reasons is what inner motivation is. Motivation is a drive to accomplish
things which are out of your own expectancies as well as others expectancies.
Empathy: Empathy means selflessly taking into account the feelings of workforce
during rational decision-making. It is the proficiency to understand the emotional
state of mind of others and to deal with them accordingly
Social Skills: People with great social skills excels in change management and
conflict resolution. They are excellent communicators. They have huge contacts and
a high capability to build connections.
Importance of emotional intelligence
1. Self-confidence:- It improves self-confidence of people. They concentrate on their
goal effectively and to attain their goal easily.
2. Self-improvement:- The persons should have focus towards improving daily
basis. Perform and make comparison with the standards.
3. Self-awareness:- it is an essential skill required for managerial position. Self
awareness about our strength and weakness is plays important role in managing the
emotions.
4. Adapt to changing environment:- The people should able to understand the
situation and try to adjust with the changing situation.
6. Scale: The scale of your vision in terms of geography, time and depth.
7. Nobility: Nobility is the degree to which your vision touches the lives of people
other than yourself for a greater good.
8. Correctness: The correctness of your vision is directly proportional to the
soundness of your ideology.
Element of Good vision Statement
1. Future oriented: Vision statement is future oriented. It gives guidance how an
individual and company going to achieve in a future course period.
2. Reflects the organization’s values: Values are very important for every
organization. For long standing development of the company vision statement
reflects the organization values.
3. Sets standards of excellence: they provide standard for performance. The must
take initiative to achieve the set standards. The actual performance must be
compared to that of set standards. Checkout the variations of performance. The
company takes corrective action if they find any deviations of performance.
4. Clarifies the organization’s purpose and direction: It clarifies organization
purpose. It gives direction to the employees to achieve in near future. Long term
vision to the company is to increase their production level from 10,000 units to
50,000 units in 5 years of time being.
5. Inspires enthusiasm and commitment: Vision statement inspires the
employee’s commitment to work. It enhances productivity of the organization.
6. Reflects the uniqueness of the organization: Vision statement must enhance
the strength of the organization. Employees efforts are not wasted they always
clear vision about the future and it increase the strength of the organization.
7. Build loyalty: - the company must build loyalty through involving various
stakeholders. The trust among the various stakeholders is a must. The effective
and achievable vision statement can fulfill the purpose.
Importance of vision statement
1. IT DETERMINES THE COMPANY’S DIRECTION
Smart business owners use this statement to remind their teams why their company
exists because this is what makes the company successful.
5. IT SHAPES STRATEGY
Every business and business owner needs a strategy. But strategies must not be
created in a vacuum. Instead of looking at what’s new or what competitors are doing
and trying to copy them, wise business owners create the most effective strategies
possible to accomplish the mission their company is set out to accomplish.
6. IT FACILITATES EVALUATION AND IMPROVEMENT
It has been said that “What you measure will be your mission.” If you have a clear,
written statement of mission you will know exactly what to measure and how to
measure it. Therefore it facilitates evaluation and improvement.
Meaning of Goal: - A goal is a desired result a person or a system envisions plans
and commits to achieve a personal or organizational desired end-point in some sort
of assumed development. Many people endeavor to reach goals within a definite
Realistic – state what results can realistically be achieved, given available resources.,
Time-related – specify when the result(s) can be achieved.
Principles of effective goal setting: -
1) Write down the benefits of achieving your goal,
2) List the obstacles to overcome in accomplishing your goal and welcome failure,
3) List the skills and knowledge required to reach your goal and celebrate each step
of success,
4) Identify the people and groups you need to work with to reach your goal ,
5) develop a plan of action to reach your goal,
Set a series of related daily, weekly and long-term goals, complete with starting
times and completion dates. Continuously take an action step toward the attainment
of your goal (weekly or daily). Goal-setting ideally involves establishing specific,
measurable, attainable, realistic and time-bounded objectives.
A Dream + Action Plan + Target Date = Goal
Work on the goal-setting theory suggests that it can serve as an effective tool for
making progress by ensuring that participants have a clear awareness of what they
must do to achieve or help achieve an objective. On a personal level, the process of
setting goals allows people to specify and then work towards their own objectives
most commonly, financial or career-based goals. Goal-setting comprises a major
component of personal development.
Significance of goal setting:-
Goal setting is a basic function of management.
Goal setting replaces hunches by judgment
Goal setting involves rational processes
Goal setting involves balancing
Developing a new skill or improving current skills
Defeat old habits, or developing better ones
Producing an outcome, achieving a dream
Performance Goals and Outcome Goals: - There is a significant difference between
performance goals and outcome goals. Performance based goals can be controlled
by the person who sets the goals while outcome based goals are frequently
controlled by others. It is best to set performance goals when possible.
Types of Goals: - A goal can be long-term, medium short-term. The primary
difference is the time required to achieve them.
1. Short-term goals are more immediate. They can be reached in a few months.
Examples may be making an A in your math class, getting the lead role in the class
play or helping Dad clean out the garage. Short-term goals are ones that a person
will achieve in the near future, typically in less than one year. Short-term goals are
often, but not always, steppingstones on the way to meeting long-term goals. These
types of stepping stone goals are considered enabling goals because accomplishment
of these goals will “enable” a person to achieve an even greater goal.
2. Medium-term goals take a little longer, generally about one to three years. That
may include buying a car or graduating from high school.
3. Long-term goals take five years or more to accomplish, and may be more difficult
because they are further away. Long-term goals may be graduating from college,
owning a home, being a grandparent or running a marathon.
Benefits of Goal Setting: - It gives clear direction, Simplification, prediction,
validation and optimization.
1) Save time:-by setting goal you will be cut out a huge chunk of wasted time each
day. Saving time means you will have extra time to do more important thing.
2) Helps You Stay Focused:-The greatest importance of goal setting is that it helps
you stay focused to achieve what you seek. It acts like a steering wheel that
maneuvers you along the right direction. Focus is the key. You, in no way, can afford
to take your eyes off the goal even for a moment. Goal setting helps you stay focused
on your goals in life.
3) Assists in Overcoming Procrastination:-Goal setting also helps you overcome
procrastination. The habit of procrastination is one of the biggest frailties of human
nature, which severely jeopardizes the chances of one’s advancements. However, if
you have a set goal for yourself, you will always be on the ball and do as required to
achieve it. You will waste less time on insignificant or unproductive actions and take
a more direct route to the accomplishment of the goal.
evident that goal setting is a key instrument, which fosters the prospect of your
personal or professional advancements. Every goal should be concrete and specific.
It is very important to identify what you are striving for and commit yourself whole-
heartedly towards achieving it.
Advantages of Goal Setting: - Be aware of neighborhood needs:-Goal setting for
your organization will bring the needs of your neighborhood into focus.
Complete Projects:-By setting time limits for when you want to finish a project, your
organization can anticipate how much work is ahead and set its schedule
accordingly.
Increase and maintain association activity:-Goal setting keeps members enthused
and motivated. If your association has set a target date to complete a project, the
members’ energy level will increase as that target date draws nearer. If your
association has set goals, there will be plenty of projects to work on. If members are
not busy, then it's time for them to work to accomplish existing goals or set new
ones.
Neighborhood ownership of projects:-By building consensus for neighborhood
goals you build ownership of those goals by neighborhood residents. Residents that
feel that they are part of the process are more likely to provide resources and
volunteer time to achieve those goals.
Leadership role is made easier and more productive:-By determining what the most
important issues/concerns are in your neighborhood it will assist the leadership of
the neighborhood and the committee chairs to determine guest speakers, meeting
agendas and where the resources of your organization should be concentrated.
Disadvantages:
• It is possible to underestimate the time for your goal. If you make a bad
estimate for the time required to achieve goal you will experience a lot of
disappointment.
• Failure, many people are afraid of failure.
Essential Requirements of Goal Setting:
Goal Setting includes Five rules:- 1. Clarity. 2. Challenge. 3. Commitment. 4. Feed
back. 5. Task Complexity.
done within a day, which all should be done within a month and so on. Tasks which
are most important should be done earlier.
Spending the right time on right activity:- Develop the habit of doing the right
thing at the right time. Work done at the wrong time is not of much use. Don’t waste
a complete day on something which can be done in an hour or so. Also keep some
time separate for your personal calls or checking updates on Facebook or Twitter.
After all human being is not a machine.
For Effective Time Management one needs to be:
Organized - Avoid keeping stacks of file and heaps of paper at your workstation.
Throw what all you don’t need. Put important documents in folders. Keep the files
in their respective drawers with labels on top of each file. It saves time which goes
on unnecessary searching.
Don’t misuse time - Do not kill time by loitering or gossiping around. Concentrate
on your work and finish assignments on time. Remember your organization is not
paying you for playing games on computer or peeping into other’s cubicles. First
complete your work and then do whatever you feel like doing. Don’t wait till the last
moment.
Be Focussed - One needs to be focused for effective time management.
Benefits of Time Management:- Time Management refers to making the best
possible use of available time. Managing time well enables an individual to do the
right thing at the right time. Time Management plays a pivotal role in one’s personal
as well as professional life.
Time Management Techniques:
Set your Priorities. Know what all needs to be done on an urgent basis. Prepare a
“TO DO” Make sure you finish your assignments within the stipulated time frame.
Understand the difference between urgent and important work.
Stay focused. Do not leave your work station if some urgent work needs to be done.
Going for strolls in the middle of an urgent work breaks continuity and an
individual tends to lose his focus. Individuals who kill time at work find it difficult
to survive workplace stress.
Do include time for your tea breaks, net surfing, and personal calls and so on in
your daily schedule. It is important. Human being is not a machine who can work at
a stretch for eight to nine hours.
Set realistic and achievable targets for yourself.
Do not overburden yourself. Be disciplined and punctual. Keep things at their
proper places. Do not treat your organization as a mere source of money. Change
your attitude. Avoid playing games on computer or cell phones during office hours.
It is unprofessional.
Develop the habit of using an organizer. It helps you plan things better. Keep a
notepad and a pen handy.
Stress management:- Stress can be defined as a state of physical and mental tension
caused by certain external or internal factor in a person's life”. Stress is an
emotionally disruptive or unsetting condition of our mind that occurs as result of
adverse external influences. It as a physical, mental, or emotional response to events
that causes bodily or mental tension. Simply put, stress is any outside force or event
that has an effect on our body or mind. when the pressure is greater that the
resources we face stress.
Types of Stress
Major types of stress can be broken down into four different categories:
Eustress,
Hyperstress,
Hypostress, and Distress.
Eustress: - Eustress is one of the helpful types of stress. It is the type of stress you
experience right before you have the need to exert physical force. Eustress prepares
the muscles, heart, and mind for the strength needed for whatever is about to occur.
Eustress can also apply to creative endeavors. When a person needs to have some
extra energy or creativity, eustress kicks in to bring them the inspiration they need.
Distress: - Distress is one of the negative types of stress. This is one of the types of
stress that the mind and body undergoes when the normal routine is constantly
adjusted and altered. The mind is not comfortable with this routine, and craves the
familiarity of a common routine. There are actually two types of distress: acute stress
and chronic stress.
Acute Stress:- Acute stress is the type of stress that comes immediately with a
change of routine. It is an intense type of stress, but it passes quickly. Acute stress is
the body's way of getting a person to stand up and take inventory of what is going
on, to make sure that everything is OK
Chronic Stress:- Chronic stress will occur if there is a constant change of routine for
week after week.Chronic stress affects the body for a long period of time. This is the
type of stressexperienced by someone who constantly faces moves or job changes
Stress Areas:- Things that happen outside your body:
SITUATIONS/EVENTS:- Relationship conflicts, Job changes, Stock market
fluctuations, Illness in a loved one, Divorce or separation, Being sued, Losing a job,
Going to the doctor/dentist, Failures/mistakes, Retirement, Overcrowding,
Disasters, Death of a loved one
DEMANDS:- Deadlines, Competition, Tests/Examinations, Time pressures,
Family/children problems, Financial pressures, Too many responsibilities, Public
speaking, Public performances, Caring for others, Dieting, Quitting smoking
over such things as muscle tension, heart rate, and blood pressure. Medications,
when prescribed by a physician, can help in the short term in moderating your
physical reactions. However, they alone are not the answer. Learning to moderate
these reactions on your own is a preferable long-term solution.
4.Build your physical reserves:- Exercise for cardiovascular fitness three to four
times a week (moderate, prolonged rhythmic exercise is best, such as walking,
swimming, cycling, or jogging).Eat well-balanced, nutritious meals. Maintain your
ideal weight. Avoid nicotine, excessive caffeine, and other stimulants. Mix leisure
with work. Take breaks and get away when you can Get enough sleep. Be as
consistent with your sleep schedule as possible.
5. Maintain your emotional reserves:- Develop some mutually supportive
friendships/relationships. Pursue realistic goals which are meaningful to you, rather
than goals other shave for you that you do not share. Expect some frustrations,
failures, and sorrows. Always be kind and gentle with yourself -- be a friend to
yourself.
Deep breathing:- . The exercise like the one explained above can give you some
immediate relief from a stressful situation.
Quiet time:- Taking some quite time for yourself can often reduce stress.
Relaxation media:- There is a variety of relaxation media on the market in the form
of cassettes, CD’s, videos and even computer software.
Visualization:- Mental visualization is a powerful technique. While it can be
implemented in almost any situation, visualization has gained notoriety in it’s
successful practice by competitive athletes.
Yoga:- The word yoga comes from Sanskrit language meaning union and is believed
to be at least 6000 years old, originating in India. Yoga combines dynamic physical
exercise with a lifestyle philosophy. There are many forms of yoga but the goal is
always the same, perfect self knowledge.
Meditation:- Meditation is meant to bring about awareness, nothing else. It’s a time
to connect to your inner “source” and let go of the issues, responsibilities and
situations that bind your life. The benefits of mediation are uniquely individual, but
both physiological and psychological balancing is common.
Elements of Creativity:
1. Fluency: The ability to think well and effortlessly in order to generate a
quantity of ideas, responses, solutions or questions. (Brainstorming builds
fluency)Ex: List all things you can think of that are blue or have the word “blue” in
them (Butterfly, sea, sky, blueberry)
2. Flexibility: ability to easily abandon old ways of thinking, adopt new ones, and
produce ideas, responses, questions or solutions in a variety of categories. Flexibility
generates a variety of ideas.
3. Originality: It is the ability to develop ideas that are statistically unusual, novel
or uniqueEx: Invent a machine to help you clean your room. Be sure to write down
details on how the machine works, what it uses, and what it is made of. Draw a
picture of your new invention and give it a creative title.
d) Team work:- when people work in teams, the team spirit will be higher and
results will be satisfying.
3. Outcome factors:- The results by themselves are motivating but in addition
the benefits from the results will be them, reinforcing future creative behavior.
Methods of enhancing creativity:- There are several approaches to enhance
creativity among inviduals:-
1. Thinking Process:- Graham walls and others identified stages in creativity
process as explained below:-
Preparation:- Pay your attention to a task or problems, examining relevant
information from your sources and the task environment.
Saturation:- Work hard until exhausted. Investigate in all directions. Develop
knowledge base and focus on the problem and think deliberately for some
time to get a different solution.
Incubation:- Stop conscious work on the problem and turn your attention to
another problem, or simply relax. During this period, some degree of
unconscious and involuntary work on the problem occurs.
Illumination:- The Classic ‘Eureka’ moment when the core of the problem
solutions suddenly springs into awareness. Develop the solutions.
Accommodation:- When the new idea is found worthy by cost benefit
analysis, publicize it For acceptance by society.
Mind Developing Methods:- The basic approaches to inner creativity are
meditation, self awareness, light-heartedness and dreams.
Meditations:- Meditation is closing the eyes, still the chattering mind, and
focus on one specific thought , sound or enter complete stillness in the void.
Meditation puts your brain into an alpha or, when you become proficient a
waking theta state.
Self-awareness:- The practice of self-awareness runs through all the great
religious and philosophical disciples. Hindu yogis Practice the art of mind
full self-awareness. This is a non -judgment form of watching one’s daily
action and thoughts in the present moment in a detached frame of mind.
Lighten-up:- try not to take matters too seriously. Humor is one of the great
indicators that intuitions are at work. Laughter is a good therapy for stress
reduction.
Redefine and reenergize:- this is the mantra of creativity. Keep on refreshing
yourself, reenergize, redefine and revise until you hit the target.
Creative problem solving:- The creative thinker role is going beyond the normal
decision maker. The way one makes use of his mind decides whether one is going to
be creative or adoptive.
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4. Identify Your Goal and Make a Plan for Achieving It
(3) Encoding:
Since the subject matter of communication is theoretical and intangible, its further
passing requires use of certain symbols such as words, actions or pictures etc.
Conversion of subject matter into these symbols is the process of encoding.
(4) Communication Channel:
The person who is interested in communicating has to choose the channel for
sending the required information, ideas etc. This information is transmitted to the
receiver through certain channels which may be either formal or informal.
(5) Receiver:
Receiver is the person who receives the message or for whom the message is meant
for. It is the receiver who tries to understand the message in the best possible
manner in achieving the desired objectives.
(6) Decoding:
The person who receives the message or symbol from the communicator tries to
convert the same in such a way so that he may extract its meaning to his complete
understanding.
(7) Feedback:
Feedback is the process of ensuring that the receiver has received the message and
understood in the same sense as sender meant it.
2. Emotional barriers and taboos. Some people may find it difficult to express their
emotions and some topics may be completely 'off-limits' or taboo. Taboo or difficult
topics may include, but are not limited to, politics, religion, disabilities (mental and
physical), sexuality and sex, racism and any opinion that may be seen as unpopular.
less effective. Phone calls, text messages and other communication methods that rely
on technology are often less effective than face-to-face communication.
12. Physical Barriers:- It is the distance between the sender and the receiver.
An example of a physical barrier to communication is geographic distance between
the sender and receiver(s).
13. Systematic Barriers: Systematic barriers to communication may exist in
structures and organizations where there are inefficient or inappropriate information
Forms of communication.
1. On the basis of organizational structure:
(a) Formal Communication:
Communications which are sent through the formal or officially recognized channel
are called formal communications. Generally, orders, instructions, decisions of the
superior officer are communicated through this channel.
Advantages:
1. Smooth Communication System: Formal communication moves through pre-
determined channel and therefore everyone is aware for where and how to send the
message. So, it does not face any problem to flow.
2. Increase in Efficiency: Such Communication increase overall efficiency of the
management as organizational rules and procedures are required to be followed
always.
3. Permanent Record: All formal communication like letters, report & memos are
kept permanently. So it is helpful in future decision making.
7. Reliability: Formal communication is more credible and more reliable for
sending important issues like objectives, orders and directions etc.
8. Normal Flow of Information: It is a better communication system which ensures
both inside and outside communication to be effective and fruitful. No one can
hamper its original flow or pathway as it strictly follows the established rules of an
organization.
9. Consciousness of Communicator: Formal communication is performed in a
conscious way by a sender. He utilized his merits, knowledge and experience in
such communication to make it a perfect one. As a result success is ensured.
Disadvantages
Wastage of time: Top level management communicates with their employees
by maintaining the board of succession, not by-passing any executive or any
level. That is why it takes a lot of time and it wastages much time of the
concerned person.
Inflexibility: Ordinarily the formal communication is inflexible. If somebody
out of the channel intends to change his views it is not possible. Even when it
is needed to change, it is very much difficult.
Lack of initiative: Under this communication system everybody does their
duty by following specific predetermined system. So it makes the obstacle to
develop the creativeness of the employee.
Authoritarian attitude: In this system the sender is higher authority and the
receiver is lower staffs. Generally the superior’s order cannot be disobeyed. It
creates an authoritarian culture in the organization.
Costly: In this system the organization policy and rules are obeyed properly.
Sometimes it creates crucial situation and it is a time being factor. For these,
the cost of formal communication system is higher than those of others.
Others: Lack of personal relation, delay in decision making, not suitable for
motivation, creates misunderstanding, create mental distance.
(b) Informal Communication:
Dis-advantages: -
1. Distort meaning: Something the meaning and the subject matter of the
information is distorted in this system.
2. Spread rumor: In this system, the miss-information or rumor spread rapidly. The
original information may be transformed to wrong information.
3. Misunderstanding: Under this system, generally, the employees do not obey the
formal authorization system. So it creates the opportunity to develop
misunderstanding.
4. Ease of delegation
Delegation is much easier if the delegation comes directly from the vertical
communication structure representing the chain of command.
Disadvantages:-
1. Distortion:- Ever played the grapevine game? Downward communications can
become distorted as it proceeds through multiple levels of the organization.
2. Slow feedback:- It takes time for messages to go down the organization and then
up the organization and then back down again. This means that feedback can be
slow, resulting in problems, especially in a dynamic environment.
3. Interpretative problems:- downward communication presents interpretation
problems because of the distortion effect and the slow feedback for message
clarification.
4. Lowers morale: - Downward communications can have a negative impact on
organizational morale.
5. Lack of Motivation.:- Given slow feedback and the dependence on formal
channels of communication, this method of communication doesn't really help with
motivation.
(b) Upward Communication:
Communication flows from the subordinates to superior are called upward
communication. It includes reports, suggestions, complaints, etc. Upward
communication enables the management to evaluate the effectiveness with which its
orders have been carried out and also to know the grievances or suggestions of the
subordinates.
Communication is a very important part of working in the business environment.
Managers must be able to communicate with employees and employees must be
able to communicate with managers in order to have a profitable business. Upward
communication is the flow of information from front line employees to managers,
supervisors, and directors.
Upward Communication
Advantages of Upward Communication
1. Development of plan: The information received from subordinate plays
important role to help development of planning of the organization.
2. Providing suggestions and opinions: By upward communication system,
subordinate takes necessary suggestions and opinions from superiors about
the work related issues of the organization.
3. Motivating to employees: Upward communication system allows lower level
staff to express their attitude or opinion to upper level staff. As a result sub-
ordinates are influenced to work more towards fulfillment to target.
4. Providing constructive suggestion: All employees are supplied with
constructive and important messages that can help to implement the goals or
objectives.
5. Good labor-management relationship: Upward communication I
participative in nature. Here, information is invited from lower level
executives and employees and on the basis of this information top executive
makes a decision. So, a good relation between subordinates and bosses should
create for the betterment of the organization.
6. Providing feedback: The subordinate’s reaction is returned to the superior in
this communication system. So, top level management can decide what to do
and what not do clearly understand and followed.
Advantages
1. Reducing Misunderstanding: Misunderstanding and conflict among the mangers
and staffs are very common in organizational life. Horizontal communication helps
to reduce possible misunderstanding and conflict though meeting, discussion, face
to face conversation etc.
2. Strengthening group efforts: Group efforts and teamwork are essential
prerequisites for organizational success. Horizontal communication helps in
reducing conflicts, controversies, and differences in opinions and thus establishes
consensus among the managers and workers concerned. This consensus strengthens
group efforts and team spirit in the organization.
3. Performing inter departmental communication: Horizontal communication
occurs between people at the same level in various departments. Therefore
interdepartmental communication occurs smoothly.
4. Gaining benefits of informal communication: Though horizontal communication
is formal in nature, it enjoys some degree of informality in exchanging information
as the senders and the receivers hold same position, status and honor.
5. Distortion free communication: Horizontal communication is usually free form
distortion. Since the sender and the receiver of horizontal communication can
exchange information directly, there is no possibility of distortion of message.
6. Bringing dynamism in workplace: Horizontal communication helps to overcome
misunderstanding and confects among the managers. It creates an environment of
cooperation, teamwork and team spirit. This brings dynamism in performing
organizational activities.
Disadvantages:-
Rivaling attitude: Horizontal communication occurs between the people at
the same rank and position. If there exists any hostility or rivalry between
them, they will not exchange information spontaneously. Moreover, they will
conceal their information intentionally to deprive someone from the real
news.
Interdepartmental conflict: The success of horizontal communication
depends on good relationship between sender and receiver. If there is any
conflict, distrust or suspicion between them, horizontal communication will
be ineffective.
Discouraging attitude of top management: In some cases, top managers
discourage horizontal communication thinking that workers may become
friendly with one another and may create threat for the management.
Ignoring vertical communication: More concentration on horizontal
communication may work as substitute of upward and downward
1. Flexibility: The main feature of oral communication is, it is more flexible than any
other means of communication. Oral communication or oral messages can be
changed easily depending on the situation.
2. Immediate feedback: Immediate feedback can be received in case of oral
communication.
3. Takes less time: It takes less time than written communication.
4. Better understanding: Another major feature of oral communication is chance of
misunderstanding is very rare: if there is any misunderstanding takes place that can
be rectified immediately by asking questions.
5. Opportunity for correction: In case of written or other communication messages
cannot be corrected immediately- but in case of oral communication it can be
corrected within few seconds.
6. Intercultural barriers: In case of oral communication receiver and sender
exchange information freely and spontaneously. As a result presentation of message
influenced by the cultural background of the respective parties.
7. Spontaneous : Oral message can be pre-planed and formal, but in most of the
cases oral communication made spontaneously without any planning.
Written communication
Characteristics of Written Communication
1. Most formal type of Communication: Usually most of the informal, casual
conversation or friendly conversation is done orally. Whenever there is need for
formal communication, it is the written mode that is preferred.
2. Used for documentation:- Written communication is mostly used for
documentation. In an organization, documentation of records and decisions made
from time to time are very important for which written communication comes
handy. Written Communication acts as a permanent record of the organization and
can prove very useful for future reference.
3. Used for circulation of information: This is used for circulation of information in
the organization. Written communication makes it possible to circulate information
without distortions an d misrepresentations.
Basis for
Oral Communication Written Communication
Communication
cues
Probability of
Very high Quite less
misunderstanding
Communication Gap: Communication Gap is when the meaning intended by the
speaker or sender is not what is understood by the recipient. As stated above, there
might be several reasons for communication gap between employees. Some
communication gaps might be technological in nature and some might arise due to
personal problems or personality types.
The communication gap arises due to following reasons:-
1. An inappropriate language used for communication leads to communication gap.
2. The lack concentration leads to gap in communication.
3. The lack of clarity in expression leads to effective communication.
4. Personal biases lead to gaps in communication.
5. The lack of precision towards the communicating message leads to inappropriate
communication.
6. The lack of trust among the communicator leads to gap in communication.
7. The lack of empathy while communication result in an effective communication
Seven (7 )C’s of effective communication
There are 7 C’s of effective communication which are applicable to both written as
well as oral communication. These are as follows:
1. Completeness - The communication must be complete. It should convey all facts
required by the audience. The sender of the message must take into consideration
the receiver’s mind set and convey the message accordingly.
2. Conciseness - Conciseness means wordiness, i.e., communicating what you want
to convey in least possible words without forgoing the other C’s of communication.
Conciseness is a necessity for effective communication.
3. Consideration - Effective communication must take the audience into
consideration, i.e, the audience’s view points, background, mind-set, education level,
etc. Make an attempt to envisage your audience, their requirements, emotions as
well as problems. Ensure that the self-respect of the audience is maintained and their
emotions are not at harm.
4. Clarity - Clarity implies emphasizing on a specific message or goal at a time,
rather than trying to achieve too much at once.
5. Concreteness - Concrete communication implies being particular and clear
rather than fuzzy and general. Concreteness strengthens the confidence.
6. Courtesy - Courtesy in message implies the message should show the sender’s
expression as well as should respect the receiver. The sender of the message should
be sincerely polite, judicious, reflective and enthusiastic.
7. Correctness - Correctness in communication implies that there are no
grammatical errors in communication. Correct communication has following
features:
1. The message is exact, correct and well-timed.
2. If the communication is correct, it boosts up the confidence level.
3. Correct message has greater impact on the audience/readers.
4. It checks for the precision and accurateness of facts and figures used in the
message.
Awareness of these 7 C’s of communication makes you an effective communicator.
Types of Communication
1.Oral Communication –
Meaning:- Oral communication implies communication through mouth. It includes
individuals conversing with each other, be it direct conversation or telephonic
conversation. Speeches, presentations, discussions are all forms of oral
communication. Oral communication is generally recommended when the
communication matter is of temporary kind or where a direct interaction is required.
Face to face communication (meetings, lectures, conferences, interviews, etc.) is
significant so as to build a rapport and trust.
Advantages
1. Time saving: When action is required to be taken immediately it is best to
transmit a message orally. If the executives work load is high then they stop
10. Maintaining space: Most of the time workplace discussions requires face to face
interaction. In such cases being in close proximity to the person will create
uneasiness and this also differs from culture to culture.
Features of Non-verbal communication
There are five characteristics of nonverbal communication.
1. Nonverbal communication may be intentional or unintentional since often when
people communicate nonverbally, they are unaware of it.
2. Nonverbal communication is primary because it takes precedence over
Verbal communication.
3. Nonverbal communication is often ambiguous since a nonverbal behavior may
have different meanings depending on the user’s personality, family influences and
culture.
4. Nonverbal communication is continuous,because one is constantly
communicating through nonverbal behaviors.
5. Nonverbal communication is multichannel since we use a variety of cues to make
an interpretation.
Advantages of non-verbal communication:
1. Complementary: Non-verbal cues complement a verbal message by adding to its
meaning. You can pat someone you offended at the back as you say sorry to him or
her.
2. Easy presentation: Information can be easily presented in non-verbal
communication through using visual, audio-visual and silent means of non-verbal
communication.
3. Substituting: Non-verbal message may substitute for the verbal message
especially if it is blocked by noise, interruption, long distance etc. for example:
gestures-finger to lips to indicate need for quite, facial expressions- a nod instead of
a yes.
4. Accenting: Often used to accent a verbal message. Verbal tone indicates the
actual meaning of the specific words.
5. Repeat: Used to repeat the verbal message (e.g. point in a direction while stating
directions.)
Models.
Listening Skills
Listening differs from obeying. A person who receives and understands information
or an instruction, and then chooses not to comply with it or to agree to it, has
listened to the speaker, even though the result is not what the speaker wanted.
Listening is a term in which the listener listens to the one who produced the sound
to be listened.
Listening skill can be defined as, “Listening is the act of hearing attentively”. It is
also a process similar to reading which should possess knowledge of phonology,
syntax, semantics and text understanding. Thomlison (1984) defines listening as,
“Active listening, which is very important for effective communication”. Listening
can be also defined as, “More than just hearing and to understand and interpret the
meaning of a conversation”.
Importance of Listening
1. To Gain Information:-Listening enables you to acquire facts so that you can make
decisions that benefit your business. By listening to a job applicant in an interview,
for example, you might discover his attitudes toward the profession, performance in
previous jobs and information not detailed on his resume. This additional insight
can help you decide whether the applicant is a good fit for your company. A
supervisor who listens to an employee’s complaint about a health risk on the job
might reduce injuries and enhance job performance.
2.Developing Trust:- Listening is essential to building trust. If one member of a team
doesn’t listen to instructions, an entire project might fail. To develop trust, pay
attention to verbal instructions and deadlines. Listen for statements a coworker
might make regarding his own strengths and weaknesses as it relates to a project, so
that you can collaborate in a way that maximizes each other’s strengths.
3.Maintaining Your Reputation:-The reputation of a business depends upon
listening skills. If you fail to listen to a customer, for example, the customer might
not receive the service or product she expected. When this occurs repeatedly, it can
tarnish the company’s reputation. A company develops relationships with other
businesses through verbal communication, too. Talking on the phone and working
on a task at the same time can result in misunderstandings.
4.Reduce Conflict:-Listening can reduce conflict. A conflict can arise when an
individual feels misunderstood or mistreated. For example, if you fail to listen to
instructions and your coworker does the task you were supposed to perform, the
coworker might be unhappy with you. Pay attention to nonverbal cues, as well. If an
individual’s facial expressions, gestures or behavior contradict her words, ask
questions to find out what she really means.
5.Motivating Employees: A manager can improve morale and productivity by
understanding what motivates each employee. Listen to employees to discover what
aspects of the job they find most rewarding and challenging. Don’t expect to
understand an employee’s needs from a single conversation. Continue to be an
attentive listener so that the employee knows you are sincerely interested in what
she has to say.
Benefits of Listening
1. It enhances knowledge.
2. It enhances relationship with co-workers.
3. It helps in working in team.
4. It solves problems with customer, co-worker and management.
5. It enhance overall organizational development.
6. It helps in negotiation.
7. It reduces stress.
8. It ensures proper understanding.
9. It enhance decision making.
Principles of effective listening
1) Avoid unintentional negative body language — this can send the message to
the speaker that you’re not really interested in what he or she is saying.
2) Be aware of any personal filters or internal distractions — don’t let
preconceived notions or personal concerns impact your ability to listen.
3) Listen completely before responding — don’t be in such a hurry to make
your point that you neglect what the other person is saying.
5.Responding
Responding—sometimes referred to as feedback—is the fifth and final stage of the
listening process. It’s the stage at which you indicate your involvement.
6. Formative Feedback
Not all response occurs at the end of the message. Formative feedback is a natural
part of the ongoing transaction between a speaker and a listener. As the speaker
delivers the message, a listener signals his or her involvement with focused
attention, note-taking, nodding, and other behaviors that indicate understanding or
failure to understand the message.
Types of Listening
avoidance. Those who score high on this trait feel little desire
to manipulate others or to break the rules for personal gain.
Negatively correlated with the Dark triad.
A "favorable or unfavorable attitude toward the self"
(Rosenberg, 1965). An individual's sense of his or her value or
7.Self-esteem (low) worth, or the extent to which a person values, approves of,
appreciates, prizes, or likes him or herself" (Blascovich &
Tomaka, 1991).
Impulsive, exploratory, fickle, excitable, quick-tempered, and
8.Novelty seeking
extravagant. Associated with addictive behavior.
The defining trait of highly sensitive persons, characterized
9.Sensory processing by the increased depth of processing of sensory input that
sensitivity (SPS) underlies HSPs' greater proclivity to overstimulation,
emotional reactivity and empathy, and sensitivity to stimuli.
"I don't think needing to be perfect is in any way adaptive."
(Paul Hewitt, PhD) Socially prescribed perfectionism –
10.Perfectionism
"believing that others will value you only if you are perfect."
Self-oriented perfectionism – "an internally
2. Genetics of Personality:- Personality genetic is a scientific field that examines
the relationship between personality and genetics. Interest in the field is also
driven by molecular genetics and evolutionary ideas about personality. The
bulk of study on personality genetics has used twin studies, finding that
personality heritability is around 50%.
3. Type theory:- Personality types refers to the psychological classification of
different types of people. According to this theory there are two types of
people, introverts and extroverts.
Type A and Type B Personality theory.
4. Freud’s Psychoanalytic theory of Personality Development:- According to
Freud’s psychoanalytic theory of personality development, there are two
basic factors which drive an individual and help in shaping his/her
personality. These two basic drivers are love and aggression which have a
direct impact on what an individual does and thinks.
According to Freud, love and aggression have a direct control on our minds
and thoughts. Freud referred to Love and Aggression as “Eros” and
“Thanatos” respectively.
“Eros” refers to intimate and passionate love between two partners. It is often
defined as a kind of madness which one experiences for his/her
partner.“Thanatos” was a figure in Greek mythology, though he never really
existed as a person. Thanatos symbolizes death.
An adult personality generally has three determinants:
Id,
Ego and
Super Ego
The outcome of the combination of all the three determinants shapes an adult
personality. Freud believed than an individual’s personality has three parts
and thus is often called as tripartite personality or Psychoanalytic
1.Id - refers to irrational needs and demands, something which has nothing to do
with the reality of the situation. Freud believed that Individuals seek immediate
pleasure in order to satisfy their biological and physiological needs without taking
into consideration the reality.Id gives immediate pleasure to individuals and is often
irrational.
2. Ego - Ego develops when individuals start interacting with people around. Ego
helps in the fulfillment of id, taking into consideration the reality of the situation.
3. Super Ego - Super ego is the aspect of personality that holds all of our internalized
moral standards and ideas that we acquire from both parents and society our sense
of right and wrong.
5. Behaviorist Theory:-
B. F. Skinner was one of the most influential of American psychologists. A
behaviorist, he developed the theory of operant conditioning -- the idea that
behavior is determined by its consequences, be they reinforcements or punishments,
which make it more or less likely that the behavior will occur again. Skinner believed
that the only scientific approach to psychology was one that studied behaviors, not
internal (subjective) mental processes.
For example : a child cries because the child crying in the past has led to attention.
These are the response and consequences. The response is the child crying and the
attention that the child gets is the reinforcing consequence.
7. Humanistic Theory:- One of humanistic psychology's early sources was the work
of Carl Rogers. He focus was to ensure that the developmental processes led to
healthier, if not more creative, personality functioning. The term 'actualizing
tendency' was also coined by Rogers, and was a concept that eventually led
Abraham Maslow to study self-actualization as one of the needs of humans. Rogers
and Maslow introduced this positive, humanistic psychology in response to what
they viewed as the overly pessimistic view of psychoanalysis.
Rogers’ theory emphasized that the chief indicator that we will reach self-
actualization is our experiences during childhood. Every child needs to obtain
unconditional love and acceptance from his significant others. However, today’s
society dictates that a child will only be loved and taken good care of if he suits the
expectancies of the significant others (e.g. quiet, well-mannered, obedient). Because
of this, Rogers theorized that these external conditions give an increasing level of
influence to the person’s behavior. When his behavior and actions are continually
reinforced by such conditions, the individual develops the personality type that
corresponds to the generality of his behavior.
Maslow explained the human needs in a pyramid-like figure. At the bottom of the
pyramid are the physiological needs (air, food, water, etc). Next to it are the safety
and security needs (shelter, protection, etc). Love and belongingness needs come
next (acceptance, affection, friendship, etc). The fourth portion includes the self-
esteem needs (sense of mastery, power, appreciation, etc). And at the top is self
actualization, or the tendency of being your finest. These five human needs are the
ones that motivate us- to go from primitive needs to the higher needs.
Persons, who had an unpleasant (abandoned, unloved and uncared) babyhood, are
likely to find parenthood as burdensome and may express dependent, helpless,
abusive behaviour, and angry outbursts i.e., oral character. To such people,
caseworker is like parents, who helps the client to verbalise his anger and distrust
and later provides emotional support and protective services.
2. Anal Stage:
Towards the end of biting period of oral stage, the child is able to walk, talk, and eat
on his own. He can retain or release something that he has. This is true of bowel and
bladder function also. He can either retain or release his bowel and bladder contents.
Now, the child no more depends upon the mouth zone for pleasure. He now derives
pleasure from bowel and bladder (anal zone) functioning, which entails anxiety
because of toilet training by parents. Child is taught where to pass urine and where
to go for defecation etc.
In this training of bladder and bowel control, child may develop autonomy, or
shame and doubt. The task of anal is to develop autonomy. If the parents are
supportive without being overprotective and if the child is allowed to function with
some independence, he gains some confidence in his autonomy probably by the age
of three and prefers love over hate, cooperation over willfulness, and self-expression
over suppression.
3. Genital (Oedipal) Stage:
The task for this period is to develop and strengthen initiative, failing which the
child develops a strong feeling of guilt. This period extends from 3rd to 6th years of
life, i.e., pre-school period. He is now capable of initiating activity, both intellectual
as well as motor on his own. How far this initiative is reinforced depends upon how
much physical freedom is given to the child and how far his curiosity is satisfied. If
he is led to feel bad about his behaviour or his interests, he may grow with a sense of
guilt about his self-initiated activities.
Erikson (1950) opines that the child takes first initiative at home when he/she
expresses passionate interest in his/her parent of opposite sex. The parents
ultimately disappoint him/her. They should try to help the child to identify with the
same sex parent, e.g., the girl should be encouraged to identify with mother and the
son with the father.
4. Latency Stage:
This stage covers the period from 6 to 11 years, i.e., school age. The child can reason
out rationally and can use the tools that adults use. The sexual interests and curiosity
(common in genital period) get suppressed till puberty. If encouraged and given
opportunity, he gains confidence in his ability to perform and use adult materials.
This leads to feeling of industry in him.
When unable to use adult materials, he develops inferiority feelings. Such children
may develop problems with peers. They need to be encouraged to interact with
classmates and be less dependent upon others.
If the child has mastered the task of genital period (initiative in place of guilt) he will
be able to master the tasks of latency (industry in place of inferiority) also provided
he is encouraged to undertake and helped to execute the responsibilities entrusted to
him.
5. Adolescence Stage:
This period, regarded as a period of turmoil, usually starts at 12-13 years and can
extend up to 18-19 years. The adolescents, during this transitional process from
childhood to maturity, behave something like an adult and sometimes like a child.
Parents too show their ambivalence to accept them in their new role of an adult in-
the-making.
This stage exhibits all the psycho-social characteristics of earlier period and only
towards the end, all these get resolved into a new set of role (identity) for the
adolescent. In order to develop a personal identity, he becomes fan of some hero,
starts following certain ideologies, and tries his luck with opposite sex.
Indecision and confusion are not uncommon in this stage. Identification with a
wrong person shall create problems for him. The task of this age is to develop
identity, i.e., values, strengths, skills, various roles, limitations, etc., failing which his
identity gets diffused and he fails to know how to behave in different situations. He
needs to be helped to deal with the physiological, emotional pressures along-with
pressures from parents, peers, etc.