Enemas In BDSM

An enema is the simple task of putting water up into the anus to

clean out any remaining fecal matter in the bowel.

Water is pushed up into the rectum and then as it mixes with the
matter that is present, your body then flushes it out into the toilet
for disposal.

When people have severe problems with constipation, an enema

might be administered to help relieve the discomfort and eliminate
the blockage.

While a medical solution to begin with for many people the act of
the enema is a truly arousing and intoxicating fetish.

The reasoning behind incorporating enema play into BDSM varies

dependent on the individual.

Some love the taboo naughty dirty aspect of it

Some love the clinical and medical aspect to the process

Some love the full feeling of the water inside them

Others enjoy the humiliation aspect of the enema being

administered

and others just want to feel clean before an intense anal scene

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 How you decide to enjoy your enema fetish is dependent on you
and your partner.

However, know administering an enema can be quite time

consuming and, so it’s not something that’s usually done regularly.
And actually, enemas should not be done on a regular basis as
your body can become too ‘used’ to them and ‘forget’ how to expel
waste on its own. Not to mention expelling a lot of good healthy
bacteria in your gut that is needed to breakdown food for
nourishment.

Some people can also upset the balance of electrolytes in their

body from doing too many enemas as the water expelled does
take the body’s electrolytes and water with it.

Lastly, enemas can become addictive, so it’s best to limit your use
of them.

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What Do You Need For An Enema?

For an enema, you can simply buy an enema kit that is able to
hold its own water source.

This enema kit should include:

An enema bag/container

This bag may be reusable or not, depending on your preference

and your likelihood of repeating an enema. The reusable bags will
cost a bit more, but when you plan to do enemas more than once,
it can be more affordable in the long run. You can also find enema
buckets that take the place of a bag. They can hold a lot more

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water, but you can add as much or as little water as you like.

An enema tip

This is the part that will go directly into your rectum. It can help to
apply some lubricant to the end to make this easier. Do not use a
douche tip, as a douche tip shoots liquid out the side. An enema
tip shoots straight up, to fill your intestine with fluid.

Tubing

You will need tubing that will go from the bag of room temp water
to the enema tip.

Clamp

This will help to control the water as it’s being passed into your
rectum. The harder you clamp the tub from the bag to your anus,
the less water that will flow in.

Distilled Water

As for the water that goes into the bag, it is best to use distilled
water which can be purchased at a local pharmacy. If you can not
get distilled water, then use filtered water that has been boiled
(and cooled to room temperature) to reduce potentially harmful
parasites and/or bacteria that can cause sickness. Never use
boiling hot water for an enema, always give the water time to cool
to room temperature. You do not want to scorch the inside of your
intestines. Do not use tap water, there are many parasites,
bacteria and other waste and impurities found in regular water
supplies. If you introduce these impurities to your intestinal tract

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you can become ill.

With that said, it is always best to use distilled water. You will need
approximately two to three quarts of liquid. Start off with less and
then slowly work your way up to more if you like.

There are more basic enema kits you can get from your local
pharmacy or medical supply store. You can find things like an
enema syringe which is a ball syringe to expel water into your
rectum, one ball at a time. But this isn’t a very easy way to do a
thorough cleansing as you can’t put that much water into your
rectum at a time.

Additionally, some pharmacies carry a pre-measured cleansing

enema called a Fleet Enema. Which is just a simple disposable
option.

How Do I Position Myself To Receive The Enema

If you’re the one receiving the enema, you will need to put your
body into a position that’s comfortable enough for you, but also
allows the water to sit in your insides until it’s ready to be expelled.

Here are some common positions that tend to work

best:

Lay on your back - Keeping your knees together and feet apart,
this allows the water to sit more comfortably in your body.

Lay on your left side - Pull your right upper leg pulled into your
chest.

All fours hand and knees - With your hands on the ground in
front of you, your knees bent and on the ground, stick your anus

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far up into the air. (always a favourite position for administering an

enema to a submissive)

Over your partner’s lap - This position and the all fours position
really help to reinforce the submissive’s position in the relationship.

With time and some experimentation, you will find the position that
works best for you or for your partner.

For some people, there is a surge of excitement from the giving or

receiving of the enema itself, so if that is the case, this process
can be added as a part of your sexual exploration as well.

If you’re using a Fleet enema, the instructions can be found in the

package and are quite simple, but if you want to use the enema
bag/container setup, here is what you need to do:

Get everything ready and laid out before you begin. Once things
get started, it can be difficult to find things quickly to continue the
process.

Have the receiving partner lay down or you need to lie down in
your chosen position.

Make sure the water is room temperature or slightly warmer for

maximum comfort (around 100 degrees Fahrenheit). Its important
not to use hot water as your intestine doesn't sense temperature.
This means you can burn your intestinal lining easily. Err on the
safe side and use cooler water then hotter to be safe, if you are
unsure.

Attach the hose to the enema bag and clamp it off to prevent
leaking when you’re inserting the tip into the anus

Make sure the anus and the enema tip are lubricated. The tip
should slide in easily.

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Hold the bag about two feet above your anus if you’re a beginner
to enemas. This will prevent the water from flooding into you too
quickly.

- Don't force the fluid. Listen to your body and only do what you
can handle

- To help with the pressure in your abdomen try to breath deeply

throughout the enema

- Massage your abdomen starting on the left side and moving up.
Then massage across the ribcage and down your right side.

If you or your partner starts to feel pain or discomfort, stop for a

moment and let the recipient relax for a minute. If cramps begin,
stop the enema as this is a sign that the anus may be ready to
expel what’s inside.

You will be applying three applications. The point is to cleanse the

intestinal tract and flush out the material from your body.

Application 1: 16 oz. water This is a quick rinse. Expel the fluid

immediately.
Application 2: 32 oz. water This is a quick rinse. Expel the fluid
immediately. If you don't perform the two rinsing steps all you will
be doing is pushing the fecal matter back up the intestinal tract
instead of out.
Application 3: 32 oz. water Try to hold the water inside of you for
one to ten minutes if you can, depending on your experience level
and how it feels.

If you cannot take the 16 - 32 oz bag of water, that’s okay this is

not a competition. Just do what you feel comfortable with. As you
become more experienced, you will be able to hold more and more

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with time.

Try not to rush the enema. Massage your stomach as you go to

help you relax.

The best place to do this enema is in the bathroom, for obvious

reasons. When you’re ready to expel the water, you’re right next to
the toilet so you can get up and allow the water to be released.

Some other pointers for enemas:

Drink a lot of water in the hours before you get started. This will
help prevent any dehydration.

Relax – slow, deep calming breaths

Having a sense of humour when you’re giving or receiving an

enema is the best way to get over the initial ‘weirdness’ that you
might encounter. This isn’t necessarily something that will work
immediately and perfectly, so be ready to laugh and have fun
doing it.

You can always try again. And as long as you’re being safe, you
won’t be causing any harm. Again, if you can’t seem to get it right
you can always go to a professional and have them administer the
enema.

So no pressure, well except from the enema that is.

You can also add other ingredient to use with your distilled water
for different effects:

Coffee

Herbal tea

Salt water

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Probiotics

Salts

Oils

Etc.

If you’ve done a few normal enemas with distilled water, and you
want to try other enema solutions to change things up here are a
few ideas:

Use a few tablespoons of organic coffee and boil them in one quart
of distilled water. Let this mix simmer for no more than fifteen
minutes. Strain the coffee out of the water and let it cool or mix
with cool water to bring the temperature down to room
temperature.

Mix two quarts of lukewarm distilled water with two to three

tablespoons of vinegar.

Mix two to three quarts of distilled water with two shots of

wheatgrass juice.

But since you’re probably newer to enemas, stick with distilled for
now. Of course, there are professionals that specialize in
administering enemas if you that is something you would prefer.
They handle the preparation, ingredient mixtures and cleanup, so
all you have to do is lay back and relax into the ride.

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