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Week 3 - Simple Present Tense Article
Week 3 - Simple Present Tense Article
The Present:
- Editorial
Oliver O. Mbamara
http://www.expressionsofsoul.com/editorial-CycleofLoveLifeAffection.htm
Many times, when two people meet or experience a relationship no matter how brief or
elongated, some linen of a past life could always be found in the circumstances surrounding
the beginning and end of such relationship. This is usually the case if one could look at the
situation objectively from a detached point of view. Many times, these circumstances are so
obvious and simple that we ignore them or take them for granted. Sometimes we are in
denial of the true purpose of the relationship and instead dwell on the emotional impression
that appears to be driving the relationship.
Usually, when such emotional drive runs out of gas or hit the wall, many of us then pause to
make an assessment of how and why the relationship come about in the first place.
Incidentally, at such time the assessment of the concerned individuals may become tainted
by the inability of their bruised heart to see the underlying lessons in the relationship. At
such times the human instinct puts up a defensive attitude that tries to see how the other
person went wrong, but we usually forget to look within and figure out if we went wrong
somewhere or that perhaps the relationship came to an end just because it has ran its full
course.
Interestingly, because such persons are in denial or fail to learn the lessons or even forgive
the situation, the same problem(s) continues to follow them into the next situation in life,
be it the next job, the next relationship, the next residence, and even the next lifetime.
Usually the concerned party may not even realize that it is the same problem that is coming
back again and again simply because the problem takes the appearance of a different
nature even though it is still the same in substance. This continues until the moment or
lifetime when such a person stands up to the situation and deals with it once and for all.
When such happens, the individual who believed he/she had given “love” would conclude
that the recipient had failed to reciprocate their “good gesture or love,” and they would
strongly believe this even when the other person may not have asked for such love,
affection, good deeds, or gestures in the first place. Sometimes the individual may have
forced the so-called “love” or “good gesture” on the recipient whether the recipient asked
for it or not. Interestingly, the individual would insist that he/she had given “true love’ to
the other person when the individual had actually given a somewhat selfish kind of love with
some kind of expectation in mind.
Attributes of Love:
Many things have been attributed to love that it is sometimes doubtful to say what is love.
However, a few facts remain clear. True love demands nothing in return. It is not given with
an expectation in mind. It goes with no strings attached. It does not covet or possess. It
gives freely. It feels the pain when the other person is in pain and it rejoices when the other
person attains something positive in life, be it in a different relationship, a new job, or
career. True love understands. True love tolerates. True love knows that love is indeed the
most powerful force in the universe and therefore cannot be outdone by any other force.
True love is patient for it knows that love is freedom and cannot be forced or compelled, but
will always be how, where, and when It will.
Much to Learn:
Love is the backbone of existence. It is like truth – so simple that its simplicity makes it
complicating. Perhaps that is why it could take lifetimes to be comprehended. Find your own
meaning. I still have very much to learn.
©Oliver O. Mbamara, 2006