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“There is only one success—to be able to spend your life in your own
way.”
Christopher Morley
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IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER
I’d dare to make more mistakes next time. I’d relax. I would limber up. I would be
sillier than I have been this trip. I would take fewer things seriously. I would take
more chances. I would take more trip. I would climb more mountains and swim
more rivers. I would eat more ice cream and less beans. I would perhaps have
more actual troubles, but fewer imaginary ones. You see, I’m one of those people
who live sensibly and sanely hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I’ve had my
moments. If I had it to do over again, I’d have more of them. In fact, I’d try to have
nothing else, just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years
ahead of each day. I’ve been one of those persons who never goes anywhere
without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, a raincoat, and a parachute. If I could
do it again, I would travel lighter than I have. If I had my life to live over, I would
start barefoot earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall. I would go to
more dances. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I would pick more daisies.
Nadine Stair
The journey you are about to begin focuses on how you plan to create your own life. You’ll take
a few moments and look forward to a life of your own design. I wish you a journey filled with
joy and fascinating experiences, a fulfilling life, and, most significantly, a life of your own
design!
Welcome to the Adventure
“I am now creating the life I want to live!” What adventure could possibly be
more exciting than creating the life you want? The LIFE DESIGN process is about
doing precisely that. Forged from the fires of life experience, LIFE DESIGN
continues to be tested and expanded. Welcome to the Adventure of Your Life.
George Lucas, creator of “Star Wars,” was a huge fan of Joseph Campbell and,
as you review the stages of the journey, you may be reminded of scenes from
“Star Wars” films. Example:
DEPARTURE
The Call to Adventure: Luke Skywalker longs to leave his isolated planet and
join the fight against the Empire.
Helpers & Mentors Obi-Wan Kenobe shows up; Hans Solo and his
Millennium Falcon are enlisted (the Life Design
exercises serve as Helpers)
Tests & Trials Luke & his companions experience capture, storm
troopers trying to kill them, attempts to get the plans for a
dooms day weapon downloaded in a droid and deliver
those plans to the “good guys.”
Mentors & Helpers New Helpers emerge in unique forms like a little green
swamp creature, Yoda.
The Call to Adventure Frequently in myth & story, the hero/heroine receives a
call – it may be the Holy Grail appearing before the
knights of the Round Table challenging the knights to
pursue the Grail. Or it might be Joan of Arc being
called to lead her army into battle.
Helpers & Mentors Once you respond to the call Helpers & Mentors will
appear. Think of Obi Won Kenobe and Yoda as
examples. People who have been “out there,” can
advise you about your journey, provide insight and
guidance in your preparation.
Tests and Trials I’m afraid so. The journey is not without challenges.
Obstacles appear. Roadblocks force us to detour. The
journey is not a vacation but has its tests along the way.
Why is your friend discouraging you? Will you give
up? Do you question your Call? Or is another door
opening?
Reflect on possible tests and trials or return later when
you encounter a test or trial.
Helpers & Mentors Look around you. Are there Helpers or Mentors who
may serve as guides? Is there help you’re ignoring?
Your Next Step: Complete The Life Satisfaction Chart and establish a baseline of where
you are today.
THE LIFE SATISFACTION CHART
One of your goals is to identify the level of joy and happiness in your life today.
This Life Satisfaction Chart will help you evaluate your level of
satisfaction/dissatisfaction with 19 life areas. This chart provides you a starting
point for your adventure.
1 = Very dissatisfied
2 = Dissatisfied
3 = Acceptable
4 = Satisfied
5 = Life as I want it
DIRECTIONS: Write today’s date beneath DATE (Today). You will only work
under the column marked DATE (Today). As you review each LIFE AREA,
you’ll circle one number, either a 1, 2, 3, 4, or 5 depending on how satisfied or
dissatisfied you are with that aspect of your life. Circle one number under the
DATE (Today) column for each of the LIFE AREAS. The meaning of each
number is identified above. For example, if you are completely satisfied with how
much your exercise, circle a 5. If completely dissatisfied, circle a 1. You can come
back in 3 months, 6 months, and 1 year to see how you’re progressing.
Complete the Life Satisfaction Chart and move on to the next path on your
journey, The Personal Mission Statement.
Work/Career 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 6 1 2 3 4 5
Relationships
b. Parents 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
c. Children n/a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
d. Friendships 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
e. Primary/Spouse n/a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
f. Co-Workers 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
g. Brothers/Sisters 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Education/Learning 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Living Environments
a. Geographical 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Location
b. Home Environment 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Spiritual Health 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Emotional Health
a. Self-Esteem 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
b. Optimism 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
c. Ability to Feel 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
d. Self Caretaking 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Leisure Time/ 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
Hobbies
Finances 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5
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"Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks
outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens.”
Carl Jung
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Personal Mission Statement
Before setting off on an adventure, get clear about your mission. No journey brings much joy if it’s out of
alignment with your purpose or mission. Answer the following questions with the first impressions that come
to mind.
A. What are 3 of your best qualities? Examples: intelligence, determination, kindness, enthusiasm, friendliness,
creativity, toughness, loyalty, curiosity)
1.____Enthusiasm____
2._____Confidence____
3.______Loyalty______
B. What 3 words, in your opinion, best describe the most important things you do? (Examples: create, parent,
love, challenge, employ, supervise, counsel, nurture, heal)
1._______Success________
2._________Stability___________
3._______Challenge______________
C. What are the 3 most important accomplishments you could achieve over the next 6 to 12 months?
(Examples: graduate from school, spend 30 minutes a day in quiet reflection, make good grades, teach children,
get a good paying job, spend quality time with my kids)
D. If you achieved, beyond your wildest dreams, all 3 accomplishments, what 3 results would you see?
(Examples: diploma in your hand, dream job, happy kids, sitting by a river)
1.__________________Career_______________________________________
E. If you achieved all 3 accomplishments, what 3 feelings best describe how you would feel? (Examples:
powerful, happy, fulfilled, proud, joyful, astounded, secure, successful, elated)
1.__________________Content_______________
2._________________Fulfilled_________________
3._____________________Optimistic__________________
Having achieved my 3 most important accomplishments (D. 1, 2, 3), the results I see
are____a good career_______, ______financial stability______, and become a home
owner___________. I feel (3 accomplishments from E. 1, 2,3)______content________,
_____fulfilled_______, and_____optimistic_________about my accomplishments.
“If you always do what you always did, then you’ll always get what
you always got!” Moms Mabley
Values
What is important to you? What values guide your life? What beliefs inform your
behavior? Consider how you spend your time and money; your review provides
helpful clues that help you identify what you value. Compare what you “say” you
value and how you actually spend your time and money – the process provides a
“reality check.” Are the words you speak in alignment with what you are doing?
Below is a random list of commonly held values. The list provides examples, but
you can choose from the list or choose your own words. Take a few moments and
identify what is important in your life. Journey across the “Bridge of Values” and
write down your 10 most important values. Remember, these values form the
foundation upon which you walk through life. Choose each step carefully.
MY LIFE DESIGN
Now you are ready to begin planning your LIFE DESIGN. As is true of any
adventure, the planning is part of the fun.
The Planning Process used today moves from the GENERAL to the SPECIFIC.
The three steps include:
Step A. On line 1 and 2 below, write the two Life Areas you want
to work with today. (You may want to refer back to your Life
Satisfaction Chart)
Step C. Identify specific action steps for each goal. The action steps will
answer questions -- When? What? Where? How much does it cost?
Who will join me? (Complete Step C, Part II of Life Design in
Module 6.)
Remember to keep referring to your Mission Statement and Values. Goals need to mirror what
is critical and important in your life. Remember also that you are on the adventure of your own
life, an adventure which can be filled with purpose, excitement, and new experiences. If you plan
what you’ve always planned, you’ll only experience what you’ve always experienced. How can
you do it in your own fresh, unique way?
Planning Process Step A. Write your top priority Life Area on Line 1. Select a second Life
Area and write it on Line 2. In selecting Life Areas, ask yourself -- “What is most
important and most urgent for my attention today?”
1.__________Establish myself in a career field___________________
Planning Process Step B. Identify, on the next two pages, 2-4 general goals for each of your
two Life Areas. Goals are very general. Action Steps come later (in Part II of Life Design) and
will list the actions you will take to achieve your goals. Here are some examples of Goals for
different Life Areas.
Goal: Research and identify ways to have more time for myself.
Goal: Identify and plan daily, monthly, annual activities for renewal rest and fun.
Goal: I form a study group that helps all of us graduate on schedule and with honors.
Goal 4: Of the jobs I get employment offers from, settle for the one that
benefits me the most in regard to my own philosophies, work habits, and my
WSP contributions.
Goal 4: After a time, evaluate how the changes I have made are working.
Make any adjustments necessary while still maintaining an adherence to the
goal.
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If you’ve ever worked on developing a mission statement then you know it can be a tedious,
lengthy process. However, you can create your own first draft of a Personal Mission Statement
within the next few minutes. On the following page, you record three responses for each of five
Prompts. Once you’ve completed that page, you simply transfer each of the three responses to
the appropriate lines on the second page.
Example:
Question: What are 3 of your best qualities?
You transfer the words “Creativity, kindness, and perseverance” to the next page where it will
read:
Your Personal Mission Statement will read something like this, for example:
My personal mission is to use my creativity, kindness, and perseverance to manage employees, paint
paintings, and love my family so that I can help my team and company succeed, find satisfaction in
my artistic expression, and experience a loving family. Having achieved my 3 most important
accomplishments, the results I see are current employees being promoted and the company more
profitable, my paintings hanging in homes of people who enjoy them, and laughing children and
grandchildren on the beach with me and my spouse. I feel successful, fulfilled, and joyful about my
accomplishments.
Before you proceed, you’ll want to examine any limitations that you may be
placing on yourself. To do that, (and keeping with the theme of adventure) you’ll
complete a few simple exercises. You’ll enter The Shadow Jungle and, after
completing these exercises, you’ll have an opportunity either to move forward with
the Goals you wrote or re-write them.
● Self-Limiting Beliefs
● Identify Your Safari Crew
● “Win the Lottery” or “Asking the Critical Question”
● “Triggers for Transformation”
● “Feedback From Friends”
Once you’ve completed those exercises, you’ll then finalize your Goals and add
Action Steps for each Goal.
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On life’s journey, you travel weighed down with beliefs from by-gone years. Your
caravan packs the remnants of past experience . . . and these experiences (and the
beliefs that come with them) may weigh you down. As you uncover beliefs and
dust them off for a closer look, your goal includes:
Sam Keen
1. The main reason I will fail to achieve my Goals for Life Area #1 is: ____due to uncertainty about
what I want to do after I obtain my degree______________
2. I could achieve all my Goals in Life Area #1 if it were not for (person, or circumstance, or belief):
________my own self doubt about what I want to do and about what I am capable of doing___________
3. If I fail to achieve my Goals, I will prove that I was right about:_________my only limiting factor to
what I can accomplish is my own doubt about myself_____________________
4. The one thing I don’t ever want to hear anyone say about me again is: _______where I am in my life
or what I am doing is far behind the curve of where I should be for someone at my age_____
5. One thing I do not like about myself is: _______I get anxiety very easily, it has been something that
has impacted my academic career in the past, something that i have to work past every day, but also
something that I am getting over.__
6. One thing I refuse to accept about myself is:___that the time as passed for me to grow into
something bigger and better than what I am doing right now_____________________________
10. It’s not my fault that ______Southern California is almost impossible to have any sort of independent life, while
working a low skill job and pursuing a higher education, due to the cost of living____________________
11. Some ways I sabotage my own success are:___by procrastinating, stressing, and making excuses for why I did not
do something I should have otherwise been doing.______________________
12. Before I can proceed with my Goals, I need the approval of ___No one. My goals are entirely within my own
control_______________________
13. Skills that I lack and need to have to achieve my Goals are: _____Further educational knowledge. Really though I
already possess all the skills, it's more a matter of adequately applying
them_________________________________
14. I need to learn _____a greater grasp on self dicipline______ before I can successfully achieve my
Vision.
15. I can still hear my Father’s voice demanding that I _______need to do more around the
house___________________________
16. I still hear my Mother insisting that I ______come visit her more often________________________
17. Money (the lack of it) may be an obstacle to achieving my goals. I have listed below how the lack of
money will keep me from implementation of my LIFE DESIGN.
c. _the inability to invest in my personal well being through things like gym memberships and properly
balanced diets__________________
First I would find a lawyer and keep track of every purchase I make with my winnings, while
maintaining a database of receipts. Both of my parents houses would be paid off. I would find an
ideal property for myself somewhere. Probably have some sort of ridiculous party because I can.
Probably buy a dream car or two. Build a shooting range in my backyard. Take a few trips
around the world. Invest the rest of it and live off the interest.
You’ll use the items you’ve listed above as you move to the next Exercise,
“Asking the Critical Question.”
“Two roads diverged in a wood and I took the road less traveled by and that has
made all the difference.”
Robert Frost
Asking the Critical Question
Have you found it difficult to think in terms of what you want to create? Most people do have
some difficulty since they received little encouragement to think that way. It can be dubbed as
“selfish, “or “egocentric,” or “thoughtless,” etc. Nevertheless, the heroic journey begins in the
arena of your deepest wants. When you dare to identify those wants, you may discover yet
another challenge.
NEW CHALLENGE: Sometimes the “want” you identify is not the “true want.” It is a symbol
or a clue to help you find what you genuinely want. That brings us to “Asking the Critical
Question.” (Think of yourself as Sherlock Holmes or Hercule Poirot). You have received several
clues in the “wants” you listed by winning the lottery. However, you will not be satisfied until
you have uncovered the deeper truth. You use the “Asking the Critical Question” process and
uncover new information leading to what you really want.
The Critical Question: What will be true of your life after you get what you want that is not true
today?
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Critical Question Exercise:
Take your list from “Winning the Lottery” and identify the result for each item. What will be
true after you get what you want that is not true today? Write the change that will take place for
each item.
Paying off both parents houses: My parents have provided so much for me that this would be me
real first opportunity to give something back to
them_________________________________________________________________________
Buying my own house: This would allow me to be in a position of independence and achieve
what I consider to be “ultimate adulthood” If life is like a videogame, thats the last quest.
______________________________________________________________________
Crazy Parties: Gives me and my friends an excuse to socialize and make terrible decisions.
Injects a degree of “unknown” into the life equation. _
Cars: A car is one of the most personal items a person owns. For the most part everyones car is
an extension of them. It is a statement about the person they are (or, in some cases, the person
they want to be). Being able to walk into a dealership, with no barrier of cost, and pick out a car
or three that is truly a personal expression is a degree of satisfaction I have yet to
experience.____________________________________________________________________
__________
Outdoor shooting range: Shooting is my passion. It is something I already spend a lot of time
doing. It is something that I will do for the rest of my life and something that I would continue to
do a lot if I won the lottery. Having 20 million to spend on my own facility, in my backyard
(laws permitting), would be like Charlie Bucket getting Wonka’s chocolate factory. Of all the
things I would do with my money, this would probably make me the most happy. _______
______________________________________________________________________________
Perhaps you can already anticipate the results of the Reflection process from “Asking the Critical
Question.” To help you with your reflections, here’s a story from my experiences mediating
conflict. I learned, in that process, how human beings speak in clues and symbols.
The items you wrote down for “Winning the Lottery” are typically clues and symbols for what
you really want. You weren’t lying. What you wrote down is symbolic of what you want. I’ll
use a simple story:
Johnny Smith is 16 years old. If you ask him what he wants more than anything, it’s a red
Ferrari. He dreams of it, talks about it, and longingly stares at the poster in his bedroom. Let’s
give him what he wants and ask him the “Critical Question.”
“Johnny, what will be true after you get the red Ferrari that isn’t true now?”
Johnny answers: “Well, if I drive up in front of school driving that car, everyone will notice me.
No one even knows my name now, but, will they ever then! I’ll bet the girls will finally pay
attention to me . . . and I’ll bet Becky Jones will go out on a date with me if I had a red Ferrari.”
What Johnny really wants is 1) to be noticed, 2) to have girls pay attention to him, and 3) a date
with Becky Jones. What he talks about is a red Ferrari which symbolizes what he really wants.
No, he doesn’t. Just picture Johnny on a desert island with a red Ferrari and no one to see him.
I understand it takes some willingness and effort to examine one’s self and gain insight, but the
insights can be valuable and even life altering. I simply suggest you spend a few moments
reflecting on the items you wrote from “Winning the Lottery” and what you wrote after “Asking
the Critical Question,” and see what comes up. Here’s the good news -- usually what you really
want, you can do something about today. You don’t have to wait to “Win the Lottery.”
If you have additional questions about this process, be sure to send them to me.
One of the things that stuck out to me the most about my selections was “Paying off my parents
houses.” I think that stems from wanting a desire to want their approval. You can’t really be hard
on someone who just paid off your house. Granted, that money would have been the result of
blind luck rather than skill and effort, but the action of spending on someone other than yourself
is a noble venture. My own house and my own cars seems to be in line with the example you
provided above. It's a desire to project to others. Status shouldn’t be important but, it is. We all
have that desire to elevate ourselves. The thing that really is just for me is my personal shooting
range. I think that stems from a desire of wanting excitement and adventure. Its fast, its loud, it's
dangerous but, most importantly, its fun as hell.
WORDS
Triggers for Transformation
How do we not only move forward creating what we want, but also face, transform, grow and
change as we encounter our Space Dragons and Ego Demons? One additional way is to pay
attention to our language because words are “Triggers for Transformation”.
Our use of words can be a subtle way to convince ourselves that we have no choices.
Choose language supportive of desired results, not language which degenerates in victim
mentality.
I can’t I can
I’m not I am able to
I’m not worthy I am worthy
I don’t deserve I deserve
I should, ought I want
I wish I want
I don’t I know
I’ll try I’m now doing
“The last of the human freedoms- - to choose one’s attitude in any given
circumstance, to choose one’s own way.”
Victor Frankl
WORDS
Triggers for Transformation
Primarily, you must raise your awareness of your use of language. To practice, do
the following. Create a sentence that flows naturally from your mouth and then
replace it with a different sentence. For example:
Changing the language you use activates the thought behind the words and then
activates the belief behind the thought. So complete one sentence with the “Victim
Language” and then replace it with “Power Language.”
I’m not smart enough for that job I’m able to identify shortcomings and learn
I should apply for that job I want to apply for that job
Notice how you feel when you change the language you’re using.
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"If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others . . . only when one is connected
to one’s own inner core is one connected to others."
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This exercise accomplishes two goals. On the one hand, it can help you refine
your Goals. The other factor is this process can help you implement your Life
Design. When facilitating this material with a group, one of the most powerful
exercises is having three people go off by themselves and take turns asking each
other questions. One person has their goals in their lap, one person asks questions
and listens to the answers, and the third person watches the non-verbal language as
the first person answers the questions. This exercise is a variation on that process.
Why is it important? It’s one thing to write down your goals; a more powerful step
is to have someone ask you questions about your goals. The questioning takes
matters to a whole new level, both during planning and the implementation phases.
Approach one or more people you trust – friend, spouse, parent, other family
members -- give them a set of questions to ask you while you think about your
goals. (You don’t need to tell them the Life Areas or the goals you’re working on.
You simply need to answer their questions and pay attention to your answers.
1. Picture achieving your goals. Do you feel any joy or excitement? If not, then why have
you chosen these goals? Yes I do, I feel a sense of fulfillment and accomplishment. I feel
a sense of purpose and happiness in my overall life.
2. Is your intention clear? What is the change going to accomplish? What will happen in
your life as a result of these goals being implemented? My intention is clear in the fact
that a change is, and will be, going to happen. What that change is, is unknown at this
point. Ideally, that change will elevate my life to a new level. My life has been more or
less the same for the last 10 years. Same places, same people, same job, same
responsibilities. The result will, ideally, be new challenges, new people, new experiences.
3. Are your goals in alignment with your mission statement (purpose) and your values? Yes
they are.
4. Are you committed to your goals? Have you prepared for the obstacles you may
encounter? Are you willing to do what needs to be done? I am committed to my goals, I
could be better prepared for some things down the road but right now, I am sitting well. I
am absolutely willing to do what needs to be done. Barriers are meant to be broken
through.
5. Are you willing to think the thoughts, speak the words, and do the deeds needed to
change? Yes I am.
6. Are you gathering support from other people in your change process (conspiracy or
breathing together)? If not, why not? Have you dealt with potential sabotage? I have a
great support team consisting of family, friends, and peers in similar positions as myself
both in work and school. Even just simple interaction and discussion has a huge impact
on my journey. No potential sabotage yet. I tend to get in my own way more so than
something outside throwing a wrench in the gearing.
Next Step:
You’ve completed a number of exercises that may have raised questions in your
mind about your Goals. Are the Goals you originally wrote the ones you want to
keep? Do you want to rewrite the Goals? Can you make the Goals more
powerful? More joyful? More likely to be completed?
It’s your choice because it’s your Life Design. You are the hero/heroine of your
journey. How do you want it to proceed?
I think I am in a good place right now regarding my Goals. Although a career and elevated life
status are definitely the end game, Goal #1 is to finish school and I am right in the middle of
accomplishing that. Within that goal of finishing school is just taking each day, as its own little-
goal, one day at a time.
PLANNING PROCESS Step C: Goals & Add Action Steps
Life Area #1:
Goal: Apply for jobs & use interview process to learn more about them
Action Steps
1 Identify potential career opportunities
2 Apply for those career opportunities
3 Accept offer for interview
4 Use interview process to ask questions about the company/organization in regard to
mission statement, culture, expectations, etc
5
Goal: Accept offer of employment from the job that most compliments my own
habits, skills, and philosophies
Action Steps
1 Hopefully receive multiple offers for interview that will allow me to have a strong pool to
compare amongst itself
2 Identify potential landing spots that compliment my habits, skills, and philosophies the
best
3 Balance the above with a more emotional stance of how happy I would be there, how
fulfilling I would find that job and how successful I could potentially be in that job as time goes
on. Or, would that job at least give me a foundations to springboard somewhere else in time?
4 Accept that job.
5
Goal: Take stock of habits concerning diet, exercise, and mental health.
Action Steps
1 Establish a more concrete set of goals
2 Is what I am doing right now putting me in the best position to succeed in my vision
3 Is my exercise regimen productive or counterproductive to my needs and goals
4 Is my diet complimenting my exercise goals adequately
5 Identify outside stressors and distractions that could inhibit my motivation and
concentration on achieving my goals and find ways to mitigate them.
Goal: Evaluate and adjust actions while maintaining focus on overall goal
Action Steps
1 Reflect on where I was, where I am, and where I want to be
2 Remove what is not working
3 Improve upon what is working
4 As mini goals within the main goal are accomplished, evaluate and adjust as necessary
5 Maintain focus on overall goal while implementing new, smaller, goals within it
APPENDIX
The Appendix includes some additional exercises that can be useful in the creation
of your Life Design. They are NOT REQUIRED, but they are available should
you want to use them.
They include:
Doorways to Change
Temple of Discovery
Scaling the Cliffs of Desire
Change… The “four letter word” that requires six letters. Our tendency is to avoid, deny, or
resist change. However, escaping the Falls of Destruction requires scaling the Cliffs of Desire,
i.e. requires us to change. Our motivation may come from the dear of pain or the power of the
pleasure we received when we create the life we want. No matter what the motivation, we need
to review how we move through change and some of the experience s we can expect.
Life Design Change Objectives:
Self managed ---- You are empowered to direct your own change.
Interdependent ---- Your do the change, but not without strengthening yourself with support.
Cost effective ---- Most of the doorways for change cost little to nothing to implement.
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Doorways For Change
Each of these openings lead you through a doorway where you once encountered a wall. Each
doorway will help you move through the Shadow Jungle or light your way through the Caves of
Self-Deception. Select doorways that serve your needs and your journey. Only you can choose
correctly for your request.
Temple of Discovery
Having identified what you want to create, you now enter the Temple of
Discovery. Within the Temple, you will implement your Life Design in the
quotidian. The real quest is about to begin. The wizard (your instructor) offers you
some magical tools to assist you as you proceed.
1. The Vision of Joy: Give yourself some quiet time and allow your mind
to gather a clear picture of your successful implementation of your Life
Design. As you picture your successful Life Design, do you see a
“symbol” in your Vision of that success?