Janet Holmes' article argues that the idea that women talk too much is a stereotype rooted in prejudice, not evidence. She presents research showing that in most contexts, men actually talk more than women. Specifically, 67 out of 69 studies showed men talking more, and men dominated conversations in classrooms and New Zealand. While women may talk more in private social settings, men are more assertive in professional settings where status and dominance matter. Holmes concludes the debate on whether women talk too much depends on context and cannot be answered with a simple "yes or no."
Janet Holmes' article argues that the idea that women talk too much is a stereotype rooted in prejudice, not evidence. She presents research showing that in most contexts, men actually talk more than women. Specifically, 67 out of 69 studies showed men talking more, and men dominated conversations in classrooms and New Zealand. While women may talk more in private social settings, men are more assertive in professional settings where status and dominance matter. Holmes concludes the debate on whether women talk too much depends on context and cannot be answered with a simple "yes or no."
Janet Holmes' article argues that the idea that women talk too much is a stereotype rooted in prejudice, not evidence. She presents research showing that in most contexts, men actually talk more than women. Specifically, 67 out of 69 studies showed men talking more, and men dominated conversations in classrooms and New Zealand. While women may talk more in private social settings, men are more assertive in professional settings where status and dominance matter. Holmes concludes the debate on whether women talk too much depends on context and cannot be answered with a simple "yes or no."
Communication is essential in survival and the most basic form of
communication is verbal communication or talking. With this in mind, there is an idea, rooted in mere observation and perhaps in a certain level of prejudice too, that is repeated over and over again throughout the centuries that it has already been accepted as truth: that women talk too much. In Janet Holmes’ article entitled “Women Talk Too Much”, she presented arguments stemming from the result of various research that told otherwise. Holmes’ concluded that the question whether women talked to much cannot be answered by a straight “yes or no” but rather with “it depends”. Her article presented numerous contexts that proved women were more silent than men when it came to assertive communication and were less dominant in discussions during formal settings. She also stated that women were more likely to contribute in more private settings where communication is done to maintain or establish relationships, or in situations where they could be socially confident. Finally, Holmes concluded that the matter would still be under continuous debate as long as the floor is equated with influence. As a young woman growing up in a male-dominated society, I think that the work of Janet Holmes is a staggering reflection of what women are going through and their battle against stereotypes. She presented her article with proverbs from various countries who believed that women talked too much, a thing of stereotype. Holmes also showed the contradiction between such belief and the results of numerous research. Finally, Holmes gave readers a comprehensive enumeration of contexts where men are more dominant talkers and where women had more contribution than usual, even adding the social factors that made them behave in such way. Holmes included several quotes that embellishes the stereotype of women talking too much. Such goes an English proverb that punctuates the English belief that women are extremely talkative. “Women’s tongues are like lambs’ tails - they are never still.” Proverbs mirror beliefs and beliefs influence people’s attitudes. This is why stereotypes of such are dangerous as they discourage women into silence and why Holmes was correct in using these proverbs to reflect what women are going through. To counter these stereotypes, Holmes included in her article several researches. Holmes presented first the review of Canadians Deborah James and Janice Drakich whose results said that women talked more than men in only 2 studies, leaving 67 of the 69 studies showing that men talked more than women. Furthermore, Holmes also added that a research in New Zealand, men generally dominated the talking time. Evidence from research conducted in classrooms also support the fact that boys do more talking than girls in classroom discussions. Finally, Holmes gave situations in which males were more dominating in conversations than women, or when women were more contributing in conversations than men. Holmes noted that men were more active in conversations that results in assertion of status and dominance. On the contrary, she noted that women were more in conversations that showed support and would gladly participate under topics that they are naturally believed to be experts in. Women could also be pressured into silence because they believed that being more dominant in conversations under topics that are normally on the “male-turf” would warrant them negative impressions from their listeners. In my own opinion, I believe that that Janet Holmes’ work is informative and empowering. It is informative because it showed truth to the otherwise fallacious belief that circulates in society and continuously feed the negative stereotype that pressures women into silence. It is empowering because now that women know the truth and the reason behind these remarks, they will be able to overcome these obstacles and contribute meaningfully in communication without giving in to fear and pressure. To add, I think that it is quite frightening to speak and conclude that women talk too much when in fact it’s not entirely true. It is even more frightening how this idea was so well-believed that even proverbs speak them. Nonetheless, in a male- dominated world, one can say that it is a struggle to be a woman. To speak and believe such a thing about women, perhaps it is because men would rather have women silent than talking.