don't allow yourself to be controlled by

these five things many people spend

their life at the mercy of circumstances

living at the mercy of what happens to

them living at the mercy of other people

not living in the present because

they're stuck in the prison of their

past if you want to live a great life

don't allow yourself to be controlled by

any of these things number one your past

number two

other people's opinions and judgments

number three

limited beliefs you project on yourself

number four

relationships and number five money

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number one don't allow your past to

control your present or your future life

whatever happened you must let it go

leave the pain of your past behind so it

cannot ruin your future leave the

darkness of your past behind so it

cannot block the light your bright

future your past is gone

whatever happened whether unjust cruel

harsh whatever the case

reliving the events will never do you

any good if someone did you wrong the

only way you can win is if you let go

and move on

if you live in hate they win if you live

in the victims story they win if you

want to win you must focus on building

your future and start right now release

that weight from your back so you can be

free don't allow events from the past

which are now gone to ruin this moment

which is perfect this moment which is

now to enjoy which is ready for you to

live fully number two don't allow other

people's opinions and judgments to

control the direction of your life the

need to

in and Phil wanted can cause you to

travel down paths you don't want to

travel people-pleasing

is a curse that should be avoided at all

costs before you do anything ask

yourself am i doing this because I want

to do it or because of my fear of

judgement from others if I don't you

were born unique for a reason you are

born to stand out to be appreciated and

loved for who you are

don't dim your light so you fit into the

dull background of other people's lives

shine bright as you are those who really

care for you will see that light and

shine with you number three don't allow

your life to be controlled by your own

limited beliefs now and warning with

this woman these beliefs may be

conscious but more than likely they're

unconscious they may be unconscious

limitations that have been conditioned

in you from a young age and throughout

your entire life by listening to those

around you who never reach for their own

dream notice your own limit

beliefs to tell them to shut up there is

nothing you cannot do nothing you cannot

have and no one you cannot become if you

believe in yourself if you believe

anything is possible

guess what anything is possible

when you change your belief from limited

to unlimited your potential is unlimited

imagine what you could achieve if you

lived your life as though anything is

possible as though miracles are a

standard requirement of everyday as the

saying goes when there is no enemy

within the enemy outside can do you no

harm

when you have nothing inside holding you

back there is nothing outside that can

hold you back either your entire life

will change the very instant you decide

to change your mindset the instant you

decide to see everything as a gift when

you decide to see every circumstance and

challenge as a blessing rather than a

curse the very instant you become

conscious to the fact that everything in

it is as it should be and know that

fighting

what is is insane number four

relationships a touchy subject but if

you are always needing another to be

happy to feel complete then you are

always one moment away from a breakdown

if that person leaves you or unhappiness

if the relationship you are in is not

going with I'm not suggesting to avoid

relationships there is no force on earth

that is greater than love and connection

I am talking about those who can't live

if they aren't in a relationship those

who will be with just about anyone

including all the wrong ones just to

avoid spending a moment being single

what I am saying is to develop enough

mental strength that you get to the

point where you don't need others to

make you happy you are just as happy

being alone as you are in a relationship

and number five this is what controls

the majority of humans on the planet and

you guess what it is

money this does not mean you shouldn't

want abundance

it doesn't mean money is evil you know

as well as I do what great things you

can do and how many people you can help

with money what this means is do not

allow your decisions to be controlled by

money if you are choosing something only

on the factor of how much money is

involved you've just made the wrong

decision what you will find is that when

you follow your heart and you lead with

your intention to serve others to give

your best to others every single time

when you follow your intuition and truly

give your soul and the money will come

and it will come and far greater amounts

than if you simply chase money for the

sake of chasing money so challenge

yourself to live the life you want to

live free from being controlled by

anything find your freedom live fully

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