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3 questions that will allow you to quickly get to know
someone
Ask these 3 questions in the beginning of the conversation to get to know
the person.
This will also make the person like you because you are being genuinely
interested in them.
Basically, they will start to keep talking but even more enthusiastically.
The first time you try this, you’re not going to want to stop because it is
almost amusing how well it works.
1. Smile
○ CRUCIAL.
○ Remember, strangers are usually just as suspicious of you as you
are of them. If some strange guy came up to you and started talking
to you. You would be a little skeptical.
2. Ask an indirect question.
○ Ask for directions or ask for help finding a coffee shop or
something.
3. Transition into getting to know mode.
○ Do this naturally. I’ve been traveling for the past few months so
here’s some questions I have used:
i. This is a nice town. Is this a nice area to live?
1. This question is gold. Obviously, don’t lie. If you’re in a
warzone with a bunch of crackheads walking around
then don’t lie. The person will instantly lose respect for
you if they feel like you are trying to make them like
you.
Just get them talking about the future. After they begin explaining
themselves, just say. Alright well I gotta go but good luck with [xyz].
Boom. It will feel natural. Try it.
Think about it. If you’re interested in something, you love talking about.
Now, if someone was also interested in it, then you would think they’re
interesting too.
1. Smile.
2. Be genuinely interested in other people.
3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most
important sound in any language.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage people to talk about themselves.
5. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
6. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
Thanks for reading. The stuff mentioned here is just the tip of the
iceberg. The upsell should be in your email by now. It’s something a little
more in depth that teaches you how to be a likable conversationalist.
-John Mc