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Cold approach

Masculinity evolved
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Contents
Introduction 1
Opener 2
Small talk 3
The Opener 4
Connect + Closing 6
Final Words 7
Framework Chart 8
Introduction
What if I told you that you could have 3 dates every single week of the
month with 3 different females?
what if I told you that you could start dating higher-quality females
than the ones that you are currently dealing with? What if I told you
that you don't have to become friends with a female to get her to sleep
with you? Would you still deal with the females you are dealing with
now? Would you still be chatting up that same hottie which you see
regularly? What if I told you there was a way to talk to females who look
twice as good as she does without being her friend?

Well, my friend in this ebook you will find a framework which will help
you with that. This ebook will help you talk to strangers who you are
attracted and have them attracted to you or at least go on dates with
you. This is the Cold approach framework which will take you from the
stranger to the water.

Lets dive into what the framework and let's see how it can help you
succeed with your cold approach.

1
Opener
Your Opener is crucial because this is where your first impression
comes from. You're Opener does not consist of your words alone but
it also consists of your body language too. Your body language opens
before your words do.
There are two different types of openers:

1- The Direct Opener


You admit your attraction from the moment you interact with her.

2- The Indirect opener


Asking her to help you with something.

Eg-"Where is the nearest coffee shop."


"Do you know what time it is?"

Direct openers and indirect openers are both equally effective when
applied to their respective seduction type. There are two types of
direct openers.

The introduction
"Hey, I'm (your name), how's it going?"

The No B.S
Eg. "Hey I thought you looked beautiful so I came to see if what my
eyes see would correspond with what my mind thinks"

Or

"Hey... I know this is random...but I thought you were cute...so I


wanted to say hey"

There are two types of seduction:


Covert Seduction(Subtle seduction)
Overt Seduction (smooth seduction)

2
An indirect opener should be applied with covert seduction.
Direct openers should be applied to overt seduction.

The method of the opening varies depending on whether the female is


introverted,ambiverted or extroverted

Introverted females tend to respond better to indirect openers as


introverts are very picky with who they socialise with or to who they
give their energy, the upside to this is that once you have made her
comfortable the game becomes a lot easier as she only does speak to a
handful of people. You will also tend to notice that once you have
successfully seduced an introvert she will become clingy to you.

Ambiverted females are the most difficult to create a game plan


around due to how ambiverted females vary, does she socialise more
or does she spend more time with herself? Typically most ambiverted
females respond better to direct openers.

Extroverted females respond nest to direct openers. This is due to


them talking to multiple different people male and female, keeping this
in mind they most definitely have male friends who are attempting to
perform the covert seduction through friendship. Direct openers will
be successful here because she's already used to males being indirect
with her & their intentions.

This is true in theory but is not the truth.

So now that you have your method of opening how do you guide the
conversation towards your close or the next step?

3
Small Talk
The next step from here will be small talk. Small talk is where you get
generic (sigh). Once you get better at cold approaching you can start
skipping this step if you would like to maximize the feelings of fun that
you give her.

The small talk framework includes things about her.


For this, you can use the F.O.R.D(Family, occupation, Recreation &
Dreams) method along with her name, where she's from etc.

You want to stop being self-conscious and become analytical at this


stage of the interaction. You have to listen to what she's telling you
because she can shit test you, give up who she is and even pass hints
subtly.
The small talk is where you find material for your connection which is
the next step.

The indirect opener to Small Talk


Me: Hello darling, do you know what the time is, my phone died.
Her: (pulls out a phone or watch) oh it (whatever time it is)
Me: Are you lying to me? (Smirk)
Her: (faces the phone or watch towards me) I'm not lying, why would I
lie?
Me: I'm just pulling your leg, what is your name?
Her: I'm Emily
Me: Well Emily, I currently have a lot more time on me than I thought,
have you ever been negative 2 hours late to a family meeting
Her: no/yes
Me: I doubt you even keep in touch with your family
Her: I do / what makes you think that?
Me: I don't know maybe your dad spanked you because you couldn't
answer what 5 + 4 was equal to, maybe your mother woke you up at 3
am to wash the dishes which you didn't from the previous night....let's
pretend you do keep in touch with your family ...what was the
relationship with your father like? (screening)
Her: I loved my father / I hated my father /my father left me with my
mother when I was young.
4
Indirect openers are focused on comfort building,so small talk here is
longer than small talk from direct openers. The more she talks to you
the more comfortable she gets.

Direct opener Small talk


Me: Hey darling I thought you were beautiful so I came to see if what my
eyes saw would correspond with what my mind will think
Her: Aww thank you/ okay
Me: What is your name ?
Her: I'm Taylor who are you
Me: Taylor what do you do for fun by the way
Her: I like to shoot tiktoks and go to clubs
Me: Do you do tiktoks for the money , the clout or for the fun of it.
Her: I do it for the fun
Me: Don't lie are you a tiktok influencer?
Her: no

Small talk for direct openers is shorter because its easier to see
whether a female is attracted to you or not when opening directly. You
just want to talk to her to get her comfortable to get to the close
because she already is attracted to you so why would you waste time.

5
Connecting + Closing
After the small talk, you want to connect and then close.
Connecting is essentially displaying that you weren't just speaking to
her for the sake of speaking to her. When you have connected
successfully you make her feel as if you were paying attention to
every little detail from the small talk you had with her. Connecting is
piecing the bits of information you got from her relating it to you then
relating it to your date which comes in the close. Hence the term
connecting because you connect the dots.

You always close with either a set date or number, preferably a date
so that you don't have to wait for her response to your messages to
have her tell you she is busy. Set a date from the moment you meet
her so that if she cancels the date you know you're going to ghost her
thereafter.

Let's begin with the indirect cold approach close.

"I can tell that you are a person who [is/isn't] family oriented,
although I don't judge books by their covers and you aren't exactly an
open book so this weekend I would like to have lunch with you to see
if you're a good read"

Next is the Direct Approach Connect and close

"Well Taylor I'm YG, since you like fun let's go to the carnival this
Saturday by the park at 4 pm"

6
Final Words
When doing a child approach from the opener to the close you want
to start with questions and topics which aren't personal and
gradually move into more personal questions the more you get down
the framework chart (on the next page). This helps build comfort in a
female and helps her get a better feel of you because as you should
know females think with their hearts & feelings.

Another thing to take note of is your overall presentation.


Use the following checklist to ensure your cold approaches go as
good as they possibly can and to ensure that you're putting out the
absolute best version of yourself out there. Your interactions will be
better once you have everything from the checklist below. Don't skip
anything because you need everything in there or else you aren't
putting your best self out there.

1- Did I get a haircut


2- Is my skin looking smooth
3- Is my face & lips moisturiser
4- Is my hair & beard groomed well
5- Did I brush my teeth
6- Did I brush my tongue
7- Did I floss
8- Did I use mouthwash
9- Is my skin moisturised
10- Are my nails cut short
11- Are the clothes that I am wearing bringing out the best in my
body
12- Did iI apply cologne
13- Did iI have a bath (yes some people don't bath before they go
out)
14- Did I apply eye drops to make my eyes shine and glisten
15- Do I have a pack of gum or mints on me

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The Framework
Opener
From the open to connect you
gradually make the questions
you ask about her more
personal

Small talk without the


Small connect won't help
you establish a good

Talk impression on the girl.

Connect Close

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Well done you've completed the first step to making more
successful cold approaches.

Cold approaching is an art and requires creativity, which is why I


don't recommend copying someone's conversation word for word.
Learn how to create your lines, because once you do the whole
game changes. Once you start creating your lines on your toes
without it being scripted or even being thought of before your
approach you start to give off a feeling to females that they have
never felt.

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