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Introductory
Mentalization-Based
Treatment Group
WHAT ARE TYPICAL SIGNS OF POOR WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF disappointed, etc
MENTALIZING? POOR MENTALIZING?
We can be taken over by emotions or act
There are some ‘giveaways’ that indicate Poor mentalizing of our own thoughts without thinking (that is, we allow the
when someone’s mentalizing is poor. For and emotions means that we do not surrounding circumstances or our own
instance: have a good understanding of our own impulses to govern our actions)
Feeling certain about other people’s reasons for acting the way we do.
Instead, things seem to ‘just happen’
motives, without considering any
possible alternatives Our sense of who we are can become
unstable. We may second-guess FROM MENTALIZING TO SURVIVAL
Thinking in black and white terms (‘FIGHT OR FLIGHT’)
ourselves, feel insecure or need
Not acknowledging feelings in oneself or constant confirmation and reassurance
others (low empathy) from others Points to note from this diagram:
Overlooking the fact that people We misunderstand each other Feelings are activated faster and more
influence each other frequently. This can have negative strongly in some people than others
Not being curious about what is in consequences: for example, others may The fight/flight response can kick in at
someone’s mind feel overlooked, not heard or wrongly different times for different people,
interpreted and become upset about this; depending on the individual’s personal
Emphasizing external factors instead of
or we feel that others do not understand threshold (the ‘switch point’)
considering personal states – for
or care about us
example, that it was raining, or that one The time it takes to return to a normal
had a headache – or describing a We may react in a very emotional way state after intense emotional activation
particular situation as being ‘just how it based on misunderstandings – for varies among people.
was’, without being able to give any example, we may become afraid, angry,
These are important points for treatment:
more explanation
Automatic (poor)
emotional intensity can be controlled, the
Controlled
Using a lot of generalizations, absolute mentalizing mentalizing threshold can be raised, and the time it
statements and/or oversimplifying. For takes before one gets back to one’s normal
Mentalizing capacity
Increasing arousal/stress
Group activity: Say what Homework: What emotions have
emotions you commonly feel (the been the most prominent for you in
WHY DO WE
group leader will write them on a
chart).
the past week?
HAVE EMOTIONS
Or have your emotions been
diffuse – that is, more of a physical AND WHAT ARE
unease rather than being obvious?
THE BASIC
Group activity: Discuss the TYPES?
emotions listed in relation to
yourselves and your individual
differences.
Does everyone in the group feel
these emotions?
Does each person experience
them with equal frequency and
intensity?
Introductory
Mentalization-Based
Treatment Group
WHAT ARE BASIC EMOTIONS? They supply us with automatic responses Sexual lust encourages reproduction –
Basic emotions are emotions that exist in that have been important for human and therefore the continuation of our
all mammals. Basic emotions are ‘wired’ in survival throughout evolution, over the genes in our children.
course of millions of years. Separation anxiety and sadness function
the same area in the brain, trigger the
same physical reactions, and each of them as an appeal for others to take care of
THE MAIN PURPOSE OF THE SEVEN
is linked to a set pattern of reactions. us. They signal to potential caregivers
BASIC EMOTIONS
that we are in danger or in need of
The seven basic emotions are: Interest and curiosity, or exploratory protection, or that we have become
Interest and curiosity behaviour, motivates us to find out useful isolated from our group/family, or that we
Fear information about our surroundings (for have lost someone close whom we
example, where is there food and water
Anger depend on.
or a safe place to hide). We need to be
Sexual lust curious to learn things about life and Love/caring motivates us to care for our
Separation anxiety/sadness each other. children, family, partner and friends.
Love/caring Fear makes us ask ourselves questions Play/joy stimulates us to interact with
Play/joy. such as: ‘Is what I am facing others so that we remain a ‘pack animal’
dangerous?’, ‘Can it injure or kill me?’, rather than becoming a hermit. It
Social emotions, such as shame and loyalty,
‘Is this person a rival who is stronger increases our skills of interacting with
exist in humans and some primates.
than I am?’, ‘Is he/she an enemy?’. In a others, introduces limits to our own
WHY ARE BASIC EMOTIONS situation where the fear becomes excitement, and enables us as children
IMPORTANT FOR US? intense enough and the enemy or rival to develop ways dealing with anger
seems stronger than us, it prompts our through ‘rough-and-tumble’ play.
Basic emotions are related to evolution – decision to run away or ‘give in’ to the
they have been shown to be important for other person. Fear can also prompt us to AWARENESS OF EMOTIONS
survival and reproduction. They represent freeze or ‘play dead’ if the threat is Because of our upbringing and
an innate and automatic preparedness to overwhelming and our life is at risk. socialization, we can be distanced from our
react in particular ways.
Anger: If we find that someone or natural, emotional reactions. Emotions can
We do not need to learn these emotions or something is standing in our way, we be suppressed. We can therefore be
reaction patterns because they are may show anger and see if he/she emotionally triggered, but at the same time
determined by nature (although we can still submits. If the person resists, the be unaware of what exactly we are feeling.
distance ourselves from them, for example, intensity of our anger will increase and For example, we can feel heart palpitations
by focusing our mind or by distraction). possibly even lead us to attack them. or bodily unease without knowing why.
Group exercise: The group leader Group activity: Suggest names
will guide you through an exercise for the painful, uncomfortable or HOW DO WE
unpleasant emotional states that
of turning your attention inwards.
you get stuck in.
REGISTER AND
What kinds of things have you REGULATE
done to try to get out of these
kinds of emotional states? EMOTIONS?
Group activity: Role play about
emotional regulation through
others. One person acts being
emotionally upset (the group
leader will give guidance on this). Homework: Make a note of at
Another person is then tasked with least one occasion during the past
the following: week when you managed to
1. To find out what feelings the effectively regulate an upsetting
person has emotional state.
2. To find out why he/she feels this
way
3. To try to console the person.
Introductory
Mentalization-Based
Treatment Group
HOW DO WE REGISTER EMOTIONS IN Emotional awareness can be improved with
Group activity: Role-play about
OTHERS? practice, simply by being more aware and
emotional regulation through others.
‘being more present in one’s own body’.
There are two main ways in which we One person acts being emotionally
register emotions in others: upset, and another person has to
Group exercise: The group leader will console them (see details overleaf).
By interpreting others’ facial expressions guide you through an exercise of turning
and body language – this happens across your attention inwards. Discuss your experiences afterwards.
all cultures and, to some extent, in other
animal species as well as humans.
Different experiences and emotions can IMPAIRED EMOTIONAL REGULATION
Through identification – for example, when
we see another person feeling sad, we can emerge in this exercise. Some people find This is when we are stuck in a painful,
become sad ourselves. This is part of the that their physical experiences block their problematic, uncomfortable and often
basis of empathy. (We have specific brain awareness of their feelings. Others may unclear emotional state. People in this state
cells called ‘mirror neurons’ that enable us become anxious or even paranoid about can resort to dramatic ways (such as
losing control – this is similar to fear, one of getting high or self-harming) to escape it.
to feel and experience what someone else
is feeling and experiencing). the basic emotions.
Question: Can you name some of these
HOW DO WE REGISTER EMOTIONS IN EMOTIONAL REGULATION THROUGH emotional states that you get stuck in?
OURSELVES? OTHERS What kinds of things have you done to
People differ in how they register their own We can also allow others to help us try to get out of these emotional states?
emotions. Some people find it easier than regulate our emotions. In fact, we often try
others. to do this, such as when we comfort
These emotional states contain
We register our emotions by turning our another person who is upset or allow unmentalized feelings. While they are in
attention inwards – noticing our bodily ourselves to be consoled by others.
such a state, people can do very irrational
reactions, thoughts and feelings. For this to be effective, we need to be and destructive things.
Examples of this in common language willing to let another person comfort us.
It is essential to talk about these
include ‘a lump in my throat’, ‘weak at the On the other hand, the way in which this experiences in therapy. It is also important
knees’, ‘pressure behind the eyes’, ‘hair person tries to console us – their behaviour to try to reduce the time spent in such
standing on end’, and so on. and what they say – is also important. states, and therapy can help with this.
What characterizes the family Make a note of something you find
culture you grew up in with respect difficult to talk about in a close
ATTACHMENT
to mentalizing? relationship and what the
reason(s) for this may be.
AND
MENTALIZATION
Introductory
Mentalization-Based
Treatment Group
Growing up in a mentalizing culture influence each other. We will talk more ATTACHMENT CONFLICT
promotes secure attachment. In turn, this about this in later sessions. Attachment conflict means that a person
helps a person’s mentalizing abilities to hides or exaggerates signals about their
develop and be maintained. own emotional state because they fear or
ATTACHMENT AND MENTALIZING are insecure about what will happen if they
Attachment relationships are important. For try to get close to the attachment person.
WHAT IS A MENTALIZING CULTURE? young children, close attachments with Attachment conflict means that an impulse
A mentalizing culture is a culture within a caregivers (such as parents) are very to get closer to someone is inhibited by
family or a group where the family/group important. These relationships help the something else (such as fear of being
members frequently have discussions child to become aware of his or her own punished by the other person, or
about people and why they behave the way emotional states, to be able to put names sometimes a wish to punish that person).
they do. to these states, to find out the reasons for
them, and to use his or her understanding
A mentalizing culture is necessary to Activity: Make a note of examples of
of emotions to be able to relate to others.
manage any significant events that affect your own attachment conflicts.
anyone in a family. Discussion about If a child’s relationship to his or her
experiences need to be done with a attachment person(s) is poor, he or she
reasonable degree of open-mindedness, may not be able to use the attachment
person to learn how to understand feelings VIOLENCE AND ABUSE
minimal certainty and without triggering any
oppressive family taboos. and the relationships between people. This It is particularly difficult to think about the
will have negative consequences for the primary attachment relationship if this
Question: What is the culture within child’s mentalizing abilities as he or she relationship involves violence and sexual
your own family like in terms of grows up and becomes an adult. abuse. How can someone begin to
mentalizing (talking about people’s This means that the person is very much left understand why a person who should be
thoughts and feelings)? alone with their emotions. They will also find treating them with care and love (such as a
it difficult to think around the attachment parent) is behaving in a way that ignores or
relationship itself, because the person does actively harms their wellbeing?
The MBT outpatient treatment programme
strives towards creating a mentalizing not have a reliable reference point. Attachment conflicts inhibit a child’s
culture. In the groups and individual However, this can become easier over time mentalizing abilities right from the start, and
sessions, for example, we make constant if the person has supportive and caring leave behind emotional scars and confusion.
efforts to find out about our own minds and other relationships as they grow up, for They undermine the child’s ability to deal
the minds of other people, and how they example, with a grandparent or teacher. with attachment conflicts later in adult life.
What makes you you? Homework: Make a note of the
personality traits (the thoughts,
WHAT IS
feelings and behaviours) that have PERSONALITY
been most troublesome for you in
the past week. DISORDER?
Introductory
Mentalization-Based
Treatment Group
WHAT IS PERSONALITY DISORDER? CAN PERSONALITY DISORDER BE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY
CHANGED? DISORDER
Everyone develops particular ways of
thinking, feeling and relating to other Just as people’s personality can change Patients in the MBT programme are often
people when they are growing up. These over time, personality disorders are not found to have Borderline personality
ways of thinking and being develop from necessarily permanent either. disorder (BPD). The traits of BPD are:-
childhood, through our teenage years and As people get older, they sometimes - Having difficulties with being alone and
into adulthood. This is an individual’s become more relaxed, less intense and strong feelings associated with being
personality and can be thought of as able to deal with difficult situations in a abandoned
‘what makes me me’. better way. However, problems can pop up - A pattern of unstable and intense
Some ways of thinking, feeling and relating again during times of stress (such as the interpersonal relationships, which
loss of a close relationship, or a period of fluctuate between extremes of great
to other people can be problematic. For
bliss and total misery
example, they may affect our image of ill-health).
ourselves or our self-esteem, or they might - Identity problems – such as fluctuating
Personality disorder can improve quicker self-esteem, an unstable self-image, or
affect our ways of thinking about the people through treatment, for example, with constant changes in life goals
around us. This, in turn, can cause mentalization-based treatment (MBT).
problems in schooling, work, and with our - Having disturbed or unstable self-image
or sense of self
friends and family. TYPES OF PERSONALITY DISORDER
- Being impulsive in ways that are self-
If a person has a certain number of Personality disorders are currently damaging (e.g. doing risky things on the
problematic aspects (‘traits’) to his or her classified into 10 types, grouped into three spur of the moment)
personality, they may have a diagnosis of clusters: - Repeated self-harm or suicidal behaviour
Personality Disorder. (to deal with painful or difficult feelings)
Cluster A: (Paranoid, Schizoid and
A personality disorder does not affect the Schizotypal personality disorders) - Feelings of inner emptiness and
entire personality. A person can have good meaninglessness
Cluster B: (Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic,
and positive personality traits and talents, - Constant mood swings, within a few
and Narcissistic personality disorders)
as well as those that are problematic. hours or a day or a few days. Intense
Cluster C: (Avoidant, Dependent, and anger that is difficult to control
Activity: Write down ‘what makes me Obsessive–Compulsive personality
- Reacting with suspiciousness or a
me’. What are your positive personality disorders). feeling of being outside of oneself when
traits? Do you have any problematic People can have traits from more than one stressed.
personality traits? type, or cluster, of personality disorder. Do you recognize any of them in yourself?
Do you think you would find it hard Why might it be hard for you to
to bring in recent events from your have a mentalizing (curious and
ABOUT
own life to therapy sessions? If so,
what will make it difficult for you?
not-knowing) attitude in therapy?
MENTALIZATION-
BASED
TREATMENT
(MBT)
Introductory
Mentalization-Based
Treatment Group
WHAT ARE THE AIMS OF MBT? 4. Individual therapy: once a week for - Allow other group members to take part
MBT aims to improve a person’s ability to around 18 months in this process by exploring their own
mentalize in close relationships. 5. Group therapy: weekly sessions of 1.5 problems and others people’s problems
hours for around 18 months in the same way
Having improved mentalizing ability means:
- Experiencing a more stable sense of 6. Possible addition of art therapy - Work with the therapist and the other
who you feel you are 7. Appointment(s) with psychiatrist for group members in exactly the same way,
relevant prescriptions if needed to understand events that happen within
- Being less likely to let emotions get the
the group
better of you 8. Collaboration with other agencies on
work-related support - Try to develop a constructive relationship
- When emotions do get the better of you,
with the group members and the
you are able to regain your composure
WHAT DOES THE THERAPIST DO therapist
more quickly
IN MBT?
This should mean that you become As part of the programme, patients are
MBT therapists may provide advice directly,
stronger emotionally, engage in harmful encouraged not to have contact between
but they mainly try to think and reflect with each other outside of the therapy sessions.
behaviours less, are less likely to get into
you about problems to help you gradually If they do so, they should try to talk about
interpersonal conflicts, and are better able
develop your own solutions. This means these contacts in the therapy sessions.
to deal with any conflicts that do arise.
taking on a curious and ‘not-knowing’
HOW DOES MBT HELP YOU IMPROVE attitude about yourself and others – other WHAT ELSE DO I NEED TO KNOW?
YOUR MENTALIZING? patients in the group and people in your The individual and group therapists meet
To be good at something, you need to everyday life – particularly about regularly and discuss how therapy is going.
practise it. In the MBT programme, experiences, thoughts and feelings. The group therapist does not usually
participants have the opportunity to practise mention in the group anything he or she
mentalizing skills together with the therapist WHAT DOES THE PATIENT DO IN MBT? has discussed with patients in individual
and other group members. To make good use of treatment, patients sessions. You, the patient, get to choose
are encouraged to: what you want to talk about, and when.
HOW IS MBT STRUCTURED?
- Talk about events from their own lives, However, sometimes the group therapist
The MBT programme consists of: especially recent events that have been can address specific serious topics directly,
1. Mentalization-based problem formulation stressful even if the patient does not want to talk
2. Crisis plans - Try to understand more about these about them. For instance, these may relate
3. Psychoeducational group therapy: 12 events, using a curious, open and to violence or threats, serious breaches of
weekly sessions, each 1.5 hours long ‘not-knowing’ attitude the treatment contract, or suicide attempts.