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Defense your rights in social situations Yes No

Do you ever buy things / products, just because you cannot refuse to the seller?  
Do you hesitate before returning the product to the store, even if the item is clearly defective?  
If someone is talking loudly during the movie or concert - can you ask him to be quiet?  
If someone knocks on your chair in the cinema, theater, etc. - can you ask him to stop?  
If someone smokes a cigarette in front of you - can you ask him to stop?  
If the seller serves first someone that got there after you, which is wrong- do your defense your rights?  
Defense your rights in interpersonal situations
If someone is harassing you, or treating you unfair - will you tell him about it?  
If someone borrowed money from you and haven’t paid back for a long time – will you remind him about it?  
Do you feel that other people have tendency to use you and boss you around?
Do you often do something that you do not want to, just because you are not able to object?
Initiative and social contacts
Can you easily start a conversation with a stranger?
Do you often have difficulties in keeping up a conversation?
Do you find it difficult to maintain eye contact with the person you are talking to?
Is it difficult to have fun during a party where you do not know anyone except the host?
Expressing and accepting criticism and praise
Do you know how to react when someone praises/compliments you?
Do you sometimes praise/ compliment your friends or family members?
Do you know how to act when someone criticizes you?
Do you find it difficult to criticize your friends or family members?
Expressing requests and needs
Can you ask a stranger for assistance/ help?
Can you ask friends or family members for assistance/ help?
Expressing feelings
Can you be open and honest in expressing warmth, liking for men?
Can you be open and honest in expressing displeasure and anger against men?
Can you be open and honest in expressing warmth, liking for women?
Can you be open and honest in expressing displeasure and anger against women?
Do you ever share your personal feelings with other person, stranger?
Expressing opinions
If you have a different point of view during the conversation - do you usually decide to express it?
Do you often experience situations in which others attack your opinion and you have a problem to defense it?
Do you react with anxiety and tension, when the person has a different point of view than yours?
Public appearances
Do you have any difficulties in taking part in discussion in front of a group of people?
Do you have any difficulties in making public speeches?
Contact with authority
If you have a different opinion than someone who is an authority to you - can you openly express your point of view?
If you have contact with someone who is an authority to you, do you give up your interests and preferences?
Intrusion on someone else's territory
Do you often end sentence for another person?
Do you often cry or shout to force others to do what you want?
Do you use offensive words, curses when you are angry?
Do you often continue argument, even though the other person for a long time does not want it?
Do you often make decisions for other adults?

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