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When I search the internet for “how to be happy”, Google tells me there are
4,810,000,000 results. I’m sure that when you do the same search, Google will have
found more results already.
Additionally, when I type the words “being unhappy is” in the search field, Google
tries to autocomplete it:
The idea that being unhappy is a bad state to be in is just wrong. Everybody has his or
her reasons to be unhappy sometimes, and those reasons can be perfectly valid.
Some examples of the things in our lives that we can’t fully control:
How? By always being able to embrace a positive mindset, no matter what situation
you may be in.
Do you believe this? Can someone choose to be happy all the time? Can happiness
really be controlled like that?
It turns out that people who think that happiness can be controlled are 32% happier on
average
That is huge!
It means that people who believe they can control their happiness are happier than
those who don’t.
Related:
Controlling Happiness Correlates With 32% Higher Happiness
(New Study Results)
There are some very efficient methods that will help you control the things that are
most correlated to your happiness. These will be explained throughout the rest of this
article.
Our study showed that roughly 35% of our happiness is believed to be circumstantial.
But what was more interesting this statistic was correlated to the overall happiness of
a person.
We found that happier people believe that their happiness is less a result of their
circumstances.
The happiest people in our dataset (happiness rating = 10) believe that only 31% of
their happiness is circumstantial. On the other hand, the unhappiest respondents
(happiness rating = 1) believe that more than half of their happiness (53%) is
circumstantial.
What does this all mean?
It hints at the fact that the happiest people have learned and implemented strategies
that give them a better chance of having a happy day. Without being affected by
outside circumstances.
Related:
How To Stop Being A Victim Of Circumstance (Science &
Tips)
How Much Of Our Happiness Is Circumstantial? (New Study
Results!)
Defining your happiness
When you consider happiness and look at it from a distance, you will find that there
are 3 things that can determine your happiness:
Your genetics
Your internal state of mind
Your circumstances
In another survey we ran recently, we asked over 1,000 respondents to weigh these
factors. Which one of these 3 factors determined your happiness the most?
But that’s beside the point. If this study showed anything it all, it’s that our way of
defining happiness is really unique and should not be compared to what others think
of happiness.
Related:
What Factors Determine Our Happiness? (New Study Analyzes
1,155 Answers)
Understand that happiness is different for
everybody
If I asked you and your neighbor to define happiness right now, the two answers
would probably be wildly different.
What initially looks like a very simple question turns out to be one of the hardest
questions out there.
Anyway, what I want you to realize is that your personal definition of happiness is
unique. What makes you happy doesn’t necessarily make another person happy. In
fact, your definition of happiness even changes over time. There is no universally
agreed-upon definition of happiness.
What came to your mind? Was it a good day at work? Was it a movie you watched?
Was it a book you read? Or was it when you went for a long walk? It could literally be
anything!
Whatever crossed your mind, I want you to realize that you just measured a part of
your happiness. By making an effort to think about the things that make you happy,
you are forming your own definition of happiness. This is an extremely powerful step
in the process of becoming happier.
How to practice this kind of self-awareness is explained throughout the rest of this
article.