QUESTION: In light of your personal understanding of communication

skills, explain your parents ways of communication.

Communication is sending information from one person to another. Communication can be

verbal, one person talking to another, or it can be non-verbal, a scowl on other persons face
that will let you know he is angry or what. Communication can be positive or negative, effective
or ineffective.
It is very important for the parents to be able to communicate openly and effectively with their
children. Open effective communication benefits not only the children, but every member of
the family. Relationships are greatly improved when there is effective communication.
Children learn how to communicate by watching their parents. Children begin to form ideas and
beliefs about themselves based on how their parents communicate. Children then begin to feel
that they are heard and understood which a boost to self-esteem is. On the other hand
communication can be negative which can lead children to believe that they are unimportant,
unheard or misunderstood.
Every person in this world is itself an isolated entity roaming across and spending the time he is
left with. Reflecting back my life is the best way to see the old ‘me’ how the time has changed
me or not, is a worth comparison. In the end it is all about exposure.
12 years of high school and 2 years of college has exposed to a variety of environment where I
saw a lot of people with different background, culture and accent.
Beginning from a local typical household means absolutely no education on to communicate or
how to express your feelings. However, I was able to learn some from my parents. My father, a
high school teacher, has been a low tempered man with nice and polite communication skills.
My father has less expressive style and high assertive style communication skills. My father is
quiet and calm nature man. My father is solely a working man whose environment is basically
composed of all decent, polite, civilized and educated people who in turn has modified his
approach towards communication skills.
My mother, on the other hand, has high expressive and high assertive style communication
skills. She is a head strong lady with less effective communication skills. The major reason is
that she never went to college or university and she never experienced a friendly social life.
Because of this she sometimes starts nagging which irritates us the most.
Learning from my background was hectic. In my opinion environment plays an important role in
ones communication skills. Environment specifically means people around you, the company
you keep.
My mother usually had a cold, biting attitude towards us yet my father is mostly a silent man.
My mother is headstrong because she is highly organized working lady and a house wife who
has a exposure to a lot of people and that is what determine her attitude when it comes to
communication.
Then comes the point where you determine the attitude of both of them towards new
challenges. The art of decision making, the attribute which determines how strong willed you
are. My mother always make decisions and abide by them. On the other hand, my father is
usually double minded who alters his own decisions with every coming day.
Conclusion: The effects of these on my mind was huge. Two extremely opposite entities having
a huge contrast taught me all in this household. The world in my house and the world outside
are two very different worlds I must say.
 BRAINSTORMING
Engage in perspective
PROVIDES a positive taking
Communicate at your
environment
children level

Learning
Schedule family positive
meetings PARENTS behavior
Positive
decision
COMMUNICATION making

Properly
Creative ways to solve
express
problems
your ideas
Use “I” messages

Parents experience is good

Eliminate distractions
for children wellbeing
Active listening,
respectful speaking

Problem solving Communicate at your Be willing to

approach children level forgive

Understand and respect Use your children positive

your children decisions energy in his character
building
 CONCENTRATION

1. Effective communication skills

2. Positive and negative effects in surrounding

3. Parents filter and their communication skills

If the communication between the parents and children are good, their relationships are
good as well.
 ORGANIZATION

INTRODUCTION:
WHAT IS COMMUNICATION?

WHY EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION IS NEEDED?

PROS AND CONS OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.

BODY:
PARENTS FILTER

COMMUNICATION BETWEEN THEM

PARENTS COMMUNICATION WITH THEIR CHILDREN

FAMILY ENVIRONMENT

CONCLUSION:
NUTS AND BOLTS IN COMMUNICATION

THEIR EFFECTS ON MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH

REASONS.
 Drafting/ Editing
Communication is sending information from one person to another. Communication can be
verbal, one person talking to another, or it can be non-verbel, a scowl on other persons face
that will let you know he is angry or what. Communication can be positive or negative, effective
or ineffective.
It is very important for the parents to be able to communicate openly and effectively with their
children. Open effective communication benefits not only the children, but every member of
the family. Relationships are greatly improved when there is effective communication.
Children learn how to communicate by watching their parents. Childrens begin to form ideas
and beliefs about themselves based on how their parents communicate. Children then begin to
feel that they are heard and understood which a boost to self-esteem is. On the other hand
communication can be negative which can lead children to believe that they are unimportant,
unheafghrd or misunderstood.
Every person in this world is itself an isolated entity roagming across and spengding the time he
is lsdeft with. Reflecting back my life is the best way to see the old ‘me’ how the time has
changed me or not, is a worth compafsfrison. In the end it is all about exposure.
12 years of high school 2 years of college has exposed to a variety of environment where I saw a
lot of people with different backgfground, culture and accent.
Belonging from a locghal typical household means absolutely no education on to communicate
or how to express your feelings. Howesver, I was able to learn some from my parents. My
father, a high school teacher, has been a low-tempered man with nicce and polite
communication skills. My fatfsher has less expressive style and high assertive style
communication skills. My father is quiet and casldm nature man. My father is solely a working
man whose environment is basically compfgosed of all decent, polite, civilized and educated
people who in turn has modified his approach towards communication skills.
My mother, on the other hand, has high expressive and high assertive style communication
skills. She is a head strong lady less effective comcmunication skills. The major reason is that
she never went to college or universxity and she nevecvr experienced a friendly social life.
Because of this she somczfetimes starts nagging which irritates us the most.
Learfning from my background was hectic. In my opinion environment plays an important role
in ones communication skills. Environment specifically means people around you, the company
keep.
My mother usually had a cold, biting attitude towards us yet my father is mostly a silent man.
My mother is headstrong because she is highly organized working lady and a house wife who
has a exdfposure to a losadt of peopsle ansd that is what determine her attitude when it comes
to communsdication.
Then comes the psfoint wshere you determine the attitude of both of them towards new
challenges. The art of decisison making, the attribute which determines how strong willed you
are. My mother always make decisions and abside by them. On the osther hand, my fathser is
usually double mindsed who alters his own sdecisionss with every coming dsay.
The effects of these on my mind was huge. Two extremely opposite entities having a huge
contradtg taught me all in this household. The world in my house and the world outside are two
very different worlds I must say.