Thou shall discern the logistics and social dynamics of the interaction

Otherwise your interactions will not go anywhere and she will go home with an inferior man or go
home alone.

Understand the matrix of your prospect girls’ social situation- makes for effective and efficient use of
your time

No matter how much she likes you, she might have to choose other options than to go home with
you like going with her friends. Her decision is based on: her current emotional state, if her life
would be better or worse after having sex with you (peer goup shaming), weighing up the other men
she met that night versus being with you, the benefit of getting more sleep, maybe she has a selfish
+ jealous friend who wants all her attention.

Ultimately, she will do whatever she thinks to be the most short term fun and the most valuable
decision to her life.

Application: Within the first 2-5 minutes, find out: where she is from, who she is with, how does
she know them, where she is staying tonight, what are you doing in the morning. Use this to figure
out if the interaction is worth continuing or if you should move to a better logistical opportunity. Mix
these in with statements and space them out so its not too overwhelming, also state your own
logistics.

After you get the fundamentals down, all you will think about is screening for logistics and dealing
with her peer group.

Help everyone accomplish their goals for the night. The girl wants to meet a cool guy and have
kinky adventurous fun.

Exercises: ask the logistical q’s within 5 minutes for every woman you speak to. where she is from,
who she is with, how does she know them, where she is staying tonight, what are you doing in the
morning

Books: the evolution of desire by david buss, emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman, the prince
my niccolo machiavelli

Seans notes

Logistics gets you taking girls home consistently

If the girl has shit logistics, go find another one

Befriend the friends including the girl leader of her group. Engage with her friends about 25% of the
time you are engaging with your girl, don’t hit on them though obviously. Also be a tiny bit less
polarizing with the friends.

The friend came out to have fun too, befriend them and then when you can just talk to the friend
and say I really like your friend and I wanna hang out with her just alone. Well be safe, fun etc. Or,
find a guy for her friend, a random guy, or a wingman of yours. Or just take her away from the
friends completely. Or tell the girl to tell her friends she likes you and wants to go home with you.
Side note- why women cant take as much social pressure- they are smaller than men

Know where you are going to fuck her. Begin with the end in mind.

Problem: she lose her phone. Solution: make sure she doesn’t lose it

Problem : shes tired. Solution: give her caffeine, food

Problem: heels/sore feet. Solution: carry her

Build your problem solving muscle

While you should be polarizing and go your own way, be aware of their emotions and circumstances

Understand when you can follow and break social rules

To build social intelligence: ask yourself what is this persons subjective world view. What are their
desires and what do they value. What actions do I take to reach my desired goal with this person?
How does this person operate? Consider these things while being detached from social conditioning
and not looking to others to make decisions for you or to give you a sense of certainty. Don’t get
bogged down with this, it will become automatic overtime. Think about these things not in the club,
but practise them throughout day to day life (talking to colleagues, clerk, uber driver etc.)

Frames to help you understand social dynamics: 1. You can never eliminate bias or peoples
psychological tendencies. Use their bias in your favour – smile, eye contact, compliment. Be aware
of people’s emotions. 2. Don’t get in the way of selfish interests. 3. Everyone responds to positive
emotions and everyone responds to status and value.

Emotions- fun, relaxed,

Value and status- leading, problem solving, certainty, authenticity,

Books: social intelligence by Daniel golman, the light switch by marlin carmens and jack chafer

Exercise: for 21 days, try and make every person you meet feel positive emotions.

Travis

The tougher the playground, the stronger you get inside. Club is the best training ground.

Logistics is harder in daygame

For the first year, always go night club.

Cover charge is good.

The confident ppl in the night club are often too dumb to know they are incompetent.

If you talk to 20 women in a night, there will usually be one woman that hates you, and one woman
that will be very keen to fuck and date you.

The perfect girl doesn’t exist.

Where are you from, who are you here with, what are you doing later on, where are you staying,
what are you doing in the morning
Screen super hard and assertively. Your not supposed to get with every 9, only get with the ones you
have chemistry with.

Screening makes you more attractive because it shows you have standards.

After the night, For each set, write down:

1. What happened
2. What did I do well
3. What was the one moment I lost the interaction or violated one of the commandments.
4. What will I do next time in that moment