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No review of the topic of swinging has been done in the last 20 years. This review
is intended to update the literature. Studies estim ating the incidence of swinging,
the demograph ic and person ality characteristics of swin gers, along with h ow
swingers are perceived by nonswingers are reviewed. Numerous theories explaining
this behavior have been presented with a social psychological m odel being the
prim ary focus here. Major reasons for getting involved in swinging, initiation into
the lifestyle, effects on marriage, and dropping out of swinging are also covered.
Finally, the literature dealing with some of the major problem s with swinging,
focusing on AIDS, are also discussed, along with the current state of swinging
and suggestions for future research.
KEY WORDS: swinging; comarital sex; mate swapping.
INTRODUCTION
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tions, have faile d to use control groups. Table I lists the various studie s
conducte d in this area along with information relevant to sample size and
nature of the sample .
With the se proble ms in mind, what has bee n found re levant to the
size of the swinging population? Bartell (1971) place d the figure at 1% of
marrie d couple s, whe reas Cole and Spaniard (1974) conducte d a surve y in
a Midwe stern colle ge community and found that 1.7% had participate d in
swinging at least once . In a nationwide survey Hunt (1974) found that 2%
of the male s and le ss than 2% of the females admitte d to having eve r
swung, with a large proportion having engage d in it only once. It appe ars,
the n, that the incide nce of swinging among married couple s in the U.S. is
fairly low, around 2% . It must be e mphasize d, however, that these estimates
are date d; no curre nt estimates e xist.
CHARACTERISTICS OF SWINGERS
Much intere st has bee n shown in the characte ristics of swinge rs. For-
tunate ly, a numbe r of studie s have be en conducte d on this topic and the
results have bee n consiste nt.
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The majority of swinge rs fall into the middle and uppe r middle classe s.
Studie s have found swinge rs to be above ave rage in education (Gilmartin,
1975; Jenks, 1985b; Le vitt, 1988) and income (Jenks, 1985b; Le vitt, 1988)
and to be in profe ssional and manage ment positions (Jenks, 1985b; Le vitt,
1988) .
Studie s (e.g., Bartell, 1970; Jenks, 1985b) also reve al that the majority
(ove r 90% ) of swinge rs are White . Anothe r demographic characte ristic that
has bee n studie d is age . Nearly two thirds in the Jenks (1985b) study of
342 swinge rs drawn from atte nde es at a national swinge rs conve ntion and
reade rs of a national swinge rs magazine were betwee n 28 and 45; the mean
age was almost 39 ye ars. The mean age in the Le vitt study was 40.7 and,
in the Bartell study the y cluste re d in the 28¯34 age group.
Politically swinge rs are moderate to conservative and ide ntify with the
Republican party. While 50% vote d for Ronald Reagan in 1980 only 23.7%
vote d for Carte r (Jenks, 1986) . Bartell (1970) also reporte d many Repub-
licans in his sample of Midwe stern and Southwe stern swinge rs. There is
strong evide nce (Flanigan and Zingale , 1991) that highe r income , highe r
educate d, people vote Republican. As we have see n, swinge rs have above
ave rage income s and e ducations. Thus, the swinge rs may be voting the ir
class interests.
The ir political philosophie s are also in accordance with social class.
Whe n asked to labe l the mselves the plurality of swinge rs said “ moderate ”
(41% ), followe d by “ conse rvative ” (32% ), then “ libe ral ” (27% ) (Jenks,
1985a) .
O ne are a, howeve r, where swinge rs do se em to be libe ral is the are a
of se xuality. In a study of over 400 swinge rs (Jenks, 1985a) it was found
that the swinge rs were significantly more libe ral than a control group of
nonswinge rs on items dealing with are as such as divorce , pre marital se x,
pornography, homose xuality, and abortion.
Barte ll reporte d that the majority of his sample did not atte nd church
regularly. Fully two thirds of the responde nts in the Jenks ’ (1985b) study
had no prese nt religious ide ntification. This finding also is consiste nt with
othe r studie s. Gilmartin ’s (1975) figure for the swinge rs was 63% . When
aske d if the y had be en raised in a re ligious home ove r 68% said yes. Al-
though a little over 70% said the y did not currently atte nd church se rvices
in a typical month, the most fre quent response conce rning church atten-
dance when growing up was every wee k. Thus, swinge rs were raised in re-
ligious home but, some whe re along the path to adulthood, a majority gave
up the ir re ligion. This contrasts with the American population in general.
For example , 92% of Americans claim a religious prefere nce (Gallup and
Castelli, 1989) and only 4% can be see n as “ totally nonre ligious ” (Be zilla,
1993) .
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PERCEPTIONS OF SWINGERS
PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS
What about the personality make up of swinge rs? Are they more (less)
authoritarian or alie nate d than nonswinge rs? What are the ir value s?
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INITIATION
THEORY
A numbe r of the orie s have bee n deve lope d to explain swinging. The se
the orie s emphasize social variable s like middle class marginality (Walshok,
1971) , autonomy from one ’s family and the othe r institutions in our socie ty
(Gilmartin, 1974) , economic prope rty (Palson and Palson, 1972) , and male
socialization emphasizing sex (Bartell, 1970) .
The most recent theory argue s (Jenks, 1985c) that the se mode ls fail
to tell us why all marginal people , autonomous people , e tc., do not e ngage
in swinging. Base d on his finding s, along with a mode l pre se nte d by
Ste phe nson (1973) , Jenks deve lope d a social psychological model of swing-
ing (Table III).
The first step involve s e ithe r an inte rest in, or e arly involve ment in,
sex. Not eve ryone is inte reste d e nough to become a swinge r. As Stinne t
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and Birdsong (1978) have pointe d out, swinging require s a great amount
of time and energy. It se ems logical, therefore , that a person have this
strong interest in se x.
O n the othe r hand, the behavior, rathe r than the attitude , may be im-
portant. The basis of many theories (e .g., self-pe rception theory) is that a
person, who may not have give n much thought to some thing, or not have
a well-de ve lope d attitude , may e ngage in a be havior and then his or her
attitude change s or develops to match the be havior (Bem, 1972) . Gilmartin
(1974) argue d that this early involve ment in sex is crucial in paving the
way for an intere st in sexual participation and the swinging life -style .
Premarital involve ment, for e xample , give s the pe rson the e xpe rie nce
of participating in “ de viant ” sexual activitie s. Although significant percent-
age s of male s and females engage in pre marital sexual re lations today (All-
ge ier and Allge ie r, 1995) it is still “ officially ” conde mne d. And, for people
who gre w up in the 1940s or 1950s, pre marital se x was certainly interpreted
as going against the pre vailing norms (Bryant, 1982) . Having participate d
in a certain kind of activity more than like ly will increase the probability
of engaging in future , similar, type s of activitie s (Ajzen and Madde n, 1986) .
In othe r words, give n two individuals, one of whom has had extramarital
involve ment and one who has not, it might be expe cted that the forme r
would be more like ly to do it again. Gilmartin (1975) reporte d that, in his
sample of 100 swinging couple s, they starte d to date e arlie r, date d more
often, and were much more like ly to have had se xual intercourse e arlie r
than a control group of nonswinging couple s.
An active intere st or involve ment, however, is not enough; only certain
type s of individuals are susce ptible to swinging. Two personality charac-
te ristics are important here : a libe ral sexual pre disposition and a low degre e
of jealousy.
As indicate d above , swinge rs tende d to be politically mode rate and
conse rvative but more libe ral when we conside r various issues relating to
se xuality. In addition, Jenks (1985c) found that his sample of swinge rs
score d significantly lowe r on jealousy than did a control group.
At this point Jenks states that a mode l propose d by Stephe nson (1973)
become s re le vant. In this mode l the person first be come s involve d in a
passive phase . Here , the individual finds out about swinging and doe s some
thinking and talking about it. Next, come s the active phase . Here, contact
may be made with swinge rs. Finally, the commitme nt stage e ncompasse s
an actual involve ment in, and acce ptance of, swinging. The new swinge r
also be comes socialize d into the subculture , le arning the language , a ra-
tional for swinging, etc.
This pe rspective , a process model, he lps us to unde rstand why, within
certain groups of people (middle class, e tc.), particular individuals may be-
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come involve d. Finally, the mode l is argue d to pe rtain to longte rm, suc-
cessful swinging. If only some of these factors are prese nt, the individual
may only try swinging for a while and the n drop out of the scene.
Seve ral major proble ms have be en note d in the re se arch. Six of the
more common one s are discusse d.
plurality indicate d that the pe rson was gay. It is possible that the se factors
combine d to create no more than a moderate fe ar of contracting the disease.
This involve s finding the right kind of pe ople with whom to swing.
Many people indicate d that it was difficult finding anothe r attractive couple
or anothe r couple with whom the y had some mutual intere sts (Jenks, 1986) .
Jealou sy
An xiety
Tim e Factor s
Swinging often comes to dominate the person’s life (Stinne tt and Bird-
song, 1978) .
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What effe ct, if any, doe s swinging have on the swinge r’s marriage ?
Contrary to what many might be lie ve, positive e ffects have ofte n bee n
found. Gilmartin (1974, 1975) , for e xample , found that approximate ly 85%
of his sample of swinge rs felt that swinging posed no re al threat to the ir
marriage . In fact, the majority fe lt that their marriage had improve d.
Varni (1974) inte rvie wed 16 couple s who were active ly involve d in
swinging and found that half believed that swinging le d to an incre ased
feeling of warmth, close ne ss, and love betwee n the husband and wife . This
fe e ling was re porte d to be stronge st afte r swinging with some one else.
Le vitt (1988) found that almost thre e fourths indicate d that swinging had
a positive influe nce on their marriage ; only 6.2% indicate d a ne gative im-
pact. Similar re sults have bee n found by Barte ll (1971) , Smith and Smith
(1970) , and Palson and Palson (1972) .
Finally, Jenks (1986) found no re ason to believe that swinging was
particularly de trime ntal to marriage . Ove r 91% of the males and 82% of
the females indicate d that they were happy with swinging. Less than 1%
of fe male s were disple ased with swinging; no males e xpre ssed any unhap-
pine ss. And, whe n an analysis was done comparing their pe rception of the ir
re lations, both se xual and nonse xual, be fore and afte r swinging, it was
found that the majority e xpre ssed e ithe r no change or an improve ment.
It should be pointe d out that these studie s have asked the ir perceptions
of how swinging has affected the ir marriage s. Perceptions, of course , can
be quite differe nt than reality. Howe ver, Stucke rt (1963) has argue d that
perceptions, rathe r than actual behavior, are more important in determin-
ing marital happine ss and satisfaction.
While the research doe s point to the conclusion that swinging does
not affect the majority of marriage s in a negative way, the re are no doubt
couple s whose marriage s are negative ly e ffected. Levitt’s (1988) study found
that almost 17% fe lt that swinging had a ne gative impact upon the mar-
riage . Unfortunate ly, no study e xists analyzing factors that might have a
negative impact on the marriage . A study by Denfeld (1974) , howe ve r, did
look at married swinge rs who had droppe d out of the life-style . From this
we can get an ide a of some variable s that might play a role in decreasing
the fe asibility of swinging for couple s.
CONCLUSION
ers and a discussion of swinging and the law. My impression is that, while
the re search on swinging has de creased, the incide nce has not. The way to
determine this would be to conduct a current study.
In addition to the que stion of incide nce it would see m fruitful to con-
duct a longitudinal study of swinge rs to discove r the factors relate d to the ir
continuing to swing ove r a period of time , what factors influe nce those
who drop out, and how long a couple stays in swinging.
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