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There are many reasons why a person may have a social skills deficit. It could occur because
of a lack of knowledge, such as the inability to acquire new skills, or because of a competency deficit.
Sometimes, the person may know how to perform the social skill, but they may struggle to perform
because of limited practice or inadequate feedback. There may also be internal or external factors
that interfere with the person performing the social skill, such as anxiety or chaotic surroundings.
Here are five common types of social skills deficits.
3. Interpersonal Skills
Interpersonal skills include the abilities of sharing, joining activities, asking for permission and waiting
turns. Those who have a social skill deficit may struggle with asking accurate and concise questions.
Being unable to ask a simple question creates barriers to obtaining information and initiating a
conversation. Those who struggle to ask questions will appear disinterested and even anti-social.
Those with poor social skills may prefer to ask closed questions because these elicit brief and
controlled responses. For adults with limited social skills, they may struggle to understand proper
manners in different social contexts and settings.
4. Problem Solving Skills
Problem solving involves asking for help, apologizing to others, deciding what to do and accepting
consequences. Some people may struggle to identify the root causes of problems, so they can’t fully
understood potential solutions or strategies. Those who struggle with solving problems may be
morbidly shy or clinically introverted. They may prefer to avoid problems because it makes them feel
uncomfortable. Those who struggle with solving problems will most likely have poor conflict resolution
skills. Some children struggle to appropriately deal with teasing, while some adults have difficulties
dealing with losing to competition.
5. Accountability
Some people are petrified of being criticized in public. They may struggle with accepting blame for
problems or dealing with constructive feedback. Some people naturally associate accountability with
reliability and maturity. Someone who promises to do something and then fails to do it may have a
legitimate excuse, but their overt lack of accountability may indicate that they are unreliable and
immature. Accountability is also an essential part of conflict management because recognizing
mistakes are an excellent way to indicate a conciliatory and cooperative attitude.
Those who want to improve their social skills should focus on imitating desirable attitudes and
eliminating undesirable behaviors. They can use modeling, role-playing and performance feedback to
improve their specific social skills deficit.