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2020
Of course it’s intended as a joke, meaning that most British people are not straightforward, open
and passionate like Americans, Italians or other cultures can be when expressing their feelings. It’s
quite rare to see Brits showing their true emotions as they tend to put on a brave face in each and
every situation.
The British are not straightforward. All on the contrary, they are the kings of understatement.
“People on the Continent either tell you the truth or lie. In England they hardly ever
lie, but they would not dream of telling you the truth. ” -George Mikes-
Try to bump into people on the Tube to see what happens – almost invariably they will apologise.
Try to jump the queue, they won’t say a word. Try to ask somebody experiencing something
negative how they are: they will reply they are OK instead of admitting things are catastrophic.
Most Brits will not complain about someone to their face, because they expect the person to pick
up on subtle clues and don’t want to have an outright confrontation about it.
“You must never complain. Complaining is very un-English. The stiff-upper lip is the
British way. Whatever happens, remember the new national slogan: ‘It’s one of
those things’. When your brand-new toasting machine goes up in flames and toasts
you instead of your bread, you nod: ‘It’s one of those things’ and the matter is
closed… ” – George Mikes –
Understatement is a way of life in Great Britain. It also means the British tend to be subtle and
sarcastic when insulting people so you may not have the feeling you’re being insulted.
That said, if you really get to know a Brit, they, like anybody else, can be very direct and even
crude.
“Isn’t it beautiful?”
“The sun…”
“Isn’t it gorgeous?”
George Mikes in his humorous commentaries maintained that in England, if you don’t repeat
“Lovely day” at least 200 times a day, you are considered a bit dull. You should never contradict
anybody when discussing the weather. Should it hail and snow, and should someone remark to
you: “Nice day, isn’t it?” Answer without hesitation: “Isn’t it lovely?”.
Oscar Wilde famously condemned it as the “last refuge of the unimaginative” but research shows
that six in 10 Britons use talking about the weather as a social prop.
The conversation turns to their climate at least once every six hours. Some deem the topic of such
interest that they use it as an icebreaker.
A cup of tea early in the morning is a good day starter. Then you have tea for breakfast, at 11am,
after lunch. Then you have tea for tea and after tea.
A cup of tea before going to bed is a must.
A minority claims to prefer coffee, but most British do love their cup of tea (or 15) a day. Always
with milk. Better if accompanied with scones.
Never refuse any additional cups of tea under the following circumstances:
If it’s hot, if it’s cold, if it’s warm, if it’s sunny, if it’s a rainy day. If you are tired, if you are
nervous, if you are gay, if you are not gay; if you feel like it, if you don’t feel like it; before you go
out, if you are out; if you visit your parents; if you visit your mother-in-law. If you have had no
tea for some hours; if you have just had a cup.
“In shops, the English stand in queues. In government offices, they sit in
queues. In churches, they kneel in queues. At sales time, they lie in queues all
night in Oxford Street.” -George Mikes-
The native British love order and discipline and queuing is a tradition and trademark of British
civilisation. And it’s a totally infectious habit: so much so that if you come from cultures where
queuing is not common practice and you are suddenly catapulted into the British Kingdom of order
and politeness, you’ll quickly feel out of place if you don’t join in.
Let’s say that if you try to jump that orderly queue or somehow disrupt it, you’ll immediately stand
out as an outsider, even if no direct remarks will be addressed to you.
No matter how often you, the oblivious foreign visitor, keep standing on the fast left lane of the
escalator, blocking the passage of rushing passengers, the typical Brit will usually be too polite to
tell you, and may only hiss a simple “Excuse Me” instead of addressing you directly; even if, with
your behaviour, you are unwittingly causing them the major drawback of risking to miss their train,
a major appointment and to be late in their schedule.
WARNING: NEVER JUMP A QUEUE.
If you jump a queue, they will know you are not British, and this is enough to settle things but
mind you: queue-jumping is not appreciated at all.
“If the death penalty is ever to be restored in Britain, it will not be for murder,
but for queue jumping, the most heinous of all crimes.” –George Mikes-
Half a century later, nothing seems to have changed that much. Even if this is not a rule, and things
have progressed, the average Briton will still declare that there is no use in learning a second
language. I found most of the British may know some basic Spanish or French but will hardly use it,
not even on holiday.
However, Brits who speak a foreign language well do exist nowadays. They mainly live in another
country where English is not spoken.
terms of dental health, what really matters is decay. On that measure, Britain does better than
many other countries around the world – including the United States.
10. Everyone in Britain Has A Plummy Accent And Talks Like The Queen
There are hundreds of distinctive regional accents across the UK and Standard English is itself a
synthetic language amalgamated from elements of regional languages. However, here’s a tip to
acquire a good accent:
“The easiest way to give the impression of having a good accent, or no foreign
accent at all, is to hold an unlit pipe in your mouth, to mutter between your
teeth and finish all your sentences with the question: “…isn’t it?”. People will not
understand much but they are accustomed to that and they will get an
excellent impression...”- George Mikes –
For the rest of the country, we’ll come back to it… also because we still don’t know if the United
Kingdom will need to update its name to something more “appropriate” to its current status...
However, isn’t it funny that the areas which voted out because of immigration, were also the
least affected?
Since George Mikes wrote that, 50 years ago, food has improved, table manners have deteriorated.
British food is generally bland, it’s true. Supermarkets do not usually offer the variety of healthy
and cheap food you may find in Southern Europe. British cooking is generally quite unimaginative,
somewhat unhealthy and a bit predictable. The British tend to consume loads of junk food as well.
Having said that, international restaurants are available on every corner, especially in London.
They are so traditional that they want to be themselves not matter what others think. They want
to keep the pound, the miles, the inches and the feet.
They want to have the Queen riding in old carriages and MPs shouting at each other in the House
of Commons instead of clapping.
They love having lawyers and Judges with wigs.
And presenting the budget in a 500 years old suitcases.
They love using taxis as if they were on 1940s and keeping phone boxes as they first were built.
So they are sceptic about anything foreign (expect countries of the Commonwealth, seen as ex
Empire).
And of course, a 52% doesn’t feel European at all and they may regard the EU as a terrible scary
foreign monster, even if they don’t know what it actually is…But it’s beyond British Borders, so it’s
not good.
Google Trend showed that, after the referendum, the most searched keywords in the UK was
“WHAT IS THE EU”.
“On the Continent stray cats are judged individually on their merits: some are
loved, some are only respected. In England they are universally worshipped as
in ancient Egypt.” -George Mikes-
Decide if the statements are mostly “true” or “false”, according to the author’s opinion. Explain
why they are partly correct and why they are stereotypes.