Name : Mohammad Simar Kurniawan

Nim : 41621010014
Major : Industrial Engineering
Divison : Speech

Just be brave cause everything is gonne be ok

“Don’t ever be afraid to show who you really are, because as long as you are happy with
your self no one else’s opinion matters”
Assalammualaikum Wr.Wb
The Honourable Judges. And all my beloved Brother and Sister. Let me introduce my
self my name is Mohammad Simar Kurniawan from Industrial Engineering class of 2025, Here
i would like to deliver my speech talking about feeling shy to talk to other and how to
overcome it.
Almost everyone feels uncomortable in situations from time to time. in fact, feelings
of shynes is perfectly normal. However, some people experience shynees at a level that
disturb them, or that gets in the way o their day-to-day lives. If you worry excessivelyn about
what other think of you, or if you experience high level of shynees in situations such as
conversations,dating, making small talk, talking on the phone, being assertive, or meeting
new people. That’s one of problem that we have to solve it. Syhnees is also associated with a
tendency to be introverted that is shy individuals tend to be more inwardly focused and more
socially withdrawn, compared to people who are more extroverted, or outgoing.
Most of time, the only consequence of feeling shyness is the temporary discomfort
that the individual exeperiences in the situation. In many case, shynees is noticeable to other
people, and the symptoms don’t interfere with the individual’s functioning. If other people
do not notice the individual’s shyness, their response is usually not harsh. In fact, small
amount of sshyness may be seen as positive attributes. Shyness may sometimes be seen as
a sign of being modset or as one of the down-earth traits often viewed as refreshing and
desirable. In fact, not being shyness enough can be problem for some individuals. We all know
people who we wish were more connected about what others think about them. for most of
us, a little bit of synees is useful traits to have, if you were never connected about being
judged by others, you would probably do things that would get you into trouble. You would
always say exactly what’s on your mind, without considering the effects on other. Shynees
become a problem when it happens too frequently and too intensely, such much that person
is distressed by the level of shyness, has difficultry functioning, and is unable to achieve
important lie goals
I’m sure that every human in this world have a feelings shyness to talk to other. Cause
shynees is someting normal. shyness strikes people when they think that they might do
something that will be humiliating or embarrassing. shynees makes you think that other
people are judging you, and doing so in a negative way, because of something you said or did.
Of course, the fear that you will do something humiliating or embarrassing is inhibiting, and
it also makes you self-aware conscious of the possibility that you might indeed do such a thing.
shynees people tend to assume that their interactions with others will be painfully revealing
that others will notice their weaknesses or awkwardness that they will be dismissed, ignored,
criticized or rejected for not behaving more acceptably. Shyness refers to the tendency to feel
nervous or timid when interecting with other people, espicially strangers. Talking or engaging
with people outside of your normal social circle can be frightening and might find yuorself
avoiding these situations as much as possible. So, while shyness only involves hear of engaging
with others, shyness is about fear and nervousness around interacting with others, being
observed by other and speak up in front of others.
Shyness people fear these type of situations because of what they believe might
happen. Their shyness about what might happen normally falls into one or more. in between
the first is fear of saying or doing something embarrasing (such as stumblingover their words,
second is hear of displaying symptoms of their anxiety (like quivering voice, shaking and
blushing), and the last is fear to being judged critically by others (seens as boring, stupid and
unattractive.)
So, once you have begun the journey of transforming your shyness into strength, and
you gain confidence in yourself around other people, you will experience a new
phenomenon. By embracing your shyness as a part of who you are (and not the entirety), you
will be better able to allow other parts of yourself to emerge. But in my mind you should
become confidence persons first, confidence is belief somoone will have the ability to display
behavior certain goals or to achieve certain targets. In other words, sel-confidence is how we
eel about ourselves, adn our behavior will relect without us realizing it. Self-cofidence is not
a talent (innate), but a quality mental, mean’s that sel-confdence is the result of the education
or empowerment prcocess. When people feels inferior, he will have difficulty communicating
their idea to others, and avoid speaking in public, out of the fear others blame them. Shyness
in social interaction more often becauseof the negative thoughts in the individual. Individual
feel that other people cannot accept themselves because o the difference they have, such as
difference in social status, status economi and education level. For an old habit to change,
there must first be the recognition that it is something that is not only no longer serving you,
but is actually deterring you from the type of life and connection to others you long for. As
with any habit, once you have made the commitment to change, you must call upon your will
power to assist you in manifesting this transformation. Negative thinking about oneself is not
easy to ignore. These self-defeating thoughts have the power of years invested in them. And
you may find replacing the negative with the positive a daunting task. But the more you
practice this, the easier it will be to “talk back” to self defeating thoughts. Perhaps that’s all
for me, i’m so sorry if i have any mistake, thanks you or your attention, Hopefully is useful to
many people.
Wassalammualaikum wr.wb