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have to succeed in mastering your emotions, body, relationships, belief and finance,
in other words your whole life, which is what Anthony Robbins puts forward: capture
your dreams.
of a big American city. His sink was also his dish-washer and washing-machine. He
was carrying a good 10 kilos too many and didn’t’ have a dime to his name. One day,
he had enough. And he decided to change things. From the moment the decision was
taken, Tony put his best foot forward to attain his dreams. Today, Anthony Robbins is
books, cassettes, training and seminars, he has changed the lives of millions: the
He is also married and the happy father of four children, and lives in a luxurious
villa. His book “Awaken The Giant Within” is the result of over 20 years’ of research
analysing the difference between those who succeed and those stay at the bottom of
the pile. The point of this book? To help you reach your dreams! It’s
therefore a very rich book, full of historical anecdotes,divided into four sections.
The first, “Understanding your power”, takes you on a trip of self-discovery. Because
your success is within you. The second, “Taking control: the master plan”talks of
specific keys, like how do you think? The third, “7 days to remodel your life”, provides
7 principals to apply to your everyday life. And finally, Tony talks about one’s destiny.
In “Awaken The Giant Within”he will take you deep into the world of personal
vocabulary, how do your values and rules determine your happiness? You will obtain
and shows you what determines your success. Or your failure.We find out that all
dreams of change. And to find out how to effect real changes, long lasting changes, he
sought out all the key elements of successful people, that has achieved these changes.
This research showed him the commonalities shared by all successful people; success
2. Change those belief that limit you: Belief are “orders” that come from your
subconscious. They influence each of your actions. If you want to reach
3. Modify your strategy: The most important thing is to persevere, but if you
want to reach your goals, you must adopt the best and most appropriate
strategies. But you can also change them on the fly! If something isn’t
Three steps to reach your goal is all very well but you will need to acquire certain
qualities. And to obtain those, Anthony Robbins proposes he becomes your personal
trainer via this book. He plans to get you to master 5 aspects of life:
1. Master your emotions,
2. Your body,
3. Your relationships,
4. The money,
Awaken The Giant Within is intended as a step guide, a manual designed to increase
your quality of life and the satisfaction you can get from it.
You’ve understood it. Tony doesn’t do things by halves. He intends to get the best
possible results, even without being physically present. But, it depends entirely
upon you.
determines your future! The day a smoker stops smoking is not the day he has his
last cigarette, it is the day he decides to stop. What I want to illustrate is that this
power, the power to decide, is already within you! As Tony puts it, making a real
decision is about being determined to get a particular result and to refuse any other
possibility. Then, this power can be worked on like a muscle, and you can train it. To
They often make excellent decisions. Why? Because they spend all day making them.
But in our world, the ones with money are the managers, those who make decisions.
The rest take home the crumbs, in other words nothing. Decisions are essential to
your success and this power resides in you! So, don’t hesitate, decide.
yet. This force? Pain and pleasure. My life, your life, lives all over the world are
driven by this one force. We all seek pleasure and all seek to avoid short-term
pain. Imagine this: you have the choice of two things, the first means you avoid a bit
of short-term pleasure but will hurt you in the long term. The other means a bit of
pain in the short-term but will deliver enormous pleasure in the long-term.
What would you choose? Intellectually, there is no competition: the second offer is
surely perfect. But your brain doesn’t reason this way. It will default to the first
option. Why? Because it will do everything it can to avoid short-term pain, even if in
the long-term, it will cause even more pain. In fact we could go even further; it’s not
pleasure and pain that rules in most people, rather the idea of pleasure and the fear
certainty, which we do not question. For example, if you got bad grades in French
when you were a teenager, you could have thought,“I’m rubbish at French”, and
because we generalise, you’ve adopted it and never question this belief, even now.
This belief crushes you, to the extent that you’ve stopped working on the subject,
which only drives even worse grades.This is the power of belief. But it also works
in reverse; a conviction such as “I’m good at French” can have positive effects, you
might then work harder to get better grades, motivated by your previous results. In
this chapter, Tony puts forward beliefs that are common amongst winners and helps
it. If you have the conviction, the certainty that change can be immediate, then
How many psychiatrists do you need to change a light bulb? — only one…but it’s very
expensive, takes a lot of time and crucially, the light bulb has to want to change.
According to Tony, we need to prepare ourselves for change, and take our lives into
our own hands, unlike the light bulb! The belief I mention above isn’t enough, you
have to be aware that no one other than you can be responsible for this
long term change!Finally, you have to believe with the bottom of your heart
Conditioning, derived from PNL, that Tony created. To obtain change he used a
1. Decide what you really want and what is stopping you from obtaining it
What really matters to you? A happy marriage, your children’s respect?A new car?
Money? And why do you want all these things? Is it to change the way you feel? But to
obtain what you want, you first have to be able to consciously change your state of
mind. Emotion is created by movement and you can do it by using your body.
Some movements help you to be calm, others to have self-confidence, and others to be
motivated. The way you use your body will affect your state of mind! To change your
that you ask yourself. And the difference between a CEO and homeless person, is the
quality of their questions. This is also why people are all so different. We all ask
different questions. But, why are questions so effective? It’s precisely because they
instantly modify our perspective therefore the way we feel. Also, if you ask a question,
your brain will do everything it can to answer it. So ask good questions. For example if
you encounter a problem, rather than pity yourself, ask key, stimulating questions
like:
One day or another, you will find it. Believe me, asking this question is not easy,
especially in some situations. But, if you take the time to do it, even despite sadness, I
victories, great men have all too well understood the power of some of them, to get
people to react. By using the right words to describe experiences, we can intensify our
stimulating emotions, but if we choose badly we can destroy them. This is the power
of words.
People with limited vocabulary render their emotional life poorer; people with a rich
vocabulary have a large diversity of terms to describe their experiences — not only to
So, by simply changing the words you use every day, you can instantly
change the way you think, your feelings and your way of life. What I particularly
like about this book is that it is full of examples, exhilarating anecdotes as well as ways
to change. And here, Tony offers up a list of words you can use in your everyday life,
which will change the way you live. Here are my favourite ones to really get pumped
up!
• Passionate,
• To revel,
• Seductive,
• Ironclad,
• Spectacular,
• Dynamite,
• Unstoppable,
• Fabulous,
• Phenomenal
stories. So, what exactly is a metaphor? When you explain a concept by comparing it
to something else, it’s a metaphor. Imagine the following metaphor: You’re tired
and it feels like you’re carrying the world on your shoulders. Not a great feeling is it?
Wouldn’t the best way to rid yourself of this, be to just put the world down? Doing this
will break your train of thought. Even if this method might seem simplistic, test it out
and tell me about it. It’s up to you to take control of your metaphors!
Life is a game
That’s a metaphor that can completely change your life, especially if you think life is a
battle…
do the same thing, which goes on forever. For twenty, sometimes 30 years, if not
more. Their lives are comfortable but there is no passion. Too many people think they
have no control over their emotions. So, they allow themselves to get stuck in a
routine, one that is always much the same, so as to not have to suffer through
anything else. Tony works on the basis that there are 4 ways to reckon with your
emotions:
• Avoid them,
• Deny them,
• Exaggerate them,
On this basis, all your emotions are practical. Those that you consider to be
emotions that you feel, are a gift. But where does this gift come from? Where do these
emotions come from? They come from within you. You are the source!So,since you
are the source, you can always feel exactly the way you want to feel.
You don’t need to a particular reason to feel good; you could decide right now to feel
good, simply because you are alive, and because it’s what you want.
This coach has fine-tuned a six-step method to help you master your emotions:
2. Discover and appreciate your emotions, realise that they are there to help
you,
4. Be confident,
5. To ensure you will easily handle this emotion in the future, plan the
Thanks to this method, you’ll always benefit from these action signals in order to
progress!
It’s those dreams that will give you the energy to attain them! For Tony, no one is lazy,
it’s just goals that make some powerless. If after too short a night’s sleep you’re able to
get up, that’s because you’re really passionate about your goals! To reach them you’ll
need all your energy, which is why living your dreams is so important.
stimulate us.
It’s up to you to transform the invisible into the visible! Once you have your
target in mind, you must immediately create a plan to take the necessary steps to hit
it. To maintain this motivation, at least once a day you need to feel that you have
feelings.
evaluation, in other words the power that controls the way you think and act at every
moment.
Chapter 14: Supreme influence : your
master plan
What is a master plan? It’s 5 elements that determine how you evaluate life events.
Once you understand someone’s master plan, you’ll know their values and will
understand what motivates them.Above all, bear in mind that people are about more
than just their behaviour. Never judge someone on an isolated act. We all use a
nearly all situations.We don’t all allocate the same importance to things.
able to assess every aspect of your life, and do so in a way that will produce the results
you want. Using this kind of process isn’t always easy. Tony has put together a method
1. Your state of mind makes all the difference. Always have a positive
define your values in order to uphold them, whatever the situation is. You must
remain faithful to your values at all times, even if life doesn’t always reward you for
it. If you want to be happy, you have to live by your ideals.We often don’t
choose our own values. They are carved into us, as we move through our life story. If
you had to write down your values by order of importance, would you be able to? If
you don’t know your ideals, how do you make good decisions? In order to help you
find those ideals that suit you best, Tony provides various exercises to do, which
to happen for you to feel happy? All the reasons are the rules. But, on the other hand,
you don’t need anything in particular to feel good. You have to want it.In today’s
society, most people have a huge amount of reasons to be unhappy and very few to be
happy. As a result, they are unhappy most of the time. It’s therefore time to change
the system, and rely on rules that allow us to be happy, every time we want to! It’s up
to you to set the rules of the game,for you to be happy. A rule can provide a lot of
power, or conversely deny it. How do you know which? These 3 criteria will help you.
So, if you have this kind of rule, best to adjust it as soon as possible. Rules are really
the basis of your personality. They are often the source of conflict between people.
words everything you’ve seen, heard, tasted, felt. You can be conscious or unconscious
of these standards. These standards are used to support your beliefs but you must
constantly develop them, grow them as much as possible. People can have the same
experience, but create different beliefs from it. Because, it’s not the standard
create a limited life.If you want to enrich your life, you must extend your standards by
nurturing ideas and experiences that wouldn’t be part of your life if you didn’t seek
Personality
Every day new ones are added to your personality through people you meet, your
adventures and even by reading! Also, standards are not limited to just your
experience. Anthony Robbins cites the example of Roger Bannister the first man to
run a mile in four minutes. He developed the certainty that it was possible, using
visualisation. Just by using imagination he convinced himself it was possible, and did
it!
Unbridled imagination delivers a sense certainty far beyond the limits of
our past. If you have experienced what we commonly call “failure” don’t forget
whatever you do, do not go searching in the past using a rear-view mirror as a guide.
If you want to learn from past experience, don’t live in the past; concentrate on the
things that give you power!And you will succeed! To build up your standards to the
best they can be, do something unusual, why not take up a new language, leave home,
to share this particular with you. An American soldier was captured by Chinese
Communists. They didn’t torture him, quite the opposite, they even offered him a
cigarette. At the end of the conversation, the American soldier held a document he
had written himself, describing on the one hand the countless injustices and
destructive effects of American life — a capitalist society — and on the other the
merits of a communist system. Later on, this very same soldier would divulge military
secrets, betray his own compatriots and fervently denounce his own country. How
was it that this man completely changed his vision of the world, abandoned his beliefs
and renounced all his values in order to collaborate with the enemy? In fact, he ended
There are various types of beliefs, specific ones, general ones, and those that
determine our identity. Your abilities are a constant, but the use you make of
them depends on the meaning of your identity. Also, what others perceive
(belief) of your personality will determine the way they want to interact with
you.Even if it has nothing to do with who you really are. We therefore always behave
based on the perceptions of who we really are, whether those perceptions are correct
or not.
And we all need continuity, certainty. Most people are afraid of the unknown so
they prefer to stay as they are. Even if the consequences could be disastrous. If you
don’t know who you are, how can you make good decisions? How do you adopt
values, rules for happiness? How do you succeed? Therefore right from the start, it’s
important to adopt the belief that one can change. And develop new beliefs that define
our identity. Our behaviour will adapt as result of these new beliefs.
It’s a question that is often met with blank looks or incomplete answers. In this
chapter, you’ll learn how to create your best calling card. Imagine if you were in the
At the end of the first day, you will have taken control of your emotions, and begin to
consciously and voluntarily reshape your daily life.
There is no real success without emotional success. ~Anthony Robbins
In Awaken the Giant Within, Tony provides many tools to spend more time in a
Here is a list of different factors that you can influence in order to be more dynamic:
• Your physiology,
• Your perspective,
• Sub-conscious,
• Vocabulary,
• Metaphors,
• Neuro-associative conditioning,
• Your beliefs,
• A promising future,
• Your values,
• The rules,
• Your standards,
• Sense of identity.
At the end of day two, you will learn how to condition your metabolism and your
muscles so that they provide you with the energy and fitness you desire because your
In this chapter, Anthony Robbins shows you why and how you can be healthy and
physically fit!
3. Work out what state you’re in: Do you need to start exercising? Are
At the end of day three, you will have improved the quality of your personal
relationships and your emotional ties with those who are most dear to you.
Anthony Robbins
1. If you do not understand the values and rules of the person you are in a
2. The relationship you are in can only last if you see through it the lens of
3. For a happy relationship, you should seek out certain things and avoid
others.
6. Remind yourself every day, what it is your love about the person you are
You’ll take you financial future into your own hands on this fourth day.
2. Preserve your wealth: spend less than you earn and invest the
difference,
Anthony Robbins
This is a good question and it’s the theme for this fifth day. There are different credos
that help live an irreproachable life. Here is the credo in seven points by John
1. Be faithful to yourself,
3. Help others,
7. Every day pray to God for guidance and thank the heavens for the
blessings.
distort our perception of time. Tony explains “three tricks” he uses to save time.
Last and final day of the week. Your goal? Find balance.
You’ve worked hard to get where you are, now, have fun!
were tracking the dolphins, as they knew that schools of tuna would follow them, just
below. As soon as the dolphins got closer, the fishermen cast their nets and brought
them back in, sometimes containing a hundred dead dolphins as they couldn’t get
back to the surface to breathe. All this for what? Tuna! Then, they threw all the dead
fish back into the sea…To tackle this, a man decided to film this with a hidden camera.
He had conned himself onto the boat as a sailor and he knew he risked death if he was
An 11 minute film put an end to this barbaric activity. Thanks to this man, many big
companies stopped this massacre and many thousands of dolphins — if not more —
were saved. And this is just one of many examples. In all walks of life there are
this book you find out how to change yours, but it would be selfish to stop there. It’s
time to go beyond that and to contribute to collective decisions concerning the future
of the world. Your future, my future, our future, that of our families and the destiny of
all our children and grand-children. This is the theme of the final chapter.
The majority of problems in this world are caused by human behaviour. One can
believes that you and I and all the people we meet in our lives are capable of heroism,
and I fully believe this too.But when the time comes, will you have the
courage to be a hero and forget yourself for the benefit of those in need?
Will I have that courage too?A final word on this chapter is that our characters