Opener

Direct
Hey I know this is random, but I had to tell you you are kinda cute
I just saw you, and I knew I’d be kicking myself if I didn’t (come over and) talk to you.
Hey, you’re almost as cute as me. (What’s your name?)
Hey trouble. Hey troublemaker. Hey you look like trouble
You don’t look Miami at all.
You think it’s okay to look at me like that, so cute and mess up my plans to go to my friends.
I love the dress, it looks like it’s from the 80s.
I love your style (it’s sporty, eloquent, simple, cool)
I love the way you walk,
I love the way you smile

I love how X fits/match to Y (shoes, jeans, top, hair, trousers, pants, bracelet, necklace // color of your shoes color of your top, hair, etc.)
…how your shoes fit to your jeans…
…how your shoes fit to the color of your hair…
…how your trousers fit to the color of your top…

You have a cool style

Indirect
What are you drinking
What’s that purse/shirt/shoes/top you are wearing

Sorry I’m late. You know the uber just, anyway forget about. So how are you guys doing? (CALM as FUCK)
I’m sorr. I’m just kidding, nice to meet you.

I just think we should have a conversation before we get married.

You can’t just look at me like that and walk away.

(GET IN HER VIEW) Yeah you can take a picture of me

(HOLD EYE CONTACT & SMILE AT HER) Why you smiling at me? You smiled at me.

(EC/SMILE - WAVE HER IN) Had to say hi. Would have regretted it if I didn’t.

Can I ask you a question, real quick/1 minute?

Can I be honest?

What is up bitches?
Who of you bitches is getting married?

Throwing something to the girl, scarf/hat/ice-cube

Get off the phone now and introduce yourself to me

What are you doing? Checking your stocks?

I wanted to talk to you but I got distracted on the way

So, which of you bitches are getting married?

Follow Up
Cold Read/Just assume stuff (definitely, totally)
You look like…
I can tell…
I bet you are…
You totally are…
You definitely are…

I love the way you walk, it’s so energetic, I bet you are a person who has a clear goal in life, knows what she wants, got a little a bit of elbows
going on, that’s cool
I bet you are a very energetic person
I bet you are a very fashionable person
I can see that you are a girl who has a sweet tooth/takes her time picking her outfit
You are cute and short. I like it -> You know the hobbit? You are like my little hobbit. Let’s go on an adventure together

You guys are best friends, right. I could tell. When I asked the question you guys literally looked at each other and had the exact same look.
So, who’s the troublemaker of the group and who’s the supportive girl?
à Yeah, she definitely is. She’s kinda cute but she got that smile that spells trouble. I don’t know if I can trust that look.
So, who’s the leader of the group and the who’s the follower?

I was going to the bathroom and I thought who’s that cute blonde. We kept making making eye contact so I had to come over and see if she’s
cool.

Hey what’s up with you?

that sweater looks cozy as fuck

You look like have a PHD or some shit
I have never seen anyone look so asian and western at the same time
You totally look vegetarian
What happened there
You look like you’re kinda tired as fuck, somebody dragged you out and now you have the time of your life

That’s so cool. You look like a nurse

You totally look like you are from the countryside

You guys totally look like best friends. It’s like you have exactly the same look, the same smile
you actually even lay there similar with the same bath suite.
So who’s the troublemaker, who’s the supporter?
So who’s the leader, who’s the follower?

You got that cocky, dorky smile.

I do appreciate the unneccessary safety measures though. Wearing a mask when no one is around is always good
You look like a friend of yours just told send you a voice memo telling you about her last date and that was your reaction.
I like the dark liipstick.
I like the hat - makes you look like you’re from the countryside
I like the boots

DISQUALIFYING/SELF AMUSEMENT
Dorky white boy from europe. I think that is the last thing you guys need

I’m allowed to do that. I’m from the country side, I don’t have manners.
Someone nice -> Unlike me
I’m sober and I have a job.
I have inner values

OVERCROSSING/ZU VIEL
I’m sorry, If I crossed the line I apologize, bitch mit mademoiselle ersetzen -> Französisch

QUESTIONS FOR ME
How old are you? I’m 16. Is that a problem?
Why are you single? I’m hard to handle. I’m crazy look at me
Why are you asking? I wanna get to know you better.
What about your friend/s? Oh, he’s drunk.

QUESTIONS FOR HER

Are these your friends? Oh hey, nice to meet you.
What’s your name?
Are you from here? / Where are you from?
What are up to?
What do you do for fun?
Small town girl?
You are from Copenhagen/Sweden/Germany.
-> I love America/Sweden/Poland

What are your passions / Tell me about your passions

What is the craziest thing you have ever done
What do you do
When’s your birthday
When was the last time you had a boyfriend? (-> Why did he break up with you?)

POSITIVE EMOTIONAL SPIKES

You’ve got a cute innocent laugh.
You’ve got a cute accent.
Marry me / let’s marry
Those eyes/hair/hairstyle/top is gorgeous
You have to marry me or I’m gonna stalk you for the rest of your life
You’re so cute
You’re so funny
You look like…

NEGATIVE EMOTIONAL SPIKES

Are you a waitress?
(SMART) You go to community college?
Fuck you. Where are you from?
How’s the sixpack going
You’re a troublemaker.
I can’t do this. You’re a little too short
I can see some wrinkles
What happened to your makeup
(LOOKS DOWN) Hey, don’t check me out. I’m not a sex object. I have inner values
If you weren’t that… I would totally make out with you.
You look like, you like the bad guys. Freshly from the motorcycle, smeels like gasoline, having tattoos all over his body
I’m not sure if I can take you with me. I’m a very careful person
Only if you’re cool
Only if you promise to keep your hands off me
I wanna see if I can trust you.

NEUTRAL EMOTIONAL SPIKES

She met a cute german, young European, fresh guy, smart, not drunk, has a job, some abs, eloquent, witty adventurous, spontaneous

That’s my ex girlfriend by the way, that’s my dad say hi

Something happened à It made me FEEL free/loved/understood/excited/happy/passionate/energetic

è I understand. I love. I know, I can sense it I can see it
Most important bullet points
- VERBAL
- Start talking to people
- LET’S do this or that/ DON’T Ask
- After emotional spike (any PUA thing) -> Change the topic IMMEDIATELY
- Don’t apologize
- Talk about your feelings (I understand. I love. I know, I can sense it I can see it)
- Ask for her name // Remember her name // Call her by her name
- She talks to your friend -> Talk to her friend IMMEDIATELY
- Neg your girl and SIDE with her friend/s
- Accept your state + do things that are fun
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- ACTIONS
- Don’t look around too obvious
- Walk 10 cms in front of her
babystep

Logistics Outside of the club Place (eating/your – her place)

Who are you with Let’s grab some fresh air I’m hungry. Are you hungry?

Where do you live Can’t hear you, let’s talk outside I know a really cool food place it’s like 5 minutes away from
here. Let’s go.
When do you have to get up tomorrow (food place/bar/restaurant is closed -> we can cook at mine)

Let’s go on an adventure. 5 minutes from here.

Can you cook? You can cook for me.

Rest Number Close (by the way)

You are my only chance for love By the way, let’s exchange numbers… wait wait, what’s my name? …
You make me feel like okay, there you go.

Poke her (no big deal) and smile at her Do you own a cellular device?

Cause I’m funny and sweet Okay Marie, you are pretty fun so far. Are you that fun over text as
well? Cool, let’s find out.
Cause I’m cool
I have a boyfriend. Oh oh, yeah me too. Don’t worry. Anyway, what’s
Are you hitting on my boyfriend? your number
Excuse me sir, are these two girls molesting you?
KEY principles: By the way + isolate her
That’s how we do it in Germany. It’s tradition

Ohh, don’t worry. I’ll only stalk you on Tuesdays

I have a boyfriend. Oh oh, yeah me too. Don’t worry. Anyway, what’s

your number
It’s fine. Tell him I’m gay

Self Amusement Friends

I’m a virgin Are these your friends? Hey, my name is Janis.
(GET TO KNOW HER NAMES) Hey, you must be Lisa and Jenny.
I’m broke. I don’t have any money (NATIONALITY/JOB/ETC.) Hey, are you from Sweden as well?
Hey, are you nurses as well? Are these your collegeous you told me
It’s fine. Just tell him I’m gay about?
I’ve already heard a lot of bad things about you.

Hey, me and Jenny gonna go grab something to eat 10-20minutes/real

quick. I’ll obviously make sure to bring her back safe and sound.

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