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Fēnshǒu Hòu Dì Jǐ Gè Dōngjì: Nǐ Tūrúqílái de Jiǎnxùn

This poem describes attending an ex-lover's wedding as a guest. The narrator struggles with seeing the ex find love and marry someone else, but tries to be supportive and let go of past memories and feelings. At the wedding, the narrator watches the couple's vows and feels sadness yet also finds closure in their relationship being truly over, allowing them to now only be acquaintances.

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Fēnshǒu Hòu Dì Jǐ Gè Dōngjì: Nǐ Tūrúqílái de Jiǎnxùn

This poem describes attending an ex-lover's wedding as a guest. The narrator struggles with seeing the ex find love and marry someone else, but tries to be supportive and let go of past memories and feelings. At the wedding, the narrator watches the couple's vows and feels sadness yet also finds closure in their relationship being truly over, allowing them to now only be acquaintances.

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嘉宾 - 张远

jin guan = feel free to 尽管

分手后第几个冬季

Fēnshǒu hòu dì jǐ gè dōngjì


How many winters since we parted

今天是星期几

Jīntiān shì xīngqí jǐ


which day is it today

偶尔会想起你

Ǒu'ěr huì xiǎngqǐ nǐ


sometimes I'll think of you

你 突如其来 的 简讯

Nǐ tūrúqílái de jiǎnxùn
Your message came so suddenly

让我措手不及

Ràng wǒ cuòshǒubùjí
and caught me by surprise

愣住站在原地

Lèng zhù zhàn zàiyuán dì


so I stood frozen where I was

当所有人都替你开心

Dāng suǒyǒu rén dōu tì nǐ kāixīn


While everyone was happy for you

我却才傻傻清醒

Wǒ què cái shǎ shǎ qīngxǐng


I foolishly began to realize

原来早已有人 为你 订做了嫁衣

Yuánlái zǎoyǐ yǒurén wéi nǐ dìng zuòle jià yī


someone had long already prepared a wedding dress for you
感谢你特别邀请

Gǎnxiè nǐ tèbié yāoqǐng


Thank you for the special invitation

来见证你的爱情

Lái jiànzhèng nǐ de àiqíng


to witness your love

我时刻提醒自己 别逃避

Wǒ shíkè tíxǐng zìjǐ bié táobì


I constantly remind myself not to turn away

拿着 喜帖 一步一步 走近

Názhe xǐtiě yībù yībù zǒu jìn


I hold the invitation and approach step by step

他精心布置的场地

Tā jīngxīn bùzhì de chǎngdì


to the setting he meticulously designed

可惜这 是 属于你的风景

Kěxí zhè shì shǔyú nǐ de fēngjǐng


But regretfully, this scene belongs to you

而我只是嘉宾

Ér wǒ zhǐshì jiābīn
and I'm just an honored guest

我放下所有回忆

Wǒ fàngxià suǒyǒu huíyì


I let go of all my memories

来成全你的爱情

Lái chéngquán nǐ de àiqíng


to help fulfill your love

却 始终 不愿相信 这是命

Què shǐzhōng bù yuàn xiāngxìn zhè shì mìng


yet I can't believe that this is destiny

好久不见的你有点疏离

Hǎojiǔ bùjiàn de nǐ yǒudiǎn shūlí


After all this time, you feel so distant

握手 寒暄 如此 客气

Wòshǒu hánxuān rúcǐ kèqì


your greeting done so politely

何必要在他的面前 刻意

Hébì yào zài tā de miànqián kèyì


Why should we deliberately conceal

隐瞒 我的世界 有过你

Yǐnmán wǒ de shìjiè yǒuguò nǐ


that my world once had you

不知不觉 钟声 响起

Bùzhī bù jué zhōng shēng xiǎngqǐ


And soon the bells began to toll

你守候在原地

Nǐ shǒuhòu zàiyuán dì
you stood there patiently

等待着他靠近

Děngdàizhuó tā kàojìn
waiting for him to approach

温柔的他单膝跪地

Wēnróu de tā dān xī guì dì


He gently gets down on one knee

钻戒缓缓戴进

Zuànjiè huǎn huǎn dài jìn


and sets the diamond ring

你的无名指里
Nǐ de wúmíngzhǐ lǐ
slowly onto your finger

当所有人都替你开心

Dāng suǒyǒu rén dōu tì nǐ kāixīn


While everyone was happy for you

我却才傻傻清醒

Wǒ què cái shǎ shǎ qīngxǐng


I foolishly began to realize

原来 我们 之间 已没有任何关系

Yuánlái wǒmen zhī jiān yǐ méiyǒu rènhé guānxì


that there is already nothing left between us

感谢你特别邀请

Gǎnxiè nǐ tèbié yāoqǐng


Thank you for the special invitation

来见证你的爱情

Lái jiànzhèng nǐ de àiqíng


to witness your love

我时刻提醒自己 别逃避

Wǒ shíkè tíxǐng zìjǐ bié táobì


I constantly remind myself not to turn away

今天你妆扮得格外美丽

Jīntiān nǐ zhuāng bàn dé géwài měilì


Today you look exceptionally beautiful

这美也曾拥在怀里

Zhè měi yě céng yōng zài huái lǐ


the beauty which I once held

可惜这是你和他的婚礼

Kěxí zhè shì nǐ hé tā de hūnlǐ


But this wedding belongs to you and him
而我只是嘉宾

Ér wǒ zhǐshì jiābīn
and I'm just an honored guest

我放下所有回忆

Wǒ fàngxià suǒyǒu huíyì


I let go of all my memories

来成全你的爱情

Lái chéngquán nǐ de àiqíng


to help fulfill your love

却 始终 不愿相信 这是命

Què shǐzhōng bù yuàn xiāngxìn zhè shì mìng


yet I can't believe that this is destiny

说好的永远变成了曾经

Shuō hǎo de yǒngyuǎn biàn chéngle céngjīng


Happily ever after became once upon a time

我试着衷心祝福你

Wǒ shìzhe zhōngxīn zhùfú nǐ


and I try to sincerely congratulate you

请原谅我不体面没出息

Qǐng yuánliàng wǒ bù tǐmiàn méi chūxī


Forgive me for being rude and inconsiderate

选择失陪一下 先离席

Xuǎnzé shīpéi yīxià xiān lí xí


for choosing to leave so soon

又不是偶像剧

Yòu bùshì ǒuxiàng jù


This isn't some idol drama

怎么我演得那么入戏

Zěnme wǒ yǎn dé nàme rù xì


so why am I acting so painstakingly

这 不堪入目 的剧情

Zhè bùkān rù mù dì jùqíng


in this unbearable scene

感谢你特别邀请

Gǎnxiè nǐ tèbié yāoqǐng


Thank you for the special invitation

观赏你要的爱情

Guānshǎng nǐ yào de àiqíng


to spectate the love you chose

嘉宾也 许是另一种 宿命

Jiābīn yěxǔ shì lìng yī zhǒng sùmìng


perhaps a guest is also fated to be

离开你的 自己事到如今

Líkāi nǐ de zìjǐ shì dào rújīn


I who left you, as it stands

还有什么资格关心

Hái yǒu shé me zīgé guānxīn


have no right to care for you

毕竟 终成眷属 的人是你

Bìjìng zhōng chéng juànshǔ de rén shì nǐ


After all, the one who found love is you

而我只是嘉宾

Ér wǒ zhǐshì jiābīn
and I'm just an honored guest

我流尽所有回忆

Wǒliú jìn suǒyǒu huíyì


I let my memories all run dry

来庆祝你的婚礼
Lái qìngzhù nǐ de hūnlǐ
to celebrate your wedding day

却始终没有勇气 祝福你

Què shǐzhōng méiyǒu yǒngqì zhùfú nǐ


and yet, I couldn't find courage to congratulate you

谢谢你送给我最后清醒

Xièxiè nǐ sòng gěi wǒ zuìhòu qīngxǐng


Thank you for giving me one final clarity

把自己还给我自己

Bǎ zìjǐ huan gěi wǒ zìjǐ


and returning my heart to me

至少我还能够成为那个

Zhìshǎo wǒ hái nénggòu chéngwéi nàgè


At least I can still become

见证你们爱情的嘉宾

Jiànzhèng nǐmen àiqíng de jiābīn


an honored guest who witnessed your love

遇见你的他真的好幸运

Yùjiàn nǐ de tā zhēn de hǎo xìngyùn


He who met you is so fortunate

但愿他会比我更爱你

Dàn yuàn tā huì bǐ wǒ gèng ài nǐ


may he love you more than I

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