HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND

99 PRACTICAL TIPS, 5 RULES, AND ONE TASK

KELL ZORVENT
 CONTENTS

Copyright
Foreword

Introduction
1. What do Women Like in Men?
2. 99 Tips on How to Meet a Woman
3. First Date: Where to Invite? What to Talk About?
4. The First and Only Task
5. 5 Main Rules that Increase your Effectiveness with Time.
6. Conclusion
Thanks!

About the Author

Copyright Notice
Text copyright © 2016 by Kell Zorvent
All rights reserved
 Many guys want to know if at all it is easy to get acquainted with a girl at
once without any problem and improve the relationship further.
Experts at pick-ups assure that it is very important to learn to flirt in order
to make good first impression on the girl, leaving everything clockwork.
You can find recommendations on the best and correct ways to get
acquainted with a girl in this book.
If you want to get the girl of your dream, start acting. ‘How’ is not so
important; what important is 'when'. Private life isn’t something that should
be put off.
So, let’s start. Good luck!
INTRODUCTION

H ow did your parents meet? Maybe your parents met while studying at
the university, which was a commonplace at their time. Or maybe they had
liked each other since their school days. What about your grandparents? My
grandparents met at a dance, where my grandfather was playing in the
orchestra. He was straightforward in courting my grandmother. It is
absolutely normal for young men to ask themselves, “How and where can I
meet a good girl?” Moreover, each young man has his own notion of "a
good girl".
So, where is the right place to meet a girl? The pick-up artists answer to this
question this way, “Just everywhere!” On the street, at cafés, cinemas, and
theaters, in the library, in a public transport, in a nightclub, etc. – good
women go everywhere, and you cannot guess where the next time will be
when you meet the one you’ll like.
The situation where men look around to follow a spectacular beauty with
their eyes isn’t uncommon. I’m sure each one of them had itched to talk to
the woman. You can’t deny this fact.
However, another fact is that most men turn round, but then just pass by.
They feel shy or may discuss with their friend that ‘her legs are too short’…
What, no? Then look closely, perhaps, ‘her nose is too big’? Anyway, after
that, they conclude that there is no need to approach her. That’s how the
myth ‘I can meet a woman if I want’ is born.
Almost all men (according to our estimates - 90%) never approach and
strike up an acquaintance in common places. These men just go with the
flow, are inert, and we won’t be able to get through to them. One percent
needs our pick-up like a hole in the head. Among these are sportsmen,
celebrities, dandies etc. Women stick to them willingly. They have it easy
(first acquaintances, that is; they need consultation when it comes to
relationships). This book is meant for the remaining 9% of young men, who
want to learn how to strike up an acquaintance with women and are ready to
do something about that.
Chapter 1

WHAT DO WOMEN LIKE IN MEN?

Iprobability
f you ask your friend, “How can I meet a woman?”, there is a 99%
that you are going to get the answer, “Come and meet.” The
ones who answer you like that are trying to affirm themselves because they
were told just the same earlier. Although it might not be the desired answer,
it is absolutely correct. But for now, let us tell you why it is important to
know how to meet women.
Most men are content with their circle of contacts, e.g., classmates,
groupmates, colleagues from work, 2-3 groups of acquaintances. As a
result, they are in the position of "selected", as there are few women in
these groups and those who are liked are even less. When a man gets into
such position, he initially loses to a woman in the relationship due to the
lack of alternatives. He won’t be the one to lead, but he is led. Many men
agree with the relationship because it is more comfortable this way; there is
a regular albeit mediocre sex, and there is no better option now and so on
and so forth (you can add your cause here).
When only one or two women are interested in you as a man, you become
dependent on their opinion. If it’s not they, then who is? This uncertainty
deters many due to the need to do something about the situation, and they
give up the greater things to settle for less.
If you don’t care, then close the book and let’s go our separate way.
If you know how to strike up an acquaintance on the street, do it regularly
and don’t hide your desires. This shows you’re sincere with yourself.
Women sense it because they like hunters the same way they like winners.
No matter what one says, we need to feel confident.
Nevertheless, how do you meet a woman? How do you make the first step?
What to say to her? How will she react? You can find heaps of answers to
these questions, a huge amount of first phrases, analyses of various
situations, examples on the Internet; however, not all this makes it easier.
Having read a bunch of motivating articles, you can run outside. And here it
begins – wrong women around… no, there is certainly a wrong mood. Look
at me! I’m dressed badly. Anyway, everything is just…
I understand. It is difficult indeed. And here I have two pieces of news. The
good one is that I’m going to try to help you. The bad one is that it will be
hard anyway
Chapter 2

99 TIPS ON HOW TO MEET A WOMAN

R emember, you can meet women everywhere. Don’t listen to what

women say about that. An innate shyness is inherent in them, and they have
an eternal thought, which nature have put into them, i.e., how she will look
at that. Men also think about their appearance, but women are driven by this
thought a hundred times stronger. As one French sexologist said, “You can
meet women everywhere. The main thing is not where, but how.”
The thing, which prevents us from getting acquainted and dominates in the
process negatively, is rejection, i.e., ‘getting a bummer’. Because of this, we
often internally give the acquaintance up, finding other reasons to justify
ourselves. Fight against this complex.
We must learn to take a grip. A man must hold on to himself his whole life
and improve his ability to suppress the fear of anything and his uncertainty.
Girls always sense the internal struggle subtly and value that.
Remember that everyone is afraid of getting “a bummer". Nevertheless, the
one who met with the woman took the risk of getting the rejection. No
matter how cool and handsome one is, everyone is prone to the complex.
Therefore, suppress the thought. ‘The possibility of a bummer’ is our ‘male
cross’, which needs to be borne with fortitude.
A woman is a person just like us; she is only of the opposite sex. She also
wants to have friends, etc. Therefore, just dispose yourself to a friendly
mood. Imagine how you would speak to some unfamiliar guy.
Be internally ready for a possible failure while getting acquainted. Treat it
as a game, i.e., the target is hit or missed. Don’t take the possible failure to
heart. Remember, a woman is not always in the mood to get acquainted.
Maybe she has a bad mood or some problems.
First, you should always keep in mind the presence of humor in the
conversation. We mustn’t forget that women appreciate the humor.
However, if humor doesn’t inhere in you, don’t go too deep into it.
At your first meeting, talk as little as possible about yourself. You can tell
briefly what you do for work (without boasting, modestly) and the status of
your personal freedom. Try to lie less at the beginning; women hate even a
small untruth. Even if the girl asks you, don’t tell everything at once. It’s
better to withhold something. Promise to tell her next time. It’s important to
be mysterious to your first acquaintance. Give your personal information in
little portions, from meeting to meeting. Women are no less curious than
cats and like mysteries. This will increase your chances of a second date.
The one hundred percent way to get acquainted is to give her flowers. Any
woman can hardly refuse to accept flowers. And after accepting the gift, it
will be difficult for her not to respond to your desire to strike up an
acquaintance. Is it not an iron argument?
Your friends, her friends
Never dilate on your dating to your friends. It will come out, and the rumor
about you being a womanizer will spread with lightning speed among the
girls. It will be a minus to your image. Only after becoming a woman, girls
learn that men are always a bit of a womanizer to a greater or lesser extent.
Remember what we said? “All men are tomcats!” Well, not far from the
truth, if roughly. Otherwise, they say ‘he is boring’, ‘nonsexual’, ‘doesn’t
know how to court a woman’, etc. So do your best not to get the label of a
tomcat, or else be ready to have a hard time.

Another thing you should keep to yourself is whom you want to get
acquainted with. There is enough envy among friends. They may either be
the first to get to know the girl or try to prevent you from dating the girl.
If you are not alone, for example, you are with a friend, try to stay alone
with the girl whom you want to get acquainted with. Do not share your
relationship details even if the person is your best friend. Don’t accustom
your friends to this; there should be a border once and for all and no
exceptions to this rule. It happens sometimes when there is no other way.
Then, just begin talking to her. However, after that, somehow try to speak to
her privately and then discuss matters that are more important such as
asking for her phone number, and so on.
In general, remember to spend first dates with the girl without friends. This
way you will avoid many problems because cheating tends to happen most
of the times with friends.
There is no competition severer than the one between women. That’s why
you need to know that her girlfriends will surely try to get in your way. Be
it in something simple at first; well, everything begins from trivial things,
you know. Even if the girl’s close friend has a boyfriend, don’t buy that!
Her girlfriend is dangerous at the early stages of your relationship whether
she has a boyfriend or not. Women are jealous in this respect by nature, so
one can say that women’s friendship is at best like that of men’s at truce
stage. In any case, do not show your understanding of the girl’s company.
At the early stages of your relationship, you both will be getting advice
from different sides. Your relationship is like a blank sheet of paper, which
you need to fill yourself, without accepting friends’ unnecessary help,
which can cause a hidden damage. It may be so perfidious that you just
won’t ever know that.

Public places in general

If you’re in a public place (on the street, in a store, etc.) and see her
troubled or having doubts regarding something, start a conversation by
offering your help.
It’s not shameful to use old tactics: you can easily make contact by offering
to help bring her heavy bag, which all women are often burdened with.
The woman can be irritated or concerned when you try to make a
conversation. So, if she answers rudely to your attempt (which is quite
possible), never answer the same way! Especially if you are on the street.
Turn a deaf ear. Firstly, you won’t gain anything entering the wrangle.
Secondly, the person then talks about you being a boor. Thirdly, it degrades
a man. More effective is to give a grin, to apologize (with sarcasm if you
want), or to say something like “Not at all!”, “Yeah…”
Always respect the females and their personality no matter how the
situation with your attempt to strike up an acquaintance flows. If you
respect them, they will respect you back, love and reach out to you. The
function of motherhood is dominant for women, which sometimes is an
insurmountable natural obstacle for them to think with a pure logic.
However, you can see a bunch of examples in the history, where women are
natural geniuses in respect of the one most important science – life.
What? Do you want to lie to the girl about something serious so you can
benefit from her? Never do that! She will quickly realize she was cheated.
She won’t show it, but be sure that she will take a mental note, and your
chances of having a relationship will fall drastically. As proved by science,
they're smarter than we are. Keep this in mind not only when dating.
Be persevering in the process of dating, and gain your own ends. Girls
appreciate a man’s persistence; nevertheless, they cannot stand monotony.
Therefore, don’t get bothersome and boring. Women are romantics, so we
must learn how to be romantic too.

Public transport
When you use public transport, you can start the acquaintance with the
question, "Are you going far?" Make a suggestion: "Are you heading to
work?", "Studying? Are you going to the university?" Violating the silence,
you will create a situation for a possible dialogue that may develop into an
acquaintance.
If appropriate, talk about what's going on around you. Make a short
comment no more than in one or two words. Watch the reaction, and then
act on the situation. Or, for example, say hello. She will answer
automatically, trying to remember you. People around will think you know
each other, and so it will be easier for you both to communicate. Nobody
will realize except the girl that you are trying to make an acquaintance. The
girl herself may support the conversation, which you have started.
If everything fails, you have one more chance. It is bold; however, it’s
better than nothing: you can get off with the girl and simply say that you’ve
passed your stop to get to know her. Or you can apologize with a smile and
ask for help. Ask how to get somewhere. She will understand everything
quickly, and it will be easier to continue the conversation.
The time of day does not really matter; however, it’s easier to get
acquainted in the morning. Everyone is in a hurry. There is no need to say a
lot of words; a smile and a few compliments are enough to ask her phone
number. Then, you can call her the same day.
Some girls may not want to give you their phone number because of their
privacy. You can ask for her Skype or maybe Facebook or something
similar, then.

At cafés, in restaurants, in night clubs

At first glance, to meet at a café or in a restaurant is the easiest of all places
as the whole atmosphere disposes to that. Nevertheless, it’s not as easy as it
seems. Possibly, you danced a lot, got drunk, and here you’re waking up the
next morning, thinking, “That was damned awesome!” Well, man, look at
your hands – they are empty. So here is a small piece of advice in order not
to wake up empty-handed: write down her phone number immediately after
the conversation because then you’ll fail to do that.

You came to disco to meet a girl. Then why are you keeping yourself aloof?
Are you waiting that somebody will lead the girl to you? Do not pay
attention to how other guys behave in the same passive way. Girls take this
behavior negatively. Dance fast dances; try to affect the girl you like with a
conversation. Girls appreciate the manifestation of such activity. Just don’t
overdo it with your activity. Never grab the girl by her arm and drag to
dance. It's rude, and once again emphasizes that you have not yet matured.
Mature men never behave this way.
Girls like when something is done with imagination. There is a simple trick
to creating a reason for dating: if you like a girl, which sits at a table
surrounded by her friends, order them a bottle of good wine and chocolates,
and, if possible, flowers. Ask the waiter to tell them whom this order is
from. This way you can intrigue the entire company, and all the girls will be
waiting for your choice. Then wait to see if the girl you like waits for your
invitation to dance. If she goes dancing with someone right away, then you
shouldn’t count on reciprocity. In this case, you can choose among other
girls, each of whom hopes that she is the one you like.
One more thing you should remember: don’t rush to invite girls to dance.
Sit down, look around and choose the girl you like. For things to flow well,
you can invite a maximum of two girls. Girls are very touchy in such
matters. They notice everything. If you are too choosy, then your evening is
ruined. Well, you may have a good time; however, in that case, forget about
striking up a serious acquaintance.
What if the girl you like has a long line of those who wish to dance with
her? Don’t worry! She hasn’t made her decision yet. Be bolder, maybe
you’re the one she wants. Never be bothered by things like someone’s
height, better appearance, and bigger wealth. So what? All this is just
nonsense! Girls are also struggling to find what they need in this variety of
offers. You may then be astonished by the choice she makes. Value
yourself!
When dating in a restaurant, café and other similar places, there can be a
situation, generally typical for such atmosphere, when a rival appears and
starts to interfere aggressively. Do everything possible not to develop this
incipient quarrel in front of the girl. Offer him to go out later and sort out
the relationship (it’s desirable that she didn’t even know about that). In any
case, don’t allow the possible fight. The girl may not want to get involved
in such a scandal and will just go away, or you can forget about striking up
an acquaintance with her. The possibility of such outcome is high enough to
try to prevent it. Remember, your goal is the girl, not a fight. Show
patience, and it will be highly appreciated.
Let’s see… You’ve got acquainted in such a place. However, it doesn’t
always mean that the dating took place. Tomorrow is a sober day and things
may be different. That is why it is important not to finish the evening in
bed. You both are stirred up by alcohol and merry atmosphere, so
everything is easier and more accessible, but it is only for now. The next
day, the girl may be awkward. For example, she may treat you lightly; well,
as you may too. There may be plenty of unexpected nuances that will
frustrate your yet fragile relationship. What quickly begins, often quickly
ends, after all. So be patient and try not to use the accessibility of the
situation. It will then be much better and more interesting to gain her
respect.

Library
Here you are in the library. The girl you like has been reading a book for a
long time without a break, and you don’t have time to wait when she
finishes. The atmosphere around is like one is on a strict lecture at the
university. What do you do? Write her a note in which you politely and
briefly suggest taking a break. A simple way to give the note: bring it to her
and say that you were asked to do that.

Business setting
When getting acquainted in a business setting, for example, at work,
approach the woman you like briefly, without long speeches. It is important
for women how they look before others, so you can offer the standard: to
drink tea or coffee, to dine together.
If the situation doesn’t allow her to answer even to that, refer to the need for
business, and take her phone number as if for a business contact. It won’t be
difficult to come up for what business during the conversation. In the future,
there will be an opportunity to go from a business relationship to a close
one.
Show persistence. If you didn’t have a chance to talk, and you have only
seen each other, find her name, her business phone number, and call her
back. Introduce yourself the way she understands whom she is speaking
with. If you are the main character in her novel, then everything will turn
out fine.
There is an old way, which we just have long forgotten. It's a love letter.
Originality is also a good way to surprise, and you may like the way of
striking up an acquaintance yourself. You can show your originality and
initiative. Men’s task is to offer oneself, to make the contact, but mostly
women are the ones who choose.

How to meet on the street

An acquaintance on the street is the most difficult and responsible one.
Women speak ill of the method. Nevertheless, pay it absolutely no attention
assuming you’re doing it for the first time. Never confess that you’ve
already made such attempts.
Don’t listen to negative comments about acquaintances on the street. They
are made by those who simply do not know how to do this, by primitive-
minded people, or by women who were treated rudely. If you like a girl,
approach her boldly and get acquainted!
Remember, that girl in the street feels like she is an actress on stage, and
you’re the viewer, who darted off a row. This especially applies to a sexy
dressed girl. Therefore, avoid a sickly-sweet smile, and be more serious.
Draw less attention of passers-by, talk calmly and gently so that it all
doesn’t look vulgar to others.
It's not a problem if the girl is not alone. Apologize and ask her to move a
few steps away to exchange a couple of words with you. Doesn’t work?
There is another option, a bit bold, but better than nothing: make an
appointment, ask for her phone number, and talk briefly. It takes only a yes
or no because viewers are there.
Even in the hardest unique case when she is with her mother, you should be
a man! Say hello, give one hundred apologies, appeal more to her mother
and ask for a private talk with her daughter. You can talk about the
seriousness of your intentions; of course, if they are serious. Only say the
simple truth. Keep in mind, the mother dreams of finding her daughter a
good eligible bachelor. You are the one. Appreciate yourself! The older the
woman is, the more she appreciates man’s boldness in the process of getting
acquainted; however, without rudeness. If you see the slightest reluctance
on their part, apologize a hundred times and go away.
On the street, if possible, do not rush to approach immediately. Watch what
the girl wants and the aim of her movements. Pick a good time to get
acquainted with her. Just do not overdo it with following her, which may be
misinterpreted (e.g., a maniac). No more than for two or three minutes.
Women figure out that someone is observing them in no time. They are like
scouts and are very observant by nature.
Say a few compliments, tell a short joke if appropriate, and be sure to
introduce yourself. This way, an acquaintance is struck up. You can even
start with ‘I’m lost’, ‘Help to cross over the street’, etc., which depends on
the situation and your mood. Her mood you have yet to find out, and then
find your bearings and act accordingly.
In order to make an acquaintance successful, you have to understand the
mood of the girl, what stirs her at the moment, and have the knack of
finding this out with her first words. You need to constantly learn to master
this skill.
If you notice difficulties in making a dialogue, gently ask if she is free to
make the acquaintance. If she isn’t married but has a boyfriend, tell her that
you offer her an alternative. Ask her to think about it, and then leave your
phone number.
Overcome the barriers if the end justifies the means; never drop everything
half-way. It is important to strike up a conversation, but more importantly,
to go out of it. Therefore, if you notice further senselessness of its
continuation, be ready to withdraw. It should be short, clear and well-
spoken words - not rude - finishing your attempt to approach. If the words
aren’t ready yet, better not mumble. But, if the situation allows, pull the
conversation a while longer. During this time, pick up the words, and leave
the situation with dignity. In any case, you must leave a good impression.
Don’t be afraid to approach beautiful girls. They have fewer complexes and
are easier to make a contact with. You can even relax a little, handing her
the conversation initiative from time to time.
Try to make friends with her and say so, often accenting that – this is the
way to success. Such women usually have many acquaintances and they go
better with friendships that oblige them to nothing and give room for
maneuver.
No need to make an accent on the girl’s beauty; she knows it better than
you. It is difficult to impress her with a compliment about her appearance,
so better switch to complimenting her mind. For example, praise her
manner of speaking, her image and business acumen during your
conversation.
You can try not to speak about her beauty at all, which will intrigue her
since everyone around the girl trumpets her about how beautiful she is. Pick
a good time to tell the girl (the way it won’t offend her) that looks aren’t the
most important to you. The girl will admire you and this is a trump card in
getting acquainted with a beauty. It is difficult to impress beauties, but not
impossible. The girl you can’t impress isn’t for you.
Generally, if you want to get acquainted with a sexy dressed girl, better
wear dark sunglasses, look the other way, and focus only on the
conversation. If possible, select a more serious topic.

When dating, try to avoid the talk about sex, even if it appears by chance.
It's like a talk about a sucker, who uses who in a guy’s friendship, which
means – very slippery. Talk about sex later.
On first acquaintance, girls are afraid of relationship developing to sex. So
calm her delicately and try giving her a hint that you aren’t planning to rush
with sex. And you are more or less modest in this regard. Of course, she
won’t believe you. In the best case, she will just laugh or pretend that she
believed. You won’t be able to achieve more. However, this is enough. At
least, the girl will know that she shouldn’t worry about pretentions
regarding sex at the first stage. The proprieties are observed, which is the
main goal here.
If a girl doesn’t give you her phone number but takes yours, it is most likely
she has someone but wants to have a choice. Don’t show that you
understand that. Of course, there may be other explanations; however,
mostly, this is the reason. If you really like her, play by her rules, and later
you may impose yours.
Sometimes, as a way to strike up an acquaintance, a trick (small joke) may
be used. You can come up with the joke in advance. For example, "Opinion
poll, miss, what do you think about the acquaintances on the street?"; "I
collect donations to the society of desperate bachelors. Donate whatever
you can..."; "Internal revenue service/State security service. Come with
me!" and so on. However, this depends on the situation, and when it may be
appropriate. Girls like when they are approached with a small jest and are
joked around in an inoffensive way.
The process of getting acquainted is like hunting. Men were hunters from
the past, and they still are. The more skilled the hunter is, the richer arsenal
he has. Develop your skills.
There are times when you can approach the girl once and affect her.
However, she may not yet take a particular interest in you. Ignoring this
fact, find a reason to see her for the second time, but without giving her a
noticeable attention. You may easily succeed for the third time because the
girl will start to show an increased interest in you herself as she will be
intrigued by your behavior and will want to find out what it's all about. Do
not practice drinking alcohol for courage when getting acquainted. Firstly, it
puts normal girls off. Do you really need the rest? Secondly, don’t develop
the cowardice; it may become a habit.
Nowadays, the topic about horoscopes is popular. Nevertheless, make sure
to avoid it; it’s a women’s topic and isn’t for men.
If you noticed a girl while driving a car and wanted to make her an
acquaintance, don’t rush to speak to her from the car; it may ruin
everything. It all depends on the girl; she may give you the brush-off in a
rough form and would be basically right. Remember, girls are always right
in these situations. The acquaintance may also flow in the wrong way. You
don’t want that, right?
You are driving and she is walking, therefore, it would be much better if
you walk too. You can simply say that you were driving, saw and liked her,
so you just decided to take a chance and get acquainted. Show courtesy and
respect so that she won’t have the impression that it is your habit to drive
like that and to approach girls at all times. Be humble. It won’t hurt to
apologize once more. You are in a car (maybe even a cool one), but she is
on foot. The girl can be quite prideful, so notice how she responds. If there
would be some negative reaction, say that it isn’t in your rules, but you just
saw her and couldn’t bear the wish of making her acquaintance. She may
not believe you, but she will be pleased, at least.
You can get acquainted by offering a lift. However, this must be done
elegantly, and not when it’s dark. With a good reason, girls beware of sitting
in a stranger’s car even at daytime, not to talk of nighttime. Therefore, don’t
bustle about when offering a lift in your car. It doesn’t matter if she accepts
your offer. More importantly, you have already started the dialogue.
If you saw a girl you want to get acquainted with while you are a passenger
in your friend’s car, don’t defiantly jump out of the car to her. It stands out,
and it may not please the girl. Her acquaintance may be nearby. You,
popping up like a Jack-in-the-box, can simply make her either feel shy and
hesitate (which means don’t expect to make her acquaintance) or freeze you
off, making your friends laugh. Try to get acquainted with the girl gently,
without attracting much attention. Tell the girl that you jumped out of the
car, without explaining anything to your friends; it will simplify your
acquaintance. She won’t feel uncomfortable under the gaze of several pairs
of eyes. Maybe some girls don’t care; however, it may also be otherwise.
Don’t inform your friends that you’re going to get acquainted. On the
contrary, say that you need to speak to the girl you want to get acquainted
with urgently. Well, firstly, there will be no teasing if you get the brush-off.
Secondly, don’t advertise your methods of dating. You don’t want to have
your friends as additional rivals, do you?
There may also be another situation: you like the girl who had arrived in a
cool car. Wait until she is far enough from her car; only then can you
approach her boldly! When getting acquainted, you must conceal your
knowledge about the car; it will be better for both of you. Better because
there are many psychological reasons that can work for both of you in
harm. For example, she may think that you liked her car and not her.
Another example is when the one you like often passes close by, and there
is no other opportunity to make her acquaintance. Wave down; ask to give
you a lift to a place far away (or even to Paris). Humor is a great friend,
whom you should make good friends with. If you have fun, the girl will
have fun as well, which is always a 50% success rate in dealing with
women.

In summer
In summer, the possibility of getting acquainted increases several times.
You can complain about the heat and offer a girl to go swimming or
sunbathe. This is how to start up a conversation.
If the situation allows, you can come say hello and offer to go to the
barbecue explaining that you’re going with your friends to the barbecue,
and that everyone will be with girls, and you have no one. Girls are kind by
nature; she may respond and help you to correct this unfortunate misfit in
your company. An event can be put off, but most importantly you got
acquainted. You can have a picnic another time.
Simple and appropriate worldly clear topic, with which you start the
conversation when getting acquainted, is better than any abstruse,
hackneyed words and phrases. Girls also want to have acquaintances and
constantly waiting for our offers. It is much more difficult for them as they
cannot approach us themselves. Therefore, it isn’t rare if only one word
from you is enough for her to start talking without a hitch. You have to
suppress the diffidence, which especially likes to arise in times like this,
scruples and to stop thinking about possible outcomes which tend to be very
far from reality. Just tell yourself, “I won’t lose anything if I begin to speak
with her now,” and then go ahead and act according to the situation.
You can get acquainted at the beach, for example, by offering to play cards
(not for money, of course), or by showing a card trick. You can treat the girl
you like to an ice cream or a bottle of water. Do not rush with the offer to
go swimming; the girl needs time to familiarize herself with you.
You can start a conversation by a playful request to teach you to swim,
finding out beforehand if she can swim herself. Or offer seriously to teach
her yourself.
You have to stare at her shapes less openly, of course, and don’t drool in the
process of making the acquaintance. Some girls may get annoyed, and that
will minimize the results of your efforts to make the acquaintance. Better
tell a funny joke without vulgarity if you can.
Behave more correctly and delicately when striking up an acquaintance on
the beach, especially if the season has just started. Remember that many
girls may feel awkward. Dressed only in a swimsuit, always consider that
she may have a complex about this. Do not think that if you appreciated her
appearance, which is like a goddess to you, she is of the same opinion about
herself. That’s why I don’t advise to begin the acquaintance on the beach by
making a compliment about her figure. It is risky. You may then be in
wonder about the girl’s self-criticism. For example, you like some of her
shapes and you would tell her about that. However, what if she thinks just
the contrary? Her complex would get even worse, and your compliment
would easily turn into a joke or an offense. Better avoid this topic if you
aren’t sure how to express the compliment regarding such a sensitive
subject in a perfect way. Women are picky to words in such matters.
Therefore, an attempt to make the acquaintance from your side can turn into
a rough molestation, and you won’t be able to prove anything later. It is
better to keep the conversation on any other subject. For example, if she has
a book, ask her what it is all about, where she studies, works etc.
Now you know, making acquaintance with a girl on the beach is a subtle
and delicate process because the biggest problem is that the girl is dressed
only in a swimsuit and a natural sense of insecurity increases at times like
this. Therefore, responses to your desire to get acquainted can sometimes be
inadequate to your intentions. You shouldn’t forget this fact and take to
heart a possible negative reaction. Girls can be excused in these situations.

Group dating
Here are some tips about how you should strike up an acquaintance and
how to behave while taking part in a group dating. Group dating is a pattern
of dating where a group of single guys makes the acquaintance with a group
of single girls. This is the most difficult situation for dating as it is always
fraught with a mess, muddle and all sorts of quarrels (be it small or greater
ones), which often occur afterward, especially among girls. The most
important thing here is to win yours over without a fuss. Girls, of course,
have it more difficult here, so make your choice at once. The faster you do
this, the easier it will be later. In such circumstances, it is of course quite
difficult. Try to take her phone number first or give yours if the time of your
acquaintance is shortened. If you have more time, try to be closer to the girl,
whisper something pleasant in her ear, and offer to see her home. If it
turned out that you didn’t have time to converse with the girl, and another
guy went to take her home, which can easily happen in this situation, don’t
become despondent; you still have a chance. Find out her phone number
(it’s easier to do that through her friends) and call her the next day. She also
may be upset about the situation as you are and be similarly frustrated about
how stupid everything turned out. And if it’s not right, it’s okay. So be it.
Women with children
If you saw and liked a woman, but she was with a child, it doesn’t mean
that she has a husband. Come and apologize, and send up a trial balloon.
For example, it can be a compliment about her child. If her reaction is
normal, tell that you like her, and you're not sure whether you can speak to
her. If she is married, it is better to apologize and go away with a smile.
Don’t ask questions about her husband yourself; if she has one she will tell
you soon, or it somehow come to light a bit later. Unmarried women with a
child, or divorced one, often have a complex about that; therefore, there is
no need to directly raise the issue of her husband.
What if you know in advance that the woman with a child is unmarried, and
you want to get to know her? The main thing is to start a conversation. You
can just come to her and say hello, give the kid something with her
permission, watch carefully what reaction she will have, and then the
situation itself will prompt you on how to behave further.
Here is an important advice you should listen to. In spite of the great desire,
never try to approach a married woman. It is a rather troublesome thing and
a great sin. Avoid this mess, and you will have good luck.

The Internet
The Internet is a way to make the acquaintance without straining yourself
much. On the one hand, there are negative opinions regarding this way of
making the acquaintance. But on the other hand, Internet dating like all
progressive things, is slowly moving forward. The bad thing lies in the
following possibility: you may run against someone’s practical joke.
Sometimes people make that in order to have fun by pulling someone’s leg
this way. They send a photo of someone else and start the conversation.
Some people are known to be engaged in this, pursuing a bad purpose, e.g.,
to make a profit out of you. Everything flows the same way as in the first
case; however, then the situation is skillfully brought to the requests of, for
example, money transfer, or they achieve their selfish goals in some other
forms. These requests may not be said bluntly; swindlers just create the
situation around the acquaintance that the transfer is implied by itself, and
you are ready to show your generosity. What remains is only to gently push
you to it, alluding, for example, that it will accelerate your dating in the real
world. These frauds are rare; however, you must know about them and be
psychologically prepared.
Now back to the way of striking up an acquaintance. You can become
acquainted in the chat. Many girls like to go in the chat in their spare time.
This is that thin gossamer of opportunities which women scatter to make
the acquaintance. You can and should use this opportunity. However, you
need to have a wholesome portion of distrust of the real idea about the
appearance of the girl, whom you strike up an acquaintance with. Women
are slightly prone to exaggeration in this matter, but only when they must
somehow tell about their appearance themselves and you can’t see her yet.
Don’t expect much from her photo, it may not always closely match the
original, or the photo may be taken long ago. Therefore, leave the notion of
her appearance to the time of your meeting in real life. If you idealize her,
you may have a disappointment after, which, perhaps, you wouldn’t have
had otherwise. This pattern of dating makes it easier to understand the inner
world of the girl, focusing on this aspect entirely, and casting aside her
appearance, which often prevents us from making a good judgment. When
we don’t see a person, it is easier to evaluate what that person tells us. It
also makes easier (without wasting much time) to exclude someone from
the communication by the received answers to important questions. So,
enter the chat and go for it!

Your acquaintances’ acquaintances

There is another way to make the acquaintance that we know well, which is
dating with the help of our acquaintances, friends, and relatives. You are
already visually familiar (even fleetingly), and it is known that you like
each other, or maybe one of you feels this way and have stated that clearly.
If you are the right one for her, everything can turn well, easily and
beautifully. This particularly applies to those examples when a pair is
already well familiar with each other. It remains only to take each other's
hand and to head for what each one of you secretly wish for. If such
relationship falls apart, still, something pleasant will always remain, which
you will have as a good memory in the future.
It is also possible to strike up an acquaintance with the help of your
acquaintances and friends, so to say, blindly. You haven’t seen each other
and only heard about the other from your friends. Your meeting is organized
on your initiative. This method is good because you don’t need to be afraid
of getting refusal. One of the main advantages of this pattern is that this
risk, which exists for each guy in other circumstances, is simply removed.
However, a cost must be paid. You bear a great burden of responsibility in
case of a negative outcome. Men always become the main offenders in such
consequences. The greater part of the process of striking up an acquaintance
was made by your friends for you. Also, those who have introduced you
then generally have some claims in this respect. So, you should think well
about this option and be ready to bear its costs.

Courtship
If you have enough money and also have the necessary patience and
tenacity, you can try the following dating pattern. This is one of the few
ways of romantic dating, which we, unfortunately, rarely use. It is based on
a more or less long courtship of a girl you like, who may only guess about
your feelings or may not. You find out where she lives, at what time she
leaves her home in the morning. Then from time to time you send her
before she leaves magnificent bouquets. You can send them with cards, with
brief compliments, verses or congratulations. If the courtship is protracted
for long; but there is some success, you may give her something more
substantial once. To resist and reject your attempts to get acquainted is very
difficult in this case. Only really good reasons can interfere with it. Then
the situation itself will tell you how to act. Most importantly, you need to
create such situation. The girl will be pleasantly surprised and intrigued,
and this is a great step to success. It may turn out in the future that the girl
herself will tell you what to do.
Chapter 3

FIRST DATE: WHERE TO INVITE? WHAT

TO TALK ABOUT?

N ever have dates with girls in the same place that may seem like you are
used to. Be punctual; it is appreciated by women, especially on first date.
Where to invite? There is no need to show off at your first date, except if it
isn’t one exceptional case that we know of – that is if you fell head over
heels in love. In this case, it’s difficult to stick to any rules and tips. People
in love are adrift with feelings and sometimes lose their head over these
emotions.
Don’t invite someone to a crowded, noisy place, but to a place where you
can sit at a table and talk quietly, hear the tone of her voice, and catch the
delicate strings of the girl’s behavior. It is very important for a first date.
Emphasize why you’ve chosen this place. Have a cup of tea or coffee, or a
glass of juice. Minimum of alcohol: a glass of wine, a cocktail for the
acquaintance.
Know that the one who needs you will stay with you, and the one who
needs you just for your deep pockets will escape. Therefore, try to stick to
this rule in the future. Be sure to give her a treat on another occasion. She
will surely respect you. Don’t look at others; make your own rules, work
them out and follow them.
How to communicate? People like to be addressed by their name frequently.
So, calling the girl by her name more often will cause a reciprocal
sympathy. You can also praise her name.
Do not hurry to know her age; it’s impolite to ask this question. Her age can
be calculated from the leading questions, yet not all at once. Girls are
embarrassed by these questions.
Don’t rush to seek common acquaintances; better leave it for another time.
Most girls will quickly try to make inquiries about you through them.
Nevertheless, you can’t be sure she won’t get information from your
enemies. Be careful as well and don’t leave traces because the acquaintance
may fail. Never set tongues wagging, because the increase of your
acquaintances may cause the growth of gossips around you.
In conclusion, remember that there aren’t and cannot be any clichés in ways
of making the acquaintance, but there are various approaches and methods.
Nevertheless, you should adjust them during your conversation to each
special case yourself. Everything depends on the situation, the atmosphere
around, the mood, the person’s character etc. Experiment! Improvise based
on the initial knowledge. Come up with your own approaches and methods
that will show your individuality. What at first may seem silly and
ridiculous, may turn out to be that essential detail. For example, sometimes
it happens the following way: you just walk up, look her in the eyes, take
her hand, and say, “You are mine!” Take on trust; this is not fiction. It
actually occurred in real life. To sum up, the main thing is to be bold and
everything will work out. If something fails, remember that you realized
your desire. Don’t chicken out; this is one of the important things for men.
You won’t regret it later and won’t reproach yourself. After all, our task is
to offer ourselves. Let women choose.
Chapter 4

THE FIRST AND ONLY TASK

W rite down on paper the first phrase that you plan to say to the girl.
Either find it on the Internet or think it up yourself. Personally, I like the
phrase created by the structure

<Greeting> <what you are doing here> <what you

want>

Example: Hello! I'm waiting for my friends right

now. I like you and want to speak to you. What
would you say to speaking with me for a bit?

Learn the phrase by heart and rehearse it 20 times in front of a mirror. Pay
attention to your posture, smile, and gestures. Make the phrase sound good.
You may certainly pass this task; however, it is extremely important. If you
feel embarrassed rehearsing it in front of the mirror, then how are you
planning to tell it to a girl? You do want to feel comfortable when dating,
don’t you? Then don’t be lazy; rehearse. You must like the way you
pronounce the phrase.
Now it’s time to go out on the street. Is it frightful? There won’t be anything
written about fears here. It is up to you how you restrain them. Will you
make a deal with yourself or ask a friend for help? If you don’t restrain your
fears yourself, no one will do it for you. But you know what? Courageous
men aren’t the ones that aren’t afraid of anything, but the ones that find
strength to fight their fears. If you want to meet, start acting! Don’t bring
this training to the absurd, but try to make the acquaintance regularly.
Only an insane person would do the same thing over and over with the hope
of getting a different outcome. It doesn’t mean that you should stop trying
to strike up an acquaintance if you get negative results. It means you should
change, and try other ways. Do something. Remember you won’t find love
by sitting in your comfortable zone without changing your habitual lifestyle
and by reading articles on the Internet. You must act!
There are two components in the skill of striking up an acquaintance, e.g.,
motivation and technique. We have already talked about motivation. If you
re-read this book more than once and you already have experience in
approaching unfamiliar girls on the street, then let’s talk about the
technique. What is important here?
It is important to remember that you aren’t a one-hundred-dollar banknote
with the portrait of the great man, known as Benjamin Franklin, to be liked
by everyone. Everyone fails. Such a thing as love wouldn’t exist in this
world if each person could match everyone. So if you start making the
acquaintance, it won’t be surprising to get brush-offs. Accept this fact. You
may be frozen off 100 times straight; however, what if that 101st one is the
one? If you stop, you won’t ever have a successful dating.
Chapter 5

5 MAIN RULES THAT INCREASE YOUR

EFFECTIVENESS WITH TIME.

H ere are the basic rules, following which will make it easier to get a
positive response from a girl:
Don’t be in the girl’s private space when you approach her – be on
its border. This border is easy to find: if you’re in front of a person,
the distance between you two should be of a stretched arm, at the
side – width of a palm, behind – height. Therefore, if you approach
her in the front, stop at arm's length. Approaching from the side is
even better; however, from the side she doesn’t carry her handbag.
 Try to draw attention to yourself before you speak. Pause, and look
in her eyes. If she has headphones on, show her that you want to
tell her something. If you show up out of nowhere and immediately
start talking, you will just scare her. Everything can be fixed; so
why create unnecessary problems? The first impression is difficult
to change, so just try to do the right thing from the start.
Pay attention to your posture when you come to a girl. Your back
should be straight.
Smile, and look her in the eye. Smile demonstrates your good
nature, and the look into her eyes shows your confidence.
Gesticulate. Don’t hide your hands; she will be subconsciously
afraid. Keeping your hands in your pockets is also a bad thing to
do. If you don’t know what to do with your hands and you don’t
feel comfortable, occupy them with a bottle of mineral water or
with the girl’s hand (however, don’t be too forward in taking her
hand).
Speak loudly enough for her to hear you. Forcing the girl to ask
you to repeat is bad for striking an acquaintance and it doesn’t do
any good to you as a man.
Let’s talk about your goals. The dating is considered successful if she
agreed to meet with you again. Normally, you’ve exchanged phone
numbers (or some other contacts like Skype, Facebook, etc.). Therefore,
when striking up an acquaintance, it is important to create interest and
desire to meet next time. This means you need not only take her phone
number and then take off, but communicate with her.
Although there are exceptions, you are limited by time. In this case, you can
come to the girl and say that you're in a hurry, but you saw her and couldn’t
just pass by. Tell her that it would be great to meet again when no one is in
a hurry, and, having a cup of coffee, get to know each other from the start.
This is called Direct Style, one of the dating patterns. Here is an example.

Example: Hello! Please, wait. I'm here with my

friends and we are already wildly late, but I don’t
want to miss a chance to make your acquaintance.
What would you say to meeting with me this week,
having a cup of tea and getting acquainted?
Chapter 6

CONCLUSION

The Last and Most Important Advice

Ianswer,
n Direct Style, you expose your intentions right away and get a straight
which could be either a yes or a no. Psychologically, it's easier;
however, there is almost no chance of rousing the girl’s interest.
Notice that you can approach both in a directive way: immediately expose
your intentions and offer to meet again, and contextually: to strike up a
conversation about something, and then switch to the question of the next
meeting (it is longer, more complex, but it is usually more effective).
What to speak about? Speak about anything. The important thing is to speak
emotionally and ask for her opinion. Once you strike up a conversation, if
you like her, offer to meet again and exchange your contacts.
However, the most important thing is the action. That’s the main advice.
"Approach and meet" is so exact. Knowing all of this theory is just a useless
trash in your head if you won’t apply it in real life.
Everything is quite simple as you can see. It will be harder in practice,
though; nevertheless, you can overcome this as well. For where there is a
will, there is a way.
It’s time for you to act!
If you want to find the girl of your dreams, start acting. ‘How’ is not so
important; what important is 'when'. Private life isn’t something that should
be put off.

Do your best and good luck with finding your

happiness!
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