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Heterosexual Women’s Anal Sex Attitudes and


Motivations: A Focus Group Study

Kimberly R. McBride

To cite this article: Kimberly R. McBride (2017): Heterosexual Women’s Anal Sex
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DOI: https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2017.1355437

Heterosexual Women’s Anal Sex Attitudes and Motivations: A


Focus Group Study
Kimberly R. McBride
School of Population Health, University of Toledo, Health Disparities Research Collaborative,
University of Toledo and Department of Women’s and Gender Studies, University of Toledo

Focus group methods were used to explore heterosexual women’s receptive anal sex attitudes
and motivations. Behaviors under investigation included penile–anal intercourse (PAI), manual–
anal stimulation, oral–anal contact, and the use of sex toys. A total of 33 self-identified
heterosexual women ages 18 to 30 recruited from two metropolitan areas in the Midwestern
United States participated in one of six focus groups. The findings suggest that women viewed
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heterosexual anal sex as an emerging norm. Attitudes and motivations were complex and varied
by behavior. Dominant themes included curiosity, pain, pleasure, and stigma. Relational factors,
including acquiescence, coercion, and consent, were also salient among participants. Factors
that influence anal sexual behaviors may not be entirely distinct from those that influence other
sexual behaviors; however, factors that influence anal intercourse may be distinct from those
that influence nonintercourse anal sex. Improved understanding will allow scientists to better
understand the integration of anal sex behaviors into the broader sexual repertoire.

Heterosexual anal intercourse is receiving increased attention in Villar-Loubet et al., 2015), motivations (Reynolds, Fisher, &
the sexual health research literature. In the United States, the Rogala, 2015; Roye, Tolman, & Snowden, 2013; Stahlman
prevalence of receptive penile–anal intercourse (PAI) among et al., 2015), pain and pleasure (Herbenick, Schick, Sanders,
heterosexual women is well documented, with studies reporting Reece, & Fortenberry, 2015; Stulhofer & Ajduković, 2013),
lifetime rates of up to 42% (Benson, Micks, & Prager, 2016; and subjective experiences (Fahs & Gonzalez, 2014). While
Chandra, Mosher, Copen, & Sionean, 2011; Copen, Chandra, & these studies make important contributions to scientific under-
Febo-Vasquez, 2016; Herbenick, Reece, Schick, et al., 2010; standing, gaps in the literature remain.
Hess, DiNenno, Sionean, Ivy, & Paz-Bailey, 2016; Satterwhite To our knowledge, there has been no recent assessment of
et al., 2007) and past month rates of up to 8% (Herbenick, Reece, women’s attitudes toward PAI, although research has demon-
Sanders, et al., 2010). Prevalence rates suggest that receptive PAI strated the association between attitudes and sexual behaviors
is increasingly part of heterosexual women’s sexual repertoire (Crosby, Milhausen, Yarber, Sanders, & Graham, 2008;
and warrants further investigation by the scientific community. Higgins & Wang, 2015; Hill, Amick, & Sanders, 2011).
Much of the research literature to date has conceptualized While understanding attitudes alone is not likely to provide
heterosexual receptive PAI as a risky substitution for vaginal an adequate explanation of heterosexual anal intercourse, the
intercourse, with inquiry being focused on the documentation examination of attitudes combined with research assessing
of negative sexual health outcomes (McBride & Fortenberry, motivations and salient contextual factors will be a starting
2010). Based on prevalence, it is unlikely that risk taking alone point for improved phenomenological understanding.
adequately explains behavioral occurrence among all women Studies assessing women’s motivations for engaging in PAI
who practice receptive PAI. Sexual health research has been have identified common factors, including pleasing a male
responsive to the need to expand inquiry beyond the historical partner; desire, pleasure, and curiosity; increased intimacy or
focus on risk for disease. As a result, recent studies have trust; and coercion (Fahs & Gonzalez, 2014; Reynolds, Fisher,
explored several aspects of receptive PAI among women, & Rogala, 2015; Roye et al., 2013; Stahlman et al., 2015).
including contextual factors (Stahlman et al., 2015), behavioral Reynolds, Fisher, and Rogala (2015) and Stahlman et al.
correlates (Benson, Martins, & Whittaker, 2015; Hess et al., (2015) found that being under the influence of substances was
2016; Reynolds, Fisher, Laurenceau, & Fortenberry, 2015; a common motivational theme among their samples, which
were recruited from either a substance abuse treatment program
(Reynolds, Fisher, & Rogala, 2015) or a community-based
Correspondence should be addressed to Kimberly R. McBride, 2801 W. HIV/STI testing clinic (Stahlman et al., 2015). While the con-
Bancroft Street, MS 119, University of Toledo, Toledo, OH 43606. E-mail: sistency of results suggest some commonalities in women’s
Kimberly.mcbride@utoledo.edu
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experiences, the applicability of results to the general population created the possibility that some women would not be entirely
of women may be limited by the fact that three (Reynolds, aware of their attitudes and would have difficulty clearly
Fisher, & Rogala, 2015; Roye et al., 2013; Stahlman et al., articulating them without exposure to a range of other experi-
2015) of the four studies were conducted among groups with ences and perspectives; (b) the existing literature suggests that
sociodemographic characteristics (i.e., adolescent age, sub- anal sex motivations and behaviors are complex and the ability
stance use, STI clinic attendance) that distinguish them from of the interactive group process to reveal taken-for-granted
the general population. ideas had the potential to provide important insights into the
There is an absence of research examining nonintercourse origins of motivations and behaviors; and (c) improved phe-
anal sex behaviors, such as manual–anal stimulation/penetration nomenological understanding would require understanding
and oral–anal contact. The results of research conducted by points of consensus and divergence. In addition, focus groups
McBride and Sanders (2010), which examined lifetime preva- have the ability to reproduce results derived from other stan-
lence of anal sex behaviors among a sample of adults who dard methods (Morgan, 1996). Given that much of the existing
reported anal sex experience, found that 83% of women literature addressing motivational factors has come from sam-
reported lifetime receptive manual–anal stimulation and 50.8% ples with sociodemographic characteristics that distinguish
reported receptive oral–anal contact. The most common beha- them from the general population, any replication of findings
vioral pattern was experience with PAI, manual–anal stimula- in the current sample might help identify factors which are
tion, and oral–anal contact. However, roughly one-quarter of influenced by unique sociodemographic characteristics and
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participants with nonintercourse anal sex experience had never those which are not.
engaged in PAI. Additional assessment of nonintercourse anal Further, focus group methodology has been successfully
sex behaviors, including attitudinal and motivational factors, is utilized in previous sexuality research, including studies of
needed. For example, women’s motivations for engaging in PAI heterosexual anal sex (Reynolds, Fisher, & Rogala, 2015;
may be distinct from their reasons for engaging in other anal sex Shayo et al., 2017) and other sensitive topics such as pregnancy
behaviors and thus deserve focused investigation. ambivalence and the use of long-acting reversible contracep-
The substantial prevalence of heterosexual receptive PAI tives (Higgins, 2017); alcohol use and risky sexual behaviors
implies that anal sexual behavior may be seated within a broad among men who have sex with men (MSM) and transgender
and varied sexual repertoire. The extent to which noninter- women (Vagenas et al., 2017); barriers and facilitators to HIV
course anal sex behaviors are part of the sexual repertoire testing among young MSM and transgender women (Logie
remains understudied. Because anal sexual behaviors have et al., 2017); and the health care experiences of kink-oriented
implications for sexual health outcomes and, more broadly, patients (Waldura, Arora, Randall, Farala, & Sprott, 2016).
for understanding human sexuality, it is important that the The limitations associated with the use of focus group
scientific community make a concerted effort to understand methodology were carefully considered during study design.
the factors that influence behavioral occurrence. These included the potential for social desirability to bias study
In response to the lack of data documenting heterosexual findings, the possibility that some women may feel uncomfor-
women’s attitudes toward anal sex behaviors, the primary aim table or embarrassed discussing the research topic, and that
of the current study was to describe attitudes toward receptive concerns about confidentiality may be salient among partici-
PAI and nonintercourse anal sex behaviors among a sample of pants. During study design, attempts were made to minimize
women ages 18 to 30 years recruited from the general popula- the potential for discomfort, embarrassment, loss of confiden-
tion. A secondary aim was to describe motivational factors tiality, and bias through the procedures described next.
influencing both PAI and nonintercourse anal sex behaviors.
Anal sexual health knowledge and product use were also
Participants and Procedures
explored; however, those findings will be reported elsewhere.
English-speaking, self-identified heterosexual women
between the ages of 18 and 30 years old were eligible for
Method participation. Past history of anal sex behavior was not included
in the eligibility criteria, because understanding the perceptions
A primary strength of focus groups is the ability of the of women with and without anal sex experience may add
interactive group process to draw out latent attitudes and reveal information that helps explain the relative rarity of PAI when
salient affective and cognitive factors that may not emerge compared to vaginal intercourse (Fahs & Gonzalez, 2014;
through other methodological approaches (Krueger, 1994; McBride & Fortenberry, 2010). Participants were recruited via
Montell, 1999; Morgan, 1996). Focus groups can uncover flyers posted on a midsized university campus in the
ideas that may be taken for granted by requiring subjects to Midwestern United States, in one midsized and one large metro-
clarify or elaborate on their thoughts to other group members, politan area in the Midwestern United States, and social media.
and are well suited for generating rich data that reflect varied Recruitment materials described the research as a focus group
perspectives as well as points of consensus (Krueger, 1994; study where volunteers would “join other women to talk about
Montell, 1999; Morgan, 1996). These methodological women’s sexuality, sexual health, and sexual well-being.”
strengths were relevant to the current research for the follow- Women who were interested in participating were directed to
ing reasons: (a) the relative rarity of heterosexual anal sex call or e-mail the study principal investigator (PI). Potential

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participants were scheduled to complete a telephone eligibility Table 1. Participant Demographic Characteristics (N = 33)
screening conducted by a trained graduate research assistant.
Characteristics % (n)
In an effort to minimize the possibility of enrolling partici-
pants who would feel uncomfortable or embarrassed discussing Age
the research topic, the screening script included descriptions of 18 to 23 52 (17)
the nature of the research, the study purpose, the procedures, and 24 and above 48 (16)
Race
expectations regarding confidentiality. Potential participants American Indian/Alaska Native 6 (2)
were told that the study was investigating heterosexual women’s African American/Black 42 (14)
anal sex behavior and that the purpose was to “gain a better Asian 3 (1)
understanding of women’s attitudes toward anal sexual beha- Native Hawaiian/other Pacific Islander 3 (1)
viors and practices.” Potential participants were informed that White/Caucasian 45 (15)
Ethnicity: Hispanic/Latina
they would not be asked to disclose whether they had experi- Yes 9 (3)
enced any of the behaviors that would be discussed in the group, No 91 (30)
but the moderator would ask them to “talk about their attitudes Education
toward a variety of things that have to do with anal sex.” They High school graduate/GED 12 (4)
were also informed that approximately seven other participants Some college 45 (15)
College undergraduate degree 21 (7)
would be present during the group session and that it would be Some postgraduate work 6 (2)
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recorded. Expectations for privacy and confidentiality were Postgraduate degree 12 (4)
reviewed, and women were informed that they could leave the Trade/technical/vocational training 3 (1)
group if they knew another participant. They were also notified Relationship status
that they would have the option to use a pseudonym during the Married 3 (1)
In a relationship with a single person for more than six months 57 (19)
session and were given the opportunity to ask questions about In a relationship with a single person for fewer than six months 9 (3)
the information covered prior to enrollment. Currently dating several people 9 (3)
Seven women who were screened declined participation Not currently dating anyone 23 (7)
citing scheduling conflicts. Those who met the eligibility cri-
teria and agreed to participate were scheduled for a specific
date, time, and location and were e-mailed or mailed, based on and told that they could choose to write their own name or a
preference, an informed consent document to review prior to pseudonym. The moderator introduced herself and the note-
attending the focus group session. All scheduled participants takers at the beginning of each session. Introductions were
received e-mail, text message, and telephone reminders a few followed by a description of the research, and participants
days prior to each session as well as on the day of the session. were told that the purpose of the study was “to share ideas
Nine women who were scheduled canceled or did not attend to help us develop a better understanding of various anal
their group session. A research assistant contacted all of these sexual behaviors.” Participants were notified that the aim
women by phone or e-mail and offered them the option of was not to build consensus but “to understand many differ-
rescheduling. Three women were unable to participate in a ent perspectives.” Participants were reminded that they did
different session due to scheduling conflicts; three asked to be not have to disclose their own behaviors but could talk
rescheduled and participated in different groups; and three did about their own experiences by saying “a friend” if they
not respond to phone call or e-mail enquiries. wished to do so. Ground rules, including expectations for
The final sample consisted of 33 self-identified hetero- privacy and confidentiality, were reviewed and participants
sexual women between the ages of 18 and 30 (mean were asked not to share any information about the discus-
age = 23.18) who participated in one of six focus group sion with others outside the group. Finally, participants were
sessions lasting approximately two hours (Table 1). A total invited to ask questions about the information covered in the
of 11 participants disclosed anal sex behavioral experience introduction. Refreshments were provided, and participants
as measured by “I” statements made in reference to experi- received a $10 gift card at the end of the session.
ence during the focus group sessions. Study approval was gained from the Social, Behavioral,
Focus groups were conducted at one of two locations: a and Education—Human Subjects Institutional Review Board
private conference room located at a university or a private at the university where the PI is employed. All groups were
meeting room at a public library. The PI moderated each conducted between the September 2015 and February 2016.
group, and two doctoral-level research assistants served as
notetakers. Sessions were digitally recorded and transcribed
Measures
for analysis. Notes were used as additional sources of data.
No identifying information was collected, and recordings The PI developed a semistructured moderator guide (see
were destroyed after transcription. appendix) that assessed the following: (a) attitudes toward
Upon arrival, participants were greeted by the moderator heterosexual PAI, (b) attitudes toward “other” anal sexual
and directed to complete a brief demographic questionnaire behaviors, including oral–anal contact and manual–anal stimu-
and informed consent. Participants were given name cards lation (i.e., rubbing, fingering, insertion of a sex toy such as a

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dildo, vibrator, or butt plug), and (c) motivations for PAI and theme. The most commonly cited reason for acquiescence
nonintercourse anal sex behaviors. Based on the descriptive was the desire to please a sexual partner. A 24-year-old
and exploratory nature of the research, the decision not to African American woman provided the following example:
apply a theoretical framework was purposeful. “For me, it wasn’t because I wanted to … it was because he
asked … and from there it is just something you do … I wasn’t
Data Analysis trying to please my own self.” Participants also described
The PI and a trained graduate research assistant per- instances where the desire to please a sexual partner took
formed data analysis using a thematic technique drawn precedence over their own physical pain. A 27-year-old
from Morgan (1997), which has been applied in other qua- White participant who described PAI as a painful experience
litative studies of human sexuality (Graham, Sanders, explained that she persevered through the pain because “I can
Milhausen, & McBride, 2004; Janssen, McBride, Yarber, tell he enjoyed it. See, that’s another thing about sex; you do
Hill, & Butler, 2008). The technique acknowledges the stuff because your partner enjoys it.”
interplay between individual and group and recognizes that A number of group members suggested that some women
neither constitutes an entirely separate unit of analysis. use acquiescence as a strategy to secure a relationship, with a
Using a “grid” approach (Knodel, 1993; Morgan, 1997), 27-year-old African American participant stating that many
data were coded at three levels: by noting all mentions of a women engage in anal sex because “they goin’ [sic] do what
given code, whether an individual participant mentioned a they feel they need to do to keep that man. If he wants the
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given code, and whether each group’s discussion included booty, that’s what they are going to give him.” However, this
mention of a code. This approach allowed for comparisons perspective was openly challenged by other participants across
within and between respondents and groups. During the groups, as illustrated by the statement of a 28-year-old White
initial stage of analysis, each transcript was independently participant: “A lot of people aim to please because most gen-
analyzed and broad thematic categories and coding labels eral guys like to do it… . I’ve done it for myself and other than
were developed based on reoccurring themes and quotes to pleasure my partner.”
within each thematic category. As part of aiterative analytic Three groups described occasional acquiescence as being a
process, the researchers met to compare themes and identify reward or special “treat” for partners. A 19-year-old White
discrepancies in categorization and labeling. The researchers participant provided an example citing a conversation she had
discussed all divergences until 100% agreement was with her friend’s mother: “She made mention about how her
reached. Themes were then organized into a broad catego- boyfriend wasn’t getting anything tonight, but on their anniver-
rical framework and further refinements to categories and sary he was getting anal because you leave that for special
coding labels were made. The final analytic step consisted occasions.” A 25-year-old African American woman indicated
of applying the framework to all data by annotating codes that she was willing to “reward” her partner “maybe once, twice
that indexed thematic categories and illustrative quotes. a year,” but that she was “not about to make this a habit.”
Sexual coercion was a commonly cited motivational factor,
but none of the participants labeled their own experiences, or the
Results
experiences of women that they knew, as “rape.” However,
participants consistently reported believing that “pressure”
Results revealed a complex and varied range of attitudi-
from a male partner was a primary reason that women
nal and motivational themes. In general, participants viewed
participate in anal sex. As described by a 23-year-old White
anal sex as an emerging norm. Largely, PAI was constructed
participant, “Normally, when I hear people talk about it, it’s
as a prevalent but highly stigmatized, painful act motivated
about their partner pressuring them into it … normally, the guy
by relational factors. However, themes related to a woman’s
pressuring the girl.” A 27-year-old African American participant
own sexual pleasure, desire, and curiosity also emerged
stated, “I don’t think any of the females that I know did it
across groups. Nonintercourse behaviors were more com-
because they wanted to do it … even in my own personal
monly described in favorable terms, although attitudes and
experience.” However, with two groups, participants described
motivations varied by behavior. In general, attitudes toward
instances when women coerced male partners. A quote from a
manual–anal behaviors and the use of sex toys were posi-
22-year-old White participant provides an example: “My best
tive, and motivational themes centered on curiosity and
friend was the one who pressured her boyfriend into trying it.”
pleasure. Attitudes toward oral–anal contact were primarily
Communication and consent also emerged as salient
negative. The experiences and perspectives of female
relational themes. The majority of participants viewed expli-
friends and acquaintances were salient, and appeared to
cit consent as necessary, and many believed that women
influence participants’ attitudes, motivations, and behaviors.
needed time to “mentally prepare” for anal sex. As summar-
The findings presented are organized by theme, and sample
ized by an 18-year-old African American participant: “I
quotes supporting each theme are provided.
think if you talk it out beforehand, you could better prepare
Relational Factors yourself psychologically.” None of the participants reported
believing that anal sex should “just happen” spontaneously,
All groups identified relational factors as primary beha- and a 23-year-old White participant’s statement illustrates
vioral motivators, and acquiescence emerged as a salient this perspective: “I think when you hear horror stories, a lot

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of women are talking about her partner just doing it without be based on “knowing that it can be pleasurable . . and you
her consent.” Two groups conceptualized consent as an can enjoy it, and its not hurtful and painful,” and that she
ongoing process wherein women should have the right to would look to experienced friends to provide that informa-
change their mind at any time. A 22-year-old White female tion. Further, participants commonly reported that women
gave the following example: “And they should know [refer- turn to female friends to both validate curiosity as well as
ring to male partners], like, women can change their mind in reduce anxiety. For example, a 24-year-old African American
the middle.” participant decided to try PAI after consulting her friends
Within and between groups, participants provided exam- about their experiences: “They were like, ‘Well, it’s really
ples of instances when men attempted to obtain anal sex by not that bad,’ so I was like, ‘Okay, I’ll give it a shot.’”
using deceptive tactics such as claiming that their penis However, a handful of participants across groups cited inher-
“slipped.” The use of deception was attributed to the belief ent interest and curiosity, independent of friends’ perspectives
that many men perceive women to be completely disinterested and experiences, as motivation for experimentation. For exam-
in anal sex and assume they would refuse requests if directly ple, a 22-year-old Asian participant described using anal mas-
asked. A 20-year-old White participant provided the following turbation to satisfy her curiosity and explore her anal sexuality.
example of this perspective: “I know it is a dream for a lot of She stated, “The thing with toys is that it offers you an oppor-
guys. Specifically, the ones that—your girlfriend doesn’t like it tunity to, maybe, see how you personally feel about things… . I
or doesn’t let them do it.” Two groups also suggested that men mean, you can be by yourself and just try things.” While a 27-
use deceptive tactics as a way to “test” women’s reactions to
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year-old White participant said that she became interested in


anal sex without direct communication. A 22-year-old African experimenting with PAI when she grew more comfortable with
American participant suggested that the strategy was used to herself and her sexuality: “I grew into myself and sexuality, and
“test your freak level,” and in response a 25-year-old African it became something that I do… . I was curious.”
American group member agreed: “They trying to see if you
like it.” Across groups, women perceived nonconsensual anal
Pain
sex to be “confusing” and “humiliating.”
Participants within and between groups described closeness, All groups associated pain with PAI but not other anal sex
comfort, intimacy, and trust as factors that would influence their behaviors. A 23-year-old Latina simply described her experience
willingness to engage in anal sex. For example, a 26-year-old as “Pain … pain.” A 26-year-old African American participant
African American participant stated, “It’s something that you summed up her experience by saying, “That shit is terrible. I’ve
have to build trust to be willing to try.” In two groups, partici- tried it. I’ve tried a lot of stuff, … but that is just—no.” However,
pants believed that trust was independent of past experience, several participants did acknowledge the possibly that pain was
meaning that they would need to trust their current partner to not a universal experience and that individual differences exist.
engage in anal sex with him regardless of whether they had done For example, a 25-year-old African American participant
so with past partners. This point was illustrated by a 23-year-old reminded her group that “We are thinking of our own experi-
White participant: “Whether I’ve done it before or not, I would ences, but I think that we should be open to the fact that maybe
need to trust you and feel comfortable enough to, you know, get for everyone it might not be that painful,” and a 22-year-old
to that point with someone.” For many participants, trust White participant noted: “I think that it is also, like, a big
included knowing that a partner would be discreet and not preference thing. I have a friend and she has told me she really
“brag” to others. enjoys it, and that she prefers that rather than vaginally. And like,
A number of behaviorally experienced women also noted me, on the other hand, I’ve tried it, and I’m just like—even like
that trusting and feeling comfortable with a partner facili- toys and stuff … no, thank you.”
tated physical relaxation, which was deemed a necessary While all 11 participants who disclosed PAI experience
component of anal sex. A 24-year-old African American indicated that they felt pain during the act, the impact on
participant provided the following example: “I have to be their attitudes and future behavioral intentions varied. Four
comfortable with you, ’cause you have to relax. I just can’t women explicitly stated their intentions to continue practi-
relax for everybody.” A 24-year-old White woman from the cing receptive PAI despite pain, with a 24-year-old White
same group agreed: “It has to be with the right person.” female noting, “My personal experience with it was painful.
I didn’t like it, but I will still try it again.” Three participants
described becoming accustomed to pain over time, with a
Curiosity
26-year-old White participant describing her experiences as
Curiosity emerged as a salient motivational theme across “I don’t think I’m going to die. I think it’s pretty fine. I think
groups. A White 25-year-old participant noted, “Overall, I it’s painful, but you get used to it after a while.”
just think that deep down everyone wants to try it. I do.” For None of the groups categorized nonintercourse behaviors as
many participants, curiosity centered on how anal sex felt and painful, and “size” emerged as a salient factor. Within all
whether it was pleasurable. Several participants cited female groups, participants noted that fingers, tongues, and sex toys
friends as important sources of information who influenced are, or can be, smaller than an average erect penis. According
behavioral decision making. A 23-year-old White participant to a 19-year-old White participant, “Well, just the thickness of
who was interested in trying PAI said that her decision would a finger and the thickness of a penis … it just seems like a

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finger wouldn’t hurt as much … the pain factor doesn’t seem to Participants across groups described women deriving plea-
be there when you’re using a finger over a penis.” An 18-year- sure from psychological components of anal sex. For example, a
old African American participant described the use of sex toys 20-year-old White participant discussed a friend who preferred
as “easier to digest … it can be less uncomfortable because it’s PAI to vaginal intercourse, but noted that her pleasure derived
not as harsh … and they have flexibility, the toys … they come from the novelty and violation of social norms: “I know that
in sizes … it’s not something that you just have to take it” another friend of mine said that when she first started having
[referring to a partner’s penis]. A 23-year-old White participant anal sex she liked it better than regular vaginal sex because it
added, “But for toys and, you know, fingers, it’s different … was, like, different and new and taboo … she still likes the
it’s going to be less uncomfortable and can be enjoyable.” novelty of it.” The same participant described a different friend
Three groups discussed women using sex toys and manual– who enjoyed oral–anal stimulation because “she felt like a
anal penetration as strategies to prepare for PAI. Within this goddess, like she was being was being worshipped,” and
theme, a trajectory of anal sex was described and noninter- noted that her friend interpreted her partner’s willingness to
course behaviors were viewed as a starting point. Participants violate a social taboo as a sign of love and devotion: “If he’s
reported that these behaviors allowed women to become com- gonna [sic] lick my butthole, he totally loves me.”
fortable with the sensations of anal penetration while minimiz-
ing the likelihood of pain. In reference to a friend’s experience,
Stigma
a 20-year-old White participant explained, “One of my friends
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really wants to have anal with her husband, but she is afraid of All groups described PAI as a highly stigmatized, socially
the uncomfortableness [sic] of it. She wants to go to a sex shop proscribed behavior that people feel uncomfortable discussing.
and get toys to, like, help her ease her into it.” A 24-year-old A 27-year-old African American participant stated, “I feel like
White participant described nonintercourse behaviors as “a it’s something that a lot of people try, but no one really talks
gateway … eventually work your way up.” about … a lot of people talk openly about vaginal sex, but it’s a
Further, nonintercourse behaviors were described by taboo thing to talk about that.” Several participants suggested
some participants as a way to “test” enjoyment prior to that disclosing behavioral experience would lead to negative
PAI. A 23-year-old White participant’s quote illustrates social judgment and labeling. According to a White 24-year-
this perspective: “I feel like sometimes there are steps for old, “I think people don’t want to admit if they have had anal
people. They will try the less intimidating things, which sex … because you would get judged.” A 20-year-old White
would be like fingering and toys, to see how that goes. participant added, “People think it’s dirty or gross or some-
Then the next step would be the penis.” thing that only slutty or kinky girls do.”
Two groups described a sexual double standard and
believed that women who participate in anal sex are judged
Pleasure
more harshly than men. A 24-year-old White participant
Sexual pleasure emerged as a salient motivational theme summed up this perspective: “If a guy speaks about anal
across groups. Within each group, participants described sex, everyone is, like, ‘Oh man, it’s so great.’ Whereas if a
instances when they or someone they knew derived physical girl says, ‘Oh I’ve had anal sex’ and is proud about it, she
pleasure from PAI and/or nonintercourse anal sex. A 19- gets labeled a slut.” In some cases, fear of judgment and
year-old American Indian/Alaska Native provided the fol- labeling were so profound that participants described
lowing example: “I have a friend and she is into anal sex women making active efforts to conceal behavior from
[referring to PAI], and she says she has orgasms from it.” A others. As noted by a 28-year-old White participant, “It is
26-year-old White participant described anal stimulation as just something, like, a secret. This is my little secret.”
something she enjoyed because it enhanced the pleasure of Three groups believed that stigma restricted women’s ability
vaginal intercourse: “So we will have sex doggy style or to admit desire and/or enjoyment, as discussed by a 22-year-old
something, and he will use a finger or some type of vibrator, White participant: “There are different stigmas that come with
and that is actually very pleasurable … just kind of barely hearing an individual say, ‘I do anal sex” … So I think it is
having something there, having that vibration there, for me, totally understandable why someone would feel shameful about
personally, it is a nice sensation in addition to us having it, because some people might think, ‘That’s not something I’m
sex.” supposed to be enjoying.’” A 19-year-old White participant who
Two groups suggested that a partner’s approach was an agreed provided the following example: “I think a lot of people
important determinant of pleasure and that attempts needed to claim that they don’t do it [referring to PAI] or don’t like it, but
be gentle and allow time for relaxation. As a 23-year-old they really do, because it’s still like a taboo.”
White participant noted, “But they [women] have to make Participants did not consistently associate stigma with
sure their partner knows what they are doing … that they manual-anal behaviors or the use of sex toys; however,
have to be gentle, they have to be respectful.” A 24-year-old oral-anal contact was viewed as socially proscribed despite
White participant provided a similar perspective: “It has to be its presence on social media and in popular culture. A 20-
something gentle so the muscles can relax.” In agreement, a year-old White woman said, “Rimming, I think, is even more
23-year-old Latina from the same group added, “I agree with taboo than, you know, just penis–anus sex … People are like,
her … it’s a gentle process.” ‘Oh, that’s so gross! How could you do that’” Largely,

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negative attitudes associated with oral–anal sex were attrib- The majority of participants in these groups did not appear
uted to concerns about the health implications of oral–fecal to interpret a man enjoying receptive anal sex as him being
contact. For example, a 25-year-old White participant sug- gay or bisexual; however, two did say that a male partner
gested that “it’s not sanitary, you know, your feces come out requesting anal stimulation would cause them to question his
of there, so your mouth probably shouldn’t be there.” masculinity or create feelings of discomfort. For example, a
Whereas, manual–anal sex and the use of sex toys were not 28-year-old White participant related, “I think if I was to do it
associated with the same concerns. As a 22-year-old White to him, it would make me feel like he was less than a man.” A
participant stated, “The fingers—I think that’s something 24-year-old White participant said, “If he asked me to do it to
people are probably more comfortable with.” him, I think it would be a little uncomfortable for me.” In
Within and between groups, stigma surrounding PAI and contrast, a 26-year-old White woman who reported that she
oral–anal contact was often attributed to sociocultural represen- had manually stimulated her male partner’s anus described
tations of the anus as a “dirty” organ that’s sole function is her own experience as very positive:
defecation, the vagina as the “natural” or “normal” place for
sex, and PAI as a strictly “homosexual” behavior. A 26-year-old I have done it once, and it was, like, they enjoyed it, and I
African American participant described the anus as “exit only” was as much into it because I was turned on that they were
and stated, “I shit out of that … I mean, granted, you bleed out of enjoying it… . I don’t look at them as less masculine. I
your vagina, but that’s what it is for; it is for a penis; your behind almost respect them more because it’s, like, you trust me,
is not.” Within the same group, a 19-year-old Latina added, “It you know, it brings us closer. I think men when they let their
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guard down, it makes me respect them more.


seems like more of a homosexual behavior, I think.” A 28-year-
old African American woman from a different group stated, “It’s
not natural. It’s not a natural form of sex, in my opinion.”
Discussion
Despite the salience of stigma, participants in all groups
reported a recent shift in social norms that was attributed to
frequent representations of anal sex in social media and popular Several themes that emerged were consistent with findings
culture. For example, a 24-year-old White participant noted, from other studies (Fahs & Gonzalez, 2014, Reynolds, Fisher,
“Celebrities are talking about it and music is talking about it, Laurenceau, & Fortenberry, 2015; Reynolds, Fisher, &
so now it’s becoming a little bit opener.” An 18-year-old African Rogala, 2015; Herbenick et al., 2015; Roye et al., 2013;
American participant stated, “The finger thing, a lot—a lot of Stahlman et al., 2015; Stulhofer & Ajduković, 2013) and
that was going around on social media.” Participants also sug- provide additional evidence that heterosexual women’s anal
gested that social media and popular culture were motivating sex attitudes and motivations are complicated and varied but
behavior, as reflected in a statement made by a 26-year-old not entirely distinct from those influencing other sexual beha-
White participant: “I think social media, of course, has a huge viors. The importance of the current study, therefore, does not
impact on what we are talking about, because eating anus is rest solely on the novelty of results but that the findings
becoming popular.” confirm and extend existing knowledge.
A few points of divergence in results from the current
study and those reported previously should be noted. First,
Heterosexual Men as Receptive Partners
study participants did not identify substance use as a moti-
While attitudes toward men as receptive heterosexual anal vating factor, and it is possible that that these differences
sex partners were not directly assessed, the topic was intro- can be explained by the fact that the current sample was
duced in three of the six groups, and the unexpected finding recruited from the general population. Second, technical
deserves attention. Six women reported that they knew hetero- virginity was not a salient motivational theme, although
sexual men who enjoyed manual–anal and/or oral–anal stimu- some participants did believe that it might have relevance
lation, and several others mentioned that they had heard the among adolescents. This finding suggests that age-related
same from friends or media. A 20-year-old White participant developmental factors may influence behavioral motivations
said, “I also have a couple of male friends who identify as and could help explain the differences between current
heterosexual, but they like the girl to do it to them with their results and those reported in existing research. Finally, por-
fingers.” A 19-year-old African American woman simply sta- nography did not emerge as a primary theme. None of the
ted, “A lot of guys like the rimming.” participants said that pornography motivated their own
Most of the participants in the groups that discussed men as behavior, but the majority did acknowledge PAI as a nor-
receptive partners believed that anal stimulation could be a mative component of contemporary pornography. Further,
source of physical pleasure and attributed it to the fact that many believed that pornography was a primary driver of
some men are sexually aroused by, and derive pleasure from, most men’s and, to a lesser extent, some women’s interests
prostate stimulation. A 20-year-old White participant com- in anal intercourse. The noted differences in results from the
mented, “I’ve heard that, like, men have a G-spot, and if you current study and those from previous research suggest that
stimulate that spot it’s more pleasurable or you get to orgasm sociodemographic and developmental factors may play a
quicker. And, like, I’ve heard that they have that in their anus role in shaping attitudes and motivations and should be
and that’s why they really like it.” further explored.

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Consistent with findings reported by Fahs and Gonzalez However, it is important to note that some participants identified
(2014), study participants described anal sex as an increasingly the violation of social norms as a reason that some women view
normative aspect of the sexual repertoire. While stigma was anal sex as desirable. In essence, breaking taboos was exciting
attached to both PAI and oral–anal contact, none of the partici- and arousing. When considered together, the results indicate that
pants associated stigma or pain with manual–anal stimulation or motivational factors vary and that anal eroticism should not be
the use of sex toys, and attitudes toward both were generally discounted as a factor that shapes women’s desires.
favorable. Several participants noted that nonintercourse anal Stigma is a known threat to sexual health, and Kettrey
sex behaviors are frequently represented in media and popular (2016) found that feeling judged predicts power disadvan-
culture as normative, and it is probable that this had some tages that might further increase risk for negative sexual
influence on attitudes. Research examining lifetime prevalence health outcomes. Continued investigation of the factors that
rates of vibrator use among a sample of heterosexual women age contribute to stigma will provide information that enhances
18 to 60 found that 45% reported solo use, 39% reported use the ability to identify individuals at higher risk for adverse
with a partner during foreplay, and 36% reported use with a outcomes and may have relevance for clinical and educa-
partner during vaginal intercourse (Herbenick, Reece, Sanders, tional encounters.
et al., 2010). The study participants commonly cited “curiosity” Regardless of their own attitudes and experiences, none of
and “fun” as reasons for use. The prevalence and acceptability of the participants openly dismissed the idea that some women
sex toy use may provide further evidence of broadening sexual might find PAI pleasurable. However, the fact that PAI was
norms and could help explain the positive attitudes toward “anal
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more commonly associated with pain than pleasure was unsur-


play” expressed by participants in the current study. prising given findings from existing qualitative and quantitative
Stigma, pain, coercion, nonconsent, and poor communica- research (Fahs & Gonzalez, 2014; Herbenick et al., 2015;
tion between partners were commonly associated with PAI and Reynolds, Fisher, & Rogala, 2015; Stulhofer & Ajduković,
likely explain the predominantly negative attitudinal themes 2011, 2013). Herbenick et al. (2015) noted that roughly 72%
that emerged. Cultural representations of the anus as “dirty” of their sample reported experiencing pain during receptive PAI,
and concerns about oral–fecal contact leading to illness may with women most often rating the intensity as either moderate or
help account for participants’ unfavorable attitudes toward severe. Stulhofer and Ajduković (2011) found that approxi-
oral–anal contact. In part, stigma surrounding anal sex may mately 49% of women in their sample had to stop receptive
reflect heterosexual scripts that depict vaginal sex as “natural” PAI on their first attempt because the pain was too intense to
or “normal,” PAI as “homosexual,” and defecation as the sole continue, which was consistent with experiences described by
purpose and function of the anus. Further examination of some of the participants in the current study. However,
women’s perceptions of the anus, including beliefs about Herbenick et al. (2015) also noted that 63% of subjects reported
purpose and function, could help clarify the extent to which pain lasting five or fewer minutes, and Stulhofer and Ajduković
these factors contribute to attitudes. (2013) found that continued receptive PAI practice was asso-
Participants described stigma as limiting women’s ability to ciated with reduced intensity and duration of pain over time.
openly discuss PAI and oral–anal contact, although several Further, Stulhofer and Ajduković (2013) found that pain was not
reported discussing these and other anal sex behaviors with a good indicator of subsequent behavior, and Fahs and Gonzalez
close female friends and sexual partners. The fear of social (2014) reported that the importance of relational and emotional
judgment and labeling were commonly cited as outcomes that aspects of anal sex often took precedence over pain in their
discouraged disclosure and likely influenced women’s attempts sample of women. The results of these studies may help explain
to conceal anal sex experiences as well as deny curiosity and the group of women in the current sample who described pain as
enjoyment. Research examining the sexual double standard and “not that bad,” “fine,” or something “you get used to,” as well as
“slut-shaming” indicates that women and men are judged dif- intentions to continue practicing PAI despite pain.
ferently for the same sexual behaviors (Papp et al., 2015) and The association between PAI and pain is likely one
that women often feel that they receive harsher judgment than explanation for its relative infrequence when compared to
their male counterparts (Kettrey, 2016). other sexual behaviors. Because pain can be an indicator of
To some extent, stigma may also reflect sexual scripts that local trauma (e.g., abrasions, tearing) that allows for more
restrict women’s abilities to express sexual interest and desire for efficient HIV/STI transmission, additional assessments of
any type of sex. While Roye et al. (2013) suggested that there is pain, associated behavioral practices (e.g., lubricant use)
no cultural script for heterosexual anal sex, existing research that that may have implications for differential risk, and sexual
has examined vaginal sex indicates that ambivalence can emerge health outcomes are warranted.
from simultaneous curiosity and desire tempered by fears of Pain did not emerge as a salient theme related to manual–anal
developing a “reputation” (Graham et al., 2004; Tolman, behaviors and the use of sex toys. This finding can likely be
2005). The fact that participants commonly reported looking to attributed to the fact that most participants viewed these beha-
female friends for validation and permission to explore their viors as less “intimidating” because sex toys come in a range of
curiosities and desires implies that social factors had relevance. sizes and fingers are usually smaller than an erect penis.
The lack of an “anal sex” script may also help explain why many Experimentation with nonintercourse behaviors was described
participants attempted to contextualize and normalize their as a both a mechanism for women to gauge their interest in
experiences by comparing them to those of female friends. attempting PAI and a preparation strategy that allowed women

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to develop comfort and familiarity with the sensations of anal may be viewed as both a source of power and control and a
penetration prior to intercourse. These findings indicate that strategy for achieving broader relational goals.
there may be a trajectory in which PAI is the end goal after a While none of the participants used the word “rape” when
period of experimentation that allows women to adjust to the describing experiences, coercion and nonconsent were salient
sensations of anal penetration. The fact that participants themes that emerged, and the results are consistent with findings
described women needing time to determine if PAI is wanted reported by other investigators (Fahs & Gonzalez, 2014;
implies a process of active decision making in which sexual Jozkowski & Peterson, 2013; Reynolds, Fisher, & Rogala,
pleasure, desire, and curiosity are important considerations and 2015; Stahlman et al., 2015). Many participants described “pres-
may help explain why some women engage in nonintercourse sure” from a partner, most commonly in the form of repeated
behaviors (e.g., pleasure) but not PAI (e.g., pain/discomfort). requests, as a common reason that women engage in anal sex.
Additional research that examines trajectories will be necessary Further, participants reported that men employ a variety of
to better understand the integration of anal sex behaviors into the strategies to obtain anal sex, ranging from the use of deception
sexual repertoire of heterosexual women. Attention should (e.g., claiming their penis slipped) to simply inserting their finger
given to the fact that anal sexuality extends beyond PAI and or penis into their partner’s anus/rectum during sex without prior
that PAI may not ever be included in the repertoire. communication or consent, and this is similar to findings
Acquiescence to unwanted anal sex emerged as a salient reported by Reynolds, Fisher, and Rogala (2015) and
motivational theme, with some participants framing PAI as Jozkowski and Peterson (2013). While men’s reasons for using
“something you just do” as part of relationship maintenance.
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coercion and deception can only be adequately answered by men


Previous research has found that desires to please a partner, themselves, results from a study conducted by Jozkowski and
maintain a relationship, or enhance intimacy and emotional Peterson (2013) may offer one explanation. When examining
closeness were common reasons that women reported engaging men’s narratives, the researchers found that some men believed
in anal sex (Reynolds, Fisher, & Rogala, 2015; Stahlman et al., “most women hate it” (i.e., anal sex) and concluded that decep-
2015); the same themes emerged in the current study. tive tactics were one way that men avoided refusal. It was
Underlying sexual scripts, broader relational schemas, and hypothesized that a proportion of men may believe that the
beliefs about sexual agency, gender roles, power, and control best way to obtain sex is through simply engaging in the act.
have been linked to sexual acquiescence. A study examining The beliefs described by Jozkowski and Peterson (2013) are
gender, power, and contraceptive use found that anal sex at direct odds with narratives that emerged during this study,
occurred more frequently in relationships where men were the wherein participants emphasized the importance of mental readi-
sexual and contraceptive decision makers (Wiebe, 2012). ness for anal sex of any kind and cited communication and
Conroy, Krishnakumar, and Leone (2015) examined heterosex- consent as necessary components. In fact, some participants
ual women’s experiences of sexual acquiescence and noted that expressed that they would be willing to engage in anal sex
64% of the women who reported PAI experience admitted to with the “right” partner, who was described as someone that
acquiescence on at least one occasion, and roughly one-third of was gentle, trustworthy, and close. Within that context, it was
those did so one-quarter of the time. Participants most often suggested that anal sex could conceivably be pleasurable, com-
cited partner pleasure or enhanced intimacy as reasons for fortable, and a facilitator of intimacy and trust. These findings
acquiescence to PAI, which was not distinct from their reasons suggest that contextual and relational factors play an important
for engaging in unwanted vaginal intercourse, oral sex, and role in women’s framing of anal sex experiences. Further, the
manual stimulation. Recent research that examined women’s results indicate that, for some women, anal sex behaviors cannot
and men’s event-level motivations for intercourse and noninter- be considered pleasurable if they are spontaneous acts initiated
course sexual behaviors found that perceiving a partner wanted in the moment without prior communication and consent, but
sex was a significant predictor of sexual events and associated can be if they are planned, thoughtful acts that are negotiated in
with a greater number of sexual behaviors occurring during an advance. The cumulative findings make clear that gender differ-
event (Hensel, He, Harezlak, & Fortenberry, 2017). The current ences in motivations cannot be ignored. Additional investigation
study findings combined with those from Conroy et al. (2015) of contextual and relational factors that influence anal sex events,
and Hensel et al. (2017) suggest that women’s reasons for and how those factors are influenced by gender, may provide
acquiescing to unwanted anal sex may not be entirely distin- insight.
guishable from other forms of unwanted sex, and that percep- Women’s attitudes toward heterosexual men as receptive anal
tions of partners’ desires are one reason that sex is chosen on any sex partners have received little attention in scientific literature.
given occasion. This point is critical given that much of the A study examining the sexual behaviors and experiences of
existing literature has attempted to distinguish motivations for behaviorally bisexual men found that 4% of the sample reported
anal sex from those influencing vaginal sex behaviors rather a woman inserting “something” (e.g., dildo) into their anus
than considering the similarities. It may be necessary for scien- during their most recent sexual event, suggesting that receptive
tists and clinicians to reconceptualize anal sex as an extension of behaviors do occur outside of same-sex contexts (Dodge et al.,
the broader sexual repertoire rather than assume that it is an 2013). However, similar research has not been conducted among
entirely unique set of sexual behaviors. Further, that some men with exclusive heterosexual experience. Among the three
participants described anal sex as a commodity that they used groups who raised the topic in the current study, only two
as an occasional reward or “treat” for partners indicates that it women openly expressed negative attitudes. One woman noted

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that she would feel uncomfortable if a male partner requested The current study findings, combined with those from
anal stimulation and another reported that she would view her existing research, are a starting point for improved phenom-
partner as less masculine. Largely, participants attributed men’s enological understanding. When compared to other hetero-
desires for anal stimulation to enhanced pleasure associated with sexual sexual behaviors, scientific understanding of anal sex
the prostate or male “G-spot.” Men as receptive heterosexual is still in its infancy. However, the documented prevalence
anal sex partners remain an understudied topic in the sexual indicates that it is part of the heterosexual repertoire.
health research literature that deserves attention. Continued investigation of heterosexual anal sexuality, and
its place within the broader sexual repertoire, will be neces-
sary to answer many of the questions that remain.
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(2015). An electronic daily diary study of anal intercourse in drug- that involve the anus, including both anilingus (oral/
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behaviors. Motivations can be anything. What do
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