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Being The Best - Page 1
MAIN IDEA
Success in life is not measured by what a person gets, but by what they continue to do with what they have.
The concept of success is very personal -- it means completely different things to different people. Therefore, happiness and fulfillment
are actually generated through the richness of the experience on the journey to success and not in the fleeting moment when someone
feels they have arrived. In the final analysis, success is not a destination at all -- it’s a way to travel.
Success must be built from the inside out if it is to be sustained over an extended period. It has nothing to do with comparisons to
other people, and everything to do with the exhilaration that comes with doing something that is extraordinary, excellent and heart
warming.
Being the best means doing your best, giving your best and achieving your best in everything you do day by day.
1. 2.
EXPOSING THE SUCCESS MYTHS HOW TO LIVE FROM THE INSIDE OUT
3. 4.
CHARACTER CAN’T BE COUNTERFEITED LIVING WITHOUT LIMITATIONS
6. 7.
THE ROAD BEST TRAVELED THE RATCHET EFFECT:
TWO CLICKS FORWARD, ONE BACK
Main Idea
Most people spend their entire lives doing what they think others Main Idea
want them to do instead of following their dreams. Yet the road The secret to living a happy, rewarding and productive life is to
to real success -- the road less traveled -- is to follow your natural have clearly defined goals. Write them down and focus on them
gifts and have the courage to let whatever you love take you several times each day, using words, pictures and especially
where you’d really like to go. emotions. Think about them vividly -- as if they’ve already been
Supporting Ideas achieved.
Are you the type of person who spends more time planning an Supporting Ideas
upcoming vacation than you ever do planning your career or your Most people think of health, wealth and success as being goals.
life? Or are you the type of person who feels somewhere there’s In reality, however, they’re not goals -- they’re the by-products
an undiscovered treasure, and that ‘‘Someday you’ll.....’’.Do you of having a specific purpose in life and achieving that purpose.
look forward to the weekends so you can forget about doing Without a specific goal, all a person is engaging in is wishful
whatever to earn a living and instead spend some time doing thinking. Specific goals should be personalized -- they should
what you really enjoy? reflect precisely what you want and not what others expect of
A ‘‘Yes’’ answer to any of these questions is a warning signal that you. Follow this process to set your goals:
you haven’t found a career that takes advantage of your natural 1. First, write down on a blank piece of paper every goal you’d
gifts and talents. like to set.
If that is the case, just getting through the work day will be the 2. Take another piece of paper. Think about the consequences
goal, instead of trying to achieve as much as possible. That’s an of each of your potential goals, and how much each of them
excellent way to become unhappy and unsuccessful, because mean to you. Decide which goals are the most important, and
being the best will be an undiscovered treasure lying somewhere write down ten goals in priority order -- starting with the most
or other. important and ending with the 10th most important goal.
If you spend more time thinking about what you’re going to do at 3. Now, underline the top three prioritized goals on your list.
your lunch break than on your career and your life, take action Rewrite those goals on a three-by-five card, or write them
immediately. Find something you can be passionate about that into your planner (in pencil though, so you can change them
you can do to earn your living. as required).
Key Thoughts 4. Carry those three primary goals with you wherever you go.
‘‘Ideas came to me as they do to all of us. The difference is I took Whenever you have a few spare moments, review them and
them seriously. I didn’t get discouraged that others didn’t see visualize them being achieved. Whenever you’re faced with
what I saw. I had trust and confidence in my perceptions, rather a decision about how to spend your time, consider whether
than listening to dogma and what other people thought. I didn’t your choice will move you towards or away from those goals.
allow anyone to discourage me -- and everyone did. But life is Let them flavor everything you do.
not a popularity contest.’’
-- Jonas Salk Key Thoughts
‘‘If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything.’’ ‘‘Setting a goal starts with a dream, a desire for something you
-- Denis Waitley really want. Planning is the road map that leads you to your
destination. Motivation is the fuel that takes you there. But first
‘‘Most people spend their entire lives on a fantasy island called
you have to have a goal. If you don’t know where you’re going,
"Someday I’ll".’’
any road will take you there.’’
-- Denis Waitley
-- Denis Waitley
‘‘I speak to thousands of people each year who are somewhere
‘‘If you don’t know where you’re going, it doesn’t matter if your
on the corporate ladder, and I am constantly amazed at their lack
alarm doesn’t go off.’’
of specific goals. Managing by objectives has been around for
-- Denis Waitley
years. Numerous books, audio cassettes, videos and seminars
emphasize goal setting. But even with all this input, many people ‘‘The happiest people in the world are those who are doing
still lack the specificity necessary to set suitable goals for something they feel is worth their effort and who are working up
themselves and reach them. For countless unhappy, to their potential. Perhaps the most splendid achievement of all
unsuccessful people out there, getting through the day is a is the continuing quest to surpass ourselves. Setting goals is only
primary ambition. they set no other daily goals. They float along part of that quest.’’
like driftwood in a slow-moving river. They take whatever job they -- Denis Waitley
can find and exert the least amount of effort possible. They focus
on lunch breaks, coffee breaks, quitting time and pay day.’’
-- Denis Waitley
Being The Best - Page 6
8. 9.
IF IT’S TO BE, IT’S UP TO ME! PASSION, PRACTICE AND PERSEVERANCE
4. Put aside one day every couple of months to follow-through ‘‘To be the best you can be, never label lack of success as
on whatever you anticipate might go wrong. Work through all failure.’’
the things that concern you, get into action on whatever you -- Denis Waitley
can and then commit not to worry until your next designated
worry day in two months time. ‘‘To handle failure, you need to know how to handle fear.’’
-- Denis Waitley
5. Develop some adaptability. Count on change occurring in
every aspect of your personal and professional life. If you
have confidence in your own ability to roll with the figurative
punches, change won’t seem intimidating at all. In fact, it can
be quite invigorating, since it will give you the opportunity to
learn new skills and gain new experiences.
6. Seek every opportunity to get back into action as soon as
possible after any failure. This, more than any other single
factor, will help you put a temporary failure into proper
Being The Best - Page 8
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A FIVE STAR RATING HOW DO YOU MEASURE SUCCESS?