A PARTICULAR DANGER: LYING

Since the beginning of the humanity, telling lies have been seen in every details of people’s
lifes. Sometimes lying could be good for people unless it is excessive and effect our lifes deeply.
Shortly we classify that kind of lies as a white lies, lexical meaning of it is a minor or harmless lie.
Lying in our human nature, we lie for several reasons. Once the person lies, it becomes a habit and
even an addiction. However it’s impossible to list the reasons for telling lie. The factors can be sorted
as trying to be like others, avoiding hurting people’s feelings and not wanting to provoke a conflict
and normally those reasons lead to deficiency of self-love and self-confidence, not be aware of the
mistakes that were made and cause worse and seen as a stupid or a weak person. That essay will
figure out why people tell lies and what are the results of those.

Firstly, in our world almost all of us are impressed by some successful, in many ways fascinating
people, wanting to be like them, living life fully like their’s, travelling or clothing like them, we resort
to lie in our social environments. Nevertheless, it’s forgotten that lying like these leads to some
problems such as lack of self love and confidence, make ourselves worthless and even it goes to
mental issues.

Another reason for telling lies is abstain from hurting people’s feelings. For example, when
people say ‘this colour really looks pretty on you.’ or ‘thanks for all things, they were good.’ these,
they maybe do not want to make the partner sad and they want to be kind to them. But that’s
cannot be ethic and causes to unawarenesss of the fault made and they maybe go on that way
which are full of those lies.

Not wanting to create a controversy is the last factor of telling lies. There could be some
situations or meetings that are a bit critical so person should strike a serious attitude or they might
not be in their good moods to defend and explain their ideas. That’s why they tell a lie for not to
cause any conflict. Making an impression like you always be looked weak and underestimated as you
had not defended yourself or said nothing.

In conclusion, both telling and hearing lies are always seen from anyone from 7 to 70. The causes
are trying to be look like better person, avoiding hurting people’s emotions and not to make any
conflict. At the same time results are see ourselves as a passive person and lack of self love and
confidence, stemming from unawareness of mistakes and going on with them and be looked down
on.