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So love is a big part of who you already are, no THE SIXTH HUMAN NEED: CONTRIBUTION
matter who you are. The obstacles to love lie in your
belief system about how to get the feeling of love, “It is better to give than to receive”. What does
your rules about how to recognize and appreciate this idiom mean? Contribution to others is the last
love, and your ability to learn to give love as well as human need. We could understand that we could
receive it. Some people rarely experience love, but only contribute to others when we go beyond our own
they have many ways of feeling the connection with needs and give to others. Our brain would focus on
others—in the community or the workplace. other elements when we are trying to help people and
forgo our pain and sadness. Therefore, the contribution
Do you experience love in your life, or do you focus on is the human need that effectively regulates your other
connection with others, a less threatening form of love? five needs. If you are focused on contribution, you
When in your life have you felt loved? have the certainty of being able to contribute (there
is always a way); you have variety in the number of
You are always encouraged to view youtube on things that can go right and wrong (contribution is
“Harlow’’s experiment” you will learn even a monkey highly interactive); you have significance because the
would need love and security. To sum up, love and commitment to contribution is rare and is the sign of
connection can be described with the following an extraordinary person; you have a connection
because there is a spiritual connection in helping of significance. When someone who gets the feeling
others, and you have to experience growth because of importance from taking care of others suddenly
contribution requires you to go beyond your own becomes unable to help others, he or she will also
needs. From this perspective, the purpose of human experience a loss of significance.
needs psychology is not only to take care of your own
needs but to expand and serve others in an attitude When people lose their usual ability to meet their needs,
of leadership and contribution. If you are focused on they react by trying to find other ways of regaining their
growth and contribution, it is difficult to get bored or sense of significance, at least temporarily. Sometimes
depressed. these temporary solutions lead to short-term solutions
and other times they lead to harm.
We live in a closed system according to system theory.
Remember that what we are doing now might not be Just ask yourself, if you are given another 24 hours
rewarded now but it could someway and somehow we to life by our “creator”, what would you do? Would
could be rewarded. We call this system their “model you look for more money? Would you harm others
of the world.” One person may give himself or herself to gain significance? Would you destroy others to
the feeling of certainty by always controlling the satisfy your comfort needs? Would you strike to
environment, a second person may feel certain by not get love and connection? Would you struggle for
trusting anyone, and a third person may get the feeling another day for growth or would you try to increase
of certainty by holding a spiritual belief. Everyone can your uncertainty and variety of life? I am sure you
meet their own needs in sustainable ways that serve know the answer!
the greater good of themselves and others, or they can
meet their own needs in ways that sooner or later harm CONCLUSION
themselves or others.
The purpose of human needs psychology is to
UNMASKING THE UGLY understand a person’s model of the world, to bring about
SOCIETY a conscious understanding of personal choices, and to
assist the person in finding new ways to meet personal
Human needs are needs in ways that will enhance personal sustainability.
not difficult to fulfill.
However, we are living Getting towards the goals in our life is essential
in a temporary and but the process of moving our goals plays a more
fragile society. A small significant role because what we
change in our life has are doing now would be
shaken our needs. accounted for in our life.
For instance, when The path to authentic
financial failure comes to happiness starts with
a businessperson who gets us. Let’s take a small
the feeling of significance step within ourselves;
from being financially we could make the
successful, he or she world a better place.
will experience a loss You and I can do it!