Carla P.

Arcilla
STEM 11 – Selga
Personal Development
Module 7

What I Know
1. C
2. B
3. C
4. D
5. B
6. C
7. C
8. A
9. B
10. D
11. A
12. D
13. C
14. B
15. C

Activity1

FAMILY

FRIENDS
FAMILY:
Ma. Cecilia (Mama)
Alberto (Papa)
Quin (Younger brother)

Friends:
 First picture (From left to right)
Jenny, Marjorie, Ate Patricia, Sharmy, Me, Rowena
 Second picture (From left to right)
Sarah, Me, Isabelita

Activity 2
Portrait

Activity 3

I have a very strong connection with my friends but not as much when it comes
to my family. I do not share much of my thoughts to my parents or to my brother. It does
not work for me that way and I fear they won’t exactly understand me as much as my
closest friends do. But we are close in our family despite of this. I am happy with what I
have, although it would be nice to actually release my thoughts to them without the
worries of being misunderstood, invalidated, and ignored. If only they are welcoming
and also open about their thoughts, I would probably comfortable to share with them.
My friends on the other hand are very understanding and supportive. We help each
other achieve goals and growth. We also do not tolerate things that are done wrong in
our circle. We communicate well and fix it. They have been with me through my highs
and lows and the best persons to confide with.

Activity 4
Statement Name of Person/s Reasons
1. I like him/her Marjorie, Lyzza Because Marjorie has a
because he/she is nice posture and Lyzza
physically attractive. has a wonderful smile.
2. I am attracted to Sharmy, Marjorie, Because we share the
him/her because we Rowena, Jenny, Patricia, same humor, and mindset.
are alike. Sarah, Isabelita
3. I am attracted to Sharmy, Marjorie, Because I know how they
him/her because I Rowena, Jenny, Patricia, are as as person for we
am familiar with Sarah, Isabelita usually are together.
him/her and we
often see each
other.
 4. I am attracted to Sharmy, Marjorie, Because we all vibe with
him/her because we Rowena, Jenny, Patricia, each other.
have the same Sarah, Isabelita
feelings or we like
each other.

Activity 5
1. Short path
2. 10 white and 10 red roses.
3. Ask a family member
4. Bed
5. Asleep
6. Long

Activity 6
Relationship Combination of Types of Love
Family Agape + Philia + Storge
Friendship Philia + Storge + Philautia
Significant Other Pragma + Eros + Ludus

Activity 7
My result:
Friends:
1st picture
Jenny: Quality Time
Marjorie: Quality Time
Patricia: Quality Time
Sharmy: Quality Time
Rowena: Quality Time

2nd picture
Sarah: Quality Time
Isabelita: Quality Time

Family:
Mama: Quality Time
Papa: Acts of Service
Little brother: Quality Time

Activity 8
Journal Reflection

Activity 9

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Activity 10
Healthy Relationship
You feel good about yourself when you’re
around the other person.
You do not try to control each other.
There is an equal amount of give and
take.
There is communication, sharing and
trust. You feel safe to share secrets.
You like to spend time together but also
enjoy doing things apart.
There is no fear in your relationship. It is
easy to be yourself when you are with
them.
Unhealthy Relationship
You feel sad, angry, scared, or worried.
You feel that you give more attention to
them than they give to you. You feel
controlled.
You do not communicate, share, or trust.
You feel fear in your relationshiop.
You feel the need to be someone that you
are not.
 It is easy to be yourself when you are with You feel pressured to spend time
them. together and you feel guilty when you are
both apart.
There is no fear in your relationship. You feel there is no respect for you or
your opinion. You are not able to
disagree.

Activity 11
Journal Reflection

Post-test
1. B
2. D
3. C
4. A
5. D
6. C
7. C
8. C
9. B
10. D
11. A
12. C
13. B
14. B
15. C