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Self-Management
-The ability to sucessfully regulate one´s emotions, thoughts, and behaviours in
different situations- effectively managing stress, controlling impulses , and motivating
oneself.
Impulse control
Stress management
Self-motivation
-The ability to set and work toward personal and academic goals.
Self-discipline
Goal-setting
Organizational skills
CONTENTS
1 What is emotional regulation and its development
2 Modeling Appropriate, Genuine Emotional Responses
3 Supporting Children´s Regulation of Emotions
Noah wants to be the first to get a swing, so he throws on his jacket and hurries to the
head of the line at the door. Then, while waiting, he turns his back to the door so he canot
see the playground and sings a song to himself.
DEFINITION
The ability to succesfully regulate one´s emotions in different situations, effectively
managing stress, controlling impulses, and motivating oneself.
It comes
Through external
From within children influences
2) Distract/calm themselves down when they become highly emotionally aroused (useful for
adults)
3) Changing the intensity and duration of one´s emotional responses using coping strategies(
cooping skills-resillence)
4) Coordinate feelings, thoughts and actions to achive goals. Ex : best marks I am able to
coordinate my actions no matter what my feelings are
BENEFITS
1 Children reach the goals they desire
COMES
THROUGH EXTERNAL
FROM WITHIN
ADULT INFLUENCES
CHILDREN
NATURAL STRATEGIES
LEARNING STRATEGIES
MATURATION OF THE BRAIN AND NERVOUS SYSTEM IS CRUCIAL FOR ER
Pre-school years are critically important in developing emotional regulation
BABIES INFANCY
BABIES
-Have instinctual ways of dealing with their emotions
1) Protect themselves from execessive stimulation (disengagement clues)
-turning away
-sucking thums
2) They often need caregivers help whe they have a need and cannot mee ton their own
CRY
BUT before overly aroused : Soothe them til
they recover
Calm them down to avoid to avoid crying episodes
their equilibrium
As babies learn to trust caregivers, they calm down quicker and easier
TODDLERS
Learn additional ways to regulate their emotions:
PRE-SCHOOLERS
They learn
COGNITIVE REFRAMING
IMPULSIVITY:
-STOP
-THINK
-ACT
2 Abilities:
b) Delaying Gratification
Sense of Mastery
in children´s lives
• It is a kind of Cognitive Regulation
• It helps to develop
Keep your promises: You will have 2 sweets if you wait for now
Reinforce your rules constantly
2. Modeling Genuine, Appropriate Emotional Responses
Emotional Regulation and Modeling
Emotional Regulation comes
Modeling Emotions
DEFINITION
Modeling is a general process in which persons serve as models for others, exhibiting the
behaviour to be imitated by the others
• Important strategy to help children regulate their emotions: to teach them show appropriate
emotional responses
Modeling Emotions
1. Adults as Emotion Models
• Social referencing
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_UHkFUzHQA
2. Approppriateness:
All adults become angry at times when they are with children
1. Identify situations
2. Simplify the
that may trigger
classroom enviroment
excessive anger
Discuss you
If inappropriate anger behaviour with the
occurs anyway, children.
DISCUSSING: An example
4. Supporting Children’s Regulation of Emotions
• Promote good moods and feelings: be generous, help those who are in trouble, etc
• Let them express their feelings and teach them appropriate patterns of expression
• Children often less tolerant than adults to unpleasant emotional displays: they refuse to
play with children who lack emotional control
3. Seeking comfort
6. Cognitive Reframing
3. Cognitive Reframing
4. Anticipate to new situations that may cause some children to feel insecure or that could
provoke intense reactions.
7) Watching the coping strategies other children use when they are experiencing strong
emotions ithemselves (anger, fear, anxiety…)
10) Problem solving: “I will learn the way from the entrance to my classrooom”; “I will breathe
3 times before responding”, etc
ANALIZE RILEY´S PARENTS ATTITUDE ACCORDING WITH THE PREVIOUS IDEAS. ARE THEY…
• Comforting her?
• ETC
Difficult Times (common situations)
1. When Children Face another Anger:
- Work withAssertive responses: stand up for one´s rights without losing control
- Prohibiting emotional displays that can hurt others’ feelings help children to be more
sympathetic
- Regulating it
• SELF TALK: is a strategy in which the person describes what he or she is doing. The adult
provides the words to describe her actions, without expecting the child to respond. Short
sentences
EG: “Now I am writing a ‘W.’ I start here and go down, up, down, and up again. There---a ‘W’.
• PARALLEL TALK: is a technique in which the adult describes what the child is doing or
seeing. Acting like a broadcaster. She watches the action and describes it to the child, without
expecting a response.
EG: “Oh, you put the yellow block on top. The tower is getting taller