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What’s the Right Thing to Ask a Girl You’ve

Just Met
Meeting new people is always exciting. You can learn something new, exchange
experiences, as well as meet a beautiful girl who you would certainly like to date. What to
say in situations like that is a very important question, since her interest in you mostly
depends on that. Questions to ask a girl you just met should be clear and not too long. They
have to be interesting and engaging as well. Meeting someone face to face is becoming
rarer, so you should know some questions to ask a girl you just met online. Of course, don’t
be certain that even if you manage to hook up with her, she will be there forever. You have
to keep on being interesting and always have something new to ask her. That is the best
way to get to know someone, anyway.

Creative and Effective Questions to Ask a Girl You


Just Met
What do you do for a living?
This is a standard question, but if you, by any chance, do similar jobs, that is a great topic to
start with. You can share ideas, experiences and advice.

Do you have any hobbies?


You can tell how interesting a girl is by how many things she is interested in. People are
usually passionate about their hobbies, so you can ask her a lot more questions about her
hobbies and keep the conversation going.

What do you love about your job?


Even though working every day is not easy, there must be something she likes about her
job, especially if it’s something she really loves to do.

Do you like animals?


Well, she probably does, because women are usually more compassionate and emotional.
This question is great because you can talk about specific things (pets, favorite species,
etc.). Trust me, girls usually adore guys who like animals.

Do you have any siblings?


This is also a topic that can last forever. Let her talk about her siblings if she has any, or
about what it’s like being a single child. You can even make the conversation funny and tell
her a funny story about your siblings.
What is the last country that you’ve visited?
Only to ask if she likes traveling would be anything but exciting. That question is just too
frequent and asked all the time. If you ask her a question like this, she will certainly talk
about her last trip, and you can demonstrate to her how a great listener you are.

What does your morning routine look like?


Girls love morning routines and trust me, for them, those routines are like a set of small and
enjoyable everyday rituals. She will surely like this question.

Who has had the most influence on you?


This question is a little bit philosophical, but if she is smart, she will be amazed by it because
it’s not weird, but it is serious. Also, judging by her answer, you can find out how smart she
is.

What motivates you the most?


There must be something that motivates her. If there isn’t, then she is probably not as
interesting as she looks. And of course, you can always ask more questions about her
motivators.

Where do you usually go out?


Going out to different places shouldn’t be a dealbreaker, but girls like talking about how they
spend their time. If she asks you the same question and the answer is completely different,
it’s always better to stay honest.
What is your favorite kind of food?
Everybody loves food, and people could talk about food all day long. You can share recipes,
experiences, funny stories, advice and all kinds of things. And this question certainly
instigates an enjoyable conversation.

Are you an extrovert or an introvert?


Usually, people are proud of the fact that they are either an extrovert or an introvert. You
need to ask her something that will catch her interest. People love talking about themselves
and it’s normal. Furthermore, you will find out what kind of person she is.

What is your best childhood memory?


We all have amazing stories from our childhood that we like to retell other people. You can
keep telling interesting and funny stories to each other about what you did when you were
kids. This kind of conversation will certainly be engaging and positive.

What’s your biggest goal in life?


If you ask her this question, she might think that you are an ambitious man who really thinks
about achieving his goals. You will sound smart, and the question itself is not too
philosophic.

What’s the most astonishing thing about you?


This question is a little trick you can use to boost her self-esteem. She might be humble, but
encourage her to tell you something great about herself. After that, you can compliment her,
but don’t praise her too much. It would be dishonest or even creepy.
What would you change in this world?
Let’s be honest, the world is a bit messy right now. Try not to be too serious, though,
because you might seem a bit gloomy and pessimistic.

What do you find attractive in a partner?


Women love to talk about love and relationships, so trust me, this will be an interesting
question to her. Also, you can find out if you are her type or not. Since she is a girl you’ve
just met, it shouldn’t seem suspicious. You would just sound curious.

What’s your favorite music genre?


Who doesn’t love music? If you really have a totally different taste in music, you can always
switch the topic. But if you find out that you like the same genres of music, you will never end
that conversation.

What can you talk all day about?


This is probably the thing that she cares about the most. It doesn’t have to be a hobby; it can
be anything. But this question is important because it will tell you a lot about herself.

What is the most fun thing to do?


Again, this question will indicate how compatible you two are. I would say that having fun, in
the same way, is significant in any relationship. Also, this conversation will certainly be
interesting and engaging.

Summary
There are all kinds of things to ask a girl you just met. The point is to stay positive, listen to
her carefully and not to interrupt her when she talks. Whatever you ask her, you need to be
charming and confident. It seems hard, but practice makes everything perfect. These are the
20 great questions to ask a girl you’ve just met, because they will surely keep the
conversation going.

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