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Ocean of Mercy
Ocean of Mercy
Mercy
Ocean o�
Mercy
A Search Fulfilled
ISBN: 978-0-89213-533-6
This book is dedicated to
my glorious spiritual master,
His Divine Grace A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda,
an ocean of mercy, who came to this world
with the most sublime message of the spiritual world
to deliver the fallen souls of this age of
quarrel and hypocrisy.
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Contents
Preface ix
Foreword xi
Introduction xv
1. On the Road 1
2. In Search of a Guru 29
3. The Nectar of Devotion 43
4. Kumbha-melā 67
5. With Śrīla Prabhupāda in Māyāpur 81
6. Bombay 115
7. Risikesh 143
8. Vṛndāvana 163
9. Back Home 205
Afterword 239
Glossary 243
Sanskrit Pronunciation Guide 247
List of Illustrations 249
PREFACE
the supreme sentiment of love (rasa) more than anything else, the su-
preme power of love (yogamāyā) that is exchanged between and yet sub-
sumes both Rādhā and Kṛṣṇa.
The author of this book offers a glimpse into the key experiences in
his early family life in Bengal that would shape his relationships in his
devotional community later on in life. Our author loses the wonderful
love of his mother too early in his life, and the love of a father that was
never forthcoming. In his young adulthood, Bhakti Chāru Swami finds
a new family of devotional monks and their collective father, His Divine
Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda, the founder-ācārya of
the Hare Kṛṣṇa movement, the first institution to spread kṛṣṇa-bhakti’s
principles, practices, and way of life globally.
This work recounts the author’s experiences in his relationships with
Śrīla Prabhupāda and with brother disciples during the last couple of
years before Prabhupāda passed away, in November of 1977. This work
also conveys how Prabhupāda guided the author to be a renunciant, a
monk in the Vaiṣṇava tradition, specifically guiding him away from the
worldly responsibilities of family life and from any connection with
women. But most importantly, this work describes how the author de-
veloped a humble love and dedication to Śrīla Prabhupāda, who gave
him a life of kṛṣṇa-bhakti and thus revealed himself to be truly “an ocean
of mercy.”
Bhakti Chāru Swami’s words are a testament to his discovery of a
source of the love that would, in effect, fulfill his search for lost loves in
the earlier portions of his life. The relationships with his mother, rela
tives, friends, caring godbrothers, and ultimately his spiritual master
represent phases in our author’s search for love. And thus A Search Ful-
filled is an appropriate subtitle for Ocean of Mercy. I would suggest that
the author is ultimately led to finding such an ocean in his own heart
through the various loves in his life, culminating in the love of his spiri
tual master, for his search would be comprised of unlimited acts of grace
(kṛpā-sindhu). These shifts between his different loves constitute his
“search,” and the fulfillment of such a search would bring our author to
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the point of realizing that this ocean of love is within his own heart. Al-
though Bhakti Chāru Swami lost his spiritual master’s physical presence
so many years ago, I am very aware that the Swami has offered himself
very lovingly more and more as a spiritual father to so many who wish to
tread the path of kṛṣṇa-bhakti.
Graham M. Schweig, Ph.D. (Garuḍa Dāsa)
Author-Translator of Dance of Divine Love:
The Rāsa Līlā of Krishna from the Bhāgavata Purāṇa
(Princeton University Press, 2005)
FOREWORD
defend the dignity of India. He realized how little he knew. It was then
that he first experienced a burning hunger to understand the spiritual
and cultural riches of his birthplace. After delving into book after book,
he decided to leave the West behind and return to India as a sādhu––a
wandering spiritual monk in the Himalayas.
While on his pilgrimage for truth, he came to the Kṛṣṇa conscious-
ness movement. At that time there were thousands of devotees in the
movement who had given their whole lives to serve their guru, His
Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda. Each of them
would give anything for even a moment of their beloved guru’s associ-
ation. A couple of months after joining, the author personally met Śrīla
Prabhupāda, who showered him with affection.
Upon their first meeting, Śrīla Prabhupāda requested him to trans-
late all his books into Bengali, the native language of the movement’s
spiritual heritage, as well as Śrīla Prabhupāda’s own mother tongue. A
few weeks later he was given the service of assisting Śrīla Prabhupāda
in all Bengali and Hindi correspondence, and he became Prabhupāda’s
personal secretary for all of India.
Śrīla Prabhupāda loved and trusted him. Within the first few months
of his practicing bhakti, loving devotional service to Lord Śrī Kṛṣṇa, he
became Prabhupāda’s personal assistant and cook and remained among
the three or four disciples who made up Prabhupāda’s personal entou-
rage. In those few months he was awarded harināma initiation, Gāyatrī
dīkṣā, and initiation into the renounced order of sannyāsa. What makes
this so special is that all three initiations were given to only a few senior
leaders, and then only after many years of sacrifice.
In Ocean of Mercy we are transported into the intimate pastimes of
Śrīla Prabhupāda as he preached to the masses, guided individuals,
and responded to various challenges as a powerful world ācārya, spiri
tual exemplar and teacher. Yet we are also shown how Śrīla Prabhupāda
would reveal his love as a tender-hearted, humble spiritual father and
friend. Bhakti Chāru Swami takes us by the hand and brings us into
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s private quarters and at times to his bedside during
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the final year of his physical presence. In doing so, through his own de-
voted eyes the Swami gives us entrance into what only few have seen.
As I read this book I was astonished and enlightened. I laughed and I
cried as I was carried into the personal presence of Śrīla Prabhupāda
through this beautiful gift of his loving servant.
Rādhānātha Swami
INTRODUCTION
T he ancient Vedas of India, which contain the world’s oldest and most
profound spiritual wisdom, state that human life begins when one
sincerely inquires, “Who am I? Where did I come from? What is the
purpose of my existence?” These three questions are called brahma-
jijñāsā, or spiritual inquiry. They can be properly answered only by a
bona fide spiritual teacher. Therefore, the actual search begins when one
starts to look for such a teacher. I was a student in Europe when I began
to feel the urge to find such a teacher, and I returned to India to begin
my search. Up until then, my life had been like that of a weary traveler
who had lost his way in the middle of the desert. I was running after a
mirage to quench my thirst, trying to enjoy this world of illusion, but the
more I ran after the mirage, the further it receded—and the more I tried
to enjoy, the more I suffered.
After a long and disappointing journey to many places of pilgrimage,
I finally met the divine personality who would lead me out of this world
of ignorance to the light of knowledge. That divine personality was my
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scribed how Śrīla Prabhupāda left this planet, many devotees broke
down in tears.
From then on, wherever I went, devotees wanted to hear from me
about His Divine Grace and his final days. About ten years ago, one
of my disciples, Dīna Kṛṣṇa Dāsa from London, arranged a podcast of
me speaking about my experiences with Prabhupāda, and the podcast
was also well received. Further, Jayādvaita Swami, Ravīndra Svarūpa
Prabhu, and several other godbrothers of mine were encouraging me to
write a book. Few devotees knew about Śrīla Prabhupāda’s final days,
they pointed out. Still, I hesitated to commit myself to the task because
of my constant engagement as an initiating guru and spiritual leader in
the International Society for Krishna Consciousness (ISKCON).
More recently, some of my disciples added their voices to those urg-
ing me to publish my memories of that time. Raṅga Rādhikā Devī Dāsī
transcribed the lectures I had given and arranged them into an eighty-
page manuscript, which would eventually form the basis of this book.
When I had completed a draft recounting my experiences with
Śrīla Prabhupāda, my dear friend and scholarly godbrother Garuḍa
Prabhu (Dr. Graham Schweig) recommended another friend of ours,
Dr. Carl Herzig (Kālachāndjī Prabhu), as editor. Kālachāndjī, a profes-
sor of English at an American university, accepted the assignment but
also suggested that I include a brief account of my early life. I was ini-
tially reluctant because the book was meant to be a glorification of my
spiritual master, not my autobiography, but he convinced me that read-
ers would naturally like to know about me and my spiritual journey be-
fore I met my spiritual master. That led to the first chapter.
Devāmrita Swami, a close friend and the manager of the Australia/
New Zealand branch of the Bhaktivedanta Book Trust (BBT), sug-
gested that the BBT might be willing to print the book, and I was de-
lighted and honored when Svavāsa Prabhu, another dear friend and a
BBT trustee, agreed to print it through the North American BBT, with
the involvement of BBT editor Draviḍa Prabhu and designer and layout
artist Arcita Prabhu.
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On the Road
(1945 –1975)
He was my hero and I was proud of him, but most of his time was taken
up by his career, about which he was passionate. He worked late, and I
saw little of him.
When I was seven, my mother contracted tuberculosis and my fam-
ily was separated to avoid contagion. My younger sister was sent to an
aunt’s house, and my older brother and I went to live with my father’s
elder sister. She was a widow whose eight children were all grown up,
and she showered us with love and affection. She was also an excellent
vegetarian cook who loved to serve others, and I developed a liking for
her dishes. But I missed my mother. I knew she was sick, but I didn’t
understand why we could not be together.
One day during a birthday party for a cousin, I sneaked out to see
her. When I looked into her room, she was sitting up in bed, propped
up by pillows, with her eyes closed. I stood at the doorway, not sure
whether to approach her, but when she opened her eyes I could see her
look of happy surprise, and she beckoned to me to come closer. She
thought someone had brought me, but when I told her that I had snuck
away and come by myself, she hugged me and started to cry. I laid my
head on her lap, and she caressed me, tears coursing down her cheeks.
Then she drew me in and held me in a tight embrace, comforting me
with the warm beating of her heart.
A few days later, one of my uncles came to fetch my brother and me
from our aunt’s. I thought we might be going to see our mother, but
when we went to put on our shoes, our uncle told us not to. I could tell
that something was wrong. I didn’t know what had happened, but my
brother broke down crying. He understood that family members were
not supposed to touch any inauspicious objects—including leather—
when someone had died.
We arrived at the house to find several relatives gathered, all looking
grave. Upstairs, our mother was laid out on her bed—her eyes closed,
flower garlands around her neck and colorful bouquets surrounding
her body. Her face was decorated with sandalwood paste, and a bright
red sindūra dot marked the center of her brow. She looked so beautiful, I
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of the river. That’s it, I thought—I would take the train to the boarding
school in the foothills, promise the principal that I would be good, and
beg him to let me stay.
Inspired, I ran back to my aunt’s. It was still afternoon, so the house
was quiet, and I sneaked in through the back door, grabbed some things,
emptied my piggy bank, and found more money in my cousin’s drawer.
Then I slipped out and dashed to the station.
Seeing a young boy alone, the ticketing clerk was suspicious, but I
told him that I was returning to school. When he asked why no one was
with me, I said that my mother had died and that my father had meant
to come with me but had been called away by some unforeseen business.
I was used to traveling alone, I told him; I could manage on my own.
So he gave me a ticket and let me pass. I used the same story on my
co-passengers, and an hour later I was heading north in search of the
boarding school of my dreams.
That night, still on the train after having fallen asleep, I was gently
awakened by someone shaking my arm. When I looked up, I saw that
the train had stopped at a junction and I was surrounded by a group of
passengers accompanied by a police officer. This time, when asked who
I was and where I was going, I didn’t dare lie. When the officer heard
my story, he took me to the local station and phoned my father. I didn’t
want to talk to him, but when the officer insisted, I took the phone and
then broke down crying.
After the officer explained the situation to my father, he took me to
his home nearby, where his wife fed me and put me to sleep. I stayed the
next day as well, almost entirely in bed. They were very nice to me, but
alone in the room, I felt like a criminal who had been arrested.
That night, my father came to take me back to Calcutta. There, he sat
with me and we had the longest talk I could remember having with him.
He told me how much he loved me and how much confidence he had in
me. No matter what I had done, he said, he knew that I was a good boy and
would never do anything really bad. My mother had loved me, he assured
me—she still did. Then he sat silently as I cried out the agony of separation.
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The next few days, I just stayed in my room, unsure what would
come next. My aunt was still loving and supportive, but things had
changed and everyone around me realized that something had to be
done. It was decided that I would be sent to an uncle in the small town of
Khowai, in Tripura, about five hundred kilometers east, across the bor-
der in Bangladesh.
Khowai was a quiet little town on the bank of a river, surrounded by
mountains. People knew each other and seemed to lead simple, happy
lives. Unlike his brothers, my uncle had chosen business over education,
and he had become quite successful supplying jute to the mills in Cal-
cutta. Everyone in the town treated him with affectionate respect.
Initially I felt that I was being sent to Khowai as punishment for my
“crime” of running away, but my experiences soon relieved me of such
misgivings. I had come from the big city, and the local people treated me
with some admiration. More importantly, my uncle and aunt accepted
me as if I were their son, and I was like a big brother to their three small
children. My aunt even told me that when for a long time she had not
been able to have a child, she had requested my mother to give me to
her, and now the Lord had fulfilled her desire. So I began to settle into
life in Khowai.
My relationship with my father had been quite distant since my
mother’s passing, but since my running off, we had become closer, and
I began to feel his love for me again. He wrote to me with life instruc-
tions and expressed his love and confidence that I would succeed. He
reminded me that my mother was always watching over me and that she
would feel proud when I had made something of myself.
Things went well in Khowai, and I was back on track, making friends
and doing well in school. I was not very big or strong, but I enjoyed
some success with athletics. I was the goalkeeper for the school’s soccer
team and did quite well in cricket, which I loved. In my final year, at
sixteen, I was the only student selected for the subdivision cricket team,
which other than myself was comprised of older players, mostly gov-
ernment officers. Our team played well, and we even reached the finals
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join the Air Force. I did not have the finances to get a commercial pi-
lot’s license, so I decided to earn some money and travel abroad, as I
had always dreamt of doing. I teamed up with a friend, Aloke Gupta,
and together we started a business promoting instant coffee. When we
had earned enough, he left to study in England, but although most of
my friends dreamt of going there, I had my eyes set on Germany, specifi
cally Hamburg, where I had a cousin who had encouraged me to come
and pursue my studies.
My choice of Germany was also inspired by a lifelong connection,
as my father’s close friend Vidyapati Ghosh, whom we called Vidyapati
Kaku, Uncle Vidyapati, had studied in Berlin and come back with a
German wife, our Dolly Kakima, Aunt Dolly. She had a Jewish back-
ground, and when the persecution of Jews had begun in Germany in
the 1930s, they had escaped on bicycles, riding more than four hundred
miles to the Swiss border. When they settled in Calcutta, Dolly Kakima
became absorbed in the local Bengali culture. She had been very close
with my mother and had always treated me with affection, especially af-
ter my mother’s passing. So when I heard that another of my friends,
Prasun, was going to Germany to study social psychology, I decided to
join him. Many young people from Europe and America were traveling
east in search of spiritual life, but I, like many other Indians, including
my father, was attracted by the allure of material prosperity, and so I
wanted to visit new places and broaden my views. Thus in the summer
of 1970 I headed west, in the opposite direction.
Like many of our friends, Prasun and I had read and been influenced by
Jack Kerouac’s On the Road, so we had the idea that instead of flying to
Europe we would travel the roads, hitchhiking. It would be a challenge,
we knew, especially since Pakistan was off-limits to Indians, but Prasun
suggested that we take a ship to Basra, Iraq, and proceed overland from
there. So we took a train to Bombay, spent a few days getting visas for
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tude by saying, “No thanks for duty.” They were fun-loving but strict
Muslims, so they did not drink or smoke, and we visited them in their
homes practically every day, sipping tea from small, fine gilded glasses
in their large villas and beautiful gardens. One of their mothers washed
and pressed our clothes for us, and when we got them back I found that
one of my socks, in which I had worn a hole, had been perfectly mended.
Even with our friends’ warm hospitality, however, I was determined
to resume our journey. I tried to convince Prasun to come along, but he
was adamant on staying back. He seemed to want to be on his own, free
from my association and influence. He had left India to experience the
world, he said, and wanted to take full advantage of the opportunity
to spend time with our new friends. He was enjoying himself, and he
wanted to stay on. So we agreed to part ways. I would leave the follow-
ing morning.
Mark, an English traveler Prasun and I had met in the church, had
witnessed our conversation and asked if he could join me. We had al-
ready developed an amiable relationship, so I agreed. When one of our
Arab friends, Ahmed, heard that we were heading north, toward the
Turkish border, he suggested that we visit his family in Zakho, in Kurdi
stan. So that was our first destination.
Having found hitchhiking in Iraq practically impossible, I suggested
that we travel by bus. Ahmed had alerted his friends that we would be com-
ing, so when we arrived we were greeted by a warm reception and brought
right to his house. His father, an old man with a long, flowing beard,
greeted us with a broad smile. He didn’t speak any English, but Ahmed’s
sister was fluent, and both she and his friends took great care of us.
Zakho was a small town with little to see, but we were drawn in by
its ruins, which bore signs of a rich history and culture. Few of Ahmed’s
friends spoke English, but we developed a simple bond of friendship
with gestures and smiles. We played soccer together and afterwards
would cool ourselves in the shallow waters of the local river. Orchards
of apples, pears, and figs grew on its banks, and we would sit beneath
the trees and enjoy their fruits.
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When after three days the time came for Mark and me to move on,
many of our Zakho acquaintances came to their doors to bid us farewell.
After my experience in Basra I was not optimistic about hitchhiking, but
this time Mark insisted.
Several of the boys walked with us to the highway, and as we tried
to hitch a ride they stood nearby watching. As hour after hour passed
without success, I gave up whatever little hope I had. Finally, one of the
boys got an idea, and the next thing I knew, a few of them had stopped a
passing truck, spoken with the driver, and were waving at us. Somehow
they had convinced him to take us to the Turkish border.
As the truck pulled out, Mark and I looked back gratefully at our
friends waving from the side of the road. The driver spoke a few words
of English—just enough for us to carry on a friendly conversation. He
was going into Turkey, to Diyarbakir, he said, and would take us there.
When we reached the outskirts of the city, Mark suggested that we
not enter but stay on the road. It was already quite late, so we decided
to spend the night on the roadside. I had never slept out in the open,
and it was a wonderful feeling to rest on the bare ground under the
star-studded sky.
Our plan was to stop in Malatya on our way to Ankara. There were
two possible routes. On the map, one looked longer, the other shorter
and straight, so we decided to take the shorter one. Only after riding
some distance did we realize that we had embarked on a mountainous
road, but by then it was too late to turn back. Our ride took us up into
the mountains and dropped us off at what seemed like the middle of no-
where. We waited under a walnut tree on the side of the road for hours
without anyone stopping. In fact, hardly anyone even passed, and we
doubted that any of the drivers knew about hitchhiking.
Still, I was excited to see the interior of Turkey, and the place was en-
chanting. The mountains were cut from red rock, with only sparse veg-
etation. A river flowed along the valley below, with banks of lush green.
Clusters of village houses dotted the landscape.
I suggested to Mark that we go down to the village and see if we
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could find something to eat. He said that one of us should stay on the
road and try to stop a car. I offered to stay; it would not be such a long
way down to the village, but I did not know how I would communicate
with the people there. “Why don’t you go?” he said with a smile. We fi-
nally decided to settle it by tossing a coin. I lost and had to go.
I climbed down a winding path, but even in the village there were no
shops. I walked up to a house and knocked. A woman came to the door,
but when she saw me she screamed and slammed the door in my face.
Giving up hope of finding food, I climbed back up the mountain to the
road and told Mark what had happened.
We sat for a few more hours under the walnut tree, shading ourselves
from the sun. Our stomachs burning with hunger, we discussed our mis-
take in taking the mountain road and considered going back to the other
route. Suddenly several boys came into view. They silently approached
us with two large, covered metal plates and placed them before us.
When we removed the coverings, we found homemade Turkish bread,
raw green vegetables, and large pieces of goat cheese. We thanked the
boys profusely and then ate while they sat around us, watching and
speaking among themselves in a language we couldn’t understand.
After a short while, several village women came up and sat behind
the boys to watch. One of them was from Lebanon and asked whether
we knew French. Mark was fluent, and we learned from her that when
the woman who had shut the door on me had seen that I was climbing
back up to the road, she had called to the other women and told them
what had happened. They presumed that I had been looking for food,
and, spotting the two of us, they had sent the boys with the plates. The
other residents, the woman said, had hardly seen a foreigner in their en-
tire lives, so the arrival of an Englishman and an Indian was quite an
event.
The women’s hospitality was wonderful, but we still could not get a
ride, and we stood by the road the rest of the day. Finally, toward eve-
ning, an elderly shepherd tending his flock spoke to us. From his ges-
tures, we made out that he was inviting us to spend the night in his
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Istanbul’s Sultanahmet district, near the Blue Mosque, didn’t look like
Turkey; it was full of young Americans and Europeans. Their alterna-
tive hippie lifestyles were new to me, but most were quite broad-minded
and friendly. The dormitory-style “hotel” was so cheap that we could af-
ford to stay for a while, and we made many friends, including a young
American, Larry Baker.
Every morning, Mark, Larry, and I would go for breakfast at the
Pudding Shop, a restaurant popular among young travelers, where we
spent a good deal of our time. The food was delicious and cheap, but the
most interesting feature for me was the atmosphere—it was alive with
freethinking youth who were open to meeting people and sharing their
experiences. Some of them had been in Istanbul for months, living day-
to-day, playing music and just hanging out.
We roamed the city, visited historic sites, and just sat and chatted
on the banks of the river. One morning Mark suggested that we go
see Topkapi Palace, an hour away. I was struck by the name, because
top meant “cannon” in Bengali and was included in many Bengali
words and names. It was, I realized later, a Turkish word that had been
incorporated into Bengali during the Persian invasion of India.
Mark took the role of tour guide. The palace, which was actually an
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enormous cluster of buildings and courtyards, had been the seat of the
Ottoman dynasty that had ruled over Asia Minor and a significant part
of Europe for centuries. We spent the day there, admiring the classic ar-
chitecture and ornate decorations and amazed by the sheer magnitude
of the place.
Mark and I stayed in Istanbul for a full week. The day before we
were going to leave, we were sitting in a park with Larry when two
young men approached us and asked if we would like to smoke some
hashish. Neither Mark nor I were interested, but Larry left with the
men. He didn’t come back that night, and the next morning, worried,
we told the manager of the Pudding Shop. We were concerned that the
men could have been police in plain clothes and that Larry might have
been arrested. The manager told us not to worry. If anything, the police
would frame Larry to get a bribe. Drugs were not a big deal in Turkey
unless you were caught smuggling large quantities.
Larry didn’t return that morning, but reassured by the manager, we
posted two notes on the Pudding Shop’s notice board—one for Larry
and one for Prasun—and then left for Greece.
Like many Indian boys, I had been enchanted by Alexander the Great.
My brother had told me the story of Alexander and the massive, legend-
ary horse Bucephalus. No one had been able to tame Bucephalus, but
Alexander spoke to it soothingly and turned its head toward the sun so it
could not see its shadow, which had been the cause of its distress. With
Bucephalus thus subdued, Alexander was able to ride it, and the horse
served as his mount until it died during his invasion of India.
I had also loved hearing about Alexander’s encounter with the Per-
sian king Darius. Darius had a huge army, five times larger than Alex-
ander’s, so when he had been challenged by Alexander, whom Darius
considered a mere boy, he was so confident of victory that he brought
his wife and mother. But Alexander attacked him unexpectedly, at a
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mountain pass, away from the battlefield. Darius ran away, leaving be-
hind his wife and mother, who were taken into custody. When he then
offered a huge ransom in exchange for their freedom, Alexander replied
that he was not interested in the ransom but would release the women if
Darius appeared before him and knelt in submission. Darius did as or-
dered, and Alexander set the women free.
Once, when Alexander was away from his kingdom, his minister
wrote to him that his mother was meddling in affairs of state. Alexander
wrote back, “One teardrop from my mother’s eyes can wipe out all your
letters complaining against her.”
Mark and I were headed to Thessaloniki, Macedonia’s capital, near
Alexander’s birthplace in Pella. One of our rides was from an educated
French couple who spoke fluent English—one of three families travel-
ing together in three cars. They stopped at a beach in Alexandropoulos,
where we all had an ocean swim and a picnic. They were the first Eu-
ropean families I had met on the road—all the Westerners in Istanbul
had been young travelers—and I found them pleasant and friendly. I
was impressed by the cultured and generous attitude of the couple who
picked us up, and I wondered how often I would get rides from such
people. “Would you have picked me up if I had been hitchhiking alone?”
I asked.
They paused. Then the man looked at his wife and smiled, and she
said that they generally did not pick up hitchhikers at all, but that seeing
me, an Indian, they had been curious.
My cousin Babida (his name was Babi, and “da” was short for dada, the
Bengali term for one’s elder brother) had been living in Germany for
over a decade. He had studied engineering there and risen to become a
director of a prosperous firm. His marriage to a German woman, Maria,
had strained his relationship with his conservative family in India, but
I found her to be very nice. I was reminded of my Dolly Kakima, who
had also married an Indian man. When I told Maria that I would call
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her Miradi (the “di” being short for didi, an elder sister), she gave me a
big smile. We became close in no time, and she accepted me as part of
the family. She took me to the University of Hamburg to get me admit-
ted, and when we learned that the semester had already begun, she con-
vinced them to enroll me as a guest student.
One of the first people I befriended in Hamburg was Bill McCabe, an
American exchange student from the University of Dayton. In India I
had been a member of the United States Information Service, which had
a good library and promoted various aspects of American culture. One
of its features was a jazz club, and every Saturday afternoon my friends
and I would listen to swing and bebop and challenge each other to iden-
tify each musician. America House, where I met Bill, was the German
counterpart—beautifully located in the middle of a large garden near
the university. I went there frequently, mostly to read in the library, and
one day Bill just walked up to me and introduced himself. He was inter-
ested in India, he said—many of his friends had already been there—
and wondered where I was from.
Bill introduced me to his group of friends: Chuck, Ray, Jack, Connie,
and Susan—all Dayton students. My German was still not very strong,
so I did not develop such close relationships with many local students,
but my friendship with this group developed quite spontaneously.
After staying with Babida and Miradi for a couple of months, I de-
cided to move out on my own. The family with whom Bill was stay-
ing had another student staying with them, and when she moved out,
Bill asked whether I, one of his friends, could move in. The landlady
agreed, but when she learned that I was Indian, she expressed some
reservations.
The next day Bill had to go to Kiel, a city on the North Sea, and he
didn’t tell his landlady that he was going. After he had been away for
two days, she thought that he was so upset with her because of her re-
fusal that he was not returning. So when he got back, she said, “Yes, of
course your Indian friend can come and stay!”
From then on, Bill and I lived in the same house, and our bond of
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they suggested we stop, but the encounter had left me wounded. De-
spite my protests, I was painfully aware of how ignorant I was about the
heritage and glory of the place of my birth. My patriotism, I realized,
was only a sentimental attachment. Although I had a deep connection
to India as my motherland, I was unaware of her actual splendor and
opulence.
That argument, and my desire to establish India’s greatness, led me
to probe deeper into my country’s spiritual culture. I already knew the
importance of spiritual life and was aware of the existence of the soul,
but now I felt compelled to learn about life’s actual nature, purpose,
and ultimate goal. I wrote to my friend Hitu Malkani, whose family
had a bookstore in Calcutta, and he sent me a copy of Paul Brunton’s
A Search in Secret India. At first I was vexed by having to read about In-
dia’s glory from an Englishman, but the more I read, the more I appre-
ciated. Brunton was a journalist who had gone to India on assignment
and while there had been drawn in by its spiritual heritage. He had met
many sādhus and finally surrendered himself in discipleship to a well-
known spiritual leader from South India, Ramana Maharshi. When I
asked Malkani for books that described India’s spiritual philosophies
in greater depth, he sent me a few by Swami Vivekananda, Patañ
jali’s Yoga-sūtra, Paramahansa Yogananda’s Autobiography of a Yogi,
Dr. Radhakrishnan’s Bhagavad-gītā, and a copy of the Vedānta-sūtra.
Over the next few years, I learned more about the real source of In-
dia’s greatness, but in the process I also became aware of a higher knowl-
edge: the futility of material existence and the need to become free from
its bondage. Why struggle to achieve something that will be lost at the time of
death? I wondered. Better to strive for something that would lead to liberation and
last forever. And as my interest in and understanding of this wisdom from
India grew, my fascination with the West began to wane. What had been
my life there receded, like a memory fading into a dim and distant past.
I had always had the feeling that one day I would leave everything
behind and become a sādhu. I had thought it was just a fantasy—prob-
ably everyone felt that way at some point, but no one I knew had gone
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The husband, Walter Bein, was a customs officer; his wife, Marian,
had been a schoolteacher but had given up her job to take care of their
two daughters, Kerstin and Astrid. Kerstin was studying Russian and
wanted to become a translator. We had gotten along so well during the
drive that they had invited me to their home in Bremen and I had hap-
pily accepted.
I had stayed with the Beins for three days, and we had become close.
Afterwards, we had been out of touch for a few months, but when I had
sent them a postcard from Berlin, I had heard right back from Marian,
telling me how much they had missed me and requesting that I visit. I
had been so touched by her letter that I had decided to return.
This second visit had been even more remarkable than the first; they
had treated me like a member of the family. Kerstin had even started
telling me about her problems with her mother, and Marian had com-
plained about Kerstin’s not listening to her and acting so independently.
I had tried to mediate, and both of them had listened to my suggestions.
Subsequent visits to Bremen had deepened our relationship even fur-
ther, and when Marian heard that I was leaving Germany, she begged
me to come and see them before I departed.
They were sad over my leaving—especially Marian and Kerstin.
Marian kept trying to persuade me that I could pursue a spiritual life in
Germany. I had so much appreciation for Jesus Christ, she pointed out;
why didn’t I put that into practice, follow him?
Indeed, I had felt an appreciation for Jesus since childhood, but I had
never thought of actually becoming a Christian. I saw him from an In-
dian perspective, as someone close to God—a great saint, a prophet. But
that was quite different from his portrayal in the Christian faith.
Marian did not always agree with me, but she listened without pro-
test and appreciated my understanding. The three kings who came to
see Jesus at the time of his birth, I told her, were likely exalted saintly
persons from India who were addressed as “maharajas,” kings. They
had come to see him based on astrological calculations of the movement
of the stars and planets. And then, from the time Jesus was about twelve
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28 Ocean of Mercy
years old, people did not know where he went or what he was doing.
He reappeared when he was twenty-nine, but where had he been for
all those years? Where had he acquired the mystic powers by which he
could turn water into wine, cure lepers, and revive the dead? He spoke
about a place where he had been treated as a king, and about his dis-
appointment and frustration over the inability of his audience to un-
derstand his teachings. He allowed himself to be crucified so that their
gross mentality could appreciate his compassion and mercy. And finally
they did.
When Marian asked why I was not conveying my ideas to the Chris-
tian world, I replied that no one would be interested. After all, who was
I? And anyway, my only consideration was my search for liberation—to
free myself from the bondage of birth and death. And for that I was be-
ing called by my motherland—my glorious India.
So it was with great expectation and excitement that I returned. I had
been back to India once before—for my sister’s wedding—but this was
different; I was embarking on my spiritual journey, in search of my spiri
tual master.
2
In Search of a Guru
(June 1975 – July 1976)
but he also failed. Finally, Dilīpa’s son Bhagīratha was able to bring
the Gaṅgā to earth by practicing great austerity and penance. Mother
Gaṅgā appeared before Bhagīratha and offered him a benediction.
When Bhagīratha told her he wanted her to come down to earth to de-
liver his forefathers, she said that if she were to descend from the heav-
ens to earth, she would pierce through the earth and end up in the lower
regions of the universe. To prevent this, someone would have to bear the
force of her fall.
Bhagīratha told Mother Gaṅgā that Lord Śiva could bear such a
force. Once again he performed great austerities, and as a result Lord
Śiva agreed to bear Mother Gaṅgā’s fall on his head. This, my mother
told me, was how the holiest of all rivers, Mother Gaṅgā, came to earth
from the heavenly planets and delivered the fallen souls.
This childhood tale now became for me a profound and glorious re-
ality. I was grateful to be back in my holy motherland, which had been
graced with so many spiritual benedictions. All I wanted was to float
endlessly in the river’s sublime current.
When I returned to the lodge where I was staying, I heard a beautiful
recitation of Sanskrit mantras reverberating from the room next door. I
just sat there listening to the vibrant, melodious sound. My neighbors, it
turned out, were a South Indian family of four—a husband and wife and
their two children. Mr. Subramaniam, a government official, brought
his family to holy places of pilgrimage during his vacations. He invited
me to their room to talk, and the children—two sons, aged nine and
six—listened with great attention, respectful and well-behaved.
Through that family I was able to have another glimpse of the glories
of India. Although he was a high-ranking government officer, Mr. Su
bramaniam wanted only to visit holy places. He had little interest in ma-
terial achievements but put a premium on spiritual life and development.
I was especially impressed by the way he was bringing up his children.
This, I saw, was an important part of India’s spiritual heritage—alive
and well in contemporary family life.
From Haridwar I went upstream to Rishikesh, which was quieter—
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more natural and less commercial—with many yoga āśramas and spiri
tual seekers from around the world. Sādhus gathered on the banks
of the river—some stark naked, others just in loincloths. Most were
smoking hashish, and some invited me to join them, but I declined. In
the West many of my friends had smoked hashish, and I had seen how
stupid they became when they did. With the activities of their brains
subdued, the activities of their hearts became prominent, giving them
a feeling of ecstasy. So when I saw the sādhus smoking, I knew not to
waste my time; they were not for me.
The most prominent yoga school in Rishikesh was the Shivananda
Ashram. A young resident student told me that their teaching was that
in order to make spiritual progress one had to give up one’s ego—one’s
preconceived notions, ideas, prejudices, and selfish interests; they were
obstacles to spiritual progress. By giving them up and practicing yoga,
one could progress toward one’s spiritual goal and eventually become
liberated from the bondage of matter and achieve mokṣa, liberation. I
liked what he said, but I wondered why one had to practice yoga in such
a commercial atmosphere. I had always heard and read that yoga should
be performed in a solitary place, away from material culture. So I did
not feel inclined to join the āśrama.
I kept looking. One day, wandering aimlessly down a deserted road,
I saw a saffron-robed figure coming from the other direction. As he ap-
proached, I saw that it was a young, handsome man with long black
hair and a beard. I smiled at him as we passed, and he responded with
a gentle smile of his own. We stopped and exchanged greetings, then
walked for some distance together before he suggested that we sit on the
riverbank and talk. He was from Punjab, he said. His father was a cloth
merchant, but he had not been interested in a life of commerce; when
his brothers had gone into business, he had continued his education in
college and then at a university. But he had not found fulfillment in aca-
demic life. And when he had returned home and his family had tried to
get him married, he had found that he was not interested in married life
either. So without telling anyone, he had left home.
In Search of a Guru 33
he sent the supplies through his servant, but since I was so keen to meet
them he would take me there himself.
I was thrilled to have the opportunity to enter into a remote corner of
the Himalayas and meet these unusual people who had dedicated them-
selves so fully to their spiritual purpose that they had cut themselves off
from the rest of the world. So one morning we set out.
Outside town we came to a narrow path, which turned into an almost
invisible trail that eventually led to the ruins of a temple. Dr. Lal asked
me to wait, and then he entered.
Standing alone, I could see the sparkling white mountaintops
stretching from one end of the horizon to the other. All around me the
hills were changing colors with the season—a festival of greens, yellows,
purples, and reds. Songbirds called from the trees, and water streamed
down from the side of the mountain and settled in cold, shimmering
pools. I cupped my palms under a small waterfall and drank. It was nec-
tar—better than anything I had ever tasted.
The place was exquisitely beautiful; I could understand why the cou-
ple had selected it for their meditation to achieve the goal of life—free-
dom from the bondage of this material world. I wondered at the depth of
their commitment to their spiritual quest, which had drawn them from
their homes in California to this holy site in the Himalayas, on the other
side of the world.
I was awakened from my reverie when Dr. Lal emerged with a tall
handsome man with long hair and a beard. The man smiled at me, folded
his hands together, and said, “Namaste.” He introduced himself as
Chidananda—a name, I thought, that must have been given to him by
his spiritual master. The three of us sat on a boulder facing the broad
expanse of the mountains. I apologized for intruding into his sādhana,
his meditative practice. I had many American friends, I told him, and
like him I had traveled—through the Middle East and Europe—and
had spent a few years in Germany, but I had returned to India in search
of spiritual wisdom. I had not been able to really start my spiritual life,
however; I was still looking for a guru. I wanted to gain insight from his
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36 Ocean of Mercy In Search of a Guru 36
provisions, but Dr. Lal had recently been taking care of the couple’s sup-
plies. They subsisted on only fruits and vegetables—no grains or beans
or even nuts.
When I asked Chidananda about his spiritual progress, he said that
the process of āsana, sitting in yoga positions, was effective at the ini-
tial stage but then did not make any difference. Prāṇāyāma, however—
control of the breath—was very effective. Practicing kumbhaka, the
stoppage of breathing, helped him control his mind and become fixed in
meditation. With his guru’s training, he could now hold his breath easily
for a few minutes and was getting better. When I asked him if he would
teach me, he just smiled and said that he was still a student, not yet in a
position to instruct.
As Dr. Lal and I climbed back down to Joshimath, he told me, “That
was probably the most Chidananda has spoken to anyone other than his
girlfriend in months.”
My encounter with Chidananda was one of the most memorable ex-
periences I had in my time in the Himalayas. But I had not yet found my
guru, and I was still searching.
are very fortunate. You have received the special mercy of Ma.”
It sounded like he was just trying to console me, because it was quite
obvious to me that she did not want to accept me. It was not that I really
wanted to join her āśrama, but I was hurt by her rejection. “Why do you
say that?” I asked.
“Generally she gives her prasāda with her left hand,” he replied, “but
to you she gave it with her right hand.”
“Yes, I noticed that,” I said. “What does it mean?”
“When she just gives her blessings, she gives it with her left hand.
But when she gives her special mercy, she gives it with her right.”
“Does it have anything to do with karma?”
“Yes, you can say that,” he said. “When she gives it with her right
hand, she actually offers her good karma.”
“And she does have a lot of it,” I said with a smile.
“Yes,” he agreed, “there is no doubt about that. But when too many
people touch her feet, she becomes sick. Therefore we do not allow any-
one to do so.”
“Why does she become sick?”
“Because when people touch your feet, they give you their sinful re-
actions and take away your good karma.”
Even with Svarupananda Swami’s supportive comments, however,
Anandamayi Ma’s rejection had disappointed me, and by the time I ar-
rived in Calcutta I had decided to suspend my search. Rather, I thought,
I would wait for my guru to come to me. I was feeling some anger mixed
with pride. I had been searching for my guru but could not find him.
Did I really have one? If I did, I considered, I would let him come and
find me. I was not going to search for him anymore.
Shortly thereafter, I received a letter from Mark saying that he was
coming to Calcutta to meet me. When he arrived, I was happy to see
him and brought him to my father’s home, where I was staying. He had
changed quite a bit, though—not only in his appearance but also in his
attitude. Previously, he had been so averse to smoking that when we
were hitchhiking he would sometimes ask the driver to put out his ciga
In Search of a Guru 41
rette. I would tell him that he should be grateful for their kindness and
not be so demanding, but he had argued that he would rather be asked
to leave the car than be surrounded by cigarette smoke. Now, I discov-
ered, he had not only started to smoke cigarettes but was also smoking
hashish.
One day when Mark and I were sitting on a lakeside bench, he told
me that he had come back to India to get a supply of hashish and mari-
juana. He was working with a group in the UK, but he needed a steady
supply from India and Nepal. He proposed that I become his partner,
taking care of his supply. I was shocked and hoped that he was joking,
but when I saw he was not, I refused. I was relieved when he simply ac-
cepted my response, and we agreed to go trekking together in Nepal. I
tried to make it a condition that he would not indulge in hashish or mari-
juana during the trip, but finally we agreed that he could, but only in the
evenings, after the trek.
Soon after we arrived in Pokhara, however, I realized that Mark
wanted to go to the Himalayas not just for trekking but also to find sup-
pliers for his drugs. Still, we trekked for ten days or so, all the way to the
Annapurna base camp.
When we returned to Calcutta, I introduced Mark to some of my
friends, but when I found out that he was trying to talk them into serv-
ing as his suppliers, I told him that we would have to part ways. I was
sad, but this was not the same earnest and innocent Mark with whom I
had traveled six years before.
3
When I had first heard that Prasun and his German girlfriend Corne-
lia had joined ISKCON, I had not taken it seriously, since he and I had
not had a very pleasant experience when we had visited the ISKCON
temple in Hamburg. As I had been coming out of the university canteen
one day, I had seen a group of young Westerners—the women dressed
in saris and the men in dhotīs and kurtās—chanting and dancing. The
sight had delighted me, but it had also made me long for home. I was
far from Calcutta, and these young men and women dressed in tradi-
tional Indian attire had filled me with pride for my culture. One of them
was giving out magazines, and I walked up to him and bought one, and
we talked. He told me about their mission and invited me to their tem-
ple, just a subway stop from the university. I had visited and befriended
some of them, and when I had shared my experience with Prasun, he
and I visited the temple together a few times. Once, we were talking to
one of the American devotees there, and because we were doing most
of the talking, another devotee, who may not have liked that we were
talking more than listening, started to criticize us, saying that Buddha
was a swindler and Ramakrishna, a popular spiritual personage from
Bengal, was a cheat. Prasun had looked at me with surprise—neither he
nor I had mentioned Buddha or Ramakrishna—and I had silently indi-
cated that we should leave, which we did, and we had never returned.
Since then, whenever I had seen the devotees, I had avoided them. If
I saw them on one side of the road, I would move to the other. And when
I had returned to Calcutta, even though the ISKCON temple was not
far from my house and I had passed it many times, I had never entered.
So when I heard that Prasun had joined, I did not think he was se-
rious. Seeing how he looked when he came to see me, however—how
effulgent he was—I had to revise my impression. “Are you really serious
about your involvement?” I asked him.
He answered with a gentle smile: “Yes.” He told me how he had
joined ISKCON in Berlin after reading a book—Śrī Īśopaniṣad—by its
founder-ācārya, A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda. He had been
initiated and received a spiritual name: Sarvabhāvana Dāsa Adhikārī.
The Nectar of Devotion 45
I had never read anything like it. This was what I had been look-
ing for all my life. When I was younger I had been influenced by Ayn
Rand’s philosophy, objectivism, portrayed in her novel Atlas Shrugged,
which depicted what I had thought was an ideal society. But The Nectar
of Devotion, I now understood, presented the ultimate perfection of an ac-
tual ideal society. Within its pages I found a society based wholly on the
highest ideal of life—selfless service to the Supreme Lord. I read until
I fell asleep, and when I woke up the next morning, the first thing I did
was pick up the book and start reading again.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explained that there are five kinds of liberation:
becoming one with the Lord, living with the Lord on the same planet,
having the same features as the Lord, enjoying the same opulences as
the Lord, and living as the Lord’s companion. But such liberation,
Prabhupāda pointed out, held no attraction for a devotee engaged in
serving the Lord. Devotional service yielded a far greater joy.
Everything was becoming clearer. And the more I read, the more
absorbed I became. I lamented having wasted so many years searching
without even knowing what I was searching for. Śrīla Prabhupāda was
answering all my questions perfectly. He explained the cause of our suf-
fering and showed the way out.
I could not put the book down. I read all day, and that night I
dreamed of Śrīla Prabhupāda. He was sitting on a thronelike seat, and
a brilliant light emanated from his body. There was a crowd of people
sitting at his feet. I did not ask him anything; I simply offered my obei-
sances and said, “I surrender myself completely at your lotus feet. Please
accept me and guide me.”
When I woke, my heart brimmed with a wonderful feeling of fulfill-
ment—I had found my spiritual master.
As I continued reading, I learned more and more about Kṛṣṇa and
His greatness. He was the supreme creator, proprietor, and control-
ler, and I realized that the goal of my life was to surrender to Him. I
felt in my heart that I would no longer have to worry about anything:
Kṛṣṇa would take care of me in all respects. I was almost overwhelmed
The Nectar of Devotion 49
The young sannyāsī, like the devotee giving class the previous eve-
ning, was clearly knowledgeable, and he recited Sanskrit ślokas (verses)
fluently and with authority. It was the first time I had experienced West-
erners having such command of the Vedic scriptures. I was both awe-
struck and painfully aware of my own inadequacy in the subject, and I
was also beginning to comprehend Śrīla Prabhupāda’s profound influ-
ence on his disciples.
After class, the sannyāsī greeted me with a smile and introduced him-
self as Śatadhanya Swami. He had already heard about me, he said, and
he expressed his pleasure in meeting me and joined the others in re-
questing that I remain with the devotees and become one myself.
All the warm invitations, along with the wonderful, spiritual atmo-
sphere, attracted me greatly. Since I had already made up my mind to
surrender to Śrīla Prabhupāda, I thought, Why not commit myself and stay?
It was not difficult. I just went to a barber and had my head shaved,
purchased a dhotī-and-kurtā set, took a bath in the Gaṅgā, threw away
my old clothes, and put on the new ones.
When I returned to the temple, everyone was surprised and delighted
at my transformation. The first to see me was Pāṇḍu Dāsa, a talented
painter from America whom I had befriended the previous evening.
“Hey,” he exclaimed, “you shaved up and became a devotee!” But then
he added, “No—you have always been a devotee!”
The Māyāpur temple and community were managed by two co-
directors—Jayapatāka Swami and Bhavānanda Goswami, both from
America. Jayapatāka Swami was quite young, Bhavānanda somewhat
older. I was introduced to them in an office, where they sat side-by-side
on a mattress on the floor, surrounded by devotees. After a brief initial
exchange, they gave me a form to fill out, asking my name, address, and
other details. One point on the form especially impressed me—that I
should never act in such a way that would bring dishonor or disgrace to
Śrīla Prabhupāda. That became deeply ingrained in my heart.
Next I was introduced to a young Italian brahmacārī named Madhu
sevita Dāsa, who served as the temple commander. Like a military
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The Nectar of Devotion 53
commander, he appeared grave and stern, which I thought was quite be-
fitting. He was responsible for assigning services to devotees, and the
first service he gave me was to help cook kicharī, a mix of grains, dāl, and
vegetables that was distributed every afternoon to local villagers as part
of a food-distribution program.
When I went to the kitchen and reported to the elderly Bengali devo
tee in charge of cooking, he examined me from head to toe. I could tell
he was not impressed. He took me out back, pointed to a pile of fire-
wood, directed me to bring the wood to the kitchen, and left.
He had not told me how much to bring, so I just kept carrying one
armful of wood after another, and by the time he returned, half the
kitchen was filled. He gave me a disapproving, disgusted look and told
me to take most of the wood back to the pile. Then he led me to the
storeroom, asked me to bring bags of rice and dāl to the kitchen, and
again disappeared.
The bags must have weighed a hundred kilos each; there was no way
I could even pick them up, let alone carry them to the kitchen. So I got
hold of a bag and started to drag it across the floor, but along the way
it became stuck between the staircase and a pillar. I pulled as hard as I
could to dislodge it, but it would not budge, and when I gave it one last
heave, the bag broke and dāl scattered all over the floor.
Just then, of course, the managing devotee returned. When he saw
the mess I had made, he became so exasperated that he did not say a
thing; he just gave me that look again, letting me know without words
that he thought I was the most useless person he had ever met.
My fumbling attempt at service, I felt, had caused only disappoint-
ment to the devotees. That was the beginning of my spiritual life in
Māyāpur.
The next day, I was assigned to go out into a field with a few other
devotees and cut the grass. Finally, I thought—a service I could execute
without trouble. But when Bhavānanda Mahārāja heard what I had
been assigned to do, he got upset and chastised Madhusevita for engag-
ing me in such a menial task.
54 Ocean of Mercy
every day by 3:30 and would wake me up before going to bathe. When
he returned to the room, he would often find me still lying in bed and
have to urge me to get up. I would beg him to let me sleep just a little lon-
ger, but he would grab the end of my mattress and lift it with me still on
it, and I would have to jump out to avoid falling on the floor—both of us
laughing all the while.
Tīrthapāda and his brother had joined ISKCON together, but his
brother had recently left the movement, and he was sad about that. He
was very affectionate with me, as if he were trying to recover his lost
brother by fixing me up in Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
South African devotee who had settled in Māyāpur and mastered the art
of preparing Indian sweets, which were usually offered before maṅgala-
ārati and at night before the Deities were put to rest.
The most delicious food was the mahā-prasāda from the evening offer-
ing. After being offered to the Deities, it was transferred to a large plate
and brought to the three resident sannyāsīs—Jayapatāka Mahārāja,
Bhavānanda Mahārāja, and Śatadhanya Mahārāja. Once they were
served, the plate would be brought down to the conference room by
Madhusevita Dāsa and distributed to the rest of us, who after the Gītā
class would circle around, eagerly awaiting our shares.
One evening the mahā-prasāda did not arrive. After waiting for what
seemed like a very long time, we went upstairs to investigate. On the
top floor we found Madhusevita, sitting on the back balcony, helping
himself. We all had a hearty laugh, and after that he always brought the
plate down immediately after the sannyāsīs were served.
out from their holes and swam and slithered around railings, gates,
trees, and even into the building—everywhere.
Wanting to get rid of the snakes, one devotee, Pradyumna Dāsa,
from Orissa, started killing them. He killed over fifty and would have
slain more if we had not stopped him. Then one day a devotee saw
Pradyumna walking along a veranda with a cobra following behind. The
smooth cement floor slowed down the snake, so the devotee was able to
stop it, but had he not, Pradyumna would have been bitten. Cobras were
extremely vengeful, I was told. They could look into a dead companion’s
eyes and see the identity of its killer, and then go after him.
I was standing on the back veranda one day when I saw a large black
cobra sliding across the paved drive. Suddenly a mongoose ran out and
confronted it. As soon as the snake saw the mongoose, it hissed and
spread its hood. For a few seconds, the two faced off, almost motion-
less, but then the snake turned and slipped away into the rice paddy, the
mongoose in close pursuit.
Another devotee, Sītānātha Dāsa—a tall, quiet, frail-bodied Ameri-
can—was terrified of snakes. He would imagine that there were snakes in
his room, even during the day. Among a small group of us in his room one
morning, Bhavānanda Mahārāja told him, “Sītānātha, if you’re so afraid of
snakes, you will never make it to the spiritual world, because there Ananta
Śeṣa is a snake.” I couldn’t gauge Sītānātha’s reaction to Mahārāja’s state-
ment, but I benefited immensely: from then on, whenever I saw a snake or
even thought of one, Ananta Śeṣa came to the forefront of my mind.
Somehow, none of the devotees were ever bitten, and even in the aus-
tere conditions of the weather, the snakes, and the accommodations, we
were quite content and enthusiastic in our Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
After some time, I was finally assigned a service that was approved—to
help Pañcaratna Dāsa, a dynamic young American who was supervis-
ing construction of the Long Building (named for being, at 750 feet, the
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longest building in West Bengal), which would have 165 rooms to ac-
commodate visiting devotees. I paired up with his assistant, a Canadian
devotee named Bhūmna Dāsa, to buy materials in Calcutta, receive train
deliveries of building materials, and deal with local government officials
to get clearances.
When I was free from service and had the time, I would go to differ-
ent Gauḍīya maṭhas, āśramas in other Vaiṣṇava organizations, to meet
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s godbrothers and other advanced devotees. I wanted
to find out more about him—and about Vaiṣṇavas and Kṛṣṇa conscious-
ness. During one such visit—to the Devānanda Gauḍīya Maṭha in
Navadvīpa—I discovered some of Prabhupāda’s early Bengali writings
in their monthly magazine, Gauḍīya Patrikā, which he had edited in the
late forties and early fifties.
Prabhupāda had written several series of articles for the magazine,
the first of which was entitled “Bhagavāner Kathā” (“Knowledge of the
Supreme”), in response to an editorial in a popular English daily, the
Amrita Bazar Patrika. The author of the editorial had stated that although
India had become independent from British rule, the country’s situation
had not improved, as if in the dispensation of providence mankind could
not have any rest. Śrīla Prabhupāda countered that real peace and pros-
perity could not be achieved by political or other material arrangements.
The only way to achieve real peace was to surrender to Kṛṣṇa, the Su-
preme Personality of Godhead. His argument was brilliant, and I could
see that even in 1948, when Prabhupāda was still a householder, he
was already perfectly situated in his conviction and pure devotion. Af-
ter consulting with Pañcaratna and Jayapatāka Mahārāja, I decided to
compile Śrīla Prabhupāda’s articles in a book, which came to sixty-four
pages—Bhagavāner Kathā: Words about the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
So, things were going well, but I very much wanted to meet Śrīla
Prabhupāda. I loved hearing stories about him. One devotee, Kamala
Nārāyaṇa Dāsa, was a middle-aged educated Bengali gentleman who
one day had just happened to hear Śrīla Prabhupāda at a program in
Calcutta. He had been so impressed that he had handed his business
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over to his son, made him promise that he would take care of his mother,
and left home to join ISKCON. He had just immediately surrendered.
Kamala Nārāyaṇa told me about how loving and caring Śrīla
Prabhupāda was. When Prabhupāda had learned that Kamala Nārā
yaṇa had left his family to join ISKCON, he had become so concerned
about Kamala Nārāyaṇa’s wife that whenever he would meet him, he
would ask how she was.
Kamala Nārāyaṇa also told me how much he admired the dedication,
love, and loyalty the Western devotees had for Śrīla Prabhupāda. If
Prabhupāda asked them to jump from a skyscraper, Kamala Nārāyaṇa
said, they would do it without batting an eyelash.
One especially dynamic group of devotees was the Nāma-haṭṭas, led
by Guru-kṛpā Swami. They were a boisterous bunch of about fifteen—
mostly Americans—who had come from preaching in Japan, and just
their presence brought an infectious vibrancy to Māyāpur’s normally
quiet atmosphere. When they danced during kīrtana, the entire temple
reverberated with ecstasy.
Many of us would go to the nearby bank of the Gaṅgā together, and
sometimes there would be wrestling matches between the Nāma-haṭṭa
and Māyāpur devotees. One day I had to wrestle one of the Nāma-
haṭṭas, and when he defeated me (quite easily), his group cheered in ju-
bilation. Jayapatāka Mahārāja was watching, however, and he would
not accept the humiliation. He sprang up like a lion and roared a chal-
lenge to anyone who would dare face him. For a moment there was to-
tal silence. Then Guru-kṛpā Swami gestured to one of his men—a tall,
powerful-looking devotee, an appropriate match for Mahārāja—to take
up the challenge. It was quite a sight: Jayapatāka Mahārāja looked like
he had been empowered by some special potency, and after a bit of grap-
pling, he simply picked up the devotee and smashed him to the ground.
We were all sitting in Jayapatāka Mahārāja’s room one night, read-
ing Śrī Caitanya-caritāmṛta, the transcendental biography of Śrī Cai
tanya Mahāprabhu, when Abhimanyu Dāsa, an English devotee who
had been appointed head of security due to his military training as a
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commando in the British army, came running in with an alert that da-
coits (bandits) were coming to attack the temple. But Mahārāja did not
believe him. A little annoyed at being interrupted in the middle of our
reading, he said, “Abhimanyu, that’s just your paranoia.” But Abhi-
manyu was upset and argued his case, and finally, just to pacify him,
Mahārāja got up and said, “Okay—let’s go and meet the ‘dacoits.’”
Sticks in hand, with Mahārāja leading the way, we all walked to the
main gate. And when we got there, we could see a crowd of people in
the distance with burning torches, coming our way. As they approached,
however, we heard shouts of “Bolo Hari, Hari Bol!” the customary invo-
cation of the Lord’s mercy while carrying a dead body. It was a funeral
procession—judging from its size, for someone important. Jayapatāka
Mahārāja did not say a thing. He just turned and strode back to his
room, the rest of us following behind.
Mahārāja was a natural leader—full of energy and working from
morning till night. But we had a lot of fun together, too. At one point he
received bows and arrows from America, and we used to practice ar-
chery in the garden in front of the Lotus Building. He was an excellent
marksman and hit the bull’s eye practically every time. He was an ex-
pert swimmer too, and he not only crossed the Gaṅgā effortlessly but on
more than one occasion saved devotees who were drowning. And when
there actually was a threat of attack from dacoits, Mahārāja would be
standing right in front to face them. We always felt well protected under
his leadership.
Anirdeśya Vapu had also come to Māyāpur, and my friendship with him
continued to flourish. We took long walks and would sometimes go a
kilometer up the Gaṅgā and float back downstream with the current.
We talked about various topics, but mainly our spiritual lives. He was
from Los Angeles, and his father, like mine, had been in the film indus-
try, just in America. He too had been spiritually inclined from child-
hood, and in his late teens he had come across the devotees and been
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Kumbha-melā
(January 10– January 18, 1977)
that I had committed. He would reject me, refuse to give me his shelter. I
had heard that there were devotees who had been waiting for years to be
initiated by him but had not yet been accepted.
Bhavānanda seemed to know exactly what I was feeling. He just
grabbed my hand, dragged me along the corridor, opened Prabhu
pāda’s door, and pushed me in. Inside, I fell flat on the floor, offering my
obeisances.
When I got up, Śrīla Prabhupāda was looking at me, smiling sweetly,
and asked me to sit next to him. On the seat facing him were Jayapatāka
Swami, Rāmeśvara Mahārāja, and Bhavānanda. Abhirāma Dāsa, the
Calcutta temple president, was sitting on the floor. I hesitated to accept
Prabhupāda’s offer, saying that I too would sit on the floor, but he in-
sisted: “No, you sit here.”
So I folded a corner of the blanket spread over the seat and sat on its
very edge. Then, after some initial exchanges, Śrīla Prabhupāda gave
me a direct instruction: “You translate my books into Bengali.”
My heart was jumping with joy, but I was uncertain. “Śrīla Prabhu
pāda,” I said, “I do not really have experience in translating from En-
glish to Bengali. Will I be able to do it properly?”
“Just do it,” he assured me. “Practice makes a man perfect.”
When I left the room, I had to pinch myself to make sure I wasn’t
dreaming. I couldn’t believe my good fortune! At our very first meeting
Śrīla Prabhupāda had given me this incredible service. I knew that he
considered the publication and distribution of his books to be of the ut-
most importance, and I had heard that because many of them had also
been presented in Bengali by our previous ācāryas, he was especially
particular about their Bengali translations. I just kept on praying to
Kṛṣṇa that I could fulfill my responsibility and execute his instructions
properly.
When I had entered and sat down, he repeated, “So, what do you
want?”
My heart was pounding. “Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I managed to say,
“will you please give me initiation? Will you please accept me as your
disciple?”
“Sure,” Prabhupāda replied. “I will give you initiation. During the
Gaura-pūrṇimā festival in Māyāpur I will give you initiation.”
With my heart dancing in gratitude and ecstasy, I offered my humble
obeisances to my eternal spiritual master.
5
O ne beautiful spring morning, when the sun was bathing the earth
in golden rays and the air was filled with the fragrance of flowers
and the cooing of cuckoo birds, Śrīla Prabhupāda arrived in Māyāpur
in his maroon Ambassador, its stainless-steel Vaiṣṇava tilaka, an aus-
picious spiritual marking, emblazoned on the hood. He had been to
Bhubaneswar to lay the cornerstone of a new temple that had been de-
veloped by Gour Govinda Swami, his sannyāsa disciple from Orissa. I
could have gone with him but decided to stay behind to complete the
printing of Bhagavāner Kathā, which I was planning as a surprise offering
to His Divine Grace.
Devotees stood on either side of the road to greet him, chanting
and dancing in jubilant anticipation. When his car appeared in the dis-
tance, the kīrtana reached a crescendo and the dancing grew wild with
ecstasy, and when it stopped in front of the temple and Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda emerged, devotees fell flat on the ground to offer obeisances. Many
broke down crying; others stood motionless, transfixed.
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“A person who acts in the service of Kṛṣṇa with his body, mind, intelli-
gence, and words is a liberated person, even within the material world,
although he may be engaged in many apparently material activities.”
He pointed out that some people might feel envious upon seeing
the devotees living in palatial buildings, but that Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta
Sarasvatī Ṭhākura had said that only the devotees should live in such
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Every morning Śrīla Prabhupāda would come down to the temple, have
darśana of the Deities after offering his obeisances, circumambulate
Them three times, and then lecture on Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam. On the an-
niversary of Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura’s appearance, he
spoke about his divine spiritual master. Although I had already heard
and read about him, to hear about his pastimes from Prabhupāda was an
astounding experience.
Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta had been exceptionally brilliant—one of the
greatest scholars of his time. His illustrious father, Śrīla Bhaktivinoda
Ṭhākura, had trained him from childhood as a devotee, and even when
he was young he assisted his father in his preaching mission, to which he
remained committed for the rest of his life. Although Śrīla Bhaktivinoda
had revived the mission and teachings of Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu, he
had not been able to spread it extensively, but Bhaktisiddhānta had es-
tablished sixty-four temples throughout India and attracted important
and educated people.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explained that a pure devotee of the Lord is not in-
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terested in his personal benefit; he is concerned only about the real wel-
fare of others. He dedicates himself completely to guiding others on the
spiritual path, without caring for his own liberation. He is, therefore, the
most munificent and the greatest philanthropist. Spiritual personalities
like Śrīla Bhaktivinoda Ṭhākura and Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī
Ṭhākura were not from this world. Like the Lord Himself, they came
from the spiritual realm to benefit the suffering conditioned souls, and
when their missions were complete, they returned. But, Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda stated, he was never separated from his spiritual master.
I was reminded of an incident that had been related to me by a se-
nior devotee. When Śrīla Prabhupāda had returned to India from the
West and had come to Māyāpur to see the land that had been procured
to build the temple, he had not stopped at the samādhi (tomb) of his
spiritual master on the way, and some of his godbrothers had criticized
him for that. When Śrīla Prabhupāda had heard of their disapproval, he
responded, “Do they think that I am ever separated from my spiritual
master? No, he is always with me and I am always with him. I am not
separated from him even for a moment.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda was clearly pleased and asked how I had found
the articles. I explained that during one of my visits to the Devānanda
Gauḍīya Maṭha I had found them in the Gauḍīya Patrikā, which I had
discovered he had edited. Prabhupāda smiled in acknowledgement and
asked when the book would be ready. I told him that I had wanted to
offer it to him when he had returned from Bhubaneswar but that the
printer had taken too long. “Yes,” he said, “in India everything takes a
long time. It is so difficult to do anything here.”
Then, for some reason, it occurred to me that when I went to Calcutta
I sometimes visited the sweetshops. “Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I began, “it is
stated in Śrī Caitanya-caritāmṛta that if one cannot control his tongue, he
cannot get Kṛṣṇa. I find it so difficult to control my tongue.”
“Take kṛṣṇa-prasāda,” he replied. “Kṛṣṇa has made a very nice ar-
rangement to control one’s tongue— kṛṣṇa baro doyāmoy, koribāre jihwā
jay, swa-prasād-anna dilo bhāi. In order to conquer our tongue, Kṛṣṇa has
given His prasāda. So that is the way to control your tongue.”
“Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I confessed, “when I go to Calcutta, sometimes I
go to the sweetshops and eat sweets.”
To my utter amazement, he said, “That is also kṛṣṇa-prasāda. Kṛṣṇa
very mercifully gave us all these foodstuffs. He has given us everything
we need, and we simply have to accept it all as His mercy—His prasāda.”
Later, when I related the incident to a senior devotee, he advised me
that although Prabhupāda had mercifully given such a broad vision, I
should not take undue advantage of it.
One afternoon Śrīla Prabhupāda called me to his room, gave me a
stack of Bengali letters, and asked me to reply to them. I read them out
to him, and he told me what points to make in response. There was no
Bengali typewriter at that time, so I handwrote the drafts, brought them
to Prabhupāda, and read them aloud to him. He made corrections, and
then I wrote out the replies on his letterhead and took them for him to
sign.
When all the Bengali letters had been answered, Prabhupāda asked
me whether I knew how to write in Hindi. I said that I could but that my
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Hindi handwriting was not very nice. He just smiled and said, “Actually,
nobody’s Hindi handwriting is nice.” And then he told me a joke: “Once,
a man received a letter from his friend in Hindi, and he wrote back to
him saying that the next time he wrote to him he should send him the
train fare to go see him. When his friend asked why, the man wrote back
saying that in order to understand what his friend had written, he would
have to go see him. Only he could decipher what he had written.”
We both laughed, and Śrīla Prabhupāda gave me a stack of Hindi let-
ters. His joke had given me a little confidence, and thereafter I replied to
his letters in Hindi as well as Bengali.
On another day, I went to Prabhupāda with a stack of letters when
he was on the roof, receiving his morning massage. I read out each let-
ter and took notes on how to reply. Then I remained while his personal
servant, Hari Śauri Dāsa, gave him his massage. I wanted to be near
Prabhupāda as long as I could. Seeing that I was not leaving, Śrīla
Prabhupāda spoke to me: “Just offer this life to Kṛṣṇa. For many, many
lifetimes you have been trying to enjoy, but you can see that you are still
not satisfied. Just offer this life to Kṛṣṇa, and don’t get involved with
any woman. This attraction for women is an arrangement of Māyā [the
Lord’s illusory energy] to keep the living entities tied down to the ma
terial nature. Therefore the material nature is called maithunya-āgāra—a
prison-house of sex desire. In this material nature, everyone is attracted
to the opposite sex, and that is the chain with which one is tied down to
this prison house.
“But what is this sex desire? It is like an itch. One thinks that by
scratching that itch he will get pleasure. But the more he scratches, the
more it itches, and eventually it starts to bleed and hurts him. But they
are so foolish that they consider it to be the greatest enjoyment. A camel
eats thorns, and his tongue and palate gets cut and starts to bleed. The
camel tastes its own blood but thinks that the thorns are so delicious.
Through this act of sex, a man loses the very essence of his body, his se-
men, and he thinks, ‘Oh, how delightful this act is!’
“He becomes prepared to even sacrifice his life for that momentary
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pleasure. That is Māyā’s trick. With this sex desire, Māyā is tying the
living entities down to this material nature. Therefore, one who wants
to become free from the bondage of this material existence must become
free from sex desire.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda spoke for quite a while, urging me to surrender to
Kṛṣṇa. Finally he told me, “Just offer this life to Kṛṣṇa and see what
happens. Even if nothing happens, what is the loss? After all, it is just
one life out of so many.”
In my mind, I vowed, Yes, Śrīla Prabhupāda, I am offering myself to you. I
know that if I do that I will achieve the ultimate perfection of my existence.
Just the sight of Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja filled me with awe and rev-
erence. I offered my obeisances from a distance. In the afternoon, when
I was with Śrīla Prabhupāda in his room, Mahārāja walked in, and
Prabhupāda’s face lit up with a bright smile. Right away, they began to
talk intimately. Tamāl Kṛṣṇa told Prabhupāda that he had relinquished
all his managerial responsibilities in order to be with His Divine Grace
and serve him. Śrīla Prabhupāda was very pleased to hear that.
Then they talked about the deprogramming issue in America. The
affluent parents of some devotees were hiring thugs to forcibly abduct
their sons and daughters from ISKCON. The abductions were being
contested in American courts, but the judgments so far had supported
the deprogrammers and parents.
Śrīla Prabhupāda was extremely concerned and wanted to hear
about the situation in detail. Mahārāja told him that Ādi-keśava Swami
was handling an important case in New York and asked whether he
should call for him—he was currently in Māyāpur.
Prabhupāda sent me to get Ādi-keśava Swami from his room, just a
floor above. Mahārāja was only in his early twenties, but he was already
a sannyāsī and a GBC, the youngest in ISKCON. His thin stature could
initially give an image of weakness, but his upright demeanor, bright
smile, and vibrant speech all served to correct that mistaken impression.
He had joined the movement when he was only seventeen, but due to his
abilities and achievements he had risen to ISKCON’s highest ranks.
When I returned with Ādi-keśava Swami to Śrīla Prabhupāda’s
room, several senior devotees were already there. After offering obei-
sances, Mahārāja told Śrīla Prabhupāda about the case. Prabhupāda
became angry, his tone assertive. He suggested that we should take it as
an opportunity to tell everyone about the purpose of our mission.
In the early days in India, I remembered, Śrīla Prabhupāda had
taken advantage of every opportunity to speak or write about Kṛṣṇa
consciousness. Now, using the allegations of brainwashing, he pointed
out that the purpose of human intelligence was to understand the differ-
ence between dead and living matter. He went so far as to say that prior
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to joining the movement the devotees had not been utilizing their intelli-
gence—it was as if they did not actually have any brains—so there was
no question of brainwashing. He was not washing their brains but giving
them brains.
Ādi-keśava reported that the deprogrammers had formed a group
called Return to Personal Choice. Prabhupāda retorted, “They are kid-
napping them, torturing them, and forcing them to change their intelli-
gent choice, and they call it ‘personal choice’?”
Mahārāja showed Prabhupāda a picture of the deprogrammers re-
turning someone to their so-called personal choice—the mother, father,
and kidnappers dragging the devotee. They called it “rescuing.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda wondered aloud how such an act of force could be
accepted by anyone as a personal choice. Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja clarified
that the US government considered that parents had the right to dictate
the choices of their offspring, irrespective of age, the decisive criterion be-
ing whether their son or daughter had lost his or her mental capacity.
When Prabhupāda inquired about the legality of such actions, Ādi-
keśava explained that American law contained a provision called con-
servatorship. Anyone who was determined to be of unsound mind or
body, or to be addicted to drugs, or to have been fooled or bewildered
by deceptive means, could be put under conservatorship. Someone
else could be given charge of the person’s affairs, and he or she could
be committed to a mental hospital, where the “deprogramming” would
take place. New laws were being passed to further reinforce the process.
There was already one state law that permitted anyone—not just the
parents or the family members—to take this kind of control.
Mahārāja presented a report that had been prepared by members
of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). They had held a huge
conference in New York, presenting a report on deprogramming—per-
sonal accounts describing how people had been kidnapped, imprisoned,
beaten, tortured, and starved to force them to go back to their old lives.
The report mentioned that the deprogrammers had a manual, a do-it-
yourself deprogramming book, detailing how to abduct someone and
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from outside parties, including the devotees, whom the person had cho-
sen to join, was deemed inappropriate.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja gave the example of an incident in Texas,
when a father had killed his own son in his sleep but was acquitted of
murder. The court had expressed its approval for the father’s actions in
view of his assumption that his son had gone astray. Typically, devotees’
parents and relatives were involved in their abuse, from the initial kid-
napping right through the torture sessions.
“If the devotee hits his parents,” Ādi-keśava continued, “they say,
‘Just see how crazy he has become!’” In defending himself against his
attackers, Vasu-gopāla had hit his mother and run out, shouting the
name of Nṛsiṁhadeva. But he had been held back by his family mem-
bers and could not escape. They had locked him in a bathroom for thirty
hours, but because he had tried to fight back, they had said, “Just see
how crazy he has become; he hit his own mother,” and the judge had
agreed with them.
After hearing all the details, Śrīla Prabhupāda declared that we
should not succumb to the pressure; we should fight—prove in open
court that we were not brainwashing young devotees but giving them
brains, real intelligence, through a perfect understanding of absolute
reality and ultimate wisdom. The US government’s and courts’ oppo-
sition might seem like a stumbling block, but eventually it would be-
come a steppingstone. As long as we knew we were serving Kṛṣṇa, the
all-powerful Supreme Personality of Godhead, we had nothing to fear.
At the end of the day victory was bound to be ours.
Everyone in the room nodded with grave determination, and I could
see that under Śrīla Prabhupāda’s command they were ready to fight.
Śrīla Prabhupāda also illuminated everything from the scriptural
point of view: “He who cannot free his children from the cycle of birth
and death is not a father—
“One who cannot deliver his dependents from the path of repeated birth
and death should never become a spiritual master, a relative, a father,
a husband, a mother, or a worshipable demigod.” (Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam
5.5.18)
was less money conscious and more inclined toward developing friendly
relationships. Before meeting Śrīla Prabhupāda, he had been a remedial
reading teacher in New York, but like many other young people during
that time, he had been attracted to the American counterculture and
planned to go to India.
One day while passing the first Kṛṣṇa temple, at 26 Second Ave-
nue, on New York’s Lower East Side, he had seen a poster announcing
Bhagavad-gītā classes by A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami. He had wanted to
meet Śrīla Prabhupāda, which in those early days was not so difficult—
Prabhupāda was eager to meet young Americans and preach to them.
When Brahmānanda met Śrīla Prabhupāda, he proudly told him
that he had also read the Bhagavad-gītā and pulled out a copy from his
coat pocket. Prabhupāda smiled, as if quite impressed, and asked him
to open the book and read aloud. After about a page, Prabhupāda asked
him to close the book, which he did. Then Prabhupāda said, “Now you
tell me what you understood.” Suddenly, Brahmānanda realized that he
had not understood anything, and he admitted that to Śrīla Prabhupāda.
Prabhupāda told him that just reading the book was not enough; one
needed a teacher to explain the contents. Just that one encounter with
Śrīla Prabhupāda had convinced Brahmānanda, and he had immedi-
ately committed himself to the Swami’s mission.
tion, and I felt deep gratitude toward Śrīla Prabhupāda for bestowing
such mercy upon me. I also felt thankful to Brahmānanda Mahārāja,
and when I offered him my obeisances, he embraced me affectionately.
When I asked what I needed to do to prepare myself for the initiation, he
smiled and said, “Just get shaved and be ready to receive the mercy.”
The initiation took place on the morning of Gaura-pūrṇimā. More
than a hundred devotees sat around the sacrificial fire. Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda did not come down to the temple room, but a few sannyāsīs sat on
a dais, called the candidates one by one, and heard our vows to follow
the four regulative principles of not eating meat, taking intoxication,
indulging in illicit sex, or gambling. We also promised to chant sixteen
rounds of the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahā-mantra on beads every day. One of the
sannyāsīs, on behalf of Śrīla Prabhupāda, would then give the candidate
a string of chanting beads and announce his spiritual name, which Śrīla
Prabhupāda had chosen.
Each name was met with loud applause and the beating of mṛdaṅgas.
When my turn came, Acyutānanda Swami presided over my vows and
announced my name—Kṣīra-cora-gopīnātha Dāsa. The name indicated
that I was the servant of Lord Gopīnātha, who stole kṣīra, condensed
milk, for His devotee Mādhavendra Purī.
The Deity of Gopīnātha was in Remuṇā, Orissa. Mādhavendra Purī,
the great devotee who had unearthed the Deity of Gopāla in Vṛndāvana
and installed Him on top of Govardhana Hill, had been told by Śrī
Gopāla that because the heat of the summer was causing Him great dis-
comfort, He wanted Mādhavendra to get some sandalwood and cam-
phor and apply them to His body to keep Him cool.
Mādhavendra Purī went to Orissa and begged those valuable arti-
cles from the king. On the way, he stopped at Remuṇā to have darśana
of Gopīnātha. In the temple, Mādhavendra Purī recalled that the kṣīra
the temple priests offered to Gopīnātha was famous for its flavor, and he
considered that if he could taste it he would be able to prepare it for his
Gopāla as well. Right after the thought flashed across his mind, however,
he realized that he had desired to taste the kṣīra even before it had been
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offered to Lord Gopīnātha. He felt extremely guilty, and he left the tem-
ple and retired for the night in a deserted village marketplace nearby.
When Gopīnātha’s pūjārī took rest that night, he had a dream that
Gopīnātha was telling him to go to that marketplace and give Mādha
vendra Purī some kṣīra. The pūjārī told Gopīnātha that all the kṣīra had
already been distributed, but Gopīnātha said that He had kept aside a
pot of kṣīra underneath His dhotī. So the pūjārī bathed and went to the
temple, and there, to his utter amazement, he found the pot of kṣīra
behind Gopīnātha’s dhotī. From then on, Gopīnātha of Remuṇā was
known as Kṣīra-corā-gopīnātha.
I was very happy to have the name. It sounded like celestial music to
my ears, and I was filled with gratitude that Śrīla Prabhupāda had so
mercifully made me a servant of Śrī Śrī Kṣīra-corā-gopīnātha.
During the fire sacrifice, as I was offering grains to the fire and
chanting “Svāhā,” I felt that I was offering Kṛṣṇa everything I possessed.
But then it occurred to me that I did not really possess anything. All I
had, all that was worthwhile to offer, was my self. So that was what I
offered. Śrīla Prabhupāda’s voice echoed in my head—“For many, many
lifetimes you are trying to enjoy, but you can see that you are still not
satisfied. Just offer this life to Kṛṣṇa.”
After initiation, I had to attend to Śrīla Prabhupāda, so I did not have
a chance to go out and collect guru-dakṣiṇā, the monetary gift for one’s
guru after initiation. In the evening, when the newly initiated devotees
came to his room and each offered his guru-dakṣiṇā, I regretted that I had
not collected anything for him.
When everyone left, I was alone with Prabhupāda, my heart filled
with remorse. “Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I said to him, “you gave me dīkṣā, but
I did not offer you any guru-dakṣiṇā.”
“You offered yourself; that is the best guru-dakṣiṇā,” he assured me.
I offered my obeisances and said, “Śrīla Prabhupāda, I am offering
myself to you completely. Please accept me and utilize me in whatever
way you want.”
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One morning after I had taken dictation from Śrīla Prabhupāda and had
him sign the completed letters, he told me, “I am appointing you as my
secretary for Indian affairs.” I was surprised, to say the least. I had been
told that Prabhupāda appointed only his most intimate and efficient
associates as his secretaries, but I was just a new devotee and he was
giving me the most important assignment in his service. I felt both in-
credible joy and overwhelming gratitude.
Śrīla Prabhupāda called Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja, told him about
the new appointment, and suggested that I move into the secretary’s
room, where Mahārāja was staying. Tamāl Kṛṣṇa put an affection-
ate hand on my shoulder, said, “Yes, Śrīla Prabhupāda,” and took me
to the room, two doors down. The room next to Prabhupāda’s was to
have been his secretary’s room, but the typewriter had made too much
noise, so Prabhupāda had suggested that his servant move in and his
secretary take the room next door. There were two beds. Mahārāja said
I could use the one at the far end of the room and told me to fetch my
belongings.
When I informed my dear friend and roommate, Tīrthapāda, he was
at first silent. Then he told me that he had always felt that I was very
special, and he embraced me and thanked me for my association as his
roommate. I could see that he was feeling bad, and I knew that I too
would miss our time together.
It was quite an experience to be so close to Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja.
Although we were sharing a room, I still held him in great reverence.
In fact, he commanded this kind of respect from practically everyone in
ISKCON. But he treated me with warmth and affection. I would bow
down to him, and he would embrace me. He had been my hero even be-
fore I had met him, and this closeness was like a dream—one that I had
never imagined would come true.
Mahārāja got up very early each morning, but he refrained from
switching on the light, so as not to disturb me. When he was in the
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to confront the local gangs, and that this upbringing had forced him to
become tough. But I also saw how tender and loving a person he was,
and the way he served Śrīla Prabhupāda was an incredible example. I
could see how much confidence Prabhupāda had in him and how much
he depended upon him.
Hari Śauri Prabhu had also come from a rough environment. My
first impression of him was that he was somewhat reserved and not so
friendly. Although we used to see each other frequently, I did not try
to communicate with him beyond cordial smiles. Eventually, however,
I came to see that he was just fixed in his service to Prabhupāda and did
not speak much unless there was a need, and as I became more involved
in serving Prabhupāda, we started to communicate more freely.
Around that time, the sannyāsī GBC of Australia was having difficul-
ties and left the movement. There was a need for someone to take up
that responsibility, and I was told that Śrīla Prabhupāda was consider-
ing appointing Hari Śauri. If he did, someone would have to take over
his position as Prabhupāda’s personal servant. Hari Śauri suggested
that it might be me, but I was waiting for Śrīla Prabhupāda to make the
decision. I also knew that one of his personal servant’s most important
services was to massage him, and I was not good at that. It needed some-
one strong, like Hari Śauri.
One morning Hari Śauri asked me if I knew how to cook. Not think-
ing much about it, I replied that yes, I did. The next thing I knew, he
had reported my ability to Śrīla Prabhupāda, and soon afterwards he
told me that Prabhupāda wanted me to cook for him. But although I had
told Hari Śauri that I knew how to cook, I didn’t think I was really good
enough to cook for Prabhupāda. When I was in Germany, I had cooked
once in a while, but I knew that one had to be an expert, which I was not.
I was stuck, totally perplexed; I did not know what to do. Then I had
an idea. Śrīla Prabhupāda’s sister, Pisimā, was there, and I had heard
that she was one of the best cooks in the world and that she loved to
cook for her brother. So I went to Pisimā and told her the situation.
She assured me that I should not worry and straight away went to the
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kitchen and started to cook. I just stood there watching; she did not let
me touch a single thing. When it was time to serve, she prepared the
plate, and it looked really gorgeous, with many expertly cooked prepa-
rations. I happily took it to Śrīla Prabhupāda.
Prabhupāda took one look at the plate and asked me who had
cooked. From the tone of his voice, I could tell that he was not happy.
“Pisimā, Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I replied.
“Did I ask you to cook or Pisimā to cook?” he asked. Then he told me
to take the plate away.
Trembling with fear and laden with guilt, I appealed to him, “Please,
Śrīla Prabhupāda—I made a mistake. I’ll never do it again.” And I just
stood there, wanting nothing else than to fall at his feet and beg for for-
giveness, though I did not dare. He eventually became pacified, but I
had lost a golden opportunity.
Still, I continued to serve Prabhupāda, and he was pleased with how
I was replying to his letters. I was translating every day and reading the
translation aloud to him, and he would make any corrections. The cook-
ing incident, however, still weighed on my mind. I had come so close to
getting that wonderful service but had missed it due to my immaturity. I
resolved that I would learn to cook so that if the opportunity ever again
presented itself, I would not fail.
I thought for a moment and said, “In order to understand the scrip-
tures properly, to get closer to Vedic culture and—”
Prabhupāda cut me short. “There is no use,” he said. “Our business is
not to become a paṇḍita. Our business is to become a devotee. Our busi-
ness is to serve Kṛṣṇa. There are so many Sanskrit scholars, but what
are they doing? Are they promoting Vedic culture and wisdom of the
Vedas? No. They are not doing anything useful. What is really needed is
to preach Kṛṣṇa consciousness. And to do that you don’t need to learn
Sanskrit. You don’t need to learn anything besides who Kṛṣṇa is and
what is your relationship with Him.” Then he added, “Just read my
books and you will learn Sanskrit.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s health had been bad for months, since he had re-
turned to India, and now it was deteriorating rapidly. He stopped going
out for his usual morning walks, and he needed help just going to the
toilet. In Māyāpur his quarters did not have an attached bath; it was at
the end of the block of rooms. Even using his cane, he needed whoever
was attending him to support him by reaching around his waist with one
hand and holding his left shoulder with the other.
But although his health was bad, he did not want to take any treat-
ment. He did not like allopathic medicine, and he felt that Āyurvedic
treatment did not work, because the herbs had lost their potency and
the doctors were quacks. Still, when Abhirāma Prabhu arranged for a
famous Āyurvedic doctor, Dr. Vimalananda Tarkatirtha, to come to
Māyāpur to treat him, he agreed.
Dr. Tarkatirtha was an old man, perhaps in his late eighties, and
semi-blind. Although the doctor had brought his servant with him, Śrīla
Prabhupāda wanted me to take care of him as well. Tarkatirtha, he told
me, had been a great Āyurvedic doctor in his time—maybe the best in
Calcutta—but had entered into politics and become a member of the
West Bengal legislative assembly, effectively ending his career.
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Dr. Tarkatirtha was pleasant but somewhat reserved. From his ap-
pearance and composure, one could tell that he had come from an aris-
tocratic background. I brought him to Śrīla Prabhupāda’s room every
morning and evening, and he would examine Prabhupāda intently, feel
his pulse, and then prescribe medicine.
It was hard to tell how seriously Śrīla Prabhupāda took Dr. Tarka
tirtha or his treatment, but the two had long, intimate talks. Dr. Tarka
tirtha was a few years older than Prabhupāda, but they were from the
same city and had known each other when they were younger. I could
see how they were enjoying each other’s association.
One evening after his treatment, Śrīla Prabhupāda was speaking to
Dr. Tarkatirtha about the condition of Kali-yuga, our current age—how
everything would deteriorate—and he asked me to get the Twelfth Canto
of Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam from his desk. The Twelfth Canto had not yet been
translated, so Prabhupāda wanted me to get the Sanskrit version. When
I fetched it, he asked me to turn to the second chapter and read aloud.
So I started to read the Sanskrit verses, and he gave the translation and
affirmed the accuracy of the statements—how in the Age of Kali the rela-
tionships between men and women would be based solely on sex. Fami
lies would be reduced to just the husband and wife, and no one would
take care of their elder family members. Married sons would leave their
parents and move away, and even the relationship between husband and
wife would last for only a short while. Marriages would be based on sex-
ual compatibility and sealed with only verbal agreements. There would
be rampant promiscuity and no spousal loyalty. A man’s appearance
would be judged by the length of his hair. He pointed out how in America
and Europe young men were growing their hair long, and how that had
become the deciding factor for their physical attractiveness.
Prabhupāda described how robbers would become rulers. They
would extract money from their subjects through taxes, and the people
would become so disillusioned that they would run away from the cities
and villages to escape the exploitation. The condition of the earth would
become so precarious that cows would stop giving milk, grain-bearing
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plants would become like plain grass, and fruits would have no pulp.
After Dr. Tarkatirtha left, Śrīla Prabhupāda asked me where I had
learned Sanskrit. Remembering the incident when I had asked him
whether I could learn it, I understood that he was assuring me that I
could—just by reading his books.
One evening, after Dr. Tarkatirtha had checked Śrīla Prabhupāda and
they were sitting together, Prabhupāda started to speak about his life.
He told the doctor how his friend Naren Mullik had come one day and
invited him to go see a sādhu. Śrīla Prabhupāda had not had much re-
spect for the so-called sādhus, because he had seen how his father had
invited them into his home but they would come in just to eat and col-
lect a donation. So he declined. Naren, however, had been insistent
that Śrīla Prabhupāda should go with him, telling him that this sādhu
was not that kind of sādhu; he was high class and learned. Eventually
Prabhupāda had relented and agreed to go.
That sādhu, he told Dr. Tarkatirtha, had ended up being Śrīla
Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura, Prabhupāda’s spiritual master.
And at their very first meeting, Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta had instructed
him to take up the mission of Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu, to spread
Kṛṣṇa consciousness—in English—all over the world.
Śrīla Prabhupāda had initially tried to resist Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta’s
instruction. First India had to become independent, he had objected;
until then, no one would take her message seriously. In response, Śrīla
Bhaktisiddhānta had told him that Caitanya Mahāprabhu’s teachings
were far beyond political, social, geographical, or even religious consid-
erations; they were from another world, not dependent on any condition
of material nature.
Afterwards, when Naren had asked him for his opinion of the sādhu,
Śrīla Prabhupāda had replied, “Now that the responsibility of spreading
Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu’s message has come to such a person, he is
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bound to do something about it.” Just from that first meeting, Prabhu-
pāda had been so impressed with Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta that he had de-
cided to accept him as his spiritual master and take up that instruction as
his life’s mission.
Śrīla Prabhupāda had been the manager of a pharmaceutical com-
pany, Dr. Bose’s Laboratories, owned by Dr. Kartik Bose, and the very
next day he had gone to the office and submitted his resignation. Dr.
Bose had been shocked. He was a family friend and had treated Prabhu
pāda with affection. He could not understand why all of a sudden
Prabhupāda was submitting his resignation.
When Prabhupāda had explained about his meeting with and in-
struction from Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura, and his deci-
sion to commit himself to that mission, Dr. Bose had tried to reason with
him that he could serve the mission even while employed by the com-
pany. But Prabhupāda had replied that if he were to remain a company
employee, all his time would be consumed by his occupational duties.
Dr. Bose had countered that Prabhupāda was not just an employee;
he was managing the company and was just like a family member, like a
son. But Prabhupāda had been adamant.
“So, what are you going to do if you resign from your job?” Dr. Bose
had asked. “You have a family to maintain. You are married and you
have a son. You have an elderly father.”
Prabhupāda had told him that he would run his own business. That
way he could maintain his family but also have enough time to preach
Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
When Dr. Bose had heard that, he said, “Okay, then you take up the
agency for my products for North India.”
That is how Śrīla Prabhupāda had gone to Allahabad and started his
business. Still, he said, he had not been very successful. His mind had
not been in the business; it had been focused on how to fulfill the order
of his spiritual master.
Śrīla Prabhupāda had thought that by running his business he would
make money and then be able go to the West to fulfill Śrīla Bhakti
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remotest dreams they did not imagine going abroad, what to speak of
preaching the message of Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu. But Śrīla Prabhu
pāda was urging even them: “This spiritual message of India is the real
wealth of India, and the entire world is waiting to receive it. If the Indi-
ans don’t do it, then who will? So many Indians have gone to America
to take advantage of her material prosperity and become rich, but I did
not go there to beg from them; I went there to offer them something they
never had—the greatest spiritual wealth.”
Prabhupāda invited the crowd to join ISKCON and become engaged
in fulfilling Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu’s spiritual mission. Unfortu-
nately, no one responded to his invitation.
Bombay
(March 22 – May 4, 1977)
Prabhupāda went in and sat on the āsana (seat) behind an ornate marble
table, making it clear that he was going to stay in his new quarters no
matter what their condition.
The Bombay devotees—especially Girirāj Prabhu, the Juhu temple
president, and Surabhi Swami, the project director—were in total anx-
iety about the conditions, but when they conferred with Tamāl Kṛṣṇa
Mahārāja, he pointed out that since Cross Maidan, the festival site, was in
the center of Bombay, it would be more practical for Prabhupāda to stay
nearby during the program. Kartikeya Mahadevia, a wealthy and influ-
ential admirer, agreed to host Prabhupāda in his apartment, a beautiful
place in one of the most prestigious buildings in the city, right by the sea.
Mr. Mahadevia and his family vacated the apartment and moved in
with his brother, in the same building. During the day, he and his wife
would take care of Śrīla Prabhupāda. They were not initiated, but since
they were pure vegetarians, Prabhupāda allowed Mrs. Mahadevia to
cook for him, and he enjoyed her preparations.
Bombay was the financial capital of India, and many important people
wanted to come and meet with Śrīla Prabhupāda. And as much as he
could, despite his ill health and the pressure on him to translate, Prabhu
pāda gave them his time. Whoever came, his message was the same:
Please recognize the importance of Kṛṣṇa’s message for the benefit of
the world.
One of the important personalities whom Prabhupāda met that week
was Ratan Singh Rajda, a Member of Parliament. Morarji Desai had
just become prime minister of India, and since he was a vegetarian and a
staunch Hindu, opposed to cow-killing, it seemed he might be favorable
to Kṛṣṇa consciousness. Girirāj Prabhu had not been able to arrange a
meeting with him directly, but he had succeeded in arranging for Śrīla
Prabhupāda to meet with Mr. Rajda, an important member of Desai’s
ruling party.
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The devotees had planned and worked long and hard for the Cross
Maidan program, and the arrangements were magnificent. A huge
paṇḍāl, an expansive outdoor tent, had been set up with a big, beauti-
fully decorated stage, and thousands of people gathered to listen to
Śrīla Prabhupāda speak. His health was not good and he was physi-
cally weak, but when he started to speak his voice became stronger, his
posture more erect. His statements, as always, were straight and bold,
showing his concern for the suffering conditioned souls. Standing be-
hind him and fanning him as he spoke, I could see how enlivened he be-
came while preaching.
One evening, looking over the crowd, Śrīla Prabhupāda noticed
an Arab gentleman dressed in traditional Arabic attire. He asked
Bhavānanda Mahārāja to bring the man onto the stage and then had
the man sit on a chair next to him and spoke to him affectionately. He
was, it turned out, the chief of police of Kuwait. He had come to Bom-
bay for medical treatment, and that evening was the first time he had
been allowed out of the hospital. While strolling through the park, he
had seen the gathering and out of curiosity walked over to see what was
happening.
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Śrīla Prabhupāda noticed that the man had a set of beads in his hands
and asked about them. The man said that he just fiddled around with
them; they did not have any specific purpose. But when Prabhupāda
then pulled his beads out from his bead bag and said, “See, I also have
one,” they both laughed. The beads were sacred, Prabhupāda told him;
they were used for chanting the holy names of the Lord. They should
be kept in a bag so that they would not become contaminated. Prabhu-
pāda did not get into a heavy philosophical discussion with the man—
they just had a cordial exchange—but I could not help wondering what
a deep impression Prabhupāda was making.
I was also impressed to see Śrīla Prabhupāda, an exalted Hindu
spiritual leader, invite a Middle Eastern Muslim to come up and sit next
to him at such an important and visible program. It conveyed a power-
ful message—that ISKCON was nonsectarian; it welcomed everyone.
Whoever was open to learning the teachings of the Vedas and was inter-
ested to know about the Supreme Personality of Godhead and establish
a loving relationship with Him could join, irrespective of caste, creed, or
religion.
After the program each day, I would accompany Śrīla Prabhupāda back
to Kartikeya Mahadevia’s house. He was always exhausted and upon
our return would go straight to bed, where I would massage his feet.
One evening as I was massaging him, Prabhupāda asked, “So, how
did you like my lecture today?”
“It was wonderful, Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I replied.
“What was so wonderful about it?”
I recounted all I could remember: “You pointed out that in human
society there must be an intelligent class of people that guides the rest
of the society. Although Lord Rāmacandra was the Supreme Person-
ality of Godhead, He still consulted with the learned brāhmaṇas. The
administrative class—the rulers, the government—should take advice
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from the brāhmaṇas. You pointed out that ISKCON is creating brāh-
maṇas all over the world. The whole world is suffering due to the lack
of such important guidance, and you requested the intelligent class of
people to take this Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement very seriously. In-
dia has spiritual wisdom, and therefore Indians should take up the re-
sponsibility of spreading Kṛṣṇa consciousness. You quoted Śrī Caitanya
Mahāprabhu—bhārata-bhūmite haila manuṣya-janma yāra/ janma sārthaka
kari’ kara para-upakāra [“One who has taken his birth as a human be-
ing in Bhārata-varṣa, the land of India, should make his life successful
and work for the benefit of all other people”]—and you pointed out
that the actual para-upakāra, benevolent activity, is to give them Kṛṣṇa
consciousness. That is what every Indian should do to make his life
successful.
“You asked everyone to get out of their bodily concept of life, come to
this spiritual consciousness, and recognize their actual identity as a spiri
tual being, and you said that their spiritual responsibility is to chant the
holy name. Then their hearts will be cleansed of all impurities and, by de-
veloping their loving relationship with Kṛṣṇa, the Supreme Personality
of Godhead, they will be able to recognize their spiritual identity.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda seemed pleased that I had listened attentively
to his lecture. Then he asked me to read from Śrī Caitanya-caritāmṛta.
While I was reading, he fell asleep. I remained on the floor by his bed,
chanting on my beads. When Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja came back and
saw me sitting there, he suggested that I go and take rest.
The Bombay paṇḍāl program was a huge success. Eight to ten thousand
people attended every day, almost all both attentive and receptive. And
Śrīla Prabhupāda was imparting the greatest wisdom with the most sub-
lime simplicity.
One of the devotees who came to Bombay who impressed me the
most was Svarūpa Dāmodara Dāsa, from Manipur. When he first
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Śrīla Prabhupāda stayed in his quarters, mostly translating, for his entire
time in Juhu. He did much of his work at night. Before going to bed,
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja would set up his table with the Sanskrit Śrīmad-
Bhāgavatam with commentaries from previous ācāryas, his Dictaphone, a
spare audiocassette, a glass of water, and a brass waterpot for a spittoon.
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The Juhu temple construction was still in full swing. Śrīla Prabhupāda
had given the concept of the design and charge of the construction to
Surabhi Swami—his Dutch sannyāsī disciple, who was an accomplished
architect—and he was working day and night to complete the project.
The size of the temple, its ornate design, and the high quality of its
marble were creating quite a sensation in Bombay. The Times of India
published a feature story on the temple, which Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja
read to Śrīla Prabhupāda. The article, covering practically an entire
page, was accompanied by pictures of the temple under construction
and provided many technical and financial details. But although ISK-
CON was mentioned, Śrīla Prabhupāda’s name and position were not.
Prabhupāda asked who had provided the reporter with the informa-
tion. It turned out that the article had been based on an interview with
Surabhi Swami. Prabhupāda called Mahārāja in and asked if he had
read the article. He had, Mahārāja said. Prabhupāda then asked who
had given the information to the reporter, and Mahārāja reported that
he had done so. Then Prabhupāda asked why his name was not men-
tioned even once in the entire article. Surabhi Swami went silent; he
just sat there looking down without saying a thing. Prabhupāda then in-
structed him that whenever the name of ISKCON was mentioned, his
name and position should be there as well. He was, after all, ISKCON’s
founder-ācārya.
I could not understand why Śrīla Prabhupāda was so particular
about this designation. He was always so detached and never wanted
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to take any credit for his achievements, considerable as they were, but
now he was expressing such concern. I did not dwell on the question—I
was in no position to judge him; whatever he did was perfect—but I still
wondered.
In time, I came to understand that Prabhupāda’s emphasis on his po-
sition as founder-ācārya was not for any personal aggrandizement but
for the integrity and well-being of ISKCON as an institution. He had
told us himself that although he had spread Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu’s
saṅkīrtana movement throughout the world within the short span of ten
years, he would not be able to spread it to every town and village—as
had been Lord Caitanya’s prediction—during his lifetime. It would
take generations, and that was why there was a need to establish a spiri
tual institution—to spread the mission even after his disappearance.
ISKCON’s success, he said, would depend upon two things—collabo-
rative management (the Governing Body Commission) and the spiritual
leadership of its founder-ācārya.
Mother Pālikā was sick one day, and another of our godsisters cooked
for Śrīla Prabhupāda. When I served him, however, I could see that he
was not eating.
“Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I asked, “was the cooking not all right today?”
“No,” he replied. “She does not know how to cook.”
“Should I cook for you tomorrow?” I blurted out.
“Yes, you can.”
The next morning, when Prabhupāda was having his oil massage,
he called for me and asked me to get some potatoes, parwal (a gourd),
turmeric, dry red chili, and the can of mustard oil we had brought from
Calcutta for his massage. He showed me how to cut the potatoes and
parwal into three-quarter-inch pieces and directed me to add turmeric,
pieces of red chili, and then the mustard oil. I poured out what seemed
to me a lot of oil, but when I tilted the can back, Prabhupāda said, “Why
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did you stop pouring? Keep pouring.” I followed his command until fi-
nally he told me to stop. Then he had me add salt and just enough water
to cover the vegetables, and place the pot on the fire. “The water will
dry out,” he said. “Then a white smoke will start to come out, making
a sound like chat chat. Then you take it off the fire and let it cool for a
while. The turmeric will create a crust at the bottom of the pot and get
fried in the mustard oil; you scrape the bottom with a spatula. Now it
will be ready to be served.” Then he added, “This preparation is called
bati-chachari.”
I cooked a few other items as well, but when I served Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda he mostly ate just the bati-chachari and chapatis.
After Prabhupāda had finished and I was washing his plates in the
kitchen, Upendra came running in and said, “Hey, what did you cook
today? Śrīla Prabhupāda was praising your cooking and asked me to
taste it.” And later that afternoon, when Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja came
from reading Prabhupāda’s letters and taking dictation, he also told me
how much Prabhupāda had liked my cooking. So, from then on, that
became my service.
One morning Śrīla Prabhupāda wanted some orange juice. There
were no oranges in the kitchen, however, so I went to the market to buy
some. When I returned and was about to make the juice, Prabhupāda’s
bell rang, and I ran to his room.
“What happened to the orange juice?” he asked. “Why is it taking so
long?” I could tell he was annoyed.
“I am bringing it just now, Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I replied, and ran back
to the kitchen. Just as I was finishing the juice, the bell rang again, and
again. It just kept on ringing, as if the bell itself were angry. In great
anxiety, I quickly poured the juice into Prabhupāda’s silver cup, placed
it on his thālī, and ran to his room.
As I entered, I heard Śrīla Prabhupāda’s thunderous voice: “Take it
away. I don’t want it!” Feeling guilty, my head bent low, I just kept mov-
ing forward. When I was in front of Prabhupāda, I knelt down, holding
up the plate with the cup of orange juice. He was so angry that he did
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not take the juice for some time, but I just kept holding it up in front
of him. Finally, to my great relief, he picked up the cup and started to
drink.
While he was drinking, I realized that in my hurry I had forgotten to
bring a bowl of water for him to wash his mouth. So I ran to the kitchen
and got the bowl of water. Then, when I had returned and he was rins-
ing his mouth, I realized that I had forgotten to bring the napkin for him
to wipe. But this time I did not go back to the kitchen; I pulled a small
towel from his wardrobe and wiped his mouth for him.
“You are trying to serve me so nicely,” Prabhupāda said, “but often I
chastise you. Please don’t mind when I chastise. You see, when one gets
old, one becomes short-tempered.”
I had not felt bad when Prabhupāda had chastised me, but when he
started to speak like that, I felt like my heart was breaking. I tried to
beg him not to concern himself, but my voice was choked; I could not
speak. Finally, tears rolling down my cheeks, I managed to whisper,
“Śrīla Prabhupāda, I make mistakes, and if you don’t correct me, what
will happen to me?”
He stopped. I could feel the softness of his heart. Even though we
were his disciples, ready to take any amount of chastisement from
him, our guru, as a display of his mercy, he was apologizing in such a
humble way. That was my glorious spiritual master, more brilliant than
millions of suns yet so humble and compassionate—the most caring per-
son I have ever met.
Sitting on the balcony one afternoon facing the temple, with me sitting
at his feet, Śrīla Prabhupāda said, “India is the most glorious country
in this world. It is not only her spiritual culture, but materially also it is
the richest country. However, since the Indians have rejected the Vedic
culture—their original culture—they have lost everything and become
poor. Since they have rejected Kṛṣṇa, the Supreme Personality of God-
head, His eternal consort—Lakṣmī-devī, the goddess of fortune—has
left them.”
Then he added, “Not only India but the entire world has become af-
flicted with so many problems because the people of this world have re-
jected Kṛṣṇa. And the more they reject Kṛṣṇa, the more miserable they
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will become. On the other hand, if they accept Kṛṣṇa, everything will
become so prosperous and wonderful for them.”
Whenever Śrīla Prabhupāda spoke to someone, especially someone
important, he would remind him or her about the real solution to all our
problems—acceptance of Kṛṣṇa consciousness. “Just surrender unto
Kṛṣṇa and try to serve Him,” he would say. “He will take care of you in
all respects and provide for everything you need. Lakṣmī-devī will be
so pleased with you that she will shower so much wealth with her four
hands that you will not be able receive it with your two.”
One morning after breakfast, Śrīla Prabhupāda was sitting on the āsana
behind his desk and asked me to get his bead bag. I brought it to him
and sat before him. As he started to chant, I did likewise—softly with my
head bending forward, looking at the ground. Then he began to speak.
“People think that Kṛṣṇa’s pastimes with the gopīs are immoral,” he com-
mented. “The moralists especially, they don’t even want to delve into
Kṛṣṇa’s Vṛndāvana pastimes, thinking that those pastimes are immoral.
“If Kṛṣṇa’s pastimes with the gopīs are immoral,” he explained, “then
why did Śukadeva Gosvāmī, who was a naiṣṭhika-brahmacārī and did
not have anything to do with his family—right after his birth he walked
away from his family, from his father and mother, considering that they
could become an entanglement for him—why did Śukadeva speak so
elaborately about Kṛṣṇa’s pastimes with the gopīs in Vṛndāvana?
“Kṛṣṇa’s dealings with the gopīs are not immoral, but imitation of
Kṛṣṇa’s activities with the gopīs is immoral. The pastimes of Kṛṣṇa in
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Vṛndāvana are the highest spiritual activities. But when we see the reflec-
tion of that in this material nature, the highest appears to be the lowest.
And that is why, when somebody, some mortal living entity, tries to have
a relationship with some unmarried girl or someone else’s wife, that is ab-
solutely abominable—absolutely immoral. But the consideration of mo-
rality or immorality doesn’t at all arise in Kṛṣṇa’s case, because whatever
Kṛṣṇa does is absolutely moral because He is the Supreme Personality of
Godhead—He is the supreme enjoyer and the supreme proprietor.
“When the proprietor enjoys what he possesses, that is perfectly
moral. When somebody who doesn’t own something tries to enjoy that,
that is immoral—that is sinful; that is stealing. To try to enjoy somebody
else’s property is immoral, but when somebody enjoys his own property
there is no question of immorality. Since Kṛṣṇa is the supreme propri-
etor, He is the supreme enjoyer. And everyone else is an object of His
enjoyment. Now it is up to Kṛṣṇa how and when He wants to enjoy.
“In the spiritual sky there is no sex desire. In order to even enter into
the spiritual sky, one has to become free from sex desire. Unless and until
one has conquered sex desire, he cannot enter into the spiritual sky. Even
the impersonalist brahma-jñānīs have to conquer sex desire to merge into
the impersonal brahma-jyoti. So what to speak of entering the topmost re-
gion of the spiritual sky? Sex life is a gross act of this material nature—in
the spiritual world there is no room for sex desire. So there is no tinge of
sex desire in Kṛṣṇa’s dealings with the gopīs. It is completely pure.
“The consideration of sex life is there when it is between two material
bodies, but in the spiritual sky they don’t have material bodies. Their
dealings are spiritual—a spiritual interaction between the Lord and
His devotees in the pure spiritual existence. So, that is what we have to
understand. And these activities of Kṛṣṇa with the gopīs are so pure that
just by hearing them from a proper source one becomes free from sex
desire. This is actually the most wonderful and effective means of be-
coming free from sex desire.”
As Śrīla Prabhupāda explained the purity of Kṛṣṇa’s relationships
with the gopīs, I saw how important it was to hear these things from
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Kṛṣṇa’s pure devotee. Otherwise, who could even understand these se-
crets, much less explain them? Once again, I was struck by the magni-
tude of my good fortune.
The Hare Kṛṣṇa movement was called a “bona fide religion” yes-
terday by the New York High Court Justice who threw out two
charges against the officials of the movement of “illegal impris-
onment” and “attempted extortion.” The charge had been pre-
ferred by an angry parent that his son, as well as another disciple,
had been held by the movement illegally and that they had been
brainwashed. “The entire and basic issue before the court,” said
the Justice in dismissing the charges, “is whether the two alleged
victims in this case and the defendants will be allowed to practice
the religion of their choice, and this must be answered with a re-
sounding affirmative.” Said Mr. Justice John J. Lee, “The Hare
Kṛṣṇa movement is a bona fide religion with roots in India that
go back thousands of years. It behooved Merril Kreshower
and Edward Shapiro to follow the tenets of that faith, and their
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The Hare Kṛṣṇa movement has been under pressure from various
groups, and this judgment is expected to stop some of the harass-
ment [to] which it has been subjected in recent months.
Rishikesh
(May 5 – May 15, 1977)
T he news from America was uplifting, but Śrīla Prabhupāda was still
having problems with his health. Two of his biggest Indian support-
ers— Śrīmān Nārāyaṇa, the ex-governor of Madras, and his brother-
in-law Ramakrishna Bajaj, the head of Bajaj Industries—recommended
that he go on a retreat to Rishikesh, which had long been known for its
spiritually auspicious and physically healing environment. Prabhupāda
had never been there and agreed immediately. So one morning, sur-
rounded by hundreds of chanting devotees, we left for the Himalayan
foothills.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja, Upendra, and I accompanied Śrīla Prabhu
pāda on the short flight to Delhi and overnight stay at the temple, and
on the car ride north past Haridwar. Dāmodara Paṇḍita Dāsa drove;
Pradyumna, now Prabhupāda’s Sanskrit secretary, was arriving sepa-
rately with three trunks of books; Gaurīdāsa Paṇḍita would be serving
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa; and Yadubara Dāsa was coming to film a documentary
on Śrīla Prabhupāda. Pramāṇa Swami and Viraha Prakāśa Swami had
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part sūjī (semolina), one-half part ghee, and two parts water. Cut the
vegetables—cauliflower, potatoes, and eggplant—into small pieces
and fry them in ghee. Fry the sūjī in ghee until it is golden brown. Fry
a spoonful of urad dāl and add it to the sūjī. Boil the water; add some
hing, salt, and lemon juice; and pour it on the sūjī. Add the fried vegeta-
bles and stir until done. The water will be absorbed by the sūjī. The next
day I made upmā and served it to Śrīla Prabhupāda. He was very happy
to see that I had prepared it properly, and I was very happy to see him
happy.
After breakfast, I would go to the market to buy vegetables. Pramāṇa
Mahārāja and Viraha Prakāśa Mahārāja, who had recently come from
Venezuela, often joined me. Viraha Prakāśa didn’t speak English, but I
could tell from even our few limited exchanges that he had a soft, kind
heart. Sometimes he would watch when I was cooking, or quietly start
washing the pots, and we developed a bond in the silence.
I also had the good fortune of getting to know Trivikrama Mahārāja.
He was a tall, handsome American, one of Śrīla Prabhupāda’s early dis-
ciples. My first impression was that he was grave and serious, but I soon
discovered that he had a soft and tender heart. Although he was a senior
devotee with many achievements on behalf of Śrīla Prabhupāda around
the world, in front of Prabhupāda he was just like a little boy—innocent
and vibrant. Prabhupāda’s face would light up when he saw Mahārāja,
as if he were embracing him with his merciful glance.
Trivikrama Mahārāja had made the arrangements in advance, and
Prabhupāda’s room was set up perfectly. A low table held a silver tum-
bler and waterpot, and behind the table, on the floor, was a cushion
where Śrīla Prabhupāda would sit cross-legged to work. The bed spar-
kled with a beautifully embroidered white cover. New pots and pans
lined the shelves of the adjacent kitchen, and the devotees’ rooms were
all nicely arranged.
When Trivikrama Mahārāja was massaging Śrīla Prabhupāda’s feet
one afternoon, he commented, “Śrīla Prabhupāda, your feet are so soft
and pink.”
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“The other day a devotee came to see Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I said. “He
was lamenting how degraded he was. But Śrīla Prabhupāda told him
that this was superficial, since as soon as Prabhupāda had called him,
the devotee had come and joined him.”
“Yes,” Mahārāja remembered. “That was Bhāvabhūti Prabhu.”
“You have been sent by Śrīla Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura
to assist Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I said. “You are not ordinary devotees. Śrī
Caitanya Mahāprabhu made you take birth in America and Europe to
assist Śrīla Prabhupāda in his mission to spread Kṛṣṇa consciousness all
over the world.”
“How did you figure that out?” he only half-joked.
“Just an intelligent observation,” I remarked with a smile. “Not only
did Lord Caitanya send you all, but He made all the arrangements so
wonderfully for Śrīla Prabhupāda to come to America at a time when
the scene was perfectly set for him to spread Kṛṣṇa consciousness. After
the Second World War, America reached the height of material prosper-
ity, but you all, the youth of America, became disillusioned and realized
that money could not buy everything, and you started to look for a posi
tive alternative to find real happiness. At that time Śrīla Prabhupāda
came to America. What then happened will be seen by posterity as a di-
vine arrangement of the Supreme Personality of Godhead to fulfill His
prediction.”
Mahārāja looked me right in the eye, his gaze piercing. He did not
say a word.
I started to feel uneasy, a bit embarrassed, and began to explain, “Ac-
tually, this is not really my own assessment; sometimes devotees—”
“There is no need to apologize,” he stopped me. “What you said is
both correct and profound.”
spiritual fulfillment and yoga training. When they heard that Śrīla Pra-
bhupāda was giving darśana, they came to see him and hear from him.
Prabhupāda would speak primarily from the Bhagavad-gītā. Most of the
pilgrims were misguided by impersonalism and did not think that the
Absolute Truth was the Supreme Person or had any form, but Prabhu
pāda spoke strongly that God was a person—the Supreme Person, Kṛṣṇa.
Many people had questions, and Prabhupāda always answered them
with eloquence and wisdom, but so as not to strain his health, Tamāl
Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja and Trivikrama Mahārāja limited each darśana to an
hour—from five to six o’clock. Then they would ask everyone to leave
and would take Prabhupāda downstairs to his room.
Still, many people would stay, and the devotees would sit with them
and answer their questions. I was still a new devotee and did not think
myself qualified to preach in front of my senior godbrothers, but I had
some desire, so I would sit in on the sessions, and one day when I saw a
young saffron-robed sādhu, I decided to talk to him. Like most of India’s
sādhus, the man was an impersonalist. We began in a friendly manner,
but when he told me that the goal of life was to merge into Brahman,
the Absolute Truth, and that devotion was only the temporary, prelim-
inary means to prepare for that goal, I protested strongly. I quoted the
Bhāgavatam verse beginning vadanti tat tattva-vidas (1.2.11) and pointed
out that the Absolute Truth was manifest in three features—the imper-
sonal Brahman, the localized Paramātmā, and Bhagavān, the Supreme
Personality of Godhead. This difference of features, I told him, was due
to different levels of perception. When one came to understand the Ab-
solute Truth through negating the material nature through the process
of neti neti—“not this, not this”—one could then go beyond the material
nature and perceive the effulgence of the Lord, known as the brahma-
jyoti. However, just as one was blinded if exposed to the brightness of
the sun after staying in darkness too long, if you were exposed to the
spiritual light of the brahma-jyoti after being in the darkness of this ma
terial nature, you would be blinded to what lay beyond.
If one were fortunate enough to receive proper direction from a
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cles, called paramāṇu, or atoms. But to our senses it takes various shapes,
forms, and perceptions. In other words, what appears to our senses to be
real is not actually real. Therefore, this material nature is an illusion.
“This leads to the next branch of Vedic philosophy, called Sāṅkhya,
or analytical study, which describes the material nature consisting of
five elements—earth, water, fire, air, and ether, and the individual with
five senses—eyes, ears, nose, tongue, and skin. The senses interact with
the elements, and five objects of the senses are generated: the ears inter-
act with ether, and sound is produced; the skin interacts with air, and
touch is produced; the eyes interact with fire, and form is produced; the
tongue interacts with water, and taste is produced; and the nose inter-
acts with earth, and smell is produced.
“There are also five working senses, with which we become active
in this world—namely, the hands, legs, voice, anus, and genitals. In this
way Sāṅkhya philosophy determines twenty tattvas, or aspects of ma-
terial nature, and then considers three subtle elements beyond that—
the mind, intelligence, and false ego—and subsequently, the mahat-
tattva, the total material energy, from which the entire creation became
manifest.
“Through these twenty-four manifestations, Sāṅkhya philosophy
analyzes the entire material nature. However, it concludes that these
twenty-four manifestations are objective in nature and cannot exist
without the subject—the ‘I,’ the self, the soul. The entire material na-
ture has been analyzed, but the soul cannot be found there; therefore, it
comes from another reality—the spiritual nature—and has its origin, its
source, in the Supreme Soul, or the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
In this way, Sāṅkhya philosophy takes one to the spiritual reality and
transcends the material nature.
“Recognition of the fact that the soul is a part of the Supreme Per-
sonality of Godhead leads to the final aspect of jñāna-kāṇḍa, called
Yoga. Yoga is the process by which the spirit soul becomes connected
to the Supersoul, or the Supreme Personality of Godhead. This pro-
cess has eight different stages, or limbs; therefore, it is called aṣṭāṅga-
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Then he explained: “When you put a lot of ghee, you must put a lot
of chili, because they counteract each other’s effects. Ghee is rich and
chili is hot, but when they are put together, they counteract each other’s
effects.”
I learned two very valuable lessons from that incident. First, I
learned that when you use a lot of ghee, there must be a lot of chili; you
needed the chili to digest the ghee. But more importantly, I learned that
when Śrīla Prabhupāda taught us something, we should always remem-
ber and never forget it.
Vṛndāvana
(May 17 – August 28, 1977)
Ś rīla Prabhupāda settled gracefully into the āsana behind his desk
in the large darśana room. Two windows faced the temple, framed
pictures of Kṛṣṇa’s pastimes and other Bhāgavatam scenes decorated the
walls, and on a shelf were sets of Prabhupāda’s books in various lan-
guages. The devotees continued to chant and dance, expressing their
happiness at his arrival.
When the kīrtana ended and the devotees quieted down, Prabhupāda
announced the purpose of his coming to Vṛndāvana. In a moment, the
devotees’ joy turned to sadness, and tears flowed down their cheeks.
Seeing their condition, Prabhupāda spoke about the nature of our
existence in the material world, quoting from the Bhagavad-gītā (2.13):
“As the embodied soul continuously passes, in this body, from boyhood
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to youth to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at death.
A self-realized soul is not bewildered by such a change.”
The body changes, he explained, but the proprietor of the body, the
soul, does not; it is unchanging. The body is born, it grows, and then it
dies. No one in this world can avoid death; whoever is born is bound to
die. But death is only the end of the body; the soul is not affected—it
continues in another body. In this way, the living entity transmigrates
from one body to another, life after life. One who is situated in transcen-
dental knowledge is not disturbed by this.
The Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement, Prabhupāda explained, is
meant to give people this invaluable, crucial knowledge. When one be-
comes situated in this knowledge, one conquers death. He had given all
the knowledge, all the information, in his books. He would not always
be there in his vapuḥ, his physical form, but he would always be there in
his vāṇī form—his words in his books and his spoken instructions.
Despite Śrīla Prabhupāda’s eloquent explanation, when the devotees
filed out they were still shocked and disheartened.
After they left, Prabhupāda told me, “From now on, don’t cook any-
thing for me and don’t force me to eat anything. What is the use of eating
when there is no appetite?”
His words sounded like an ultimatum—he was going to stop eating
and drinking in order to give up his body, just as Parīkṣit Mahārāja had
done when he learned that he had only a week to live.
I went to Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja and related what Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda had told me. “His Divine Grace is engaging in prāyopaveśa,” I said,
“when one decides to give up his body by not eating or drinking.”
Mahārāja remained silent for several minutes, thinking. Then he
said, “What can we do when Śrīla Prabhupāda makes such a decision
and gives us such an order?”
Although Prabhupāda had asked me not to cook or force him to eat any-
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thing, I made fruit juice and kept it on a table next to his bed, just in case
he wanted something to drink. But the juice remained untouched, and
for the next few days he stayed in bed, hardly speaking.
When we had stopped in Delhi on our way to Vṛndāvana, Tamāl
Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja had spoken to Ādi Keśava Swami in New York, in-
formed him about Śrīla Prabhupāda’s condition, and requested that he
inform devotees around the world. So in the next few days many devo-
tees arrived—especially GBCs and sannyāsīs.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja organized a meeting with all the leading
devotees. I stayed back with Śrīla Prabhupāda, and after the meeting
they all came to his room and gathered around his bed. Tamāl Kṛṣṇa
Mahārāja informed Prabhupāda about the meeting and told him that
they had decided to request him not to leave so soon. “We are like a
bunch of children,” he said. “If you leave us now, we will become or-
phans—we will become totally lost. You are a pure devotee of Kṛṣṇa.
Kṛṣṇa will do whatever you want. Therefore, if you want to stay, then
Kṛṣṇa will positively let you stay.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda was silent for a short while. Then he said, “If that is
what you want, then I will stay.”
In a flash, the devotees’ mood turned joyous, and they all shouted,
“Jaya Śrīla Prabhupāda!” We realized that for a pure devotee like Śrīla
Prabhupāda, the decision to stay or leave this world was under his
control.
I did not wait for Prabhupāda’s permission to resume cooking; I im-
mediately went to the kitchen and started to prepare him lunch. And
when I informed him that I had prepared something, he agreed to eat. I
brought the plate to his bedroom, but although he sat up on his bed and
tried, he could hardly eat anything.
From then on, I cooked Prabhupāda a full meal every day, and when,
at half past noon, it was time for him to eat, Upendra would help him
walk to the next room, which served as his dining room, and sat him at a
low table.
Viswambhar Dayal—known as Bhagatji—lived nearby in a humble
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dwelling and came to see Prabhupāda every day, often bringing chaas,
buttermilk, made from his own cows’ milk, which Prabhupāda relished.
Bhagatji was a vraja-vāsī, a resident of Vṛndāvana who was born there.
He had known Śrīla Prabhupāda in his early days in Vṛndāvana and
had helped with the construction of the Kṛṣṇa-Balarāma temple. Al-
though he was not initiated by Śrīla Prabhupāda, he treated him as his
spiritual master, and Prabhupāda showered his affection upon him.
Bhagatji spent a lot of time with Prabhupāda, just sitting by his bed.
Although he was quite old, probably in his late sixties, he had a powerful
body, and he liked giving Prabhupāda massages. They spoke intimately,
as if they were close friends, but Bhagatji always maintained a respectful
attitude. Śrīla Prabhupāda would express his concerns about the future
of the movement to him, and Bhagatji would assure Prabhupāda that he
should not worry; he had trained his disciples so nicely that they would
carry his mission forward.
Ātreya Ṛṣi Dāsa brought special limes from Iran. He hailed from an
aristocratic Iranian family, had an MBA from Harvard, and had held an
important position in an American multinational corporation, but when
he had met Śrīla Prabhupāda he had given up his job and dedicated his
life to the movement. Prabhupāda was quite fond of him and often ex-
pressed his pride in having him as his disciple.
Śrīla Prabhupāda was still hardly eating or drinking, but the limes,
a specialty of Iran, had a particularly sweet taste, and when I made him
lime juice, which had to be served immediately, since it became bitter
within a few minutes, he liked it and asked for more. We were all happy
and relieved to see him accept something and even take pleasure in it.
Ātreya Ṛṣi immediately arranged for several boxes of limes to be sent
from Iran, which pleased Śrīla Prabhupāda very much, and I began to
serve him the juice regularly.
Since Ātreya Ṛṣi was from a professional background, he had tried
to professionalize ISKCON’s management in Los Angeles. He had
wanted to centralize ISKCON’s affairs and make everything run more
efficiently. The devotees, especially the managers, had been impressed,
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everything was organized and structured efficiently to get the most out
of the employees, and the employees did not mind being exploited in
that way because they were getting paid and because they knew that if
they did not perform they would be fired. In Kṛṣṇa consciousness, how-
ever, that kind of control would not work, because devotees rendered
voluntary service out of love for Kṛṣṇa. Their motivation was Kṛṣṇa’s
pleasure, not financial gain or fear of punishment. On the material plat-
form, laws existed to control the individuals, whereas on the spiritual
platform laws were there to facilitate devotees’ service and spiritual
advancement.
Śrīla Prabhupāda gave his own example: when he had gone to Amer-
ica, he had not expected anything of the boys and girls he met. He had
simply told them about Kṛṣṇa and their loving relationship with Him
and taught them how to develop that loving relationship. They had be-
come inspired by his teachings, come to feel that his message should go
out to others, and taken up that responsibility. Therefore the Kṛṣṇa con-
sciousness movement had spread all over the world. He had not tried to
control them but had simply given them the vision, motivated them, and
tried his best to facilitate them. When the devotees had been inspired to
serve Kṛṣṇa, He had bestowed His mercy upon them, and as a result,
the most wonderful miracle had happened.
Ātreya Ṛṣi looked up at Śrīla Prabhupāda, his eyes shining with ap-
preciation. “Śrīla Prabhupāda,” he said, “you are the perfect example
of that. You have made the impossible possible by your devotion, and
Kṛṣṇa’s potency acted through you to make you achieve such an impos-
sible miracle.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda looked at him and smiled. Then he said, “A devo
tee simply wants to serve Kṛṣṇa for His pleasure. He desires to do
something for Kṛṣṇa, and Kṛṣṇa fulfills his desire. In this way a devo-
tee becomes empowered by Kṛṣṇa. This is how Kṛṣṇa spreads Kṛṣṇa
consciousness in this world. He does not act Himself but acts through
His devotees by empowering them. Therefore, whenever we see some
remarkable achievement in Kṛṣṇa consciousness, we have to understand
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that it is happening through the devotees because they have been em-
powered by Kṛṣṇa.”
The preaching in Iran had become so successful that Ātreya Ṛṣi, who
had been the head of the American accountancy firm Arthur Young,
had resigned from his job and started his own business to free himself to
preach and help guide Iran’s spiritual activities. Ironically, his company
had become so successful that he was even busier.
Hearing that, Śrīla Prabhupāda laughed and said, “That means you
are making more money now.” When Ātreya Ṛṣi admitted that this was
true, Prabhupāda said, “Then use it in Kṛṣṇa’s service.”
Ātreya Ṛṣi then reported on Pakistan, which was also in his zone. A
Hindu lady who had married a Muslim governor of a state was taking
great interest in promoting her original Hindu culture, and her husband
was supporting her.
Śrīla Prabhupāda asked if there were still many Hindus in Pakistan.
There were, Ātreya Ṛṣi confirmed, but they faced great difficulties,
and many continued to live there only because they did not have any-
where else to go. Still, as they became aware of Kṛṣṇa consciousness,
they saw a glimmer of hope and responded favorably.
The news that gave Śrīla Prabhupāda the greatest joy was that book
distribution was going well, that Back to Godhead was being printed in the
Iranian language, and that the Persian translation of the Bhagavad-gītā
was almost complete and would be printed in three months.
Devotees everywhere were informed that Śrīla Prabhupāda had
said that the news of book distribution gave him life. This inspired them
even more, and amazing news started to come in from around the world.
In just one week, the London temple had distributed a record seventy
thousand books. And the more books devotees distributed, the more
Prabhupāda, even from his bed, pushed to have more printed. “Don’t
keep money in the bank,” he directed. “Just print books. That is the best
investment—that is the best way to multiply your money.”
One of the most successful book distributors worldwide was
Ghanaśyāma Dāsa, an African-American devotee who was risking his
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One afternoon, Śrīla Prabhupāda was sitting on the roof and I was at
his feet. Next door, in the Deity kitchen, the cooks were preparing offer-
ings. Prabhupāda must have smelled something frying in ghee, and he
asked me to go find out what it was.
In the kitchen I found that Vibhu Caitanya Dāsa, Prabhupāda’s el-
derly Bengali disciple, was frying kachorīs and samosās. When I reported
this to Śrīla Prabhupāda, he asked me to get some for him.
Although his digestion had improved considerably, Prabhupāda
sometimes had stomach problems, and he was in the middle of a difficult
period. Still, when he told me that he wanted kachorīs and samosās, I be-
came excited and ran to get them.
I was practically sprinting from the roof when I ran into Tamāl Kṛṣṇa
Mahārāja and Bhavānanda Mahārāja coming to meet Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda. They asked what was going on, but as I began to tell them that
Prabhupāda wanted kachorīs and samosās, Tamāl Kṛṣṇa interrupted:
“You can’t give kachorīs and samosās to Śrīla Prabhupāda when he is
having such stomach problems!”
“But Śrīla Prabhupāda wants it!” I called out, and without waiting
for a response, I hurried past, got Prabhupāda’s silver plate, and ran to
the Deity kitchen. When I told Vibhu Caitanya that Śrīla Prabhupāda
wanted kachorīs and samosās, he just showed his usual bright smile and
placed two of each, freshly prepared, on the plate.
I brought the plate of prasāda to Śrīla Prabhupāda and placed it on
a small table in front of him. The kachorīs and samosās were still hot, so
Prabhupāda first mashed them with his fingers, then picked up one
small piece and started to eat. Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja and Bhavānanda
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[‘One should chant the holy name of the Lord in a humble state of mind,
thinking himself lower than the straw in the street. One should be more
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tolerant than the tree, devoid of all sense of false prestige, and ready to
offer all respects to others. In such a state of mind one can chant the holy
name of the Lord constantly.’ (Śrī Śikṣāṣṭaka 3)]
“This is the formula,” he had said, “and I am going to preach it all
over the world.”
“At that time,” Dr. Kapoor told us, “I couldn’t recognize the signifi
cance of his words, that he really was going to preach it all over the
world. I thought it was just a casual statement. But now I look back and
can see that even then he was thinking and planning to preach all over
the world, which he did.”
Every day Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja would read out devotees’ letters to
Śrīla Prabhupāda and Prabhupāda would indicate how he wanted
Mahārāja to reply. In one letter a devotee wanted to offer his longevity
to Prabhupāda so that he could continue to be with us on this planet.
It was a sweet letter, steeped with emotion, but Prabhupāda responded
that our real love for him would be shown by how we cooperate with
each other to continue his mission.
One day, two sannyāsīs, Acyutānanda Swami and Yaśodānandana
Swami, came to see Śrīla Prabhupāda after having visited several Indian
temples, and recounted a humorous incident. While they had been gaz-
ing at the Deities in one temple, the pūjārī had told them that since they
had developed such devotion, in their next life they would be reborn in
India to further their spiritual progress.
Śrīla Prabhupāda laughed at the story and told them that they should
have responded that since the pūjārī had developed such appreciation
for their devotion, in his next life he would be born in ISKCON.
Everyone laughed, and Prabhupāda told us a joke: In a small village
in India, an old lady was cheated out of her land. When a mobile court
was set up in the village, some of the woman’s well-wishers suggested
to her that she could approach the judge and ask for justice. The judge
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settled her case, returning the land to her and punishing the miscreants.
The old lady was naturally very pleased with the judge and blessed him,
“I bless you that in your next life you will become a police constable.”
Prabhupāda laughed. “According to her, the police constable was the
most important person!”
Having a bit more energy, Śrīla Prabhupāda was able to accept more
visitors. The governor of Tamil Nadu, Prabhudas Patwari, came to see
him one afternoon, accompanied by his wife and two granddaughters
and escorted by Akṣayānanda Swami. Mr. Patwari was a dignified el-
derly gentleman, and Prabhupāda sat up in his bed to greet him and
his family and asked us to bring them chairs. But Mr. Patwari said that
he preferred to sit on the floor. He was concerned about Prabhupāda’s
health, he said, and invited him to come to Madras for what he consid-
ered the best treatment in India. Śrīla Prabhupāda graciously appreci-
ated the offer but declined, saying that he was not so keen on medical
treatment, especially injections and operations.
The governor was sympathetic and said that he could arrange first-
class Āyurvedic treatment. He offered him accommodations in his
house, which was really more of a palace, but Śrīla Prabhupāda, de-
tached from material comforts, was not interested. When Mr. Patwari
again recommended Madras’s excellent Āyurvedic facilities, Prabhu
pāda pointed out that our material bodies do not last forever but are
subject to birth, death, old age, and disease. When the body gets old, he
said, disease is inevitable, as is death. Instead of trying to extend the du-
ration of our stay in the body, Prabhupāda advised, it is wiser to prepare
oneself for what comes next.
The governor listened attentively, occasionally nodding his head in
approval. I was impressed. He was such an important person, yet he vis-
ited Śrīla Prabhupāda more than once and showed him both respect and
loving concern.
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awarded me sannyāsa. He did not come down to perform the fire y ajña
himself but was represented by a host of sannyāsīs—Tamāl Kṛṣṇa,
Bhavānanda, Jayapatāka, Acyutānanda, Akṣayānanda, Yaśodānan-
dana, Pramāṇa, and Viraha Prakāśa, just to name a few. Bhavānanda
Mahārāja performed the yajña in the temple courtyard, and then we
all went to Prabhupāda’s room, where he gave me the sannyāsa man-
tra and spoke about the Avantī brāhmaṇa from the Eleventh Canto of
Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam.
The story concerns a wealthy brāhmaṇa who was so attached to his
wealth and property that he had become hard-hearted and miserly,
which had caused him to lose the love and respect of his family members
and then even his wealth. Meditating upon his losses and then becoming
detached, the brāhmaṇa eventually gave up his moroseness, left home,
took sannyāsa, and traveled the earth, tolerating all sorts of miseries and
insults. The story, also called the Bhikṣu-gīta, “Song of the Sannyāsī,” il-
lustrated that those who meditated upon the Absolute Truth would not
be troubled by the dualities of the material nature.
Śrīla Prabhupāda then handed me my daṇḍa and gave me my new
name, Bhakti Chāru Swami, which, he explained, means “one who is
beautiful in controlling his senses with his devotion.” The devotees all
shouted, “Haribol!” and Śrīla Prabhupāda asked them to chant the holy
name, which turned into an ecstatic kīrtana.
Then I promptly returned to my duties—first to the kitchen to pre-
pare Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lunch. After my first (harināma) initiation I had
felt some difference—the color of my cloth had changed and I had ex
perienced a deep feeling that I had been accepted by Śrīla Prabhupāda as
his disciple and as a recognized member of ISKCON. But this time I did
not feel any change. Especially when I started to cook for Prabhupāda,
everything felt the same—I was rendering the same service and had the
same responsibilities, even the same color cloth. I just kept cutting the
vegetables, reminding myself that my greatest gift was Śrīla Prabhu
pāda’s mercy and wishing that I never leave the shelter of his lotus feet.
After I’d served Śrīla Prabhupāda his lunch, as Tamāl Kṛṣṇa
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Mahārāja and I were going back to our room, we passed a few senior
devotees taking prasāda in the dining room of the guesthouse, and they
greeted us and asked us to join them.
Akṣayānanda Swami, the president of the Vṛndāvana temple, asked
me, “When did you get initiated?”
“During the Gaura-pūrṇimā festival this year,” I replied, “in
Māyāpur.”
“Just about three months ago,” he said. “I got my sannyāsa about
one-and-a-half years after my initiation, and everyone thought that was
quick, but you got it after only three months.”
Acyutānanda Swami, whom I knew from my days in Calcutta and
Māyāpur and who had been a role model for me during those days, com-
mented, “From the time he joined, I knew he was in for some special
mercy from Śrīla Prabhupāda.”
Embarrassed, I told him, “It is your mercy that I received these fa-
vors from Śrīla Prabhupāda. I have always admired your wonderful
qualities—you give such amazing classes and lead such fantastic kīr
tanas. And I have always wanted to be like you. Please bless me that I
can develop some of your qualities.”
In his spontaneous, humorous way, Mahārāja lifted his right hand
with his palm extended toward me and declared, “You have all my bless-
ings.” Everyone laughed, and I moved to touch his feet, but when he
realized what I was about to do he jumped up from his seat and out of
reach.
The conversation focused on Śrīla Prabhupāda giving sannyāsa to
different devotees. The group recalled how he had given sannyāsa to
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja in Jaipur, in front of Govindajī’s temple. Guṇār-
nava Dāsa, the Vṛndāvana vice-president, said, “Śrīla Prabhupāda
made him give up all his managerial responsibilities when he gave him
sannyāsa. He made him resign from the GBC. But soon after that, when
he saw that no one could fill the void created by Mahārāja’s resignation,
he reinstated him. Isn’t that so, Mahārāja?”
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa agreed with a smile.
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When I asked Tamāl Kṛṣṇa why Prabhupāda had taken this action,
he said that it was because of me. Now that I was a sannyāsī, Prabhu-
pāda was taking precautions for my protection.
“Śrīla Prabhupāda knows how fallible I am,” I said, “and he is kindly
protecting me.” Again I silently thanked His Divine Grace for his mercy,
and I was reminded that I should be cautious about associating with
women, and focused and determined in my new āśrama.
Most mornings I was busy with Śrīla Prabhupāda, preparing his break-
fast and doing other chores. And then in the afternoon, while he was
taking rest, I would chant my rounds in a secluded grove of trees off the
parikramā-mārga, the sandy path that circled Vṛndāvana.
One afternoon I was chanting with Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja in his of-
fice instead, when in walked a tall, sinewy devotee with a bright, charm-
ing smile.
“Hey, Harikeśa!” Mahārāja exclaimed as he rose and embraced him.
Harikeśa Swami had been Śrīla Prabhupāda’s personal secre-
tary, Mahārāja later told me, but he had given up that service to fulfill
Prabhupāda’s request that he go take care of a problem in Germany,
where devotees had been caught collecting money with false claims.
Harikeśa had not wanted to give up Prabhupāda’s personal service, but
Prabhupāda had insisted, and not only had Harikeśa taken care of the
problem, but he had also developed Germany into the most prosperous
European zone, opened up preaching in the Soviet Union and Com-
munist Eastern Europe, directed the translation and printing of Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s books into several languages, and provided spiritual and
managerial leadership across the continent.
When Harikeśa had heard about Prabhupāda’s illness he had in-
creased book translation and production, running the presses twenty-
four hours a day, and when he had learned that Prabhupāda might leave
his body he rushed to Vṛndāvana with as many different translations as
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he could gather. He had just arrived, he said, and had come directly to
see Śrīla Prabhupāda.
Prabhupāda had been resting, Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja told him, but
he would be getting up soon. So Harikeśa rushed to his room and re-
turned a few minutes later, his arms piled high with books—recent
translations into German, Hungarian, Swedish, Danish, and other
European languages.
When Upendra came and informed us that Śrīla Prabhupāda was
ready to meet Harikeśa in his room, we all rushed in. Prabhupāda
was half reclining on his bed, propped up by pillows. He was clearly
delighted to see Harikeśa, and his face lit up with excitement when
Mahārāja showed him the books.
Prabhupāda asked Harikeśa how many copies he had printed. One
hundred and twenty thousand Kṛṣṇa books, Harikeśa told him, 60,000
sets of Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam, and 10,000 copies of Śrī Īśopaniṣad. When
Prabhupāda asked whether Harikeśa would be able to distribute them,
Harikeśa assured him that he could—and that when he had, he would
print more. And he would also have other books translated, printed, and
distributed.
Śrīla Prabhupāda looked at Harikeśa affectionately, placed his hand
on his head, and said, “Now you understand why I sent you away? I
knew you were meant to achieve something wonderful.”
Harikeśa rested his head in Prabhupāda’s hand and began to cry.
Śrīla Prabhupāda just caressed him, tears flowing from his eyes.
Another afternoon when I was sitting with Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja in his
office, Guṇārnava Dāsa came in looking worried and informed us that
he received news that Muslims had attacked the temple in Māyāpur.
The devotees, led by Bhavānanda Mahārāja, had defended themselves,
but when the police had come they had arrested Mahārāja and the devo-
tees instead of the attackers.
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The three of us went right to Śrīla Prabhupāda and told him about
what had happened. He was very concerned and asked me to investi-
gate. The telephone connections were bad, so it took a while to get
through, but I finally managed to speak with devotees in Māyāpur who
had witnessed the incident. Some Muslims had been grazing their cows
in the ISKCON rice paddies, and when the devotees had driven the
Muslims off, the incident escalated into a fight. One of the Muslims had
been caught by the devotees and taken to a room in the gurukula, where
Nitāi Chand Dāsa, the Māyāpur general manager, had ordered that they
shave his head. That had led to a reaction: Nitāi Chand had later been
caught alone off the ISKCON property, near the Gaṅgā, and nearly
beaten up. Another devotee, Brahmapāda Dāsa, had come to his defense
and saved him, fighting against a group of Muslims, but then a larger
group, possibly incited by agitators from another maṭha, had entered
the temple and attacked worshiping devotees, including an American
woman, Viśālākṣī Devī Dāsī. Bhavānanda Mahārāja had tried to scare
them off with a shotgun, and a few of the attackers had been hit with
buckshot, but there had not been any major injuries. Still, when the po-
lice had finally arrived, quite a bit later, instead of arresting the attackers
they had arrested Mahārāja and the other devotees, bound them, and
marched them to the police station in Navadvīpa, where they were held
in custody.
When Śrīla Prabhupāda heard the details of my report, he began to
cry. He said, “These demons cannot tolerate the devotees.”
After a few days, we received the news that the devotees had been
released and the charges dropped.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja was very careful during that period about who
would be let in to see Śrīla Prabhupāda. Generally only very import-
ant visitors, senior local Vaiṣṇavas, and senior devotees were allowed
in, and only when they had something important to discuss with Śrīla
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pāda’s room. That was how they could be around him. Some would
also play harmonium, but Prabhupāda, who was an excellent musician,
would get disturbed if they did not play it properly, and eventually he
suggested that no one should play harmonium in his room.
One evening, lying on his bed with his eyes closed, Śrīla Prabhupāda
heard someone chanting and playing the harmonium. I was sitting at his
bedside, attending him, and he asked me to tell the devotee not to play
the harmonium. It was Bharadrāja. I passed along Śrīla Prabhupāda’s
request, and he immediately stopped.
When I went back to Prabhupāda’s bedside, he asked softly, “Who
was that?”
“Bharadrāja Prabhu,” I replied.
“Oh. He can play.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda also liked Haṁsadūta Swami’s chanting. Mahārāja
had a sweet but powerful voice with a unique high-pitched and pene-
trating tone. Prabhupāda would sometimes send for him and ask him
to chant the Brahma-saṁhitā prayers—govindam ādi-puruṣaṁ tam ahaṁ
bhajāmi. The melody was so touching and had such a magical effect that
even today, when I think of Śrīla Prabhupāda in his room, lying on his
bed in a meditative mood, I hear Haṁsadūta singing in his high, melodi-
ous voice.
Because of the summer heat, Śrīla Prabhupāda liked to sleep
on the roof, but most nights he barely slept; he would just translate
Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam. One night after translating, an hour or so after mid-
night, he was sitting on his bed and asked me to massage his back. While
massaging him I noticed that devotees were watching from the windows
of their rooms in the guesthouse next door. Most had come from Amer-
ica, Europe, or Australia, but due to Prabhupāda’s poor health they
rarely got a chance to see him, and they were taking advantage of the
opportunity.
Once again I became aware of my good fortune. Śrīla Prabhupāda
had more than five thousand followers who would do anything to have
even a moment of his association, but even though I had only recently
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come to ISKCON and was still such a neophyte devotee, I was person-
ally serving him every day. I wished I had been there early in his mis-
sion, when he had been alone in America with no one to serve him. My
heart melting with gratitude, I told him, “Śrīla Prabhupāda, I wish I had
been there with you when you were alone in New York.”
He was silent for a minute. Then he said, “I was never alone. Kṛṣṇa
was always with me.”
I felt humbled by Prabhupāda’s exalted position—he was so dear to
Kṛṣṇa, I understood, that Kṛṣṇa personally took care of him and was
with him at every moment. He did not need any service from us; he was
giving us the opportunity to serve him out of his causeless mercy. I kept
on thanking Kṛṣṇa for my good fortune.
Lord Śiva had informed Goddess Durgā that in the Age of Kali, appear-
ing as a brāhmaṇa, he would explain the Vedas through false scriptures,
propagating a philosophy that is actually covered Buddhism.
“Śaṅkarācārya came in order to re-establish the Vedas over the doc-
trines of Lord Buddha. Using Buddhist teachings, he defeated them.
Lord Buddha taught that the ultimate goal of life is to attain nirvāṇa,
which means to ‘become nothing,’ śūnya, void. But Śaṅkarācārya
pointed out that nirvāṇa is actually a Vedic concept and does not mean
to ‘become nothing’ but to ‘become one with Brahman,’ the spiritual re-
ality. He described Brahman as devoid of any form, quality, potency, or
variety—nirākāra, nirguṇa, niḥśaktika, or nirviśeṣa. He needed to do that
in order to convince the Buddhists, who did not accept any concept of
God.
“In this way, Śrīpād Śaṅkarācārya established that the ultimate goal
of life is to merge into Brahman. In Śrī Caitanya-caritāmṛta it is stated that
Lord Buddha’s doctrine of voidism is actually covered atheism—veda nā
māniyā bauddha haya ta’ nāstika [Cc. Madhya 6.168]. Since the Buddhists
do not accept the Vedas, they are atheists—nāstika. And Śaṅkarācārya’s
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Lord is absolute, whereas the living entities are minute, and that is the
difference.”
Then he looked at me affectionately and suggested, “Now you go and
take rest.”
It was clear, however, that Prabhupāda would not be able to stay with us
forever, and there was some speculation about whom he would appoint
as his successor ācārya. Some thought it would be Kīrtanānanda Swami,
others thought it would be Satsvarūpa Mahārāja, and others thought it
would be Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja.
When Śrīla Prabhupāda was approached with the question, his ini-
tial reaction was, “My Guru Mahārāja did not appoint any successor
ācārya, so how can I?”
Soon thereafter he named ten leading devotees to give initiation on
his behalf in different parts of the world while he was still present on the
planet, and he said that they could initiate their own disciples after his
departure.
Haṁsadūta’s name was not on that list, but when Śrīla Prabhupāda
heard about his successful preaching in Sri Lanka, he asked Tamāl
Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja to add him. Haṁsadūta had defeated a prominent athe-
istic scientist, Dr. Abraham Kovoor, who had challenged that if anyone
could prove that God had created the world the doctor would give him a
hundred thousand rupees.
Haṁsadūta had counter-challenged that if Dr. Kovoor could cre-
ate life from matter Haṁsadūta would give him a million rupees. The
mutual challenges had received a good deal of press coverage, and
Haṁsadūta had challenged Dr. Kovoor to a debate in one of the area’s
most prestigious auditoriums.
In newspaper articles, Haṁsadūta pointed out that although many
scientists were claiming that life came from matter, they had not been
able to accomplish that feat. They had not been able to create even a
mosquito in their laboratories, let alone human life. And although they
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had not been able to produce even an egg, chickens did so without ef-
fort. Dr. Kovoor had not been able to counter the articles’ arguments.
Finally, the date for the debate was announced and a large audito-
rium was rented. Dr. Kovoor, however, never showed up; he claimed he
was sick. Everyone saw it as a victory for Haṁsadūta, who earned Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s praise and esteem.
Another of ISKCON’s prominent leaders had been Madhudviṣa
Dāsa, who had been a sannyāsī and served as the GBC of Australia. He
led kīrtanas so ecstatically that Śrīla Prabhupāda had called him the
kīrtana-samrāṭ, the emperor of kīrtana. Madhudviṣa had become in-
volved with a woman, however, and had left ISKCON. One morning,
Satsvarūpa Mahārāja brought him to meet Prabhupāda. After the initial
exchanges, Śrīla Prabhupāda asked, “Why did you leave? You got mar-
ried . . . so what?” He indicated two other householder devotees in the
room—Gaurasundara and Upendra—and pointed out that they were
married but had remained in ISKCON. “So you got married. That does
not mean you had to leave ISKCON.” Prabhupāda told him emphati-
cally, “No matter whatever happens, don’t leave ISKCON.”
Madhudviṣa accepted Śrīla Prabhupāda’s instruction and came back
to ISKCON, where he remained for the rest of his life serving Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s movement.
the West to preach. His plan was to go to London, stay there for Jan-
māṣṭamī and Vyāsa-pūjā, and then go to New York, to the Gītā-nagarī
farm in Pennsylvania, to Los Angeles, and then to Hawaii, where he
would stay and translate Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam.
When I told Vanamali Kaviraj about Śrīla Prabhupāda’s plan, he was
totally opposed to it. “Please don’t let him go now,” he told me. “His con-
dition is improving. In winter I will give him makaradhvaja. It is a very
strong medicine, but by then his health will have improved considerably,
and the cold of the winter will also help him digest the medicine. Then
his health will become rejuvenated.”
I reported the doctor’s recommendation to Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja,
but Mahārāja said that Śrīla Prabhupāda was so determined to go to
the West that no one could change his mind. I also knew from things
Prabhupāda had said that he had made up his mind to go. “A soldier
doesn’t like to die on his bed,” he had said. “For him, to die on the battle-
field is a death of honor and glory.” He was tired of lying in bed, and he
was determined to go out on the battlefield and fight.
When the time finally came for Śrīla Prabhupāda to leave, I was
on the floor at his feet as he sat on his chair, dressed and ready to go.
“Aren’t you coming?” he asked.
“I can’t come, Śrīla Prabhupāda,” I replied. “I don’t have my
passport.”
“Okay,” he said. “You join me in Hawaii.”
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in Māyāpur and expressed regret at the way he had been treated by the
police—marched through the streets of Navadvīpa chained up like a
criminal.
“For your sake, Śrīla Prabhupāda, whatever I go through gives me
immense pleasure,” Mahārāja told him. “Even that humiliation was a
source of great joy to me. All the way I was feeling that I was your man;
I was prepared to face anything for your sake.”
A special sofa was waiting for Śrīla Prabhupāda in the terminal, and
the devotees arranged themselves on the floor around him. It was still
early morning, but the airport was quite crowded, and many people
stood around us, watching.
When Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja and Upendra returned after check-
ing in, Prabhupāda asked if they were sitting together. Mahārāja as-
sured him that all three were traveling first class—he was sitting next to
Prabhupāda, and Upendra was just behind them.
When the flight was announced and Śrīla Prabhupāda was ready, I
placed my head on his feet and did not move. Prabhupāda caressed my
head and shoulders; I was dreading the separation.
When it was finally time for him to go, we all watched him stride
through the gate and disappear around the corner. Bhavānanda turned
to me and asked, “What are you going to do now?”
“I don’t have any plans,” I said. “Śrīla Prabhupāda wanted me to join
him in Hawaii.”
“Why didn’t you go with him?”
“I don’t have my passport here.”
“So you have to go to Calcutta.”
“Yes.”
“Then come with me to Māyāpur.”
“When are you going?”
“Since I have come this far, I thought I’d go to Vṛndāvana. Then,
maybe tomorrow, we can take a flight to Calcutta.”
“Great,” I said. “I have to collect my belongings in Vṛndāvana
anyway.”
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corner, watching Śrīla Prabhupāda sleep. His head stuck out of the cov-
ers, and his body seemed to be on the same level with the rest of the bed.
He had been quite thin before he had left, but now he seemed emaciated.
At one point Śrīla Prabhupāda woke up coughing. Upendra went
over to help him, and when he told Prabhupāda that I was there,
Prabhupāda beckoned me closer. He asked me what I had been doing
and wanted to know how everything was going in Māyāpur. After I
gave him a brief report, he said that he wanted to sit up, so I propped
him up with some pillows. He was very light—gaunt. “Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda,” I said, “you have become so thin.”
“Yes,” he replied. “Now this body is just a set of bones in a bag of
skin.”
I did my best to check the emotions that were flooding my conscious-
ness. Why did I let him go? I chastised myself. Vanamali Kaviraj had been
emphatic about Prabhupāda’s not going. Why hadn’t I listened? Why
hadn’t I been more forceful, asked the senior devotees to persuade him
not to leave?
Then I realized that we had to surrender to whatever Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda wanted. He was a pure devotee of the Lord and knew what Kṛṣṇa
wanted him to do. And nobody could have imagined that his condition
would deteriorate so quickly. I wanted to embrace him, to release all the
agony from my heart in tears.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja and I stayed up into the night, talking. When
I wondered aloud where I would stay, he looked at me with surprise and
said, “What? You’re staying with me. As always.”
Mahārāja told me about what had happened in London. Initially
Śrīla Prabhupāda had been happy to be there. His health had been
good, the atmosphere was joyous; devotees had come from all over Eu-
rope to see him. He had been giving regular darśanas and the devotees
had been in ecstasy. He had been so happy to be with them that he had
said he just wanted to stay in the West and preach.
However, soon after the celebrations of Janmāṣṭamī and his
Vyāsa-pūjā, on the 6th and 7th of September, his health had suddenly
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Even in the midst of Śrīla Prabhupāda’s health crisis, his Society con-
tinued to move forward. He had constructed a building next to the tem-
ple for the gurukula, and its inauguration was planned to coincide with
a three-day conference on science and religion, organized by Svarūpa
Dāmodara and sponsored by the Bhaktivedanta Institute.
Prabhupāda had seen how in the name of science the world was be-
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ing misled and the existence of God denied. The root of the misconcep-
tion was the claim that life evolved from matter, out of some random
chemical combination, and he wanted it proven that life came only from
life. He also wanted to show that Kṛṣṇa consciousness was not just some
blind faith but was a science that could be objectively perceived and ex-
perimentally verified, which is why he had established the Institute. He
had asked several GBCs and sannyāsīs to give their full support to the
conference and charged Bhavānanda Mahārāja with assuring that the
guests were treated with the utmost care and attention and given first-
class accommodations, and especially first-class prasāda.
Fifty prominent scholars and scientists had been invited, including
the chair of the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Or-
ganization, UNESCO, who would give the opening address. Represent-
ing ISKCON were Mādhava Dāsa (Dr. Michael Marchetti), Sadāpūta
Dāsa (Dr. Richard Thompson), and Svarūpa Dāmodara.
On the advice of Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja, each lecture was followed
by a response by one of our devotee scientists, and then the audience
was invited to ask questions. At the end of the three-day program, there
was a press conference, drawing reporters from as far as Delhi, and All
India Radio broadcast it nationwide.
A follow-up conference was planned with scientists from Delhi’s Indian
National Science Academy. One group was already doing research on the
nature of consciousness and were eager to exchange ideas with the scien-
tists from the Bhaktivedanta Institute. There would also be a program on
national television entitled “Life Cannot Evolve from Dead Matter.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda suggested that the Institute scientists also present
their ideas in books, and at his urging, Svarūpa Dāmodara assured him
that they would organize more such conferences in India and then, once
they had established themselves and gained more experience, in the
West. Prabhupāda had not been able to participate in the conference
personally, but he was extremely pleased with its grand outcome and es-
pecially happy that the devotees had so expertly established the suprem-
acy of spiritual culture and pointed out the flaws of modern science.
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his only son, Abhishek, but then, later, he had changed his mind.
Śrīla Prabhupāda himself had three sons—Prayag, Mathura, and
Vrindavan. No one knew what had happened to Prayag; he had just dis-
appeared. Mathura never came to see his father, but Vrindavan would
visit every now and again, and Prabhupāda had a lot of affection for
him. When he came to visit once and asked Prabhupāda for some finan-
cial help for his business, Prabhupāda initially agreed and told Tamāl
Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja to give him one lakh of rupees, but when Vrindavan
came back the next day, Prabhupāda told him that he had decided in-
stead to give him a pension every month.
“Unless one is dedicated, endeavoring very hard, he cannot be suc-
cessful,” Prabhupāda instructed his son. “I was seventy years old. I was in
Vṛndāvana. But then I went to America and for ten years I worked, and
now you can see that all over the world I have got hundreds of buildings
like this. I am the same man. Only by working for ten years I have built
at least one hundred temples. So there must be ability, there must be en-
deavor, and there must be good fortune. Then everything will happen.”
I was usually with Śrīla Prabhupāda when he awoke in the morning, and
upon waking up he would often ask, “Where is Tamāl?” I would call Tamāl
Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja, and no matter what he was doing he would immediately
run to Śrīla Prabhupāda. When he arrived, they would speak intimately,
discussing crucial matters, especially about the future of ISKCON.
Prabhupāda was extremely concerned about the future of his
movement. He related the history of the Gauḍīya Maṭha during Śrīla
Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Ṭhākura’s presence—how successful Śrīla
Bhaktisiddhānta had been in preaching all over India and attracting in-
fluential people. Before his departure, he had instructed his leading fol-
lowers how to manage the institution by forming a governing body. He
knew that there would be problems after he departed, as often happened
when an ācārya is no longer present. He wanted his leaders to overcome
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Sitting with me in our room one day, Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja expressed
his apprehension that we did not know what to do when Śrīla Prabhu
pāda left his body—how to put him in his samādhi (tomb). Mahārāja
had found out that Śrīla Kṛṣṇadāsa Bābājī Mahārāja was staying at
Mādhava Mahārāja’s maṭha, and he suggested I go and ask him about
how we should proceed.
That evening I went to the maṭha, but Bābājī Mahārāja was not
there. I was told he was in another maṭha, so I went, but he was not there
either.
By the time I got back it was already quite late, and when I went to
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s room he asked me where I had been.
“I went to Mādhava Mahārāja’s maṭha,” I said.
“Why did you go there?” he asked. From the tone of his voice I could
tell he was not pleased.
“I went to see Śrīla Kṛṣṇadāsa Bābājī Mahārāja.”
“Why did you go to see him?” he asked, his voice now louder.
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I remained silent.
Again he asked, “Why did you go there?” His voice was like a
thunderbolt, shaking the room.
A cold shudder ran up my spine, and I began to shake all over. Fi-
nally I managed to blurt out, “Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja sent me there.”
He just said, “Oh,” but I could tell he did not approve. I understood
that he wanted us to remain in ISKCON, at his feet, and not go any-
where. Even though Kṛṣṇadāsa Bābājī Mahārāja was quite detached
and did not even have a temple or accept any disciples, Śrīla Prabhu
pāda did not want us to associate with him more than necessary.
As we had not been able to find anyone who could effect any real im-
provement in his health, Śrīla Prabhupāda said that we should call on
his old friend Dr. Ghosh, whom everyone agreed was the best doctor
in Allahabad. Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja sent a few letters requesting that
the doctor come, and when he did not get any response he sent a tele-
gram, but that also remained unanswered. Finally he asked Lokanāth
Swami to go to Allahabad and meet Dr. Ghosh and inform him about
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s condition and request.
In Allahabad, Lokanāth Mahārāja found out that Dr. Ghosh had gone
to Darjeeling, where his granddaughter was studying in a Christian mis-
sionary school. Pursuing that trail, he went to Darjeeling and finally found
Dr. Ghosh, and the doctor agreed to leave for Vṛndāvana immediately.
In those days transportation in India was extremely deficient. There
were very few airports and only sporadic flights. The trains were al-
ways overbooked, and it was practically impossible to get reservations
at short notice. Bus services existed but were very uncomfortable due
to a lack of proper seating, and the roads were full of potholes. The only
mode of transport that Lokanāth Mahārāja could arrange was a ride in
a rented car from Darjeeling down to Siliguri, and then a sixteen-hour
bus ride to Calcutta, a flight to Delhi, and a four-hour bus ride to
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Prabhupāda would be cured if he took the medicine, and with the help
of an influential life member, he had found an Āyurvedic doctor from
the Rāmānuja sampradāya whom he thought could be the right person to
prepare it.
Two days later, Adridhāraṇa arrived with the kavirāja, Damodar
Prasad Shastri, a pleasant middle-aged gentleman from Rajasthan.
The doctor felt Śrīla Prabhupāda’s pulse for some time, perhaps five
minutes, while talking to him casually. Pressing Prabhupāda’s feet
and hands, which were quite swollen, he asked about his pain and said
that his ailment was due to the malfunctioning of his kidneys. Tamāl
Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja said that the doctor in London had come to the same
conclusion.
Mahārāja, Damodar Prasad, and I went to the office to discuss Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s health and what needed to be done. Damodar Prasad did
not speak English, so I translated. He told us that Prabhupāda’s con-
dition was quite serious, further aggravated by his weakness—he was
not able to fight off or rectify his ailment. He mentioned that the kid-
neys played a crucial role—they filtered the blood that supplied energy
to the body, and, according to Āyurveda, diverted the urine to be ex-
creted. Therefore, when the kidneys malfunctioned, the impurities did
not get filtered but remained in the blood, causing swelling of the feet
and hands.
I told him that Vanamali Kaviraja had also said that Śrīla Prabhu-
pāda’s ailment was due to the malfunctioning of his kidneys and had
given him some medicines—two types of salt, one white and the other
pink—to be mixed with the extracts of punar navā and patharkuchi leaves.
Damodar Prasad agreed that the extracts were appropriate and asked
whether we were continuing with them. I related how Vanamali Kavi-
raja had treated Śrīla Prabhupāda four months before, how Prabhu
pāda’s health had improved, how he had decided to go to the West, and
then how his condition had deteriorated. When Prabhupāda had re-
turned to Vṛndāvana, Vanamali Kaviraja had resumed the treatment,
but he had stopped when he saw that his medicines were not working.
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I began to see what a big mistake had been made. “What can be done
now?” I asked.
“I am trying my best,” he said.
Although Damodar Prasad tried to console me, a terrible weight
remained in my heart. I told Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja about the conver-
sation and also about how Vanamali Kaviraja had not wanted to give
makaradhvaja to Śrīla Prabhupāda when he was treating him. I ex-
pressed my concern that now that Prabhupāda’s health condition was
much weaker, he would not be able to absorb such a powerful medicine.
But Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja reminded me that it was Śrīla Prabhupāda,
after his dream, who had wanted to take it.
Damodar Prasad was getting messages urging him to return to Cal-
cutta; his other patients were in need of his treatment. But he was deter-
mined to stay on and treat Śrīla Prabhupāda, saying that a personality
like Śrīla Prabhupāda should stay, for the benefit of the whole world.
Damodar Prasad felt that by going to Calcutta he might save one or two
people but that a personality like Śrīla Prabhupāda could save millions
of embodied souls from their suffering condition.
One day, while feeling Śrīla Prabhupāda’s pulse, Damodar Prasad
said, “Swamiji, I am convinced that this is all your pastimes. Just a while
ago when I felt your pulse, the beat seemed like that of a dying man, but
now it is strong and steady like that of a young man.”
We could see that his medicines were having their effect. Śrīla
Prabhupāda was not eating, and for some time he did not evacuate, but
the medicine had started to clean his stomach. That was important, Da-
modar Prasad told us; otherwise, Prabhupāda’s body would be flooded
with toxins. He suggested that we do not give Prabhupāda any solid
food—only diluted milk. So Prabhupāda started to take that regularly,
and we again had hope for his recovery.
Mahārāja would do more to stop him, but they were not opposing the
plan as strongly as I had hoped.
Devotees were discussing the travel details in Śrīla Prabhupāda’s
presence. It all sounded absurd to me, really out of the question, but
Prabhupāda seemed content.
Finally, when it was decided that Prabhupāda would take rest at
night in a tent under a tree, I could not contain myself. “Do you know
that Śrīla Prabhupāda cannot even turn to his side?” I shouted. “When
we are not careful enough to help him turn, he feels pain. In this con-
dition you want to take him on a bullock cart through all those bumpy
roads full of potholes and rocks? You are planning to make him stay
under a tree, in a tent, at night? Even in this room here, in spite of the
heater and three blankets and a quilt, he feels cold at night.”
No one said a word.
Then Śrīla Prabhupāda broke the silence. “Bābājī Mahārāja will
come in the evening,” he said. “I will ask him.”
That gave me a little hope. I would tell Bābājī Mahārāja about the
whole situation, and he would convince Prabhupāda not to go.
That evening, as I was waiting for Bābājī Mahārāja to arrive, I
went to the kitchen to do something for Śrīla Prabhupāda. When I re-
turned to his room, I found Bābājī Mahārāja already there, sitting on
a chair next to Prabhupāda’s bed, and they were happily planning the
parikramā.
Śrīla Prabhupāda asked Bābājī Mahārāja to join him, and he agreed.
Hearing that, I gave up my last hope. But then I had an idea. I went to
the kitchen, made a plate of prasāda, and brought it to the room next to
Prabhupāda’s. Then I announced that I had prepared prasāda for Bābājī
Mahārāja. Prabhupāda suggested that I bring it in, but when I said that
it was already arranged next door, he told Mahārāja to go.
While Bābājī Mahārāja was eating, I told him about the whole situ
ation and how when Lokanāth Mahārāja had told Prabhupāda about his
visit to Badrinath and the place where Bhīma had left his body, Prabhu-
pāda had suggested the bullock-cart parikramā of Vṛndāvana. I told him
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that I suspected that just like the Pāṇḍavas had gone on a mahā-prasthāna
after they received the news of Kṛṣṇa’s disappearance, Śrīla Prabhupāda
was planning to leave his body doing parikramā of Vṛndāvana.
After hearing everything, Bābājī Mahārāja declared, “Then he
shouldn’t go.”
“Please tell him that,” I begged.
“Me?” he replied. “How can I tell him?”
“Mahārāja,” I insisted, “you are the only one who can stop him.”
I explained that we, his disciples, could not force Śrīla Prabhupāda
to change his mind but that he would listen to his friend and godbrother.
Bābājī Mahārāja stood up, washed his hands and mouth, and walked
straight into Prabhupāda’s room. “I’ve heard everything,” he told him,
“and I don’t think you should go on this parikramā.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda replied, “If you feel that way, then I won’t.”
Relieved, I hurried out to inform Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja. As I
was sprinting up the guesthouse stairs to his room, I ran into him and
Bhavānanda Mahārāja coming down and explained to them that Bābājī
Mahārāja had convinced Prabhupāda not go on the parikramā.
They had just been on their way to see Prabhupāda to request him
not to go. Excited, we all rushed to his room.
“Śrīla Prabhupāda,” Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja said, “you put us
through such anxiety that we could not make out how to deal with the
situation.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda looked at Bābājī Mahārāja and told him, “See how
much they love me?” He told Mahārāja about the humiliation and dis-
tress that Bhavānanda Mahārāja had gone through for him in Māyāpur.
Bābājī Mahārāja replied, “They are fortunate that they have a spiri-
tual master like you.”
and Ramakrishna Bajaj came to see him. They were old acquaintances,
and at one point they wanted to speak with Prabhupāda privately, so he
suggested that the rest of us leave the room.
Before leaving, however, I pressed the record button of the tape
recorder on Prabhupāda’s bedside table. When I told Tamāl Kṛṣṇa
Mahārāja what I had done, he thanked me and said that it had been a
smart thing to do.
When the meeting was over, I took the tape recorder to Mahārāja’s
office and played it. Śrīmān Nārāyaṇa and Ramakrishna Bajaj had
asked Prabhupāda about who would be his successor, and he had told
them that he was not going to appoint one. He was giving the legacy to
all his disciples, all his followers.
A few days later, in the evening, several of Śrīla Prabhupāda’s god-
brothers came to see him. As they sat on chairs around his bed, Prabhu
pāda admitted that he had used strong expressions while preaching.
He begged their forgiveness and requested that they ask all the other
Vaiṣṇavas to forgive him as well.
Śrīla Bon Mahārāja, sitting next to Śrīla Prabhupāda’s head, told
him that he had been in a position to chastise them and that there was
no offense in his action. He expressed his appreciation for Śrīla Prabhu
pāda’s achievements in preaching around the world, fulfilling the pre-
diction of Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu.
When Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja showed the group copies of the Tenth
Canto of Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam, Śrīla Bon Mahārāja, his voice ringing with
appreciation, admitted that they were rich both inside and out. Inside
the books were rich with the wisdom that Śrīla Prabhupāda had pre-
sented, and outside the artwork, layout, and printing were of the highest
quality.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja told them how Śrīla Prabhupāda’s books had
been translated into so many languages and how in Moscow the Russian
government had shown its appreciation for the books in a certificate not-
ing their contribution to peace and progress. Everyone listened with rapt
attention as Mahārāja described how a skyscraper in Manhattan had
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become a Kṛṣṇa temple, and how 108 temples had been established all
over the world. Everyone was extremely impressed, and Śrīla Prabhu
pāda then asked us to serve them prasāda.
After the group left, Śrīla Prabhupāda started to experience some
pain in his right thigh. He did not usually show his pain, but he was ob-
viously suffering, and he asked me to tie some salt in a piece of cloth,
heat it, and press it on the area of his discomfort. The compress brought
him some relief, but it was heartbreaking for us to see him in that condi-
tion, lying on his bed without saying anything.
Tamāl Kṛṣṇa, Bhavānanda, Upendra, and I all went sleepless
that night. At around five the next morning, right after maṅgala-ārati,
Damodar Prasad told me that Śrīla Prabhupāda had not passed urine in
twelve hours. If he did not pass urine soon, in about fourteen hours he
would leave his body. He asked if he should use a catheter to help.
I described the situation to Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja, who immediately
called a meeting of the senior devotees. He told them about Damodar
Prasad’s report and also that Prabhupāda had emphatically instructed
that nothing should penetrate his body—no needles. Everybody agreed
that a catheter should not be used.
It was clear that Śrīla Prabhupāda was about to leave his body. The
doors of his room, which for months had been closed and guarded, were
thrown open, and devotees streamed in. Those who could not fit stood
outside the large windows next to Prabhupāda’s bed. Everyone was
chanting. I was standing by Prabhupāda’s head. When from time to time
he opened his mouth, I would give him a bit of water.
Kṛṣṇadāsa Bābājī Mahārāja came, and we sat him next to Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s bed, near his head. Pisimā was sitting on the floor next to
him. The kīrtana went on nonstop for over twelve hours; I lost track of
all time and bodily needs. I just stood by Śrīla Prabhupāda’s bed holding
the small silver loṭā, pouring water into his mouth as he opened it from
time to time.
At one point when Śrīla Prabhupāda opened his mouth and I was
about to pour a few drops of water, Bābājī Mahārāja commented, “See,
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could be put into the samādhi without the kaupīna being properly tied, but
I did not say anything.
Then Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja and I went into the pit and Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s body was lowered in. While it was being lowered, the un-
tied kaupīna got wrapped around my wrist. I quickly untangled it and
tied it around Prabhupāda’s back. I felt that he was still there, taking
care of everything.
Nārāyaṇa Mahārāja guided us through the ārati and the rest of the
ceremony. Then he told us to put salt around the body, and afterward
the devotees began to pour loose soil into the pit.
A profound feeling prevailed in my mind: I did not want to leave
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s side; I wanted to stay and continue serving him in
his samādhi.
When Nārāyaṇa Mahārāja climbed up and the devotees began pour-
ing more soil, I still did not move. But Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Mahārāja knew
what was going through my mind. He just grabbed me by my hand and
dragged me out of that holy pit.
Śrīla Prabhupāda had entered into Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa’s eternal pastimes.
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The next day I left for Māyāpur with Jayapatāka Mahārāja, carry-
ing an ornate metal container holding flowers from the samādhi. They
would be buried in a puṣpa-samādhi, above which a temple would be built
where devotees and others could worship Śrīla Prabhupāda and feel his
presence.
Māyāpur was somewhat of a relief for me. The memories were not so
fresh there, and I was surrounded by friends and godbrothers. Still, my
world felt vacant.
The first time I dreamt of Śrīla Prabhupāda, the dream was so real
that although in the back of my mind I was aware he had departed, I
perceived him so clearly that my heart danced with joy at being with him
again. I offered my obeisances and held his lotus feet, bathing them with
my tears. He lifted me up and asked whether I was chanting the Hare
Kṛṣṇa mahā-mantra on my beads. Unable to speak, I remained silent. He
asked me to show him my tongue. When I did, he took hold of it with
his thumb and forefinger, and as the thrill of his touch ran through my
entire body, he asked me, “Are you using it to chant the holy name?” I
tried to say something, but he was still holding my tongue, and then my
struggle to speak woke me up.
With the wonderful feeling of meeting Śrīla Prabhupāda still vivid
in my mind, I sat on my bed and wondered about the meaning of the
dream. What did he want to tell me? It seemed that he was reminding
me that Māyā would try to hold my tongue and prevent me from chant-
ing but that I should never stop. No matter the difficulties, I should
never stop chanting the holy name.
I felt immensely grateful and remembered Śrīla Prabhupāda’s as-
surance that although he would someday disappear from our vision, he
would always be present. For a while, in order to lead us onto the spiri
tual path, he had become visible to us, and then he had left our sight to
motivate us to move forward toward the spiritual world to find him.
When I had decided to join ISKCON in Māyāpur in July of 1976 as
a full-time devotee and shaved my head, a thought had run through my
mind—that my hair would grow back in two months and that if I did not
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A
Ācārya—a spiritual master who teaches by his own example, and who sets the
proper religious example for all human beings.
Ārati—a ceremony in which one worships the form of the Lord or His pure
devotee by offering incense, flowers, a lamp with burning ghee-soaked
wicks, and other sacred items.
Āśrama—one of the four spiritual orders of life—brahmacārī-āśrama, or
student life; gṛhastha-āśrama, or married life; vānaprastha-āśrama, or retired
life; and sannyāsa-āśrama, or the renounced order of life; a place where
devotees live and execute spiritual practices.
Aṣṭāṅga-yoga—the eightfold system of mystic yoga, propounded by Patañjali,
meant for realizing the presence of Paramātmā, the Lord in the heart.
Āyurvedic—pertaining to medical practice based on the Āyurveda, the section
of the Vedas expounding the science of medicine delivered by Lord
Dhanvantari, the incarnation of the Supreme Lord as a physician.
B
Bhagavad-gītā—a seven-hundred-verse record of a conversation between
Lord Kṛṣṇa and His friend and disciple Arjuna, in which Kṛṣṇa teaches
him the science of the Absolute Truth and the importance of devotional
service. This five-thousand-year-old Sanskrit work contains the essence
of all Vedic wisdom.
Brahmacārī—a celibate student under the care of a spiritual master.
Brahma-jyoti—the effulgence emanating from the transcendental body of
the Supreme Lord Kṛṣṇa. It constitutes the brilliant illumination of the
spiritual sky.
Brāhmaṇa—a member of the intellectual, priestly class in Vedic culture. A
brāhmaṇa is meant to be wise in Vedic knowledge, fixed in goodness, and
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C
Caitanya-caritāmṛta—the foremost biography of Lord Caitanya
Mahāprabhu.
Cakra—one of six centers of vital energy located in the body
Chapati—a flat bread made from whole-wheat flour.
D
Dāl—spicy bean soup.
Dhotī—a long cotton cloth, traditionally worn by Indian men, that covers the
lower half of the body.
Dīkṣā—spiritual initiation.
G
Gaṅgā-jala—Ganges water.
Gopīs—the cowherd girls of Vṛndāvana, who love Kṛṣṇa unconditionally.
J
Janmāṣṭamī—the appearance day of Lord Kṛṣṇa.
Japa—the soft recitation of Kṛṣṇa’s holy names as a private meditation, with
the aid of 108 prayer beads.
K
Kachorī—a deep-fried savory filled with spicy bean paste.
Karatālas—hand cymbals.
Kṣatriya—the third of the four orders of the varṇāśrama system (vide). A
warrior who is inclined to fight and lead others. The administrative or
protective occupation according to the system of four social and spiritual
orders.
Kurtā—a shirt.
L
Lakh—100,000.
M
Maṅgala-ārati—the daily predawn worship ceremony honoring the Deity of
the Supreme Lord.
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N
Naiṣṭhika-brahmacārī—a lifelong celibate monk.
P
Bhagavat-prasāda—food prepared for the pleasure of Kṛṣṇa and offered to
Him with love and devotion. Also known simply as prasāda.
S
Sabjī—a vegetable dish.
Sādhu—a saintly Kṛṣṇa conscious devotee, or Vaiṣṇava.
Samosā—a baked or deep-fried pastry with a sweet or savory filling.
Sannyāsa—the renounced order, the fourth stage of Vedic spiritual life, a
stage in which one is free from family relationships and all one’s activities
are completely dedicated to Kṛṣṇa.
Śiva—the demigod who oversees the mode of ignorance and takes charge of
destroying the universe at the time of annihilation.
Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam—the foremost of the eighteen Purāṇas, books of ancient
Vedic wisdom. It contains the complete science of God, bhakti-yoga, and
establishes the supreme position of Lord Kṛṣṇa.
Śūdra—a member of the fourth social order, the laborer class, in the
traditional Vedic social system.
T
Thālī—a low-rimmed metal plate.
U
Upmā—vegetable-and-semolina pudding.
V
Vaiśyā—a member of the mercantile or agricultural class in the Vedic social
system.
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Y
Yajña—a Vedic sacrifice.
Yoga-sūtra—Patañjali’s book on aṣṭāṅga-yoga (vide).
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20. Page 149—With Tamāl Kṛṣṇa Goswami on the bank of the Gaṅgā
in Rishikesh
21. Page 162—Śrīla Prabhupāda crossing the Gaṅgā in Rishikesh
on his way to Vṛndāvana
22. Page 173—Banamali Kavirāja showing medicinal herbs in the fields
of Vṛndāvana, to treat Śrīla Prabhupāda
23. Page 183—Meeting senior devotees in the dining hall after receiving
sannyāsa
24. Page 202—Śrīla Prabhupāda instructing Madhudviṣa Prabhu
to never leave ISKCON
25. Page 207—Bowing to Śrīla Prabhupāda in the Delhi airport
26. Page 209—Meeting with Māyāpur devotees after returning from
Vṛndāvana
27. Page 224—Śrīla Prabhupāda being treated by Damodar Prasad
Sashtri, an Āyurvedic doctor from Calcutta
28. Page 233—Giving Yamunā water to Śrīla Prabhupāda to drink
29. Page 235—Śrīla Prabhupāda’s final parikramā of Vṛndāvana
30. Page 236—Śrīla Prabhupāda’s enters into his samādhi.
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