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REFLECTION PAPER:
The reason why we choose this family is that the kid become
a respondent in an interview in our subject "Special and Inclusive
Education". The kid has a disability called "Cerebral Palsy", it is a
disability resulting from damage to the brain before, during, or
shortly after birth and outwardly manifested by muscular
incoordination and speech disturbances but despite of his disability
he is a happy kid. Their story inspires me, the family are so strong
to handle the situation because not just the oldest son has a
condition but also their younger daughter. She has a heart disease
and the family can't afford the medication for the two kids that's
why we decided that we want to give them an advance Christmas
gift to make them happy and thank God we succeeded by seeing
their smiles.
This activity
gives me more
realizations that
we have to help
each other even
though you are not
in any position,
just help someone who really needs help. Bible said that in
Deuteronomy 15:11 “There will always be poor people in the land.
Therefore, I command you to be openhanded toward your fellow
Israelites who are poor and needy in your land.” And by these I
realize that giving is a way of God’s purpose. Many people
experiencing a hard life but the only reason is God will provide for
everything. Doing things for others whether small, unplanned acts
or regular volunteering - is a powerful way to boost our own
happiness as well of those around us. The people we help may be
strangers, family, friends, colleagues or neighbours. They can be
old or young, nearby or far away. Giving isn't just about money, so
you don't need to be rich. Giving to others can be as simple as a
single kind word, smile or a thoughtful gesture. It can include giving
time, care, skills, thought or attention. Sometimes these mean as
much, if not more, than financial gifts.
This kind of gift giving was not my first time to do it, way
back when I was In High School every Christmas season we're
having our gift giving and the most memorable for me is in Macasin,
Brgy Baao. It's a long way of walking and guess what, there are big
hanging bridges it's just a little bit scared. But see people around
you that they're contented and happy it felt that a big happiness for
you and for them. Sharing is everything I just love doing that kind
of activities. I feel the genuine heart of mine, just only see them
being grateful for only what they received in that simple way.
Reflection
The holidays are good time to reflect on our gift giving traditions
and how they make us feel the spirit of love in each and every one
of us. Gift giving can be a wonderful expression of love and
appreciation, but sadly, it can also bring us a lot of anxiety and
feelings of inadequacy. Many of us give gifts out of obligation,
rather than joy and love. When our team met lola Ester Bantayan, a
75 year old lady, living with her own in a small house in
Balingbalingan, I felt sad because no one is there to take care of
her and no one is there to be with her. But even though that is her
situation, I've seen her happiness and joy in her eyes and I admired
lola Ester for that despite that she's all alone in her life she has the
gats to smile and be happy. The smile that she brings to us makes
me feel great and honor that she is the one that our team choose to
give our gifts. A simple gift that I know will remain in lola Ester's
heart. Because a gift is a thing given willingly to someone and the
true gift giving is done freely without payment. Gifts have nothing
to do with the price tag, but with the love that gift is signifying.
ROSEMARIE T. EBREO
2 Corinthians 9:6-8
PRINCESS IGNACIO
As we make this gift giving, it takes time and plan to give a gift
for Christmas and while interviewing the family I can see the
pleasure and happiness to the whole family we are so grateful for
that. Feeling that we can help our fellowmen not only in Christmas
is a spirit of generosity but it is a particular interest to every
Filipino. Through all of this, I thank the lord because for me it is
another achievement to my life and even we are poor we still
choose to help and smile to other people without expecting anything
in return.
JULIE AN E. MANAOG
"it is better to give than to receive"
It's so nice to see the smile of the child and his parent after
giving them a simple Christmas present. You can see how happy
they are. Especially, the smile of Ramses and his mother plastered
on their faces. Wherein the last time that we've interviewed them
(project in other subject) about their situation in life - Ramses had a
cerebral palsy - they need more support to the government for the
Therapy the child. And after the interview, we knew that they need
a financial support to buy food for everyday needs of her child who
have a cerebral palsy and to buy medicine for her daughter who has
a heart disease. That is why we choose to give our simple Christmas
present to them.
MIKA SARAH R.
MEDIAVILLO
December is known to be a gift giving month and by giving gift
we never know we touch someone’s heart and will never know what
God will pay back to us, because of all the good deeds we done to
others. Even in a simple thing we love to share and give help to
others it is our way to give thanks to our dear God for all blessing
that we receive in everyday life and by sharing our blessings to
others we show our care and love to them. Being generous is one
the characteristic of every individual. Giving gift is the most
rewarding feeling in the world.
Doing this activity fulfilled us, not just because of having good
grade in this course but also because we knew that we made
someone happy by doing such effort of giving gifts. Giving doesn't
only symbolizes generosity but it shows that whoever we are, and
whatever we are capable of we can show love for others through it.
Seeing them smile and uttered their thank you’s to us over and
over again, made me think that putting joy to others is not difficult.
A bunch of groceries is nothing, but because of their heartfelt thank
you it felt like we gave so much to them. Through smile they deliver
how happy they are for a simple gift that we gave.
ERLYN A. PASCUAL
I was thinking before that gift giving activity was a nice idea
because through this activity you are not only helping others but
also you could be passed the course but after we gave our
Christmas Gifts with a little amount, I’ve realized that helping or
giving something to others is not a requirement but it should be
applied in everything all the time. We gave gifts that cost a little
amount but for them it was a huge that gave me a feeling that no
one can explain. Now, this activity wasn’t only a nice idea but a
nicest.
The time that we are buying the goods in the grocery, I am very
cheerful and excited. We went in every station in the grocery and if
we have a lot of money, we take many goods as we can.
The scenario of our thanks giving was great. First, I am the one
who said “Tao po” just to let someone go outside because we are
scared if we proceed to sing a Christmas song first, they’ll say
“Tawad!” It’s funny because while we are singing the neighbors of
Mr. and Ms. Luma was watching. I think I got the loudest voice
among us. After we finished singing “Sa may bahay” Christmas
song, they let us in, in their house. We did small talk about their
life.
The Luma’s family is the family of our classmate before, she is
Zara Luma. Her mother and father don’t have any job except of
“pangangalakal”. Every day they woke up early and start pulling
their “kariton”. Our friend Zara stopped studying because of
financial problem. I know it’s hard for them to stopped Zara in
studying, every parent actually. When I heard the story about their
family a tear rolls down my cheek.