GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER

Hello
Where do i start from? Really it is disturbing to come on the dating site
to see how much people appreciate love, but yet We have to go the extra mile to get
this great status.
Forgive my manners, My name is ××××××, 45 years old. I'm a self employed civil
engineer and I deal basically with road constructions, renovations and over-water
bridges and i travel a whole lot due to my construction business. I also supply
building materials to construction companies and also to my customers overseas
overseas but really i am hanging the hat next Year. I think after getting all the
wealth in pursuit,i have come to realise that we are nothing without a
partner,someone who would stand by me no matter the situation. A woman who can hold
her own when it comes to matters of the heart,lol.
I have seen faces of women on this site, many of whom have been taken for granted,
many of whom are not being reciprocated, but i have come with a good news and a bad
news.. The good news is i came here to pick my woman to
make happy, my eight wonder, my best friend, my copilot, but the bad news is that i
have only one woman to do this for.lol.
I saw something in your face, something that made my heart pause to read you,
something that tickles in the heart, could it be love at first sight?
maybe we could find that out,lol.
I'm talking about faith here when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force
beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your
wildest dreams.
Now tell me more about you....what do you do for a living?what do you do for
fun?whats your best colour?whats your best meal?e.t.c
I will be waiting for your email.
Have a nice day

Hello
Hope you are having a wonderful day? It was so good to hear from you and i am
also honoured that you could share all you did with me,for a minute there I was
scared that i would not hear from you again.I must say that i feel i can share
anything with you already so im going to let the cat out of the bag.
I guess you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work,
but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and
when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about
half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main
goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,.
A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements,
he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to
call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they
still need to hold hands. lol. A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you
think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no
bound. To make you know more about me,.I
will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study.

MY BACKGROUND
I come from a mixed background; my Mom was Tanzanian and Dad was English. My dad
was an international business man.
My mom says there was something about my dad that no woman could ever resist.
Sometimes she says she sees same in me. Lol. During my father's Global movement,
while i was only twelve years i left to study in Lethridge Alberta in Canada where
i got the first degree in Civil Engineering and then i later moved on to join mum
back in the UK. My father passed away some years later and I also lost my mom two
years later to stroke.
I am gentle and a passionate widower with a velvet sight and tender hands, kind
hearted and purposeful with a resolute character.I can be as soft and gentle as a
cat, and I can be a passionate Lion with my unique lioness. I'm blessed with a
son,we lost his Mum 3 years Ago to breast cancer.

MY JOB
As I've said before I'm a civil engineer and I do basically road
constructions,renovations
and over-water bridges. We have worked at many countries across the globe.
The latest project is my last on the field and i shall quit field works and
continue my works from my home office while my men do the field ops. I think
i really have gotten to this height cos i embraced work for so long trying to get
over my late wife, that i worked this hard, but i think i now realize
i can move on.

MY DREAM
I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, i just want to spend
the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who
would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still
love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love
anymore and all we could do is play bingo,LOL.
I am a total package , i only need someone who understands the value of a
good smile.
I cant wait to hear back from you.
Have a nice day

LOVE LETTER 1
Hello beautiful, it is very beautiful how much I have gotten addicted to you. I get
a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you. Wonderful. How was your
night?. I knew something was missing since i havent smiled all morning till
now,lol. i think i am becoming restful again, Maybe i could sense something good
ahead of us. What wouldn't i do to make my dreams come true. It is like a rigger
waiting for a trigger. Would you be my trigger? lol. I just need a woman to hold me
before i am old.
Absolutely i have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the
secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard
and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if
you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no
best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. how much do we
need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? how much do we
need for daily fun. excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who
value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As i always say,
money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. it can buy the best
diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books , but cant buy
knowledge.. It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER
buy love. That is why , i refuse to follow the crowd, so as my own man, i would
give up all that can be bought for that which cant be bought. I want true joy and
happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods,. she can make me smile in
all weather.I am glad that i could get your attention my dear. You have a special
thing in your heart, and i intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime
to figure, but i dont mind,lol. Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear.
I will be waiting impatiently to hear from you.

LOVE LETTER TWO

Hello My Sunshine,
I have been on and off trying to write this email to you. It has been wonderful
days and nights since I met you. You must wonder why I call you sunshine, it's
because I can't get the picture of you off my mind. The thoughts of you lights up
my heart. Just as the sun lights up the earth, you light up my life. I feel like
giving you a hug. You are just a lovely woman with a heart so bright.
The only reason this was possible is because you have been the wonderful being
you're made of and this is truly the best I can ever wish for of a woman.
If I ever fall in love with you for beauty, I won't walk more miles to see more
beauty, If I love you for smiles, I would see more on TV, but the only thing I can
fall in love with is You, which can't be cloned or gotten from anyone else because
it's being You that makes me want to give up everything I'm doing just to be with
you.
Like I said earlier, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel
the way you do with some people. The answers are never there, trust me, the day
people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other is the day
relationships starts falling. Life gets boring if perfect. Life is worse when there
is nothing to change about anything.
The balance in life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals
for the police to remain employed. The medical practitioners would run out of
business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of
boredom if there are no offenders. If everyone are vegetarians, Oh my! Guess how
many people would not earn a living. Christians bring out the best in Christianity
because of the presence of Islam. Whites gain from Blacks, Blacks gain from Whites.
If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. Who would do the laundry? Who
would drive the cars? Who would guard who? Who would keep whose money?
The essence for this paragraph is that, if you can read the meaning in this, then
you are my woman for sure, for you understand what it takes to live in a better
world. We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all
be better if we accept the fact that we can't live without each other. The world
would be a better place if we can start accepting things we can’t change, because
the only constant thing in life is CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you, brings
out a part of me that loves everything.
I have a proposal for you this wonderful day, because I know you at least care
about me, after all, you wake up to check on my email and know if I'm still alive,
lol. That is something. So I want your help today. There is this woman, whom I just
met, and I sometimes wonder how she has gotten my attention in such a short period
of time, but I would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a
place that cannot be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a
woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, I am
not known for fears. I know a journey of a thousand years begins with a single
step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! Kindly tell
her if she is willing, I would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing
or everything. Once I have her hand, I can promise her forever. Tell her I know
this is not going to be a kid walk, tell her I know there are times we would argue
in future, but tell her I would teach her to know that even while we argue we would
still be holding hands, because there are two sides to a coin. Tell her life is
short, but we can make paradise out of it. Tell her, her worries have become mine,
because I do not really know how she has done it.
Also tell her that
coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then
falling for her is beyond my control.
You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would
find her staring back at you. Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for
me.
Baby give me your heart, love and trust, for mine is yours now and forever.

LETTER THREE
Thanks for the lovely and wonderful photos you shared with me. I really appreciate
this consistent communication and I will say it is a sign of will, and I tell you
where there is a will there is success ahead. Your email did include a dept of true
expression from the bottom of your heart. I really enjoyed reading your email and
I'm really looking forward to more.
I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a
journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they
aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in
life. A place meant for true people, it is a place called joy and happiness. Really
I just see in your face that I can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone,
but the depth of your soul.
As I could remember, as a kid I was a very cute one. One whom many bullies would
target, but only to realize there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober
person dance. I could affect one with my smile. I grew up having older friends.
Many would confide in me. To tell you, I am a type that doesn't judge no matter how
dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and I will give you my support.
There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how
much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and
pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall
in love, but sincerely that is the bitter truth. When my late wife died, he told me
that the fact that something good ends, doesn’t mean something better can't start.
Can you prove that wrong? I have come to realize that let a man write a better
book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain
wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my
wife, my best friend and co-pilot.
My usual saying and I am known for it, is that, Life is simple, and for those who
take it simple. I don't like to complicate things, there is joy in every situation
if you know the right angle to look it from.
at 45, I feel I'm getting old and I can’t wait to have a happy home. I want to
spend the rest of my life having fun. I have a house in Paris where I found my late
wife and got married. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me
when I look tense? I don't need a super model; I rather need a very good friend who
knows when I am tensed just by looking into my eyes as a super woman. The whole
world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, I would care less.
I say, who says we can’t design our own paradise together? It is workable, just
walk by my side.
I long to read from you again.

LETTER FOUR
Hope you are feeling as happy and great as I am feeling going through a long day
with wonderful thoughts of you. I'm glad that we have shared so much with each
other and I'm really looking forward to more. You always have me smiling which
enriches my days, my life. It is really glaring that we are heading in the right
direction. It was a great day at the site today. Things went as planned and in
order all because of the refreshing thoughts of you flowing through my mind. I hope
you did have a productive day too.
Who are you? A woman being a goddess, or a goddess pretending to be a woman?
Whichever you are, you are doing something special to me. I mean after all these
years, I used to think I might not have the possibilities again of having my dream
woman, my partner, my best friend and co-pilot. I'm not scared anyway, because love
isn't about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship, it's not
about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the
end. The inevitable truth is, If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other
when we meet, and if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls, then
every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will
be mine, and we will be ONE.

BUILD-UP TO BILLING FORMAT

My sunshine, I'm happy to inform you that I've been awarded the multimillion
contract I applied for in West Africa.
I wanna let you know that I'll be traveling to Nigeria with my workers In the next
two days and we're gonna be using up to a month there I'm taking my son along too.
I'll make $3million dollars profit from the project and I want you to be aware this
is my last field work. I quit field ops after this cause I'm ready to settle down
with you to build a blissful family. I hope to hear from you soon, my love.

Hello
My sunshine, we got to Nigeria safely and I want to let you know how much I miss
you already. I wish you were here with me to accompany me. I can't stop to dream of
that that day when we will finally be together my love.

BILLING FORMAT
Hello my sunshine,
I have a little problem right now. I just realised that I've lost my wallet which
contains my Master card and that means I won't be able to access my bank in the USA
throughout my stay here. It really sucks dear. I need a little help from you now
honey.
I ordered some supplies from Madrid (three new tractors and Gallons of diesels and
lubricants) to be imported to Nigeria. I just got a call from them few minutes ago
and they told me they didn't have the stock from one location so they brought the
stock that they had from New Zealand. The misery I'm facing right now is that the
goods are now stuck at the border and i will need $6,000 to clear them out. Honey,
I want you to borrow me $4,000 cause all I have left on me at the moment is $2,000.
I promise to pay you 5x the money when I get back to the USA. You're my last
resort. You know I have nobody else to contact other than you cause you're the only
person I have in the world. Honey, this are hard times and I believe that you will
stand by me and never leave me alone. I have to finish this project quickly. I hope
you still remember the profit involved? $4,000 aint nothing close to the $3 million
dollars profit I'm gonna make from the job. My love, all my wealth is for you and
I. Very soon, I will be there with you to live the blissful life we dream of.

BILLING FORMAT
Honey, there's a problem I'm facing right now. I have a payroll coming up for 17
people but the real misery now is the accident that claimed the life of one of my
worker.
One of the blades on a machine broke and injured one of the unskilled workers I
employed in Nigeria. He later died in the clinic. Although he's the cause of his
death due to his utmost carelessness but I feel I'm the one responsible.
I just found out that he has a wife and four children and i'm really sad and down
right now. So, I'm planning to compensate his family and i will need you to borrow
me $1,000 to give to his wife to take care of his kids. I know it's not easy for
you but I really appreciate all your efforts and I thank you for your support. You
are truly the woman I've been waiting to meet all my life. Your caring attitude is
all I've been looking for in a woman. You are the perfect woman for me and my son.

BILLING FORMAT
Good morning my sunshine,
Honey, I just found out there's an addition of 15km of road I had not budgeted for
but I'm trying to do some calculations to make everything under control. I will
text you later in the day. Take care of yourself, my love.

Hello my sunshine,
I've tried to adjust the budget but it's not going as planned cause the diesels and
lubricants are much more costly in Nigeria than what I anticipated. You know I
can't access my bank account in the USA at the moment. So, My love, please, I will
need you to borrow me $2,000 more. I promise to pay you thrice the amount of money
I owe you when I get back to the United States. I will make you proud when we're
finally together. Thank you for being there for me, honey.