NAME – AYUSHMAN ARUN

PGDM NUMBER – 21131

DATE – 6/01/2022

1) The individual dilemma :

This dilemma is little bit personal because it happened in my own life or
directly related to my own life.
The story is of 2019 when I was in my second year of graduation.
The story is of my sister marriage that how my relatives refused to help
me economically in my own sister marriage.

My sister marriage was going own and as we know for organising the
Indian wedding is really very difficult for single person to do each and
every thing physically and economically but I worked hard I organized
each and everything but just before the marriage some financial required
and I thought my own relaives like my uncles will help me out financially
and I thought they are with me but I was completely wrong completely.
Just 2 days before the marriage I asked them that I need some money and
I promised also to return the amount as soon as possible but they refused
my request and told me that they are not having a single penny to invest
in my sister marriage , I was literally shocked when I heard that time
what they are saying , I couldnot even believe it was really very difficult
for me to really accept those words but my mother told me its ok we will
organise these amount from anyother place .
Then for these I called my friend Daksha, he is childhood friend and I
asked him to help me out from this situation then he called his father and
told him about the request or the help I asked for , his father called me
and told me to give my account number . I was surprised that how is it
possible that my relatives are not ready to help but a person who don’t
even know me very well is ready to help out financially .
When my uncles refused to help me out I got hurt emotionally but
Daksha father helped me out then I found that the humanity is alive in
this world also.
 Humanity and family conflicts
What my uncles did , it was unforgettable for me then I found how much
money is important rather than the humanity.
In this world there is a empty space for the emotions and feelings . the
people in this world is becoming selfish day by day that’s why now a
days no one wants to live in joint family and no one wants to thinks for
other s wellbeing .
For some of the people money is the primary thing rather than the family
and humanity and emotions.

For the decision making I want to use framework

The consequential framework

 We concentrate on the long-term consequences of potential actions,
taking into account the people who will be affected directly or indirectly.
We assess what outcomes are desirable in a particular scenario and
ethical behaviour as whatever achieves the best results. The person who
employs the Consequences framework aspires to deliver the finest results
possible.
I took the same decision as explained in this framework by thinking
about the future of the family and I tried my best to take decision for the
prospect of family because my father told me once that family is
everything for us , so try your best to keep this family together always in
any circumstances.

2) The Professional dilemma

The Most Expensive thing in this world is trust and cheap people can not
afford it.
The story which I want to tell is about my own life incident that happened two
years before when I was working on my startup.
It was the time when I started by own started which was a house rental platform
for the convenience of the people and bachelors who work outside there home
town and they really face a lot of issues in terms of getting house or rental flats.
We started our as a team in which we had a team of 4 people or we can say that
started by me and my friends.

Ethical issues
We were doing very hard work on that startup and in 2 months we captured our
customers and we were going as per our demand and target and I was also very
happy that very soon we much reach our desired revenue or breakeven point but
one of my team or we can say one of my friend told me that he want to go his
home for some emergency purpose such that he will come in 10 days. Then we
thought its okk go and come as soon as possible because we had a lot of work to
do but when after 10 days when I called him , his call was unreachable then I
thought he is in some trouble then we went to his home which was 200 km
from our work place but there we found that he never rechead his home , then
we asked his friend that where he is then we found he was working with
someone else and he was helping someelse in my own idea and when I found
out it was difficult for me to really believe that thing that how is it possible that
he can do something like that.

Morality
He forgot the concept of morality , friendship and humanity that we human have
to be strict over our words and promises but I think he was unable to link his
desire to the morality concept because as connecting to my title of the story ,one
person said that the most expensive thing in this world is trust and cheap people
cannot afford them.

The Virtue Approach

We strive to discover the positive and bad character traits that might motivate us
in a specific situation. We're worried about what kind of person we should be
and what our behaviours reveal about our personality. We describe ethical
behaviour as what a good person would do in a given scenario, and we strive to
cultivate similar virtues.The virtue approach is the approach given by th e
Airstotle that at the time of taking decision one person has to be kind and
humble such that It tells the decision maker to work of take decision for the
wellbeing of each and every one including the culprit and I did the same thing ,
I didn’t go aggressively for punishment , I virtuallised each and everything then
I took the decision that not to harm that guy because whatever he is doing now
but it also not forgettable that once he was my good friend and such that I didn’t
harmed him and tried my best to forget the things as soon as possible such that I
can forgive him by my heart.
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