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Session 8 Siy 1 Self Forgiveness (Slides) 0730
Session 8 Siy 1 Self Forgiveness (Slides) 0730
SELF-FORGIVENESS
DSWD / Training of Service Providers of CSRPDV
July 30, 2021
Resource Person: Antonia C. Siy, PhD, RPsy
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■ Cognitive aspect – for the Reasoning Mind ■ Affective aspect – for the Emotional Mind
– Taking the context into consideration – Letting go of negative emotions of unforgiveness –
anger, resentment, bitterness, vengefulness
– Understanding reasons and factors, but not using them
as an excuse – Replacing these with empathy, compassion, mercy,
altruistic love
– Gaining a new perspective, reframing, reappraisal
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– Making new meaning to create new options and guide [See Session 8-Siy 2-Values Clarification Worksheet]
new behaviors
– Recovering a sense of purpose aligned with one’s core
values
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https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-forgive-yourself-4583819
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■ An activity to help the client identify and affirm his best ■ A storytelling tool using art to depict the positive and
qualities. negative events in the client’s life.
■ Counseling can help him think of situations in which he can ■ Counseling can help him reflect on significant past events
use his positive traits, abilities, and strengths to make and process unresolved emotions and conflicts. As a kind
better choices – e.g., emotion regulation, delay of action of “exposure intervention,” the lifeline can also helps the
urges, problem solving. client identify his maladaptive experiential avoidance
strategies and be a catalyst for learning more effective
emotion regulation skills.
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THE COUNSELOR ■ What aspects of working with this client do I or will I find
most challenging?
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