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Professional Psychology: Research and

Practice
Blessing or BS? The Therapy Experiences of Transgender
and Gender Nonconforming Clients Obtaining Referral
Letters for Gender Affirming Medical Treatment
Holly M. Brown, Sharon Scales Rostosky, Robert J. Reese, Christopher J. Gunderson, Cheryl Kwok,
and Todd Ryser-Oatman
Online First Publication, October 17, 2019. http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/pro0000274

CITATION
Brown, H. M., Rostosky, S. S., Reese, R. J., Gunderson, C. J., Kwok, C., & Ryser-Oatman, T. (2019,
October 17). Blessing or BS? The Therapy Experiences of Transgender and Gender
Nonconforming Clients Obtaining Referral Letters for Gender Affirming Medical Treatment.
Professional Psychology: Research and Practice. Advance online publication.
http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/pro0000274
Professional Psychology: Research and Practice
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Blessing or BS? The Therapy Experiences of Transgender and Gender


Nonconforming Clients Obtaining Referral Letters for Gender Affirming
Medical Treatment
Holly M. Brown, Sharon Scales Rostosky, Robert J. Reese, Christopher J. Gunderson, Cheryl Kwok,
and Todd Ryser-Oatman
University of Kentucky
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Many transgender and gender nonconforming (TGNC) clients seek to obtain referral letters for gender
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affirming medical treatment from their mental health providers, but little is known about how the process of
obtaining referral letters impacts TGNC clients’ therapy experiences. We conducted semistructured interviews
with 15 TGNC individuals who obtained a referral letter for gender affirming medical intervention from their
therapists. Thematic analysis revealed 2 core themes: (a) “bullshⴱt” (or “BS”) participants endured due to the
referral letter requirement and (b) “blessings” that TGNC individuals experienced because of this requirement.
Participants revealed that they had better therapy experiences when their therapists actively affirmed their
gender and choices related to transition, acted to facilitate transition, provided knowledge and resources to help
them navigate transition, and collaborated with them to determine the focus of therapy. Recommendations for
training, practice, and future research are provided.

Public Significance Statement


Transgender and gender nonconforming (TGNC) therapy clients identified both positive and negative
experiences related to obtaining referral letters for gender affirming medical treatment. Clients who
experienced the letter process negatively noted lost time and money, felt stigma, and sensed added strain
in their therapeutic relationships. On the other hand, clients benefited when their therapists helped them
navigate the transition process by supporting and affirming their identities and autonomy.

Keywords: TGNC, transgender, gender affirming health care, referral letter, gender affirming therapy

Supplemental materials: http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/pro0000274.supp

CHERYL KWOK completed her BA in psychology from the University of


X HOLLY M. BROWN received her PhD in counseling psychology from Delhi in 2014 and her MA in applied psychology with specialization in
the University of Kentucky. She is currently a postdoctoral fellow at counseling psychology from Tata Institute of Social Sciences, Mumbai in
Compass Counseling and Psychology Services in Louisville, Kentucky. 2016. She is currently a fourth-year doctoral candidate in counseling
Her professional interests include affirming therapy for LGBTQ clients, psychology at the University of Kentucky. Her clinical experiences include
trauma work, couples treatment, and psychotherapy process and outcomes. working with LGBTQⴱ individuals, students, couples, families, veterans,
X SHARON SCALES ROSTOSKY received her PhD in counseling psychol- older adults, and individuals with substance use disorders. Broadly, her
ogy from the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. She is professor of research interests focus on diversity and the influence of intersecting
counseling psychology at the University of Kentucky and a licensed identities on lived experiences, minority identities within the LGBTQⴱ
community, and social justice advocacy.
psychologist. Her research focuses broadly on LGBTQ health and well-
TODD RYSER-OATMAN received his MA in counseling psychology from
being with an emphasis on same-sex couples and their families.
the University of Kentucky. He is currently a counseling psychology
ROBERT J. REESE received his PhD in counseling psychology from Texas
doctoral candidate at the University of Kentucky. His areas of professional
A&M University. He is currently a professor in the Department of Edu-
interest include the well-being of sexual minority individuals, specifically
cational, School, and Counseling Psychology at the University of Ken-
focusing on sexual minority men’s help-seeking for intimate partner vio-
tucky. His areas of professional interest include psychotherapy process and lence.
outcome and telepsychology. THANK YOU TO the University of Kentucky Office of LGBTQ Resources,
X CHRISTOPHER J. GUNDERSON (Chrys) received their MS in counseling which provided $1,000 in grant funding for this study. We owe additional
psychology from the University of Kentucky. They are currently working thanks to Holly M. Brown’s dissertation committee, members of the TGNC
outside the field and figuring out future education possibilities. Their areas community who offered their time and perspectives to provide consultation
of professional interest include barriers to transition (social, legal, and for this study, and our research participants.
medical) for transgender and gender nonconforming individuals as well as CORRESPONDENCE CONCERNING THIS ARTICLE should be addressed to
psychological changes in sexual arousal of transgender and gender non- Holly M. Brown, P.O. Box 4037 Louisville, KY 40204. E-mail: holly
conforming individuals starting hormone replacement therapy. .michelle.brown@gmail.com

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Most transgender and gender nonconforming (TGNC) individ- firming treatment (Bess & Stabb, 2009). Therapists also arguably
uals have either been in therapy or plan to engage in therapy (Grant benefit, as needing a referral letter for medical interventions may
et al., 2011; James et al., 2016). However, therapists are under- motivate TGNC individuals to seek therapeutic services (Budge,
prepared to work with this population (Holt et al., 2019; O’Hara, 2015).
Dispenza, Brack, & Blood, 2013), and we know little about the Although many therapists and researchers support the current
experiences of TGNC clients in therapy or the relationships ther- referral system, others argue that it may have potential harms.
apists build with their TGNC clients (Benson, 2013; Bess & Stabb, These harms are likely to impact the most vulnerable stakeholders:
2009; Elder, 2016). Further, few guidelines exist on services TGNC individuals in need of gender affirming medical interven-
specific to TGNC clients, such as providing letters for gender tions. Adding this component to the therapist role may shift power
affirming medical treatment (Budge, 2015; Coleman et al., 2012). dynamics in therapeutic relationships between TGNC clients and
Gender affirming medical interventions are treatments or pro- their mental health providers and negatively affect the experiences
cedures that some TGNC individuals undergo to help them achieve that TGNC clients have in therapy (Budge, 2015).
a gender expression that better matches their gender identity (Cole- Requiring therapists’ approval before TGNC clients can access
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man et al., 2012). Health care providers who offer gender affirm- gender affirming medical care invalidates and pathologizes TGNC
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ing medical interventions to TGNC clients, such as hormone identities by implying that TGNC people are not capable of self-
replacement therapy (HRT) and gender affirming surgeries, often determining what gender affirming medical treatments are appro-
require their patients to supply referral letters from mental health priate for them. Several studies cast doubt on the effectiveness of
professionals before agreeing to offer services. These letters are graduate training programs for preparing therapists to competently
used to confirm that TGNC individuals seeking gender affirming work with TGNC clients, much less act as fair and unbiased
medical treatments meet criteria for gender dysphoria, are prepared gatekeepers to gender affirming health care (Austin, Craig, &
for medical aspects of their transition, are aware of the potential McInroy, 2016; Holt et al., 2019; O’Hara et al., 2013). Further, the
risks and side effects of gender affirming medical interventions subjectivity of the gatekeeping system has historically contributed
(Budge, 2015; Coleman et al., 2012), and are unlikely to regret to exploitation and mistreatment of TGNC individuals (Denny,
their decision to have surgery (Benson, 2013; Bess & Stabb, 2009). 1992; Elder, 2016). TGNC individuals perceive that some health
Some professional organizations have created guidelines that offer care professionals have based referral decisions on cisnormative
advice on what to include in referral letters, such as the World beauty standards and other discriminatory beliefs (Denny, 1992;
Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH)’s Stan- Elder, 2016). Accounts of early gender affirming medical treat-
dards of Care (SOC) version 7 (Coleman et al., 2012). The latest ment in the United States during the late 1960s and early 1970s
version of the SOC recommends TGNC individuals obtain referral even include examples of providers who used their own level of
letters before accessing gender affirming surgeries and suggests that sexual interest in potential patients to determine who was eligible
medical providers with some behavioral health training determine for services (Denny, 1992).
whether TGNC patients are appropriate for HRT. The current SOC Because of the exploitation that can and has occurred in the
avoids mandating psychotherapy for TGNC individuals seeking gen- referral process, and the unpreparedness of many therapists to
der affirming medical treatment, instead recommending mental health work with TGNC clients, many TGNC individuals report distrust
professionals assess TGNC individuals’ gender identity and dyspho- toward the field of psychology and skepticism about therapy’s
ria, history of gender dysphoria, how stigma of gender nonconformity usefulness for them (Bess & Stabb, 2009; Cavanaugh et al., 2016;
impacts their mental health, and their available social support. How- Denny, 1992). Conversely, some scholars suspect that TGNC
ever, medical providers and insurance companies ultimately set re- individuals shift narratives about their experiences to present
quirements for what letters their TGNC patients must provide to themselves as good candidates for gender affirming treatment
access gender affirming treatment. Additionally, therapists who pro- (Bess & Stabb, 2009; Cavanaugh et al., 2016; Denny, 1992).
vide referral letters to TGNC clients are left to their own discretion on Consequently, the gatekeeping function of therapy with TGNC
whether and when they will provide clients with referral letters clients seeking referral letters for gender affirming medical treat-
(Budge, 2015; Coleman et al., 2012). ment may undermine the therapeutic alliance, a significant predic-
Many TGNC individuals have called for a transgender health tor of client outcomes in psychotherapy (Horvath, 2001).
care system in which TGNC individuals are allowed to self-refer Only a small number of studies have gathered information about
for gender affirming treatment (Bess & Stabb, 2009; Denny, how TGNC clients perceive their experiences of obtaining referral
1992). This informed consent model of treatment (Cavanaugh, letters, but this information has all been in the broader context of
Hopwood, & Lambert, 2016) contrasts with the gatekeeping model their general therapy experiences. All of these studies have been
of treatment in which TGNC people must obtain referral letters based on qualitative interviews, with the exception of Austin and
from mental health professionals before accessing certain treat- Goodman’s (2018) survey on transgender individuals’ perceptions
ments (Budge, 2015; Cavanaugh et al., 2016). Some scholars have of gender affirming health care finding that 25% of participants
argued that TGNC individuals benefit from the current gatekeep- accessed therapy to obtain referral letters, 26% of participants had
ing system because it encourages them to process their transition difficulty finding a therapist knowledgeable on transgender issues,
experiences with a mental health professional and ensures that they and 19% of participants reported difficulty accessing a trans-
receive information about the risks associated with their transition affirming therapist (Austin & Goodman, 2018). Some participants
(Bess & Stabb, 2009; Coleman et al., 2012). Proponents of the in Elder’s (2016) study of older transgender individuals’ therapy
current gatekeeping system also argue that it protects physicians experiences perceived that therapy was helpful partially because
and mental health professionals from lawsuits from inadequately their providers wrote referral letters giving them access to HRT,
informed or prepared patients who might regret their gender af- while some participants expressed frustration about working with
TGNC LETTER EXPERIENCES 3

therapists who were hesitant or declined to provide referral letters. because they hoped to obtain a referral letter (n ⫽ 13), while two
Although many of Bess and Stabb’s (2009) participants in a study participants reported seeking therapy to address transition-related
on therapeutic alliance and client satisfaction felt supported by concerns but not specifically to pursue referral letters. Eight par-
their therapist in their choices to medically transition, some par- ticipants identified as White, three participants identified as Black
ticipants believed their therapists were biased in their decisions or African American, and three participants identified as multira-
about which clients they recommended for gender affirming med- cial. Participant ages ranged from 19 –53. Two participants were
ical treatment. In a study on positive experiences among Canadian currently in graduate programs, two had associate degrees, nine
transgender individuals accessing health care, transgender peo- had completed some college, and two had GEDs. Twelve partic-
ple, their friends/family, and mental health providers noted the ipants lived in urban areas and three lived in rural areas. Additional
importance of allowing transgender individuals to take charge demographics are provided in Table 1.
of their transition and offering support, including referral letters,
along the way (Ross, Law, & Bell, 2016). In a study on barriers to
Procedures
health care for transgender individuals, some participants consid-
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ered obtaining referral letters to be a barrier to gender affirming Interview protocol development. The interview protocol
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medical treatment (Puckett, Cleary, Rossman, Mustanski, & New- was initially drafted based on a literature review of TGNC therapy
comb, 2018). Another study on TGNC therapy clients’ experiences experiences and input from members of the TGNC community.
with therapist missteps identified therapists’ excessive focus on Members of the TGNC community provided invaluable informa-
their gatekeeping role as a barrier to trans-affirming therapy (Miz- tion and feedback on the content of the protocol drawing on their
ock & Lundquist, 2016). As these studies demonstrate, existing own therapy experiences and other lived experiences (Vincent,
data on TGNC therapy clients’ experiences of gatekeeping are 2018). Feedback on the interview protocol’s content, phrasing, and
only briefly mentioned in the broader context of TGNC individu- length led to multiple revisions. The protocol was also refined
als’ overall experiences in therapy. The existing empirical litera- based on feedback from the first author’s dissertation committee,
ture does not specifically address how the referral letter process which included the second and third authors. The protocol was
affects the therapeutic relationship and impacts TGNC individuals’ pilot tested with two volunteers from the TGNC community who
experiences of therapy. met most of the study criteria. Pilot interviews were recorded, and
Currently, there is little empirical justification for recommenda- afterward volunteers offered feedback related to the wording of
tions in the SOC that create the current gatekeeping system for questions, length of the interview, and the interview process.
gender affirming medical care (Coleman et al., 2012). Existing Following pilot interviews, we rephrased questions to improve
guidelines on when and how TGNC people can access gender protocol clarity about what transition steps participants had taken
affirming care seem to be based more on tradition and stereotypes and why participants considered transition important. Pilot inter-
held by health care professionals, rather than on the expressed viewees also provided feedback about interview pacing and effec-
perspectives and needs of the population these guidelines are tiveness of follow-up questions that was incorporated into the
intended to protect. Little systematic research effort has been interview process. The final interview protocol is available online
directed to considering whether gatekeeping is a useful safeguard as online supplementary material.
or simply a barrier to treatment. We could locate no published Recruitment and data collection. Prospective participants
studies of the lived experiences of TGNC clients who have sought were recruited from regional and national LGBTQ⫹ (lesbian, gay,
letters from their therapists for gender affirming medical interven- bisexual, transgender, queer) and TGNC-specific listservs and
tions. Therefore, the purpose of this study was to address this social media outlets. Participants were also asked to refer other
research question: How does the referral letter requirement impact individuals who might be eligible for the study. Eligible partici-
TGNC individuals’ therapy experiences and overall transition pro- pants were 18 or older, identified as TGNC individuals, had prior
cesses? We used qualitative methodology based on a grounded therapy experience, had obtained a referral letter for transition-
theory approach (Charmaz, 2006, 2014) to address this research related medical services from a mental health professional, and had
question. Grounded theory allows for exploration of an area with seen the mental health professional who wrote their letter for therapy
little existing research, can be used to inductively generate theory within the past year. Approximately 80 individuals emailed to ex-
based on participant perspectives and experiences, and facilitates a press interest in participating in the study. The first wave of
collaborative research approach consistent with ethical guidelines participants were the first eligible individuals to express interest in
for conducting research with TGNC people (American Psycholog- the study, and the second wave of participants were selected to add
ical Association, 2015). additional perspectives to the sample, with a focus on nonbinary
individuals and people of color. All interviews were conducted by
Method the first author, a cisgender, bisexual woman. Before the interview,
participants were given information about the study and had an
Participants opportunity to ask questions. Verbal informed consent was ob-
tained by the interviewer before participants began the formal
Fifteen self-identified transgender and gender nonconforming interview. All interviews were conducted over telephone, audio
individuals participated in this study. Female-affirmed individuals recorded, and later transcribed by the first author. Interviews were
accounted for 46.67% of the sample (n ⫽ 7), male-affirmed conducted between July 2017 and November 2017, and each
individuals accounted for 40% (n ⫽ 6), and nonbinary individuals interview lasted between one and two hours depending on the level
accounted for 13.33% (n ⫽ 2). Most participants reported begin- of detail participants shared. To protect their privacy, participants’
ning therapy with their letter-writing therapist at least in part names were changed in their transcripts and all subsequent writ-
4 BROWN ET AL.

ings about them. Participants had the option of choosing their own

Both cisgender women


Transgender woman
Therapist gender pseudonym. After the interview, participants received $50 to com-
Cisgender woman

Cisgender woman
Cisgender woman

woman
woman
woman
woman

woman
woman

Cisgender woman
Cisgender woman
pensate for their time. Participants had an opportunity to review

man
man
their transcript for accuracy. Two participants responded after

Cisgender
Cisgender
Cisgender
Cisgender
Cisgender
Cisgender
Cisgender
Cisgender
receiving their transcript, and neither of them reported any inac-
curacies or requested changes.
Data analysis. Our data analysis team included a cisgender,
bisexual woman (first author); an agender transfeminine pansexual
person (fourth author); a cisgender heterosexual woman (fifth

therapist 2: late 50s


Therapist 1: 30s–40s;
author); and a cisgender gay man (sixth author). These team

Late 40s to mid 50s


Therapist age

members used a grounded theory approach, an inductive qualita-


45–55

32–33
28–30
Early–mid 50s

Early–mid 60s
tive approach that privileges the lived experience of key infor-
40s
33

40
40

60
33

mants (Charmaz, 2006; Glaser & Strauss, 1967). Initial line-by-


Mid 40s

Mid 40s
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line coding of the first 12 interviews began while data collection


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was ongoing. Initial coding was followed by focused coding of all


15 interviews. The team met multiple times to review coding
procedures and discuss emerging themes during the data analysis
State

WA
MN

MA
NY

KY

NY
KY

KY
CO

CA

NC
NC

process. Throughout the analysis process, the coding team revised


TX

MI

MI
the generated categories list and its organization using the constant
comparative method. This involved comparing data to data, data to
Lesbian (attracted to women

codes, codes to categories, and back again (Charmaz, 2014).


and nonbinary people)
Sexual orientation

During the first focused coding meeting, the coding team deter-
mined that no new codes were emerging from the final set of
interviews and that saturation had been achieved. Two faculty
advisors, a cisgender bisexual woman (second author) and cisgen-
Heterosexual

Heterosexual
Pansexual

der heterosexual man (third author), provided feedback on each


Bisexual

Bisexual
Lesbian

Lesbian

Straight

Lesbian

stage of the coding process and collaborated on theoretical sorting,


Queer

Queer

Queer

Queer
None

involving further examining the links between categories and


reorganizing categories to create a clearer and more parsimonious
representation of the data (Charmaz, 2014). Member checking
Age

33

23
19
49

22
55
49
53
34
20
19
25

41
26

27

helped verify the trustworthiness of the findings that were emerg-


ing. Research participants were invited to review initial categories
Multiracial (self-identified

and provide feedback. Two participants responded, affirming that


Multiracial (South Asian
as Black in interview)
Multiracial (Polynesian

the categories were consistent with their own experiences.


Race/Ethnicity

African American
African American

Results
and White)

and White)

Two broad themes emerged from participants’ lived experiences


White

White
White

White
White
White
White

White

White

with the referral letter process. Some participants described the


Black

requirement of obtaining a referral letter as “BS,” or an infringe-


ment on their autonomy that reduced the benefit they received
from therapy that ultimately made transition more challenging to
They/them
They/them
Pronouns

access. Other participants described the letter as a “blessing” in


She/her

She/her
She/her
She/her

She/her

She/her
She/her
He/him

He/him
He/him
He/him

He/him
Ze/hir

disguise that ultimately resulted in a beneficial therapeutic expe-


rience and access to support during their transition process. These
themes and subcategories are described below. Participants’ expe-
Trans-masculine nonbinary

riences and perspectives are illustrated with quotes transcribed


Gender nonconforming,

directly from their interviews. Quotes are presented verbatim ex-


Demigirl/trans woman
Transgender female

Transgender female

cept for minor changes to promote flow or to protect confidenti-


Transgender MTF
trans-masculine
Gender

Transgender man

ality. Additions are represented by brackets ([]) and signal any


Participant Demographics

modification to participants’ transcripts, while ellipses (. . .) note


Trans male

Trans man

Trans man

any omission of words or phrases to improve the flow and brevity


Female

Female
Female

of quotes. Following quotes, participants’ pseudonyms and pro-


Male
FTM

nouns are provided.


Pseudonym

BS
Sebastian
Cameron

Victoria

Vincent
Table 1

Moore
Karen
Bryce

Space
Stella
Mary

Trish
Alex

Gina

“For someone such as myself, who is an adult, who knows the


Jim

Liz

consequences, and doesn’t have any other issues, I think it’s


TGNC LETTER EXPERIENCES 5

absolutely asinine . . . Asinine, ridiculous, bullshit. I’ll let you fill open and honest might cause their therapist to decide they were not
in the blanks there” (Mary, she/her). Most participants (n ⫽ 13) mentally stable enough for gender affirming medical treatment.
described ways in which they were negatively impacted by the
In some ways [needing the letter] made me a little bit reluctant to talk
referral letter requirement. Three participants (20%) specifically
about some things because I thought it might affect not getting it. . .
described the referral letter requirement as BS. Participants per- . If they ask how does this make you feel, how does that make you
ceived that they were subjected to negative interactions in the feel, you wanna make it sound like you were less affected than you
process of seeking a letter that undermined their trust in the were about various things. Because you’re like wait a minute, that put
therapeutic relationship, reduced the benefits they experienced them over here, going away from the letter instead of going toward it.
from therapy, added to their oppressive experiences, and interfered (Liz, she/her)
with their transition process.
Two participants thought that the referral letter requirement en-
Negatively impacted therapeutic alliance. Forty percent of
couraged TGNC people, and perhaps their therapists, to focus on
participants (n ⫽ 6) shared ways in which the letter requirement
the letter rather than other important therapy goals.
negatively impacted their relationship with their therapist. One
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Added to oppressive experiences. Two thirds of participants


third of the participants (n ⫽ 5) in this sample worried that their
(n ⫽ 10) shared ways in which the letter requirement added to the
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therapist might reject their request for a referral letter. This fear oppression they experience in society as TGNC individuals. Four
caused participants distress and created challenges as participants participants experienced the letter requirement as stigmatizing,
worked to build trusting, open relationships with their therapists. patronizing, and alienating.
It scared me to ask her for something, in that she could say no. And I think the main thing is it medicalizes trans identity. And makes . . .
I built my trust with this person. This person knows all about my people see being trans as more of a mental illness, because trans
deepest darkest secrets. And to possibly face rejection from her made people are required to go to a therapist. And I think a lot of people
me afraid to ever see her again. Because how can I go back to this already think that being trans is a mental illness, which is just
therapist who would deny me something that’s life saving? I prepared upsetting on so many different levels. . . . So I think it kind of
myself for the worst. I’ve read all the stories, I’ve talked to people reinforces that in a lot of different people’s minds. (Cameron,
whose therapist had said no, you’re too unstable. How can I continue they/them)
that relationship? It’s such a strange power dynamic that, frankly, is
unethical. (Vincent, he/him) Eight participants shared frustrations related to the referral letter
and how this requirement limits their personal autonomy. Partic-
Similarly, 20% of participants (n ⫽ 3) felt that their need for a ipants perceived that the referral letter process disregarded their
referral letter increased the amount of power their therapist had in capacity for making decisions about their health care. Two partic-
the therapeutic relationship. This increased power differential cre- ipants perceived that they needed to prove their gender identity to
ated a barrier to establishing a strong and collaborative therapeutic their therapist in order to get their referral letter, which was
alliance, regardless of whether the therapist assumed a gatekeeping frustrating and demeaning. As a result of this belief, some partic-
role or not. One participant perceived that her therapist required a ipants (n ⫽ 3) felt pressure to conform to stereotypes related to
lengthy letter writing process to avoid legal liability in case she their gender and worried that if they did not conform to gender
later regretted her decision to transition. This participant expressed roles in expected ways it would negatively affect their ability to
frustration, perceiving her therapist’s decision to delay writing her obtain referral letters.
letter as self-serving rather than client-serving.
I’m pretty sure I was just like, yeah I’m a trans man, I hate everything
If she had given me the letter in the first session and something went girly. You know what I mean. I think I probably overgeneralized
wrong, for lack of a better expression, then she’d be opening up masculine stereotypes at first, and even now I feel, I feel like generally
herself to liability, versus waiting three to six months, giving the masculine. But like a lot of people I go to the goth club with my
letter, saying well I know I can document I did this, I did this, I did friends sometimes, and we’ll paint our nails and do our eyeliner
this, I did this. And that’s why. So it gives them more time to because it’s the goth club. And like, I do collect dolls. . . . I’m afraid
to share hobbies that are gender nonconforming even still, I think a
document and to protect themselves in the event that treatment hits the
little bit. Just because I do not want it to be misread as like, oh no we
air conditioner. Because, yes, they’ve got to protect their own liveli-
let you be a man but you’re actually not good enough at being a man
hood just like we want to protect our own. . . . That leaves all the
to be a man. Which I think is a little bit how it seems sometimes. Not
clients on the short end of the stick. But that’s a legal thing versus an
necessarily particularly like [my therapist] but just in general. There’s
actual treatment thing. And it’s sad when legal matters interfere with
this sense that we can only let you be a valid masculine person if you
real treatment matters. (Liz, she/her)
promise not to be like, you know, not a good enough one. (Jim,
he/him)
Reduced benefits of therapy. One third of participants (n ⫽
5) thought the referral letter requirement reduced the benefits they Created barriers to transition. Two thirds of participants
received from therapy and forced them to see their therapists as (n ⫽ 10) felt that their transition process was slowed down or
possible obstacles to their goals rather than supportive facilitators. made more difficult due to the referral letter requirement. Three
Two participants shared that therapy was not a beneficial experi- participants (n ⫽ 3) expressed frustration that the letter was yet
ence for them and expressed frustration about having to attend another requirement they had to fulfill to access transition. As
therapy due to the letter requirement. Some participants (n ⫽ 3) Mary (she/her) stated, “It really irks the hell out of me that we have
felt pressure to minimize their stress and struggles when working to jump through hoops to get surgery when we’re adults.” Five
with their letter-writing therapist because they feared that being participants had to wait to obtain a referral letter. In some cases,
6 BROWN ET AL.

these participants’ therapists were willing to write a letter but steps participants needed to take, and someone who could provide
invoked a gatekeeper role, requiring participants to attend more advocacy and emotional support during transition.
therapy sessions first. In other cases, participants waited to ask Six participants (40%) noted that seeking a referral letter gave
their therapists for a letter because they expected their therapist them the opportunity to explore their gender and transition in
would want to see them for several sessions first or because they therapy. The process of obtaining referral letters helped these
worried their therapist would refuse to provide a letter if they participants to feel certain about their decision to move forward in
asked about it too soon or too often. Four participants had to wait pursing gender affirming medical treatment. Four participants said
weeks for their letter even after their therapist agreed to write one. they felt affirmed by their therapist as a result of receiving their
Two participants shared that they were denied letters by past referral letter. Providing the letter was one way their therapist
therapists, which required them to find new therapists and start the communicated acceptance of their gender and support for their
process over. Participants whose therapists denied or delayed their decision to move forward with gender affirming medical treat-
letter noted that these experiences added unnecessary barriers to ment. These participants felt they could present themselves au-
their transition processes. Eight participants discussed ways in thentically in therapy without worrying about how it would affect
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which the referral letter requirement made transition more difficult obtaining their referral letter. They also perceived that their ther-
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because of the challenges of finding and accessing affirming apists were willing to provide referral letters when participants
therapists and the burden on financial resources, time, and energy decided it was the right time to pursue gender affirming medical
to attend therapy.
treatment. Sixty percent of participants (n ⫽ 9) reported that
Like a consultation to talk and be like, hey, I’m [Sebastian], I’m trans, receiving their letter felt like a natural step in their therapy process.
it’s like a hundred bucks anywhere you go. . . . Most places you have They perceived that obtaining a referral letter was smoothly inte-
to have a therapy letter, proof that you’re seeing a therapist for a grated into their larger therapy process rather than tacked on in a
driver’s license or a passport or even a surgery in some states, you distracting or disruptive way.
have to have proof from a therapist . . . I just wish it was not, trans Affirming gender identity. Eight participants shared ways in
people have to pay for so much as it is. To change in surgery and ID,
which completing the referral letter process and receiving their
paperwork, documents, lawyers, court—it’s just so much money as it
referral letter benefitted them. Participants shared how giving their
is. . . [Therapy] costs money and then you kind of lose money cause
it’s taking time out of your day and your week that you could be therapist information about their gender history to include in the
working to get money to pay for those surgeries. (Sebastian, he/him) letter helped them feel more confident in their gender identity.
They also experienced a sense of accomplishment once they had
obtained their letter. The letter represented an exciting, welcome,
Blessings validating, and tangible affirmation.
“It was really a blessing in disguise. . . . I don’t think I would At the end of that process, you’re gonna feel so good about having
be the quality of person that I am today if I hadn’t been required somebody else stamp their name on how you feel. It’s not inside you
to get my letters” (Karen, she/her). Fourteen participants identified anymore, not getting out. It’s out there in the world. Somebody
ways they benefitted from the process of obtaining referral letters. supports you. Somebody backs you up. Somebody’s got your back.
Blessings included connecting with a supportive therapist, affirm- With those letters, that’s how it felt for me. The positive aspect of that
ing their gender identity, and propelling their transition forward. is that. . . . I can prove who I am. And that was impossible to do
Connecting with a supportive therapist. Thirteen partici- otherwise. If there was a positive thing to come out of that, it’s that I
pants felt that the letter requirement motivated them to connect can parade that around forever and show it to the judge, show it to
with a therapist and ultimately to receive the benefits of engaging anybody. It’s admissible in court. (Trish, she/her)
in therapy. Two participants shared experiences of working with
In sum, obtaining the letter validated participants’ choices to
therapists who valued their autonomy and explicitly supported
participants’ pursuit of gender affirming medical treatment. These pursue affirming professional service in psychosocial, medical,
participants reported this support positively impacted their rela- and legal arenas.
tionship with their therapist. Propelling transition forward. One third of participants (n ⫽
5) perceived that their referral letter process and work with their
[The letter] was something that was always on the table. I think she letter-writing therapist sped up their transition. Some reported that
just wanted to know that I was mentally ready and less like convince their therapists challenged them to take their next transition steps
her that I’m so trans. She didn’t need anything like that, she was just, and, in some cases, offered to write a referral letter before partic-
are you here for this? Are you ready for this? And I think that was
ipants felt they were ready for it.
really helpful because it was respectful to me and my gender to not be
like gatekeepy or anything like that. She was very much like, “I want I knew that I had no reason to say no anymore. Like I had no reason
to make sure that you’re ok. And that you’re ready for this.” (Stella, to say this is too hard. And [my therapist] was definitely kind of the
she/her) slap in the face, quit dragging your feet, you want this, just do the
thing. And that’s when we came to the realization that I was dragging
Seven participants said the letter requirement led them to con-
my feet because I didn’t want to be told I couldn’t have it. Because
nect with a therapist who served as a resource and advocate during [my therapist] is also a fucking wizard. And once we realized that,
their transition process. These participants noted that their therapist that’s when I was like yeah, you’ll give me that letter. She was like,
was a person they could come to when they wanted to discuss the sweet. (Vincent, he/him)
details of their transition. They perceived their therapist as some-
one who was knowledgeable about the transition process and the This challenge and support felt affirming to these participants.
TGNC LETTER EXPERIENCES 7

Discussion disagreed with the referral letter requirement often reported posi-
tive therapy experiences when their therapist acted as a gateway to
Participants’ lived experiences of obtaining referral letters shed gender affirming medical treatment. These participants appreciated
light on how the referral letter requirement affects TGNC people’s the support and affirmation their therapists provided as they nav-
therapy experiences and transition processes. We interviewed 15 igated what participants considered a flawed system. This finding
transgender and gender nonconforming adults and analyzed their supports previous recommendations that therapists shift from roles
experiences using an approach based on grounded theory. Almost as gatekeepers to advocates for their TGNC clients (Singh &
all participants shared both ways they benefitted from the letter Burnes, 2010).
requirement (n ⫽ 14), and ways the requirement negatively af-
fected them (n ⫽ 13).
Although we interviewed a diverse sample of TGNC individu- Therapy Implications
als, this study does not represent the lived experience of all TGNC Therapists’ efforts to act as a gateway for TGNC clients seeking
people. Rather, the strength of qualitative interview studies such as gender affirming health care may mitigate the oppressive experi-
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this one is the ability to understand a phenomenon and the mean- ences TGNC clients associate with the referral letter requirement
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ings that it holds for key informants. Likewise, while we worked and help TGNC clients benefit from their therapy experiences.
to include perspectives of TGNC individuals through peer consul- Gateway behaviors that emerged from this study align with and
tation when planning the study and through member checks on the lend some initial empirical support to recent guidelines and rec-
emergent findings, a research team of different backgrounds and ommendations in the TGNC psychology literature (American Psy-
experiences may have generated other insights. chological Association, 2015; Cavanaugh et al., 2016). Therapists
The focus of this study was the therapy experiences of TGNC should work to create an affirming environment for clients who are
adults obtaining referral letters for gender affirming medical treat- pursuing gender affirming medical treatment by trusting clients’
ment. We did not gather information on experiences of TGNC experiences of their genders rather than asking clients to provide
youth obtaining referral letters. Neither did we gather information evidence for their gender identity or otherwise evaluating clients’
on TGNC individuals’ experiences obtaining letters related to appropriateness for gender affirming medical treatment. Some
social and legal aspects of transition. Finally, we did not inquire participants expressed appreciation for therapists who allowed
about the larger treatment setting in which participants sought them to take the lead in their own transition, and some participants
letters, including whether participants’ therapists worked indepen- expressed appreciation for therapists who more actively encour-
dently or as part of larger gender affirming treatment teams. aged them to take their next transition step. Therapists working
A central finding from this study is that therapists’ behaviors with TGNC clients should be prepared to discuss clients’ transition
play a key role in determining how participants experience obtain- processes, supporting clients who are ready to take their next step,
ing referral letters for gender affirming medical treatment. Con- and exploring available options with clients who are unsure about
sidering how therapists can serve as “gateways” or “gatekeepers” moving forward. Although clients’ autonomy should always be
to clients’ transitions provides a useful metaphor for conceptual- prioritized, TGNC clients may appreciate discussions related to
izing affirmative work with TGNC clients who are in the process factors that hold them back from moving forward in transition.
of transition. Participants tended to describe the letter requirement Therapists should directly state their willingness to provide letters
as a blessing when their therapist acted as a gateway to transition early in treatment so TGNC clients’ fears about potential rejection
rather than a gatekeeper. Gatekeeper behaviors that participants do not serve as a barrier to pursuing gender affirming medical
experienced as oppressive barriers to their transition process in- treatment. Participants in this study also noted the benefits of
cluded failing to address power issues and differentials, creating an working with a therapist who could provide information and
environment where clients felt they needed to present their expe- resources related to the transition process. Therapists should have
riences a certain way to obtain letters, and taking longer than a working knowledge of how to access medical and legal aspects
necessary to provide letters. Overall, participants felt that their of transition, as well as resources and supports for TGNC people
autonomy and competency to make their own decisions were that are available in their local communities. Therapists are also
invalidated and disrespected. These results echo previous research encouraged to take opportunities to make therapy accessible to
findings that therapists who emphasize their gatekeeping role may TGNC clients, which may include providing sliding scale services
create negative therapy experiences for their TGNC clients (Miz- to reduce the financial burden TGNC therapy clients face (Elder,
ock & Lundquist, 2016). Many participants expressed frustration 2016).
with how the referral letter requirement contributed to systemic Therapists are encouraged to use informed consent approaches
barriers to transition, including difficulty accessing affirming ther- when working with clients who are interested in pursuing gender
apists, a finding consistent with past research (Austin & Goodman, affirming medical treatment and to advocate that other health care
2018). The letter requirement also demanded time, energy, and professionals and organizations transition to using informed con-
financial resources and limited client autonomy. sent models rather than gatekeeping approaches to gender affirm-
Gateway therapist behaviors that participants felt facilitated ing medical care. Informed consent models of treatment allow
their transitions included affirming the client’s gender, clearly therapists and other health care professionals to provide the edu-
expressing a willingness to provide letters, and supporting the cation necessary to help clients make informed decisions about
client in moving forward with transition. This finding is consistent their gender affirming health care while respecting clients’ auton-
with previous research findings that supportive mental health omy and competency to make their own decisions (Cavanaugh et
professionals can help their transgender clients access positive al., 2016). One potential area of advocacy is encouraging WPATH
health care experiences (Ross et al., 2016). Even participants who to reduce or remove letter recommendations from the next version
8 BROWN ET AL.

of the SOC and instead to encourage providers of gender affirming this study perceived the letter requirement to both negatively and
medical treatment to use informed consent models of care. These positively impact their psychotherapy and transition experiences.
models might require physicians to ensure their TGNC patients are Multiple participants firmly stated that the letter requirement cre-
aware of risks to gender affirming medical treatment without ated an unnecessary barrier to their transition, but some partici-
requiring additional assessment and referral by psychotherapists. pants indicated that the letter requirement was helpful either be-
Although most participants in this study reported negative expe- cause they benefitted from meeting with a mental health
riences related to letters, it is important to note that not all partic- professional or because they believed the gatekeeping system
ipants recommended that the letter requirement be removed. Any prevented inappropriate use of gender affirming health care. Be-
advocacy work by therapists, particularly therapists who identify cause the TGNC community is not monolithic, professional orga-
as cisgender, should rely on clinical experience and research but nizations such as WPATH should consult multiple TGNC focused
avoid presuming to speak on behalf of the TGNC community or organizations and solicit input from members of the TGNC com-
treating the TGNC community as a monolith. munity at large when developing future iterations of the SOC or
other guidelines related to TGNC health care. Physicians and
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insurance companies should also consider these factors when


Training Implications
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establishing letter requirements for the TGNC patients they serve.


These findings suggest the need to train therapists specifically in
affirmative behaviors toward TGNC clients seeking referral letters Future Research
for gender affirming medical treatment. This is especially critical
given existing research indicating that graduate programs are not Future research can build upon these findings. Qualitative in-
effectively training therapists to provide knowledgeable service vestigations might include client and therapist dyads who have
and support to TGNC therapy clients (Austin et al., 2016; O’Hara been through the letter writing process to obtain multiple perspec-
et al., 2013). Graduate programs seeking to adequately train ther- tives on how the referral letter process affects the therapeutic
apists to provide competent services to TGNC clients should relationship and psychotherapy experience. Inquiring into the ex-
educate trainees about gender identity, gender affirming health periences of TGNC individuals who have received gender affirm-
care, social and legal transition steps, discriminatory experiences ing care through informed consent methods of treatment would
faced by TGNC individuals, and factors that contribute to the also help extend the findings of the current study to better under-
well-being of TGNC people. Training should include instruction stand how this emerging approach to TGNC health care impacts
about existing recommendations for what to include in referral the transition processes and well-being of TGNC people. Exam-
letters for gender affirming medical treatment (Budge, 2015; Cole- ining relationships between gender affirming therapist behaviors
man et al., 2012), as well as information about the referral letter and client ratings of therapeutic outcome and alliance would
requirement’s potential risks to TGNC clients and the importance further contribute to the literature. Future studies might consider
of recognizing client autonomy (Cavanaugh et al., 2016). Training whether TGNC individuals’ experiences obtaining referral letters
programs are encouraged to provide opportunities for therapists- vary when their therapists practice independently or as part of an
in-training to work with TGNC clients in practicum settings and to interdisciplinary, affirming treatment team. Further research might
ensure that students working with TGNC clients are receiving also consider the experiences of TGNC youth seeking letters or the
adequate, trans-affirming supervision. Training programs are es- experiences of TGNC individuals seeking letters that address other
pecially encouraged to address the history of overpathologization aspects of transition, such as legal name and gender marker
of TGNC identities in health care and psychology professional changes.
communities (Denny, 1992) and to direct trainees to attend to the TGNC individuals who seek gender affirming health care de-
strength, resilience, and capacity for self-determination of their serve respectful and competent providers. Findings from this study
TGNC clients. indicate that therapists who affirm their TGNC clients and support
their autonomous decisions related to transition may be able to
mitigate some of the negative effects the letter requirement has on
Policy Implications their clients’ therapy experiences. Based on these findings, thera-
Existing guidelines for TGNC health care recommend that doc- pists who work with TGNC clients are encouraged to act as
tors working with TGNC patient populations require referral let- gateways for their clients rather than gatekeepers. As gateways to
ters from patients seeking to access gender affirming medical transition, therapists respect their clients’ autonomy over medical
treatment (Coleman et al., 2012). Future iterations of guidelines for decisions, gather and provide knowledge, and act as guides as their
providing health services to TGNC populations, such as the next clients navigate the transition process.
iteration of the SOC, should take into consideration the negative
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