3 TIPS

3 SELFISH WAYS
TO LIVE
1. Say no to people - the more you
say no to people, the more you will
say yes to things that are important
for you.

2. Remove those who suck energy

from you.
3. Make your happiness your no. 1
priority - until you are not happy,
people around you will never be
happy around you.
3 COOL RULES
FOR LIFE
1. The 30-day rule: If you really want
to buy something, wait for 30 days
and ask yourself if you still need it.
Chances are you won't need them
anymore.

2. The 2-minutes rule: If something

can be done in less than 2 minutes,
get it done. Don't add it to your to-
do list and pile up on that list.
3. Fundamental relationship rule:
If you have to become someone
that you do not like, in a relationship,
then change the relationship, not
yourself.
3 MISTAKES
PARENTS MAKE

1. Hit the floor when the kid falls -

essentially teaching kids that it is
not their fault. They can always
blame someone else.

2. Tell them something that you do

not personally follow - essentially
teaching kids that lying is a natural
way of living.
3. Love the other child if the first
one is angry - essentially teaching
kids that if you do not listen to me, I
will not love you. Thus spoiling their
definition of love.
3 THINGS BEST
FRIENDS DO

1. They are genuinely happy for your

success. It is easy to be there when
someone is sad, but it is intensely
hard to be truly happy when someone
else wins.
2. They always tell you the truth.
Knowing that the truth will be hard,
and you might not talk to them after
that. Yet they state it, because it is
the right thing to do.

3. They do not hold you responsible

for their happiness. They do not
say "why aren't you there for me,
why do you not make me happy?"
Instead, they ask "How can I make
you happy?"
3 RELATIONSHIPS
MISTAKES TO
AVOID
1. Don't be a people pleaser. The more
your identity depends on what others
think of you, the lesser you will be
happy in your life.

2. Don't always solve problems.

Sometimes all that one wants is for
them to be heard.
3. Don't judge people. I used to judge
people who smoke, drank, thinking
they are bad people. It is not what
they do, but who they are within, that
defines them.
3 MISTAKES TO
AVOID IN YOUR
20s
1. Not taking care of your body.
In your 20s, the long term impact of
your decisions will not be visible. It is
only much later in life you will realize
how you abused your body.

2. Not thinking about your money.

Not respecting it. Not investing it, so
that it can work for you.
3. Spending time with people who
are like you. When you spend time
with people like you, you learn
nothing new. You just hear what you
already know.
3 SIGNS OF
TOXIC PEOPLE

1. They make you feel bad about

who you are.

2. They make you feel guilty if they

are sad.

3. They always blame you if you are

not there for them.
3 SIGNS THAT YOU
HAVE A LONG
WAY TO GO
1. You get angry a lot. You feel that
anger is a legitimate way of
expressing yourself.

2. If someone says anything mean to

you even for 30 seconds, you spend
the entire day thinking about it.
3. You still crave for people's
validation. Until you do not hear
good things about yourself from
people, you don't feel good about
yourself.
3 THINGS YOU
SHOULD NEVER
APOLOGISE FOR
1. For the clothes you wear - it is your
choice, it is your life. Do not give
anyone the power to shame you!

2. For ending a toxic relationship - you

watched out for yourself and did the
right thing.
3. For being who you are - you can
apologize for what you have done,
or what you shouldn't have said, but
don't ever apologize for your
identity, your existence.